6 Habits that Can Make People Dislike You

[@Psych2go]

What are some of your bad habits that you want to get rid of? Comment below. My is sleeping really at abnormal times.

[@rayisnothere4138]

Going On My Phone To Much

[@ausafahmedsayed4018]

Sleeping at abnormal times. Sometimes sleeping not at all. Sometimes sleeping all the time.

[@iikkaanterobackman4982]

Overeating

[@EchthelionII]

No idea. I'd love to get out of the house more and interact with people, but I don't have the means to do so, and I'm socially awkward/anxious.

[@femalegameralex506]

agreeing with everything even if i don't agree with some people

[@amasion2882]

Repeat and understand as needed: You can’t please everyone.

[@s_s974]

*"You can't please anyone"*

[@nbmicrowave]

I got u to 100 likes Thank me later

[@Hipppogrifff]

And you don’t need to.

[@vminisfuckingreal998]

understood that the hard way but thank you for reminding me

[@cvspharmacy8048]

It was exactly 900 likes when I got here :P

[@дельрей]

1. Acting too nice 2. Asking too many questions 3. Dropping a personal bomb 4. You often hide your emotions 5. Acting like you don't like someone 6. Giving a weak handshake

[@jadesimp8592]

BUT THERE IS THIS GAME IN CLASS WE PLAY WHERE THE MURDERER GIVES A STRONG HANDSHAKE AND THE REST GIVES A WEAK ONE, IF YOU GIVE A HANDSHAKE WITH T HE MURDERER U DIE. im never the murderer, in the game.

[@Kelle0284]

Having a weak handshake could sometimes be due to injuries or health issues, such as arthritis.

[@lucy--3099]

THANK YOUUU THEY TALK SO MUCH IN THE VIDEO AND NEVER GET STRAIGHT TO THE POINT

[@030wh]

@@kpopclown8538 what does that have to do with this no offense

[@kpopclown8538]

@@030wh The user name of the one who commented this is a moa but i just delete it bcs it's unnecessary

[@nouhanou19]

My list of the 6 things that can make people dislike you: - *Bragging* about what you have/do/accomplish - *Complaining* constantly - *Being too egocentric* and not giving value to other people. - *Talking negatively* about others in their backs - *Being aggressive* - *Talking too much* and not letting other people speak.

[@welcometoreality437]

Those are straight out toxic behavior.

[@estefyhengja]

This is better than the video.

[@doofenn]

The last one can be misunderstood,

[@nouhanou19]

@@doofenn Maybe, but what I mean is that we should learn when to talk and when to listen. I have met so many people who talk constantly and don't really create a space for you to speak. Usually they are people with (too much) energy and they are draining. They also usually stand very close to you and whenever you try to end the conversation they find new things to say just to keep you there so that they can absorb all your energy lol

[@nouhanou19]

@Leilanie Salmeron Well I think being angry is a waste of energy. If somebody wanted to pick a fight with me I would gently deny the request. I don't believe we should give other people the right to piss us off.

[@myrealnameismichael]

I don't wanna live in a world where being "too nice" makes you unattractive.

[@lastingblueberry2649]

Me either.

[@MarvoldX]

i lost so many people because too nice, i can see the interest vanish and me became boring until i really means nothing ngl

[@ltzLastGuestAnimatez]

@@MarvoldX same, I was treated like I never existed using jokes to cheer myself up. Glad I'm not alone!

[@simplxkaktxs1900]

same…

[@MariaRodriguez-hd9jo]

SOOO FR

[@jisounge6802]

Me: Talks about my feelings People: Don't do that Me: Bottle my sentiments People: *Don't do that*

[@ToonMageChannel]

And I'm like, "Which is it? Talk about it or not? Make up your fucking mind."

[@jordano.6075]

@@ToonMageChannel talk some thing in common with others without be so talkative. If they gave some interest, keep on. when that person knows you more, open your feelings, because you trust that person. If the other thing wont work, then dont open it, they will feel wierd and ignore you... i think this the way to do or not to do

[@ToonMageChannel]

@@jordano.6075 Thanks for the advice. I'll try doing that.

[@jordano.6075]

@@ToonMageChannel its ok, its all about pacing at what to talk and when to feel close for a more emotional opening. Close your feelings when they not show any care to you

[@wintertheampharos4725]

Renu 0730 it’s why I’m a social recluse.

[@chaoticimproviser8641]

I've met people who disliked me and avoided me only because I was "too quiet" and that apparently "annoyed" them. 😑

[@aditiaditi3421]

Chaotic Improviser Same here 😞

[@shadybeashooketh1911]

you're annoying when you talk, annoying when you don't. Can't fucking win

[@kurtistownresident9743]

Some people take silence as an insult when you’re just minding your own business

[@Jean-pq3ri]

Dude, sorry but if they called you too quiet then that most likely means they were trying to start a conversation with you. They took the time to get to know you and you most likely didn't seem interested or just didn't want to. See how rude that can seem? Like, "hey how are you!" "Good." "...oh ok, I'm glad, so what did you do today?" "Homework, watched some t.v." "Oh ok..." "..." *awkward silence* That person gets the memo that you don't like them so they never approach you again. Since you're quiet and never made an effort to strike up a conversation with them after that encounter, that left them feeling like they were the annoying ones, they resent you after that because humans are dumb and we only like people that like us back.

[@pinklatte8696]

Just like my teacher lol

[@zenithamurrie1830]

I hope people don’t take this too seriously, almost everyone does this, it doesn’t mean you cannot be liked.

[@alltheworldsastage4785]

The video never said you cannot be liked.

[@dvwn385]

It's only studies, not everyond would believe this and that, it's probably better to just be yourself, but if your insecure like self_ said, then you can do these if you want to, but in my opinion its better just being yourself, but try balancing things

[@chaotic_mood]

Yeah..many people are like this, and they can end up being the best people ever. If it really bugs someone, they should just politely let them know and ask if they can stop or save it for a more appropriate time.

[@firstarsch2221]

It depends on how extreme the behavior is tho

[@ahhwe-any7434]

I ask ppl about their family sometimes. To an extent... I want ppl to wear their heart on their sleeves. While I only give a brief summary.

[@JinxLooseCannon]

Time lines Acting to nice. 0:57 Asking to many questions. 1:32 Dropping a personal bomb 2:08 You often hide your emotions 2:49 Acting like you don’t like someone 3:31 Giving a weak handshake 4:02 Thank you for reading I hope you have a good day / night :)

[@beomgyuswife7138]

Thank you!

[@KingArtexerxes]

Some people don’t know how to spell “too”.

[@lulub1433]

That's sweet💗

[@wandabanks6756]

Thank you

[@druid139]

7. Spellchecking a person's posts. 😆

[@loveanddeath01]

“Stop being shy. You need to talk or go out more.” “You talk too much.” “You need to lose weight.” “You’re such a good friend who understands me.” BRUH, LIFE JUST DOESN’T MAKE SENSE NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY OR DO.

[@aloeveil]

I am in the middle of talking to much and being shy help

[@nunalex]

LOL you just sayed it all

[@Foam_Woa]

I feel useless

[@aloeveil]

Just a Birb me too

[@coolerplays3477]

First part describes an introvert perfectly. They tend to keep to themselves and are usually shy, but when they find something in common or want to get something off their shoulder they'll be having a long conversation... I'm an introvert who's extremely shy, but when I trust someone that's my friend I'll have deep conversations with them, short conversations are awkward.

[@sweatytryhard9891]

being too nice is the reason why I am not that much of a nice person anymore. People always misunderstand me and take advantage of me, now I hate dealing with people Wow, I didn't expect so many likes! Thanks I prefer solitude over parties and shiz!😆 Edit: I have changed...I have gotten over the hurt people have caused me because they took advantage of my kindness. How you ask? Because it's partly my fault for even allowing myself to be used in the first place. I also refuse to allow that to change who I am, or project it onto other people. Ever since then I'm so kind, I'm like a beacon of light in the night sky, lighting up people's day!

[@coffeeboi158]

Being nice is boring. I pretend to be nice to my teachers and then become evil so if I ever get in trouble I don't get blamed and have a chance.

[@almightyretrosoul]

Facts

[@bluesap7318]

I got shat on because of it when I was younger now I’m the one doing the shiting.

