6 Things Grown Men Should STOP Doing

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[@CourtneyRyan]

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[@hishark7082]

Is asking for timestamps something grown men should stop doing 🤣

[@zakriarahimi4951]

@@CourtneyRyan men don't like getting things on internet

[@mcfishyfirst253]

Woman are crazy and manipulative I’m fine thanks for asking

[@kurtvanluven9351]

I did something I had put off forever.....I GAVE AWAY AND THREW OUT MOST OF MY CLOTHES! I actually followed advice. Trust me, this is a big win for you, I am stubborn!

[@aguyinavan6087]

If you're reading this, or watching this video, you're online, bad boy.

[@desiree8476]

😂

[@RidesInforests]

Word 😅

[@SilkyJohnson7]

Noooo. We all got baited

[@LukasWeeke]

And watching content from a woman. Exactly what I initially thought. 😂

[@desiree8476]

@@LukasWeeke Rich Cooper’s content is pretty 🔥 check it out 🔥

[@AntwunTheDancer]

*STOP DOING THESE BRO* 1. Being Chronically Online 2. Bad Breath 3. Having Loser Friends 4. Neglecting Responsibilities 5. Following IG Baddies 6. Interrupting People / Poor Communication Skills (BE A GOOD LISTENER) *BONUS:* BRO, THROW OUT THE OLD UNDIES AND SOCKS!! 😠😠😠 P.S. Guys, stop gettin upset. She's literally just teaching you how to be a regular tolerable adult. You got an advantage over guys that ain't even tryin. 💯

[@gumnaamaadmi007]

Right? Quite a few replies here dissing her when we should be grateful.

[@AlexanderSkinnerVids]

@@gumnaamaadmi007why? We’ve heard all of this before

[@marksmith4892]

​@@gumnaamaadmi007 as i have said repeatedly in comments on her page, most of her advice is well within reason and usually very basic, and also, a guy would do well to practice these ideas even if they never get a girlfriend for the rest of their lives. For example, how does a guy hope to earn money or make friends if he interrupts people, knocks them out with bad breath, neglects responsibility, and walks around publicly with an embarrassingly sloppy wardrobe? My only objection is the fact that she NEVER, EVER, EVER tells us what we should be looking for women to be doing for us, and the fact that she tells us the one without the other is insulting, condescending, conceited and entitled because it means she thinks men should do everything on behalf of women but women should do not a damn thing to reciprocate. IF, IF, IF she was laying out the laundry list of tangible actions women should be doing on behalf of men THEN i would invite her to outline even higher standards men could satisfy to improve their value to women because there's no getting around the fact that dating is value-for-value exchange when a relationship is at the starting point, but she never does that. She's just another conceited modern female demanding everything from men while demanding zero from women but pretending to be a middle-of-the-road peacemaker.

[@AWMulholland99]

STOP DOING THESE BRO : Lying

[@Eric-dd8bk]

​@@marksmith4892 "Knocks them out with bad breath" cracked me up real good I gatta admit. lol

[@PredatoryTeeth]

First, grown men should stop giving unworthy women the sought after attention which isn't the least deserved. That's a good place to start.

[@JACQUEZJOHNSON23]

Facts

[@adamfillman9020]

They won’t tho. They like kitty too much

[@PredatoryTeeth]

@@adamfillman9020 Yeah, well....We'll see about that when she stops purring and gives ya those claws instead. 😜😄

[@ComicBookKing]

​@@adamfillman9020 most guys arent getting 🐈 liking a ton of ig model pics and commenting how beautiful she is

[@PredatoryTeeth]

@@ComicBookKing Your comment has received my "like." The great point which you make ties into the origin of my original post. 👍

[@gumnaamaadmi007]

I want to add a few if I may: 1. Keep your word - never overpromise and underdeliver. If anything, do the opposite. 2. I have seen married men do this a LOT - stop flirting with new/younger employees that are like half your age! 3. Something extra about communication skills - listen to understand, not JUST to reply and/or to have the last word. 4. Be open to learning new things and new skills/techniques at ANY age - no one is a know-it-all.

[@OnlyDarien]

All good except flirting with younger people. Who cares? If they’re not minors and they’re interested why does it matter?

[@xxaavviieerrrrr]

@@OnlyDarien because they're married?

