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@deborahreed4057 Жыл бұрын
I'm 66 and just met a beautiful younger man of 37, a few months ago and it is a wonderful connection. I love how he brings out the playfulness in me. I'm an active person and to be free of everything he shows his masculinity in ways he never thought about. He calls me his cougar which is a sweet. Go for it ladies. 😊
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
so sweet thanks for sharing! it's a great connection:)
@t.lc.777 Жыл бұрын
I hate the cougar name.
@lisalamour49099 ай бұрын
Hi, I'm in love with a 47 yr old and I'm early 60s. He spends lots of time with me and texts me everyday alot, but keeps me in friend zone, what to do??
@rhiannon-bv9rk5 ай бұрын
@@lisalamour4909 friend zone, just means that!!! It might be painful, but he doesn't want something permanent in terms of having babies or getting married.
@trutherasitis21094 жыл бұрын
My husband is 20 years younger than me been married 10 years very much devoted to each other and the lovemaking is out of this world 💞
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
yess Truther Asitis! He's a lucky man ❤️
@tiliayala92884 жыл бұрын
Good for you! Love is Family and only you know what is best for you. Good to know you have a good time together.
@blessed39753 жыл бұрын
I am praying for that kind of relationship and love. I'm happy for you
@michellevicente12743 жыл бұрын
LOVE that!!💕🙌🏽
@T333TN3 жыл бұрын
Woohoo! Good for y'all!
@ralitsavasileva45684 жыл бұрын
1. Be clear and direct. 2. Show you are interested, connect, play. Openness, invitingness. 3. Be present. 4. Be playful and spontaneous. 5. Master in texting. 6.Use sensuallity.
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
YESS well done! you got it!
@jackmears31674 жыл бұрын
Ralitsa Vasileva here
@lc96294 жыл бұрын
Met a younger man, (14 yrs younger),19 years ago. He's never been married and no kids. Was merely fun sex to me, but for 19 years he still kept contacting me for a 'fun time & to catch up'. Im a twice divorced woman and very independent since my divorce 26 years ago. I fought off this guys line of "age is just a number"....laughed at him and thought he was just after the conquer. He's very successful and had many beautiful women his entire life. 2 years ago I realized I love this man....who Id fought off for many years... What was I thinking?? So I threw that at him and he was shocked. He said 'what?...you want a commitment?" I said 'your'e not capable of a commitment; I just wanted you to know and I don't know what to say but I'm moving on". Been together & committed ever since and deeply in love now. Sometimes you've gotta tell em 'sh## or get off the pot baby'....has been an adjustment for us both because we're a lot alike but we're growing, learning from each other.
@marianas32683 жыл бұрын
Wow ! Great story
@gracedeatherage495511 ай бұрын
Yes what a great story
@helenkornilova98494 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing! would you have time to give some advice?
@kateschneider88133 жыл бұрын
He’s 27 years younger and wow! Magical in every way. This advice is spot on.
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
@kchezy58054 жыл бұрын
Thank you. He was secretly in love with me since he was 28, and he thought I was out of his league. At his manly age of 33, he built the courage to ask me out. I was 44. I am so grateful to have him in my life and we are still together going strong. By the way, I look young like in my early thirties.
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
yess K Chezy! He's a lucky man ❤️
@kiddor909gmail Жыл бұрын
I seem to be getting younger as I date this man..I feel alive and have more energy..even my Dr noticed
@celineawad39464 жыл бұрын
I always attract and date younger men. Why? Simple. I look younger and love life and fun. 🍸🍸🎊😄
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
BOOM sounds like a party to me! :)
@mylovelealife14604 жыл бұрын
Same 😍😍😍
@reason55914 жыл бұрын
Same with me Celine. I am 60 yrs and young and look young
@reason55914 жыл бұрын
@Elizabeth Tremblay i like 30 year old man even if he was my age. He found me and he likes me and our age difference we dont consider. It just worked out this way. I wasnt even looking.
@lisesuroto95444 жыл бұрын
@Elizabeth Tremblay I look very much younger than my age, young spirit, healthy. Men of my age looking old and wonder if I would marry them, my world would adjust to that old life. I feel age just numbers. The actual one is how you're in the presence.
@francinegray93835 жыл бұрын
Wow, Mat, you are the only coach who takes this type of connection seriously -- with no jokes, no snide remarks. Age gap relationships have always existed, often behind closed doors. They are not only legitimate, but deeply important at certain points in our lives. We have things to learn from each other, and can have a wonderful time doing it! I love the open, tender hearts of younger men, and being completely silly with guys who can loosen up!
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
Beautifully expressed Francine, thanks so much for appreciating the nuances of these connections :) It can be so fun!
@francinegray93835 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer Sounds like you know! lol
@jackieflynt995 Жыл бұрын
@@francinegray9383doesn't it, though..lol
@ParisTNT7 ай бұрын
What a sweet comment
@hirschiegirl5 жыл бұрын
I recently met a younger man, and we really clicked. It took me by surprise, but I felt very comfortable with him so I decided to go with it. We went on our first date last night, we both had a lot of fun! He’s 28 and today is my 50th birthday 🥳
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DEAR! And what a fun birthday present... a fun date with a guy almost half your age heheeee 🤗🤗 what was so fun about being with a young guy ?
@cn27465 жыл бұрын
GO GIRL! Make us proud. Carol
@melmel89075 жыл бұрын
Rock on girlfriend !
@elizabethjimenez73685 жыл бұрын
I'm there too!...in 7 years.. I will be 50 and he will be 28.
