All adults should have domestic skills, not just married women.
@BalboaBaggins3 жыл бұрын
All adults should have accountability, not just men.
@gianmariarusso4133 жыл бұрын
@@BalboaBaggins What is that supposed to mean?
@joycegreer93913 жыл бұрын
@@BalboaBaggins All people do.
@robertquirijns3 жыл бұрын
??????????????????
@R-rr1 Жыл бұрын
@@BalboaBaggins pff Women have
@nikkichehrazi4 жыл бұрын
currently a bored Muslim girl watching this
@andtheywereroomates51004 жыл бұрын
AYE SAME🙌
@allasoran20014 жыл бұрын
Yo me too
@Rolando_Cueva4 жыл бұрын
I bet you agree with everything she says lol
@marah_334 жыл бұрын
@@Rolando_Cueva I am a muslim and no we don't :) stop hating Islam is equality!
@masaalkhudari4 жыл бұрын
Rolando Cueva | no our religion is about peace. Our goal in life isn’t to work for our husbands. Please educate yourself before you you comment something disrespectful. Have a wonderful day love ❤️
@asan55095 жыл бұрын
You can still be strong and independent and be selfless, I don't know how that line got blurred.
@adnanmasih2 жыл бұрын
Good
@nahambohilma8598 Жыл бұрын
Correct
@paulas74147 жыл бұрын
I just want to point out that being independent, doesn't necessarily meen that you are selfish and only focussed on yourself. It means being able to look after youself. That's not the same as being selffocussed
@afellowpotato Жыл бұрын
I'm just replying so you can see how much likes you got. How did no one reply for 5 years?
@nahambohilma8598 Жыл бұрын
@@afellowpotato 😅😅
@afellowpotato Жыл бұрын
🥔 🥔
@chososactualwife6 жыл бұрын
I agree with the part saying that your husband is NOT the main source of happiness/satisfaction. Yes, he is ONE of the reasons!! Not the only source
@luciuskaesar64092 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right! He has to contribute to your happiness, in many ways, and should be ONE of the main sources of your happiness, but nothing replaces God. I love Phil. 2, especially the first half describing Jesus selfless sacrifice, but my fav verse for relationships is Phil. 2: 3. I'm still single and I used it on my roommate, and he transformed from a very selfish self-centered person to being much more inclusive. Of course, all the time being prayerful as well.
@shrassassing51252 жыл бұрын
As a married woman, she’s wrong af
@R-rr1 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@aAureliusSsSS2 жыл бұрын
You're lucky there's no dislike button anymore.
@Mazarty10 ай бұрын
I wish it was still there
@dazunderscorer8 ай бұрын
return youtube dislikes back - it's an add-on that you can download install on basically any browser
@silviamagda7 жыл бұрын
Before I got married,years before, I was kinda obsessed with marriage, learning how to be a good wife and I listened to so many sermons and I read a lot of christian books. My happiness was based on the person that would be my husband. And I got married,I have the most loving husband, and now I understand that he's not the source of my happiness. I think that even cristian books can mess you up, because you expect your husband to be the perfect christian and if he's not, you start comparing him with what you read. It's really a tricky thing to do, so be careful.
@livwalker41007 жыл бұрын
silvia magda Thanks for the warning/advice.
@blessedbythebest10037 жыл бұрын
As a single woman I'm intrigued of you ladies saying the man you marry is not the "source of your happiness" wowwww....thanks for the heads up.
@TallyneSilva7 жыл бұрын
Yes, true!
@Ariana-sy7ci5 жыл бұрын
.-.
@Pringlebox2 жыл бұрын
@@blessedbythebest1003 no one no matter your gender should be the sole course of your happiness. It’s an internal thing not something you can get externally
@anna-tl4rk5 жыл бұрын
not gonna lie i was with her until she was like dOmEstIc skiLLz
@kiana9194 жыл бұрын
foreal🥂
@paigemitchell70664 жыл бұрын
Is it bad to have domestic skills? That's honestly something everyone should have!
@emmarose49624 жыл бұрын
Paige Mitchell no it’s great and a nice thing to have but you shouldn’t HAVE to do anything unless you want to
@hadley204 жыл бұрын
@@paigemitchell7066 yes but she’s acting like she’s her husbands slave
@Master-bejuder3 жыл бұрын
@@hadley20 how so being a house wife is a slave🤔
@ginaabajian79956 жыл бұрын
You fit in the middle east perfectly
@davidgoldstein31226 жыл бұрын
Even in Israel we have more advanced gender roles than this, and we're in the Middle of the Holy land.
