7 Husbands Drugged & Assaulted Each Other’s Wives & Live-Streamed It For Their “Boy Chatroom”

[@theundone777]

How crazy is it that seven men found each other and trusted each other enough to do this? You couldn't find that many people to rob a bank with you, but when it comes to preying on women you're good to go.

[@SteelDown]

As a man, that's a guy code no one told me about but it would appear to be the case , yes. Wtf lol

[@nalane6970]

@@SteelDownwhat do you mean “guy code”???

[@hiitsme2427]

You probably didn't hear about this story where a man from France has been accused of drugging his wife every night and getting her raped by several men for 10 years... There's more than 50 who got arrested. And who knows maybe there's more...

[@DM-nw5lu]

These men don't view women as people. So to them it's like sharing a gym membership card or something. Or a netflix account. Men and the "bro code" are absolutely vile. Girl code be like "protect other women from predatory men", "don't leave your friends alone at a party", "you come together you leave together" and bro code be like "help your bros cheat on their partners and have affairs by keeping it hush hush", "don't ever sell out your bro even if he did f*cked Up sh*t". Parts of bro code are about protecting predators whereas most of girl code is about protecting other women from said predators.

[@kalpajha3002]

​@@DM-nw5luwell said you are absolutely right.

[@ΕλενηΚαψαλη]

Please this is important!!!! As a nurse, please don't show the drugs that are used. Whenever those crimes comes to light and the drug that is used also gets known, those drugs are getting sold 80% more and are used for the same purpose. Humans are cruels and i know you just want us to be more aware but at the same time some people get this information and they are turning it into something horrible!!!

[@lizi1516]

This needs to be pinned!!

[@CaseyMarie11-11]

I'm not sure how this comment doesn't have more likes and replies?? Shows what's important to people 😔 a comment that could literally save lives gets nothing,but some dumbass comment would have thousands of likes 😔 Do better people 💯

[@marsh799]

agree, this comment should get pin

[@user-br6vp2kt6y]

i agree that with showing the drugs, it’s unintentionally promoting it. however, i think that it is better to be aware of these types of drugs, than ignorant. because regardless if she shows them or not, if a person is willing to commit these sorts of crimes, they’ll go out of their way to look and research the ‘best’ drugs to use. so stephanie not revealing it wouldn’t matter in the grander scheme of things, since information is so easily accessible, and on the contrary it would harm viewers of stephanie soo since they wouldn’t be aware of the certain drug being used.

[@kerph87]

I'm a nurse too, and what she said is true😢

[@lily.97]

It's disgusting that their names are protected yet the ladies whole body are on the internet they should be known publicly worldwide they deserve no privacy

[@rileehuckleberry7677]

To be fair, it was said a lot of the women chose to stay with their husbands, so to release his information is also to release hers.

[@niccib]

@@rileehuckleberry7677that’s a good point hmm

[@hironyx]

unfortunately revealing the criminal identities will indirectly reveal the identities of the victims and other family members. the gag order was to protect the victims, not the criminals.

[@psychedelicyeti6053]

​@@rileehuckleberry7677I wonder if that's strategic to remain anonymous. I would not be able to trust staying with my partner if that had gone down. Very sad situation

[@dysmissme7343]

@@rileehuckleberry7677 THAT IS HORRIFYING I can’t believe some of them are still living with such monsters

[@calmingbabysleep1256]

With " husbands" like that, who needs enemies. Disgusting

[@saaramohamed8921]

yet men like this will complain "all" woman have only fans these days

[@orandachildren1051]

Nah, those are the men paying for it​. @@saaramohamed8921

[@danidakota7304]

Enemies?? In this case enemies are nothing comparing what sick, perverted, disturbed, disgusting those husbands are

[@dicksanchez]

Cause they do ha 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sativalibra]

@@dicksanchez"Evil is everywhere" yep, you're apart of it.

[@0230Raveena]

The absolute violation is beyond comprehension. It is truly a crime! This man has daughters and if he can violate his wife in such a manner, I'm fearful for his daughters.

[@Mr.WestcottX]

For real 7 husbands drugged and assaulted each other's wives like what????😱😱🤬🤬

[@SteelDown]

You are probably right.

[@MangoT-i9y]

An absolute sicko

[@nellie__]

would probably jump at the chance to pass his daughters off to his boys

[@0230Raveena]

@nellie__ that would be absolutely disgusting and questions just how far these men will go.

[@Dubhaltagh]

what terrifies me even more is that in a lot of places, they dont consider marital rape to be a real thing

[@sidvyas8549]

It was criminalised in the UK only in 1991. Nuts

[@brileehenry4161]

@@sidvyas8549jesus christ what is this life?!

[@bjohns3961]

Even more scary is if you pair that with child marriage which is still legal in a lot of places including the USA

[@laurendillon627]

Add that to that is the fact that women are not told rape is the same as “intimate partner violence”. That rape doesn’t have to be a person you aren’t in an intimate relationship with. That no means no even to your partner. So some women don’t know if they have experienced marital rape or not. I was told “some things are expected when you start dating someone in college” so I didn’t realize what happened until years later

[@kikikungfukakes6639]

My husband told me that it's not rape if people are married. It's part of your "contractual agreement " or you can sue. There are many cases of husband's suing a wife for not fulfilling martial duties. I remained unmarried

[@kalpajha3002]

It's absolutely disgusting when men, especially if they are married, think of their wife as an object and not a person who has feelings. What a sick mind to allow other men to come out sa his wife. Appalling!!!!! Hope they are locked up forever.

[@magicalspacegiraffe]

Did you know that in the States the number one cause of death of pregnant women is murder? Relationships are so much more dangerous to women than we like to admit and the cost of silence is paid by women and children.

[@Ninaloasana]

This is among a very few of steph video that made me literally sick to my stomach. Imagine doing such an unthinkable thing to someone who carry your children, care for them 24/7, love you and cherish you. These men don't need psychologists they need exorcism

[@yasminxx9329]

@ville__ give your phone back to your mom pls...obviousy youre too young to have internet access...or too dumb

[@chungus5272]

@ville__yet you commented lmao

[@iamnemoo]

and then people complain that women are too picky while dating lmao like damn we're just watching out for ourselves

[@ohhey6888]

I was married to a man for 5 years, he was loving and caring at first but then during this marriage I started to get to know him better, he told me stories how he loved to order prostitutes and I saw how excited he was telling this, same with seeing girls that look like 2000s porn actresses it all made me feel dirty and disgusted. On our second year of marriage I found a bunch of nude pictures of his ex girlfriend (they dated while he was married to another woman) and I was shocked and devastated but I couldn’t leave him, I moved to the US for him and I had nowhere to go. So I stayed. And there were good years but then he started to express ideas about threesome and other stuff which I didn’t want to do, so we argued a lot. And he had that friend of his, he was always hanging around, always spent time in our apt from the very start of our relationship, he was married also but spent with us more time than with his wife and his kid it seemed. And when he visited he always made sure to bring alcohol. I was 21 and one day he brought tequila and made me so drunk that I threw up and just went to bed but didn’t fall asleep, just waited till he left. Nothing happened that day but it all seemed off so I never again drunk in his company nor in my husband’s because I didn’t feel safe anymore. Fast forward to 5 years later. He and my husband finally talked me to drink a can of flavored beer and I agreed. It shouldn’t have made me drunk at all, I just made a few sips. They put something in it. And my husband’s friend take advantage of me while my husband was watching. I remember everything, I remember looking at my husband in search of protection but there was none. He acted than nothing happened after that and when I tried to talk to him how it was wrong, how he could do that to me, he answered that I never want to make him happy. I saved up money for a year, bought a ticket to my home country, left all my belongings and left. I wish I did it at 21 when I stopped trusting the man who should have been the most trustworthy man in my life.

[@chestersarang806]

You fid what you had to do anf that wad very brave. Younger you probably still had hopes he was not going to be as bad, abuse has many layers and I'm sorry this also happened to you

[@amainoacid]

chanced upon this. there is always a part of you that will think “if only I did this/had left earlier” “I wished I noticed the red flags much earlier”. . . Don’t beat yourself up over it. The fact that you managed to save up and leave him was very brave of you. You had no support and so many more things could’ve gone wrong. Applaud yourself for leaving someone like that. Keep safe and take care!

[@littleblackpistol]

Men shop abroad when they are known to be a creep by women from their own culture who read them better.

[@hopeadler507]

Oh sweetheart. You did your best with what you had. It’s not your fault. I’m so sorry. I wish I could give you a hug. :(

[@KimSmith-b9v]

So you married a man who already had been married. Were you wife #2?

[@sophiel362]

James wasn't afraid of his wife cheating, as much as he was afraid of losing CONTROL. That's what it was really about.

[@teamanisongirlblogg]

ATE

[@danataylor9437]

Truth

[@urfavcat20]

Girl ur so prettttyyyy!!!!( ≧ᗜ≦) ​@@teamanisongirlblogg

[@baemahogany9167]

Spot on

[@gingerydelights3554]

​@@teamanisongirlblogg Using the term "ate" here is totally inappropriate.

[@jazmineemery629]

the fact that they were like “haha how stupid are these women that don’t know they’re being drugged and assaulted.” enraged me

[@avamasquerade]

Yes, they did say this. It's clear several had good "pickers" for who would make the most compliant targets because most of the wives stayed with them even though they have children, thus making the wives accomplices should the husband's, which is statistically very likely, ever prey on their children. When children are involved, I will judge, and rightly so if anyone chooses to stay with a partner this existentially threatening to their so called "loved ones."

[@naga2015kk]

hahahaaa You need to stop and ponder W H Y....

