6 Men in Therapy vs 1 Fake

[@jesswinter]

As a therapist who has very few male clients, I am so happy to see content like this out there. Men can do such amazing work in therapy. They often think they are worse at expressing emotions than what they actually are. They can be so analytical of their own minds which makes for awesome clients. So don’t doubt yourself! Have confidence in your ability to do work because it is there! I promise you that! I had a male client the other day, after less than ten sessions, say he is the happiest he has been in his entire life! He put in the work and he changed his life! He amazes me each week with the work he accomplishes and comes in almost every week just ready to do some work. Love working with him! I look forward to our sessions and am sad when they are ending haha. (Plus, any therapist knows the best work always is within the last 10-15 mins of the session!) Men, come to therapy!!! You, your emotions, and your experiences are all valid here!

[@adamcsontos2421]

@@bithon5242 What are you talking about? She said she doesn't have many, not that she doesn't allow them to come to her. For me, it sounds like she wants more male clients so I have no idea how did you get this conclusion

[@Pookiepie410]

I would if I could afford it. And last time I went to therapy, about 8 years ago, it was difficult to dump my trauma on a practical stranger as she smiled and nodded and told me how strong I was. I know she meant well, but that was hard and I don't know if I can ever go back to therapy. I don't really see any other options with everything I'm going through and still dealing with, but I can't afford therapy anyway. Ugh this is hard.

[@jesswinter]

@@adamcsontos2421 Yes! I was so confused when I read his comment. I absolutely would love to have more male clients because that would mean more men are becoming more comfortable with reaching out to others when it comes to their mental health.

[@shaniarafeli478]

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@shaniarafeli478]

😊😊

[@hockeyd171]

It’s great to see a group of men discussing mental health and how therapy can help. Hope this can maybe help others seeing this. Great video!

[@JoelPlay]

mr boombastic call me fantastic

[@nekoneko5777]

being male beings don't matter af😂 Ys rly love glorifying themselves n acting victims.

[@wd.1278]

Imma be real and tell you therapy is a waste of money. Get a friend, tell them everything and then use yourself to get out of your degenerate lifestyle.

[@zyrahwatson895]

With parents as therapists…he’s in therapy whether he wants to be or not😂

[@bvnny1379]

HA literally 😭

[@RaetheSaint]

I’m happy to see the diversity of this group because the stigma against therapy runs DEEP in a lot of BIPOC communities and it’s nice seeing that representation

[@surveyorsairinc2166]

not just that. ANY men regardless of skin color yo.

[@RainWalking]

So it is a community now and not a ethnicity or race? Seeing in community, people like to dicate who is in and who is not.

[@surveyorsairinc2166]

@@RainWalking lol exactly. they want to segregate people as much as possible!

[@RainWalking]

@@surveyorsairinc2166 exactly! They segregate and claim they are against segregation. Aka gaslighting attention seekers.

[@luisfilipe2023]

In a lot of white communities too I think it’s just part of manhood but it seems to be improving with time

[@ADayInTheLifeofBS]

I'm so tired of seeing betterhelp sponsoring big youtubers when we all know damn well they are corrupt and have no place in helping anyone

[@sepiajoy2871]

@Black Star they are being fined for selling client’s CONFIDENTIAL data (journal entries, recordings and such I’d imagine) to Facebook. They overwork and under pay their counselors. They don’t understand the therapeutic process and attempt to hack it for the sake of convenience for users and make profits

[@teenxtcy]

@Black Star there's many reports of their "therapists" being horrible and are most likely just random people they're also being fined $7.8million for giving facebook data and its crazy cuz i remember them being exposed years ago and then they went silent but they're back now somehow

[@lunaas1029]

!!!!

[@matchah3451]

THIS

[@ADayInTheLifeofBS]

@Black Star look into it but one example is they were fined almost 8 million by the FTC for sharing their clients (who they call customers) personal information with 3rd parties like Meta and Snapchat. They are actually software developer as an LLC or something along those lines. Lots of shady stuff associated w them

[@Mclag]

Can we get a episode with 6 moles and 1 genuine person?