@hirschiegirl5 жыл бұрын
@Mat Shaffer thank you! We share the same world view and common interests, so we never ran out of things to talk about on our date. He’s very sweet and respectful. Also, I’ve met him at a time in my life when I had just come through doing major healing after having my self esteem, self confidence, and self worth destroyed by someone I was involved with for many years. Meeting a guy of any age who is truly into me and appreciates me for me is absolutely refreshing and validating. I think he’s going to help me get rid of any lingering negative thoughts and doubts I have about myself. Age is just a number and neither one of us are bothered by it. I have no expectations, I am just going to go with it and enjoy our time together. Truly liberating for me! ☺️
@yadhilopez89294 жыл бұрын
My Habibi is 20 year younger than I and I love him so much. He brings me so much youthful and happiness. I adore him 😍. Thank you for your advice.
@mofimTV3 жыл бұрын
niiiice but how do you handle your cirle of friends? do you hang around his younger friends or him around your older friends ? what is the best recipe for you to make it flow and not awkward?
@Mat_Shaffer8 ай бұрын
I’m glad to hear everything worked out well.
@antoniosinstrumental38204 жыл бұрын
I love this video so much! I really hope the ladies beyond my ages are aware of these keys... One thing I disagree on this video is that we text a lot... I call more than text! If I'm texting someone, i will always drop the bomb of "Can we call? Calling beats texting". I get tired of texting, and love hearing voices and conversation flow
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the beautiful share Antonio's Instrumental 🙏
@TuffLuv19844 жыл бұрын
So refreshing
@Cybergirl2 жыл бұрын
That's so cute!
@gloriastroedecke27172 жыл бұрын
Yes. Actual talking is very important to connecting.
@ednamariacroxton8859 Жыл бұрын
@Antonio's Intrumental Iagree with you. Text or call is not a age matter. I could be the older woman and I use a lot of voice messages or text and I do quick calls. Is not the age is the communication tools that we have nowadays. So I don't agree the video on that.
@heathertaylor49792 жыл бұрын
I am 71 and my partner is 39! I can’t imagine dating a guy my age now!
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
AMAZING love blossoms at all ages! Congratulations!
@tresjolieme81 Жыл бұрын
oml lol
@PlatinumNW Жыл бұрын
More power to you do not let anybody take that happiness from you. Remember, only hurt people hurt people.
@MaryTheresa1986 Жыл бұрын
Yeah! Get it girl! ✊️✊️😏😏
@KKLee-yt9ic Жыл бұрын
Wow! I wanna be like you 😊
@MiaSanchez11.11 Жыл бұрын
I'm 42 and he is definitely my youngest, 20 years younger. Been trying to figure out how to navigate telling my oldest daughter as my other 2 are excited and love him. Biggest concern is breaking the news to mothers. This has helped me tremendously and makes me realize that our happiness is all that matters and there is nothing wrong with having a big age gap. He is definitely the best, my BEST friend ❤
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!🤗
@susandavis9034 ай бұрын
So you feel like dating men who be interested in your daughter? How do you not treat him like a son?
@marincuculic102021 күн бұрын
Mia you look so stunning :) are you single maybe?
@Lilione1115 жыл бұрын
My guy 38 me 52. He always calls me his queen. I secretly love it.
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
amazing! you ARE his queen
@patriciaanderson39385 жыл бұрын
WHEN THEY CALL YOU QUEEN ITS A SCAMMER
@Lilione1114 жыл бұрын
Patricia Anderson Iknew & worked with him for a couple of years before we started dating, so we got to know each other first. He didn't start calling me his queen as soon as we started seeing each other. It developed with time. If a guy was saying I was his queen straight off the bat, I wouldn't buy into that. I'm not that naive 😄
@mayramalave12794 жыл бұрын
@@patriciaanderson3938 so true!!
@bscnyc99484 жыл бұрын
don't G... 🤐🤐🤐🤔🤔🤔💋💋💋
@blessingsfromspirit6881 Жыл бұрын
The reason I’m dating someone 16 years younger right now is because I’ve never stopped playing and enjoying life but so many men my age have. We have so much fun!
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Be careful with your beliefs! They create your reality
@kenishamonsi23052 ай бұрын
Me either!! I’m 43 and I am a kid at heart
@BBFLYRISENАй бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙋🏿♀️🫶🏿💃🏿
@sandramatthew9312 жыл бұрын
He puts me in my place, tells me when I’m going wrong he is so mature… Better than any man that I’ve been out with older or not it’s not about the ages about the maturity in mind
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Amazing my dear so happy for you!
@trudy-annsmall96007 ай бұрын
I told a younger man that today who is showing interest but I am still in overthinking mode about us...praying I make the best decision
@sandramatthew9317 ай бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer thank you my sweetheart
@sandramatthew9317 ай бұрын
@@trudy-annsmall9600 the best decision is for you to be happy age is just a man-made Number. You need to take time to know him it will work out. It’s all about the frequency and the connection between both of you that’s what’s important not age🙏🏾💜
@trudy-annsmall96007 ай бұрын
@@sandramatthew931 thank you for the positive vibes even though I know sex is high on his agenda I am keeping an open mind and will take up his offer to go on a date...bless you
@mdkcjtl55234 жыл бұрын
I’m 18, and my wife is 24. I always tease with her, calling her a “ cougar” lmao. It’s great tho, I love the fact that she’s much more mature than women my age and she’s pregnant:) where expecting are kid to be born in February. Cheers from Germany.
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
congratulations!!! children are a blessing, for sure!!
@WARFORCHRIST4 жыл бұрын
Oh wow😊 My boyfriend's 21 and I'm 24 and we're expecting our first baby March 29th 😊
@shabnumosman51924 жыл бұрын
Congratulations guys
@Mingmingmeow903 жыл бұрын
Ha! When I turn 19, well she's probably 22 at that time. I'll call her a cougar too!
