7 Hidden Signs Someone Is Secretly Unhappy

[@Psych2go]

Have you watched the things you unconsciously do because of hidden depression? kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6CoimR5gJ2crrc

[@kiwii1027]

Love your videos! They're very helpful

[@Mac_Ann555]

I didn’t, I’ll go watch it! Love all these vids, they’re super helpful and resourceful, I’m becoming a smarter person

[@lilmissary]

I am. No one seems to care tho....

[@lachino8]

I did! :D

[@lachino8]

@@lilmissary I care UwU

[@ICEcoldJT]

“When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That’s the message he is sending.” ✨

[@Yams-Hams7734]

Well said.

[@judemelroses9920]

Indeed 💫

[@Dragz166]

Aw.

[@dignityblue9855]

oh welp that dude who made me suffer in pain doesn't deserve to get he's kneecaps eaten!

[@sakuraRyn]

That's why I left a relationship-- to let him focus all of his time and energy to working on himself instead of trying to hold our shaky relationship together. I love him, I want the best for him, but right now the best thing for him is to seek help

[@sugalite8201]

The lonilest people are the kindest The saddest people smile the brightest The most damaged people are the wisest All because they do not wish to see anyone else suffer the way they do -Anonymous Btw this in not owned by me, I just wanted to spread the heartfelt message

[@Dragz166]

I love this quote

[@marymaher4036]

Such "A Beautiful" quote of wisdom.

[@fancifulspoon8094]

100% True

[@andresespinoza9733]

That's cringe kkkkkkkkkk

[@scooter678]

ikr its so Beuatiful

[@chloebasilio2922]

everyone here is not watching this for their so called "friend" or "loved one", they're watching this for themselves,,right?

[@stupidityofme7248]

I know I am

[@ladybaabaa3294]

Yep

[@richavarghese5986]

Yeaa

[@sofiainiguez3921]

Yes😔

[@brandonleibich7793]

O.o right.

[@jennyneon]

*The loudest one in the room is often* _the loneliest one in the room._

[@chaosdromanah8620]

Facts

[@fancifulspoon8094]

100% True

[@typical-lemon9235]

*SOCIAL ANXIETY HAS ENTERED THE CHAT*

[@yourworstnightmare6003]

Guess my extreme loneliness must not exist then since I am always the quietest.

[@kiaraaaafrfr]

I'm that person oof

[@LibraryAmbientJunkie]

We live in a society that's obsessed with toxic positivity. Showing emotions like anger, frustration, sadness and anything that isn't happy or pleasant is frowned on.

[@VengefulPolititron]

yep. as a guy. it's illegal to be angry in public.

[@notactuallymal]

@@VengefulPolititron not really. just as long as you don’t hurt anyone

[@VengefulPolititron]

@@notactuallymal wrong. you have no idea. cops are called. you get banned from stores or online groups. you don't know.

[@notactuallymal]

@@VengefulPolititron sorry then. hope I didn’t offend you too much

[@VengefulPolititron]

@@notactuallymal it's ok. I'm a horrible person. I was beat up by life... but I turned evil. and now I'm just trying to blame others for my choices... it really is horrible as a guy watch Nora Vincent. "self made man" anyways. thanks. sorry. no prob.

[@datboi6954]

1. they deflect serious conversations and questions 0:53 2. they give short responses 1:29 3. they unexpectedly cancel plans at the last minute 2:02 4. they sleep a lot 2:34 5. they prefer to be alone more than usual 3:12 6. they've become timid and don't want to announce their presence 3:46 7. they're easily upset 4:25 I hope I could help! (:

[@mahiahmiah14]

Thanks!

[@metra8604]

sounds like me!

[@venus7189]

Thankyou

[@oumanc9282]

@@caitlin.peterson I don't Understand Me too 🙂

[@JoeLouis32]

Thats fast

[@CosmicEquestrian]

Giving a virtual hug to anyone who’s having a rough time❤️

[@Woeisme2]

Need a real one though 😞

[@goatsanimations4480]

@@Woeisme2 same

[@sabrinacollard8077]

Thank you. I really needed it

[@amberleyah3047]

@@sabrinacollard8077 what about a rough life.