[@blakelip3]

Same

[@sceptre80]

I know that I am still too nice, but the anxious kind. I don't want to hurt people because I hate how that feels but I don't try to be outgoing and nice to anyone. I just stay reserved and people come.

[@goldiegacha5545]

"you're too nice" Me: stays silent "You're too quiet" Me: starts talking "You're too loud" Me:stops interacting "You're too boring" Everyone will always have a problem. Everyone is perfect in their own way! Stay safe everyone ❤️

[@torinthunder3039]

Sunshine Gacha I’m your 50th like (just thought it was cool)!

[@goldiegacha5545]

@@torinthunder3039 Aww Ty !

[@optillian4182]

*quiet

[@adelinatalpa6971]

No, you just have to be balanced ❤️

[@goldiegacha5545]

@@adelinatalpa6971 😂

[@ramennoodles7709]

I'm one of those "quiet kids" that never changes their facial expression, never talks, etc. People at my school are so judgmental and get irritated by the littlest things so easily, even when I've done nothing wrong, to the point where they take pictures of me and my "unexpressive face" (which i developed due to personal trauma) and then look at them and laugh about it. Some people also throw things at me to try to get me to say something or even so much as raise an eyebrow. They add to the issues, really.

[@CesarSaladBowl]

That’s awful. You have my condolences.

[@LogicIndependent]

Same

[@COMEMELAVERGA]

Bro same, the majority of the time i have an unexpresive face, but the weirdos end up bullyng me saying that i look like an npc

[@RocketMiner777]

i'm quiet, my face is almost expressionless, i'm "the smarttest of the class" and i'm related to some teachers so you should know where I'm going. They told me that they were my friends and cared forme, but behind my back they sabotaged my school life and used me for their own benefit. I was sad everyday about that and even went to the psychologist, but now I really think they envied me. I mean, I literally didn't anything bad to them to hate me, all I did was help them and be a good friend.

[@Certified_prick]

Same except I get teased about being too tomboyish 😢

[@bionicflora]

1. Acting too nice alright, well there's goes my personality

[@peacejoymugirya2241]

Me too😭

[@akjk2961]

Same TwT

[@aquivalry4100]

Acting too nice, and keeping my emotions hidden is literally my whole life. Who am I supposed to talk to about private things??? Definitely not family, cause of family problems.

[@akjk2961]

@@aquivalry4100 I'm so sorry to hear that, but there are people who can help or meet new people it might help.

[@Krislyamvids]

Just be yourself! I'm also that type of person, some times I act like a different person just to be liked. Why should we hide our personality? We won't be liked by everyone and that's okay, sometimes we need to look carefully to see that there are people that love us just the way we are and we don't notice. You are perfect the way you are😊

[@Kaykay26701]

1. Acting too nice 2. Asking too many questions 3. Dropping a personal bond 4. You often hide your emotions 5. Acting like you dont like someone 6. Giving a weak handshake No need to thank me lol

[@fredeemoon6053]

Thank you.....although I should not have said that ...cause it makes me look too nice . Ooops

[@loanthebank9820]

Lol give me robux noob

[@hitchdreyese4310]

Thanks

[@fredeemoon6053]

I'm nice and pleasant, smiling and helping everyone , even though I can be screaming and very unhappy inside. People would never know how I'm really feeling. I hate that I would sometimes do this to please others to stop them disliking me.... But alot of times they dont realise. So part of the video is questioning... People actually love people pleasers

[@1n4all]

Fredee Moon i ask too many questions, trust me. You don’t wanna talk with me if you hate curious people

[@nohandlesavailble]

*_"Oh, that explains everything"_*

[@aminedif4608]

F

[@emanuellydecassia8532]

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[@fuckfirefox5114]

F. me too

[@yuephoria1583]

*explains everything in my life*

[@reneemassey-2827]

@@yuephoria1583 Same here!

[@moshii.s.9361]

I get told by people that I'm too nice or too polite too many times that now hearing those words, even as compliments, feels off putting, which makes me sad because there are values I'd like to uphold and being nice is something I personally see as a core value. People questioning that value in me make me question myself in a way. It's weird how people can feel so hostile towards something like this.

[@Sanika-bt9yg]

Its not u. Its them. Keep up ur thing bro.Ppl r weird these days, they r irritated by anything and everything,kinda judgemental as well.Being nice and sweet is ur superpower and u own it. NEVER EVER FEEL ASHAMED OF IT. VERY PROUD OF U, BEING NICE AND CARING, DONT STOP. VERY PROUD OF YA!!!!! ~A RANDOM STRANGER ON THE INTERNET 🤪

[@vanilla__latte]

What the title says: "6 Habits that Can Make People Dislike You" What I see: "6 Ways People are Judgemental AF"

[@random-se7dh]

This says it all, lmao.

[@chubchub1307]

@Ethan the Evil Fecker well, ok. *unzips pants*

[@chubchub1307]

@Ethan the Evil Fecker so...wanna take this out back or..

[@xxjessicaxx1755]

Yup :)

[@tinchoardiles97]

True!

[@aliight]

no matter what we do, we will always be the villain in someone’s story

[@VixennexMac]

im the villain in a 20 person's story. Im nice. Im not. I talk ab my self. I dont. I talk ab them. I dont. I stop talking. I talk. THEY DONT LIKE ANYTHING

[@MetalSStar196]

But, being the villain is more fun and less boring. Also, you can gaslight by saying that you are doing this bad stuff for the greater good, using advertisements for your propaganda to make your goals acceptable.

[@horudapuresu2603]

@@MetalSStar196 This is the worst phrase I've ever seen in my life

[@MetalSStar196]

@@horudapuresu2603 Welcome to the real world.

[@cannicole]

@@MetalSStar196 that isn't the real world, that's just promoting manipulation u donut

[@absolutesnails6733]

Me: does nothing My brain: they hate you

[@yowzki7284]

Ifeel you. It happends to me offten but i ignore my brain and encouraging myself.

[@user-ie9xb4mf9b]

Very relatable tbh.....

[@torinthunder3039]

Me: Gives weak-ass handshake People: “...” Me: Gives a STRONG handshake People: “Jerk” .....

[@bernardoromero5009]

Me: does something My Brain: Now they hate you even more

[@mayautumn4900]

Did you know doing nothing is offensive too?

[@misspenguin7896]

what i learned throughout my life: If your personality/attitude is very different from a group of ppl youre with, 99% youre definitely gonna get hated no matter what you do. Also if your hobbies and stuff you like is at the different ends compared to them this will happen too. You will be the 'awkward' person in the group and when you try too hard on a wrong direction its gonna make you look annoying. To find out whether you need to change certain bad habit that makes ppl feel uncomfortable or just being with a wrong group of ppl, you just need to think about all the people youve met. Were they perfectly fine with you? Or somehow there are more ppl who dislike you than ppl who dont? Because I've seen ppl with terrible attitude blamed others for distancing themselves, and also ppl who just happen to be in a wrong group. Btw what i meant by terrible attitude isnt just rude or whatnot. It could be bad habits listed in this video, or stuff like: couldnt read the room at all, no knowledge in other ppl's emotional privacy, too self centered in a topic when chatting etc. Took me years to find out there are so many stuff that will make ppl uncomfortable and therefore dislikes you. No one ever teaches you how to be likeable, or at least dont annoy ppl unintentionally. Because its a natural thing ppl does without effort, but Im still learning after 8 years since i got bullied. To me, the saying of 'you cant please everyone' 'just be yourself' 'why care about others' opinion about you' only applies to ppl who dont have social issues and just purely met the wrong people. I also have this weird trait where I chuckle when I feel third hand embarassment in real life. Long story short this definitely cause misunderstandings and made my life harsher.

[@elyoh734]

You know when people like you? When they need you.

[@likhithakommuri1472]

Yeah

[@purvi110]

yasss most underrated comment

[@ivann9924]

Doesn't mean its wrong. Chances are you do that too

[@azunkor422]

When they want you use you for their own gain

[@Katy-wd5rb]

Bruh who hurt u

[@luna.hopecraft]

So, that's why everyone in class bullied me for being too nice. What a wonderful world we live in!

[@EmmieTuesday]

Ha! got written up for being too polite to customers. supervisor told me i was weird for being respectful, etc.what a bizarre world. I blame my Mom.

