7 Secrets to Kiss Him Like a Goddess

[@Mat_Shaffer]

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[@MysteryMeetGirl]

I'm over here like hell yea taking mental notes but i know in my core when that moment comes i'll freeze up like a deer in headlights because of how shy i am.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

practice makes perfect my dear! just pick a few and try them and build out from there :)

[@rosemarychavez5960]

Lmao same , I've been with my boyfriend for seven months now and when we kiss I still freeze up and he makes me feel so shy . Lol it's funny because not any guy that I've ever been with ,not one has ever made me feel the way he makes me feel 😆☺️.

[@MysteryMeetGirl]

Rosemary Chavez girl you and me both!!

[@rosemarychavez5960]

@@MysteryMeetGirl lol yesss

[@BongiweMabaso1507]

Me😭😭

[@Mylena82]

1. Use the magic inch (allowing some holding back while kissing) 2. intensity: Variety of kissing, touching (harder, softer, pressure) 3. use your teeth in a gentle way 4. use your tongue (start off slow to see reaction and respond) 5. use your nails (back of head, cheek, neck, through hair ...) 6. use your body (the way you move and press your body against him) 7. set the tempo ( get along with him, let the tempo arise and slow down)

[@Mat_Shaffer]

YES beautifully summarized thanks so much!! :)

[@Strawberrymilkmooshroom]

Myy_panda thank you girl!

[@NikkiMshow]

Myy_panda THANK YOU YOU ARE VERY HELPFUL MAAAM THX FOR TAKING TIME OUT OF YOUR DAY

[@Spudbunny616]

I feel bad for people who need to be told this

[@stephaniewisdom3130]

I've been married for 27 yrs and I'm only 44 I love kissing but my hubby doesn't. I get the peck on the lips everyday but not the deep passionate kissing that I'd love to have. Any advise on how I could get him to come around we've been arguing about this for yrs.🙄🤔

[@butterkeksgangster6685]

You let it sound so exciting instead of awkward

[@Mat_Shaffer]

it can absolutely be exciting and FUN! :)

[@selah71]

I dated a guy and he kissed my lips in such a way that it's better described as making love to my lips. He used his lips, tongue and teeth very gently. No rushing. After he kissed me this way, OMG, I was weak kneed. I asked him who taught him how to kiss like that. "Her name was Dianna." I'm grateful to Dianna because she also taught me!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

thats beautiful thanks for sharing

[@Mushroom321-]

Woah!, congrats! thank you for sharing. sounds just like how a guy kissed me, he was so passionste... 🥳 the whole gently bitten on the lips was all new to me,! 😳 & the gently pulling my lip too!

[@Charlie-dk8vp]

Bruh I’m very very late like 6months late But had this Diana got a yt channel or something 😂???

[@wasimathebest5974]

I would be so hurt tho......if someone i liked wss kissing me like that and i asked who taught him...and he said someone elses name i'd be so..sad deep down😔because the girl was most likely a good kisser and i'm not the best.

[@anakarencp]

♡

[@euphaniegomezlindsay2068]

Once again, the mysterious KZbin algorithms reunite us.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

HA nice to connect with you my dear :) Did you enjoy the video?

[@ZoeHammer]

Euphanie Gomez Lindsay it wants us to succeed in our dating life

[@gerryrain16]

😁😁😁😁😁

[@loreleitease790]

his voice is so calming 😌

[@Mat_Shaffer]

[@esthermacky8067]

Ikr

[@makiba9461]

Let your feelings for him guide your kisses....they will be automatically passionate.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

YEP totally agree with that! such a turn on!

[@annetolno-foster926]

I love how you phrased that!

[@bambi_bbholic6343]

My crush/best friend kissed me passionately when we were arguing on a political topic and he knew he was losing... ;) now he is my boyfriend and soon to be fiance

[@Mat_Shaffer]

HAHA now THAT"s a hot love story! Love it!

[@rose-iu5ij]

I want a story like yours♥. You go girl!! Hope you have a great life with him ✨

[@bambi_bbholic6343]

@@Mat_Shaffer tnx Mat😋

[@bambi_bbholic6343]

@@rose-iu5ij tnkuu..u will too gal.. The right one will come in due time.. At present jus focus on urself n practice self love..💕

[@bennjohnson7806]

Wow thats great!