[@OnlyDarien]

@@xxaavviieerrrrr didn’t see that part lol

[@cur244]

4 especially is a key for all people. I've met countless women who never ever look into self improvement. I'm constantly reading about self improvement. It's a real turnoff to me when people think they've got life down and don't ever need to learn anything new. Personal finance is a big one for me and the information is easily available and most people lack the effort to learn about it.

[@lawrence31415]

As a follow-up to interrupting someone in a conversation, it is important to keep your cool if someone interrupts you; I have seen individuals lose their patience when this happens to them. Always be mindful and collect!

[@jamesgonzalez9231]

I have an bad habit doing this in an phone conversation, I don't mean too I just have an hard time to tell if they are finish or not.

[@CarlFredrik-uo1cu]

"Don't surround yourself with bozos" I barely surround myself with people (Translation: I'm lonely)

[@kevinpankanin6222]

Same. I have changed and evolved in ways my past friends do not respect. Even my family members do not value my opinions. Then you become chronically online since it is the only place to find people

[@SaulidSnake]

Not necessarily, you could be an introvert.

[@mr.milktea00]

lmaoooo

[@danielenglish235]

True, I hate people

[@helder6175]

It's like the saying, "I used to be a people person, but people ruined it for me."

[@Dr-Alexander-The-Great]

One thing guys show never do is swim with birds. They make the water fowl

[@CourtneyRyan]

Hahaha

[@markwilliamson9140]

😂😂😂

[@anthonyr.capellan3198]

Courtney’s tips in man’s language: 1. Go to the fucking gym 2. Brush your fucking teeth and use mouthwash. 3. Surround yourself with people better than you (at the good things) 4. Pay your bills and do the necessary shit. Fun comes second 5. Get off and unfollow Ig and OF models 6. Buy some actually decent clothes that will last a long time 7. Most important of all, do whatever the fuck you want as long as you’re not hurting yourself, those around you, or your chances of living a good life.

[@cymbergan]

As Courtney discussed in another video, Grown Women SHOULD stop playing mind games.

[@cisium1184]

My Dad always said: "if possible, be the weakest musician in the band. You get better by playing with people who are better than you."

[@banjomechanic]

That is absolutely true. It’s the only way to get better quicker.

[@hawaiian-cerveza]

A lot of ppl are dehydrated too which can lead to bad breath aka halitosis.

[@viktor4840]

5:35 That is so true! Hanging around with toxic people is punishing yourself

[@CourtneyRyan]

🤌🏼

[@danjenkins21]

I don't really hang around with anyone. I'm a lone wolf.

[@lalosalamanca8574]

​@@CourtneyRyan there we go with the condescending language. You don't know what grown man should be doing. How would you know that. Are you a grown man. It's a moronic way of thinking. There Are 4 billion men on the planet. Everyone got different priorities and values. What grown man to you. Is grown man to someone else. You need to wise up and don't look at things as black and white. Human bieng are complex creatures. So your 6 things does not jive with me or someone else. Grow up

[@lalosalamanca8574]

​@@CourtneyRyan your 6 things is what children are supposed to be taught. You are clueless to what a grown man is. Did you ever meet a real grown man before.

[@Jae_Garcia]

@@CourtneyRyan oh my God, babe it finally happened. I can’t believe I’m telling you this right now but last night I had a dream about you. I had a dream that you became so famous that I was in school and you were a special guest and the whole entire school had like a field trip day where we met you at the school auditorium and you were doing a Q&A you even did like a quick workout class with everybody there and everyone is so happy and getting your autograph🥹🥲

[@BigChiillin]

I have been with my lady for over 10 years and I feel like a lucky man. I enjoy watching your videos and you help me to be a better partner !

[@CourtneyRyan]

Wonderful 🥹🤍

[@toddcoon6734]

This is absolutely correct, particularly the part about poor choices. I've been to some class reunions and I see the impact of poor choices decades after the decisions were made. Unfortunately these decisions can also have fatal consequences or significantly diminished life expectancies owing to choices made regarding friends and substance abuse. In some cases, a choice made in the teens or early 20s has led to incarceration, addictions, and lost opportunities.