[@Aelffwynn]

​@@avamasquerade you dont know the kind of coercion that goes on in some marriages, and you don't understand divorce or child custody at all. Even if a man is a CONVICTED RAPIST or even a PEDOPHILE, in most cases he will still have parental rights to his children. So if his wife leaves him, he will usually be awarded partial custody or at least visitation rights with the child, without the mother there for protection. So what you're saying is that these women should leave, and most likely leave their children ALONE with these men at times. It is fucked up and wrong, but unfortunately in most legal situations, parental "rights" still come before child safety. A child would literally have to be battered and abused by their parent before anyone could legally step in to take them away. So if the mothers want to keep their children safe, sometimes their best bet is to stay, at least until the child is old enough to defend themselves. And even IF the laws were fair and just, and protected children like they should, you're really going to blame someone who is likely not in their right mind due to calculated and cold-blooded abuse?

[@ChocoBerryTsuki]

​@@AelffwynnI really really highly wish people would talk more about this, because there's a high percentage of marriages that are loveless and miserable that don't end in divorce for the children. Not in the sense people push though, everyone pushes the "wanting the kids to have both parents" narrative publicly, but not the "I'm staying because this man has a good public image, and more money than I have and if I'm separated from my children I don't know what he'll do to them without me around. There is no evidence he is this abusive, so I know the courts will give him at least partial custody."

[@MeglynLad]

YESSSSS!!!! Any commenters on here that don't understand this concept clearly don't have kids.

[@zayzels12]

the thing that shocks me the absolute most is that they did this for 8 YEARS. 8 years of assault, 8 years of drugging up wives, 8 years of doing illegal activities in a house with 4 daughters, 8 years of women being treated like nothing. James STILL thinks he’s the victim because his wife cheated twice. I hope they all get a life sentence. ALSO, how is that website up and running?? it’s crazy how easy it is to get to content like this and lots of these “creators” don’t get any sort of punishment! absolutely foul

[@complikaty9740]

Honestly it concerns me this man has 4 daughters. How safe were they around him if he wanted to have his wife assaulted in their room while they slept...

[@pointfrogg]

@@complikaty9740 And someohow these are often the type of men who talk about “keeping their daughters safe” or are hyper-selective of her partners/sexuality. (Think the rapper T.I who said something to the effect of he gets his daughters privates checked regularly to make sure she’s still a virgin…) There’s just a level of broken mindedness that is just…terrifying and alien.

[@shae9364]

​@@pointfrogg T.I. was my first thought.

[@hasicazulatv2078]

​@@pointfroggT.I is absolutely repulsive for that absolutely disgusting. Wasnt his daughter 18 when that was exposed? Id feel so violated, i feel violated for his daughter.

[@seajduff]

Right

[@katelynsharp330]

I hope that the women involved in these situations are getting the help that they need. I couldn’t imagine being betrayed like this, it’s horrible.

[@kazumakiryuu2668]

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[@megmeg2468]

My ex tried to shoot me in the head which pretty much completely destroyed my ability to trust men… fucked me up pretty bad…. But THIS??? This is a whole new level. I genuinely don’t think I would ever be able to date or be alone with a man again.

[@shellbell8062]

Can you even imagine being in those wives shoes? To know that your own husband humiliated, betrayed, arranged for you to be assaulted, took videos and posted them publicly for EIGHT years? I cannot even fathom how you would mentally and emotionally reconcile all of that information about the person who was supposed to love and protect you.

[@TheGreyGhost_of43rd]

Can you imagine, blacking out all those times for almost a decade straight? Waking up feeling very strange, in strange places. All while never noticing a single thing thing is off? Yeah me either. Too many inconsistencies in the story! Don't add up. Unless you take a biased perspective from the start!

[@thegrumpygecko2390]

Are you implying that the wives knew?

[@RokeJulianLockhart.s13ouq]

​@@TheGreyGhost_of43rd So what else is true?

[@chloekhamxox]

@@thegrumpygecko2390theyre saying its absolutely horrendous to hear this happened and find out this happened to you for 8 years by someone you thought loved you.

[@chloekhamxox]

@@TheGreyGhost_of43rdwerent they assaulted in their own homes?

[@angelicatrino2498]

Its so amazing how 7 psychopaths meet each other and agreed to violate their wives . Truly same feathers flock together.

[@b.l70]

I’m starting to wonder if the # of sociopaths and psychopaths are increasing due to the toxic modern society we live in.

[@softpurplebat]

​@@b.l70 That'd be scary ...

[@redleeks6253]

​@@b.l70Nop. They are just easily in connection with eachother thanks to internet and social media networking.

[@mothmos]

@@b.l70 it's what i noticed with a lot of men, especially in asia/middle east. It's like they're a different breed, not human. Theire outer bodies are human but everything else is not - psychological/mental/emotional. A lot seem to be narcissistic psycho subhumans. But of course they'll go into denial, what-about-isms and gaslighting, unfortunately including the still deeply brainwashed women who have internalized misogyny.

[@MyriamRichardsdotter]

@@mothmoswestern men are the same. They enjoy seeing women and girls suffer. Most are addicted to depraved internet corn

[@espopstar]

The scariest thing is that he had multiple DAUGHTERS. I was so worried this whole video there'd be some mention of his assaulting or encouraging the assault of his one of or all of his daughters. This is just absolutely disgusting.

[@margodphd]

How is rape of one defenceless, unconscious human being less traumatic than others? You listen to stories of unbelievable violation and what worries you is just the daughters? We have so little regard for women that they need to be kids to deserve sympathy?

[@espopstar]

​@@margodphd ​ That's not what I said or implied at all. I just meant that if he was willing to violate the trust of his wife, he could have been willing to violate the trust of his daughters as well. He had access to so many women in his life who trusted him to keep them safe and that's scary because he could have assaulted any one or all of them. I don't understand why you're being so aggressive about your misinterpretation of my words. I'm sorry if this isn't worded well.

[@lordtette]

​@@margodphd...that's not what they said at all

[@Stitching_Crap]

​@@margodphdBroooo.... That isn't what she said. Worrying that his abuses were going to extend to his daughters, or to anyone else, is a legitimate concern

[@helianabanes4875]

I am guessing this would have happened if they wouldn't have been caught. The fact that he wanted to do it with the daughters in the room?? Yeah, it seems like that was the direction it was heading. The fact that he wanted to involve his daughters in something that crosses a huge line, he truly is a shockingly perverted, and disgusting man.

[@tiny_fern]

i’m a singaporean and i had no idea this happened until i stumbled upon stephanie’s video. i’m even beyond speechless that they have their own disgusting forum that it makes me more and more afraid of men now.

[@jq77]

This makes me think back to the whole "I would rather choose a bear vs a man" thing that blew up in the internet sometime back and how so many (men) were so offended/just couldn't understand why. When there are so many examples of violence on women like this. So. Infuriating.

[@Forthis123]

These "men" are despicable!! They should have to register as sex offenders so that everyone will know their names, faces, addresses and the criminal acts they committed against women!!

[@libiskit]

you can't because you need to protect the wife and kids

[@htsand]

its men. drop the "

[@Forthis123]

@@htsand Nah. Real men don't act like this!

[@imhalfhere]

​@@htsand Girl please dont die on this hill, sure people are cruel but not all of them

[@ncrest4365]

@@imhalfhere but they are still men who did this, the quote on quote is for nothing, cause what are you gonna substitute it with? They're men, that's all it is.

[@effera]

There is a similar story in France. A man drugged his wife every other night for 10 years to let other men SA her, recording and documenting every "session" for his and "his circle of friend's" twisted fantasy. We are talking about a network of 83 perpetrators - only 51 so far are identified- of all ages and backgrounds, from barely 20 to men in their 70s, from unemployed guys still living with their mom to firemen and veterans, all living in the same region/area. And on top of that, a lot of them were found in possession of... illegal children related stuff... The mere idea that actual human beings could do such a thing is sickening . If you want to learn more, I recommend reading the investigation article in Le Monde by french journalist Lorraine de Foucher, she did a great work gathering testimonies and uncovering things about this network.

[@jellycatfish]

That's horrifying

[@BKJay718]

Ummm whatttt??!!!!😮 I feel for her & that male is disgusting!!!

[@anusha2465]

Why? For money or revenge?

[@blueshoes5145]

Twisted thinking@@anusha2465

[@Machka-j7q]

I commented on this before seeing your post. The thing that made it even more disturbing was that these 81 men were living in the same community and included civil servants, ambulance workers, soldiers, prison guards, and nurses.

[@just_alice844]

Why can’t women just exist??? Why is it hard to just live a normal life? I’m beyond baffled, disgusted and disappointed. HOW HARD IS IT TO RESPECT YOUR WIFE AND HER BODY?

[@kenjako]

Mosoginy and the patriarchy are whole systems that has the sole purpose is to opress and violate us. We can't just exist bc those exist.

[@NickMak-m2c]

It is true, 1 in 3 victims of spousal violence will be women, while and 1 in 4 men. The numbers almost double when it's boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, 30% of boyfriends experience violence from their girlfriend, 41% for girlfriends by their boyfriends. 10% of male children experience parental abuse, while 5% of females experience parental violence. Experience of violence by other children is about same 8% and 8%, for male/female, reported. Those are insane numbers, that means nearly everyone has experienced violence, at some point in their lives.

[@venusroses]

⁠@@blissbabe just because a wife simply disrespects their husband it doesnt give them the excuse to full on sa someone? No duh cheatings bad but sa is a whole another lvl just divorce atp lol

[@mimimi4589]

@@blissbabe her husband cheated first tho

[@Zucifer8]

@@blissbabehow did she start the disrespect

[@danimohl819]

His wife had an affair ??? He’s been cheating on her ! He didn’t like the fact that she did the same to him he should be charged for severa counts of rape , and trafficking ! Chauvinist !

[@tr1bes]

They are both mess up. The husband is awkward mess up but the wife think she can do the same, affair.