[@Arkinas]

Single ganggg? Wya?😂

[@Mat_Shaffer]

haha Im sure theres PLENTY here :)

[@ronie1238]

🤚

[@danielaarroyo2250]

eyy

[@Mat_Shaffer]

@Eccoe Dean HAHA no shame in being single and ready to mingle!

[@rosettekz3288]

Almost wrote "here" but then I remembered I left that gang yesterday 😂😂😂

[@esthermacky8067]

He's so quiet, I could fall asleep, it's so soothing 😴😂

[@Mat_Shaffer]

aww thats sweet thank you!

[@violetmushroom6]

I metnthis guy the second time and it was not even supposed to be a date, and he kissed me out of nowhere, we got married in 6 months :D chemistry is still unbelievable

[@Mat_Shaffer]

love this story thanks so much for sharing! chemistry can be absolute magic!

[@phathiswamtangai7245]

First time my boyfriend kissed me, I felt electric sparks all over my body. Wow he can really kiss passionately!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

thats beautiful love it! you are WORTHY of that!! :)

[@thaliariddolls3698]

My first kiss I didnt feel anything:(

[@simplymarilyn5295]

There's nothing better than a long, passionate, kissing session🏹💕

[@Mat_Shaffer]

TOTALLY! its the best :)

[@missnorway8994]

Amen!

[@louiseleite3866]

Ice cream is a good contender 🍦🍧🍨

[@toastercat2946]

Anonymous Cupcake I guess kissing is a lot like writing? You have to find ways to snatch your readers attention, make them anticipate the next chapter, and make them excited about the story and your characters. You gotta make your partner anticipate your kiss, and build tension. You need to build the excitement in a story, and build tension to the climax, varying the pace to make it interesting. You have to appeal to your audience but also do what you want to do, and have a clear narrative and purpose. If writing is somewhat similar to kissing, then I think I might just be a good pretty kisser.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

YES it's telling an interactive story through the language! That;s a beautiful metaphor, I may do an entire video on it :)

[@mariaortner3101]

In fact in many languages the word for „tongue“ is the same as „language“. 😘

[@oliv8058]

IDK why i am watching this, i don't have a boyfriend lol

[@Mat_Shaffer]

learn it now so you can use it when it counts :)

[@brittneyfernandez5710]

*me* DELETE HISTORY DELETE HISTORY DELETE HISTORY 😟😟😂 EDIT: thanks for all those likes!! Wasn't expecting that!! 💗

[@Mat_Shaffer]

LOL one of my FAV comments everrrrrr!

[@brittneyfernandez5710]

Mat Shaffer thanks !!! 💗😂

[@flavourpunchh]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@abigailventer6253]

That is soooooo me 😂😂😂

[@Mushroom321-]

😲🤣 its okay. anybody can learn something new. no worries girl! 🥳

[@user-gc1fj7yx2o]

Your teeth and eyes are so perfect. I keep getting distracted by them.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

HAHA try to stay focused! ;)

[@missyfrog1]

He has a pair if doe eyes too.

[@anonymgirl1981]

well, my crush called me on a date next week. lol, and I'm binge watching these tips.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

uhoh lucky him! :)

[@missnorway8994]

Good luck🍀

[@ZariyaJ]

Mee

[@AlexisMaria]

Oh my lol I do almost all of these subconsiously...totally makes sense as to why guys (even the ones I dont want anymore) wont leave me alone lol! This is a great refresher and have never tried hand / nail gestures, will do! Found you via Helena and I must say your videos are very Woman friendly! Sending your channel to some friends; just subscribed xx

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Alexis Maria YAY love hearing this! Yep when you kiss a man like this you become a highly addictive force ;) so glad my stuff resonates and you share it with your friends - thanks so much my dear 🤗❤️

[@zenzenreseller8865]

Thank you 🙏The lip tugging and intensity was a hit!