[@joanasemiao7499]

Same:(

[@blackrose7654]

Hahaha true

[@Iloveicecream_]

teheheheh! I get bullied for being nice to other people 😄

[@Iloveicecream_]

I’m so sorry 🥺

[@oldkitten8598]

The first point about being "too nice" sounds more like a them problem than a you problem. If a person can't handle the fact that someone may genuinely be a nice person, it may be that they're way too used to toxic people. A sad sign of the world in which we live.

[@time8745]

True

[@LuciaArts]

I agree!

[@LuciaArts]

I agree!

[@CursingBud]

Sadly reality …

[@squarebox271]

Facts

[@Potato_L0ver]

Every time you try to do something different people judge you for that "new" you. What a lovely world huh? 💔🥺☺️

[@phil4863]

Don't worry about them

[@theaqua1517]

That's why you gotta be yourself and don't pay too much mind on people and things that aren't worth your time If somebody doesn't like you ,so what? Not everyone likes everyone and that's completely normal If you try to please everyone you won't be happy ,you will exhaust yourself and there will always be that somebody who won't approve of you or something you are doing .

[@ct6852]

Know what you mean. But generally if you just try to be respectful and mindful of where they are in life and treat them how you'd want to be treated they'll come around and accept whatever changes.

[@penelopedanyelle0805]

Gist: 1. You're acting too nice 2. Asking too many questions 3. Dropping a personal bomb 4. You often hide your emotions 5. Acting like you don't like someone 6. Giving a weak handshake

[@sparrowhawk5673]

1. If they're the type that don't like people for being too nice then that just means they're probably not that nice themselves. People get annoyed with others who have qualities that they can't achieve themselves. 2. If they're the type that don't like questions being asked than that just means they got things to hide and that there is not much Integrity to fall back on. 3. I hate Small Talk. They can't handle it, personal bomb, then they're probably just too over-sensitive. So need some soothing emotionally before getting down deep. 4. Pointless to judge somebody and not like them because of that. People hide their emotions because they usually have gone through difficult upbringings that promote them to want to protect themselves. 5. There are some people that take life too seriously. And as much as they would want to be laid-back and funny it is not in their nature. So that doesnt mean that they necessarily hate you. 6. Talk about a pointless mind settings. The only reason a person would think that is because of the stereotype of men having to give strong grips to show their masculinity. Honestly one should refrain from doing such a judgment.

[@tinchoardiles97]

1. It's true that some people who are too nice, do that to hide some darker behaviors and the fact they have second intentions. But that's a quite different thing. Sometimes, people who are too nice, are like this because that's who they are and they don't know any other reality, and sometimes upbringing tends to play an influential role in people's behavior, and too-nice-people aren't the exception to this. So if anyone doesn't like a "too nice" person, well, that's on them, and possibly those people dislike nice ones out of envy, because they're not nice themselves. Society tends to celebrate rude and nasty behaviors, reason why niceness is really frowned upon. I think people need some time to know better somebody else before jumping to conclusions, because you never end to know somebody else. If you ask me, I'd rather meet nice people than meeting people who are anything but that. Judgement is why people who were too nice, get tired of being too nice, because they're being misunderstood for it and they take advantage of their kindness, or maybe because people are really ungrateful and doesn't know how to appreciate it. 2. In this one, I agree. It's really annoying when somebody asks too much, it kinda feels like you're interrogated by an FBI agent haha. I'm not saying that it is wrong to ask, it's not, because that shows interest about something or someone, and also it is good to ask to learn how to proceed in any situation before jumping to impulses. I think what IS wrong is when people ask you so many questions, especially if it is personal questions or things that they're not ready to talk about, and because there are some things that we rather keep privately, and it's like "Dude, wait! What are you? A cop or what?". And I think it's also wrong when somebody dislikes to be asked questions (even if it's only ONE question), either because they have poor social skills, or either because those people have something to hide and lack any kind of moral/ethic integrity. And I also think that you're allowed to ask questions but you must also talk about yourself, it's not fair that someone has to tell you things, but the other doesn't put any effort in allowing people to be met, and it also has to be reciprocrate in the other side. 3. I agree in not to drop a very personal bomb with people you just met, you can save them for another time when you trust each other a little more. But I also think that if the other person is talking about something related about your personal bomb without you saying anything before, it's not innapropiate to drop it. But let's be honest, there are some people who are overly-sensitive to handle a "personal bomb", and out of ignorance and lack of informations, they flee. For example, if you go out with somebody and suggests eating pizza, and you're celiac or have some lactose-intolerance or you're vegan, are you gonna keep it to yourself in order to impress others and neglecting your own personal health? Like seriously, c'mon! 4. Hiding your emotions, doesn't necessarily mean you're bad or unlikable. There's tons of reasons why people do it. Maybe it could be the upbringing, maybe they were bullied in their childhood or teens, maybe they went through something that made them so vulnerable they decided to build a shell on them and they don't express their emotions because that would make them "weaker". That's why I rather not judge without knowing their past and what they've been through. But let's also add 2 more IMPORTANT reasons why people hide their emotions. First is sexism. Men are socially conditioned to be emotionally unbreakable, because men who show their emotions and speak openly about it, are prone to suffer from unempathetic, sexist and homophobic comments for it, and are perceived as "weak", and are told to "Man up" and that "boys don't cry" and "Men don't cry". That's why many men resort to humor and comedy to express themselves and to cope with their emotions or dark things, or lie about their emotions and tries to hide them. Let's not also forget that "male tears"-meme some women use to downplay and mocking any kind of expression from men, especially when we say something they don't agree with. While a woman is allowed to cry and she express her feelings and people around them show some sympathy towards her, a man's feelings are completely disregarded and he's unable to show it without his gender, manliness or sexuality being questioned or without being victims of the "male tears"-meme, and only a few people are willing to accept that regardless of our genders, we're all human. But that doesn't mean women can't be stigmatized for expressing their feelings, some of them are stigmatized, I'm just saying that it's in general more socially accepted when she cries and when she expresses her feelings than when a man does the same. I'm a really sensitive guy, but let's be honest, I hate crying in front of people, it makes me so embarrassed. Second is the double standard in the "be yourself"-advice. People constantly tell you to "be yourself", "be authentic", "don't hide yourself" and all that stupid paraphernalia. But at the moment of truth, when you're yourself and YOU'RE NOT HURTING ANYONE WITH WHO YOU ARE, people tend to bully you, put you down, mock you, assault you, belittle you, treat you bad, tell you to be "Not too yourself" and "Be Normal" and try to make you change every single aspect of your life. That shows how lack of personality those people have. And then you're (regardless of your gender) trapped in a crossroad, because if you bottle up your emotions, you're criticized and hated for it, but if you show them, you're criticized and hated for it too. That shows us that people is never gonna be pleased by what you do, so it's better to do what we feel, because we were born alone, and we'll die the same. Also, even if you express your feelings in an appropiately, calmly and assertive way, you're seen as a bitch anyways and people get mad at you or use that my-way-or-the-highway-asshole-remark. That's why we should stop thinking "WHAT THE HELL DO YOU WANT FROM ME?!" and thinking that people is noncomformist by nature and there's nothing we can do but worrying about ourselves and stop trying to live up to the expectations people set on us. 5. I agree with that. But let's face it, fake or true indifference is something that would make anyone else get away from you or tell you to go f yourself. I mean, if you love/like somebody, just recognize it and show it. But if you don't, treat them nicely but don't try to delve into a conversation or make them believe you like them. But there's also another reality, sometimes when you express your love and care for somebody else, you never know if that person will take it well or give you the same love or sympathy back. 6. I don't know what to think about the weak handshake. Maybe that person doesn't want to hurt the other's hand, I guess? I seriously don't find any relation between how hard your handshake is and how likable you are. Really, what's the relation of it? Maybe that person doesn't want to hurt your hand, maybe that person is really shy, maybe that person doesn't want you to think he wants to "prove his masculinity", it could be a lot of reasons. Anyway, I think a human being is complex, and while there are some things of them you won't like, there could be some things you can think "Wow, I love it". And like you say, nobody is perfect and we won't be liked by everyone.

[@its.bimmanzanilla]

Thanks :)

[@therandomgamer9631]

I do hate people that are too nice all I want is to be treated like a person not a kindergartener

[@adiltube9355]

@@tinchoardiles97 did you just writed this all down or its an app?🥴😐😑😐

[@ruoqifang]

my conclusion to this: people are too picky and too judgemental

[@deandraowens7936]

💯👍💖

[@amber877]

Yes.