[@crgvino1]

I would add undershirts to the list of get rid of when they get dingy and no longer bright white and/or have holes. Same for colored undershirts. You can recycle old socks and undershirts into cleaning rags. If there are no holes, just worn out then donate to Goodwill.

[@bcb2555]

Women need to emulate how you present yourself we've lost the simple straightforward look that you are trying to bring back that society has lost

[@spartjovic]

I would put responsibilities at #1. However, that being said, hopefully each individual figures their own path out.

[@davidchambers44]

The first point is so important, especially with dating. While it's important to be aware of and call out bad aspects of dating, it's equally important to see the positive and work to inprove ones own situation as much as possible. The problem is, for many that's too much work; it's easier to blame everyone and everything else and give up. Which relates to point three, you sometimes need people around you who inspire you to be better, or simply encourage you when you're down.

[@gracerules2008]

I don't want people around me pushing me to do better. They make me uncomfortable. I'd tell them to get lost.

[@user-cz5lj2vx1f]

Well put adivie for BOTH men 7 women.

[@andersnielsen6044]

Spot on.

[@FaithplusFitness1]

Great video Courtney! I haven’t been tuned in for a while, busy with my own channel, life, etc, although you’re still releasing quality content as I can see 👍🏾

[@josemedina9623]

Hi Courtney. I love you. Enough small talk. The tongue scraper worked! It’s exactly what I needed. Thanks

[@garrettdyess1110]

Thanks Courtney! Great points, as always.

[@Valihir]

My wife gives me a pass for dirty nails because im a metal fabricator and gets my hands dirty all day

[@CourtneyRyan]

That makes sense! 😂

[@Valihir]

@@CourtneyRyan 😂 as long as I wash my hands

[@andyjones3304]

Doing dishes is the best remedy, but I agree, any woman who looks down on a blue collar working man isn’t worth having.

[@perpetualprocrastinator]

Dude, you are in manufacturing 🙏🙏 .You have already earned waiver by default. You don't need to seek anyone's consent.

[@mrmrsplummer3526]

You nailed that chronically online.. I've been saying this for years.

[@sumairshirazi]

Men and video games will always be a amazing thing regardless of what age a man is.

[@andersnielsen6044]

No it will not - and never was. It is just how low value men waste their time and life..

[@bigcahuna42366]

This is a great list Courtney! As a 48 year old man, I can clearly see the large amount of social, physical, financial, and professional maturity and wisdom I've developed since my 20s. One more I would add (and I heard you briefly mention it) is smoking. I had a co-worker who starting smoking when he was in high school, and at age 47 he passed away from lung cancer. Tobacco is exceptionally more dangerous for older people because their physical health is more fragile. Vaping and cigs might have been cool in high school, but not cool at my age.

[@AntwunTheDancer]

"Don't get bitter, get better." - The Legend, Jim Rohn

[@asiandude8361]

That is so true. Women are attracted to mature men.

[@JACQUEZJOHNSON23]

​@@asiandude8361cap

[@JmrDavies]

Great advice. Thank you.

[@oepaga12]

so refreshing to find your content Courtney....thnx!!

[@ssjup81]

Some of these should go both ways.

[@vonq9831]

So Professional.. Keep Up The Outstanding Video , Mrs. Ryan.

[@budwhite111]

Have had a scraper since you recommended it from one of your lists 2 years ago. Thank You!!!

[@CourtneyRyan]

Yay!

[@donshaffer4169]

I work in an office with a guy who has long fingernails.....it is SO gross.

[@kapsi]

But change the genders and suddenly it's "elegant"

[@xjoemallardx]

​@@kapsibecause theyre women. If you wanna look like shit, thats on you. Enjoy being a vigin all your life.

[@gotinogaden]

Tell him to paint them.

[@donshaffer4169]

@@gotinogaden my coworkers are laughing at this comment

[@FaintAura]

"This one I'm giving out as a *cheeky* little bonus" 😂

[@anthonyf.9457]

Great advice. Thank u much !!!

[@jeffs.2931]

Thanks Courtney for the advice. I bought a Laifen toothbrush on Amazon yesterday with 35% discount on Prime day. I've always wanted to buy a new one but was never sure which one. Thanks to your advice that search is over. 😄

[@garysandberg3259]

100% Courtney. I have two very close personal friends who also do relationship coaching (one is my writing partner - actress, writer, producer) and a cousin who is an MD Psychiatrist. So, could add in 3 more likes as you are so spot on!!!

