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@tracisyhong4 жыл бұрын
The best way to get a man interested in you is to not care if he is interested in you or not. Lol. The less you care, the more they want you to care
@tishaw.82544 жыл бұрын
Girl. Exactly.
@NyNativeTv4 жыл бұрын
I've just learned this. And it's working right now in my life!
@eramnadeem15734 жыл бұрын
True that
@inferno30804 жыл бұрын
No wrong the less you care the more I don't care. 2 can play that game.
@alyssanering74544 жыл бұрын
Cameron Vogt That’s why girls are always pining after the guys and not the other way around because she shows emotion and he shows none whatsoever which makes her want him more. If he knows she’s always an option, he’s never gonna want her. But good for you, if you don’t care, awesome. She’ll find someone that does🥰
@gimusaobwongo72314 жыл бұрын
Ladies you can't attract an emotionally unavailable immature jerk man. Period...
@cathybaldry78224 жыл бұрын
Yes you can for just a good time you can find plenty of them
@oliviavasilissa68564 жыл бұрын
Yes girls can attack an emotionally man but the problem is immature and has own beliefs because of his religion and tradition.
@cherish.o.m44534 жыл бұрын
Just ignore them.
@ladennayoung29394 жыл бұрын
I mean you have to pay attention to signs. You have to pay attention to who a person is, and be willing to walk away if need be.
@gimusaobwongo72314 жыл бұрын
@@ladennayoung2939 yes, all the signs of an emotionally unavailable man. Run, Run, and Run..
@thetruepuresoul4 жыл бұрын
“Do not be too sexy” some of us just can’t help it sheesh 😂😆
@playfulvisionary72554 жыл бұрын
Lee oof
@christabelle37584 жыл бұрын
😂😁😆😁😁👍🏻👍🏻
@williampalmer98284 жыл бұрын
Enjoy life. Entertain what entertains you. 😉 For some you are too much, for others may not be enough. What is meant for you will find itself to you. 👑
@coconut36564 жыл бұрын
Lol!
@MegaLadylove20124 жыл бұрын
thetruepuresoul 🤣
@Beautytrends773 жыл бұрын
This guy is right, getting physical too soon is not going to get a guy to fall in love with you. I just met a guy and he says he wants to take things slow. We even slept in the same bed with no sex. Getting to know him outside of sex allows you to build a bond without lust. I don’t know where it’s going to go but I do know that if anything we will be friends because he actually out of all the guys I was with didn’t try to get in my pants right away!! It’s called respect.
@NoNakersAllowed3 жыл бұрын
Yea he probably has a chick he's having sex with, that's why he can take things slow with you. I was that chick to a guy for years 😢 never again
@Beautytrends773 жыл бұрын
@@NoNakersAllowed nah there isn’t another chick, I know that for a fact. Me and him didn’t work out but I’m ok with it, he had a dick issue not another chick.
@fancylyrics.3 жыл бұрын
@@NoNakersAllowed ohh sorry to hear that 🥺 How did you know that there's other woman and he's only using you for sex..??..
@robynalvin63193 жыл бұрын
Wise woman. This love coach dispenses a lot of great wisdom. I love reading the comments because so many girls, and I call them girls on purpose, are so immature, they learn nothing yet have so much to say.
@NoNakersAllowed3 жыл бұрын
@@fancylyrics. he said he didn't want to be in a relationship but then months later he was in a relationship with someone else.
@kendrajai4 жыл бұрын
A good way to have a man emotionally attracted to you is to know how to feel your feelings and just BE, instead of always DOING.... Just being puts you in your femininity... Doing is more masculine. Just be you & things will happen from there. *BTW... most men open up to a woman he feels safe and secure with/around . Speak from the heart, be your true authentic self 👌🏾
@zm7284 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@10fingersmusic234 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@marciaspillers68624 жыл бұрын
Definitely! You should make a video too!
@vanilladaisy36434 жыл бұрын
yes true
@kendrajai4 жыл бұрын
@Phoenix Bird Once you've learned to balance the two, you've mastered it ✨.... ☯️
@heyu12310 ай бұрын
"Why would a great and passionate relationship ever come as a free gift, no effort required?" that's so profound!
@bl15062 жыл бұрын
Remember this ladies-when a man ignores you and ghosts you, his interest level for was low or nonexistent so it meant nothing to him to lose you. If a man thinks you are so worthless that he will let you go that easily, don’t waste your tears.
@KayCee456179 ай бұрын
Yes!! So well put. Thank you!