[@kj81325]

@@tr1besare you a rapist? cause if not then you must just be stupid to make a comment like that

[@MythologicaYT]

"I only did it because my wife had an affair!" Buddy didnt YOU have an affair FIRST?

[@captainobvious6070]

Narc males ☕️ they always think the rules don't apply to them.

[@Cranky_Crone]

So entitled they can’t even see the hypocrisy…

[@Keva-jp8kc]

Narcissist!!!!

[@Sharkfighter13]

And he wanted to watch another dude screw her anyway!!!

[@rachelnicholeee]

Rules don’t apply to guys like him. Definitely the need to be in control all the time

[@selenedust7645]

This is the most evil and disgusting story I’ve heard in a long time. I’m glad you are bringing awareness to this horror. May the victims heal.

[@iahelcathartesaura3887]

The story from France is worse, if you can believe it. Similar but a lot worse.

[@midgetporn9735]

@@iahelcathartesaura3887 any links?

[@hanasdiaryy]

It’s crazy how James wanted revenge” when he cheated first AND when she first how her baby. I feel so bad that she thought it was her fault because she had denied intim_cy with him cause of the baby. It suck’s how they treat people like this.

[@VermontConnection]

It's a lot about control. When he cheated and she found out, he felt like he had no control over what her reactions were. When she was pregnant and post-partum, he had no control over when he could get her in bed. When she cheated with Owen, even if he orchestrated it, the fact that they did stuff without his knowledge made him feel he had no control. So his poor little pathetic twisted mind decided to regain control by advertising his wife to be SA'd by other men and livestreaming their private moments. Those actions were logical for him for some reason.

[@hanasdiaryy]

@@VermontConnectionYes but would have never done it (probably) if he didn’t cheat first. I completely agree with this. And when he tried making the judge feel sorry for him? It happened for 8 years and you weren’t thinking about her so why should the court think about you? Doesn’t make sense. He can’t take responsibility and that’s what makes me so mad. He’s victimizing himself like that’s gonna work 🤦🏽‍♀️. He essayed his wife and other wifes and still think he deserves justice.

[@VermontConnection]

@@hanasdiaryy Exactly, it's always someone else's fault and never his. Though i do agree with him that he deserves justice, it's just my version of justice for him is maximum prison time and maximum number of cane strokes, and not "I should be free because my wife and kids miss meee" 🙄

[@sandpiperr]

He didn't want revenge, that was just his excuse. From his actions, demanding that the honey trap actually sleep with his wife, and then how he talked about...it's obvious he had some kind of kink.

[@lcd1063]

​, on point. Men and their quandary with control. If he is not in control, he is disorganized, messy and all over the place. On the other hand, if he the one in command power emanates from it. A high probability of abusing it is plausible if he is bereft of self awareness, mindfulness, and accountability.

[@jenniferg2890]

Heartbreaking. I looked at my husband after watching this and over the last 12 years of being together I’ve put in so much love and trust with this man. It would destroy me if I found out he did this to me. So I can only imagine how she felt. Once would have been bad enough. But 8 years!!! Unreal!You truly have to be so intensely narcissistic and unloving to be able to do something like this. I pray she finds her love of life again one day. 😢

[@TheApryl]

If I found out my husband was doing that to me, I wouldn't go to the police. He'd just go missing.

[@BengtBagels]

I hear you... but if it were me. never trusting anyone again, with my heart, body, nor mind. Try to make a good life for my kids... but true love? yeah I would think trusting someone with your body again... is out the window

[@jenniferg2890]

@@BengtBagels I said “love of life” as in her love for life. Lol I worded it weird reading it back. But no def not true love lol furtherest thing from my mind after this video. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

[@BengtBagels]

@@jenniferg2890 All gravy! I see how you meant it before now. Yea love FOR life makes so much more sense. Thanks for clearing it up 🌿🌻

[@watchthis1316]

Dare we add he’s also evil

[@brittany7573]

I argue this was not just assault. It was human trafficking.

[@saaramohamed8921]

yup

[@cynthianguyen711]

Facts

[@JessicaMiller-pc4dj]

Without a shadow of a doubt - and probably some others we haven't yet thought of 😞.

[@Justmy7cents]

YES!!!! Good point!!

[@JavierPwns]

Nah the ladies were 100% into it. Hold women accountable for poor decisions

[@aliciamichael973]

James is the lowest of the low. What kind of Deranged person would do this in his own house with his own kids in the house to his own wife. Absolutely despicable.

[@AquaticStarchild]

It truly scares me how frequent male violence towards women is.

[@andrewdriver3318]

He claimed he had low self esteem because he felt inadequate as a man. No, sir. I think you had a pretty accurate evaluation of yourself.

[@frostflower5555]

Sadistic men.

[@goodvibes6226]

​"Low self esteem" my ass. He's bold enough to do all that shit to her. (Edit: not angry at you, just at that statement from him 😭)@@andrewdriver3318

[@viastephtop]

like, listen, infidelity sucks. Dump them. Don't assault them. That's beyond insane. Can't even trust your own spouse anymore. Like infidelity is certainly a betrayal but I think repeatedly violating your partners body, their safety, in such a way is exponentially worse.

[@sophietessier8998]

But why would they, they have a cook, a maid, a nanny, a sex worker , a social statue, a public image set since they area married. They want all the advantage without the sacrifice.🤮

[@Tree-House69]

Exactly, they could just LEAVE, hell they could even burn all their bridges, but instead they do this?? What on earth.

[@Tree-House69]

Well, to elaborate though, they did this not solely because they were hurt, but because it got them off and to them, felt like a sick way of re-arraining power, they are predators through and through, they shouldn't even have partners as they'd just continue to harm people unless they got true help

[@caitlinhammons2437]

he cheated first though, he decided to assault her after she did the same.

[@viastephtop]

@@sophietessier8998 Yeah honestly, so many of these people out here just do not see their partners as people. They make that clear.

[@archi8014]

so this James had no problem with another man sleeping with his wife. He had problem because it was CONSENSUAL??????? that is so f'd up

[@rokaram8619]

When you have ego and no honor

[@JStarPeaks]

He had problems with not being invited to be envolved and that she didn't want him. That's all.

[@viclorenzo5016]

Timestamp 0:00 Introduction 4:09 Disclaimer 6:25 Case start 8:05 Sammyboy 21:24 Disgusting Crime Part I 29:31 Ad break 31:17 Disgusting Crime Part II 55:50 Shocking Discovery Part I 59:28 Ad break 1:01:20 Shocking Discovery Part II 1:12:45 Trial & Punishment 1:31:07 Video end

[@Cherry_cozmo]

THANKKSS

[@urmomishot-kp9rx]

love u for this

[@rettred8152]

thank its so god damn long and drawn out

[@Personalitynumber1]

🫶🏽

[@shameaalsarag2803]

Thanks 🙏🏻

[@faevalentine9187]

I’m actually impressed with Singapore punishment laws when it comes to criminals. There’s a reason why they’re crime rate is lower than most countries. In the US they might get a couple years or a few years of probation. We need to stop being so empathetic towards criminals that feel no guilt for their victims.

[@m0nz13]

They’re actually really lenient on sexual offenders though, there has been a rise of such cases the past few years (including incest/PDFelia etc). The laws should be even stricter but money talks 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@ksng767]

@@m0nz13 Singapore has some of the harshest laws on the planet, if 20 years is lenient places countries like Korea and America must be just a vacation for criminals then

[@JohnnyLynnLee]

To those praising the stick punishment in Singapore that's why Singapore in many rankings is classified as a "flawed democracy" and Singapore is just not in the news everyday because of alleged lack of democracy and human rights violations because they are an ally to the USA. If a thing like that happens in China, or were to happen in a communist country, like, say, Vietnam, or in a otherwise non aligned with the USA country there would be a constant outcry in the Western media. But Japan, South Korea and the other Asian Tigers were supported by the West to contain the spread of communism from China and then Indochina. They were created to be Western outposts in the Pacific during the Cold War, in the post-War era. So they were given (and still are given, but less) a lot of leeway in terms of what they can do, discretely, without calling much attention to themselves, in terms of human rights. Therefore, you'll hardly hear about the brutal dictatorship of Park in South Korea, or Lee Kwan Yew and the PAP hard grip in Singapore, but you WILL heard about anything the CCP does. And it's not true their crime rates are lower because of that. The Us is BY FAR the most violent country among the developed country and with far harsher punishments. Germany is one of the less violent countries on planet and in other case here you were complaining their prisons "look like hotel rooms.". and in fact Germany REDUCED it's crime rate after shortening their sentences and replacing prison time for minor offences for social work,

[@JohnnyLynnLee]

@@ksng767 Singapore is a failed democracy and a viloator of human rights and just get away with it for being an Us outpost in the Pacific, so the Western media will turn a blind eyes. But were they a communist country there would be a constant outcry in the Western media.

[@qtmyung]

@@JohnnyLynnLee if you're going to attempt to position yourself as a Singapore expert, the least you can do is spell Lee Kuan Yew's name correctly. Singapore is absolutely a flawed democracy, there's no arguing that. We've had the same political party in power for all 58 years of our independence, and the insidious methods they used to take down political opponents in the 70s and 80s is well-documented. But what I'm failing to understand is why you're bringing up the lack of human rights when talking about its criminal justice system. What exactly are you trying to argue here - that Singapore's harsh punishment for violent crime (of which majority of Singaporeans believe is an effective deterrent) should not be acknowledged because of a flaw in another aspect of its governance?

[@levithebaddest2369]

I can't imagine discovering that my partner did that to me for 8 years. Holy crap. Imagine how violated the women felt. Disgusting. I hate people

[@rebeccaharris4444]

Me 2

[@TheZephyrsWind]

Same. If I were her I would never trust a man ever again, & that's coming from a man. Ugh, I don't understand how these absolute monsters in human form can live with themselves... I feel terrible for telling a tiny lie, so if I did this or shoot, even entertained the thought for a moment... Yeah, I wouldn't be able to forgive myself.

