6 Red Flags to look for in a match before getting married | Marriage decision

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[@supersayaaain]

Guys don't take Red Flag , pls take Red Pill😂😂

[@avinashkumar4705]

Ultimate

[@omgplaces6437]

Yup.. with whole gender biased laws and zero accountability in Maximum of women..

[@27Wisdom]

Yes RED 🔴 >>> red 🚩

[@deshpandeabhishek3680]

Very much helpful and easily understandable video...thanks

[@YourLifeMatters15]

You're welcome, glad it was helpful!

[@subratkumarpradhan2218]

Facts been shared in the video. But after seeing Atul's case , lots of my friends including me are thinking trusting someone's words and bringing her into our lives and making her a priority and later ending up in the jail is not worth it. And one particular point which you've mentioned that the person needs to talk, but right now my cousin is looking for a bride to get married, and from his experience till now , I can most of the girls are not willing to talk and share the things that really needed to be shared before getting engaged, then how can you make her talk. And even if you take a leap of faith and get married to just find out unbearable truths after marriage to just end up being in depression is not a cup of coffee for most of the boys who comes into the category of INFP . Anyway, Nice job Mandeep , it will surely help the guys and ladies as well. 👏🏻

[@sachinpandey8488]

Hi, Generally on what type of questions that most girls are NOT willing to talk. I am actually looking for a bride but like after 2 years

[@sagnikbhattacharya666]

Bro that's the problem of Arranged Marriage don't tend to talk..they think parents will arrange their wedding so tell your cousin not to say yes to them and look for those girls who are interested in conversations..in today's world, you can't take a leap of faith especially after what we saw in the Atul Subhash case

[@sachinpandey8488]

@@sagnikbhattacharya666 par ladkiya yar sahi mein kaafi tej h aaj ke time pe, they know how to hide things and pretend like they are innocent

[@RonakSaini-jb3iu]

@@sachinpandey8488 you need bride after 2 hours start looking up for it from now ..things dont happen overnight .....

[@RonakSaini-jb3iu]

@@sachinpandey8488 *2years

[@drx.abhaysoni]

A life partner should be like this: understanding, intelligent, one who takes everyone along and takes both the families along, one who stands together in every situation, happiness and sorrow, both should be loyal alawys all these points should be there, "Mandeep you are also right, you always say rights." पति पत्नी हो संग ऐसे शिव संग पार्वती संग जैसे। ❤

[@pranavchoudhary4164]

Inn tamam red flags ko dekhne ke bawajood bhi maine kaii cases dekhe hain shaadi naa chalne ke. I have personally seen such cases, Mandeep, that both boy and girl are smart enough to change themselves for meanwhile. Afterwards, the actual face gets revealed. The marriage comes to an end.

[@irshikha]

Indeed! Always check how people take your No. And, how they show empathy and do something about anything. Toxic people lack empathy and can't take anyone's No. They'll want you to change your opinion despite telling them your decision, multiple times. Moreover, how the person energy feels... Do they bring our the best in you or the worst? Do they make you doubt yourself all the time? Are they too clingy, etc.

[@YourLifeMatters15]

​@@irshikhaVery well put. Always follow your instinct, ignore logics and explanations.

[@nammi895]

5:30 Ma'am 10-15lpa kamane wali ladkia kabhi 20lpa se shadi nahi karegi Let me tell you my story, earning 30+lpa in IT sector & mostly I'm getting responses from girls earning 5-10 lpa. Those earning more than 15lpa usually looks for NRIs or established businessman. I got rejected by girls earning similar to me like 25+lpa & even for girls earning in 15-20lpa they will not call you, it's like you have to follow up with them every time. Same is case with my others friends earning similar. Simple rule for guys in arranged marriage is you'll be getting a girl earning 1/3 of yours

[@AnonymousCitizen7]

Don't marry bro Please It's not a game for good income men Do u know after divorce based on ur salary u will have to pay around 5 crores as alimony Can u afford it brother?

[@NitinKumar-ln3ow]

Like minded people.... very easy to say but practically it takes atleast 6 months to know

[@sagnikbhattacharya666]

Good things take time😊

[@irshikha]

It's good to invest 6-8 months initially, instead of getting the brunt later.