[@BradsPitts.]

Here for the paradox

[@forestinland8263]

Haha how does this even work? The 6 moles trying to pick out the genuine person- which in turn makes him a mole

[@arlenecherono8527]

That would just be the mole no?

[@CaptainJonesBones]

@@arlenecherono8527 six liars and one truther

[@RychAhlberg]

No

[@andioaro]

I don’t understand why anyone advocating for mental health would work with better help especially after their recent FTC violations.

[@SpirosAbatis]

Dollar dollar bills yo

[@laincoubert7236]

+ there are MILLIONS of bad reviews online. betterhelp has been exposed back in ~2018 and in the last year when many youtubers started promoting them.

[@sepiajoy2871]

Thank you! It’s so shameful that everyone blasts ads for BetterHelp. Even Cinema Therapy :(

[@featheroml]

jubilee probably agreed till money was dangled in front of them

[@lunaas1029]

Thank you. I was looking for this comment

[@poejavelski148]

Respect to Jubilee for sheding some light on men’s mental health 🙏

[@jubilee]

❤

[@Didos93]

The audio in the background for this video was really bad. The music sounded so out of place

[@samisikdar5417]

@@Didos93 i kinda liked it lightened the mood

[@BeesAR]

@@Didos93 ok?

[@secretlybees]

Cirrus is visually stunning. My eyes were fixated on him, he's so beautiful!!!! less shallow, it's nice to see men talking openly here. it probably took extra courage to be so vulnerable publicly and talk openly about therapy like this. Thanks gentlemen

[@Qq-xs1fz]

He's stunning both visually and auditorily - his voice is so nice and soothing. Well done, therapist parents!

[@davidantunes9900]

This is the first time they say "I knew it!" at the end and they had actually tried to vote that person before.

[@hellod4036]

I was thinking the same!

[@byJasJourney]

The FTC is set to fine BetterHelp for $7.8 million for giving Facebook your mental health data so maybeeeeeeee no more partnerships with them Jubilee? Either way, loved this video and every Jubilee/Nectar video

[@jbwillden]

This 👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻

[@sepiajoy2871]

100% BetterHelp is appalling.

[@michelleh.3326]

No wayyy! I had no idea!! That’s horrible

[@lunaas1029]

!!!

[@Atomicqueen9]

This!!!

[@jbwillden]

Stop promoting better help. They are massively unethical and hurting mental health. Sincerely, A therapist

[@lunaas1029]

!!!

[@gimygaming8655]

!!!

[@secretlybees]

@Fliteful Wants Subs Oh, they also have a big HIPAA logo on their website, saying they're compliant with HIPAA - WHILE SELLING PEOPLE'S DATA. They're lying about being safe.

[@Procrastination21345]

@flitefulwantssubs402do you think you could elaborate please

[@ridaa9033]

@flitefulwantssubs402oh no leaking info about clients is so messed up

[@saigesmart4167]

While I do think we need more men in therapy, the real problem is access to therapy. It truly is a privilege that, like most health care, needs to be more universally covered. It breaks my heart seeing people who literally work in the health care industry pay hundreds of dollars for a single hour session

[@joejackson1920]

Even if you haven’t gone through anything, everyone should go to therapy to understand how their own brain works and learn about general psychology and their personality.

[@jubilee]

we agree! therapy is good for everyone, no matter your experiences

[@Narra0002]

Yep

[@Whirlbee]

Agreed, also not all diagnoses stem from trauma too

[@katielowery1925]

exactlyyyyy. i wish more people would realize this. ESPECIALLY people who want to be parents.

[@joejackson1920]

@@katielowery1925 agreed. most parents don’t understand that their actions/behaviour, no matter how minor, have impacts on their children’s future

[@Ayveh]

I knew it was him, everything sounded so monotone like he knew what to say because of his parents being therapists. The only other person I suspected was Gerardo.

[@calanitkatz3542]

Same! Especially after his argument to end the game, then I really knew it was him

[@lovelight8722]

Yes!!!

[@surveyorsairinc2166]

he was in therapy. so hes just going off of that.