[@Gingerserenity]

I have no faith in humanity anymore 😢

[@mamakitty6549]

I'm so angry that the men were protected. Name and shame to protect future women who are around them. Absolutely disgusting.

[@MsEverAfterings]

The gag order is to protect the victims’ identities.

[@MsBabyChips]

women need to make a website for this purpose, for safety reasons.

[@utubejyp]

The gag order is in place mainly to protect the children these demon men have. Singapore is such a small country with a lot of skyrise living, don’t want any of their children throwing themselves off

[@mithinie]

I'm French and unfortunately we don't cane people here : 3 years ago a man was caught doing the same thing to his wife. She was R**ed by more than 80 men (only 53 were identified). He'd been drugging her for 10 YEARS !!! and on top of all of that she started showing neurological side effects from what he gave her. They found more than 20,000 pictures and videos some of which were of their (adult) daughter but unfortunately for the daughter there was not enough evidence to tell if she was r**ped too. Him and his "friends" will be judged this year

[@immortalfool7627]

Wow that’s insane!

[@pauljulian7740]

Omg😢 dats horrible

[@danataylor9437]

This is what has happened to me!

[@RaymondEdwards-ie9dz]

​@@danataylor9437 Really

[@tahira1]

Very sorry to hear that. I hope you're ok

[@HeisenbergFam]

Imagine getting married just to be drugged and assaulted LIVE by your own partner..

[@bhuuh3590]

Man why are you here?! 😬 like why are you every dude

[@melissamoonchild9216]

​@@bhuuh3590what...? theyre saying thats appaling..

[@ivexoxo]

@@bhuuh3590???

[@Light_Of_Elohim]

Lol this person is everywhere.

[@st4rz1_x]

@@melissamoonchild9216 it's not what they said, this person is on like EVERY youtube video in the comment section. it just shocks people haha

[@HappiiWheels]

I heard about this!! It's so disgusting!! How could you do something like that to someone who loves you and who you claim to love? What an awful betrayal. I hope the women involved are doing okay now. 😞

[@christypham3386]

Ikr! I think if they are able to do it to their wives, I don’t think they love them.

[@Tigerous]

They married each other for money.

[@violetluverie]

Because men

[@the_honored_one_06]

I cant trust men mostly for this. This amount of women would never think of doing something so disgusting but ive seen a whole thread on Reddit that condoned this and even encouraged it.

[@CharBar07]

I don’t mind people having their fetish. But damn man, this is no fetish. Just wrong.

[@bethanynorman1829]

What's truly evil here is the health risks they subjected their wives to. They treated their own wives like they were less than human. Did not care at all about the risk of pregnancy or STDs they were putting their wives at risk for.

[@Lilliz91]

They literally had a fetish of their wives getting pregnant from the assault. But yeah the STDs would def be bad, hope he at least made them wear a condoms.

[@milkywaycafe.]

Not to mention that being constantly drugged like this for 8 YEARS likely had negative health affects. These men aren't even human. They're monsters

[@ulrikesextro4187]

Not to mention the health risks caused by those drugs.

[@jfoetidnwo56]

you can die from those drugs too btw

[@angelaramirez4144]

Great point. That's so sick imagining their wives being pregnant by each other.

[@xxo8888]

What a horrifically terrifying case. It's like a legal open dark web for creeps.. and the creep is your husband?! 😱

[@Mr.WestcottX]

For real 😮

[@Alejandra-cv7rj]

This is something from the dark web. If one wants to have a orgy there's no need for drugs to many people want to be part of one

[@loretopg]

I agree completely, absolutely terrifying.

[@seratoninny]

i didnt know men can be this cruel, i know generalizing a whole gender is not very fair but if we had a penny everytime this happened, in this case we'd have 7 pennies, which is 7 pennies too much for SA

[@eponack]

@@seratoninny7 perpetrators, it was multiple times for each victim.

[@hiraeth30]

As a Singaporean, there was a time when they would invite people to my school for a talk about certain crimes and the consequences. So I remember seeing pictures of prisoners' buttocks after they got caned and how it was done (educational purposes). It was gruesome but naturally like most Singaporeans I became someone that favors harsh punishments to deter certain crimes. I understand the arguments against it but to me if you don't want to be in that position, don't do the crime in the first place. If you still choose to do it even after knowing, that's between you and the Singapore law already.

[@ThisBraveHeart]

That’s exactly my view.

[@hazecliff7173]

Here in my country, were debating on bringing back death penalty. IDK why weten studies act like harsher punishment don't deter or lessen crimes. They do.

[@sundaewacherryontop318]

exactly

[@CollagenExpert]

The West and it’s socioeconomics are way different than the majority of the word. The death penalty did not deter crime at all. It just became a game of not getting caught.

[@heartIucy]

completely agree with you

[@NatureFreak1127]

What scares me is, that reporting on it will certainly inspire like-minded psychos.

[@richrich2862]

I was literally thinking the same thing

[@MangoT-i9y]

😞😞

[@nataliannawalingford8382]

i think though it could be true this its mostly the opposite. just like talking to someone about suicide won't increase they chance they do it. Evil people will do evil things without seeing it in the media. The reporting is shinning light on these tragedy's and helps victim's understand what happed and makes reporting similar crimes easier yk. it sucks either way

[@s__9939]

@@nataliannawalingford8382 well obvi, but a lot of evil people aren't as creative and there's actually a lot of instances of people being inspired by others horrific acts and doing it themselves

[@ayindiagarcia2430]

Yea, I was worried that it's going to expose alot of sick people to these websites and forums.

[@greenforest7111]

In summary, yes I would rather be stuck in a forest with a bear than 4 men

[@lamortexotique]

Congratulations! You win the Darwin Award! Was your father a grapist too?

[@andrewdriver3318]

All people are different, all bears are the same. Most men choose the bear as well. With the bear you know the risk and danger upfront.

[@mvzan672]

@@andrewdriver3318A bear wouldn’t do something like this for EIGHT YEARS LMFAO that’s the damn point. You get torn into shreds within 30 mins maybe. possible unallve sooner. i would much rather be torn to shreds for food than dr”gged and assaulted for 8 years by someone who’s supposed to love me most. Look up the Junko Furuta case. for 26 days she got t04rtured. Rotten Mango has covered it! A bear would not shove glass lightbulbs up !nside of me until they broke IN ME for 26 days. Men miss the point of this metaphor, analogy, whatever figure of speech it falls under 💀

[@JJ-iq7tk]

The bear will feed me for its children 😭 but man is too scary than a bear 🧸

[@jennychong237]

​@JJ-iq7tk the bear is just trying to survive, I dont believe that they have evil intentions. They don't know evil in my opinion.

[@user-theims]

I can't imagine how the woman felt after learning this has been happening against her for 8 years

[@aaz1992]

8 goddamn years 😢

[@chelsealee144]

Singaporean here, chewing gum is banned because there were 2 incidents in the 90s where someone stuck gum between a train’s doors. passengers had to disembark causing disruptions to many people’s commutes. We can’t purchase gum here but getting fined or arrested for just chewing of having gum on you is a misconception

[@jeriwonhoho]

yea, singaporean here too, i had that misconception for a while too but apparently you just cant sell/distribute chewing gum lol but u can chew it for your own personal usage

[@kaedeAoi27]

Westerners love to demonise Asian countries so I'm not surprised they made it up lol

[@hironyx]

yeah, even if u bring in a box of gum into singapore, most of the time it get confiscated at the customs and you face no consequences, UNLESS that one custom officer has a very bad day...

[@Syn741]

@@hironyx not sure how big your box is, but the general rule is that you can bring an amount of gum that is for personal consumption. if you bring in a huge box, they will assume you are trying to sell them which they will 100% confiscate.

[@jessandjellies]

@ville__huh….

[@phillinateo]

As Singaporeans, we are still shocked by this case, it was highly talked about. For context, Singapore is extremely safe, ladies will not think twice about walking home in the middle of the night in fear of anything happening to them. Just never thought my country would end up on a KZbin channel where i binge-watch episodes about crazy crimes.

[@lusstarr]

@JuicyUTTPshe meant the amount of the “fluid” becomes more than before. Meaning, for example, if before it’s just 5ml, he may release 10ml

[@HardHardMaster]

No public crime, or crime in the open. But hidden domestic crime is a whole different thing, and you can blame the shame culture for that. I know a case of a young girl, a child, being raped multiple times by a family member and the parents being fully aware but blaming her and shoving it under the carpet, even sucking up to the rapist AND EVEN ALLOWING HIM MORE OPPORTUNITIES TO KEEP DOING IT, all because they felt they would look bad themselves if they confronted him, or if it got out, and lose face. They'd rather subject their daughter to repeated rape than to consider ''losing face'', which is a stupid and ridiculous concept in the first place. And instead they blamed the victim, their own young daughter. Talk about insult upon injury. Talk about unforgivable betrayal and trauma. And I happen to know this happens a lot actually. This is Chinese (/Singapore) culture. Prove me wrong. Please...

[@hopeadler507]

No country is safe nor perfect. It’s an illusion of safety.

[@PabloChacon213]

​@siddified wooow. Come on dont say that. Just because some sick guy did it u want to blame the whole culture. They (chinese Singaporeans) dont agree to this

[@HardHardMaster]

@@PabloChacon213 most of them don't, I'm sure, but it still happens a lot and the culture facilitates it

[@stutikhanna987]

My parents used to told me that you won't able to find a group of men agree immediately to fight or rob a bank in instantly but when it comes to r@pe they can agree immediately like 8 strange men agree to assualt a woman immediately because two of them are already started harrassing her😢

[@uzi710]

Met these people in real life and yes... those men would unlikely to rob a bank but share and watch illegally recorded s*x videos on a chatroom along with their boys?? absolutely yes, and it's disgusting.