[@redesignedlife777]

No one ever mentions the WATERPIK. Sometimes you need to power wash or blast in between your teeth. Cuz many times the bad smell is still there even after flossing. The waterpik fixes that.

[@mjf1036]

what a great list. As an older guy I 100% agree. I caution on the tip of not being lazy and ignoring your responsibilities. Don't over do it and take on other's duties or more than your share. If you do all the work around the house, your spouse will let you. If you do too much at work it becomes expected and others let you.

[@davidd5213]

Good job as usual. Also, that shade of blue is a good one for you.

[@rogersnick17]

Love the value you bring, internet sis 👍🏾.

[@ronm6585]

Thanks Courtney. 👍🏻

[@tysimon]

Hi Courtney, I love your videos and directness. I consider myself a kind of an alien. I naturally stopped those in my 20s. I got married at 22 yo. Now 48, I can tell that those basic qualities you mentioned (congratulations for the honesty of#2 !!!!!!!!) it is what makes a family and a strong relationship last against storms. Regarding the online part, I guess my recommendation is doing it in the open to keep the trust. If there's nothing secret about, for example, watching your videos, then do it on the TV in front of everyone. If anything, it shows how mature a man actually is for taking good advice and self improvement.

[@UNKNWN_MATTR]

I was raised with the understanding that your speech and conduct are a reflection on three people: yourself, your mother and your father. Represent these three well, gents.

[@lawrence31415]

Gentlemen, if you need an example of item number 2, just watch the episode from SpongeBob where he thought he was ugly. That episode had a life lesson to share 😂

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂😂 I love that episode

[@lawrence31415]

​@@CourtneyRyan ​my favorite moment from that episode is when Patrick goes on a rant at the movie theater 🤣

[@obmij7898]

My best mate is really good. We’ve pushed each other to do better, both consciously and unconsciously, with our lives. We’ve built our confidence in general, with women and travelling for instance. And it’s great to be surrounded by friends who inspire you and push you to do better. Can agree there from personal experience.

[@gracerules2008]

Not when that friend gives unsolicited advice. I would tell them to go fuck themselves.

[@trikumiku]

Personally I would want to thank Courtney, you are helping me so much.

[@CourtneyRyan]

It’s my pleasure 💙

[@cur244]

I've really introverted so asking a ton of questions is pretty easy. I find it strange when I meet male coworkers who I ask things about and they ask absolutely nothing in return.

[@user-gw3yb3ki6w]

Thanks for the great video! I like how you go directly to the point and how your tips are realistic and can be applied almost by every man and it is not depending that much on their income or social status. You know, "basic stuff" and "common sense" which sadly are not that "basic stuff" and "common sense" anymore in our current era. Also I appreciate how you explained your point on video games and other "fun things" - it is not about the thing itself, but the healthy balance that fun things should have their own place, not be the main thing in life. I think some people really need to hear that explanation since it is often expressed too black and white ways even that is not the actual issue but the issue is unhealhty balance between entertainment and responsibilities. If gaming, entertainment or what-so-ever is taking too much time, it have same attitude than eating too much - lack of self control, and that is something what adults should not lack of. God bless, keep doing good videos! :)

[@gracerules2008]

That only applies to adults who want long term relationships or marriage or children. If an adult is not trying to pursue those things then that leaves them with more free time to have fun if they wish. There is a reason that being single has more freedom. Some people tend to forget those benefits..

[@user-gw3yb3ki6w]

@@gracerules2008 Well, maybe some have forget, of course. I have not at least myself since I have been single last 14 years or so. I believe that many wants to stay single because they are immarture, or the dating pool available is too immarture. It is much easier to live life alone than with bad company what makes life just pain, but healthy relationship of course should make life better. Adults having fun if they wish is of course a choice to make, but if their whole adulthood is about having fun and easy life without taking much responsibilities other than necessary to survive then at least nowadays personally I can't easily see that kind of person as an adult but a child in a body of adult. Of course others don't need validation to their lifestyles from my opinions and that's a good thing.