[@sulagreen5792]

I thought it was Cameron because it looked like he winked at the camera when he was talking about what he’d do if he were the mole.

[@psychobillynumbnuts1]

Gerardo was the one who I knew for sure was genuine cuz I act like him when I have anxiety

[@len-1768]

I love how enlightening this episode is, especially with all the real deals' experiences that lead them to therapy. I also like that the mole is respectful towards everyone else and encourages people struggling with issues to go to therapy to sort things out. This shows how we as humans are stronger when we admit our own weaknesses and work together to sort them out.

[@Kat-pr9nv]

Some of these recent jubilee videos should also be spectrum videos, particularly this one. This is valid stuff to talk about and I'd like to hear more about it outside of them trying to find the mole

[@jubilee]

we love this!

[@Narra0002]

Yep

[@uzuilover4ever]

@@jubilee we dont love how you advertise scammers for money!

[@Kayla-ok2rz]

Daughter of a therapist here, as soon as the mole said his parents were therapists, and went into the specific terminology as well, I almost positive it was him. I'd absolutely be doing the same thing if I was in the game.😅 And congratulations to all the people brave enough to take the step of going into therapy. You're all doing AMAZING!

[@Ayveh]

Please do one with 6 Filipino women and 1 Mexican mole :D We have soo much in common and often get mistaken for each other so it would be nice to see!

[@anthonymc8361]

I feel like the accent will give it away? I have worked with Filipino people before and the accent is very distinct to my ears. Unless it's Filipino-American and Mexican-American so it all comes down to culture and stuff, I think.

[@jaimereyes6943]

​@Anthony MC they can just get people without accents then lol

[@jis666]

nah fr i was mistaken as a Filipino three or four times so far in my 19 years of living lol

[@callhard]

@@jaimereyes6943 every human being who can speak has an accent.

[@RychAhlberg]

No

[@katemurphy283]

Great episode, but I would love to see folks stop accepting Better Help as a sponsor, especially for videos that may be more likely to reach people dealing with mental health issues

[@jesswinter]

As a therapist, many of my male clients are often some of my favorites to have as they come in ready to work! The men that make that decision to come to therapy are some of the strongest men I’ve met emotionally. Not the weakest. That is a huge misconception. It takes bravery to open up and to go against societal expectations!

[@ABCD-oy4fo]

women just come to chat, yeah?

[@jesswinter]

Why just because I said this about male clients would I be saying the opposite about my clients that are women? Also, I have had non-binary clients as well so it can’t possibly just be one gender pitted against the other in my mind. I work with three genders (so far) and I am never trying to compare them to each other. Saying a positive about one gender does not immediately mean I feel a certain way about another gender. Im just naming a general strength of that identity-type of client. Not everything is a battle. I am a woman myself and I know I have done great work in therapy - far before I was a therapist. Also, just because a client is more challenging does not mean there is anything wrong with them so I hope my statement does not come off that way either. Due to the culture or version of society that people grow up in, they are going to present differently in therapy and that is the beautiful thing about my job. Every client has different strengths and weaknesses and it is my job to help them see those strengths and how they can use them in their life. And also to show them how many of their weaknesses are actually strengths as well. My original comment is a result of society often teaching men to be “fixers” and constantly looking for solutions to problems. It makes them tend to analyze their own issues and minds very early on within our work. I mentioned this in a comment in hopes to encourage more men to seek therapy as I have seen that many men feel that women are better at expressing emotions and would be better clients in therapy. I wanted to express to those men that they have strengths when it comes to mental health and that they make great clients as well!

[@rebeccasykes3862]

I feel like its a weird profession to have favourites..

[@lilyxo6914]

@@jesswinteryou literally just said you prefer your male clients bc they come in ready to work. Obviously, that sounds a bit off

[@claff4573]

What kind of comment is this.

[@alfie6441]

They all speak incredibly slowly but they’re probably the chillest episode they’ve ever done though

[@claff4573]

Yea bc they have to act like the therapy is working lol so someone doesn't think they're the mole. Imagine acting a fool

[@darreldennis7115]

Guys who go to therapy are attractive. It shows that they are willing to accept they have flaws and they are wiling to work on it to become a better person.