[@heyyoo49]

yes!!!!

[@BeckBeckGo]

Your parents weren't wrong. This is because money is protected legally. Women are also protected legally, but not quite as much. We are less protected than pieces of paper.

[@BeckBeckGo]

I've been working as an ESL teacher, and the amount of phrasing that needs to be contextual during translation is wild. "Well, I said 'rape that harlot,' sure, but that's the direct translation of a super common metaphor in my country. " These same indivuals are shocked at the level of gender equality in ESL worksheets. Some of them complain about being insulted. Please know that most of my students are amazing people. But those who are not are straight up medieval.

[@hordakprime6172]

Human beings are truly disgusting. How can you marry someone claim to love them and do this to them?

[@Tree-House69]

Very off topic but love the icon and username

[@oppooopoookjgffghjookjjj4531]

It's men, not human beings. Women don't do shit like this

[@DM-nw5lu]

Those men never loved their wives. They probably just got married to have access to s*x anytime and to have a live in maid. Also pressure from parents could be a factor. Not love.

[@michaelsomething7674]

All of them are sociopath

[@spy6205]

The older I get, the more I realize lots of people get into relationships based on what the other person can do for them (most often sexually or domestically), not any feelings of genuine love or desiring companionship. It doesn’t matter to them if they even like their partner as a person, so long as that person “holds up their end of the bargain” (aka: provides them access to the things they desire). Honestly, sometimes it seems there’s more people who view relationships through this lens than don’t. Ive seen inklings of this mindset in people who I know actually do love their partners even. It’s very prevalent and easily hides in plain sight. I’ve seen this way more commonly with men, but I have noticed some women who do this as well.

[@chair508]

snapping and cheering when she described the caning process 👏🙌 I wish we could have this in America for when there is undeniable evidence of guilt for torture (including sexual assault) (YES! Sexual assault is TORTURE! And perpetrators should NEVER get parole)

[@Helica123]

Yeah I was definitely on the pro side when she was aaying some were against it. Cruel and unusual? You mean like their crimes? Scarred forever? You mean like their victims?

[@stefanleithner6922]

you want to undo 500 years of cultural advancment? it‘s common knowledge, that harder punishment isn‘t the main reason for less crime. crime in northern europe and here in switzerland is very low, even though we have very soft punishments. the rougher a society is, the rougher their crimes. if you want less crime, you need to create a happier society. that‘s all.

[@Goochen]

I disagree. Singapore is devoid of violent or petty crime. You also can't buy your way out of a caning like the rich can do in the West. I think it works well.@@stefanleithner6922

[@harleyhendrix8467]

​​@@stefanleithner6922are you serious? I can pull up a 1000 videos of crime from Switzerland has the low if not the lowest crime rate but that isnt zero..... It means that bc of your soft punishment you have higher crime in certain areas but bc of your reputation your not always as honest as you should be... Do you have low crime...well no shit of course.... Is it the lowest ....yes maybe . But if you have 1 million crimes in 1 country.... having only 500 in yours doesnt mean zero does it. No it means you dont count or factor in probably another 500 or the ones we dont know about... Also keep in mind that most people live so far away and its so cold that if anyone plans a crime they get to cold and tired and just give up and will either wait till a better opportunity presents itself or their life gets better and they no longer need to comment the crimes. And im not sure but i believe iceland has the lowest crime rates and crime is almost non existence... but just like they said ALMOST non existence does mean 100% non existence. And think about it .... if you " The law abiding citizen" knows about this soft punishment then the criminals to..

[@stefanleithner6922]

I never said there is no crime here, what are you on? I said there's low crime rates and that countries that have more poverty (= rougher societys) have more crime. Because of course the 2 main reasons for crime are low education, poverty and lack of social safety net.@@harleyhendrix8467

[@Banana-lk7tf]

I had a boyfriend ask me if I'd ever thought of being with another man, while we were mid act. I've never been more turned off. Wouldn't let him touch me for a while after that. I'm sorry, but if a man wants to share me, something's VERY wrong.

[@c.brooks3013]

You wouldn't let him touch you for a while? That implies you let him touch you again after a while? That would have been the end of that relationship for me because the suggestion is something he's thinking about and he's not going to stop thinking about that just because it made you upset. It means he's now going to sneak around behind your back and find someone else to do that with.

[@Amynity]

​@@c.brooks3013some ppl do like to ponder a certain fantasy, but they won't actually execute it. i hope the guy won't go so far such as that.

[@williamhensley8698]

Noted...never share a fantasy.

[@lanadelrayslabia]

@@williamhensley8698ok William

[@mariec2882]

​@@williamhensley8698Note to myself as well, stay away from men period because they lie and omit who they really are, and they take notes on what women say in order to manipulate them in the future.

[@NukeYourFear]

Imagine marrying someone who you're suppose to trust, who suppose to protect and love you, and they do you like this

[@Mr.WestcottX]

For real. 😮 No empathy or remorse.

[@Evarys]

Latest update from local news - James failed to get a lighter sentence in his appeal.

[@Einvvv]

Read the news article… i cannot with his letter of plea 🙃

[@Akane1313]

Yess!!🎉

[@Amethyst.i]

YES

[@sabrinafernandez6197]

@@Einvvvwhat did James blame now..? 😅

[@Einvvv]

@@sabrinafernandez6197 He wrote an appeal letter to say that he’s writing this appeal for his wife, growing children and aging parents and he used a lot of adjectives to express his sorrow.. the following part are from the article that made me 🙄 “The sentence which has been imposed on me had already choked the life out of me,” he added. “I have told both my counsellor in prison and psychologist - my soul has died. What is left is just an empty soul. I’m trying my best to compose myself not to break down in court today.” He later added that he used to take home a salary of S$60,000 (US$44,600) on average every year. “Twenty years of income lost will be calculated as S$1.2 million as financial support to give family minimally,” he said. "What kind of son, husband and father leaves his loved ones to fend for themselves for this amount of years?”

[@Phoenix-mh5eo]

I am SO proud of the Singaporean government for those sentences. I was fully expecting this case to end as many others do, with minimal punishment and jail sentence for the monsters. These sentences are SO much higher than I expected or even hoped for. Like logically, they should probably be in prison for LIFE (if they can do this to their wives who they claim to love, what can they do to others they don't care about?), but that was unlikely. 29 years is a LONG time.

[@petervansan1054]

you are absolute monster. This kind of a punishment should be banned

[@vanpirebaby]

i 100% agree

[@MegaBlair007]

@@petervansan1054explain why is it worse than what they did to the victims without making yourself sound like a monster

[@pie1o1morris46]

​@@petervansan1054 If you mean the caning thing, I agree. I get /maaybe/ using it for those who do extreme violent crime like s** crimes and torture (and only 100% proven ones, imagine going through that after being falsely accused), but other than that I completely disagree with it being used as punishment. It's basically s**ual assault in and of its self.

[@AdrianCHOY]

I think it’s excessive.

[@Krisgrace5]

This case makes me sick. I’ve been S/a’d and R worded. The fact that the guys were like “oh they still think they’re loyal haha” is so angering. That part definitely struck a cord with me, my ex bf broke up with me after I was R worded because “it’s like cheating”

[@AimeeKateKelly]

Some people are stupid , like unbelievably fucking stupid . It’s unfortunate we have to encounter and deal with people like that

[@chinkeyeye7486]

What is R worded??😶🤨🤔🤔

[@gossiplurker6681]

​@@chinkeyeye7486R@p3

[@qseit5140]

​@@chinkeyeye7486rape

[@mikerosoft2179]

@@chinkeyeye7486 aped with r in front

[@dinaahlamba2596]

the cane punishment should also be introduced in India. Many men need that

[@rashmi2886]

Couldn't agree more, Indian men, well not just them, are twisted on so many levels when it comes to crime against women. But the issue is the present govt doesn't give a flying fuck on these utterly gross incels roaming free on the streets, the punishment is just so much needed, especially in a country like ours!

[@andrewdriver3318]

Bring it to the US as well, so many people are like this because their parents refused to do it. All avoiding punishing your children does is force someone else to eventually do it for you. There is something very poetic in this punishment being an ultra extreme version of spanking, like it is all the discipline their parents neglected coming back at once.

[@Astrussy]

@@andrewdriver3318it’s one thing to do it on abusive/agressive criminals, doing it to your children is so different. Science shows spanking is more harmful than helpful, it’s just more convenient to apply than softer forms of punishment and correction. For example, spanking can lead to children being overly cautious in life and relationships out of fear of being punished. This can lead to them being in unhealthy relationships, having low self esteem, and having a hard time forming friendships.

[@andrewdriver3318]

@@Astrussy Yeah, uh huh. No, it doesn't a study you read that probably has a million caveats and was weighted to achieve a predetermined outcome to sell a book says that. Nobody buy that "studies show' crap anymore. You can make a 'study' "show" whatever you want it to. Everyone I grew up with that was spanked are all well adjusted adults. The ones that weren't are all emotionally stunted, and self absorbed. They are either living in their parents still doing the dumb stuff they did in high school in their 30s, are in jail, or on drugs. It's almost as if learning you actions have consequences is a huge part of development or something. That is the goal dingus, you are supposed to be cautious of being punished and wary of the consequences of your actions. That's how you don't raise a self absorbed criminal with reckless impulses and no forethought of consequences or impact on others.