@jasminewithf6 жыл бұрын
I'm from iran and believe me when i say She doesn't.
@AM-ev2pz6 жыл бұрын
lol as an Egyptian I agree with Jasmine she wouldn't at ALL
@lovevivian946 жыл бұрын
Christianity still exists in America, contrary to popular belief Gina
@oriana65005 жыл бұрын
nope. I'm Israeli, she does not belong here. she belongs to the 50s p.s., she's Christian, so maybe here in Israel she'll be safe, but in countries like Iran being Christian is a death wish.
@sophiegiourgas4 жыл бұрын
my husband will be doing 50/50 of house keeping. I want children, so it’ll be 50/50 taking care of them as well. He can work, but I’ll be working too. I’ll be a lawyer, and I won’t be some stay at home mom. If that’s right for you, to stay home and take care of the kids and house, then great. But for me, I’ll be a strong, independent, woman who loves her husband, kids, AND work. ✨
@salsabilaf.3724 жыл бұрын
Both working parents will only create unloved children when you both did it starting from when they're still so young. One got to stay at home.
@R-rr1 Жыл бұрын
@@salsabilaf.372 that's your opinion
@michaels621 Жыл бұрын
“God is the only source of lasting fulfillment” Girl has never had a pint of Ben and Jerry’s, a bottle of wine, or slept with her *husband*
@Gabby-du4mc7 жыл бұрын
Men need to help out with the household stuff too btw!!!!! Women work these days just like men!!!!! Its a team effort as u said. ;) oh and since when girls dream so hard on getting married?! Tell girls have bigger dream than marriage. Marriage YES but have career aspirations!
@toni55436 жыл бұрын
Gabrielle Angel-Valentine my ‘career’ aspirations are to be the best stay at home mum I can be ❤️
@lovevivian946 жыл бұрын
Just like not ALL woman have to dream of marriage, not ALL women have to dream of career aspirations. Some women want to be wives and mothers and there's nothing wrong with that. Take your own advice.
@toni55435 жыл бұрын
@Judihatemmoharram Judihatemmoharram of course I could have a daughter grow up to be a career woman.... I'm quite aware of the current year. Edit: i read that back and it reads quite sharp but I don't intend to come across as rude ❤️
@НатанаилСталев-ф2р3 жыл бұрын
@@toni5543 Lord bless you and your family! Much Respect and ❤️ in the SPIRIT!
@toni55433 жыл бұрын
@@НатанаилСталев-ф2р thank you! Hope you are well ❤️
@Damsel_in_This_Dress7 жыл бұрын
Pretty much every Christian book or source on marriage/relationships say that we shouldn't look to one person to fulfil us, that only God can fulfil us but...if you look at the creation story, the Garden of Eden. Everything was perfect. And yet God doesn't expect Adam's relationship with Himself to be sufficient, he sees that something is lacking, even though no sin had entered the world at that time and everything was beautiful and you would expect that everything, including man and God, to be in perfect unison. Surely if there was ever a time when a person didn't need anyone or anything other than God, it was in the Garden of Eden? And yet with just Adam, things weren't complete. I think that says a lot. I get that people fail and human relationships aren't perfect and that they let us down sometimes. I get that God fulfils us but I think He also created us for relationships, and acknowledging that is OK and shouldn't be frowned on. You could be living on a tropical island and living in deep dependence and communion with God, but if you were all alone, you would still be lonely.
@yourmorningbird6 жыл бұрын
sawyerlovesfreckles I agree.
@beans94996 жыл бұрын
GREAT POINT
@nakaayijoseline78685 жыл бұрын
Yes,but when the woman comes into place to fulfill his so called loneliness,look what happens.
@morgangreenlee20915 жыл бұрын
Love this!!
@azaleyalikedaflowr79754 жыл бұрын
Loved this! Perfect explanation!
@hotpriestess7 жыл бұрын
But unity doesn't have to mean to give up your independence but more make compromises in my opinion. You can be independent and selfless at the same time! Thanks for sharing your thoughts, we always have to work on our selflessness anyways.