[@michaeltnk1135]

Most men know they have flaws. Men should work to make themselves a better person, and not expect that to come from a therapist

[@raccoon336]

This is such a weird thing to say. How is someone being unwell attractive? Men already think this way about mentally ill women and it’s so weird.

[@michaeltnk1135]

@@raccoon336 What? Girls who are happy are more attractive than girls with mental issues

[@salmaabdullahgb]

​@@raccoon336 getting therapy doesn't mean you're unwell wtf literally everyone could use it

[@dalienashen]

@@raccoon336It’s that they’re willing to work through their issues, obviously. Many men and women have mental issues and won’t admit it or even be aware of it. You perpetuating that stigma doesn’t help either. Even “normal” people could use therapy. You sound really ignorant and overly judgmental.

[@shininginshadows]

I started working as a therapist almost 20 years ago. It's surreal to see how much the attitude of men towards therapy has changed in that time. Not saying the work is done, but a lot has been done.

[@Emily31662]

This is one of my favorite episodes. Mental health is so important to talk about for everyone but the culture around men and their emotions is not talked about enough!

[@michaeltnk1135]

Because men shouldn’t let their emotions get the best of them

[@sharivawelles7451]

If they voted me out, I would say "my therapist will hear about this".

[@Kat-pr9nv]

I was just waiting for someone to walk out like "that really hurt guys, I'm gonna have to talk about this in therapy" when they got voted out. Sarcastically, of course.. I don't think therapy should be made fun of but I've always joked about my traumas and tried to make the situation lighter

[@RychAhlberg]

You look pretty in your profile picture

[@Girafen]

@@RychAhlberg I agree. This person is a very beautiful dog

[@stephh1228]

I loved this episode and hope it convinces others to consider therapy, and there is nothing wrong with having the extra support!

[@jubilee]

lets break down the stigma about mental health 🙌

[@kaylaisawesome9952]

Shoutout to Daniel! His story really resonated with me and I’m so glad to hear that he’s gotten his life back on track

[@ariangranillo6498]

“This is why I have trust issues!” 😂😂😂 poor dude was just being genuine

[@wtf.iswrongwithella]

This episode has just reinforced my desire to become a professional mental health therapist. Big ups Jubilee

[@randomviewer12345]

bro saying “this is why i have trust issues!!” at the end was mad funny 😂😂

[@toetail8665]

Lol it was so obvious the mole 😂😂 idk why they voted out the people with real issues and stories 😭😭💀

[@xuser7]

literally😂

[@dalienashen]

Because that’s the game and they did try to vote him out initially but his story seemed believable I guess so they put him on the back burner and didn’t think about questioning him again over others. It’s easy to say it’s obvious watching from home, but being there would be a different story.

[@xmhcix5310]

it was so obvious as soon as he said his parents are in the field. he'd be very knowledgable about it but not necessarily apart of it EDIT: i really do love this video though! it's so healthy and brings awareness to men's mental health :)

[@AngelQueen26]

Men talking so freely about their emotions and feelings is just so beautiful and attractive. Loved this episode.

[@HouseMDaddict]

Love seeing men and especially men of color talking openly about therapy! It gives me hope that the acceptance of therapy is moving in a positive direction

[@michaeltnk1135]

Therapy is a waste of money. People need to work on themselves, not except other to solve their personal problems

[@jillianwillis6224]

I know the guy Franco that is in this, even though he's only been in therapy for year-and-a-half I've known him for about 2 says he started his therapy and his healing I do have to say that I'm truly proud of him and a choice of decisions that he's made even if he doesn't see it he has come a very long way so I would say to dear sweet Franco keep striving keep moving forward because you're truly came a long way to go back. As I will continue to be here showing love and support as you continue to grow even more greater, again I'm proud of you and proud of all those that do therapy sometimes we all need a little help to heal from whatever may have been.❤🙏

[@aem99]

Would have been great to have a mole who had never had therapy…! However this video was great, so lovely to see men talking openly about mental health and going to therapy.