[@Astrussy]

​@@andrewdriver3318 so we just don’t trust studies? If that’s the case, why trust any science? You genuinely think you know better than studies designed, carried out, peer-reviewed, and replicated by people who spent their lives studying the subject? You really don’t think there are psychologists out there that wouldn’t love the chance to “prove the rest wrong” and do a study showing that spanking actually IS good? Cmon.. Anecdotal experience isn’t meaningful data. I have friends who were never spanked and they’re very successful and well-adjusted. I have friends who were spanked and they’re stressed balls of anxiety that live with their parents still. See how anecdotal experience can lead to totally different conclusions?

[@aishaontop]

I got disgusted immediately when i read the title gosh imagine getting married to your partner and him doing that to you thats fucked up so fucking disgusting

[@Mr.WestcottX]

For real. So awful and absolutely disgusting

[@allie_xoxo7910]

It's absolutely disgusting but unfortunately a lot of abuse doesn't start until engagement or marriage. A lot of people will start the abuse then because it's harder to get out of. It's a side of "ownership" that goes with the abuse. It's absolutely disgusting.

[@Mr.WestcottX]

@@allie_xoxo7910 I bet. Anywhere in this world.

[@serchmaabaatarchuluun5761]

Why bother having enemies when you have husbands like them. This is real life example that shows people mostly gets sexually assaulted by the people they know.

[@lenasamzelius5530]

This story is so horrible. Poor, poor women. How does a body react to repeatedly being drugged over a period of 8 years, medically wise? We all know that it is devastating on the psyche, but what about the rest of the body? How does a brain react to that? The heart? What cowardly monsters. I hope each and every one of those poor wives and ex-wife heals and will find wonderful life partners instead of those sacks of pure sh*t and evil.

[@Clarachk]

So true! A lot of people don’t realize that the human body holds onto these traumas for much longer than we might guess. Sometimes forever. Even if the brain has had years decades of psycho-therapy to help overcome the mental trauma.

[@Clarachk]

So true! A lot of people don’t realize that the human body holds onto these traumas for much longer than we might guess. Sometimes forever. Even if the brain has had years decades of psycho-therapy to help overcome the mental trauma.

[@Clarachk]

So true! A lot of people don’t realize that the human body holds onto these traumas for much longer than we might guess. Sometimes forever. Even if the brain has had years decades of psycho-therapy to help overcome the mental trauma.

[@Clarachk]

So true! A lot of people don’t realize that the human body holds onto these traumas for much longer than we might guess. Sometimes forever. Even if the brain has had years decades of psycho-therapy to help overcome the mental trauma.

[@holdmacat9932]

​@@Clarachkhe is asking if the meda themselves fuck you up. Cause for example you can't have a lot of anesthesia, cause that is a health and life risk, so does the drugs also have bad affect after so many times?

[@anguilla12]

Ok I absolutely love how you decided to raise the point that the Brits introduced canings just to combat xenophobia. A lot of the efforts put into making sure we don't judge another culture harshly is becoming one of my favorite things from this channel

[@ggfor3278]

The level of Hate these men had for their wives is unbelievable. My heart goes out to these women.

[@missmadelinesadventures3278]

The men fell in love with each other. Perverse

[@abdoolidiots]

f these men who supposed to protect their woman!

[@rolandocastaneda8472]

Let's cry together 😂

[@adrukova1407]

​@@rolandocastaneda8472 Repent

[@MsBabyChips]

the only way they can even get boners at this point. Perverse sadists can't get their rocks off otherwise.

[@iboreasie]

These men really hate women. The fact that one of them had four daughters is alarming.

[@cupcake-cx5ov]

They are deranged!

[@kazumakiryuu2668]

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[@lilscenechick1995]

Yet they still ask why women prefer to be single these days…

[@Eneri-z9v]

I'm glad I'm considered ugly, not anyone's type, etc, therefore I am single for that reason 😊. I have been post menopausal for over four years 😊. I hope men continue to consider me ugly so they would leave me alone 😊.

[@sneakyviewing4391]

@@Eneri-z9v Sounds like my girlfriend's worst nightmare coming true

[@marcmuwanga68]

Naah. Men prefer being single more often than women. Women just fail to find a man they want by the time they are done with their whore phase because more men now know those women carry baggage at that point and are just settling. So they don't go for such women. Women cope by claiming to love their independence and freedom. Get the difference.

[@whittakerwinstanleyiii4051]

Men increasingly prefer to be single too. Society is doomed basically 😂

[@UneFemmeSansNom]

@@whittakerwinstanleyiii4051 Men as a collective do not and have never preferred to be single. But you already knew that, you just wanted to insert your little bullshit about men "too". Even the term incel is a portmanteau of _involuntarily_ celibate. And those who absolutely detest women - red pillers, MGTOW - still have their entire credo and reason for being revolving around women - how to trick women into sex. Women who prefer to be single will live their happy lives as normal, focusing on family, friends, work & hobbies, with zero male companionship - and maybe a little vibrator help along the way. Men act as though they will spontaneously combust without sex, so even those rare few who legitimately "prefer" to be single will incessantly seek out female companionship. Every male I’ve known who prefers to be "single" and "focus on themselves" - stays _planted_ on dating apps, going to the club, and approaching women with the goal of sex. Women who prefer to be single want absofuckinglutely nothing to do with men.

[@Sharonsworld2003]

Who is here after the french man that got arrested after finding multiple videos of over 72 men sleeping with his wife after drugging her

[@JMina99]

The years of when BOTH crime started and where reported is so scary to think of.

[@aimorgana]

Demons in human form is my only explanation for their mentality. I legit cannot wrap my head around their despicable behaviour in any other way.

[@warriorprincessharmony]

Those are Demons. That's what I call such entities. They are demons. Plain and simple.

[@ladybluelotus]

Agreed!

[@kurovader4078]

Yes

[@TheQOSministries]

Facts

[@lilovs9952]

They are just men. Stop bringing up fantasy terms for very human men

[@aimeekessell5022]

In the case of James, imagine have such little respect for women and being the father of 4 of them. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@timeless9820]

I m afraid for the daughters cuz his disgusting desire might make it curious to let men touch his daughters cuz he wants to see it as a movie and start to see the daughters as fictional characters

[@juliemesser2053]

EVIL!🥺

[@lizi1516]

​@@MyriamRichardsdottersadly i thought so too...

[@timeless9820]

@@MyriamRichardsdotter unfortunately. I can't understand how it is possible for people to do such act.

[@cheyennecrosby203]

@ville__ odd that you outwardly dislike females and found your way to this video

[@abigaelwhite2383]

How awful... How would you even begin to explain to 4 daughters why mom and dad are getting divorced? Unfortunately I think the daughters were in for a similar fate if they didnt get exploited in some way already. Someone that depraved doesn't just stop because it's their daughter..... or their wife

[@khelpie2242]

the moment he suggested that one of the guys should sa his wife in the daughters room while they slept… i guarantee that would have just been the start if they had. next he would be installing cameras in their rooms… 😭 if youre willing to allow your kids to potentially wake up and witness their mom being (R)@ped, who knows what he would put them through next. im at least thankful that he didnt do it to them for those 8 years but who knows how long it would be until someone suggested it as “a joke” and then they all go “hmm…. 🤔”

[@therealmouseymouse]

Maybe I watch too much true crime but every time she mentioned the daughters my stomach dropped and I kept waiting for him to turn on them.

[@HardHardMaster]

@@therealmouseymouse it was just a matter of time. These (sad disgusting excuses for) men had no conscience and no remorse for what they did and they would have victimized anyone for their own pleasure regardless the violation or the damage. Absolute psychopaths.

[@masterfulmakersau]

W.T.A.F!!! What happened to getting a divorce? I just can’t wrap my head around this. The brutality of this is so disturbing. WOW!

[@allasperans3984]

Statistically, this is not shocking and actually more likely for your rapist to be someone you know and trust... And people who rape are just, you know, people (mostly men). What I mean is, the "they're monsters" narrative actually harms victims - bc you really think that "i know him, he is not a monster, so I must be wrong/just be dramatic/it doesn't count/this is just my fault" etc. I went through that and I hate the way I learned it.

[@Mr.WestcottX]

I bet One's family member or close friends for long time or spouse/partner.

[@alwayshaley325]

Exactly

[@CLopez-pi9hk]

You are so right! Many rapists can be really charming and in most of the cases they are someone the victim knows and trusts like a boyfriend/ a friend / a husband or someone from the family. The case of a stranger assaulting a woman is less common. Many of these predators marry as a status for the public eye and because they seek to control their wife.

[@CLopez-pi9hk]

@ville__ are you okay?

[@halloumi420]

​@@CLopez-pi9hknah they're just an attention seeker

[@ncrest4365]

At this point, dating and marrying a man is a lot more unsafe for a woman than her being single.

[@merriamtiuseco-rp4sv]

Being single has its own merits. Lol

[@marisasalbego1321]

You talk shit mate my mom married and divorced and now i live rich so stop acting like women are Angels they not

[@万恶共匪毒害中华]

That's why so many women are single and men are infuriated and mocks single women, men never realise they are the problem

[@The_oli4]

I mean this is still a small percentage of pigs that do this. It's not like media would ever post about a perfectly normal relationship so this is the only thing you see in media.

[@Mollytov840]

"only something you see in the media" bullshit. 1/3 women have unwanted sex w/ their bfs or husbands. @@The_oli4

[@PassTheMarmalade1957]

"Sammy Boy is not responsible for your hurt feelings." They're also apparently not responsible for reporting evidence of literal crimes.

[@SRose-vp6ew]

Internet platforms are not responsible because it would be impossible. They are typically monitored in accurately and there will be no accurate way to actually find out who’s doing real crimes when people just randomly report each other and the AI just looks for trigger words and not actual ability to see crimes or not in most cases. However, what’s posted has been used against people in court and to find criminals. But the platform themselves are not held responsible and if anything they could be seen as guilty of liable, slander, election tampering, harassment, and a whole bunch of other things if they’re wrong and who they allow a physical human being to block, ban, and report. These legality and liability conversations are actually going on in the US government now. It seems there are laws that protect companies from what people say on the platform, but not protect the company from the censorship they do that could lead to allowed criminal activity. So far all that’s being done is talking about it.