[@SoEepyy]

My first kiss was so bad, he used his tongue at first like SO DEEP inside my mouth i almost gag xD

[@Mat_Shaffer]

oh yeah thats a hard stop right there! Time to give that guy a kissing lesson haha

[@SoEepyy]

@@Mat_Shaffer finally i just talked to him and he changed, it was soo bad xD

[@2011work2008]

Coffxs .. exactly I’m like 🤔😳🥺 such a turn off..

[@1m2rich]

One guy kissed met like a vacuum. LOL.

[@sinikiwesibanda1463]

@@1m2rich lol

[@belle.m]

I’d like to know how to get men to slow down when it comes to kissing. I have met sooo many guys who go straight in with his tongue and it totally kills the mood. Even when I try to slow them down, it’s still all tongue. It’s like men all get taken aside as boys and are told that’s how to do it! I just want to know the best way to get men to slow the kissing down so I don’t offend them when they go all tongue.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

tell him playfully how you like it :) If your energy is warm and inviting they wont feel rejected by it

[@Mat_Shaffer]

rather than correcting their technique, state your preference!

[@belle.m]

Thanks Mat. I’d really like a video on this, and other tips to help slow men down without offending them and making them feel like you aren’t interested. Some men just go all in too fast. I don’t want to scare them away!

[@mikaylapesticcio5559]

I watch these kind of videos all the time and find them all boring and they don’t work but I must say this is the best advice I’ve ever listened to

[@Mat_Shaffer]

WOW thank you for this feedback that really means a lot to me - I know there's a lot of content out there!

[@PeppaPig-do7ne]

1. Magic inch 2. Add variety (softly at first, then harder and firmer) 3. Use teeth to grab their lip or even tongue (see how he responds) 4. Use tongue a little bit at first and see how he responds then maybe add more 5. Use your nails (on the back of his head, chest, hair) 6. Use your body (push up against him) to get him excited 7. Look at it as a piece of music (with tempo and crescendo) by guiding it

[@Mat_Shaffer]

YES beautifully summarized, thanks so much!!

[@PeppaPig-do7ne]

Mat Shaffer no problem!

[@mindyourown8371]

I'm shocked that you have 3 thumbs down on this video. I have been told my kiss is addictive. I'm going to try the nail tip, I never thought of that. Thank you, I'm a new subscriber and have been binge watching your videos, you're very helpful!!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

aw you're so sweet thank you my dear! glad you are enjoying my stuff :)

[@marymissmelody8520]

You popped up and it was perfect timing. I would never have thought I would actually need a refresher hahaha. WOW!!! It's going to happen and it's going to happen soon. I feel it in our bones. I'm going to blow him away. Thanks bro.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

BOOM and he will be a VERY LUCKY and VERY HAPPY guy :)

[@JustRandomShitx]

I swear these tips worked so well haha! I met this guy two days ago and he said he was never this turned on before, you are a hero! I will see this guy again tomorrow haha ;)

[@Mat_Shaffer]

AMAZING this makes me so happy!! congrats!

[@JustRandomShitx]

@@Mat_Shaffer I kid you not, I heard it 3 times now, not to brag or whatever, just really guys, follows Mat's advice !! I love this, you are an honest hero that appeared on the internet... ;)

[@Mat_Shaffer]

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

its a great time!

[@flavourpunchh]

I love how expressive and passionate you are when you are talking. It is very warm and comforting :)

[@Mat_Shaffer]

AmaZing so glad you enjoy how I communicate 🙏🙏❤️

[@nathalieampuero9878]

It’s amazing how many bad kissers are out there. Your tips are on point...bottom line is vary it up utilizing everything you have.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

YESS you totally get it

[@nathalieampuero9878]

Mat Shaffer I have been told 😉

[@WhiteRoseGuidance]

Yeah, I pretty much instinctively do all these things already :)) Nice tips, for sure!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

awesome you are a NATURAL!

[@shelleyhibbard1433]

I had a boyfriend once who was so in tune with me that when we kissed we could breath through each other's noses. Might sound a little weird but I thought it was a huge turn on.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

WOW I have never heard that... that's super cool :)

[@xjxssxox]

me getting butterflies thinking about someone while watching this: nO I AM A BAD BEECH I CANNOT HAVE FEELINGSSSSS

[@captainswan3079]

Lol same!

