6 Secrets Signs He Thinks About YOU More Than You Know

[@Markrosenfeld]

With everything that is still happening in the world today, I thought we could have a bit of fun today 😀Here are some signs to look for!

[@ivymiraculous-fan467]

Lol love this! Great advice! Unfortunately I’m really bad at subtle signs, the guy will have to step up and do something a bit more than just follow my stories for me to think it means something 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@cindycinn2724]

No Mark I don't have anyone like that but hope to one day so thanks to you im taking notes

[@SabrinaAngel]

🙂👍 Thx Mark!

[@luartsbello]

Wonderful as always! By the way I just did what you mentioned in the last bit some days ago. I'm now walking away towards a better future. Lol Thanks Mark! X

[@tsimoohmoi9541]

❤️❤️❤️

[@sanghamitrapaul8395]

6 secret signs he thinks about u more than u know 1. He watches ur stories and posts everytime... 2. U stood up for urself. 3. Talk to mutual friend about u... 4. Send stupid shit. 5. He yo-yo in and out in ur life. 6. He drunk text u.

[@Jkstolz]

Too funny!!

[@angelataylor7799]

aaaand all of them don't mean sh**, cuz he's probably too lame to do anything about it...lol.

[@celineawad3946]

He stares and I know he likes me, but has inappropriate pictures on his phone. Guys are dorks.

[@sanghamitrapaul8395]

@@angelataylor7799 it's right. There is a saying that people may like u but there will be very few who put the "effort"

[@catche85]

When I was far less knowledgeable about dating, I was seeing a guy for 3 months. He then said he had met someone (not even someone "else") and we parted. He then popped back into my life without explanation, and just kept sending my funny memes. After a month I told him I didn't want to be a funny text friend because my feelings for him and desire to get to know him hadn't changed. He ghosted. That was 8 months ago. I'm glad I stood up for myself and I've learned so much since then!

[@hae-lyunkang4060]

Good for you!

[@charlineverhelst2050]

That was so brave of you!

[@evelynpartridge7895]

@@hae-lyunkang4060 .

[@evelynpartridge7895]

@@hae-lyunkang4060.

[@hannahscott6604]

I am seeing someone who takes me places like out to eat and on dates and doesn’t try to have sex with me or anything But he says he is not ready for something serious I guess it means nothing cause it’s only been a week I’m giving it a couple mos

[@anoukc6928]

"Walk the f*uck away if he doesn't" 😂 love it!

[@Markrosenfeld]

hahaha

[@gailfagan7579]

I’m not impressed with foul language, even as I sometimes use it myself in private when I’m angry. I’ve been a public speaker on many occasions, including internationally, and swearing just shows you to be illiterate at best (or trying to shock others), because you haven’t got any other better vocabulary you know. It may be fashionable but it turns off WAY more people than you know and makes them think less of your message. Just because ‘everyone’ does it doesn’t make it right. Manners matter. Just saying...

[@airbubble.]

@@gailfagan7579 What are you? His mother? Illiterate by definition means one is unable to read. Nothing to do with swearing. Studies actually show that people who swear have above average intelligence, an extensive vocabulary and a creative mind. They are also more open, honest and trustworthy, and have a good level of self-esteem and identity. For the record, even the Queen swears!

[@anoukc6928]

@@gailfagan7579 repetitive swearing can't put me off, but if it's occasional it doesn't. Also, the F word is somehow acceptable to non-English speakers (which I am).

[@gailfagan7579]

Air Bubble no, not his mother. Why are you so offended at my honest comment? There are much better, more respectful ways to communicate without using foul language using better, more interesting or fun words. Do you talk like that around people of faith or your grandmother, around children or your doctor? Low speech has always been considered vulgar. Mark is educated and has some pretty good thoughts and info about relationships but I’m finding the more frequent gratuitous f-bombs take away from his message. As many do, I’ve tried to ignore it but, I’m getting tired of it. Channel is sounding less like serious relationship channel and more about games for hooking up. Watching less and less.