@heavenawaits80104 жыл бұрын
I'm soo over trying to protect a mans ego. Too many men are very fragile, and one wrong word can feel like you're walking on eggshells when you're around them. I grew up with 3 brothers, grow a pair dudes!
@flipsidetruly16694 жыл бұрын
So so so true
@lovelynjimmy83414 жыл бұрын
Totally True
@rm54924 жыл бұрын
Preach
@karencahill35524 жыл бұрын
No real men out there anymore all wimps ......
@avapetrunic94734 жыл бұрын
I grew up with three brothers too 😂, but i don’t care about their ego though
@1Skorpia3 жыл бұрын
I had a guy become emotionally attracted to me and i knew he already wanted me physically. The problem is - he wanted to be friends with benefits. When it dawned on me he wanted to use me FOR THAT and didn't want any kind of serious relationship as much as it hurt me I cut him off. So be careful not to be some guys crutch! You will waste your time thinking he will make a move and ask you out- if he doesn't RUN!! Gaurd your heart.
@zazuzazz54193 жыл бұрын
Oh yes... Even mild-mannered nice guys will try this one on. The emotional connection can be sweet. And it’s real. But if he doesn’t intend to reciprocate the affection and support you offer him - it’s a no go. Confront him. And yes, I agree, Skorpia g... Guard your heart.
@taniatoor45232 жыл бұрын
True
@sofiehoflack27062 жыл бұрын
Love yo walk n talk🌸🚶♀️
@mirimercy9752 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯
@joaanyu1479 Жыл бұрын
Thats bad of him. He was not emotionally attracted . He was sexually attracted.
@gigilamoore26564 жыл бұрын
Just be yourself. I met a great guy in December 2019. From the moment we met, it just clicked. There has not been a day that we have not talked on the phone and we regularly text. We sleep over 4 nights a week. 2 at my house, 2 at his house. It just works. I have been able to tell this man about my hair pulling issue, he regularly sees a part of my body that I am uncomfortable with due to a past surgery and he accepts me. I think it is because I accept me. Before Covid, we regularly went out on dates and even now, we do hiking and home movie dates and either pick up food or cook for each other. There is nothing to do other than set your standards and be yourself. The right person will gravitate towards that and you don't have to play games to make it so.
@chinese4abc4 жыл бұрын
You are very lucky to find the right man! Happy for you!
@blessingsbest68384 жыл бұрын
Gigi La Moore I agree!
@ummehanighulamrasool60504 жыл бұрын
Gagi I agree with you
@navimarlow4 жыл бұрын
Congrats! Wish you both the best 🙏🏽
@Di_Senorita3 жыл бұрын
Wish my story can be this simple.
@helentew63932 жыл бұрын
The man I have recently met told me that he has waited for me for a year and a half. He said it was well with the wait. He is a very caring man. We both have boundaries that we keep to and have respect for. I built walls to protect myself but when we are together I feel so comfortable around him. The walls just melted away. I never thought it would happen because of my age. I'm a young minded 63 year old and he is 53 I've never been so happy.
@ensabadjie29122 жыл бұрын
At 63 you're calling yourself young. Only an old man will want an affair with you
@helentew63932 жыл бұрын
@@ensabadjie2912 I call myself young at heart and mind.Thank you for taking the time to make a comment even though it's not a very nice one.
@helentew63932 жыл бұрын
@@ensabadjie2912 63 isn't that old it's your perspective to age and the mind, it's a little off balance, I wish you joy in your life, love and light to you
@lizp54492 жыл бұрын
I can't tell you how happy I am for the both of you!
@Jouneythroughthislife Жыл бұрын
Happy for you
@ashassassin4 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure why I'm here. men get emotionally attached fast, they're really not use to being listened to or getting emotional support. so when it's offered, they automatically assume it is romantic. I hope men can start making Their own support systems soon.
@Twinkie9894 жыл бұрын
I’ve also experienced this. I’m one of the guys until they announce we are soulmates. Just no.
@jenna_maria3 жыл бұрын
This happens alllll the time, I hope one day these guys will realize that times have changed and they now can talk about emotions with their guy pals too... female friends aren’t free therapists
@jackofferman37623 жыл бұрын
@@jenna_maria Thats what i keep telling those single moms at work, im not their therapist.
@teganmarie27243 жыл бұрын
THIS !!! i just want a guy friend but they all catch feelings or think i'm romantically interested if i so much as try to get to know them as people.. ugh
@1Skorpia3 жыл бұрын
That's the problem- I just got rid if a guy who wanted to be friends with benefits!! I was a crutch! He wanted to use me for sex and be a therapist. Don't fall for it ladies!!