[@otobustutkusu303]

İ'm not having a rough time, but thanks anyway! =D

[@kittenwatermemes]

I'm watching this, being the one whos secretly unhappy

[@ctchimchar5258]

You and me are two peas in a pod

[@kittenwatermemes]

@@ctchimchar5258 Yeah

[@ctchimchar5258]

@@kittenwatermemes We get through it, together if we have to

[@yipppeeeee457]

same

[@kittenwatermemes]

@@ctchimchar5258 yeah, hopefully well get through this

[@TheChilipepper77]

I am very unhappy but I know how to hide it well, so no one ever asks me anything, which just makes me more lonely

[@elinehegrand5487]

:( we're here for you

[@beanhead7632]

Sometimes, it can be the quietest and most anxious people who can interpret better... You can talk to me too, or that person above. I’m sure they’d understand you too (:

[@asritanayek7561]

We all are so same❤️

[@sabrinacollard8077]

I'm also good at hiding

[@sippin_cats]

Literally at this point I dunno if they know or just don’t care or if they think I’m faking like omg

[@noreensait7084]

As someone who has struggled with depression I do a lot of these things. But I've also found that when I do give detailed responses people get quiet and seem uncomfortable. So I just carry on as usual

[@aliceliddell8413]

yup, this

[@user-vu7rv1xf1l]

Yep, when I reach out to people they vanish.

[@handleit_289]

Yup yup they seem clueless and dont know what to do and that's why I dont want to reveal anything and i act like everything is fine

[@hopefullyhopes6250]

That "I'm here if you need to talk" speech it's nothing but a lie so they can feel good about themselves

[@sabrinacollard8077]

People don't like it when I'm sad. So i just smile and say "I'm ok"

[@vAqeii]

Sign 1: They don't play Minecraft often anymore

[@justacardboardbox7504]

*whoops*

[@marleenvanhamersveld5940]

Awh man

[@belfordk]

Me: *looks at all my pets*

[@MyName-zb4dl]

Imao yeahh maybe I'll that way if I cant play minecraft anymore that would depressing v_vv_v

[@FutureFoxyOfficial]

Me

[@Alex-noyb]

Don’t mind me, I’m just taking notes to know where I have to improve my acting skills

[@IloveYou-tq3rd]

Don't do that pls...you don't need to think about others.

[@coolbeans5992]

Same tho

[@Cheesecat117]

Wait this wasn’t the original reason of this video?

[@werty9288]

Same bro

[@tazzredbandana6911]

I do this too

[@freelanceopportunist559]

Next do the 7 glaringly obvious signs someone is unhappy that are inexplicably ignored by everyone until their funeral.

[@november.rain1993]

Well said. It's only once a person has passed it's when people realize they could of done more.

[@jovanibatuyong3639]

I like how specific this comment is

[@mauriciofreitas3384]

You only trully know what you lost, when you don't have it anymore. It sadly is a common problem. Others ignoring the cries for help until one has enough and decides to deal with the sadness permanently

[@gnarthdarkanen7464]

To everyone, Robin Williams' passing was a devastating loss. To some of us, it wasn't shocking so much... only tiresome and sad. ;o)

[@popcat6570]

​@@mauriciofreitas3384 im dreading the day my parents might die. im 11 and my dad is like 56-57. Im trying to do what i can with them. im trying to make their last years happy. But im a pretty messy and low attention spanned person so if i misplace or loose something i own, i get scholded at by my parents but its fine cause i know ill be crying till death if they ever die

[@wildfyah]

Me. Especially the bluntness and pushing people away. I don't want to be a burden to anyone.

[@guadalupeperales5725]

It's hard to let people in. You *aren't* and won't be a burden for those who care about you. Just try to let them in. It will take time but it will be worth it. And if you catch yourself pushing them away again, remind yourself you're wanted by those who love you and stick around. Allow yourself to let them in, as hard as it may be, and please, keep them close. Don't push away...

[@sabrinacollard8077]

Same

[@kmmadupu8161]

Hits home😭

[@thekidsergio2274]

Sad but true

[@Xengaa]

"Did anyone come to mind when watching this video?" Uh yes. Me. :(

[@amirahnailofar596]

same

[@hazlou2889]

Same

[@weycin4598]

Ughh yaaa ಠ_ಠ

[@slatskatya]

Sending all you 🤗remember there is always light at the end of the tunnel ❤️

[@bellalunagaming3541]

Happiness: Imma leave the chat bye- Me: NOOOO Does this song remind you of anyone Hehe about that...

[@Miraebee]

The truth is we just want to fade away from other because if they don't make it worst(making you anxious or feel like trash) they won't help anyway...🙂

[@dragletsofmakara1120]

“Just want to fade away” TRUTH

[@revenenant7604]

Can you explain this feeling and where it comes from? "I want to go home.." "You are home?" Because I've been feeling it a lot during childhood and recently as well and it really hurts..

[@Minimint_]

I don’t feel at home at my own home. I feel at home elsewhere. So I understand that...

[@revenenant7604]

@@Minimint_ I don't feel at home ANYWHERE and it's killing me it's like I don't have a safe place to go in this world and there is no place for me and I'm constantly in hyperfocus??/ flight or fight mode and it's exhausting I'm in constant stress help

[@Minimint_]

@@revenenant7604 I’m so sorry. I wish you would feel at home somewhere. At one point I was like this too. While I still am not quite the best I have come a long way. And I understand that certain things that happen in you life can make it hard to have a place to call home. But trust me, you will. You just have to wait to find it. I promise you, things will get better. I hope you find a place to call home for yourself.