[@IoanGruffudd]

I love it when you said that just because someone is thinking about you and even taking it to the next step where they make that clear and shower you with gifts and attention, does NOT mean that they are ready or even willing to be your partner. Some men just like to be on your mind and like the attention they get from a woman who they find attractive / powerful. Sadly even if us women are aware of this we can still fall for them and then wonder what’s wrong with us if they don’t want to commit... “Give them the opportunity to step up and walk the fuck away if they do not” - best thing I’ve heard on the Internet. Thank you Mark, this video has been eye-opening.

[@Haanhthuuu143]

Damn thats deep tbh

[@reneemajor4430]

When I lived in Brisbane I swear I've seen him. He is more gorgeous in real life 😉

[@franchic9565]

Great advice. Echoes the book "He's Just Not That Into You". Saved my sanity. Basically explains the concept of guys being interested, but just not enough to step up & be a real b-friend. And this slight interest confuses a hell of a lot of women, unfortunately....

[@kwp9270]

It's not confusing because it can only mean so many things: 1. He just wants sex. 2. He wants more than one woman. 3. You're in consideration among several women he's dealing with. 4. He's married but doesn't want you to know it.

[@BASK1120]

I'm married but I'm not blind, your working out is paying off, nice guns! lol

[@chelslouiserose]

The ending was the reality check I needed. Thanks Mark! 😊

[@mdiaz4106]

imagine dating this guy and then you're uncertain how he feels about you, so come here and watch this video and nothing he says is matching up with what he does.... 😩

[@gshantel2676]

M Diaz stink 💔

[@mdiaz4106]

Shantel Gabriele I know right 😩🤣.

[@nikiyubari8410]

Every time girl.

[@kwp9270]

Why not ask him? The way he answers will tell you something.

[@lanafountain6799]

Loved @ the end when you said, “Then walk the f**k away if he doesn’t.” 💯👍🏾

[@shreyasarekh1867]

Watching you from India but your logic works everywhere 👌....means men are men it doesn't matter from which country they belong to

[@axelashu]

Hi...am from India too... And I too have been trying to figure out how much does it work for India men tooo 😀

[@How.Dare.You.]

Insta stories? Comeon thats bs. They do it as they scroll through many other stories while sitting on the toilet

[@samiakiani7467]

Lollll... so very true... 👍👍

[@Markrosenfeld]

hahaha also very plausable

[@Ngan.marianguyen]

So true 😂

[@Swiss_Girl]

naah my ex suddenly NEVER watched my whatsapp stories when we broke up lol

[@marielou7588]

@@Swiss_Girl cause he deleted you

[@lavayuki]

Indeed the start and end are the most memorable. My relationship ended badly, and now I remember my ex in a very negative way and all the bad things he's done way more than the good things

[@angelataylor7799]

but do they ever end good? lol

[@jillarchi4920]

Hi Mark! I totally "dated" a man & would ALWAYS be there when he wasn't dating anyone. He did everything you mentioned in your video. Now he has a long term girlfriend & when he started that relationship I eventually said I was over it (after 4 years of accepting his BS)....wouldn't go back to allowing him to "breadcrumb" me anymore. Can't believe it took 4 years for me to finally call it quits!

[@sjulita]

My story :D Go girl :*

[@trainerhazel5535]

Been online dating this guy, he seems consistent with his communication and is fond of sending his photos on a regular basis just to let me know what he is up to. I do the same and it has been fun. Been honest and transparent since day 1. He is too. But the real deal breaker here is when we meet up.

[@granmisticoful]

so did you guys meet up?

[@ami2763]

Tell me you are married now:))

[@anzu6895]

Hey I'm in same situation... We've met once and it's been 6 months we just talked in online but didn't meet

[@laepitt821]

I’m missing the message because I’m distracted by the tight shirt hugging your biceps 🤔😏. Maybe a baggy one next time lol.