@mdkcjtl55233 жыл бұрын
@@Mingmingmeow90 I’m 19 now and she’s 25 and our sons ( she had twins) are one. Cheers
@WillieCotton-n5y Жыл бұрын
I'm 64 and my partner is 48 I'm praying this relationship works out for us
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
I hope it helps mazel tov! :)
@ljvita50113 жыл бұрын
In my 70’s and after my husband of 29 years died I found that younger men are more interested in me than those my age. I’ve had a great sexual relationship with a 43 year old and presently exploring a relationship with a 52 year old. I can’t imagine being with someone my age again.
@mistressevamzonia70873 жыл бұрын
Hello I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back recently he can also help you just as he did mine too
@mistressevamzonia70873 жыл бұрын
Text on whtzapp
@bobbiebarrance6421 Жыл бұрын
Go for it.
@Mat_Shaffer9 ай бұрын
I appreciate your opinion on this!
@laura28424 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I am involved with a man 11 years younger, and we absolutely love what we have, hope we stay together forever!!!!!
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
AMAZING love that share!! :)
@GENDERISAFACT Жыл бұрын
This is great to hear. I've recently begun dating a younger Man 11 years between us as well. ...it's new and he's so sure and I want to take my time. It's a bit overwhelming but I'm letting it happen....curious....
@tanhue12652 жыл бұрын
Society really shames older women/ younger men relationships. Thank you for taking it seriously and all these really great points. Younger men are so wonderful.
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
YESSS you got it my dear!! so glad this supported you :)
@dlandrews110 ай бұрын
Yes it does and it is wrong. It happened to me at my church.
@irrsinnslicht15 жыл бұрын
I`m 36, my husband is 29 and we getting our first baby in 4 month :)
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
AMAZING congrats my dear!! :) Boy or girl?
@irrsinnslicht15 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer a girl 😁
@drbhaviify4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@yeiyei38694 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@RestingCatNipFace4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🎊🎈
@jamiamiller57514 жыл бұрын
I really like (love) you Matt. You have it! Go for it! I'm 61 and continually am approached by younger men. I'm engaged to a man over 20 years younger than myself.
@celestegadsden69162 жыл бұрын
I am dating a man who is 41 years old and I am 57 years old
@Mat_Shaffer8 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@blancacharun43986 ай бұрын
My baby is 25 and I’m 46. He rescued me when I had a flat tire, paid for the replacement of my rim, followed me to make sure I made it safely. that’s how we met … He is still around ❤ and the sex is fire 🎉
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
Yesss LOVE THAT STORY! So happy for you! 🤗❤️ 🔥🔥🔥
@AutumnGold07065 ай бұрын
I can arrange to have a flat tire!! 😂
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
Great idea!! It's on my list! 😁
@susandavis9034 ай бұрын
Enjoy it now…menopause will come for you….
@margieebe99334 ай бұрын
😊😅my lover is 19 years younger than me! I'm 73, fantastic sex,
@dawnstarling27523 жыл бұрын
I have a boyfriend who is nine years younger, I have been married twice to men around my age and I feel like they have always treated me like I’m a child and their servant, but being with my younger man it’s effortless and calm, he uplifts me he’s supportive of any decision I make and he doesn’t stress me out. He’s easy to talk to he’s easy to be with and around, we have fun together but we also have our quiet relaxed time as well, there is no rush no stress and understanding and no pressure!!!
@Mat_Shaffer8 ай бұрын
This is an inspiring story!
@borcsaster3 ай бұрын
I so much agree! 🙏
@amynoeloconnell30594 жыл бұрын
I’m 51, he’s 27! We have the best time together! ❤️❤️
@marincuculic10202 жыл бұрын
Are you still dating him?
@Mat_Shaffer8 ай бұрын
Wow! I’m so happy for you my dear!
@marincuculic102021 күн бұрын
you look really stunning :) are you still together?
@lindajackson23825 жыл бұрын
I know ALL the keys to attracting and dating younger men! I'm ONLY attracted to younger white men ( I'm black! ) In fact I MARRIED a much younger white guy who died in 2006. I'm a PROUD COUGAR of a different kind!! I'm currently in love with a white guy that's 38 years old but I'm 63 but LOOK 40 something because I'm BLACK and black doesn't CRACK baby!
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
GET IT MOMMA!!! one of my favvv recent comments heheeee... you inspire me my dear! Whats your favorite part of dating younger guys?
@patriciaanderson39385 жыл бұрын
Im only ayracted to younger men alk my life nothing against older but l JUST LOVE YOUNGER WE GROW TOGEATHER
@primroserosemary88624 жыл бұрын
🤢
@federicacaldana47824 жыл бұрын
Linda jackson I m white and only attracted to black guys, and I m like yourself, I seem to attract younger guys a lot, however it doesn’t last... I need some advice
@virginiasherland93064 жыл бұрын
Awesome..Im the same way only, I m attracted to black man much younger than myself..🌹❤
@graciehomestay3134 Жыл бұрын
Omg, thank you I already attracted a man half my age, I didnt know what I had done but we are now building our lives together.
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@shabnumosman51924 жыл бұрын
My guy is 22 yrs younger than me. I'm 54yrs. He keeps me feeling happy
@shabnumosman51923 жыл бұрын
Exactly. These things happen when one is usually not looking. 😂😂
@Mat_Shaffer8 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@orchidpaint98853 жыл бұрын
I am 60 my husband is 45. He is so good to me, I am treated like a Queen. We started out as friends and took our time.
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@kamie19784 жыл бұрын
My Guy is 28 and I am 41 So its not abnormal what I see and read here. Sometimes I think of it, but when I see videos like these iT gives me kind of great feelings I am not the only one. Thnak you very much❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
YES you are not alone!! my most popular recent videos are all around this beautiful age gap dynamic... congrats on your wonderful connection
@kamie19784 жыл бұрын
Mat Shaffer thank you very much!!!
@crose550824 жыл бұрын
I keep attracting younger men. It's good that the age gaps work. I find myself attracting younger men, they say I don't look my age. That is usually the first thing that attracts them.