[@omgplaces6437]

Yup.. they think a person will see the red flags in one meeting considering many women are expert in hiding and lying about themselves.. and if caught in their lies they play misogyny and victim card

[@swot2535]

I am lucky that i got this knowledge from you as i am unmarried and will apply before getting married in future if i get my soul partner. Thanks for sharing information

[@YourLifeMatters15]

You are most welcome! May you find a partner who truly resonates with your soul.

[@tradingwizard562]

Only one Red flag men need to follow : The Red flag that says do not marry 😂 .

[@mithunbhowmik7620]

Today the beautiful bond called marriage has turned ugly

[@YourLifeMatters15]

@@mithunbhowmik7620 It was always ugly, the only difference is now things have come into open.

[@mithunbhowmik7620]

If it was ugly in earlier times then we wouldn't have such a beautiful life from our family .

[@AnonymousCitizen7]

​It's good for woman and ugly for men now Women cheat and still men pay Alimony Poor can marry But I have a good earning I will avoid it ​@@YourLifeMatters15

[@pandeypriyesh11a34]

​@@YourLifeMatters15 I think one part is also that it is primarily made for making a good environment for growth of children but when people put happiness/love n stuff it breaks 😅 n also when we talk about good marriages no one talks that good marriages are boring they move towards stability n people would not say for front but they don't like stable environment (depends on personality type)

[@Ranachanpa-s8n]

Aaj ke time ☕'s log both complicated ho gayi Meri Mano to bhailog arrange marriage ❌ love marriage ❌ no marriage ✅

[@irshikha]

However, cliche it may sound, I could easily call you my soul sister. 😄 You resonate a lot with me. 😇

[@YourLifeMatters15]

That is so sweet of you to say! ❤

[@Sanatani_DSG]

Shaadi me Virginity kitna matter karta hai....ek virgin boy/girl ko kisi non virgin girl/boy se shaadi karni chahiye??

[@jamesstramer5186]

Ma'am, Your videos are very unique and high quality. The advice provided is very pragmatic and can be immediately applied. Please keep up the good work! Kudos!

[@YourLifeMatters15]

@@jamesstramer5186 Thank you so much for the compliment dear.

[@Buoyancy-z8d]

I always say LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION.

[@alfredpaul-w4e]

Very true,communication and interest matters .If both aren't proper just ignore. Otherwise things will quickly deteriorate. This can't be gauged quickly.

[@sagnikbhattacharya666]

Mandeep, whatever you said makes sense to me but first we have to look for a match..so how and where will we find it?

[@James-Bond-007_]

Nice Video Mandeep ji

[@YourLifeMatters15]

Glad you liked it!

[@rahult5753]

What if parents are divorced?

[@YourLifeMatters15]

Will answer this in a video.

[@Birds_of_Heaven]

Mere liye sara decision normal hai

[@Climate-e3z]

Sarlta aur nirmalta hi prem ki yogyata hai jinme ye nahi wo bekar hai

[@MindMyOwnBusiness304]

What are your sources of income ?

[@thegreatone6931]

Obviously, uske bad hi baat aage बढ़ती है। Gold digger😂😂

[@suniltransport6739]

Awesome

[@YourLifeMatters15]

@@suniltransport6739 Thank you.

[@MyBachhu]

Hmm

[@Climate-e3z]

Punjiwad ne sabki buddhi khrab kr rakkhi hai

[@piyushdas079]

Hire russians😊

[@irshikha]

Unfortunately, it doesn't work for everyone and in every situation. Ask people who've been in casual relationships or open-end ones or no-string attached ones. The day you open this Pandora's box, you'll be faced with guilt, eternal loneliness and all sorts of negative feelings. Watch certain documentaries if you want to gain more knowledge. Marriage is about finding a companion. Sadly, it's not marriages that are failing. It's overall human race that losing ethics. More than gender, it's about toxic mentality that's tightening its grip in the society.

[@dev3269]

Welcome STD

[@mostimp8637]

Garib ki ladki lane ae uski bhi family poverty line ke uper aayegi Think otherwise also.

[@Englishwithsaurabh-mx7ni]

👍

[@YourLifeMatters15]

@@Englishwithsaurabh-mx7ni Thank you.

[@baal-jano]

Good Job (support from Bangladesh) 👈👈

[@YourLifeMatters15]

@@baal-jano Thank you so much

[@baal-jano]

Eye Shadi ki porani concept hi agalat, hai, needs reform. 👈👈👍👍