[@108latte]

Too small shirt. It gaps at the chest when he talks with his hands. I get rid of my tops that I outgrow.

[@karinadelossantos8653]

Hahahhahahahah thanks god im not the only one i keep re-watching the video coz i couldn't concentrate 😂😂

[@Markrosenfeld]

hah yeah I definitely need to go shopping

[@laepitt821]

Mark Rosenfeld I wasn’t complaining 😏

[@ewoxmaiden1611]

Exactly what I was thinking!!!This is so distracting, Mark😛😅

[@lilya77777]

You are giving me strength. I have an in and out guy now. And yes. You are right I want a guy who is always in. This yoyo thing is extremely tiring.

[@jennalofsness9897]

That advice is spot on with the yo yo guy and the stable guy so true! It’s loving yourself enough to filter out those guys when you need that stable relationship as I get older it only keeps ringing more true I wish I would have listened to this advice when I was younger. But I realized those experiences made me who I am today and I always have the choice to learn and make my relationships better 😄

[@Markrosenfeld]

Absolutely, Jenna Lofsness! Thanks for sharing your thoughts. All the best to you! 🙂

[@t.fannie5034]

Mark, I think about you more than you know these days😂😂 I binge watch all of your videos

[@MaryChhangte-c2q]

😂

[@MaryChhangte-c2q]

😂 yoyo this guy is handsome

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*Learn to be quiet enough to hear the genuine in yourself, so that you can hear it in others.*

[@akshithathirupathy1583]

I'm lesbian ... And I'm watching this for I have no idea why😂

[@raymondmorrow9824]

Cool. I watch them to see what men think of me..😊❤

[@AbigailJRose-lds]

😂

[@nunnallyai]

Cuz he’s cute 😅

[@hollynewland2568]

😂😂😂

[@daniellegutowski382]

😂

[@theground8972]

I'm in interracial long distance relationship , he is gentle but he is too shy to express his love directly but we are always in touch and he doesn't forget good night kissess every day at bed time .we planned to move to his place and even decided to have two kids but he's not doing what you mentioned but he shares with me all his secret and we use the same email and he told me he feels strong when he thinks of me

[@mgilroy586]

Love your advice at the end!!! "Walk the F away".. so simple and so true.

[@norfizabaharuddin4083]

I really want man who appreciates me.. With me when I'm happy or sad.. Always make me laugh..

[@1105pitbull]

Hi Mark, about a year ago I told you my story of the ex husband who grew up here in So Calif then just after our one year marriage desolved moved to So Australia to farm his families newly bought 200 acres in cirtus and wine grapes. He married, had 3 kids, 8 grandkids and lost his wife of 46 years to cancer in the fall of 2017. I heard from him that he was coming here to visit his siblings and me in May 2018. After 7 weeks here he invited me to Australia and I went in August for a month to meet his family and friends. He returned here in Dec 2018 for 3 months in my home but I had just put my dog down and wasn't in the best of moods to entertain him. He traveled around to see friends and family here then I was supposed to meet him back in Australia in July after his total knee operation. Somewhere in the ensuing months he met someone else, pulled away from me and finally broke it off in May 2019 just after his operation. He offered "friendship" which I tried but eventually told him it was too hard and not to call until I could heal and let him go as he has let me go. Our final conversation (didn't now it at the time) was in August last year. He was in a terrible mood, finally admitted (I had to ask) that he was interested in someone else, wouldn't talk about things that I needed clearing up so I just said "ok then, bye." I told him months earlier that if he wanted to stay in contact he would have to call me as he was the one to end things I would not be calling him. Sine then he hasn't called and neither have I. I'm still in touch with his brother's wive one city over and the last time we talked she told me that Jim had asked about me (I've not mentioned him to her at all not even that final conversation). He didn't ask how I was just if she had seen me. He told her that I had asked him not to call any more and that he was "honoring my request." That is an absolute lie. I am so angry with him for making me the bad guy here. what should I do about it? He already told her last year that we "mutually agreed to end the relationship." Also a lie. He can't seem to take responsibility for his actions. Would really appreciate your input.