@anonymouswoman20604 жыл бұрын
I am a married woman but I still love to watch these videos. 💕
@marthaoctavia64934 жыл бұрын
I'm in a relationship too and I like to still learn this kind of things. Meaning we're open to learn 🤗
@kewalpatil4 жыл бұрын
I'm a guy and I still love to watch these video 😝
@nadakhairy4 жыл бұрын
I am also Married still need to learn this videos
@lilavslola3 жыл бұрын
Deep down you want to find signs of validation that your significant other is emotionally attracted to you🤷🏽♀️
@jnfqt3 жыл бұрын
thats why your still married ☺️
@ammary44564 жыл бұрын
Emotional attraction can only achieve by being true to your feelings and if the feelings are reciprocate in the same vibe .
@SaturatedInLove3 жыл бұрын
💖
@MiniStarTheater2 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@Ashtarot774 ай бұрын
Met my last bf online and I was the one who suggested we meet up after two weeks of texting and calls. They tend to refer to this as being in your masculine energy these days, which I don't see anything wrong with, especially if the guy is shy. Well then you shouldn't be chasing someone with no confidence. I will chase who I damn well please. Confidence comes over time for some people. Not everyone is born an extrovert. And because of this, many women miss out on getting to know a great guy.
@smack75892 жыл бұрын
Be unapologetically yourself! Be clear about what you want! Be a lady about it! I agree, except in my current experience I hooked up with him on the first day and stayed over 😄 I was being unapologetically myself because I initiated. We’re both sexual people so there’s no taboo there for us. A year later, we’re still having an amazing relationship, there’s loyalty, trust and respect because of honesty and transparency 💖 show him who you really are, and if he truly wants it, he’ll make himself a part of your life
@gabrielaburcea57343 жыл бұрын
The only guys who ever really loved me just loved me the way i am without me making any effort to make them like me. I always spoke my mind with them, never teased or flirted, dressed in comfy clothes, looking and being very natural as i always am. You only have to put in the effort when the guy can't and will never love you. And for what?! They're not worth it!
@andressavefo2 жыл бұрын
THIS!!!!!!!! Your comment is perfect. Seriously, this video is bullsh*t. I feel bad for all the women who keep trying so hard... The best relationships are the easy and simple ones. If it takes away your energy, it's definitely not worth it. Period.
@sanskritibarman49282 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate
@sujithapriyask45512 жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head !
@alinavasile10362 жыл бұрын
@Gabriela Brucea
@alinavasile10362 жыл бұрын
So true
@gabrielamartinyuk98943 жыл бұрын
Being physically attractive is just as important as being emotionally attractive , although, emotional attractiveness is a necessity for a long lasting relationship to even exist. Being tidy , being clean and having good higeine are crucial . Both work together. Emotional attraction is long lasting and grows more and more. Physical attraction does dissipate , that’s why being emotionally attractive is key alongside to the physical.
@celissewillis93994 жыл бұрын
I opened up to a special guy I’ve known for 4 years & he messaged me & said that he respected me for pouring out my feelings. So yes, vulnerability works. If it pushes people away, let it. But being true to yourSelf only benefits you, as well as anyone involved & people will respect you for it.
@terrylasin3709 Жыл бұрын
Like your spirit Are you a beach person or a mountain person ?
@kedzie8 Жыл бұрын
"Vulnerability works. If it pushes people away, let it" Very wise words! I wish I had known this in my 20s.
@smileagain4333 Жыл бұрын
@@terrylasin3709 what is this?
@uqjoon3 жыл бұрын
I like how Brian stressed the importance for us women to just be ourselves for the right person, and not just to attract any men
@jessicacakuls31894 жыл бұрын
So the take away here is, if you’re only concerned about being unapologetically you and literally do not GAF about being “liked”, you’ll end up capturing hearts and minds. But if you go seeking being liked, you’ll fail. 😎👌✨ Thank you for your videos and for caring enough about women to educate them on your gender.
@nataliatothemoon4 жыл бұрын
Jessica Cakuls periodt
@leannecurtis15822 жыл бұрын
Pretty much ☺️
@ciggytwiggy Жыл бұрын
Truee
@Bel-gu7yg Жыл бұрын
This is so true though. I have this attitude after high-school where I literally DGAF what others think of me anymore cause its way too tiring to please people. Then, as I started losing people, I wasn't even offended in the slightest nor hurt. The best way to know your kind is by being YOU all the time. Who would catch bullets for you will always remaaaaaain💕 28 this year and these people who stayed with me always empower me lol
@LW-wg4ny Жыл бұрын
I was looking for the reason my 3 month relationship ended and here it is! There was incredible chemistry with the man I was with, but very little emotional intimacy. I thought since he was so attracted to me that the rest would follow but it never did, now I know why. Wish I knew to slow things down physically and give the emotional a chance to develop. Another lesson learned the hard way!