[@tarotcardsandwich]

There it is

[@sneakyviewing4391]

welcome to the internet

[@DualisticDuelist]

Anytime anyone says that its a gigantic red flag. Just a disgusting site run by disgusting trash and used by trash. They really dont even deserve the title of "people"

[@CarmenBuenrostro]

On Facebook there was a dad group, where men were sharing photos of their wives, comparing sizes, sharing photos of their daughters and asking for people to share stories of if they’ve ever been caught playing with themselves who caught them and who taught them. It doesn’t have to be a shady site, Facebook is shady enough

[@mybindis3592]

I watched something similar. It was a social experiment created via an app. Live players had avatars and the set up was a local lounge, bar type atmosphere. There were five men and one woman, all who participated online. The men immediately attacked the female avatar,one by one. "Are you fckn kidding me" she repeated through her mic as they continued to slap and punch her. The experiment brought to light the very nature of man when it comes to women. It was disgusting and extremely frightening. I implore all women to learn self defense in order to protect themselves against this vicious cycle.

[@jenniferj5324]

Yeah okay ... you act like every single man is a violent psycho. That's absurd. Source for this ridiculous study, please.

[@littleblackpistol]

The true test of character and morality is what you do when you have permission to dio it or think you will not suffer consquences. Sadly, many men WILL do horrific stuff if the environment allows it and their male peer group cheers them on.

[@MsBabyChips]

how could she possibly defend herself against 5 men?!

[@Crazemaster1234]

As a Singaporean, I agree with the canning punishment. It's stated in the rules... It is stated that if u commit this crime u get this punishment... So well, just don't do it!

[@peterc4082]

You may not be able to respond but had they posted something bad about your commander in chief there, no doubt the punishment would have been far worse.

[@annettemattheyse2460]

ABSOLUTELY!

[@honieebean]

It's not even for small things in this case either....

[@jenniferl6553]

every criminal thinks they won't get caught so they're not concerned with the punishment. i genuinely wish we had that punishment in the U.S.

[@hewies]

This comment assumes that the justice system is perfect and only someone who committed a crime is getting corporal punishment. Unfortunately that's just not the reality

[@kam1umi]

She’s so respectful regarding all the cases and details and even as someone who doesn’t really like true crime this channel has me watching for hours

[@ahill4642]

Same! 😳

[@nimue4325]

Very well done and the information well researched. Different from the overly dramatic narration of others. Best wishes for the continuation of this channel.👍

[@ac1dwebzz]

I love her so much. She’s respectful to the case victims and their families. When requested to do something by the families, she does so. She also provides information and thoughts and feelings from others.

[@kimroberts4108]

I’m Australian Unmarried and Childless. A group pretending to be my new mates, did this to me. Men and women. 🙏🔥. No one believes. The Fire of Spirit Rains down upon THEM AS I TYPE. GRATEFULDEEP TO YOU 🌎👁️🌎

[@eternl_sunshine22]

what the fuck are u ok

[@danielwee7504]

Watching this as a Singaporean woman, i felt horrified by the crimes these men had done and its obvious they didnt feel remorseful until they were caught. And then when Steph got to explaining the caning sentence it felt satisfying to know James got that. Yeah im glad we have those lol. Personally it makes sense, like psychological punishment is one of the most impactful, if not even the most effective punishment. That's why as a singaporean woman I'm so glad to be able to say it's still relatively safer to be in Singapore lol

[@AnonymousTruthTeller]

I'm Singaporean woman too and I read this case before in the news. Can't remember when

[@万恶共匪毒害中华]

Anyone know the race of the perpetrators?

[@robinsmith8846]

No. It is only "safe" under the thumb of your brutal , ridiculous government. I don't buy it is safer , it is like living in a very clean city jail.

[@Not_a_Norm1e]

​@user-sd9sn7wf3o why does it matter, they did wrong and are going to pay the consequences. Don't try to make this into an opportunity to be rasict.

[@sumayyahadetunmbi4347]

yeah

[@Castkett4ever]

I'm only halfway through the video but you know it's catastrophically bad and wholly deranged when you think "well, at least they didn't touch the kids; they just used their rooms, while they were asleep in them ..."

[@ms0jakson]

and then u watch further...

[@tradwifelife9156]

I thought for sure that the daughters were going to end up being abused. I’m not done watching. I pray they don’t. These poor women. What losers these men are.

[@secretsofcloud9452]

@@tradwifelife9156 I was scared like if he gets bored with doing it with the wife is he gonna do it with the children?...

[@sandpiperr]

@@tradwifelife9156 Yeah I only just had that thought when she mentioned that this was in the house where their daughters were living. All along I was thinking it was amazing that she didn't mention SammiBoy attracting PDF Files since that's what always happens with unregulated forums that pride themselves on being unregulated and not "politically correct." However, when she mentioned the daughters, I had the terrible thought...are they going to start doing this to the daughters too as they get older, or even worse, not wait until they're older???

[@Gamez_Studios_]

OH GOD, IVE JUST GOTTEN TO THAT PART AND THATS WHAT WENT THROUGH MY HEAD-

[@TiBunCosplay]

There was a case I heard about a few years or so ago where a woman kept waking up feeling drained and exhausted, and she couldn't figure out why. So she put up a camera in the bedroom to record herself in hopes of figuring it out, thinking maybe she was waking up a lot without realizing it or that she was sleepwalking or something. But instead she played the footage and found out that her husband was SAing her in her sleep. She of course got herself out of that situation quickly so she was safe before filing for divorce and reporting the situation. I didn't think anything could top that case when it came to that kind of "husband", but this case sure proved me wrong on that in every way. It's horrifying.

[@cupcake-cx5ov]

That's so scary. I don't even have words to describe it. Your own freaking husband 😰

[@blueberrybabe4192]

Even worse when you’re the kid overhearing and when you try alerting the victim aka your mother and she tells you to basically f off only to say you were right weeks later then she continues to gaslight you ab it, on & off to the point you get insomnia over trying to make sure she’s not getting assaulted but eventually have to just ignore any of the anxiety

[@feliznavidad6958]

Study criminology more. Tons of stories like this. Humans are evil. Especially men.

[@hazelmint6671]

That's horrifying.

[@tOkiOchris]

A similar case happened in France, too. A wife was drugged for 10 years by her husband of 50 years as he was abusing her and invited more than 80 men to S assault her. People need to talk more about these crimes because I was not aware that husbands could do things like that. Women are truly not safe anywhere.

[@snowmaninthewest]

Thank you for covering this! Love from Singapore ❤ Singapore has seen an uptick in sexual assault cases recently, and most of them involve familial figures like family members, teachers and guardians. It’s important that we acknowledge our country is not the luxurious or luscious city that is often shown in media. The ugly side shouldn’t be swept under the carpet.

[@jadesingh8958]

i’m so sorry to hear that, i hope the victims find justice and peace

[@hironyx]

so true. im so tired of hearing of those assholes getting a slap on the wrists because they "have a bright future" and we should take that into consideration. 😠

[@annaelise6695]

It’s very sad to hear that there has been so many cases like this, but maybe its a good things that its all coming into the light. I believe that many things like this, all over the world, just stay hidden and fester within the outskirts of society. We need to force these criminals into focus and make them answer to the law instead of letting them get away with hiding and suppressing their victims voices.

[@hxw3600]

I agree honestly the s’pore gov shld have more pressure put on them regarding sa cases

[@aaaduccs6667]

LITERALLY THIS. IM SO SICK AND TIRED of the sexual abuse and rape cases ive been hearing recently??? @@hironyx

[@MyriamRichardsdotter]

Some men use tech to control and humiliate women. Corn addiction and online influencers are also “normalizing” violent misogynistic behavior and attitudes. Tech enables platforms to exploit and abuse women for profit.

[@Mr.WestcottX]

For anywhere in general. Against women ♀️

[@Mr.WestcottX]

@@juliemesser2053 agreed.

[@ieatpoo.]

@ville__bot

[@cupcake-cx5ov]

So true. They should bam porn

[@kateyelkovan]

You're right

[@sagescorner256]

literally no matter what us women do we can never be safe

[@Bubble__Bri]

Speak for yourself.

[@setuser777]

we will never win

[@Alexandra_Wolf]

“It’s the most dangerous for us in the safest places” Our homes. Our cars. Our universities. For some their family.

[@Alexandra_Wolf]

@@setuser777we could end nuclear war, create food for all, global peace and these incels would be out here being sad sick little leaches. A peer reviewed study showed that Countries with female leaders like New Zealand have wildly more successful happiness levels and distributed wealth and health.

[@Madinaash]

Honestly… it’s rough

[@alexanderditty3459]

I talk about you all the time... Today I mentioned you and my customer was telling me how much she loves you! We totally bonded over it thank you!

[@tenebritrix]

PLEASE cover the stolen babies case where NUNS actually stole newborns from their families, told them they died and then SOLD THEM OFF TO RICH COUPLES

[@tenebritrix]

This case was in Europe btw

[@juliemesser2053]

NOW THIS IS EVIL. Hope they get punished.

[@Heather-ip8sd]

Ohh this happened in Spain right? The Catholic Church stole 300,000 babies and sold them to the highest bidder?

[@didostempest2966]

@@tenebritrixdo you mean the Ireland cases?

[@tenebritrix]

@@didostempest2966 it happened in Spain too… I'd imagine it also happened in other catholic countries as well

[@xshotaro_rose]

I've already listened to this on Spotify and this case is truly disgusting!! I do also wonder about their thought process while doing something as disturbing as this. Thank you for covering this, Stephanie.