[@IzayoiMeiHigu]

Same

[@Mat_Shaffer]

I appreciate your opinion on this!

[@lilianacumpana1747]

You are great Mat. Your explanations are very understandable. And I think it’s impossible that all this won’t work We just have to put them in practice. Thank you

[@Mat_Shaffer]

🤗

[@nessabrcb5137]

Reading some comments like "I've never kiss before" Me: first kiss at 6yrs

[@anise6633]

Same my first kiss was 5😅

[@joebloggs9957]

Mines was at eight years old. It was home time on valentine day. We were lining up to go home. He swapped his quavers to get to the front of the line with me. As soon as the beer rang he gave me chocolate, kissed me in front of my mum and ran off. Let’s just say I was 😁

[@Mat_Shaffer]

aww yeah everyone has a different trajectory in connecting with men! I think my first kiss was at 13 :)

[@wariatzkosmosu3593]

Mine 4

[@yaksokupjm]

Mooooood

[@36isnotold]

I love kissing, I mean love it, but I’m embarrassed to admit this but I haven’t really kissed (tongue) anyone in ten years or more. That’s sad. I absolutely have to be attracted to someone to be that intimate.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

I totally understand! thank you for your beautiful share... your man is out there and will love your intimacy !

[@36isnotold]

Mat Shaffer awe, thanks mat!

[@zazuzazz5419]

Girl, if you want it... distance (even time) doesn’t matter. Let the moment lead you...

[@candysmith8724]

If a man drools all over you and doesn't know how to kiss himself....none of these tips will matter. You won't want to get passionate with him. I call it horse mouthing you. lol

[@Mat_Shaffer]

HAHA truly! Then you have an opportunity to guide/invite him into how to kiss you properly ;)

[@themoviefan6948]

Omg! Yes, it's the worse when the guy doesn't know how to kiss and uses too much tongue. 🤮

[@squarepeg9484]

Horse mouth 😂😂😂 I call that ‘Washing Machine Kissing’ the tongue is like its on the rinse and spin cycle

[@Anna-mv4ly]

Candy Smith * I really like your comment, I never thought of calling it horse mouthing ,that is so true and funny.😇

[@ashserj7906]

😂😂😂

[@suzieburnette1677]

I’m preparing myself for the most ultimate first kiss!!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Awesome!! 😉

[@minnami778]

I feel shy already watching this. Ur voice is so soothing.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

aww love hearing that! thank you!

[@minnami778]

@@Mat_Shaffer ur tips.. they r work. somehow too well actually ! Thank u Mat.

[@patriciagurwitz509]

By far, the best video on how to kiss. I wish I would have seen this video along time ago! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👄👄👄👄👄👐🏻🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👐🏻👄💋💋💋💋👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@Mat_Shaffer]

YESSSS LOVE IT!!! thank you for the feedback!!!

[@francesgaia4649]

For 1,000s of years men carried the Masculine energies, and women the Feminine energies. But now, in the 21st Century, the challenge is to become WHOLE, for men and women to be connected to BOTH, Masculine and Feminine Energies. No longer a mutual dependency relationship but much freer, healthier relationship of Wholeness of Both Partners.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

amen! we both have both energies within us :)

[@HappyMonkey11]

I hit that subscribe button so fast, sparks came out of my fingers!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Amazing! Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.

[@trinakaufman4804]

Thank you for the support

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Any time

[@IamBrendaMarie]

Is there someone out there that I can try that on? Asking for a friend 😂😂🤣

[@Mat_Shaffer]

I promise you there are! :)

[@IamBrendaMarie]

@@Mat_Shaffer Lol😂. Thanks

[@kgakgamatsodineo3428]

😂😂😂

[@IamBrendaMarie]

@@kgakgamatsodineo3428 😂

[@missykat2412]

omg I can't stop smiling, amazing tips waiting someone then try ... Thank you Mat

[@Mat_Shaffer]

:):) love this share thank you Missy! hes gonna be a lucky guy

[@jennifer5853]