@gospeldva7 жыл бұрын
theshiputopia I agree
@mariamanteiga Жыл бұрын
Just being is not a sin.... You may have internalized that you are wrong and need to try to work constantly to fix it but don't pass it on....
@Sapphireia7 жыл бұрын
I'm an atheist and I think this is pretty solid advice, selflessness and not making your partner your source of happiness especially!
@andreabritton74156 жыл бұрын
I know right its completely wrong to love someone
@catboymiles72246 жыл бұрын
amoral combat I think that where this person is coming from is that your partner is not a complete source of happiness, and you shouldn’t expect everything to be insanely happy. But I agree that when you marry someone, you should marry someone when the love you have is ...right? Like, you love them romantically but you are also friends, you know? Relationships do take work, and they take two sides of the coin to work.
@khadijahblake79046 жыл бұрын
@@andreabritton7415 no it's not wrong to love someone, people can make each other happy but don't let your happiness depend on that person alone. What if things aren't so well between you and them, would you go to someone else to be happy? I wouldn't, I took the time to find things that can make me laugh or smile.
@sedmoport6 жыл бұрын
I feel fulfilled when I cuddle kittens.
@EWilber347 жыл бұрын
You should know that spiritual abuse happens and you need to make sure you know the person you are marrying can and could be an abuser in disguise. The number one time domestic violence happens is on the wedding night! Domestic Violence includes physical, emotional, psychological, verbal and SPIRITUAL abuse. There are men and women who use scripture, coercion and control and demanding to abuse the spouse or children. These are all great points, but the 4th point need to be careful of men who use the Bible to demand control from their wife. Please understand Boundaries are important. Know your love languages and if you have fears of getting married, but can’t put your finger on it, the Holy Spirit is telling you something. Please be careful of abuse. You never think it can happen to you, but it could. Lord willing it doesn’t and I want to make sure women and young ladies realize that there are men in the church, who use abuse in a spiritual way. Be careful.
@swirlyferly5 жыл бұрын
“Your husband isn’t the answer to your happiness” PREACHHHH
@greenlight80894 жыл бұрын
THIS REALLY HELPED ME TO IDENTIFY IF I AM A MUSLIM OR A CHRISTIAN THANK YOU. TURNS OUT IM MUSLIM
@greenlight80894 жыл бұрын
YES ME TOO
@greenlight80894 жыл бұрын
WHOLE CRAPPY YOU TOO???????????????
@greenlight80894 жыл бұрын
PREACH THE اله
@kukluxklan53204 жыл бұрын
العقبة
@kukluxklan53204 жыл бұрын
✈️🏢🏢
@isabellemccauley67117 жыл бұрын
I want to encourage all of you not just to "be more Godly," but to ask the Holy Spirit to work in you! We CANNOT make ourselves more like God on our own strength--in fact, that pride comes before the fall. We can ONNLLLYYY be "better" through His power. I love these women's call to be counter-cultural, but let's make sure we're not just submitting to worldly Christian culture but submitting to the power of the Lord that lives inside us! Rely on Him. :)
@Morganbking1117 жыл бұрын
Isabelle Mccauley thank you girl 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I love this sister and a lot of what she says hits home but when she talked about striving to serve your spouse and so on my fear is that we get in that mentality and forget to seek God first and let him lead us into those things which he will if we are surrendered to his will! ❤️
@eva_unit_013 жыл бұрын
Love how most ppl in the comments don't even like them
@moxie36104 жыл бұрын
Thank you! These comments are so mean. “If the world hates you, remember that it hated me first.” John 15:18 🙏🏻keep going
@oneof1346 жыл бұрын
Domestic skills😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 happy 1950 everyone
@SkittleHair7 жыл бұрын
If marriage is a partnership then why are women the keepers of the home? That doesnt sound very partner like to me.
@forveverHis087 жыл бұрын
That’s a very culture influenced idea. If you’ve ever read proverbs 31 you’ll see that the wife is both a care take of her family and a business women. She is multifaceted. But the church lets culture influence them too much sometimes
@lovevivian946 жыл бұрын
Because the man is out working to support the family financially. So the women takes care of the home. That's the partnership. You're welcome for explaining.
@neha-di6cb5 жыл бұрын
@wnc817 what if you never want kids and your partner's okay with being childless and doesn't mind doing chores so I can work?