[@Celice]

Exactly

[@DeanRendar]

Whomever these other people are, they have established a pattern, if I am to survive here, best to figure it out and be swift and discrete. I don't like it any more than you do, Believe me.

[@nyelvbabycakes]

Yup

[@stellarful]

1. Acting too nice 2. Asking too many questions 3. Dropping a personal bomb 4. You often hide your emotions 5. Acting like you don’t like someone 6. Giving a weak handshake Edit: Omg thanks so much for the likes !! Make sure to watch the video for a more in depth explanation as well and I hope you have a good day if you’re reading this :D

[@102-d2c]

MissFanGirl: Oh.. is that what it is.. I thought #6 said "Giving a Tweak milkshake." Bruh.

[@KaanSepticher]

As ppl say in Reddit... thank you kind stranger

[@Ultra289]

I hide my emotions and the ppl i know like me Or so i think....

[@Linda-]

i basically do all of them besides 3, hmm

[@Otakuhannah121]

Oh shiiiiit

[@juanwang8641]

Nobody is perfect, let people talk about you. They’re just jealous that they can’t be like you. You are awesome the way you are, because we are all unique

[@eh5601]

“Dropping the personal bomb” *pfffft shh bs* * sweats nervously *

[@bencotton8397]

Are you.... role playing right now?

[@okay5516]

once I slept with twelve different g- oh OH shit sorry man-

[@alteredalex]

Did I tell you about that one time that's gross and you really dont want to know about? Ok! Here you go!

[@JesusChrist-mu3lr]

Did I tell you already about my love life and the weirdest and the most disgusting things about me?

[@alteredalex]

@@JesusChrist-mu3lr no Jesus tell me

[@우유딸기-f6w]

people: be yourself me: *actually being myself people: i hate u

[@jesussaves8825]

I feel this.

[@Hey_yeah]

Sadly true

[@sowhatwehotweyoung._.4566]

Omg 💯

[@xxjessicaxx1755]

I dont hate you, and not everyone is this way. You are amazing, be yourself because people do love and care about you. Some people just what you to be 'perfect' when everyone has their flaws, most people are jealous on how others can express their feelings when they feel they can't do it themselves so they feel as though people should know how they feel, this is usually how bullying happens, which can lead to self harm and further down the line, suicide. People dont realise these things until it's too late.. so be yourself and love yourself whatever the odds. I hope you have a great day/night, love ya

[@luciasiller5185]

@@xxjessicaxx1755 0_0 he is a stranger

[@nanoramirez9331]

Me: *gives weak handshake* Other person : so you have chosen *DEATH*

[@lucastrians]

I dont like the new hand shake I'm 11

[@whatthehecc740]

What is wrong with you? I hate weak handshakes

[@audreyli_creations]

@Cindi Thomas that’s just sad

[@slidey1000]

Cake for me thanks

[@ahhwe-any7434]

Me: exists Ppl: a billion miles on one breath. Not even a moment long enough to blink

[@shresthaditya9731]

0:57-Acting too nice 1:30-Asking too much questions especially when you are the only one asking questions 2:07-Dropping Personal Bombs Very Early 2:48-Hiding Your Emotions-Instead understand them and then clearly explain them 3:31-Acting you don't like Someone:Reciprocity of life that is if you act like you like someone then they will probably like you 4:15-Don't have weak handshake

[@ari_clouds2796]

Feel like they should have added “being too bossy”

[@Psych2go]

Ariel Boggs you can start the lists of more

[@randompostingg]

Acting smart when obviously they aren't 🙃

[@ari_clouds2796]

Talking way too much

[@ari_clouds2796]

Extreme selfishness

[@ari_clouds2796]

Cockiness

[@PeninsulaCity2024]

You forgot to add "simply exisiting" and "trying to avoid being gaslit" as points.

[@mochimochigod6742]

PeninsulaCity2024 so true

[@dennismccarty7728]

well hey if you dont like me fcuk you!

[@user-bz4zq8sv4v]

If someone doesn’t like you because you are “too nice” and “make them look bad” honestly, I think it’s that person that has the issue, not you. Edit: Thanks for 1k likes!🤭💗

[@vminisfuckingreal998]

im always nice to everybody. but there is one girl that kinda hates me for possibly being too nice. idk but her problem, not mine

[@yahyapatel8100]

Agreed

[@livewireOrourke]

Right on.

[@user-bz4zq8sv4v]

Snoi Med I mean, it’s obviously gonna be seen as strange if you are being creepily nice, but if someone doesn’t want you to be nice ‘cause they don’t wanna look bad, then it’s their problem.

[@jestphoenix]

if you're too nice you come across as fake and it's a massive red flag. being too nice means that you're hiding your true emotions. people hate that. they hate how nice some people are. if you're super friendly to EVERYONE, people will question the legitimacy of you and your "nice" attitude.

[@sisu-veikkaviljamiviitikko7032]

My bad habits that I may want to get rid of are being too nice, asking too much questions, dropping a personal bomb and that is that.

[@AAA-zf9ge]

Society: be yourself Me: being myself Society: not like that

[@sunontuss7355]

And who is society to tell me how to act or feel ,IM HUMAN TOO NOT A ROBOT ,i can only act like myself ,i don't say they have to like me but i won't let them harm me in any way because i will fight back! I won't let them change me ! I like me for me and that's the most important thing for me.I don't care about their opinion cuz they are no one.

[@white_sakura846]

Don’t care about them. There are so many people on the planet that WILL like who you are

[@sunontuss7355]

@@white_sakura846 Yes queen,stay strong!!😆😙🥰

[@SeraphsEnding]

xXLazy PancakeXx We need more people like you, I honestly don’t care about what other people think anymore. Never give up on yourself and who you are.

[@animatedlife3305]

Society: be yourself Me: ok (proceeds to hide bodies) Society: I-

[@noahgormley4456]

I feel like this is directed at me

[@sydneybrooks6038]

😂😂😭😭

[@Psych2go]

Maybe all of us watching this :P If you have no bad habits, you are probably not human Oo

[@noahgormley4456]

@@Psych2go wow that was surprisingly calming

[@KnightOfTheWind2401]

The snekspeare Your profile picture is a gift to this world

[@tdk0623]

The snekspeare hahaha

[@allthingshyper]

Honestly if a person reacts to my niceness with the thought "jeez, they're so nice they make me look like a jerk", then odds are, they ARE a jerk and I don't want anything to do with them anyway. That's such a weird reason to not like someone.

[@itskitty808]

Ikr? Like, they need to stop complaining about your niceness! I feel the same way, btw.

[@Aethelhadas]

thank you for taking the words out..this is exactly how i feel

[@Air_Serpent]

A friend and I were just discussing the other day about our nice classmate. We have a strong fondness for her. I think in that case it’s either people being jerks and feeling guilty, or they’re paranoid.

[@Goryalight]

When people are *too nice* you just sound like you’re trying too hard.

[@jerm-gv9rv]

Geonic Publico well most people feel unsettled by some trying hard to get someone to like them because they question why they would want something like that so bad in the first place or that they might have some underlying motive similarly another reason is that they think all their kindnesses in general is isn’t genuine and they’re trying to get something out of them or get them to do something they normally wouldn’t do for someone they didn’t know very well

[@janetttyminski7295]

I dislike people who have verbal diarrhea. They talk over you. They never ask how you or your family are doing. It’s all about them.