[@pandasplayhouse9143]

It's alright to feel that, while I can't explain it, I've felt it too. Hang in there!

[@revenenant7604]

Okay I got to know that it is a sign of depression

[@aylintchobanova8420]

✨I've came to the point when people are being mean to me, I start laughing at my own self thinking it really is funny✨ I can't even imagine through how much I've gone through and I end up laughing at my own self... Edit: Thank you to all the people that took their own time to reply to my comment... You all made my day and thank you so much... You guys don't know how much this means to me.. 🥺❤️

[@tortilla9566]

yeah i do that too

[@userr8501]

Still, glad theres someone i can relate to, could be better

[@mr.lobaloba9935]

Im glad there's more people who's like me

[@Meenaia]

*hugs u*

[@Jasturtle]

NOOOOOO stop omg stop laughing i love u ok? U are Great love urself, be like me, i still love myself despite the fact i always feel stupid. Edit: i was extrememly distressed when i went through this comment section

[@feraldaisy6518]

Anyone else using this as a way to make sure your sadness isn’t showing?

[@Psych2go]

Depression is a thing we want to hide, and unfortunately, the consequences are too late.

[@hamiltonforeva7160]

Act normal? Just pretend u are happy! Works for me 😃 don’t show too much emotions and keep it neutral:) or get help and actually become ok❤️

[@chiju]

Or you could, you know, seek help. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@Woeisme2]

@@chiju Way to be an asshole about it. Not like there's enough of those already.

[@MarcSola7]

@@chiju Ok, let me burn my wallet while hundreds and thousands of dollars go down the drain. It's not like I need it for food and paying the inflated bills. /sarcasm

[@xbrawler8271]

I hate when i try to talk to a friend about this stuff and they go "OMG same!!!" And doesn't try to help

[@Yams-Hams7734]

Yeah, whenever someone is going through something, one of the worst things you can do is say "Oh yeah, I go through the same thing." I know people are trying to be sympathetic and convince the person they understand what they are going through, but in reality they're just diverting the attention from the person who really needs help and just wants someone to listen, that's why it's better to listen patiently to what the person has to say.

[@xbrawler8271]

@@Yams-Hams7734 exactly, sometimes they didn't actually go through the problem and they think they have

[@Yams-Hams7734]

@@xbrawler8271 right, that's exactly my point, also it's a bit selfish for a person to share their own experiences with someone, when they're talking about their experiences, because then that sends the message that you either A. Didn't care about what they had to say. Or B. Just care about yourself and your situation.

[@xbrawler8271]

@@Yams-Hams7734 Exactly

[@elimo3901]

That's why you should talk to a specialist. In reality, people are just people and do the best they can. You can try saying, "Would you be able to just listen? I really need someone listening to what I have to say". If your friend is a good friend they will understand.

[@Carology_psl]

Alternative Title: 7 ways to hide your sadness

[@lauwrrenscells7332]

✨F U C K Y E S✨

[@remington0011]

Yes.

[@Psych2go]

T_T

[@sleepyote]

Why I'm watching this lmao

[@allylollizzie]

girl even psych2go is disappointed you reached a new level 😭💀

[@MgtowRubicon]

Depression is the inability to envision a path to future happiness.

[@LiaTheInternetGoober]

...true

[@silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892]

Really? Or is it just being unable to live in the present?? Seriously, right now (some will say ther is no "now", but as close as it gets to it then), what need to do have that requires addressing? Can you do something about it? Then do it. Nothing to do about it? Are you still breathing though? Well, that's a gift, and the rest is out of your control then.

[@kcindc5539]

Depression isn’t that you feel unable to find the right solution toward happiness. Depression says that happiness as you may define it simply doesn’t exist, and therefore no such paths or options toward finding happiness exist either.

[@pico2583]

Never be ashamed of reaching out for help, instead you shod be proud and feel brave. You're strong. Every day you wake up is an accomplishment. Even if you don't take big steps towards help you're still brave. Don't shut yourself in. You deserve love and treatment

[@misterbig9025]

I want to reach out for help. But here in my place, people shun those with mental illness

[@pico2583]

@@misterbig9025 I'm sorry. Another option. Is looking on the internet. There are communities promoting mental health awareness that can help you too. Maybe talking to someone over the internet can help? Good luck though

[@mirror066]

Whenever I am depressed I go to my workplace to divert my emotions by making myself busy.Yes,I try to 'escape' from my problems because no one is here to believe what I go through,no one seems to care.Not even my mother(which hurts me the most).I never told a lie in my life,yet I am refused to be believed.I ignore my tears and they are forming an ocean..🙂

[@caitlin4265]

OMG this used to be me, this whole video used to describe me so well . And now I am so much stronger than I was and I no longer relate to most of these signs. The way things change!