@annabelle71237 жыл бұрын
I agree about selflessness and sacrificial hearts... but, domestic skills? I know they would help, but I think guys should not just help but really do part of housework! And if the husband is better at cooking it can be his job! I come from Asia, I know that would be very difficult to be true in my future marriage if I marry a fellow Korean... but I don't think women should take the whole responsibility of house management, budgeting, cooking, cleaning, while giving up her career. In my country, it's almost impossible to do both... MEN SHOULD NOT JUST HELP BUT BE PART OF HOUSEWORK!
@priscilagoicochea7 жыл бұрын
annabelle7123 yes exactly what i believe :)
@novaflorencia6 жыл бұрын
YES
@adebowalegbenga43166 жыл бұрын
The point I'm trying to make is, most women don't check this out in a man before they say YES, I Do. So u expect ur guy who have always believed he only needs to provide for the house to now automatically understands he needs to do house chores too. If you want that in him, you should make that your criteria for choosing a husband in the first place.
@EdMcCornhole5 жыл бұрын
So are you going to fix the roof or faucet? Hook up a light fixture? Fix lawnmower? Fix the car to save $$$ Do repairs? Do any renovations? What about tools ? Do you know how to use any? Most men do and are expected to in "holy matrimony".
@lucyharcourt51217 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, how have I never found your channel before?! I'm going to binge watch all your videos right now
@leilei65767 жыл бұрын
Can you please do a video on domestic skills/managing your time/running efficiently?! I really need this!!
@tearosegumaer30677 жыл бұрын
i am 18 and not married but my dad is a pastor, so growing up i knew all those things to look out for. And for me it still was heard to not think my husband would be the one to make me feel fulfilled. but now i know by praying a LOT, that my husband is going to be a gift from the Lord, and seeing his service, detication, light and love to the Lord is going to make me happy and love the Lord for blessing me with that Man. And know that my husband will point me back to the Lord if i ever stray.
@mattie42312 жыл бұрын
I honestly thought that this was a meme video, but no. These ladies are serious as a heart attack. They need to read the Bible. I don't know if Yahweh is laughing or crying at this video.
@whydontyoustfu2 жыл бұрын
lol bible is product of 1st century what do u expect
@estefaniageschwentner14367 жыл бұрын
Already loving this channel! Thank you! God bless youu!
@sabrinasway6 жыл бұрын
So Glad I found your channel. Love everything you are sharing and doing.
@airqx28084 жыл бұрын
no
@rachelnkemokoro2004_3 жыл бұрын
@@airqx2808 yes
@ioannisa.63683 жыл бұрын
@@rachelnkemokoro2004_ well actually, no
@Viviancarmody6 жыл бұрын
ok even as an equalist, the one about being too independent does make sense. if you view ur partner as a competitor, marriage won’t work. u do have to work together
@Lamb_Cuticles3 жыл бұрын
I’m muslim
@Skullworship2 ай бұрын
approx. 2 billion people are too, by the way.
@Lamb_Cuticles2 ай бұрын
@@Skullworship this was 2 years ago
@Skullworship2 ай бұрын
@@Lamb_Cuticles still true tho
@princyD204 жыл бұрын
Great video ❤️ the one I loved the most is “working on yourself and your relationship with with others” very important.
@brynneckman9094 жыл бұрын
"aLL tHe cHriSTiAn ReCOuRCeS" girl i-
@angylouv5 жыл бұрын
I have to admit that I've heard youtubers talking about you and that discauraged me to come to your channel, but then this video was in my recomendations and I'm really glad I gave it a chance, you're an amazing person, hope you have a nice day and a nice life.
@mgthale7 жыл бұрын
I got married only last year and I really find so many of your points in my marriage. Especially what you said about being competitive instead of a team. I also found that the harsh way in which I often teat myself and how I expect so much of myself I now project onto my husband as well which is really not fair and godlike. I pray that god helps me to become a better wife. Thank god god's good ;)
@trudybannerman37177 жыл бұрын
Loene May God help you. Thanks for sharing
@chiayogilbert40397 жыл бұрын
Ana Vigil I'm pretty sure god doesn't care about how you type lol
@chiayogilbert40397 жыл бұрын
Ana Vigil lol
@ilyakolesnikov1327 жыл бұрын
Loene hi
@BritishMomma6 жыл бұрын
I found Jesus around 15 by 18 I left, later that year I had my first child and started to raise him as a single parent at 2 I met my husband I had my daughter when my son was 5 and I was 24 last year we got married I was 26 it has been so hard and up to march this year I haven't enjoyed my marriage but I started to go back to church and reading my bible daily. The last 2 months my marriage has been great we have really bonded and I feel like we are dating again. I'm lucky he didn't always but he does help out alot round the house yesterday while me and our youngest was at church he tidyed and did a bunch of laundry. Even though it's just me and the little going to church I know he listens to what I've told him about what has gone on in church today or the pod casts that are on in the background.