[@lyn-oc1ik]

I have that and trust me it's hard to control and i dislike myself for it too

[@fz1792]

@@lyn-oc1ik same

[@ahhwe-any7434]

I fn h8 disruptive ppl. Well more like my hubby and his fam. You should hear them get together. It's like lawd, I swear it's like a whole entire army off a.d.d. ers. Everybody's getting cut off and No one's listening! & im not even trying to be funny. The great gma, Idk if word got around ... & this is her trying but she's like if you can get the worm out, tell my daughter I think I have it... like 😑. Right bc these ppl def listen to me... to begin with.. they r all the worst w/ planning, time, being of their word, & throwing in unnecessary bs into the mix. Or throwing u off ur ish. But I dont have these same problems so it's kind of hard to truly understand. They're like what's his face? The law & order guy. Well, his daughter & mom doing looney things. They have that type energy. I'm really not saying things out of spite but I'll be feeling kind of dumb founded at a lost for words... & I def usually want to run my mouths to them. But other xs when I'm like f wasting energy, it's just like 😦 uh, your obliviousnessness is like straight up bizarre. I told my hubby today he's so stupid he's like beyond comprehensible. His brain prob really does look like spongebob. Holy, & not that kind either. Although now I feel even a little more guilty or think way too much if other ppl disrupt me or I do it back. Bc I'll be thinking maybe somexs I sound angry. I don't mean to but it's triggering 🙄

[@Kat-tr2ig]

I just dumped a guy because of this. He would not just shut up. Every time we were together it was an onslaught of verbal diarrhea. If I'd try to get a word in he'd interrupt or talk over me. If I changed the subject he'd change it back. And don't get me started on whenever I had the "audacity" of not agreeing with him or his opinion. I brought this to his attention twice and he refused to acknowledge it (even though he told me that others have told him the exact same thing, but according to him, they were "envious"). So one evening we were having a beer and he was on one of his word vomit spells, and something snapped. I got up, told him to f himself and left. That was over a month ago and I refuse to speak to him again.

[@peepeepoopoo6676]

7: Calling yourself ugly just for attention.

[@hope.k5398]

👏👏

[@user-s0m30n3]

So many girls in my class do this, fishing for compliments

[@maiajade7457]

keep in mind many fish for compliments because they are insecure and need validation and confirmation, others also have body dysmorphia and think and see their body ass bigger/smaller or their face as pretttier/uglier than it is

[@clauuu318]

well, i am seriusly ugly

[@geohyuga5778]

My sister does that i hate it

[@AstronautAaron]

“Which one of these traits do you have?” Me: yes

[@Psych2go]

Lol Aaron.

[@Whimpermyman]

Aaron Yu seriously I’m about to cry what the hell youtube

[@FluidLovesPeople]

XD

[@malevaistudio2105]

😂😂😂

[@pinklatte8696]

Yeah kinda ;-; I sometimes act rude to people who get into my nerves

[@Saymyname8-1]

"IN THE END THEY'RE GONNA JUDGE ME,SO WHAT EVER" -MIN YOONGI

[@Saymyname8-1]

@Prapti Azim yaa 💜💜

[@SANTRA__77]

Army 💜

[@Saymyname8-1]

@@SANTRA__77 💜💜

[@SANTRA__77]

@@Saymyname8-1 Now a days Army's are everywhere 😁💜

[@Saymyname8-1]

@@SANTRA__77 yeah 😉💜

[@ilovemybeard3394]

Doesn’t matter what you do in life…you could be the chillest most honest hard working person and someone will just hate you for it…no reason because they just like to hate Then the hater goes to a group to vent, and that group sides with them…who cares? Be yourself because what others think of you…doesn’t define you

[@user-mk2et9vb5e]

kind people : *breathe* everyone : *imma end that person's whole career* mean people : *breathe* everyone : *a-*

[@RachelBlomstrom]

That's because it's a command and it's basically implying that you think you need to tell someone how to behave. It's rude and patronizing- unless you're their Yoga teacher

[@emanueleragno5616]

@@RachelBlomstrom it was meant Kind person: *breathes* You libtard Don't worry I understand you misunderstood it's oke

[@vminisfuckingreal998]

kind people: *wait, thats not how you play the game*

[@RachelBlomstrom]

@@emanueleragno5616 I knew what you meant, but you're wrong. The English language has something called imperatives. That's what you said. "Breathe" = "You breathe" It's a command. No one when upset appreciates being given commands to breathe. It's rude. And "libtard?" Sick burn, bruh.

[@RachelBlomstrom]

@@emanueleragno5616 This is an excellent example of why people dislike you.

[@amss]

gichi gichi ya ya tza tza 🕺🕺

[@aWERFRGT6545BGFG]

SAME HELLA MOOD But also Me: *Is overthinking the hell out of a situation* People: you're fucking crazy stop overthinking it Me: *Doesn't care about the situation* People: you're way too lazy stop underthinking it

[@amss]

MissesKitty exactlyyyyyyy

[@marz6794]

Yup. Thankfully there are people who aren’t total planks. But still People Just why? How the heck are we suppose to be? “Be yourself” Five seconds later “Maybe don’t be like that” Sorry Probably got carried away. Have a nice day :)

[@mysseraefim7852]

Leah People like that are why I would want to move to Mars.

[@iclynnx]

I'm stuck between trying to be nice and being rude-ish. It doesn't seem to make a difference. Even when I try to calmly explain something or whatever, people still look down on me and try to use personal hobbies and traits to insult me. And when I'm rude back, or acts salty, people hate me too. There's no way out. I can't be nice anymore, but being rude makes people attack me...

[@irene_0r]

Everyone: "You're so quiet" Me: *tries to talk* Everyone: *ignores me* And that's my life:, )

[@zaytaz9331]

I can relate ;_;

[@suniyaparmley1183]

True.

[@kkonugi]

relatable

[@h3av3nly25]

LET’S GO, YOU AWESOME, TALK 💗

[@soyeng8997]

SO TRUE ASF

[@ashtreesystem5265]

People will dislike you for two reasons: you possess qualities the others wish they had but lack, and vice versa, they see something in you they dislike about themselves. It's all reflections and projections.

[@Jolyneadventures]

My version Habits that make ppl hate you: -dont having the same opinion -dont loving the same things -not be like their expectations -have no use for their goals

[@sunontuss7355]

You mean being yourself,well BUU for them cuz i don't care what they think i like me for me,they can't harm me because i will fight back ,i won't let them change me!!!

[@Cakeuok]

Kirafox wtf

[@Kyumifun]

Same

[@MichelleZhou]

And especially POLITICS

[@fierdrages6523]

@@Kiralmao what?

[@chez4648]

Wow, sad living in a world where being "too nice" is a negative

[@lisakim5198]

Its a harsh world ;-;

[@illuminAxel_Productions]

Maybe Mars will be better

[@Darkmattermonkey77]

What’s extremely sad about it is the reason it’s disliked. Others feel like you’re not being real. Others feel like they’re not as nice as you are and hate the comparison. Others feel like you have ulterior reasons for being nice. Essentially; they don’t trust you or they hate you for being nice. THAT’s how F’d up society is.

[@32ninjavanish]

People who are "too nice" are usually not being genuine. They want something from you. Too nice is another way of saying fake. They are not showing you their true self. Nobody is nice 24/7.

[@krisannehale2666]

Yep

[@aleksissatka5541]

0) Know-it-all 1) Acting too nice -- makes people look bad or makes them doubt your motives 2) Asking too many questions without spilling your own beans -- comes off as an interrogation, not a balanced convo 3) Dropping a persobal bomb -- do not TMI people too early, it makes thwm think you are inappropriate -- instead, share hobbies, likes & dislikes 4) Hiding & supressing your emotions - be open, talk calmly about how you feel and DO NOT be passive agressive or hold things in 5) Acting like you do not like people -- Reciprocity of like is a phenomenon that makes people like us if we act like we like them 6) Weak handshake -- you come across as someone who can not manage pressure and is associated with negativity Do your best friends, lots of love💛💛💛

[@DeanRendar]

You know it feels like its spies all the time who didnt study their backstory that hate you for wondering where they return to at the end of your interaction. This list makes their lie lifestyle more convenient it seems.

[@Sariine436]

I do all those 😂🖕

[@カムリン-k9u]

Thank you for explaining number 1, I didn't get it until you explained. 🙄

[@sidrahshams3831]

I do my best friend whenever I can.

[@ninnisto]

thank you mate!

[@VITALIXX]

This is why I hate being around people now. Anything I do becomes bad on my behalf for no reason.

[@jaytubing607]

I have more faith in animals than humanity sometimes 😓

[@junko8840]

Same

[@liya6118]

FACELESS FHANTOM , ohh i can relate to you

[@joetheman8550]

@@jaytubing607 you said it brother. Animals may not understand what we say but they make greater companions than people

[@non1263]

I’d totally like this comment, but it’s at 444 right now. Just leaving a reply to show my approval.

[@kejjywoo0e202]

Boutta watch this and find out that everything I do is on this list

[@sukifriend]

Oh noooo lolll

[@Psych2go]

Now what? lol

[@buffmusicman]

Me t o o

[@lindsayaguilar1614]

mood

[@antiusinferno9396]

So was it the case? Did everything on the list match what you do? If so we can be fwiends, otherwise we'll just have to settle for friends.