@Laura-Yu Жыл бұрын
Funny how I’m in a similar boat with breaking off a 3 month relationship but I did keep a distance on being physically intimate. No sex, just kisses and cuddles. Dude was more interested in my virginity than anything else, which is extremely off putting.
@gen93414 жыл бұрын
When you meet a perfect right man for you, everything flows naturally. Us, women, will be as ourselves and true to our selves and the right man just accept you , include your weaknesses and your strengths. The right man will love your weaknesses and make your strengths even stronger. That is a True Man’s Love. Been there, but unfortunately, the nature has Taken Him Away. Blessed His Soul and May He Rest In Peace. I believe there is only one True love experience in this lifetime... I am not being close hearted, Coming from an experience of Being Loved Dearly, it is not Easy To Forget. So, whoever has it experiencing it now, Make the Best of it. Be grateful for the Love and Gifts of Being Love and In return Love Back to the person. Peace ✌️! So, women, We just have to ourselves and enhance to be Better and Be progressive, But Don't Pretend to be someone who you are not!
@blessingsbest68384 жыл бұрын
Gen very true x
@Sindi630843 жыл бұрын
Out of 8 billion people how do you meet that perfect one for you? I don't believe that can happen but work with what you get
@dee2022uk Жыл бұрын
❤
@sandratjazerua55838 ай бұрын
Thanks much. My new relationship seems to be flowing naturally, less effort. Everything so peaceful and perfect. I'm grateful🙏
@Hawelufamily4 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, some affairs start from emotional attraction. It’s a real thing. And it leads to physical cheating. This is not to be discounted.
@Not-Ap4 жыл бұрын
Right on! Emotional cheating is just as bad physical cheating because either way it's violation of trust and respect.
@darlenemcnealy63064 жыл бұрын
It is...and does. 😒
@danielleevers20214 жыл бұрын
I’m pretty sure he’s talking to the women who are looking for a man. If you’re taking his advice to look for another man, when you already have one, that’s on you not him.
@michaelao96723 жыл бұрын
My problem right now 🙄
@hulkgreen67863 жыл бұрын
You sound like a victim
@crzellmer3 жыл бұрын
The title of this video is super misleading. I don't need advice on how to get him emotionally attracted to me. I want to know the signs that he's emotionally attracted...
@giftedvoices5333 жыл бұрын
Skip to 8:00
@Fair3313 жыл бұрын
Emotionally attracted when he wants to know everything about you, what your likes/dislikes are, what drives you, how passionate you are about something(maybe his personal favourite things like football or skating or shoes or so) , what values you have, also when he remembers small details about you what you said what you did and so on. Basically he is serious he is taking notes how you will be as a future wife for his children. Also anotger note men who are looking for serious relationship don't like women who are too sexy or have many suiters. It's more like with toffies. If they are in a good wrapper and it fells on the ground, you'll pick it up and eat it but if it is unwrapped and fells on the ground you might pick it up and throw it away but you wouldn't eat it. You can think of the wrapper as clothes that are not too revealing. Then they can explore the personality first like 50% white chocolate 50% dark or so. I hope you get my point.
@amadeodgiorgio23 жыл бұрын
3:14 you're welcome
@thecourageousorange3 жыл бұрын
maybe watch the whole video before commenting. or maybe pay more attention to the video. then your comment doesn't stand
@SonyaKhanOfficial3 жыл бұрын
@@giftedvoices533 Thank you!!!
@duenadil14714 жыл бұрын
Verbatim 6:55 "a huge part of the self esteem comes from accepting ours flaws, ours imperfections and be unapologetic about that" and also "Self esteem creates emotional attraction " wow ! What an awakeness for me ! Thanks 🙏 🌈❤
@SaturatedInLove3 жыл бұрын
💓
@Cecilia-zx8ok2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. It is the emotional attraction. Physical looks diminishes but emotional attraction has value and respect. It is a nice feeling when the person loves and cares for you for being who you are
@terrylasin3709 Жыл бұрын
I love your spirit, Are you a beach person or a mountain person ?
@Cecilia-zx8ok Жыл бұрын
@@terrylasin3709 beach with greenery and beautiful mountain view☺️
@terrylasin3709 Жыл бұрын
@@Cecilia-zx8ok Same here. I am currently residing close to the beach and the sunset and sunrise view is eccentric
@terrylasin3709 Жыл бұрын
@@Cecilia-zx8ok If given the opportunity, where would be your destination for vacation?