@gracemensah57854 жыл бұрын
You have a beautiful heart. Thank you. Many blessings are on the way to your home. Much love from Africa.
@smn6477 жыл бұрын
Throughout college I went through a formation program that strove to teach & encourage how to live a radical christian lifestyle, both in college and as a post-grad. Among the many things I was taught & encouraged to grow in, all 6 if your points were mentioned at somepoint throughout my time in the program (probably in a discernment talk). While I greatly appreciated the fruits of this program, I often felt sad for the numerous other young men & women who didn't have the opportunity to hear the same message and coming across your channel today just gave me so much encouragement and hope. Keep it up!!!
@Plasticplas16 жыл бұрын
Bless you for leaving the comment section open. So many people would close the discussion to defeat trolls.
@annabelle71237 жыл бұрын
Helpful tips that were unexpected but I can really agree with! Especially Number 3, I see my sister-in-law, she is younger than me, but she looks so mature and responsible. Yes she has more responsibility, her husband's family (my family) and her baby... but that does not make her suddenly mature, she has had that patient, wise character all the time... I really need to work on it, because one day, when I get married there will be so much more responsibilities... new house, new roles, etc.
@pineapplel0ve7 жыл бұрын
So encouraged! Thank you 😍 I'm watching this 5 days before my Wedding day and I wish I watched a year ago Lols
@amandamcconnell27497 жыл бұрын
Oh my jesus ❤ thank you! Please keep making and uploading videos!
@zjhayreYT7 жыл бұрын
Praying for your happy life and more happier life every day!!
@Hanakimberlyy7 жыл бұрын
I just discovered your channel and I love it! I love that the church is coming to youtube thats why i make videos too because there aren't many youtubers. Thank you for the tips/reminders.
@russellhamlet21447 жыл бұрын
Such great advice, until we hit the speed bumps of real life often our attitude is we think we 'know it all'. I'd add 'expectations' as another key issue in relationships. Communication is so vital, never think "I'll tell him/her about this issue someday" or "I'll fix this in their life once we're married", instead talk about the issues openly as they surface along the journey and commit to dealing with your own issues rather than trying to 'fix' your spouse's struggles. Remember you owe it to your spouse and others to deal with your own plank before you tackle the speck! (Matt 7:1-5) Great vid thanks GD!
@jamieglaspie87927 жыл бұрын
Russell Hamlet amen amen amen so true! This is def a vital great important key to know and remember!!! I had this problem too and I unfortunately learned the hard way , but we serve an Awesome God and I'm so blessed. He's so faithful to His promises and I'm so grateful that He's still keeping me and most importantly keeping me from my(inner wicked self lol) Praises Go all To Him and my wonderful amazing husband!
@russellhamlet21447 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the encouragement and confirmation Jamie! You are 100% correct, we do serve an awesome God, one that knows us intimately, even our deepest darkest struggles, and he loves us anyway - Jesus is proof of that! All glory to him, He is worthy to be praised!
@jamieglaspie87927 жыл бұрын
Russell Hamlet amen to the fullest!!! I thank God for His merciful And unconditional Love daily❤️🙏🏽
@nicholetam56227 жыл бұрын
ive been through an abusive relationship that lasted for 3 years and its only been 7 months since i left it, and this allowed me to break free from the sin cycle and know God more. This video is a reminder for me:) thank you.