@julifunnygirl714 жыл бұрын
Bar Clays, your comment gives me hope. I'm really interested in a guy who is 13 years younger than I am and I have so much fear about it. I'm glad to know that for some people it works.
@antihaters6504 Жыл бұрын
abnormal 😂🤣
@starchildgoddess_33355 жыл бұрын
Your voice and tone is ridiculously soothing! Yes need this! Mine is almost 10 years younger 26!
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
aww LOVE IT
@starchildgoddess_33355 жыл бұрын
Mat Shaffer thank you!
@Relaxinwealth3 жыл бұрын
How is it going sis ? I’m contemplating 🙃 mine is almost 13 years younger than me
@cherelmatadosalbina81504 жыл бұрын
I was 36 and he was 24 when we met. 12 years age gap. When he ask my aged on my birthday, he's bit disappointed when he learned that I am older than him. He thought that we are on the same age or maybe I am older 2 years than him. So I sleep that night thinking Que sera sera whatever will be will be. A message from him woke me up the next day saying "Hey Birthday Girl Wake Up". Then the rest is history. He knows when I feel uncomfortable of my wrinkles, freckles and unstable body. But he always comfort me (my flaws and imperfection), saying "It's alright. Nobody is perfect".
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
aww this is SUCH A SWEET STORY!! thank you for sharing, you two have a beautiful connection I can tell :)
@dancingcloud85574 жыл бұрын
Very sweet. How long have you two been together?
@marianas32683 жыл бұрын
Awwww 🥰
@ashley97763 жыл бұрын
So sweet
@0111ddd3 жыл бұрын
You are so lucky
@GwenMotoGirl2 жыл бұрын
I’m 62 and find myself in the delicious potential opportunity to date an attractive, intelligent 33 year old man. This video has me smiling. Big. Thank you.
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Amazing my dear so so happy for you!
@marincuculic10202 жыл бұрын
Gwen you look so cute :) Are you single?
@Cravenn55 ай бұрын
Brace yourself….. you will likely change the rest of your life and his! ❤
@marincuculic102021 күн бұрын
Gwen are you maybe single?
@freespirit523410 ай бұрын
Everything you explained to attract a younger man, i do it naturally, i have ADHD, im a fun bubbly person, so i have always attracted younger men, but dated older men. I dated a younger man in my 20's and he treated me better than men my age or older. No more older boring men!
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Wonderful! I’m so glad this helped you!
@petitlivre5 жыл бұрын
Does anybody else watch every single one of Mat’s videos with a pen and notebook in hand like he’s preaching the New New Testament? No? Just me? 😅 I appreciate your wisdom as always Mat! I’m 28 but still feel like everything you said is totally applicable for dating men of all ages. Your videos have helped me turn a black heart and false narrative about men and dating into hope for the future. What a gift 💓
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
😭😭❤️ one of the most touching comments I’ve ever received!! Thank you so so much for your kind words, truly moved. Y them... it’s my honor and purpose to support you and I’m beyond grateful that I’ve inspired you to connect to your heart in a deeper way🙏🙏❤️✨ let me know what more you would like me to speak Into 🤗
@karljans4807 Жыл бұрын
I met my gf when I was 20 and she was 28 when we did volunteering august 2021. Been in a ldr with her ever since. This month I visited her again for a long weekend and it was great. She looks quite young for her age which makes it easier to not get judged by ppl. I lover her a lot.
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@callmejo90682 ай бұрын
I am 64 and he’s 42. It has been the most amazing journey, his energy is so refreshing.
@Mat_Shaffer2 ай бұрын
incredible Im so happy for you! thats a lovely age gap relationship right there :)
@nancysloan37312 жыл бұрын
I am with a man who is 9 years younger than me. We have been together for over 20 years. It hadn:t always been peaches and cream but we work things out together.
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Amazing my dear so so happy for you!
@brendabrewer82764 жыл бұрын
OMG I love this!!! As I get romantically involved exclusively with younger men (date all ages) this is INVALUABLE advice and I took notes and added to my "Important Relationship Stuff" folder! It's just perfect to know that we always have OPTIONS when dealing with any romantic partner and the more knowledge we have about upliftment, no matter what situation, the better outcomes we have! 💗
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
YESSS you got it my dear!! so glad this supported you :)
@angelinasamson6996 Жыл бұрын
I’m 49 and he’s 33 , it’s so effortless and organic ❤
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that! ❤❤❤
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
Question of the Day - Have you dated younger men... and if so, what did you do that really drove them wild?
@Serel255 жыл бұрын
They like the straight talking, clear actions, maturity in dealing with problems, the experience, knowledge and streetwise nature appeals to them. I've always been in relationships with younger guys, but married a guy 10 years older than me! It didn't work because I'm very childlike in character and I think they like that but my husband was intimidated by the attention I got. They also always say I understand them!
@ladycherielindsey26185 жыл бұрын
I always ask them about something that they are into. I give them the opportunity to teach me something about what they are excited about. (Some other things are, the tone of voice, the WAY in which to flirt... there’s more but... I’ll save that for later. 🙂)
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this fascinating share Serel I love it! I’m sure you create great connections on both sides of the age spectrum 🤗
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
Great point Cherie, would love for you to share some of those amazing techniques 😍😍😍
@cottonflannigan36715 жыл бұрын
It's a secret... 😊
@charitymunyiko64574 жыл бұрын
My prayer is to find someone who will make me happy,smile all the time.
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
you are worthy of that!