@moondragon37533 жыл бұрын
I met my current bf on tinder and we met in person at 1am at my apartment. I wore my pj pants with a baggy tshirt and semi brushed hair. We talked till 5am in the morning. We've been together for 3 years
@starr6132 жыл бұрын
Uh what. That sounds like the most unsafe terrifying shit ever lolol congrats ur alive
@liveandletlive93332 жыл бұрын
Is this something you are proud of? Posting on here?
@animavestra64602 жыл бұрын
Awww
@ange1lic Жыл бұрын
are u guys still together
@yukik79493 жыл бұрын
I think I've just realised my problem, I'm just too sexy for men xD
@lucyparsonage69073 жыл бұрын
ha
@Highpriestess_8883 жыл бұрын
Twinzz
@susanparkes50963 жыл бұрын
I have the same curse
@preetinderkaur90922 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 great 👍🏻
@vvivianw4 жыл бұрын
Man just so complicate. Can i just go supermarket and buy one?
@rhsb5533 жыл бұрын
YES! Or, we could shop for one on Amazon, including Filter & Sort, for personalization/customization.
@vvivianw3 жыл бұрын
@@rhsb553 hahahha, send me link 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@mannmoon24653 жыл бұрын
Yeah it's called tinder
@vvivianw3 жыл бұрын
@@mannmoon2465 hahha , Tinder is the "Supermarket"
@mannmoon24653 жыл бұрын
@@vvivianw correct.
@TrangTrang-lu1wu3 жыл бұрын
It is much more realistic to become ourselves, BE YOU. Because I think we all want a person who accepts us, says YES with our true beauty, emotionally loves us, not kind of 'DOING THINGS' to make him emotionally attracted. In all, it is not necessary to create chemistry with our true person as we all have, in a natural way, special emotion with the one we truly love
@terrylasin3709 Жыл бұрын
I think am just gonna let you know how I feel . Are you a beach person or a mountain person ?
@CourtneyLICI0US3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been hearing a lot recently that the man has to love the woman more than she does. I thought it should be equal but I’m beginning to think it’s true. Seem to see those relationships working more
@MegDD39123 жыл бұрын
I've been thinking the same thing
@Iden_Elihio_19993 жыл бұрын
How so?
@reginawoess49283 жыл бұрын
I agree that would help if he loves u more than you do him
@Iden_Elihio_19993 жыл бұрын
@@reginawoess4928 How ?
@reginawoess49283 жыл бұрын
If they feel that they love you more than you do them then they will really be trying to show you they love you and in away you are a challenge to them which they like
@Nadi.Khanum3 жыл бұрын
I was emotionally and physically attracted to him and he made me friend and said that I will always be a friend for him ☹ I stopped trying to creating the spark in the relationship
@kimhandley15232 жыл бұрын
When I'm solo, I'm so confident and I don't really care about looks. As soon as I'm with somebody romantically, I have these huge ups and downs with regards to self esteem. It is usually associated with my menstrual cycle, for example: the time running up to and during ovulation, I'm absolutely confident, glowing and attractive. Two weeks before my period (whereas if I was single, I wouldn't care about what I look like too much) I feel so ugly and my self esteem and confidence plummets. It is so uncomfortable as I shut down and I literally become so weird. Low self esteem is shit! I know that it is confidence that is attractive mostly in a person. I despise having low self esteem. I see it as weak, ugly and a turn off and so maybe that is why I hate myself when it comes along. I had these thoughts, that when the guy that I was previously dating was looking at me, he was looking at how ugly I am etc. This was all fear based and self destruction from low self esteem. I'd like to know how to fix it.
@Emiljane2 жыл бұрын
Read the book ‘Women who love too much’ , might help …
@YouCantHandleDisz Жыл бұрын
WOOWWWWW YOU DESCRIBED MEEEEE😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 GIRL I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE I WONDER WHAT THE BIOLOGICAL MEANING IS BEHIND US FEELING THIS WAY JUST BEFORE OUR PERIODS?????
@kimhandley1523 Жыл бұрын
@@YouCantHandleDisz vile isn't it x
@xodancerxo Жыл бұрын
Same here!!!
@promiserigsby32122 жыл бұрын
He tells me straight up, he’s emotionally attacked to me. He tells me all the time that he wants to marry me. We pray together, attend church, we do it online due to him traveling for work. Your so on point.
@franklyscar79594 жыл бұрын
This is so true. You don’t realize it until it happens to you and you come across a man who is totally invested in you...not just your body.