[@momentsformoms9467]

My boyfriend has never sent me stupid shit 😭😂 it’s understandable,he’s busy and we already see each other almost every night at work,he’s also not a conversing type since he hasn’t dated in a few years. He tries though to have conversations with me and I appreciate it so much he’s so good to me.

[@xencoop2669]

Thank you for this one I was about to give in to a guy that is half stepping. He wants my body but not me (no relationship) and I want more.

[@Babyluv_]

Xen Coop what end up happening? I’m curious to know lol

[@Hazydays0926]

I can say- I have that one “yo-yo” ing. I really can’t tell what he wants from me.

[@WhereIsCynthia]

Mark, this video has the perfect amount of swear words. Nice work lol.

[@colleenstewart8927]

Very cool advice.I so need to tell him to step up….Because I will walk away .Thank you!💫

[@ClarCo]

Mark! The message is so clear, direct and simple. It hit me home. Thanks for making the video.

[@ericaperalta242]

Keep rockin' Mark😊😊 Always point blank...👌🏼

[@nerrrderrr7275]

Looks like you brush your hair, hit the beach and respect women. And I am here for it!

[@carlirose1802]

I recently came across your channel and I really value your videos. Currently been in a new relationship for a little over a month. This is my first real relationship. My new man is complicated and I have a million questions. These videos get my questions answered and calm my crazy mind down. Thank you 🤣

[@Markrosenfeld]

Awww it's great to hear the videos helped, Carli! This is what this channel is for. Thanks so much for your lovely comment! All the best to you! xx

[@kwp9270]

How is he complicated? If he's not operating off of common sense and simplicity then something isn't right. Is it possible that you're overthinking and overcomplicating things?

[@supermama8674]

Solid and secure relationships is the best, if really want relationships with someone it's the way for many reasons.

[@Everything-dr1wb]

Thank you for sharing this video 🙂👍

[@marieklenke2916]

"Do you want the guy, who is in and out?!" - Well... Ähm...

[@wingmangut1]

What do u say when u can’t decide between passion and security? Passion might fizzle out but security might feel to safe.

[@carmenbess2459]

What I got from this is you dont settle for anything less than what makes me happy, dont let him slack in showing me he cares or he will get comfortable and think it's ok not to show me he cares when I need him. And nice muscles 😉

[@Markrosenfeld]

Nice, Carmen Bess! Really glad you got something from the video. And thanks for the compliment! 😊

[@thaiblanch]

I always have to watch your videos over and over because I constantly get distract by your cuteness and adorable smile

[@Markrosenfeld]

Hahahah sorry about that, Thai Blanch. I hope you still get something from the videos. Thanks for the compliment!

[@sammyjo2852]

1) He reads your posts on social media. 2) Poignant last interaction. 3) People tell you he’s mentioned you. 4) He sends you stupid shit. 🤣 5) He yo-yos in and out of your life. 6) He drunk-texts you.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Appreciate this, Panda! Thaaank you! x

[@KA-ub4rc]

Drunk text is a turn off. Shows he can't control his emotions

[@EllaBella-76]

@@KA-ub4rc•Yeah means he is lonely!I told him I can’t fix him ?That personally I don’t know if I am friend zoned ?He keeps telling me I am amazing but sure is not making me feel amazing that he doesn’t know what he what he going to do with his life ?Well do any of us ?Trouble is he isn’t (Yo -Yo )One minute it’s love songs ,next he is stressed about work?This is daily asking me advice about his work.I don’t even do his work!Then he says I am amazing?I have super powers ,he asked if he could come see me soon so I said “Is that a date ?”He said “Your my bestie?Well W.T.F I am more confused than ever ?