@lilliemoss68954 жыл бұрын
Me too
@williamhendricks39354 жыл бұрын
I am here
@teammotivation1424 жыл бұрын
I’ve always thought of dating an older woman after listening to your previous video l can say am ready now
@teammotivation1424 жыл бұрын
Hi dm me I will make you my queen
@rhondareese39084 жыл бұрын
I'm engaged to be married to my younger man. I'm 10 years older than him. Been together for 1 year and 9 months. In 62 and he just turned 52. We are always on the same page and have same thoughts. Sometimes saying tie same thing at the same time.
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
thats so beautiful thanks for sharing your love! truly inspiring!!
@rhondareese39084 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer you're welcome
@trishmccollum12634 жыл бұрын
Never thought 10 yrs younger was possible
@c.b.23213 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much - from an elder woman from North Germany ;-), who's dating a 20 years younger man since some weeks.
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! ♥
@urpisarmiento53854 күн бұрын
Good luck❤🎉
@briechilli4496 Жыл бұрын
I love that you mentioned the honouring his deep masculine and stay in your feminine. Love it ❤
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Yes! Thank you!
@lpsglitterpaws85364 жыл бұрын
I am 50 but I look 35 according to feedback from others. I am a runner and lift weights which really help my physical appearance. I recently went online to find a relationship and I am finding that younger men love older women! I am finding that the men my age or older don’t look so good!!! I am flirting with the idea of dating these younger hotties. I have to enough confidence to go for it. Thanks for this info!
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome Lps glitter Paws! 🙏
@richardrivas32944 жыл бұрын
* Make sure you connect physically, emotionally, and mentally. ... * Don't chase him. ... * Love yourself. ... * Take care of yourself. ... * Don't be a people pleaser. .. * Speak your mind.
@marianas32683 жыл бұрын
Protect your heart and bank account, apart from that you could find a true love
@marincuculic102021 күн бұрын
Hi :) are you single maybe?
@lpsglitterpaws853621 күн бұрын
@@marincuculic1020 Yes
@carlagarrett52785 ай бұрын
I am so pleasantly surprised to have found your channel. I have been a Psychologist in private practice for thirty years and I learn a lot from you. Thank you.
@Mat_Shaffer5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@stefaniekantor19004 жыл бұрын
You make it sound like we, the older women are there to date the younger man to teach him how to more of himself. I’m drawn to men younger than me because if their sexual prowess and energetic abilities as I’m a very active 50 year old woman. But if I date a man it’s because I might be interested in a long term relationship with him. My casual days are done as I’ve just ended a toxic relationship with a 36 yr old Narcissistic man. We aren’t in this world to train anyone.
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
We can all teach each other regardless of age - precious lessons can be exchanged both ways :)
@stefaniekantor19004 жыл бұрын
Mat Shaffer I think you are very positive, which is great, but when you’ve been in a toxic relationship with a younger man as an older woman In a patriarchal world.....well, then we can talk.
@melmel89075 жыл бұрын
Yep he thought I was younger and I thought he was older. I was 48 and he was 36! It was a year of fun. How’d I do it? I learned to let myself be my feminine self, appreciate them for who they are right now, definitely loved the banter, and oh so many adventures. We taught each other a lot and he got me out of my shell and made me realize that I am desirable! He still wants to hang out when he’s in town! Flattering!! But won’t do it. I’m in totally love with my new guy who is one year younger than me and treats me like a queen. 💜 Videos like yours Mat truly helped me learn how to understand Men. Seriously love your videos! Thank you. 🙏🏻
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
amazing my dear so so happy for you and your experience! and congrats on your beautiful new relationship
@elizabethanderson94372 жыл бұрын
I’m 65. He’s 22. Never been happier.
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
AMAZING love blossoms at all ages! Congratulations! And thank you
@adriennecsanadi10884 жыл бұрын
great advice, thank you! I am 31 and feeling really positive about my new hot love with a 23 yo guy. We were magnets from the moment we met and it's just getting better - meeting of the souls and minds...and bodies too hey :) p.s. luckily he hates texting as much as I do lol
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
yess Adrienne Csanadi! He's a lucky man ❤️
@felicidad23886 ай бұрын
I’m 49 and he is 29! Never actually planned dating a younger man but is nice!
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@GreenTara20104 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this. Met a younger man online and need to move this forward.
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
have fun!
@viktoriastockmal84055 жыл бұрын
Very well put. I have and always have dated younger men, but usually by only a few years. Several years ago I dated a man in his 30s. You are so right. It helped him to become more of the man he wanted to become. And it was wonderful for me to embrace my feminine side. Which can be quite powerful for a woman. LOL it seems to work very well for both sides. Thank you for this video. The topic surprised me at first. But I think it's very well done.
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
YES this is exactly what I’m talking about!! Especially with points 5 and 6.... great opportunity to establish polarity and expand with your partner 🤗🤗🤗
@viktoriastockmal84055 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer Definitely especially points 5 & 6! Bravo, Mat!
@marincuculic10202 жыл бұрын
Viktoria are you single?
@viktoriastockmal84052 жыл бұрын
@@marincuculic1020 I am .... But much older now. 😄
@marincuculic10202 жыл бұрын
@@viktoriastockmal8405 haha well that is definitely fine by me. :) I am 28 btw. Can we maybe get in contact? Would love to be friends.
@natashialee66323 жыл бұрын
My man is 10 years younger than me. His so amazing.
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
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@ayudewipuspasari60884 жыл бұрын
I already subscribe your channel
@nannyonjojamila18054 жыл бұрын
You said that help but me I need awite man In my life am from Uganda am 25 years old thank you so much sir
@kirstenholmquist70743 жыл бұрын
Whoo hoo
@ljc34844 жыл бұрын
I’m not into “younger” men, just happens some of the ones I like are younger than me. But I think I want what every one wants: someone who is healthy, happy, independent & kind, financially responsible. My issue right now is my own health, illness isn’t always great going into a relationship. And I’m past the child bearing age, I know lots of not most men want someone to start their own family with.