[@sirbadonk2727]

lmao everyone is so depressed these days i think we should just start a band by now.

[@lord__pasta]

Idk how depression relates to starting a band but HELL YEAH! I'LL START A BAND WITH YOU!

[@hypedshorties1530]

@@lord__pasta lmao same.

[@nazirarifa]

Yooo Can I join? I sing like a hyena but a decent one-

[@jayswife9318]

quarantine effects

[@sippin_cats]

@@nazirarifa I- BYE ✋😪

[@lilimochifilm3254]

Bruh I sleep in day time now, i don’t ever sleep in the day time. I don’t keep my head down while walking but I just keep quiet and I don’t like to dress up as I used to before And my mood also switches quickly, I used to be patient but now I easily get pissed and mad at some small things

[@misterbig9025]

Don't sleep alone

[@lilimochifilm3254]

@@misterbig9025 bro, my family literally called me a scary cat for trying to sleep with them

[@Lucky19ann]

This is so me, I deflect personal questions and I say everything is good and I try to change the topic. I don't ever talk about myself. I usually just talk about the weather, memes or what's going on around me. I don't want anyone to worry.

[@heartshapedlace]

I don’t wanna sound like I’m trying 2 be “edgy” or something but I do and relate to many of these unfortunately :,)

[@divineoperator]

Your feelings aren't edgy

[@earthly9442]

Me too.

[@Yams-Hams7734]

I hate how every single time someone says I have a problem with this/that, and every day I feel horrible people put the title edgy on it, I think that word undermines what people are going through or treats it like a joke. Don't worry, you're okay admitting your troubles.

[@Beth_Almes]

Same

[@featherwhiskerfan629]

The fact that when you tell someone if you're feeling negative emotions you have to clarify you're not just trying to be 'edgy' says a lot about how messed up society is :/

[@Iwanttowatch99]

thank you Psych2Go for this video. i have a friend who has become really distant and uninterested in me over a year and i used to think it was because she just got tired of me. but shes also become somewhat distant with her friends as well. i guess i gotta let go of wanting her to care about me again and instead focus on making sure shes ok. love you voice by the way haha

[@Dragonchick27]

Thank you P2G for making these videos about so many different topics related to psychology and destigmatizing mental illness. It’s been helpful personally for the past few weeks as I’ve been going through some significant mental health issues that I’m just now getting out of. Hearing such a calm, gentle voice, watching the beautiful animations, and hearing factually based dialogue has been very relieving. If possible, think you could do a video on recovering from mental/emotional breakdowns or crisis? Like how it’s okay to reach out for help, and not every day will be good but the bad days will become less bad?

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for sharing your feedback on our video! And thanks for the suggestion too. We will let the team know :)

[@MiguelMedV]

I can't describe how thankful I am for this channel's existence, I have a loved one who I'm absolutely struggling *-and suffering-* to help, and all these videos get recommended to me almost in the order that I need them. Thank you, sincerely, I appreciate it a lot : ) ...

[@Psych2go]

Awww thank you for sharing. Glad we could help :)

[@kiwii1027]

I was so early psych2go hasn't commented B) so I'm wating because I want to tell them how great their videos are

[@Psych2go]

thank you!!

[@meep9231]

Hazbin?

[@mushroomlover479]

@@meep9231 Fander- fancy seeing you here

[@chirpingrobyn]

@@mushroomlover479 fanders, fancy seeing both of you here.

[@mushroomlover479]

@@chirpingrobyn We are multiplying by the second

[@genericnamethingy]

I'm so sorry. You deserved better.

[@KTpie]

If you're reading this, I hope you are okay 💛 remember it's ok to take time for yourself to recharge and reset

[@junexxmoon1985]

I'm not diagnosed with depression yet, but I have an appointment with a doctor in one week. I told my parents that I probably have depression 4 days ago, I knew it since two weeks and I probably had depression for 3 months now. And my parents really didn't notice. They knew I wanted to be alone more often, I stopped talking and I always seemed upset, but they thought it was a phase, while I tried to hide how bad it really is. Depression is no joke and I really want to get out if it. It's terrible and frustrating😔😕

[@vennelaj.994]

Yay I time traveled! 🥳

[@heartshapedlace]

huh

[@Frankie-yk3uy]

how

[@coffeeisbitter8651]

i don't know how you did it but it's absolutely stunning 🥳

[@secondosidolatrine]

Huh

[@claudia-ok9nz]

bro what

[@madisonwhitmer1376]

Oh my... I actually kinda relate to some of these. I am still dealing with the lost of my most beloved grandma. I think of her every single day, I miss her tranquil presence in my life. I try to get my mind off it from time to time, but truth is, I am very unhappy and sad. I try to do things that make me happy, but only once in a blue moon does it feel genuine again. Simply, I miss happier times. I have people to talk to, but sometimes I never know what to say, and sometimes it makes me feel worse getting their one on one attention. That’s why I tend to say “I’m good now, or I am fine.” Slowly though, I find that I am healing. I don’t ask for your attention out of this, more like a thing I needed to type so that I could feel a bit better.