[@gracerules2008]

And that is my point. Some are quite happy to never grow up by your measuring stick of what that looks like or anyone else's. We don't live in the days of a Military draft anymore. In those days men were forced to grow up much faster. Today it is more voluntary to an extent to grow up. Unless they bring back the draft or get a woman pregnant unintentionally then I have more liberty to take my time growing up. It is what it is. Society may not respect that but they are not helping me pay bills anyway.

[@TheBatman327]

@CourtneyRyan Your hair is so stunning, I love it!

[@Pazuzu82]

I really need to get an electric toothbrush feels like ive got dog breath 24/7 most times plus when i got sober i had to sacrifice some friends now i feel like a rogue.

[@CourtneyRyan]

I’m proud of you for getting sober! I think losing friends during this transition is a pretty common thing too. I don’t drink either and it’s definitely impacted who is in my life. & to the electric toothbrush - yes! It’s a game changer and I think you’d find a tongue scraper will help too!

[@db4419]

Thanks for this video Courtney. I especially appreciate you making reference to things for men in their 40s-plus. As a man in my 40s who appreciates your videos can you do more vids speaking to this age group? Or, as you sometimes do like here, can you generally make more references to this age group in your general videos? For example a video (or few videos) on approaching women, dating ideas, dating, etc when we're this age group and been "out of practice" 😅. Thanks for considering!

[@rjvilla5228]

I grew up with 2 brothers, never had a sister who could look out for me. Thanks Courtney for all you do, you definitely give that helpful "big sister" advice to men like me.

[@AlexGomez-ur5eb]

Excellent one!

[@ilai7893]

Can't wait to see point 1 IRL when I see a man seriously saying "drizzle drizzle" to a woman in public 😂

[@lokidarkbeard2647]

I do the drizzle drizzle thing, but only to women that want me to buy them a car in order to go on a date with me. 🤣

[@bogdankovalenko5096]

grizzle grizzle 😂

[@anthonyml7]

What’s drizzle drizzle?

[@anthonyml7]

Spot on Courtney, most of these apply to women as well. Hence why a lot of these are usually common knowledge but it’s great idea to remind everyone.

[@budwhite111]

Just ordered and received my Laifen... Felt like I'd ordered an Iphone from Apple. Very similar package. Looking forward to using... Thanks for the heads-up!!!

[@CourtneyRyan]

Right?! Feels like you’re opening an iphone 😂 hope you love it as much as I do!

[@pablodomingo8487]

Courtney Ryan, i Agree with You 💯 percent.

[@perpetualprocrastinator]

Point 7 : Don't be naive and don't be a sucker. Be extremely wary. Point 8: Demand high standards from the opposite gender unapologetically.

[@BoostedPastime]

Thank you Courtney

[@mhmtakeyatime9000]

Its too common for people to waste time and forget that life is short. you can't waste away your life.

[@rdog77]

Question. How does that go for women who spend a lot of time online? I get it 100% men should not be on there all the time. I can't agree with you more. However, I’ve noticed that a lot of the women I went on dates with or dated recently spend a lot of time online FB/Insta. The other thing too is I'm usually find woman who's primarily mode of contact is Snapchat as a complete turn off. I'm sorry I just don't see why you should be communicating via a cheating app. I'm calling it that because why have it as a grown adult?

[@ssjup81]

It goes both ways. Time should be dedicated to one another. How can either connect if they’re hanging online all the time. My current boyfriend had that issue with his first wife and their communication broke down. On his part he was too preoccupied with his hobbies and she became too engrossed with the internet which led to her talking to other guys. They were both at fault for two of the things the KZbinr mentioned. He learned from that and makes time to balance so that the lines of communication are always open and that his hobbies like video games don’t overshadow our relationship. We are both in our 40s. The previous relationships of his, he was engrossed in his hobbies and didn’t give enough attention and the communication issues came about. He was in his 20s/30s then. He’s only had two serious long term relationships in his life. The second ended more amicably and they are still partially acquainted. I’ve met her and she recently got married. With me he told me to let him know if I ever feel neglected or ignored and told him to also let me know if I do something that maybe bothersome as it may be inadvertent. Imo, communication will always be key. That’s something I learned from my one and only serious relationship.