@Mat_Shaffer8 ай бұрын
It’s 100% possible to heal and create something new
@modestyblaze29875 жыл бұрын
I never thought I'd be watching this kind of video...! I was in love with 35yo and I am 13years older. And married, not living with my husband at the time. I never wanted a relationship, less likely with a man so much younger. I still look pretty good, but he was soon hot..so handsome, very tall, very attractive. We had so much passion for each other. But then I fell in love. There was no future for us so I came back home to my husband trying to forget. Never cheated for 25 years so now I am feeling so low. It's good as a fun for someone who can control his/her feelings. I couldn't so I'm paying the price.
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your share my dear... sounds like it was a powerful experience for you and you learned a lot from it!
@143christ24 жыл бұрын
Didn't work coz u were married. 🤨
@marianas32683 жыл бұрын
Why there was no future for that relationship?
@belle22635 жыл бұрын
Ive dated so many 20 somethings and early 30s. Im 38. From my experience they just want sexual experiences and not a long term relationship. The odd guy did but he was only few yrs younger. Most just find it easier to get good sex from an older woman. Don't expect much!
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
There's definitely a wide spectrum of men out there and yes 20somethings will often be more open to lower level commitments than men in their thirties! But commitment is still possible regardless of age gap if teh connection is there :)
@belle22635 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer i wish lol....ive dated hundreds. They all want fun unless they have low self esteem or some mental problems or bad upbringing, then they tend to want to date....or they are a single dad. In saying that im from Sydney where an abundance of single women compared to men live
@beebuzz9595 жыл бұрын
@@belle2263 men in Sydney still can make commitments, so don't look at them all through the same negative lens. I know it's frustrating, but try and be hopeful. There are also a lot of tourists that go through Sydney, so if anything it's a new energy to can flirt with and refresh your position with. Enjoy yourself!
@belle22635 жыл бұрын
@@beebuzz959 Im not into tourists and flings....I'll pass thanks lol
@TheAshMcG4 жыл бұрын
@@belle2263 I believe his point is if you are having, being playful and in your feminine energy the right commitment oriented man will show up. Negativity won't advance your goals...period.
@sandrajones51354 жыл бұрын
I'm naturally all those things you described, no wonder I am attracted and just attracting 28 to 35 yr old man and find the ones my age too serious, too boring and lack energy! Thank you as I just discovered I'm not going crazy! Most guys I meet in person feel I'm 35 which doesn't help ah ah
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
wonderful you are magnetic... own THAT :)
@luckyedward2503 жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful
@mizkaponi4853 Жыл бұрын
Im 37, he's 24. So confident, sure of himself...and take charge. He is willing to be patient with me as I warm up to the idea of us being a "thing" ...its just so overwhelmingly intense and I was blowed. I am not out here tryna snag up young men....lol! When he goes away...it always seems like he's making preparations some where..idk. He has questions and new things to always teach me..tell me. I love it. Im so intrigued. We share the same beliefs. He wants to impress me...please me..he wants me to be happy and comfortable. When he's around me, he is so relaxed and at home. So mature minded. And idk who gave these young ppl the keys to wealth but he gets money...he goes away and always comes back with more and more money. I turn it down but he wants to provide...it feels crazy. I tell him I need nothing from him...i really do like him but im just so apprehensive. He is so hands on..i love it.
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
AMAZING love that share!! :)
@micheleedwards624 жыл бұрын
Thank You!!!! This is so powerful!!! Just started dating a younger man. It's awesome!!!
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
you're welcome!
@terribrown59895 жыл бұрын
I'm always afraid they would reject me and be like go away old woman....😥
@beebuzz9595 жыл бұрын
I get that, but realize you're the one rejecting yourself, not them. Flirting is safe, but if you're not comfortable with just that, just smile and be yourself, open and warm. And if he moves more forward from there, just a tad, then just play with it and enjoy it without expecting anything. Very often but that will build to something, and it's all safe.
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
great coaching Beanie! You can do this Terri
@terribrown59895 жыл бұрын
@Kat Loveslife I don't like older men I'm really hoping to find my younger man...pray for me
@terribrown59895 жыл бұрын
@Kat Loveslife thank you
@terribrown59895 жыл бұрын
@Kat Loveslife all that ever approach me is old men I don't know what to do
@tiliayala92884 жыл бұрын
My son's father was 10 years younger than me. I have loved younger men, since then. He passed away, left me a son. I am praying for a young guy in my life.
@jonynicolas9293 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear he passed away
@RobertMichael-d2u5 ай бұрын
Accept my condolences, same here. I'm 34y old how old are you
@SatyaKaliYam4 ай бұрын
This list confirmed what we have. 💯🙌😍I just met “the one” and he just turned 35. I’m turning 48 next week! 13 year age difference. We met literally in the end of April and in less than 2 weeks, we decided to be together as bf/gf. I didn’t have to go far to look for him. I literally met him in front of my doorstep. His father introduced me to him to help another son with therapy since I am a holistic healer. And then I meet his younger son and it was very easy. Our connection and conversations. All just felt like it was meant to be. We both don’t want to have children and we both love to communicate about everything. And now, he’s my boo and I’m in love and very happy and feel so blessed to have met him. 🙏🙌❤️💯👩🏻❤️👨🏻
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
You’re fabulous! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and spreading the love. 💖
@ladolcevita5582 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. That is very useful. Btw, I really like yr tone of voice and smile ❤
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@abdulmateen3326 Жыл бұрын
hi ladol. are you single?😉
@stella97853 жыл бұрын
The biggest love of my life is 29 years younger than me! Pure bliss!
@adamadel70973 жыл бұрын
Wow
@adamadel70973 жыл бұрын
Are you single now
@Mat_Shaffer8 ай бұрын
Amazing! love hearing that!