[@gloomystrawberry6196]

“27 seconds ago” the comments:12 hours ago

[@hongieswonderland5164]

ikr im lost

[@chaosdromanah8620]

Time Travel

[@davidweblolz]

I believe the video is shown to those who pay the channel and they will see the video before everyone else.

[@IshaSharma11]

Oh ghosh

[@tamirlapidus6994]

"Linda KZbin is drunk again"

[@hillk.141]

i wish i could just send this video to my friends. i always end up not talking to my friends or we even fight with each other. reasons are soo stupid and often i cause the fights. when i sit down and think about it i feel bad but i cant do anything better after that point.. this is so sad because i lost so many friends because of myself. even 2 days ago my friend and i were going to meet up but i was so unwilling to meet up that i canceled the meeting at the last minute. normally i hate people canceling events at the last minutes but i did it myself this time.. even i dont know why i am like this so i can understand my friends being frustrated with me. my current friendship is not going well but i dont want to lose an another friend because of my mistakes. so i'm trying to change myself. i started sleeping and getting up early, also i started dieting and i working out daily (started with simple things like 15 min long work out videos). even these little things are helping me right now and i'm trying to be a better person. there is this saying of my favorite comedian: "i am not laughing because i'm happy, i'm happy because i'm laughing" if i want to be a happy person i have to try to be a better person.

[@pyschologygeek]

Ways to Tell If Someone Is Unhappy with Their Life They put other people down, even when nothing was done to them. ... They use morality to raise themselves above others, despite their morals not making sense. ... You notice them having serious signs of mental illness. ... They boast and flaunt things they have to the point that it's uncomfortable.

[@Resident--a]

Nice to see someone else who sees the wider spectrum of the matter.

[@jazon85k]

You talking about narcissistic ways, lots of depressed people are not narcissistic.

[@uselessvad2444]

Most of the times people who are secretly unhappy can't accept help from somebody, they believe everyone else has as many problems as they do, so it's not cool to bother people around

[@Minimint_]

I can personally relate to this...

[@humanbeing4924]

Sometimes I. Feel extremely motivated like I'm the king of the world , and sometimes I feel so so low like them without no reason "I wish I could find someone mature and deep soul to help me out

[@NeroDracolith]

I relate to most of these signs and it's been so long that I've been this way that I have a hard time shifting to any other way of living. It's like it's to the point that I've forgotten myself.

[@shalini6083]

1. They deflect serious conversation and questions 2. They sleep a lot 3. They prefer to be alone more than usual 4. They're easily upset I'm related to this signs:(

[@daniellecruz3311]

It's very painful to hear that we don't know who of our loved ones were secretly unhappy because they don't look unhappy when they were in front of us.

[@sxgar_teaa9827]

For everyone reading this, ( especially Aaron, my brother) I feel like your always unhappy, and i get it But remember family is always with you! Because i know you can do anything to overcome the sadness! You are a awesome,kind,sweet,and a smart person! And even though you don’t think your all these things, im sure you are All of the things! And all of you family members and aunts, uncles, siblings and cousins, Are all here for you! I am smiling for you!

[@martinha2856]

Every one is true. Exactly like that! Specially lack of interest in the things you likes more, sleep to much, and stay alone.

[@elalanang]

i clicked this because i wanna know if my friend's going through something and now i feel so exposed. i can only think of myself while reading all these signs

[@abitofnonsense9262]

And now my unhappiness mixing up with regret when i realized i treat people around me on this way

[@TheSoundofTanay]

I’m in a new relationship, after I got out of a 4 year unhealthy one. I want to love, and I do - but deep inside I struggle with my past. I hope I find peace :/

[@rubigee4397]

You must heal first before entering a new relationship...hurt people hurt people. And that’s not fair to either one of you... I wish you and your partner the very best on the beautiful journey we call love ❤️

[@mushroomlover479]

@@rubigee4397 I see what you mean and for the most part you are right. But my current partner and I are very healthy and we are really well together. We had both just gotten out of unhealthy relationships and hadn't fully healed from past trauma. We worked through it together. There were ups and downs but we are doing really well. I just wanted point out that not all relationships when one or both is not fully the best mentally, is bound to fail. I study lots of psychology (hence why I'm on the video) and I wanna be a psychologist and mental health activist. :)

[@guadalupeperales5725]

You will find peace, you're getting there already. Remember you're not with the same person you were with, and mostly, you're not the same person you were, either. You'll learn from this and will be ok. Don't let fear get in the way. You're doing fine and it's brave of you to put yourself out there and wanting to be with someone. Remember: this isn't your past relationship. You're not the same person anymore. And that's ok. You'll be fine!