@goodenoughgirl81023 жыл бұрын
FranklyScar Yes please. Lol. Thanks for that. It gives me hope. 😅😂
@gouthamnanda89303 жыл бұрын
I am totally fuckedup emotionally 😭😭😭, i can't able to leave her
@rachel14rod3 жыл бұрын
@@gouthamnanda8930 if you're being abused, please leave.abuse has long term effects.
@amirasafwat71014 жыл бұрын
You are the first channel about relationships that talks about wisdom and beyond all the logic stuff, I also like that you get into the point first and then introduce yourself later.
@raularmas3172 жыл бұрын
Actually I am an outlier. I prefer stability over novelty in my potential love interest. Newness or "the tingles" as I now like to call them usually last only 3-6 months, after which there continues to be interest or it stops. At which point I am stuck having to restart the relationship process all over again-- not a fun scenario anymore. I find an emotionally and mentally stable person far easier to deal/bargain with and their responses to differing situations much more predictable. This fosters a sense of inner calm and quiet trust within me. And that, I have found, is a far more comforting feeling long term than any amount of tingles or butterflies, nes pas?
@ng_rainbow4 жыл бұрын
Brian I'm very grateful to you for your video lessons for us. You're the best for me. You touch so complicated issues but explain them in so simple understandable way. And with a good sense of humor. I feel support from you and I feel sincerity from you (that you put your soul into this lectures). Thank you ♡
@a.b.28504 жыл бұрын
That might apply with younger man.. but with older man, more mature and aware that we're both adults, maybe less.. When I met, for the first time on our first date, my actual boyfriend (we're 1 year in), we connected through an app and the same evening he asked me out. So we met at a restaurant, had 1 drink, and then we went for a walk. We started kissing, and after a few minutes, I asked him if we could go to his place.. and we had sex. I didn't really care at that point if I would see him again (I'm 40, I'm passed fairytales.. if I want to sleep with someone, I do).. but he continued to text me the following days (and he ended up being super cute, very sweet and considerate so I ended up wanting to see him again.. maybe it was a one night thing after all!) , and later on I asked him what he had thought of me the first night, when I asked him to sleep with me on our first date.. he told me he didn't think much of it, but he appreciated that I didn't play games with him, that I knew what I wanted and wasn't scared of going for it, he appreciated that I like sex and that I believe sex is very important in a relationship.. and he was born and raised by very practicing muslim parents. 1 year later, we're still together, going strong, growing together, and we have an amazing and fulfilling sex life 😉😊 I think that by sleeping with him like I did (I did because I wanted to, and not for any other reason), the next morning, I wasn't expecting to hear from him and I was aware of that and was ok with it at that point.. so when I did, I knew he was talking to me because he was after something else, it wasn't just to bang me, he had already done it! He wanted to see me again because he was legitimately interested in ME. Today, he's my best friend, my partner, my lover, and the person I trust the most on earth ❤️
@aeiou0123 Жыл бұрын
I think it worked because you both had an emotional connection but you were also fine if you never heard from him again. You had no attachment to the sex. You just wanted To hv a good time
@travelfoodielove4 жыл бұрын
We miss you Brian! Your advice is all golden
@nickysmith58084 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brian! It helps to hear a man's perspective about signs of emotional attachment. Since we generally do not think of men as emotional as us, being attached may just get overlooked..
@lifeofrescues99284 жыл бұрын
My man is like this. Really on point. And I love him so much. He never stopped texting me and praising me when we are together. :) He respects me as I respect him
@lucyparsonage69073 жыл бұрын
Fantastic. Living end-game :)
@lifeofrescues99283 жыл бұрын
We celebrated our 1st pandemic year together today, 28th. :) We’re getting married ❤️
@lucyparsonage69073 жыл бұрын
@@lifeofrescues9928 V inspiring! Congratulations!!! :-) XX
@lifeofrescues99283 жыл бұрын
@@lucyparsonage6907 thank you very much!
@namespace52274 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Please upload more videos. Every video of yours has a key which enlighten situations. Your Amazing!
@marylynn2592 жыл бұрын
Loved this. Especially the part about self esteem and being who we are. Great, thank you!
@earth777life44 жыл бұрын
I am sooo glad I stumbled a cross your videos, you have no idea how much you have helped me heal... I am addicted to your videos.. Thank you🌞
@ivandracavalcanti97144 жыл бұрын
I just want to say that I really appreciate you and your videos . Thank you
@olgasaenz74303 жыл бұрын
I loved this video- my man does many of these emotional connections - I feel special.