@juad41844 жыл бұрын
I love how Matt reads comments n hearts them too. That's so new n refreshing. This videos great. Tomorrow I have a second date with a guy 16 yrs younger than me in his early 20s. I find that hes a bit rigid like nervous so not overly playful n hes anxious that i won't accept him due to age gap. But he wants proper dates in the way is more mature than jaded men in early 30s who just wants fling. I found when i was in my early 20s, guys were more naive n wanted commitment. Had more meaningful relos n they did fall hard when their hearts were broken. So who knows! Every1s different.
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
so glad you enjoy the work I put into connecting with my community :) age gap relationships can TOTALLY work, enjoy the process and see where it goes!
@jacquelinedarst83134 ай бұрын
I'm happy for you I met a gentleman in his 40 I'm 65 this connection is better with someone my age he makes me feel like I'm 20 again yes we are together after 10 yrs.
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your sparkle with us! Keep being fabulous. ✨
@vixter284 жыл бұрын
Ive had younger men attracted & after me since I turned 60 ! News to me - I never thought of myself as a cougar I guess but have always been into younger men They tell me I look like I’m in my late 40’s & that is very flattering! I just met a 32 year old & I’m 63 The age difference is so great I’m scared - he treats me very good & is always a gentleman. He tells me he’s so into me & I’m digging it but I don’t know if it could work out in the long run , he also has young children 9 & 11 & I have a grown daughter that’s 36 & a granddaughter that’s 17 I don’t know what to do.....
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
AMAZING how fun is that?! you are a magnetic woman!
@reason55914 жыл бұрын
I have similar thing going right now. Im 60 and he is 30
@vrobinson51004 жыл бұрын
Go for it! Life is too short not to try. If you are happy, why not give him a chance. Be blessed always 😊❤️
@luckyedward2503 жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful victoria
@justrelax37433 жыл бұрын
I'm 63 and he is 25. Love it!
@nappyfries Жыл бұрын
I have the biggest crush on a guy at work that’s 11 years younger than me & I’m pretty sure he’s into me too. I feel like I’m a high school girl gushing about him 🤣 it’s important to know that he might think I’m out of his league bc of the age difference when I thought he might not be interested bc of that. These are great to keep in mind if anything comes of it.
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Happy this resonated with you! ❤❤❤
@marincuculic102021 күн бұрын
nappyfries are you single maybe?
@lisasunshine76544 жыл бұрын
I don’t approach them, they approach me! I’m not sure what to do with that, because I’m looking for LTR and they typically want ‘fun’.
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
keep your boundaries in place!
@luckyedward2503 жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful
@pleasuretube21322 жыл бұрын
Single man looking for one Seriously
@miriamallie42982 жыл бұрын
⁹
@marincuculic10202 жыл бұрын
Lisa are you single maybe?
@cn27465 жыл бұрын
Mat, this has to be one of your very best talks! Each point was excellent. New and fun territory. (always wanted to be a teacher!) Carol
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
AWWW thanks so much my dear, so glad you enjoyed it!! Yeah always looking to increase the value provided by my content... this format is working I think :)
@dudu-no4ec Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! I`m not so old (only 27 years old) but I always attract and always been attracted to younger boys so your tips are very helpful!
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@BigHeartNoBS3 жыл бұрын
I am 47, he is 34. I have so much fun with him! ❤ Yes, we text a lot, but sometimes we call too. It's just nice to hear his voice.
@mistressevamzonia70873 жыл бұрын
Hello I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back recently he can also help you just as he did mine too recently
@mistressevamzonia70873 жыл бұрын
Text him on WhatsApp
@marincuculic10202 жыл бұрын
Are you still together?
@Mat_Shaffer9 ай бұрын
AMAZING love blossoms at all ages! Congratulations!
@marincuculic102021 күн бұрын
you are still together?
@shaunajin84972 жыл бұрын
WOWWWW THAT WAS TRULY AMAZING AND INSIGHTFUL!!! 😍🤩🤩 I'm in such a relationship right now. I'm a new Queen w a young King who's coming into his power. SO AWESOME!!
@pleasuretube21322 жыл бұрын
I m looking a girlfriend I can t find No one
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Amazing my dear so so happy for you!
@marincuculic10202 жыл бұрын
Shauna are you single?
@hapigoluckee12664 жыл бұрын
Started seeing this dude, 29. I’m 49, and he couldn’t believe l am this age. First of, ppl say l look like between 30-35 yo. Tbh, l just feel good and l don’t act like most ppl my age. Wrinkles are alien to me, so dating younger men doesn’t sway me at all! I goof off like crazy and my sense of humor is off the roof haha It’s a great feeling having younger men ogle over older women. It’s absolute heaven! My ex is 34. He’s actually the oldest l dated. You’re very right on this topic. Thank you!!!
@luckyedward2503 жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful
@hapigoluckee12663 жыл бұрын
@@luckyedward250 hey! Thank you ☺️
@marincuculic10202 жыл бұрын
Hapi Go Luckee are you still dating?
@Mat_Shaffer7 ай бұрын
You're very welcome.
@marincuculic102021 күн бұрын
are you single?
@lanaflumiani96619 ай бұрын
Wow Mat, what a beautiful video. Thank you. My last relationship with a same age partner was so traumatic and I didn't feel like myself for a while. My confidnece as a woman was totally destroyed. The advice you gave is what I craved to find again sensual and feminine. I met recently much younger man and I feel his adoration is naturally bringing back all that I always loved about being a woman. It s incredible. Thank you
@Mat_Shaffer9 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!❤
@lindapetersson5885 жыл бұрын
Love this video! I'm interested in a younger man and info like this is really helpful. More on this topic, please. ❤
@Mat_Shaffer5 жыл бұрын
I will keep them coming! So glad you enjoyed it!! 🤗🤗❤️
@TheSuziiiQ5 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@richardrivas32944 жыл бұрын
* Make sure you connect physically, emotionally, and mentally. ... * Don't chase him. ... * Love yourself. ... * Take care of yourself. ... * Don't be a people pleaser. .. * Speak your mind.