[@uria-h9990]

putting a betterhelp ad in a video about therapy is crazy jubilee

[@Crankhy]

Gerardo‘s voice was literally shaking, why did they vote him out 😭

[@nala6846]

I knew it was Cirrus from the beginning. It was obvious once he said his parents were therapists and then slowly stopped contributing to each of the conversations.

[@Lamkins._.]

now u need one where 6 or just 1 is a psychologist it would be interesting

[@jubilee]

oooh this is a good one

[@Lamkins._.]

@@jubilee love the mental health videos ur team has done thank u

[@Lamkins._.]

@@jubilee another idea same topic do all psychologist think the same

[@laincoubert7236]

so... another betterhelp ad on jubilee? choices

[@Anny-me9ny]

Yes stop promoting this service! Mental health is serious

[@ariannasantina]

while trying to 'find the mole' it kinda just turned into a legit group therapy session lol

[@Lizzy4Rizzy]

SUCH A POSITIVE EPISODE!!!

[@jessibache9207]

watching this as i’m outside waiting for my boyfriend to be done with therapy lol

[@untilm]

Nice gf 👍

[@mudhutonthemoon]

Are you cheating on him?

[@GreatestEva12]

i could tell cirrus was the mole based on body language. everyone else was leaning in and they were the only one leaning out, away from the group.

[@daboomchakalaka7898]

I don’t get how he is a mole, he’s been to therapy and is supportive of therapy. I think someone who’s never been to therapy and isn’t so supportive and familiar with it makes more sense as a mole.

[@dalienashen]

I don't think it's necessary for them to be unsupportive, though I think it would have been better if just his parents were therapists and he was somewhat familiar with it but never actually went and just learned some stuff from his parents.

[@ThePaolaHearts]

As a therapist, this was great to see. We need to normalize men speaking about their emotions and thoughts. I hope this continues to be normalized.

[@wellingtoncamelo8466]

At some point I thought Cirrus was gonna be a therapist himself lmao

[@haleycarson4129]

Cirrus looks like he just walked out of Woodstock lol

[@TheSuperMelinda]

mmm didn't better help share their customers health data with advertisers?

[@blancaespinoza1396]

If you get nervous when you are put in a stressful situations you knew Gerardo was going to therapy.

[@Lilamd]

Wow, it is so cool to see men talk like this. So much respect for these participants.

[@AngelQueen26]

That little poker face of his really got me damn 😂

[@brangpt]

this video is dope but can we please collectively stop promoting better help?...

[@m.s.3.10.33]

Video Idea: what about a video with 6 former inmates vs 1 innocent person

[@biankadanielle]

Loved this group! They all seem like genuine, kind individuals and kudos to them for taking those hard steps to become the best versions of themselves!!

[@baobeast]

So many people were on to Cirrus but then completely went away from him. That's crazy.

[@joserios991]

As a Latino male who loves hip hop and I guess what is considered 'black culture' I am excited to see 2 black males be in therapy because I feel in these communities it is more stigmatized than in other communities especially the older generations

[@jennys209]

So cool to hear their perspectives and stories. It's unfortunate that there's stigma around therapy, nothing with the potential to make someone a happier, healthier, kinder, and stronger person should ever be stigmatized or looked down on.

[@peculiarms]

Honestly, I knew he was the mole as soon as he said: I think the type of therapy we''re using/they said is... Nobody's therapist is going to explain in that detail what they're using. They don't so obviously go down a list or specific path.

[@Caitlin12221]

it would make way more sense had the mole not been in therapy before... I mean there are plenty of men who never go to therapy and it's obviously incredibly difficult to tell if someone's speaking from their own experience from the past or the present lol

[@johnsmi213]

This is one time the mole was obvious to me. He said "My dad's a therapist and my mom's a counselor." That's exactly who they'd select as the mole; someone who inherently knows a lot about the subject so they can't be wheedled out. They even mentioned that in a post-interview wrap-up but nobody targeted him or suspected him after.

[@shadowtafton.]