[@rodrigomunoz3669]

Habit number 7: "being yourself"

[@faisal6167]

Pls subscribe

[@cassi_2909]

I am sick and tired of trying so hard to change myself, my habits, etc to make people like. Then I think "just be yourself." But turns out people don't like the real me. What am I doing wrong? I literally joined a new school in September 2022 and it was going good for 1 month and a half. It's not the worst experience but it's got to the point where people that don't even know me have the odacity to make fun of me and I only look forward to seeing my favourite teacher. So I simply don't talk to people unless they come to me.

[@lastingblueberry2649]

Still be yourself. If you’d rather being fake, then fine, but I’m sure that you’d feel much better being yourself. If people don’t like you for who YOU are, that’s their problem. Not yours. Like a cartoon said, “I’d rather be me, not who I pretend to be. “ - Star the forces of evil

[@MaiThor_]

@@lastingblueberry2649 I think we all inherently want to belong, so where's the middle ground of trying to have people accept you and being yourself

[@jocabedvp5087]

@Just Cas I totally get you. I entered HS excited ( but of course nervous 😅). Everything was good for the first few months. People came up to me, I made new ‘friends’ and i made myself friends with the teacher. Now I am ignored ( but people still stare at me and a bunch of boys have a crush on me 😂) and I even see people that I knew since childhood and they don’t really like me no matter how many times they try to hide it… I noticed it. The only ‘real’ friendships I have are from back in 8th grade. They too are going there own ways. I have even gotten to overthink if I am ok and if I’m doing something wrong. Till later on I learned that it was because I was really being who I am . I am an SDA Christian and a daughter of God. Ever since people found out that I was a Christian they all have dispersed and it’s kinda awful to see as a girl who was used to big groups. Don’t get me wrong I wasn’t being annoying or anything. I am a huge social butterfly. I need to interact with someone everyday. But I have done what you said… only talk with others when they talk to you. It’s really hard though since at this age of life one typically cares about what others think and always wants to impress😅. But I definitely relate to you Siss. Remember that u are Loved and that you not alone ❤ God is With Us!

[@Emart_43]

I feel the same, I just can’t understand people and it’s usually hard not to hate them and myself, when I was younger they liked me for who I was but I don’t know what happened and after that almost no one talked to me, today I have no friends (like yes, some people “accept” me and we text once a month or so but that far from a friend), I just talk with my sisters. I wouldn’t be able to live without them. I’m so lonely, but I just can’t trust people and no one wants to talk to me for who I’m neither for who I try to be.

[@TriviaNight]

The first two looked like I was getting off to a bad start.

[@indigo9645]

Trivia Night same, I cannot stand without asking too many questions and I want to act too nice, I think :S

[@Aethelhadas]

@@indigo9645 same..

[@vivian8707]

Same!!

[@chocobossxii9457]

Let's be honest here guys, working with people is always gonna be difficult. You'll never know when you hit that sweet spot, there'll always be someone who's grumpy smurf 😅😅😅I keep interaction kind calm and polite, and then someone put right told me it's wrong to be too polite with strangers. Like come on 😅😅😅

[@ck7993]

I wish I was you. I never ask questions even when i need it

[@Felix-Felix]

Honestly if you hate someone because they are trying their best and it "makes you look bad" The problem is YOU, buddy.

[@HowYouLikeThatDevanshi]

Yesss 💯

[@ShadowDancer_]

This af

[@undead_6662]

Yeah but that YOU is the majority of people Me included

[@antwanwilson7228]

That's why I try not to let it bother me ✊🏾

[@marisol.fairytales6633]

Yes

[@isaiahenzo3998]

"It is better to be hated for what you are...than to be loved for what you are not"

[@waiwau2216]

MARINA Or Kurt Cobain?

[@jp783]

That's healthier than this video, for sure.

[@Leonard_Wolf_2056]

The answer is: become good.

[@DKSE123]

Agreed

[@lacountess]

Not being able to read social cues is a big one. If someone sends body language signal to leave them alone, ignoring it and invading their personal space is a guaranteed way to make them dislike you. Also observing social conventions like greeting a friend when you see them on the street, or offering to get them something if they bump into you in a line at a restaurant or coffee shop goes a long way to making people like you. Ignoring these could be seen as a sign you don't care for the other person or don't see them as deserving of kindness or respect.

[@elizabethbyers5826]

*0:56* Acting Too Nice *1:31* Asking Too Many Questions *2:08* Dropping A Personal Bomb *2:48* You Often Hide Your Emotions *3:28* Acting Like You Don't Like Someone *4:03* Giving Someone A Weak Handshake For all the people who are in a rush or just want to skip ahead 😊 thank you for your time 😌

[@pplaneth]

tyy

[@sarahjanemcandrews7769]

TY

[@rr_ren]

Thanks 👍

[@elizabethbyers5826]

@Ell Gee your welcome! and thanks??

[@elizabethbyers5826]

@Ell Gee thank you! i hope when your birthday comes you will too :)

[@Saturn_day]

Habits that make people dislike you.; •Breathing•

[@kingpeedorah]

Yah

[@kindlittlebunny9869]

*eating loudly*

[@indra-cv7or]

**dies*

[@R.R_Rinren]

*Existing*

[@laurasmouse9116]

Yup u got that all right

[@vicgut3848]

Everyone in this comment section could be a huge group of friends we all understand each other in a way

[@khuxiong4589]

Yes yes!!!! Lol

[@time8745]

I would love that , cause I don't have many friends .

[@Celestia5782]

@@time8745 Same bro/sis, same

[@InnaLynx_the_Video_GameR]

YES

[@nezoon6587]

yeah i like it here

[@nickonerd]

So being nice makes people hate me? That’s not really a flaw with me then, that’s their problem with judgement.

[@stantwice8856]

idk who needs to hear this but you dont have to make everyone like you, some people will just not like you and thats ok

[@mennam.3848]

Yes once💜

[@goldenlady3495]

The ppl who have disliked me were vicious. The ppl who disliked me didn't want to dislike me alone, and encouraged others to do it too. The ppl who disliked me followed me, harassed me, and when I avoided them I was called "difficult".

[@mennam.3848]

Nina Blaze oh that’s so sad 😞,I wish I could help you

[@aeinx114]

Facts

[@aWERFRGT6545BGFG]

Well...you kinda need someone to like you if they are friends with all your friends

[@eya4971]

"You're so quiet" Me: *Talks* "You talk to much" Me: *Silent* "You're so quiet" Me: *i-*

[@mennam.3848]

I love you blink,be who you are and don’t listen to others💜

[@kinimitoriko6336]

EXACTLY

[@35xliezzz2]

Gurl same

[@mayaisabelle3709]

ky kai das wen we say 𝕚𝕥 𝕚𝕫𝕫 𝕨𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕚𝕥 𝕚𝕫𝕫𝕫

[@WHAT-jz3ed]

Same..makes me want to shut my mouth forever

[@Residentbimbo]

the only reason i'm "too nice" is because im really shy

[@elisasmith3766]

I relate to this so much

[@Iuvm1a]

same- 😭💀

[@nezoon6587]

im too nice because im shy and have a fear of confrontation

[@deborahwolff5651]

Haha me too!

[@lilymiau4166]

Same, I just don't want to be judged

[@moojuice9614]

i shouldn't have to change the good things about myself because it makes others feel bad about themselves. that's them being narcissistic. people should cherish others for the values they lack and want to learn them, not resent them. the world is full of jerks and i wouldn't want to become one of them simply for their validation.

[@artemys5197]

"Don't ask too many questions" guess I'll never talk again

[@gommodore6441]

"Don't be too silent" What the hell am I supposed to do then?!

[@gommodore6441]

@Hamster Pile I feel ya brother. Hey, if it makes you feel better, each person has different expectations of how people are

[@justjay7788]

My entire life story

[@randynick1679]

Well, i used to ask many question to someone that i learn from but not the same questions.