[@Resident--a]

@@mushroomlover479 that's wonderful! Just bear in mind that such is usually not the case. Definite props to you and yours though, that is truly awesome.

[@Woeisme2]

Rebound relationships almost always fail. But I hope you can heal and make the most out of your current one.

[@talyorgreen9342]

I told my mom I'm unhappy and I'm tired of pretending because I'm not doing well in my classes (it's a long complicated story but basically). I don't like my major and my mom pressured me into doing it. I failed so much and last semester after failing yet again. I finally came clean and told her I wasn't happy doing this major and wanted to switch (I have more than enough credits to transfer so I won't have to start from freshman year of uni). I also told her I feel extremely unmotivated and the reason I stuck to it is because I was trying to make everyone happy. Her response? She dead ass threatned to call the police on me because I'm wasting her time and money. After that I literally lost hope. My motivation levels have plummeted. I feel so sad, the other day I realized I stopped doing the things I love like play my guitar, read, etc. Honestly, I stay in bed all day, it's become my sanctuary. Edit: I look at everything, my guitars, my violin, my reading books and just cry until I can't cry anymore. I don't know what to do. I feel like I have no control over my life and it sucks!

[@oliveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee]

"did anyone in particular come to mind?" why yes, _me_

[@wireshock4633]

"Of course I know him, he's me."

[@tamirlapidus6994]

That's what I said

[@justabean4465]

Oh wow. Yep. This is me. 100%. Ya know, I'm always tempted to send videos like this to one of my friends whenever they ask how I'm doing or if I'm okay, or a song describing my feelings, but then always decide to just not respond or lie because it's easier . . . This also reminded me that I still haven't responded to my friend who texted me asking how I was doing a couple of days ago . . .

[@lachino8]

Same ;-;

[@fioleal8774]

Me entering the video 1 minute ago: I'm speed Time travellers: *I'm speeder*

[@lils_0719]

I'm speediest

[@todayssunshine9234]

I'm a snail

[@ariilicia]

I am car vroom vroom

[@stephanieemmons6324]

After watching these videos I might take up counseling again. I don’t have depression anymore but I still have issues that I still haven’t gotten over yet. Which is holding me back from my true potential. It’s comforting to know that I’m not alone.

[@muskansharma5462]

Depression is worst feeling...and I'm dealing with it everyday even while writting this comment also...each and every second I feel depressed and especially this lockdown has made me more depressed and confined to my room only

[@Synthetic113]

I'm experiencing a few of these. Making sure to keep an eye out for them in friends

[@changeamlas7674]

These are so true, I've been unhappy lately and I felt like I've been acting different but didnt know that it was part of how I felt, I dont text my mom for some reason, I dont talk as much in conversations and I say simple answers which is probably why I feel like I'm awkward when I talk more, and I'm getting more lonelier and kinda does feel like it's how I cope with the unhappiness, also cancelled things at the last minute.

[@Starbat88]

What about when these features are "characteristic" of someone for years?

[@elimo3901]

Exactly. This is my mother, and she doesn't want help. I don't think it will ever change.

[@poojasarak5963]

@@elimo3901 my mom is also not taking help, And suffering alone, It's hard to see our parents in such situation, Hope they get better, and feel happy and live joyous life 💚

[@hilipaz7034]

In this video I discovered that this is exactly what I do. Laughing and smiling at people I love and in general at people. But basically I have many mental problems, and a lot of pain has accompanied me since I was little.

[@scooter678]

i have alot of Depressed friends so i give them Therapy myself 😌

[@pandasplayhouse9143]

And because of you, the world is a better place., Thank you. I have depression, but I try to help others as much as possible! Maybe we can make a difference if we keep it up!

[@scooter678]

@@pandasplayhouse9143 exactly! most of my Friends have Suicidal attempts so i try to stay in contact with them!

[@scooter678]

@@pandasplayhouse9143 and you're helping to!

[@feraldaisy6518]

That’s very kind of you but make sure you look after yourself too, I’ve seen people invest their all in people really struggling and they themselves slip off into the deep end as well

[@scooter678]

@@feraldaisy6518 oh-

[@artisticalex1206]

I am this way. When I was a senior in high school I had a friend who knew I had depression but didn't know I dealt with more than that. I also have autism and anxiety and I hid it a lot from people until that year. This video really hits home for me.

[@TrueInvisible]

it's really awkward when you keep using "friends, families, loved ones" as examples .. because i have none of it. so these videos do not relate to me whatsoever.