[@GodHelpMe369]

Ultimately, you will heal yourself through your alignment with God, and the eternal Truth of who you are. Breathe slowly, and deeply into your belly. Rest in the awareness of your union with God, your love for God, and God's love for you. I call it 'sitting in love'. By sitting in love, you attune vibrationally to Love... and that is going to change your thinking and your experiences... Always remember, your thinking mind/brain is always going to try and convince you that your suffering is caused by things external to yourself... That will cause you to be resistant to the eternal Truth. That is why daily communion with that Love/God is essential, because that vibrational communion actually assumes/restructures your thinking mind/brain, and dissolves that resistance. You essentially will remember yourself as the Love that you have always been. You can't go wrong by aligning yourself to God/Source/Christ Mind. Much success on your journey and much love to you, blessed soul.

[@Derlet30]

This was both fun and informative. Thank you so much! 🙏

[@rachelc7869]

So relevant right now 😂 thanks Mark 👌🏼

[@LeafsIn2025]

Great video, Mark! Thank you. 🌦☺ ✔✔✔✔✔✔

[@blancarosasmusica]

This has happened to me, and I gradually just let go because he was so busy, he said he wants a relationship with me but he was always too busy to spend time together.

[@palmercatherine5774]

Do you really need help?

[@Celt_Downunder]

Blooming awesome I love the frank way you put your message across and absolutely love the last message. If he’s a zero not a hero - does my bum look big as I walk away LOL

[@pamelavanzant606]

We are a few States away and my man tells me when I'm on his mind. We haven't met in person yet but he says I'm on his mind all of the time. I can't wait to meet him. We have been talking since February and it's now the end of August 🤭 He says we will be together soon!!

[@7Zsta]

Be careful, though. Tread wisely ☘️

[@na0228]

Am I the first!? Perfect timing for this video, I was wondering about this. Thank you!

[@Markrosenfeld]

Yes, you beat me to my pinned comment 😂

[@na0228]

@@Markrosenfeld I even beat you! yay lol

[@bethelbethlehem3001]

So timely.. I want to have a solid secure man.

[@cindycinn2724]

You're so funny Mark I just love what you do for us and for me speaking for myself thanks so so much

[@joannamario7759]

Mark, you're absolutely right! Thanks for the advise!

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks so much, Joanna Mario! xx

[@mmxx4144]

Your video helped me realize I am struggling in a similar situation with the yo yo effect. What you said is ths absolute truth, we have been on and off for more than ten years and I really need the solid guy. Im done with the games and shading. Importantly, I love the way you expain the concept. The green background was a very good choice, it kept me very relaxed during this video. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. Im definitely following you from now on. Greets, Ina from Holland ♥️👌

[@janghardy]

Two thumbs up this is great info

[@NDiaz-et6hc]

Great content Mark! And hey Congrats on your book :) To answer your question I want someone who steps up, no games, no yo-yo's. In the past, I had noticed at work how my bosses boss had me on his mind...he exhibited most of the behaviours you talk about. But As much as that was a huge boost to my ego, I was not going there (well, I allowed myself free reign, only in the day dreaming department ). Btw dude as you were speaking I remembered the Aussie movie( that I absolutely love) "Danny Deckchair". I want a relationship like Danny & Glenda have ( aka Rhys Ifans & Miranda Otto). Cheers dude, from Canada

[@jray5526]

Love ya mark😍especially in the flamingo shirt 😂. But i think you're right if you set boundaries...men understand..but make sure you stick to them to ladies!

[@Markrosenfeld]

Absolutely, Jasmine ray! Set boundaries and stick to them. ☝ Thanks for the compliment!

[@mollyminky76]

I flipping love you say “Fuck tard” and “stupid shit”. So “raw and real” as the man who does this to me claims to want! 😜😊👍🏼😂

[@ikeepgettingbetter]

Damn....that shirt looks like its gonna bust open.....too fine 😍 Great video though .....that shirt

[@opheliadaza]

He looks good. I feel he has been doing more chest press and bicep curls. He looks different in this video.