[@TheeBlackSilhouette]

That is the major issue. “Going outside and touching grass” does not do much when not enough people are doing the same.

[@geoffn1530]

Basically since losers were the only people I could afford to be around I’m stuck being a loser.

[@1matim]

thank you

[@apartsart]

I know I should get back into some of these things it's been hard to get back into the routine of things I lost my mom last year to dementia and man grief really gets to you, right now I'm just trying to provide for my adopted son and me and it's hard to try to keep everything in order even dating witch to be honest I haven't done in a while but little by little I'm trying to do one thing at a time like taking care of my breath and smelling good those help because they do tend to feel good Thanks for the video

[@ethanmiller5487]

1) being chronically online 1a) don't react to this by becoming chronically offline! Balance is needed mofo! 2) hygiene 2a) You should clean yourself and then not talk about it. Don't pull a vegan! 3) hanging with jerks 3a) knowing who you are and what you stand for makes jerks angry. Let them be angry. You becoming better is something to be celebrated, not denigrated. 4) neglecting responsibility 4a) relaxing time comes after the most important urgent things are taken care of. Again find balance. 5) following Instagram "baddies" 5a) Who you are online is who you are in real life. Sorry. 6) interrupting and bad communication 6a) it would suck if people did that same stuff to you. Geeze. 7) torn socks and undies 7a) you should what a woman to see the nice things you put on yourself! 8)trim your nails 8a) cut them and wash your damn hands! You wouldn't like muddy hands rubbing your downstairs! Geeze!

[@Koozwad]

nothing clean about veganism it's just a load of toxins, anti-nutrients etc you want clean? eat unprocessed and raw(if from a trusted source)meats, fish, eggs, dairy, fruit the best foods for humans proven by history and biology

[@EdRorke-w5v]

Any recommendations for a guy who is trying to change from being online constantly/talking to girls online? Also, Slowly trying to change up things in my life in general to better myself?

[@XaloGunner]

The toothbrush thing (like most things) depends on the person. I got really casual/lazy when I had an electric toothbrush because I think I subconsciously figured the toothbrush was doing the work...and it led to cavities then crowns then root canals. Being thorough with a regular brush, I haven't had new cavities since.

[@jessiewooley9045]

Hey Courtney I was wondering if you could give some fashion and dating advice for bigger shy men thank you and have a good day

[@grzegorzsiwek4666]

Thanks

[@EricMoore790]

I would urge men to focus on individualism. You do you. You can choose what you want to do with your money and time.

[@noserialkiller3596]

I care about Courtney because she's a lady with nice manners. No Serial Killer.

[@almosthelpless9374]

Pooping your pants should be number 1

[@jondough3339]

Tell that to joe biden

[@johnlofgren4195]

What? Dump wears diapers.

[@devondanklin1808]

@@johnlofgren4195my old white guy is better than YOUR old white guy! 😡🤬

[@MrWaycool1]

Thanks!

[@TheDneaves]

I know I think about video games too much, but I have so many to get through and spent so much on them 😢 Also A woman who doesn't like you because you like video games are absolute red flags.

[@kylecam22]

I can confirm the tongue scraper being a game changer. I didn't even know these existed until you mentioned it in a video a few months back. I can't believe I went 30 years with that crap on my tongue. Thanks Courtney 😅

[@CourtneyRyan]

🤌🏼😂 glad I could help!

[@thexlcdan]

Enjoy your channel, huge fan.

[@durandus676]

13:34 get a steel nail file too. Round out the points I stopped cutting myself with my nails

[@KAmery-Violmoto]

I think the video game thing is contextual. If you're a dad and you sit down to play with your kids, then fine. If you're in your 20's then ok. But if you're in your 40s and you have to have "tech time" every night by yourself and you get into the latest game, then its time to reevaluate things. IMHO

[@thatguy6054]

Isn't finding out what another person brings to the table the whole point of dating? That said, I'd agree it's rarely appropriate to ask directly. She will be offended and your chances of getting an accurate answer are near zero anyway.

[@spede6839]

I think this list can be applied to both men and women. Just in general what all grown ups should not do

[@CourtneyRyan]

Totally!

[@kylkleen5910]

One of many good video from you.