Love the sensitive and no-nonsense way you tackle these sexual topics Matt! ♥️

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much Jennifer Doherty! 🙏❤️

[@IsabelGomez-ps3lu]

Who else never had their first kiss and still watching these kinds of vidsss !!!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

lol young lady I dunno if this is appropriate content for you! :)

[@hadassah7582]

Love your content and the way you laugh in between. Always have me smiling when I am listening to you. Your voice is so calming. Thanks 😊😊Much love from the Caribbean 🇱🇨

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Aw wonderful that makes me so happy!! appreciate that! :)

[@kadiegalewaler2976]

Wowww you look so happy!! You were smiling the whole time!!!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Haha what can I say, I love the subject matter ;)

[@kadiegalewaler2976]

Mat Shaffer yes Ik lol

[@gigybumper6989]

Matt my husband is out of town can't wait to try any thing of your videos when he arrives back!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

woohooooo lots of fun for YOU ahead!

[@donnaleiya4893]

Wow this is actually a really great video

[@Mat_Shaffer]

thanks so much :)

[@amitasarswal6102]

Okay Your voice Is so Soothing😌

[@Mat_Shaffer]

appreciate that!! :)

[@patriciemelounkova4402]

I am eating garlic bread while watching this😂

[@Mat_Shaffer]

HAHA super hot!

[@queso5367]

OMG...I ugly lol'd. You're the best! 🤣🤣🤣☠

[@captainswan3079]

🤣🤣🤣

[@lovelygg13]

Weird... the first comment I made here is gone... but still. I showed this vid to a friend of mine who is just starting out with her relationship and she told me that this vid helped to make her very first kiss AMAZING. So she told me to tell you thanks a bundle on her behalf.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

I'm so glad this helped! Thank you for sharing her response with me! I'm not sure what happened to your comment... that is weird!!!

[@lovelygg13]

Heh I remember my first kiss. We had admitted a month prior that we had feelings for each other and we really wanted to try and see how it would work out. So in May we got together and hung out at a mall for the first time, spending time with each other and it was fun. But it was when we sat in my car that things got magical. I didn't anticipate it, but we were just staring at each other, not wanting to leave before he sorta leaned in and kissed me. It was like a bunch of energy just flowed right through us through our lips. Best part, he said right after he broke the kiss that I was an amazing kisser for my first time. So yay~!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

aww thats SO COOL - thanks for sharing! What a beautiful moment!!

[@AllasMusicChannel]

The video has generated many fantasies.... :) Mat has beautiful eyelashes, was fascinated to watch and observe :)

[@Mat_Shaffer]

HA wow glad you liked it! Take that energy out into the world and see how magnetic you will be to men!

[@SusannaBearfoot1]

Beautiful, especially the reference to music. My new man and I are both musicians. Enjoying the dance!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Wonderful! I’m so glad this helped you!

[@elizabethrandellswart2397]

Thank you your tutorials are very helpful and tasteful. After 38 years of marriage we are learning.. and your info brought spark back into our relationship..

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for your feedback, Elizabeth.❤️ Love lots!!

[@debbiethomas8606]

Heyyyyy Matt.. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Very very helpful content.. Keep 'em videos coming.. Godspeed 🙏

[@Mat_Shaffer]

[@narellemontauban1863]

Love all your content Mat, thank you ! Sooo looking forward to that 'first' kiss......... :)

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much Narelle Montauban! 🙏❤️

[@ShortVideos-ye5jo]

Wow this is such a good video, I was really nervous and scared before but this made me excited! I think it might be tomorrow 😊😀

[@Mat_Shaffer]

awww yeah have fun! :)

[@Patriotgirl1130]

Incredible info again ♥️ Love this!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Glad you enjoyed it!😍

[@eduo.2096]

YT: recommending this to me at 12am in the morning ME: watching it & wondering what that says about me as a person 😅😅😅

[@Mat_Shaffer]

HAHA sounds like a suggestion from the universe!