[@sassyram5226]

Giving u huge hugs.... ❤️

[@aliceliddell8413]

lmao same

[@emeraldelle6]

Same. I have zero friends and I’m estranged from my mom and my dad killed himself. I understand

[@beanhead7632]

Lmao my friends hate me secretly. I complain too much and it’s getting annoying..

[@nati4533]

i just want u 2 know that ily

[@mushy1571]

Since I started to be more emphatic and care for others, I started to feel really vulnerable, i cry for literally anything, when I see someone being toxic in the internet for example, I feel my head heavy and I can't stop thinking about it sometimes for days. The person might not even be trying to attack *me* but I feel like that and i don't know what to do. I really like to help the ones around me so I don't want to become "cold". I don't really know what to do..

[@soph_c7]

I was watching this hoping I'd help a friend but then I realized; I was the one who needed help- lmaooo👁️👄👁️

[@juliepollard8332]

I know when the only person in my life matters is down,sad,or just having a hard time,my heart goes out to him 💕🤗

[@baptisedindirtysprite3593]

I should get an Oscar the way I play it off 💯

[@pandasplayhouse9143]

No kidding, huh?

[@Woeisme2]

The Oscars can go fuck themselves. Recognition > Trophies

[@baptisedindirtysprite3593]

@@Woeisme2 Rns 💯

[@beanhead7632]

@@Woeisme2 I need one too !!

[@beanhead7632]

@@Woeisme2 it**

[@NFSMAN50]

Definitely experiencing this, being long-term unemployed, living back with my parents, in my awful hometown where i don't care for a majority of people here, and not being able to freely explore my city and world has left me unhappy. I feel a huge disconnect with my hometown, and i don't fit in with anyone in my hometown anymore. I just keep to myself nowadays. Ever since i graduated from college, my life has been turbulent and lost, and loosing that IRL support group outside your family is tough. I have 2 friends from high school, but it's not the same. I always try to wish others well and support those as much as i can, because i want everyone to be free, live life the way it's supposed to be. I do feel unhappy with my life and self at times, and i usually stay up later than usual, because i feel at peace and vulnerable at night and can think deeply. Sometimes it's okay to reach out to others that you trust and even reach out to strangers.

[@Ashley-gw9jh]

Lately things had been so dark and they still are. But except that this time..I'm alone

[@LiaTheInternetGoober]

no one is always alone there is just breaks and you can easily fill them

[@azure6010]

All of those happened to me before. Around my college days and no one really paid attention because I don't make it obvious. I'm too afraid to open up and just cry. Now, thankfully I overcome it alone. But there are times that I still breakdown and Im trying my best to open up with my friends or just write it down.

[@_fsg_]

can this just be recommended to be the people who need to hear this?! nobody is understanding, they need to. please, youtube please

[@user-vu7rv1xf1l]

I have all of these, but no one around me cares enough to offer support or love, they would rather pretend everything is fine.

[@ibslimm2334]

Damn it,I hate to join the “oh yeah that’s so me club” but that’s me aswell.still battling it though,not going out like No soft punk

[@pikachussoul5505]

I can realize in the years that when i was a kid i was so happy and i can socialize properly and confident...but now i feel nothing but just want to be alone and became an introvert i always remmember that i like going to competitions but suddenly i get anxiety and i just dont want to talk to anybody at all

[@StaticCollapse]

ZERO DISLIKES. Keep it that way

[@horror_fam0847]

This has been me the past year after losing my mom. 💔 I still haven't figured out how to deal with my grief. What makes it worse is I have a husband, but no emotional support or love to help me get through this.

[@lightningchef2752]

Did u know this vid has the same symptoms as the vid of how to identify a toxic friend?! I guess we'll never know if our friends r depressed or toxic...

[@zyy2510]

true...friendship made me tired

[@LiaTheInternetGoober]

or both

[@rotaman8555]

This was a great psych discussion. But, WOW Amanda! You have a great ASMR voice! Breathy and gentle, with no clicking or smacking. Especially when you quiet to a whisper. Very soothing voice.

[@me1144]

So now I discovered that I'm secretly depressed ..

[@jakeofalltradesmusic]

Yup, especially the 1st two. I deflect questions a lot. My wife has tried to get me to open up, but the problem is, she's a major contributor to my unhappiness. I know as soon as I show my vulnerable side, she'll stab it to death like the hundreds of other times she decided to bulldoze over me and invalidate me. She asked me yesterday if there was something wrong in our relationship, and I just responded with, "What gives you that impression?" And the conversation ended.

[@hazalavsar6626]

"Me" come to my mind.

[@devinawho]

i survived all these 7 things myself with no help from anyone... my closest friends didnt even realize or care enough to reach out. i was so depressed i slept so much in class and thought of nothing but suicide. but i told myself to keep going and going, eventually after 1 long year i started to get better and here i am. i ditched my friends and made new ones!