[@kinimitoriko6336]

and now theyre asking why im quiet, LMAO FUCK OF UGLIES

[@grrwyz]

i'm 17 seconds in and i started getting major anxiety already why does it have to be this way

[@Bubbliee0]

No one told you life was gonna be this way

[@Iceteanpizza]

Kaitlyn Your job's a joke, you're broke, you're love life's DOA

[@Bubbliee0]

@@Iceteanpizza Its like youre always stuck in second gear

[@Iceteanpizza]

@@Bubbliee0 Well, it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year

[@Nono-jf5bc]

Oo baba your too young to be so stressed out people are going to like you or not it's the way the works when me was your age me mum told me your beautiful smart and strong but not everyone else will see that i'n you but the right ones do just be your self and learn to love you more than you will find you worried for not good luck wee one

[@aoi1640]

6 Habits that make people Dislike you 1. Being to Nice Me: Guess I'm gonna Stop Helping People Then

[@okayhi2594]

don’t do that

[@sahar1213]

@@okayhi2594 its a joke

[@okayhi2594]

ScientestGaming ik

[@dianaschick2385]

😒🙄 u do not have to do that

[@aoi1640]

@Shâdøw Gîrl It a Joke Breh

[@DouradaBambina]

Please continue being too nice! The collective needs this. Only individualistic societies would find this a problem!

[@LuciaArts]

One important point wasn't mentioned: ✧ Not everyone is going to like you and you don't have to care! ✧ ❤️❤️❤️

[@SeSdesc]

Did you watch the entire video?

[@apo11ocat]

they mean in general

[@nataliesrctftyb3626]

Periottt!!!

[@adrianaggressive6625]

yup!! idgaf what ppl thinks now its all just bullsh!t-

[@telikaandfam]

thats a lonely life tho

[@friendlyneighborhoodloser2639]

I’d be confused too if someone’s hand turned into a tentacle when they shook my hand

[@osku2290]

I'd accept my death there

[@wadiarisha]

Osku 22 lol

[@Maid_of_Spiders]

I'd ask them if they want to go on a date cus I'm into that shit.

[@margomai8321]

Mmm tentacles... 😏

[@uglylittledaikon4657]

xDD

[@Phelisreal]

So basically for most of the time it's literally saying: "don't be yourself"

[@tinchoardiles97]

True! But I also think it's also literally saying "People is noncomformist, worry about yourself 'cause you were born alone and you'll die the same".

[@umsrum]

Maybe just take your time with showing all your cards. It's actually good because seeing theirs first is good too

[@JesusChrist-mu3lr]

"People will not like you, if you're being yourself! :D"

[@kittycatgoals5217]

*exactly*

[@sharlapramudito8841]

i always laugh too much even when the joke isnt funny or when there IS NO JOKE. but i still laugh and idk why i cant help it. i sound like a toddler and people dont like me for it. cause im loud and i laugh too much

[@kedigillerdenbiri]

If somebody's gonna dislike you, they will find a reason. If somebody's gonna like you, they will find a reason. Just be forget about fight for pleasuring people and like your own company..

[@tnnkinketsu548]

"You can't please everyone" I can't please anyone.

[@yasuthelittledoggo8978]

Omg same XD

[@emanueleragno5616]

It's okay fam you'll find good friends

[@My_Own_Thing]

Well, you pleased me with this comment :)

[@Malficense]

Lol 😂 so I really can’t “Please” anyone (Girls)

[@tnnkinketsu548]

@@Malficense there's these three kids at my school who constantly hate on me, and I'm trying not to slap the absolute [veemo] out of them.

[@lourdescanoy965]

"You don't talk much do you?" Me : *Talks* *Gets Interrupted *Gets Ignored *"Shut Up" *"Ugh You Talk Too Much"

[@northdia]

omg this is so relatable :((

[@IceePhoenix]

That's why I talk too much online. It's harder to get interrupted unless you are on discord.

[@bloodtasteslikecookies6640]

SAME

[@jujumse]

yes yes

[@yermum6287]

If it's such a relatable thing it means you probably say things like this to other people

[@ashykn33s]

Me: *tries to talk about my feelings* Society: *N O* Me: *bottles up emotions and fake happiness* Society: *N O*

[@cjlit9664]

ResinatedShip11 im sorry but a fake smile is easy to tell

[@djungelskog7714]

Ya sure do buckaroo, ya sure do.

[@silscr]

Ugh tell me about it

[@markodissey405]

Weirdo weirdo

[@liss8628]

me: *will i ever win?* society: *yes* me: wait really? Society: *NO!*

[@MoonLoonie69]

My dad once said if people don’t like you for being you, then they’re not worth your time and breath.

[@terrilevaincois]

I don't care if people dislike me for being too nice and hiding my emotions. I just being me and genuine. People just have to deal with it.

[@nutanddash8552]

thats nice i guess

[@Aethelhadas]

exactly

[@ghostofbex]

Truest & greatest answer to everything in life!🤘🏽

[@homerthetruckguy5324]

Yeah that’s how I feel too

[@chichi5985]

periodt

[@FlightlessAngel1000]

Honestly, I used to really care what people thought of me and used to people please a lot but now I couldn’t give a crap 🤣 and I’m so much happier for it. I’ll be me and if you don’t like it, okay 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@sunontuss7355]

YES QUEEN GOO! BE YOU ,BECAUSE *YOU* IS *AWESOME*

[@milkycloud6255]

Same I also understood that I just need to be confident in social situation

[@nohands720]

Be you as long as your not annoying or obnoxious

[@dianeejam1589]

But like, how do u do that? I mean i can't be myself outside because idk what myself acts like uknow, like i seriously don't know

[@caelyn2873]

@@dianeejam1589 me too. i know so many carefree people and it makes me sad i care too much about how others perceive me. i just act super boring and quiet around everyone.

[@tofajjolhossaintanvir]

Fact: I don't care about who doesn't like me, but I want to make people satisfied

[@hetdowsha2968]

I've developed a habit of not talking much to others because in my mind, I think I'm doing them a favor by not bothering them. Then they assume that I have a problem with them. The irony of it.

[@Psych2go]

This is quite relatable actually.

[@sang01me]

Agree. Same here.

[@cyanfruit2957]

Exactly! I'm always afraid people think I'm stuck up just because i don't talk, when I'm just trying to not bother them.

[@dolphinvoltage3339]

heT dowSha i just dont talk to people when im hanging out with them which probally gives them the message that im not interested in talking to them i am interested in talking but not to the extent of just being boring when i know i have nothing to talk about

[@Soulpixievam]

Same but you can't win at all.

[@LordKaname3]

Social interaction is just confusing for me at times. You gotta be nice but not too nice. You gotta be assertive but not aggressive. You gotta show interest to them as a human being but you can't ask too many questions. Etc. etc. Finding that middle ground requires experience and even if you do find that middle ground it changes depending on the individual and individual's mood.

[@LikeableAden]

Social interaction Some thing just doesn't make sense Being too nice: people won' like it Being too mean: people will more hate it I just don't understand like what do they actually want from me?

[@sweetcherry7759]

I think in the end many people have grown up to be toxic and make it everyone else's problem (no thanks to the anti-social society that we call Capitalism or just most Patriarchal Societies in general, making life unhealthy and toxic and that strongly effecting people & families)- Those who're innocent, kind, good can find it hard to live where everyone is a POS or have learned to not trust kindness just because some ppl were fake-kind, rather than genuine kind. Or for whatever other warped reason.

[@soobinism]

@@LikeableAden The middle ground that Kawaii Taki described. Some people just won't like you and there's nothing you can do about that, but if nobody has ever liked you that's most likely a personal problem. If you have and enforce boundaries + kindness + self respect + confidence + good sense of humor, you'll be liked.

[@kennedyvincent3217]

Yess!! I don’t understand it!! And I was raised as an only child so I interacted with myself for the most part. I don’t get other people. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@iiikelita]

Being yourself is one way people would dislike you. I've learned from experience Edit: thanks for the likes😅 I wasn't really expecting that many but thank you. I hope you all are staying safe❤

[@breannaraub8108]

I can relate, it's a lesson I know all too well

[@RaineSolosMud]

you should ask what do they not like about you, u may be doing something or saying things that are offensive

[@pogikoshet9351]

Maybe your ego is way above your shell; or maybe your way too arrogant

[@iiikelita]

Mythcial_Chicken they don’t talk to me ;-;

[@iiikelita]

Val Bert my friends don’t talk to me ;-;

[@Rahhhh5510]

I'm gonna do all of these to be as annoying as possible 😌

[@marysanders123]

🤣🤣😂😂😂 same

[@ravend5006]

Such a successful person you are 😂

[@marysanders123]

@@ravend5006 yes I actually am a successful person and actually I'm am doing well in in case you wanted to use that as a insult dumbass

[@ravend5006]

@@marysanders123 why would I get this as an insult it's an insult to the word successful that you said it from your mouth 😊

[@RocketMiner777]

XD

[@DreamUN]

I struggled with depression, anxiety and trust. Most of the things listed on this video are true. I am a pretty cool person but thru time I just make conversations awkward and weird and next thing you know nobody wants to be my friend. I suck at making friends so when I meet people I prefer not to socialize too much with them.