@andreagro90137 жыл бұрын
Very true words! It'll take a long time to become a couple. W e're married for 27 years. Still learning... Blessings from Germany
@beautifuldisaster93306 жыл бұрын
8:34... don’t let a selfless heart be confused with becoming a doormat to your significant other or even platonic relationships
@MiaMia-qc6ci7 жыл бұрын
For me the most important is"Does He believe in Jesus" because I can tell you it's a nightmare to be in a relationship with unbeliever
@CalledtoCultivate7 жыл бұрын
Isn't it amazing how God uses marriage and motherhood to expose the sin/weaknesses in our hearts? He doesn't leave us as we are but is graciously sanctifying and refining us. If we embrace those opportunities to be molded and grow we can learn so much! ❤️
@nycgirl9993 жыл бұрын
I needed this message and reminder!! Thank you!
@danceillusion137 жыл бұрын
This was such a nice video to watch!Thank for making it, I'm glad I found your channel!
@alisarsour85527 жыл бұрын
I wish you girls were around before I got married. My wife went to church and she left me for some other guy from church when I was in the hospital She and the guy came up to the hospital one day and said Guess what I'm leaving you for Michael. Because you being in the hospital is making me unhappy Them she left with the church member . After the divorce she married the guy. Now she is happy with him till he has to go to the hospital.
@imaamericangirl14065 жыл бұрын
So sorry that happened to you.
@NanaNdirpaya7 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend struggles with number 1, he puts so much pressure on me to be his happiness and when I inevitably fail, he gets so upset. I'm exhausted
@kayli_knockitoff7 жыл бұрын
I get that God is the only one who can fulfill me, but I feel like since I don't have a boyfriend and no one asks me out that something is wrong with me. I feel unwanted and disgusting, do you have any tips for that?
@ashleymullins43427 жыл бұрын
Kayli K hey I completely understand what you're going through about the guy situtation. There have been days where's I felt terrible about myself. How I dealt with it was just focusing on the relationships that God has already blessed me with such as family and friends. Another major thing that has helped is just looking in the mirror saying nice things about myself. Remember God made us all beautiful and he wants us to love ourselves just as much as he loves us.
@Joselinetrj7 жыл бұрын
Everything is in the Lord's time and in His way and according to His will. For now, just follow God and seek the kingdom and a boy will come along when you least expect it. God should have the first place in our hearts always and just pray for your future husband from a young age.
@naomisargent12257 жыл бұрын
I've encountered the same thing. I honestly think that this is our Father protecting us. Hopefully this makes sense but it's almost like He's "blinded" people to me because I'm looking to them for satisfaction and purpose. Its actually another way of showing His goodness and grace because it drives us to Him. No man or woman will ever fulfill us or always be there. Earthly relationships are fleeting. Only our union with the Lord will last. Now I'm thankful for this protection because now that I'm growing in the Lord I'm encountering more men that are sold out for God, and a godly character is the most attractive thing ever. I honestly think that if someone after God's heart were to notice me and pursue me, I'd fall head over heels straight away, because the flesh is flaky and doesn't think straight LOL. God has created a mate specifically for you that He will reveal in His time. We don't want to settle for the first guy that gives us attention, but we want God's BEST right? He has a best for you. I hope this made sense. It's late and I'm sleepy, so this may be an incoherent jumble LOL
@MatandEst7 жыл бұрын
I know that can be really hard...when I was in high school I was never the girl that got asked out all the time. But now I'm married and so happy and I'm so glad that I didn't just date a lot of people when I was in school. God has such a great plan for you!! He will lead your life perfectly! 💗 - Est X
@princessofkingofkings73877 жыл бұрын
I think it's a natural desire to want a man to love you. After all God did design for man to have a wife.. But then again, we should be completely satisfied with just God's love, but trust me I've struggled with this too and it makes me feel better that someone else has felt that way as well.
@Kawinamuffin7 жыл бұрын
amen I love this!! thanks very insightful, im glad I somehow stumbled upon a bunch of christian blogs this is great!
@niomineko37973 жыл бұрын
Ive been bingewatching this channel...as a pansexual genderfluid agnostic I'm just absolutely amazed by these videos...
@Skullworship2 ай бұрын
"If you stare into the abyss, the abyss stares back at you”
@Evangecoco7 жыл бұрын
I am so happy to have found this channel. I subscribed after you made your first point... this channel what I need at this point in my life, God bless your marriage and ministry
@spacedust49317 жыл бұрын
I don't think this is limited to Christian girls. This applies to all women regardless of religion!!