[@fortevond]

First time I saw Mark, i had huge crush on him, even until now, HAHAHAHA Mark makes me want to go visit Australia again! 😍😂😁

[@MySweetAriane]

Lol

[@OkJess0404]

🤣🤣 #4 Impersonation is fantastic!

[@spiceupyourbeauty]

I feel like guys (or girls) watch her or his IG stories and it could be that he’s thinking about you OR he is just doing that to everyone. I’ll just never know .. I am not good at telling just nice guys and someone who’s actually into me 😬 (some guys are just really nice! Without having any feelings)

[@teacher000mohammed7]

Great, almost all the signs are there, but you are right; this is not what I want.

[@louannbristol8708]

Mark that shirt!! Were you saying something during this video?

[@Markrosenfeld]

Hey you LouAnn Bristol! 😂 Thanks for watching and writing in!

[@WonderWoman1984-uy5yn]

The things I have experienced: Consistent unprompted sober messages about nothing in particular, being invited to lots of things, some of which are only me and him, any physical contact whatsoever, a poke in the ribs for no reason or hitting me over the head with a leaflet, pushing me playfully when we are laughing about something, asking questions that get you to reveal more about yourself, constantly poking fun at me, and always always notices and wants to know what I am laughing about if he sees me giggling (Has been known for him to ask even when its hours later).

[@Markrosenfeld]

That's cute :)

[@fortevond]

Hi Mark!! I lovee your shirt, it looks good on you! Keep up with your amazing videos, i needed this. Lots of love from the Philippines! 💓🇵🇭

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks for the sweet comment, J O! Made my day! 😊

[@maryamzizi13]

Love your content Mark😊😊

[@bunkertons]

It's funny, I can apply all of this to a friend of mine. We're just friends but it's nice to think my friend is thinking of me. 😊

[@Markrosenfeld]

Awww thanks for sharing, Steph! 🙏

[@nazaninebrahimi8879]

A man from down under! Ausie Ausie Ausie👍💕

[@jailinecornejo3629]

You’re smart. Everything you said makes sense.

[@amomslife4560]

What is with all the ridiculously handsome relationship coaches on KZbin? There is him and two other guys both named Mat and Matthew that I could watch all day. Only they aren’t giving me advice on how to stop loving them ❤😂

[@Angelxbaby88]

If he truly likes me, then why doesn't he call or text at ALL? If he does watch my stories, I wouldn't know because his settings are all private

[@yukilovato6690]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Well-balanced! Not many people talk about the dark side of those signs. Refreshing for that stuff to be acknowledged! I would like to know more about how to set that boundary in a classy, memorable way. Not too hostile or accusatory.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Aww thanks again, Yuki! Have you seen these kzbin.info/www/bejne/npyzYaJ4eaimY7c and kzbin.info/www/bejne/laWxaJuig6aIeNU Hope these answer your question.

[@crystalv6122]

I don’t agree with the story viewing on IG. I don’t want them. I just get bored sometimes 😂😂. Now I wonder if they think that?

[@ballysappal262]

I wish I’d seen this video before! So true!

[@Markrosenfeld]

🙏🙏

[@cherylvictor7759]

Just came across this video. My boyfriend and I yo-yo but never really break-up. A lot of outside sources put pressure on him (controlling jealous mother being the most impacting) to be free and independent. So he pushes me away a bit but never fully leaves. He'd do anything for me and I know he loves me, I can see and feel it in the way he looks at me and cares for me. But it feels like he's trying to "keep" me at times. He doesn't want anyone else to get a chance with me, he knows that I'm what he wants for his future, but al the other pressures have him overwhelmed that he feels he can't give me it all. All of him completely. It sucks and I'm left feeling hurt a lot. Some of that is on me and my past with my ex-husband - the super douche. I often want to give up but I just can't. I know he does sometimes too but he can't either. We love each other. So we're left with the constant up and down bullshit.