@things_ilove4 жыл бұрын
Just be authentic, that's all
@ingridprendas2 жыл бұрын
Your voice is so beautiful, shows a calm soul.
@Rhiannon_Rose4 жыл бұрын
Your videos have a lot of value to me, Brian. Thank you for creating and sharing them. I so appreciate you!!
@nataliatothemoon4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video, the way you talk is so beautiful and eloquent and very smooth to process. Also you convey to show and not to force these values and principles that are so crucial to our daily lives and personal happiness.
@zaanboshoff70214 жыл бұрын
At night when I can’t sleep and really need to, I just listen to you, does the trick all the time. ❤️
@TFireWolf4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brian. Your heart felt wisdom is so refreshing.
@deec411Ай бұрын
i'm 60 and I chased emotionally unavailable men for years. I finally met a real man and I'm letting him do all the work. It's wonderful and he makes me feel very secure. Let him chase you until you catch him!!! ✨😉✨🤗✨
@auberjean6873 Жыл бұрын
My jaw is on the floor...everything you said is exactly what I've wanted to hear, and everything you are saying is correct. Thanks for the friendly reminder about keeping things interesting.
@duenadil14714 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brian ! Your ideas are so brillant and your humour so nice ! Please, let us have subtitles on KZbin, even if it's automatic. It's easyer to share your video ! 😉 Bisous from Paris 😘
@rrmehboob4 жыл бұрын
The moment I realised I lost the love of my life was when he stopped being emotionally attracted to me anymore. He stopped respecting and valuing me, and it know it’s just physical for him now. And he’s told me multiple times. Yes, these two (emotional/physical) are connected, so I’m not sure how much time we have left together anymore. I wished it was different.
@AimeeStClaire634 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry honey 😩
@lynninfinite4 жыл бұрын
Wow. He told you it’s just physical? I would leave now. If he doesn’t respect you, there’s no point.
@jasmineariatakiri13084 жыл бұрын
Try 30 day no contact
@sharinastar54564 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Ariata Kiri 👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾 yes!!! And just focus on getting in touch with your femininity
@NA_LE_DI3 жыл бұрын
I would have left immediately after he said it's just physical. Boy bye!
@omajewel62613 жыл бұрын
Try to let go if who you think you should be and be who you are... this set me free tonight 🔥
@niloofarjazayeri9724 жыл бұрын
I truly attracted to your mindset, thanks for sharing this video with us.
@lostsoul67603 жыл бұрын
This is so wholesome. Happy to know that emotional attraction is also important. 😊💜
@TheRichSolution4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this. He's just not into you.
@hjtres72613 жыл бұрын
I think the guy who's pursuing me right now is emotionally attracted to me.
@georgiaedwards36374 жыл бұрын
Your observation skill towards these attraction thing is good and your words of wisdom is on parr
@maracruz29433 жыл бұрын
Your voice is so relaxing. Thank you for all the talks! More power.
@svilenaninetta98384 жыл бұрын
Effort is a key word.
@domeniquedelafield1278 Жыл бұрын
Blessings Brian and everyone for 2023🎊🎊🙏🏼🙏🏼
@angelwhispers11113 жыл бұрын
I love this magic sparkle in the early steps of relationship!!! Thank you a lot😉♥️😚
@Hippyfishhikes3 жыл бұрын
Situational bonding is so very important in any partnership, relationship, friendship etc.
@bingbing25794 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this beautiful message 😍😍😍
@bettywinn8296 Жыл бұрын
You, Heath, are amazing. I have just been learning about physical attraction vs emotional attraction, the way men look at this.
@bachba10864 жыл бұрын
That was honestly very useful! Thanks.
@jaimeblakely38843 жыл бұрын
Yeah, you give real accessible advice. I'm scared of the coaches who are basically teaching manipulation techniques. I can relate to this, and it feels honest. Thanks!
@whiggygirl4 жыл бұрын
Excellent video! Thank you
@julittalight3 жыл бұрын
So freaking beautiful said!!😭😭😭😭
@zahramouad22522 жыл бұрын
Every time I listen to you you remind me why I think you're a genius in what you do, thank you sincerely
@ruthulrich3 жыл бұрын
You make an excellent point. The most important point, imho. That is the attraction that carried us through the last 10 years of a 34 year fabulous marriage, until he passed away. I hope I can find that type of attraction again. Rest in peace, Darling.
@divineserendipity11964 жыл бұрын
Gosh!! I love this guy😍
@michellemckinney46784 жыл бұрын
Great tips. Needed to hear this. Thank you
@deetran50854 жыл бұрын
Brian, you are amazing coach!