@maritzasantoyo30467 жыл бұрын
Michelle Ross well she talks A LOT about God from a Christian perspective so it's Juan Luis directed at other Christians
@estee2607 жыл бұрын
Michelle Ross I'm Jewish and it applies to me too :)
@betylaguerrera7 жыл бұрын
Esther Neissany Of course it does! We have the same Holy Scriptures!
@lolalolaa38046 жыл бұрын
Michelle Ross no it’s not for all women. Not all women want to be second class citizens in their own home.
@vanessaradloff35593 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! Listen up, Ladies! If any video is important for newly married or even dating....this info is soooooooooooo important. Coming from a girl who has been married once!
@bbraswe22 жыл бұрын
Girl, your make up… 😮
@happyukey95137 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this!! These advice are what I need the most! No. one and two were like "Amen!!" And then No.3 was mind blowing! Now I want to change my attitude and change the way I behave with precise intentions. Thanks!
@evanap17977 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for you hearing this. I´m so happy and fulfilled with my boyfriend, my friends, my family, my independency, without the lord... Well but if your belief makes you feel happy, the better for you.
@hannahevans81937 жыл бұрын
You should save your pity for someone who needs it. She doesn't need your pity.
@itisamystery.50907 жыл бұрын
You're sorry that her "belief makes her happy?" Okay then. 😕
@Walkinjoy6 жыл бұрын
Why are you sorry that she finds happiness in ways differently from you? Better for her because depending on human beings will only disappoint if you cant find joy within yourself first. You cant depend on ppl to be happy. Them making you happy isn't the same as them being the source of happiness.
@andreabritton74156 жыл бұрын
Hannah Evans yeah she kinda does she basically below re she's not allowed to feel love for someone
@samanthasmiles91127 жыл бұрын
You are so right. When I first was married, I had to set aside my "independent and self focused" thinking. Marriage is about compromise, being a team, and working together. If you keep focusing on yourself (and this applies to both parties), marriage will be very challenging.
@sarahn.47757 жыл бұрын
Loved these tips! Thank you!💕
@amynicholl40197 жыл бұрын
i love this channel as it is so helpful and answers all my questions! i just wish it was also in podcast form as i could listen to it when traveling when there is no wifi
@MatandEst7 жыл бұрын
These tips were so helpful! I got married 7 months ago and it is super important to make sure that you are still Christ focused! Loved this 💗 - Est X
@SilviaDwomoh77 жыл бұрын
Exactly! It's perfect!!! So informative for i'm still in my preparation season!!
@AmberDennis0017 жыл бұрын
Mat & Est I am 22 and hope I am not old when I walk down the aisle
@piarossi45557 жыл бұрын
Amber Dennis It's better than being married to the wrong person. That is the worst thing in the world.
@jenniferravelo9237 жыл бұрын
Amber Dennis when I turned 21 I thought I was never going to find happiness but little did I know God had a plan. He knew the desire in my heart to share my life with someone and within 3 months I was found by an amazing man who has been my husband now for over 3 years. He has made me so happy and to top it we just found out were expecting our first child. I advice you to tell your Father God your desire for marriage and prepare yourself mentally, spiritually, etc. Focusing on finding a husband will never bring him about God wants your focus first. He already knows your desire and when he sees you're ready he will surprise you. God bless you and I wish you the best
@roxannesmith80937 жыл бұрын
Yeah, you just gotta get down on your knees and please jeesus. You gotta make him fulfilled, then he'll fill you ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
@espressogoblin7 жыл бұрын
Yay! Thank you so much! It's so great to have a video about this subject
@valerielinares20687 жыл бұрын
It's seems like the people who offended at this video are not actually offended at THIS video. That is, they are offended at what they THINK these ladies are saying, not at what these ladies are actually saying. It also kind of seems like those same offended people came into this video expecting to be offended. But, you ladies keep doing what you're doing! What you said in this video is 100% correct!
@katmaw59106 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU 👏👏
@spetrenko71496 жыл бұрын
AMEN.
@toni55436 жыл бұрын
Yes sir!
@venomusdrake28886 жыл бұрын
Valerie Linares preach!
@klarapolajnar456 жыл бұрын
..but,,, they are actually saying it
@olliejean66956 жыл бұрын
I don't know about anyone else, but I kinda got here by accident. But I'm genuinely curious about these girls and how their logic works. Since, well, I'm probably somebody they would call a sinner, it's interesting to see this mindset.