[@mmommo10]

sorry sounds like a 2-year old. Why can't he commit? Not mature enough? In the end, is it Christian virtues we want or need? it's a contract....sorry, just feel that's all on him not being man enough....

[@barbaramay3539]

Your biceps are literally popping out of that shirt! 😃 new subscriber here!

[@Markrosenfeld]

Hahaha Thanks, Barbara! Great to have you on here. Hope you got something from the video. 😊

[@barbaramay3539]

@@Markrosenfeld yes of course. Your videos are always interesting.

[@tropicalgoddess3851]

Dang,..that shirt looks like it's about to fall off you at the seams...🤣🤣🤣 No complaints here...

[@Markrosenfeld]

😅😅

[@Angvt1]

Yeah, I have a guy that does that...we were together for 4 years before it went sideway, and every year the last 3 years (that we haven't been together) - he ghosts me, doesn't talk for about 8+ months, then writes some strange text to start talking to me. His best friend told me 3 weeks ago that I was the only woman he ever wanted to marry...go figure.

[@Imakeawesomeeditsforreal]

How'd that work out for you?😂

[@dianne6871]

Hi Mark, I'm currently online dating while in lockdown in Melbourne. This guy I'm chatting with is simply lovely. We've known each other a few months now, but are yet to meet in person. We are friends on social media and he shows interest in me, in every way. He's a rare kind of guy that seems genuinely interested in what I'm doing, how my day was and did I sleep well last night 😊. I really hope this goes somewhere, coz it feels really good right now. Our communication is awesome, without being too much. Lovely lovely man. 😊

[@lauriverz]

Omg I’m on the same boat as you on this. Met him on fb and he has been super respectful ad. Txts good morning txt everyday. Only problem is..he has soo many girls on his insta and likes their pictures all the time and I’m just not sure anymore if I am even the only girl he is talking to 😭

[@dianne6871]

@@lauriverz hmm... That would certainly make me think twice. The guy I'm chatting with is a loveable dork, so he's not talking with other girls and I'm not talking with other guys. So there's no second guessing, it's quite refreshing. Having said that, I'd give your guy benefit of the doubt until..... 🤷

[@carolynbowman2099]

Great advice. Kind of already knew what I should do with the in and out behavior. I’m just having a very hard time doing it. Advice? Book that would help? Know it’s a codependency type situation. I’m 62 and show know better. Haven’t dated much at all, 30 years divorced and too busy raising kids and helping with grandkids. I now want a person that’s right for me. Thanks.

[@annapuczyowska8772]

Great video as usual!

[@veeneemaas]

🤣🤣🤣sending stupid shits... gosh, bit done with that.

[@bluffyd9911]

So I would like some advice. I met someone, he’s great, so nice, very affectionate, I enjoy be around him, but it’s been a few months. He officially asked me to be his gf. He’s been single for a few years prior. Anyway, the relationship has been progressing, but something happened. He came over and we made dinner together and it was sweet, cute, had a few drinks. And my sister was over, she was talking about her lack of romance in her life, and I left the room to go use a rest room and he told her in private if he “saw her on a dating app, he would’ve swiped right. But don’t tell that to your sister.” My sister told me the next day and said that was a little weird and thought it’s something I should know. I thought and prayed, and thought, “he told her to keep it a secret, which he was 100% aware it was an inappropriate comment to make. And if he still proceeded to say that, to someone close to me, is that how he talks to other women?” I’m analyzing the facts, and drawing out the conclusion that he said something with the intention to be nice and sweet but he crossed a line by the way he carried himself. He’s a very affectionate person, but he’s very clever, so It’s pretty clear that he knows what is and isn’t appropriate. Anyway, we made plans a day or two later prior to knowing this information. And I just didn’t text as much but asked him if he’s still available on the weekend. Then I came over, he noticed I seemed off, he didn’t know I came to end the relationship. I was upset that it had to happen. I don’t trust him and it’s not fair to neither of us. I told him we should talk, I told him my concerns and how it was disrespectful, and he lost my trust a bit. And we talked and he apologized and took responsibility. I was really impressed how mature he was. He said he wants to be with me, and he would like another opportunity to have another conversation. And my decision from breaking up went to, I want some space because I don’t know what the solution to this. He hugged me, walked me out. And I haven’t seen him in two days. I just need a second opinion. Everything was so great up until that point. Do I wait until I hear from him. Am I obligated to reach out to him again? Or what is the correct response to this?