[@emmacampbell9358]

you're not alone.

[@Pant3raa]

me too :(((

[@alexr4245]

Me too I felt that

[@Duskbluesky]

You just described my dating/social life lol…

[@adrianslively1062]

Felt that

[@soleil2934]

I always hide my emotions because im under the impression that if i start sharing it too often,ill be annoying. And whenever i do, nobody could care less. So i just learned to stop talking about my feelings.

[@kimmaher8116]

I do the same thing

[@ari4342]

I used to do that, too. But slowly, I realized hiding my feelings just led to even stronger emotion waves. Before I even knew it, the days where I thought the next would be better only turned into the worst days I’ve ever had. Advice: don’t share it WAY too often. If you talk about it once in a while with a close friend or your parents (I know I know, they won’t understand most of the time and don’t push them to. Just make them listen. It helps). It actually does more good than harm. I also found it helpful to write everything down in a notebook to get the day over with, then focus on something else. This depends on the problem, of course. If it’s something subtle like a bad day or a typical emotional rollercoaster, write it. Do something else that you enjoy. If it’s a bigger issue like school or bullying or something else, then talk. Talk as much as you possibly want to, to those you trust most. They will likely give you wholehearted, good advice. But please don’t stop talking. I’ve went through a period somewhat like yours and I learned not talking can inflict a lot on your emotional well-being.

[@mitsukiyazumi]

I agree with you, I tell my emotions to my friends but when I start talking about it they change the topic even if I'm not yet done talking

[@gamergurl4965]

@@mitsukiyazumi well then u have fake frnds..frnds are supposed to be by ur side when u need them...not ignore u..when I tell my frnds about my feelings they listen to it carefully and help me and even if I want to leave the topic they won't let it go unless they r satisfied that I would be able to deal with the problem now..this is what makes them special and proves they they are ✨real✨

[@miiguel3550]

@@gamergurl4965 don’t tell others who their friends are. Not every buddy you have in this world is going to be the perfect friend, you just gotta take the time to get used to their flaws just as they get used to yours. See? It’s a trade, and you both get a friendship in the end. Whether it lasts is dependent on other stuff.

[@AlyaHarumi]

if you think you’ve “accidentally” done one of these, please don’t feel that you’re stupid and think that you’re the worst kind of human. This is just someone’s opinion, we all have different stories behind one act, and have a different conclusions too. Don’t forget you still have time to change, and the most important thing is to like and love yourself. You did great guys!

[@paniniprincess5211]

💗 THANKYOU

[@Airman_Haz]

I don't want to change how I am to make other people happy if u don't it say it to my face if u can't voice ur feelings that's something I do now like

[@Velvet62211]

I haven’t actually done any of these. It’s just that my friend seems like she doesn’t like me at all. She dislikes when I talk to her friends, even when they’re my friends too. She always changes the subject when I’m talking about me and makes it about her. And she attempted to embarrass me in class, which backfired because she was the one who got embarrassed. I’m just trying to look through videos to know if I did something wrong

[@robertadamsx2]

But what if it's 4...

[@jp783]

It's a horseshit premise anyway. I wouldn't pay this tripe too much mind.

[@birbsarecool6965]

I hide my emotions because most people I known have usually made fun of it or end up thinking I’m really annoying. I really do want to express my self but I can’t

[@purplex360]

"Dropping a personal bomb" Me who has overshared too much: (chuckles) *I'M IN DANGER*

[@JesusChrist-mu3lr]

*_CONSTANT DANGER_*

[@slrsnzi]

Lumi same 😭

[@hoodpeppapig1563]

Jesus christ, jesus.

[@hoodpeppapig1563]

👀 👄

[@hoodpeppapig1563]

👁👄👁

[@POYSSI]

Who cares? People will dislike you one way or the other.

[@PixiieGrotto]

Yoh Voys yeahhh

[@Psych2go]

"You can't please everyone" :P

[@aidsomemore]

Yes exactly!!!

[@sofya3033]

Factssss

[@okenk.6379]

Life facts 👌

[@idk_4826]

me around new people: ^quiet^ them: hey, why you so shy? me: ^talks a little^ them: haha yeah.. ^completely changing the subject^

[@aizazahira5786]

Very relatable 😭😭😭 I'm just don't want to hurt anyone's feeling so I'd prefer not to talk to anyone

[@nezoon6587]

someone talks to me for the first time me: becomes a shy and stuttering mess

[@noblestsavage1742]

People who dislike others because of trivial things like these examples are really not worth any time. Instead try to reserve judgement until you know what is driving these behaviours, there may be a valuable human in need of love and support underneath

[@akutagawasimp7968]

"Having a weak handshake" Me: But... I don't do handshakes??

[@euphoricren9309]

Me too, it's weird and I'm a clean freak lmao

[@srinishjohn7993]

Me too

[@romicor9]

We kiss on the cheek in my country unless it's a business/very formal meeting. Handshakes are usually seen as weird or not nice even when you're greeting someone for the first time.

[@srinishjohn7993]

@@romicor9 where are you from ?

[@sinistrecigogne]

@@srinishjohn7993 Can't tell where the OP is from but from what I remember it's a common thing in France and North-african countries, among others.

[@chaevie257]

It's sad that society expect others to be "unkind" to the point that when you're being too kind, they'd think you have hidden motives when you don't. What's wrong with doing the right thing? You're not stepping on anyone nor have bad intentions. In their eyes, being kind reciprocates to being a fake when you're just being yourself. So what should "too kind" people do if that's really who they are?

[@otterlus]

Keep being kind. People are just too used to being stomped on in this dog-eat-dog world. There are people that have trust issues because of past experiences. Just keep being you. Eventually they’ll learn that that kindness isn’t a front, but rather a personality trait.

[@06林子瑄-o5q]

I relate more to the former "they think kind people make them look bad" because of this I was put under a microscope. If I ever stood up to myself people would start saying things behind my back. Saying that I'm just a fake.

[@06林子瑄-o5q]

Does complaining devalue what you do?

[@birdlover6842]

The real me is naturally "too nice and friendly" so I used to put on a mask of being cautious and almost shy-like. Couldn't stand the boredom any longer so am my extroverted stupid self. I wish people would empathize more with other people's personalities. People may trash me but I won't be here to see it. Just trying to help.

[@blop-a-blop9419]

Well, I guess they should just be hated... People will hate you, period.

[@michellepaul8514]

If someone doesn’t like you cause you’re nice then that’s just cause they’re not a nice good person. 🤷‍♀️

[@itskitty808]

Exactly!

[@Aethelhadas]

True

[@alienqueen3324]

Michelle Paul ikr! I’m not extremely nice myself, but every time I hear someone making fun of someone for being too nice I really want to punch them. I know some of the nicest people ever and people don’t like them :,(

[@tusiroy9777]

Yes!

[@guesswho5790]

I'm not super duper nice, but I immediately dislike and avoid mean or petty people. Idk I just prefer someone nice over someone mean. Others have different preferences I guess.

[@thegreatbutterfly]

7. Telling the truth. I was surprised not to see that one on the list.

[@chewingpeppers]

well... "being too nice" repelled me from bad friendships. I have an amazing group of friends and we're always there for each other, no drama. win win situation, so never stop being good because of other people's issue! thought this should be put in the video, instead of portraying gentleness as a character flaw 🙃

[@alexandria_aesthetic]

very true

[@launacyko4523]

Yes. And hiding my emotions also repelled me from bad friendships. This allows me to filter through fake friends who wouldn't give a shit how I feel and real friends who put in extra effort to actually understand me instead of judging me because of how quiet I am. Besides, this then allows me to truly open myself to people who deserve my trust.

[@drunkydrunk2351]

Amen to that... That's lucky

[@fnwytc]

Yeah, I think because they're trying to keep the videos short they make things really simple and not very comprehensive... but, you're absolutely right. It's not a character flaw in the slightest.