@rociodelafe99294 жыл бұрын
Ok, I’m tired of ppl saying “don’t be too sexy too soon” what does that even mean???? I can’t help the way I look lol
@astgoddess4 жыл бұрын
Right lol. I can wear a sweater and dress pants and low heeled boots. He is still attracted.
@fireeye334 жыл бұрын
Rocio De La Fe just be elegant and classy. That kind of sexy is not cheap
@tomlambert9154 жыл бұрын
you can Iook sexy and still take time to build a strong foundation. it is your choice to respect yourself.
@tomlambert9154 жыл бұрын
@@astgoddess nothing wrong with being attractive, take time to know the man's character. don't be in a hurry.
@MsHydrolove4 жыл бұрын
To be honest: Just be yourself :D The right person will see you for who you are :)
@byronsamuels69394 жыл бұрын
Wow good stand points on finding emotional attraction work. I have been trying these steps 4 years when i was interested in women. I wanted to get to know more about them besides becoming physical attractive toward time - not at the same time but as time goes along when the lady wasn't interested in me.' And some women were also undecidedive about what they want when i will be the kind of guy who wants to treat a lady how she should be treated( some treaching I'd learned from being raised in a single parent home)
@imeldadawang34334 жыл бұрын
You are so brilliant, keep up the good work, you're helping many people....
@aleksandradonat74772 жыл бұрын
I love you Brian! 💖💖💖 There is something about You that makes you easy to love you!
@shani198714 жыл бұрын
Im really glad i found ur video,u funny, explain very clear things i needed thanks🙏
@camillatruquesdebeleza70864 жыл бұрын
You produce amazing content. Thank you so much.
@SaturatedInLove3 жыл бұрын
💕
@ParisBrockington3 жыл бұрын
This advice is on POINT!! 🙌🏻👍🏼💯
@mousumichowdhury81353 жыл бұрын
The truth beautifully explained.....I loved it...Amazing!!
@historyisthebest58314 жыл бұрын
I definitely like the woman both emotionally and physically. I always miss her and worry about her when she's not in sight, and I wanted to get to know her more.
@SherrysReviewsandResearch4 жыл бұрын
Great advice. You should do a video on 10 date ideas.
@mieze3333 Жыл бұрын
Thank you from all of my heart because you help me learn what healthy boundaries, self-respect& respect and self-love& love are.
@EdaNavarra3 жыл бұрын
very well said. God bless you Brian!
@renemartz15203 жыл бұрын
Just started watching a few of your videos. I really like your advice and how you explain things. You seem very kind and genuine, which I appreciate. So I'm a subscriber now. Thank you for your contribution to helping women to understand men. Love these videos! ❤😊
@willow77392 жыл бұрын
This video terrifyingly gives me the urge to confess how I feel to the person I like when he spoke about insecurities and boundaries
@lizhuynhkenny4 жыл бұрын
Love love it ! Thank you 🕊
@isiuwaomorefe5842 жыл бұрын
So so true. I am so glad I listened to this video.
@michaellanassar56364 жыл бұрын
I love how you make your videos so interesting in a way that I can't help but watch it till the end. Thank you for your help !!
@likeabook66664 жыл бұрын
They way he talks makes it much more entertaining. It’s like he sings when he talks. He uses high and low tones and extends some of his speech. 3:10 hair looks like a duuhhh-ve (dove). 3:18 “ I want to get to know you-uuu’ and I want to kno-oooow” what you aa-are all abo-out. 😆
@margaretmassey99924 жыл бұрын
But i he was attentive than nothing..
@larryrubin51504 жыл бұрын
@@likeabook6666 ye... a..h.
@akc17393 жыл бұрын
I’ve never forgotten a man hitting on me who admitted to being in a relationship, but said when he’s with her, he’s with her 100% and she wants for nothing. That did a number on me in terms of how I saw men. Never fully trusted them after that, for this and other reasons. Wish I could get my naïveté back.
@lucyparsonage69073 жыл бұрын
shit
@rachel14rod3 жыл бұрын
What a creep he is.
@zazuzazz54193 жыл бұрын
Get into the state of mind where you celebrate your knowledge. Knowledge is power. Own it. Stay open-hearted. This person is a piece of sh*t human being. Be happy to shed this 💩
@jimmypatterson98542 жыл бұрын
Jesus I would never do that; that is disgusting. then again I am never in a relationship.
@Shasha86744 жыл бұрын
Awesome insights! Thank you!
@Amandagirl733 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I thoroughly enjoyed your tips & delivery. 🙏🏼