@marincuculic10202 жыл бұрын
Linda are you single?
@susanmiller2414 Жыл бұрын
Your guidance and knowledge of human behavior is impressive. Your podcasts are the best !
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@glendadubroc43114 жыл бұрын
I just love the way you explain things. You make so much sense. You have very good advice. Keep on giving us women such great advice. You are awesome!!
@Mat_Shaffer8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.
@debbibobetty56203 ай бұрын
Im 65 and he is 50. Absolutely perfect timing for both of us
@Mat_Shaffer3 ай бұрын
You’re fabulous! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and spreading the love. 💖
@beatawiater37704 жыл бұрын
I'm in relationship with 20 years younger guy and I'm expecting our daughter. On the beginning I thought that is not possible he is so much younger this not going to work, what people say I was on the stage of my life when my marriage was over and I was scared to trust again. He was amazing, he gave me huge support and gave me so much love. I did fall in love with him so much and now I really don't care about age gap and what people say. Can't wait for our daughter she is due in three weeks xxx
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
amazing share congrats!! love your love story!
@karenwalker22394 жыл бұрын
I am so happy for you both
@marincuculic102021 күн бұрын
are you still dating him?
@beatawiater377021 күн бұрын
@@marincuculic1020 why ?
@HattieReiter3 ай бұрын
I’m dating someone who is much younger than me I am 86 years old and he is 56 years old we have good chemistry and we communicate very good ❤
@Mat_Shaffer3 ай бұрын
You’re fabulous! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and spreading the love. 💖
@Bobi4844 жыл бұрын
This is all so true and me too I've experienced the true attraction to a younger man. It was during some non-date time spent in meaningful conversations and constant smiles (he is the coach of my child). Actually I feel embarrassed of my almost constant thinking about him and I started to avoid him (which doesn't help much my mental addiction haha), because first of all I am married to a very descent guy and second, I am 43 and he is 28. I've never spoken about any of that to him or to anybody else... the only thing is when I have to talk to him I can't refrain myself from asking him " How are you" in a somewhat special way hah and I felt he answered once "How are YOU?" haha my God I really sound like a teenager.
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
so sweet thanks for sharing! its a great connection :)
@rosaiaruberto6588 Жыл бұрын
Wow this is so sweet. Be his inspiration, his muse, his goddess and queens who asks him to become a King. I love this.
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you like it!
@tiliayala92883 жыл бұрын
Another great video 👍 I'm happy to say that I'm now chatting with a man 8 years younger than me.
@mistressevamzonia70873 жыл бұрын
Hello I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back and he can al'so help you just as he did mine too
@mistressevamzonia70873 жыл бұрын
Text on whtzapp
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
@rosalotts6 ай бұрын
Wish I’d known all this earlier. I’m 59, just split from a 1 year relationship with a 35 yr old guy. Was an amazing year with a lot of fun and adventures. I’m very young at heart so we hit it off big time 🎉
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@giadalu3 жыл бұрын
Me 33 my boyfriend 27 so far the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been In
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
amazing
@trueblueimpersonations89493 жыл бұрын
I love your channel and the way you talk
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.
@trueblueimpersonations89492 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer your welcome Mat ❤️ I relistened and I’m glad I did actually
@reason55914 жыл бұрын
I have 30 year old man wanting me in his life as girlfriend. I am 60 years old.
@novelvlog15624 жыл бұрын
Go for it mam It will very enjoyable moment
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
Give it a try!
@reason55914 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer ww have so much in common aside from the age difference. Its pretty incredible! He is mature for his age and im young for my age so we land somewhere in the middle. We have same inteterests and values on life.
@reason55914 жыл бұрын
@@novelvlog1562 thank you Novel
@adela7tupi8494 жыл бұрын
Go girl I have same now we are 5 years happy indeed... Keep smiling and smell fresh all the time😀
@Anayansi9586 ай бұрын
I am 65, my husband is 44. He was 23 when we met. Dating younger men is easy, having a committed relationship at whatever age is not. We love each other and the age gap is not something we think about anymore.
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@laurawindrim2 жыл бұрын
I feel like this honestly applies to all guys in general tbh. All of my male friends tell me they're basically little boys in a man's body. So all of them really want fun and lightheartedness.
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Great point!
@abbdas22mohammed Жыл бұрын
Can I talk with you Laura
@aloveaffairwithself2 жыл бұрын
My friend is 10 years my junior and I’m trying very hard to not be judgmental. We are attracted to one another, but we are taking our time to get to know one another.
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
yess dear! He's a lucky man ❤️
@Secret-sw8ih4 жыл бұрын
Wow, this was so accurate! And informative.
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
fantastic glad you liked it!
@geraldinehughes4490 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mat, you are making so much sense here and I will apply your tips. It’s nice to have a plan. Geraldine
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@susannesonnenschein28784 жыл бұрын
I made the same sad experiments. You can have fun with the most beautiful young men. That´s easy. But never ever fall in love with one. You are the one who loose the game in the end. Unless you are lucky to find someone who has a kind of fetish with older woman. Be carefull of your heart. Because young men will brack it sooner ore later .
@Mat_Shaffer4 жыл бұрын
not all younger men are like that
@susannesonnenschein28784 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer I don't know how to find a serious one...
@marincuculic10202 жыл бұрын
Susanne are you single at the moment?
@margotstack6303 Жыл бұрын
I agree 100% with what you wrote
@stephanieorme29509 ай бұрын
So true...
@nannetteprata457111 ай бұрын
Thanks Matt. Such helpful guidance. :-). .. and destigmatizing the age disparity