@DestiB17 жыл бұрын
PLEASE! do a video on how to cultivate domestic skills :D
@Th3lite5 жыл бұрын
I think you so much for speaking the truth. There are not many videos out here explaining the truth of marriage. Everyone likes to paint it into a fairytale and it can’t be a fairytale or so many people wouldn’t be divorced. So I think you for setting realistic expectations because when I hear your videos I know I will be OK.
@julieannemcculloch5357 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, im getting married next summer, ive only just come to God 3 years ago, im a new Christian so im learning both. God bless you sister in Christ
@gabriellaayavoro60704 жыл бұрын
Your not actually liking this?
@aliciasmith44217 жыл бұрын
These things are so true! I have been married almost 4 years now and got married when I was 18 years old. These things are so hard to figure out after your married, even if you have been told these things before marriage it's is different living them.
@rachv85777 жыл бұрын
You point on selflessness made me think of this question- How do you cultivate a selfless and others minded heart without becoming a pushover or passive and voiceless?
@duct_tapeheart64847 жыл бұрын
Well... maybe study the ministry of Jesus? He was selfless, gentle, and nonviolent, and definitely not a pushover
@Walkinjoy6 жыл бұрын
You can be selfless and still have self respect. Your love and compassion doesn't go away because you stand up for yourself.
@jumaman62347 жыл бұрын
This was actually extremely useful. Especially the first two. I had been wondering about some of those things already.
@Savage_Gamer7777 жыл бұрын
i'll be single forever.
@nobody-og5tl7 жыл бұрын
Do not say that because it will happen.
@nunya7866 жыл бұрын
No shame in that! I’m staying single forever as well. Remember, you don’t need a partner to be happy, or for your life to have importance!
@jesuslovesyouall36437 жыл бұрын
out of the topic, ur hair is soooo on point....u are beautiful
@ShantelGraces7 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Thanks for being transparent! So glad I didn't rush into marriage like I originally planned!
@cheygriff4947 жыл бұрын
This was an answer to prayer, thank you for posting! And you are so sweet 😊
@quadrupuppets86504 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for talking about this. It's something I've definitely struggled a lot with. And I needed to hear this. Thanks again.
@nathelbentokaiyeepu77417 жыл бұрын
Wow what you said about how society views a strong woman and how God views a strong woman really hit home, and it's so true! Thanks so much Kristen
@JaqueeLee7 жыл бұрын
Great job, girl! I truly feel as though you are made to be a public speaker :) This video was SO encouraging to me right now as I am preparing to be a wife someday during my current season of singleness. Thanks!!
@danaclinch57617 жыл бұрын
She is definitely on POINT!! This needs to go viral!!
@karokudo_k27713 жыл бұрын
no
@emilyc.70417 жыл бұрын
Very good reminder!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom for us girls out of the goodness of your heart!! Bless you for it!!
@emilyc.70417 жыл бұрын
I must say this video was extremely eye opening especially the first point. Thank you. 💜
@WeShareTheSameAffliction7 жыл бұрын
How have I not found your channel sooner? I have been searching for a channel like this because I am SO tired of the viewpoint of the world in this day and age. You and your channel are so refreshing!!! #newsubscriber
@reinaaqua6857 жыл бұрын
I'll apply this and I'm not even Christian
@shelbefennell75287 жыл бұрын
I. Love. This. Thank you!!!!!!!! You are such a light.
@adilopez63827 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! God bless you ❤
@paigemitchell70664 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! Though you get many complaints, you two have very wonderful opinions on these topics! Love you guys!!!
@zjhayreYT7 жыл бұрын
God will always be our true happiness
@elainejuquiana17127 жыл бұрын
Oh maaan Spirit led. Thank you so much for these reminders!!
@abdulsaleh86247 жыл бұрын
Wives never fully satisfied with their husband, Since the first woman Eve wife of Adam. BUT MARRIAGE IS LIFE LESSON TO BRING YOU TO BE BETTER HUMAN, AS LONG YOU FOLLOW THE PATH PROPERLY. God writing your destiny, you to choose every path-way
@savedgal59747 жыл бұрын
Yes! The independence thing was like put into words what I couldn't but knew there was something there!! THANK YOU!
@abbvocado7 жыл бұрын
wow this was so beautiful. it made me think about myself a lot. i really needed to hear this.