Na these Jubilee vids getting out of hand, Like js imagine many people talking abt real problems and someone is faking em all

[@jubilee]

do you have any ideas you would like to see?

[@user-yl1vr6di7h]

@@jubilee I'd love to see 5 chronological liars (who aren't allowed to tell any truths about their lives) vs. 1 person who only tells the truth. It'd be really fun if the one honest person had an unbelievable life story, to throw people off. I'd gladly watch a whole series of that concept!

[@whyphy2213]

@@jubilee WWE vs AEW fans WWE vs Indy Wrestling fans

[@Loveit45]

stop supporting BETTER HELP

[@arielgf9390]

LITERALLY ITS SELLING USER DATA

[@AbbygaileHearne]

@@arielgf9390ironic since they’re for mental health

[@nintendogs-_-]

as someone who isnt in therapy but is extremely self aware and loves reading abt psychology 💀 i would prob win this

[@misstaytt]

This was a wholesome episode!!

[@las1129356]

At the start of the video, Cirrus said that he had been going to therapy since 2019 and had only seen one therapist. However, when he was about to be eliminated he stated that he had been seeing the same therapist for two years. 2019 was not two years ago, so that made me suspicious of him.

[@davijulal5189]

I got it from the first round. Parents are therapists 🤦🏾‍♀️. Wouldn't be shocked if he is studying psychology.

[@einahsirro1488]

What a voice Cirrus has! Wow!

[@rachelguerra877]

proud of you cirrus you did amazing 👏

[@docfmb1]

Seemed like 50% of this video was a commercial for therapy.

[@richardreese8038]

Funny how that go to therapy think EVERYONE should go to therapy.

[@maddiemaryanne426]

You picked a great group of people ! 🖤

[@aurelia3494]

Bettter help isn´t doing the best job at data protection though

[@alexandrasoo9022]

sorry the better health ad…this is so unserious

[@iamandreasilva]

"this is why i have trust issues" hit hard here lmfao😭😭

[@maxwellvillella-smith228]

There needs to be an episode where the mole is actually clueless and doesn’t have any experience with the other people on the topic. Not like other episodes where the mole USED to be in that topic.

[@Therealmykag]

This is the first one I’ve seen them get chairs

[@katera5711]

I feel like they wanted to keep voting because they were enjoying this group therapy. Which is awesome.

[@chavadorgomez]

ngl i didn't suspect cirrus until he gave that look at 9:37

[@Ayveh]

Gerardo reminded me of Shia Labeuf, his way of speaking and a bit of how they look.

[@Bee-cm5md]

I love this concept

[@consortomen]

It would be cool to see a video to spot a guitarist from a bunch of bass players

[@rainydaymusique]

This is literally what sauna sounds like

[@Didos93]

The audio in the background for this video was really bad. The music sounded so out of place

[@rygirl123]

They literally knew it at first and let him slide past after all those rounds

[@alexinthemiddle4170]

I thought it was Cameron because he kept winking at the camera when talking about what the mole would do and the others would not have been able to see that!

[@sulagreen5792]

Same! I think it was just a tik though.

[@wearethefanzz]

My therapist will be hearing about this!

[@ciscom5036]

They all went back to level 1 after failing 😂😂

[@lalo5536]

6 therapists vs 1 mole

[@FoougieTV]

I knew Mr. Vocal Fry was the mole. 😂

[@tavytoons8955]

Best part about therapy is that you say to much even when you have zero intentions of taking your life or being dangerous they will throw ya in a mental hospital. So my advice be honest but not fully honest :/

[@catherinerichter8317]

"Alright let's talk about trauma" 😂

[@rachelle9529]

As a women in therapy, I think men in therapy are amazing and to try and help better themselves is phenomenal

[@kaisla_onerva]

Finally a non toxic episode

[@biancamae3161]

THATS MY BOY MARCUS

[@teeshirtpritchard7882]

Amazing content for mental health , thank you for this video

[@JerkWarlord]

I'm at 8:59 and fam. Cameron is SO PARANOID AND SUSPICIOUS. Of EVERYONE. Everything's a tactic! Ahahahaha