[@JettSettingBengal]

They should have filmed the cane strokes and posted it on the vlog for their views to watch. This story is mind boggling. I’m so shocked. They should absolutely share the names of these men. They don’t deserve to have their privacy, when they could care less about their wives privacy.

[@MommaOsoIrish67]

Yes! Absolutely!

[@jagbombs4life]

BC the brave woman and mothers can have more strangers creep into their lives and in to their thank god future they are survivors and are alive.!!!!!!!

[@katisjustfine2960]

On January 30th Owen received 13 years in jail and 12 Cane strokes

[@soho6435]

13 years is absolutely not enough...

[@AmyinOregon]

I'm verbally yelling out loud in my house to my dog ... "I'd kill him, and shoot him in his sammyboy if my husband did that to me!" I'm honestly surprised all these woman didn't snap. They are so damn strong and I am praying from them. I don't know what else to do for them. Pray they are healing, safe, loved and supported. I'm stunned by this one. I feel so sad for these women and grossed out at these disgusting "men." Though I'm very glad you bring me the real world Stephanie. I'm 48 so I'm not as cool as I used to be.😊 I like to be in the know to warn my 28 year old daughter and my coworkers. Thank you Stephanie and team. These cases are all heavy. I really appreciate you and your hard ass work. My prayers go out to you all also. ❤ MUCH respect & prayers. 🙏 ❤

[@jellycatfish]

You're spouting such lies, I can tell just by your comment that you're super cool ❤.

[@Pinkie_pie13]

I feel bad for the women. I bet they have terrible trauma (if they are alive)

[@hordakprime6172]

No doubt.

[@SteelDown]

I feel bad for all women. Yall are NOT safe !

[@MissAyame89]

@@SteelDownwe aren’t

[@alvinsmith3894]

@@SteelDown from men* I'm a man and I admit that this is the reality of the situation. Most men will never admit that we're the cause of most crimes on this planet especially now with manchild coddlers like Tate and his ilk, brainwashing young men into becoming spineless little baIIsacks.

[@thecoolintroverttv8381]

​@user-xn6dw6tt5x they could be if they start, taking self-defense classes and keeping weapons that no one not even their husbands know about for their own safety...it's sounds F-ed up but women need start being selfish and putting themselves first😊

[@with_yarn_through_life]

Cases like this make me want to avoid men at all costs. Yes, not all of them are like the ones in the story above, but it's not a gamble I'm willing to play with.

[@VermontConnection]

Exactly. Not all men, but definitely there's a LOT of men out there like them.

[@SupahNinjasfreak]

@ville__ loser

[@aoi_lovesart]

​@@buttlord4204okay not to Sound rude but no one kinda asked? It's about the victims. This is not the time to talk about yourself

[@cupcake-cx5ov]

Fr you don't want to risk it. :(

[@xsomili5501]

Will u avoid ur straykids if u see them irl too lol

[@bigjoyouscelebration2908]

i will never marry

[@turquoisebubbles2042]

It’s simple no one owns anyone … the assumption that marriage means ownership is disgusting. Those poor women , my heart goes out to them.

[@tandylynnennis9639]

How crazy is it that men actually think that we're property?

[@RenaGoss]

They have been thinking and believing and treat women like this for decades ​@@tandylynnennis9639

[@Timmeh_The_tyrant]

That is completely batshit crazy and not what marriage is at all nor was in most cultures marriage is about devotion love loyalty commitment to one another and family

[@IronKore]

​@@tandylynnennis9639even wives feel that way and is more prominent now, especially in the west. So please hush with the sexism. We know when it's done to men, the men allowed it right?

[@IronKore]

​@@tandylynnennis9639even wives feel that way and is more prominent now, especially in the west. So please hush with the sexism. We know when it's done to men, the men allowed it right?

[@lordtette]

I can only imagine the trauma her mind tried to supress for all those 8 years. And I had a sad suspicion that he'd cross more boundaries when it came to his daughters. These men hate women and girls

[@Nai7547]

Sure, there's lots of cases that fathers do this

[@danataylor9437]

Yes, they do hate us.

[@charlottevanzyl7161]

This. This is why I'm scared of men. The fact I've already seen two comments saying similar things happened to them is disgusting. I hope anyone who went through went through anything similar is okay and finds a way to heal. I cant even imagine 😭

[@slee9024]

OK, there are bad men but more good men. LOL

[@Amibuh]

​@@slee9024Lol? This is funny to you?

[@killsomefool1239]

@@slee9024 there seem to be wayyy to many bad men for women to feel comfortable around men in general

[@JennyferPepin]

To many extends, I'm scared of men also. I get anxious whenever i'm close to a man. I never feel safe.

[@UneFemmeSansNom]

@@killsomefool1239 The statistical odds of finding not one, not two, but 7 people to band together and do something like this should be theoretically impossible. The statistical odds of finding hundreds more to be a happily watching audience should also be theoretically impossible. Yet somehow, it never is when it comes to men. There are thousands of stories of men banding together to assault women. _Thousands._ Woodstock, 1999. The Puerto Rican Day Parade, 2000. We Are Sthlm Festival, 2014. New Year’s Eve Attacks, 2016. Rio De Janeiro Assault, 2016. And these aren’t standalone crimes - these are mass SA incidents involving dozens to *hundreds* of men. There’s a literal Wikipedia page for these events. And I haven’t even gotten to f-ing India. Or war. Then the alleged good men will come to triggering videos like this and women expressing their fears to gaslight that "oh there are bad men, but we mostly good lololol" and then promptly leave most likely to jack off to violent porn. Fck men, honestly.

[@calmingbabysleep1256]

Genuine question: how do you know who to trust? You can't trust anyone these days.

[@heyma004]

Ikr, even a long, reliable relationship of 10 years could turn into something horrible.

[@lynnvon8758]

You can never truly know anyone look at serial killers they were married had kids they're families didn't know they were are monsters.

[@macktristan27]

People are strange.men and women.i was with a girl for two years,paid for everything,took her shopping,freaked everyday,but everyday when I'd goto work,she would bring a guy over into our bed.found out,packed up my stuff and left.her best friend and I bumped into one another that summer.married to her now for ten years.do I trust anyone? Nope.not even my mother.

[@macktristan27]

@@calmingbabysleep1256 my mother put bills and rented apartments in my name before I was 12.when I was 25 she stole 50k from my company and ran away.so no,I don't trust her either.

[@Thumin]

That title is something else 😰

[@prettyinpnk]

this whole situation is just insane ☠️☠️

[@neanderthal_]

Not really funny though, is it? (thumin added skull emojis, that’s why i replied with this)

[@Sunflowersarepretty]

Those emojis shouldn't be used here right?

[@Cristina-Ortiz]

​@@neanderthal_No one claimed that it was..?

[@AST.Jester]

Hi Thumin

[@jenndesharnais6101]

One thing good about the internet is it's exposing how sickening, abusive and uncaring a lot men can really be. It took me 46 years to find a good man! Every guy I dated and my x husband were all abusive and that's not an exaggeration. Everyone of them abused me financially, emotionally or physically or all of the above. It's truly sad that so many men think it's ok to abuse women and children.

[@joes6108]

I'm sure you are completely innocent. The common denominator is bad luck and definitely not you.

[@tingle2323]

True...the men who claimed themselves as sexual being..what u expect from them to be good..

[@YoutubeChannel-ol7zx]

Of course they did sweetheart...

[@portalofyarn]

Sorry about the men in your replies completely proving your point , just know I 100% believe you! Most men are menaces 😭 Not sure why they get SO offended when someone mentions that

[@Erica-ob3vr]

Financial abuse in relationships is not acknowledged. Unless you're being beat to the brink of death, it's not abuse. Right?. I've been taken advantage of by men who were jealous of my job, my income, my caring personality. Men Target women and use them for whatever it is they're after. Then they say the women is crazy, bipolar when she gets sick and tired of them.

[@ChephtsiyBah]

Praying for you and your protection. You are an Angel for exposing this! The world can be a horrible and dark place. You are the light.

[@The_sparkly_silly]

Every time i hear one of these cases i feel like, okay yeah makes sense he would be angry if his wife is probably cheating on him- AND THEN ITS THE MOST CRAZIEST DISGUSTING THING IVE EVER HEARD LIKE. WHAT.

[@moonflowerspeaks]

Facts and it’s the fact he set up the affair for me. Technically she wasn’t cheating willingly at that point.

[@HB.13]

This case boils my blood and at the same time sends chills down my spine. Makes me question who can one actually trust😳😳

[@Mr.WestcottX]

For real 😮😡😟

[@DM-nw5lu]

I've first been sexually harassed by a male stranger when I was 12 and men have since given me plenty reason not to trust them unless they've really proven themselves. Hell, it isn't even safe for men to trust men. Most homicides are committed by men and in most cases of r*pe where the victim is a man... The predator is also a man. We really messed up as a society when it comes to raising men.

[@madalinadelia]

No one

[@ky9933]

If you are a woman, the sad truth is you can't ever trust males.

[@Neku628]

I can't imagine what this will be like for the kids that find out that their father isn't really their father's and instead a product of rape. Society will just accuse the wife of cheating off the bat and not even take a deeper look to see that everything is the husband's fault for screwing over his wife and her kids.

[@mimixmin]

Omg!! I'm the one who wrote the comment you read out at 1:16:49! Feels so surreal that my favourite youtuber randomly saw one of the comments I made on Reddit about a true crime case!! 😂😂

[@sneakyviewing4391]

heck yeah go you!

[@clovercard22]

I cannot even imagine the trauma of finding out you've been betrayed and assaulted like this, both by the person you are married to and multiple strangers, this is absolute nightmare fuel

[@Mr.WestcottX]

For real. I will probably not trust anyone not even your own husband or wife

[@LeslieCastro-wt6dv]

Bear i choose bear.