[@poppyfox884]

I relate to all of these...that makes me nervous 0-0

[@maichinguyen8436]

I have had those hidden signs since secondary school. Even so, I still got the admiration of my classmates as I often acted kind toward them and I studied well. I also had a boyfriend and someone I regarded as a best friend. Dont get me wrong, I'm not bragging, I just want to say that anyone despite how happy do they seem to suppose to feel, might undergo difficulties. Back at the time, I dont know why I often feel lonely with all of my relationships, I often feel blank and indifferent while others might feel happy or miserable in the same situation. It's not that I hide all my feelings, there are numerous times I signed, I expressed my boredom toward life and my being emotionless. But of course, no one understood, it was such a pity that how little do we know about mental illness at that time. We ended up being apart when I went to high school, I dont keep any contact with other classmates as well. It was horrible, whenever I think of my bf or that bestfr, I blamed myself for pushing them all away and I also lost the faith that I could ever make friends again. Now I am a somophore, I'm doing more okay as I had learnt the reason why: I was just a kid needing help, it was not all my fault. Dear you guys, I hope you have been stronger and doing good out there, I hope you will be in the moment more instead of wandering in the past. Lots of love ^^

[@Herebutnotreally]

Just clicked and the first point is already exposing me 😭 Edit: okay the whole video exposed me

[@sabrinacollard8077]

Same

[@kaziktulej5091]

My friends were telling me they're unhappy but after watching this i know the truth is that i am actually the unhappy one... Also i absolutely love your videos they're helpful and interesting. Keep up the good work ☺️.

[@lazycatjansen9442]

My friend often just responds w/ AKSAKSSA to my texts, I also know they’re dealing w/ shit, they’re the funny one, and I’m worried abt them

[@elinehegrand5487]

Aww i hope that they're okay

[@muskanchugh6858]

talk to them... don't confront... let them tell you themselves.. be there for them...

[@LiaTheInternetGoober]

as someone who is usually the funny one pls pls help them

[@weebmuffin9199]

If my family ever found this channel I would be so screwed

[@petalelfwitch9105]

do you need a hug? i send virtual hugs!! :D i love you so much; remember, you arent alone

[@Yams-Hams7734]

Thank you 😊

[@minilamma4879]

Thanks :) Hug

[@bruinsfan902]

Thank you

[@SeekerGoOn2013]

Thanks. But you’re too far away.

[@scottren.8492]

Hypersomnia. No energy. Isolating one's self, avoiding the world. Story of my life, seriously.

[@remington0011]

This is scarily accurate. I just shove stuff down, and I hope that my friends don't see this lol. Also never been this early.

[@haneenasad]

Same. I just go on and on absorbing it all in like a sponge because I don't ever want anyone to know....

[@LiaTheInternetGoober]

i dont want snyone to see me here but at the same time i want them too

[@Pipopipopi_123]

Lol, last night I cried quietly due to the heavy feelings that already bottled up inside. I thought I was only crying quietly while pulling down my hair until I felt my mom embrace me from behind while I was curling up. I have no one to tell about my problems and I trusted no one too because of what happened before that brought me great impact until now. Even tho my mom was my only trusted person, I still feel like I have to refrain because her heart is weak, and if she knew I was feeling something heavy, she might be hurt and would affect her heart. So things got bottled up especially when I was blamed and scolded for another matter that I was sure I didn't do. My mom just couldn't do anything because she was sick and weak. But then when she told me to open up everything, I told her everything, and even the reason why I didn't tell her about my problems. I also told her not to let her emotions overtake her. Things got calm last night when she got me express my sadness and all. She even told me I was strong enough to endure this burden alone without anyone telling. I know no one asked, and seems unnecessary to share, but I just feel like sharing since I could say I'm also secretly unhappy😂 but I feel light now thanks to my mom.

[@lovelynikki_346]

It’s ok guys we will soon get happier one day🥺🥺❤️🙏🙏

[@LiaTheInternetGoober]

hopefully

[@naomiackerman9851]

Sometimes, I secretly unhappy I will still laugh happily and chatting. But, when its only myself in my room especially at night, I feel like I am totally different from the daytime me. Its like suddenly very quiet and lonely... But now, praise the Lord( I am a christian) for always accompany me no matter I was sad or happy. When I hope that someone could try to understand me, he will always be my side.

[@slymate924]

"did anyone in particular come in mind" I know him, thats me!

[@ViiArts_]

My best friend, he was always was happy, he asked me “do you know that people cry theirselves to sleep” he always avoids those topics tho… I’m really sad now and I looked up “how to tell if someone is sad when they are really happy all the time”

[@khaadijahbaltimore9433]

This video is me in a nutshell.

[@sunshine2049]

Wow you are at 5 million subscribers gratulation ‘s! I hope you tube is paying you well