[@douglaspearson4853]

Good communication is one of my biggest issues. As a kid I was always ignored by family and others. O listen to them, but I was alwasy talked over like I did not exist. So when I got older I did what you said. I would interupt and talk over others just as a fight to be heard. My mother would ask how my day was, I would start to say and my sister would walk in. And everything stopped. All attention went to her. When I got older I know longer cared. You have no time to listen to me, I get bored an move on. Being a good listener is one of my flaws. When my wife was alive we were having problems. So I said you tell me whats bothering you. I will listen, then when you are done I will say bothers me. I listen for 45 minutes to the abuse, and said nothing. When it was my turn. I said two words and she interupted wirh Yeah but you! I still think my idea is solid. How can you fix what you don't know? I walked away after she didn't listen, and nothing got better only worse.

[@user-sn1eo9eh9s]

I gave up dating 5 years ago I'm a truck driver I own my own business a lot of women these days don't work or they want weed im done

[@martypoll]

I floss and use interstitial brushes. After starting to use the brushes I was surprised at how poorly flossing does the job. I will use toothpicks during the day as well. I use an electric toothbrush but not every day. My dentist told me it was being too aggressive on my gums. And then there are breath mints . . .

[@xxaavviieerrrrr]

totally agree!

[@andyjones3304]

I’d say the consistent online presence isn’t gender specific. There are lots of women with social media addictions!

[@tonitoni9059]

She had mercy, she didn't go for the easy kill... she could have made much much more painful list 😂

[@popofilipo7114]

I'm a little bit shy when it comes to a beautiful woman that I really like that's my honest opinion. My brain freezes up don't know what else to say but saying HI and walk away 🤦‍♂️😂 it's okay I ain't ready for a relationship yet I really don't have the time too busy working plus when I get free time I like to enjoy time n peace with friends and family. Plus I get a lot of free time to finish up whatever project I'm working on in my house. That whole underwear situation got me cracking up 😂😭🤣 can't believe Courtney just roasting everybody in here I didn't see that coming 😭🤣 guess what she ain't wrong. It's a shame but yup I'm ordering new ones online right now 🤦‍♂️🤣 Thanks mom lol 😂 just kidding. Awesome video by the way your rocking that blue dress. Cool..

[@louismercier4805]

Excellent.

[@slartibartfast2452]

First mistake was assuming there is any such thing as a grown man. Yeah, we'll fake it sometimes if it means we keep getting laid, but... it's never real. Does not matter who the man is.

[@cocobololocoloco]

Nearly 1 million subs...wow ! Keep it up.

[@PappaBear_1234]

Hello Courtney… Video idea we need the official Courtney Ryan Spotify summer playlist 😊☺️

[@CourtneyRyan]

Hi my friend! 🥰

[@Mickie97]

Happy Wednesday ❤👍

[@CourtneyRyan]

You too! 🥰

[@DJS11811]

Thanks Courtney. You're the Big Sister I never had.

[@regalternative]

Courtney should write a book called HOW TO BE A GROWN ASS MAN

[@frankkoja6263]

It amazes me the amount of stuff that comes out of my teeth when flossing after brushing my teeth. Yes, flossing is very important as brushing alone won’t be enough. Plus I hate dental fillings lol.

[@chrishaugh1655]

It would be really nice if you started segmenting your videos when you do lists like this. Makes it much easier to go back and re-listen to certain parts.

[@CourtneyRyan]

I can do that!

[@IronmanV5]

"Playing video games" Funny you should say that, I'm listening to you while playing video games🤣. (I clean my way to the room my system is in and am stuck there until the floor is dried)😂 Also, do people actually keep underwear and docks more than a couple years old ?🤢🤮

[@FerencBreuer]

To your point with "instagram badies", does this also count if I follow artists like Taylor Swift or Dua Lipa as a man or just models?

[@BlackoutPatriot]

Your probably gay then and this video wouldn't be helpful to you

[@treesoul00]

Any girl that cares if you follow models is too insecure don’t waste your time. But it goes both ways, she’ll follow actors 🤷🏼‍♀️ honestly who cares those people are like zoo animals they’re beyond us.

[@TroutButter]

Don't follow Swift.

[@FerencBreuer]

@@TroutButter Nah bro, she is a good artist

[@CourtneyRyan]

No I don’t think so! It’s different in my opinion