[@bluffyd9911]

This situation sucks because I want to continue the relationship, he’s ambitious, driven, smart, adventurous, and we imaginative. We did not say the “love” word. We’ve only dated 3 months. And my sister was talking abt her bumble for 45 min, wondering if her profile was good enough for matches. And she recently got her heart crushed. I think breaking up was fair to the fact that it crossed a line. BUT I can’t help to think that he just misspoke and made a mistake he’s willing to fix. He said that if I let him, he would apologize to her and my family because that wasn’t his intention. How can I proceed to be in a relationship with him and still have my self respect intact and prevent something like this again?

[@nyashagwaze1454]

This has really helped me was in a dilemma ,Thank you Mark

[@Markrosenfeld]

Really glad the video helped, Nyasha! This is what this channel is about. Thanks so much! 😊

[@timefliesaway999]

What if you don’t have his social media and only talk through email (but see each other 3 times a week)?

[@HanneNP]

1 like❤️💜 thanks for this informative video it's great. Love your videos and enjoy following you, keep up the good work😉 Have a nice day♥️

[@Markrosenfeld]

Aww thanks so much, Hanne Persøy! Glad you're loving the videos. Hope you get heaps from them! 😊

[@JeanReeder-c2r]

I am listening because I find it helpful and interesting.In other words a positive knowledge gain

[@LoveDianeBE]

I needed this. Thank you! 🙏🏻

[@Markrosenfeld]

Happy to help, Diane Lopez. Thanks for watching!

[@sarahebeid4834]

Haven't been so early in a while♥️♥️♥️

[@mariageorghiades9420]

Mark. My ex keeps coming back every few months. I’ve allowed him to sleep with me only to be ignored the day after, which is deeply hurtful, considering the time’s we shared together and how much I invested. The last time I made it clear he wasn’t going to sleep with me. There was minimum investment again so I’ve let him go. He’s since made no effort to come back

[@monicagaylord6914]

Gah, so frustrating! Yes, he is doing this. But the yo-yoing keeps me invested, while he is not stepping up. It’s exhausting. So I think this is when I just walk the f*** away! Thanks Mark!

[@yeshterday1025]

I’m ready to walk away if he doesn’t want to step up 🙂

[@jennifermckinley7720]

What if he gets jealous of other men, liking me? What does that mean?

[@helenacorreia7613]

4:09 Oh my god... Thank you for this one. Eye opener Yet he's the one in and out...

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thank you, Helena! Glad the video helped! x

[@cindyrobertson8120]

SO needed to hear this tonight! Thank you! And I will walk the fuck away! A good guy is waiting for me and I need to stick with him.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Absolutely, Cindy Robertson! Just be patient, you'll get there! 😉 Thanks for sharing!

[@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau]

4:22 Lol, this is enduring the whole pandemic, till we can meet up. xD

[@carriepeyton22]

Then he's also putting lots of hearts on our conversation and saying he likes this or that always saying he is with his family

[@cindy-loudale1562]

Love the flamingo shirt, Mark. Everyone should aspire to be a flamingo...

[@gwynethpughe4859]

Awesome .. Your so great why aren't people all like you

[@shreyasarekh1867]

Mark you are just unbeatable....👌

[@Markrosenfeld]

That's really lovely of you to say, Shreya. Thank you! 🙏

[@shreyasarekh1867]

@@Markrosenfeld you welcome ☺️