[@rosalily]

Thank you so much! Just discovered your channel😍your content is amazing and so are you! Had to push that red button🤗

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Absolutely love hearing this! Welcome my dear 🤗🤗❤️❤️

[@shreyaabaranwal877]

Such soothing voice!❤️ Good video!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Wow!! Thank you, Shreyaa🤗❤️

[@lisabrun4624]

I could listen to him talking all night!!!!🙌🙌🙌

[@Mat_Shaffer]

thanks Lisa! you're making me blush

[@lisabrun4624]

Mat Shaffer i should have put YOU instead of HIM, lol!!! Luv luv luv all of your advice!!! Merciiiiii🤗

[@sarahellae]

I love your videos!! Thank you so much for the content that you put out!!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

so glad you enjoy it!@ :)

[@clarityperry4748]

This is so helpful for writing romantic scenes.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Yessss 🔥🔥🔥

[@verseharmony2914]

Beauty In The Breakdown led me here? I entertained the video lol It’s on point on how I kiss already pretty much and other ways. Cool video

[@Mat_Shaffer]

lol thanks! Love that thats the lead in video :)

[@petitlivre]

I’ve just discovered your channel and am loving your videos already :) you give such in-depth advice

[@Mat_Shaffer]

thanks so much my dear that means a lot to me! I always try to go deep in my topics :)

[@anastazijastambolic5836]

Can you make a seperate video on how to kiss with tongue? It's very confusing for me, like i just don't know what to do😂

[@Mat_Shaffer]

that's a great suggestion, yes happy to do that :)

[@flavourpunchh]

@@Mat_Shaffer omg yes please I don't know what to do either!!!

[@bekafaith689]

@@Mat_Shaffer that would be so helpful 😂

[@RayanRayan-nt8bf]

I like when you said:thats the way ,so sweet

[@Mat_Shaffer]

[@Isa-nj5fp]

Me: *holds it in, playing it cool” Him: *looks at the fishes in the ocean* Me: *looks at the fishes next to him* Him: *kisses me on the cheek* Me: *looks at him for explanation* Him: “it’s just a friendly kiss” Me: *mhmm* 2-4 mins later Me: *gazes out in the ocean looking at the boats* Him: *looks at me for a sec* Him: *kisses me on the lips* Me: 🤨😏 Him: “that wasn’t good” *steps back and bend down waiting for me to kiss him* 🙄☺️ Me: *kisses him* 😊😇

[@Mat_Shaffer]

🤗

[@aminanur5782]

Wow 🤩 my guy loved it, thank you!!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

HA YESSSSS I LOVE HEARING ABOUT WHEN PEOPLE PUT THESE MOVES INTO ACTION :) so cool

[@justfeelsso7389]

Im not sure why I’m here. I don’t actually like kissing 😂

[@Mat_Shaffer]

ohh thats interesting why do you think that is?

[@justfeelsso7389]

Mat Shaffer I suppose it gets boring after a while and I just find myself zoning out

[@teathiebaud4103]

I thought I was the same!!!

[@justfeelsso7389]

​@Sky Cookies hmmm possibly! I'll have to look into it.

[@ladystarlightasmr]

I recently had my first kiss, it was very unexpected, drunk and sloppy and I was absolutely NOT into it. As you might tell, it was not great. If kissing doesn’t get a *whole lot* better, it’s kinda overrated to me. I have been thinking about falling somewhere on the asexual spectrum for quite a while tho...

[@SourSkittles335]

I don't know what it is but your voice is so soft and nice and I been watching your videos and can't stop watching and I don't know why

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Love this feedback thanks so much 🙏🙏❤️❤️

[@ceciliauzoo336]

Wow this is BEAUTIFUL.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

[@terrischmidt764]

He has the cutest giggle ❤

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Amazing!

[@legzfalloffgirl5148]

Soooo is it still masculine and feminine if the participants are gay?

[@Mat_Shaffer]

yes there generally speaking will still be a masculine and feminine polarity dynamic in same sex relationships as well! One masculine and one feminine energy dominant partner :)

[@legzfalloffgirl5148]

I'm thinking we could trade who is the pursuer and who is pursued whenever we choose as well

[@clau6972]

@@Mat_Shaffer I don't think It works that way

[@Mat_Shaffer]

@@clau6972 what are your thoughts on it? I do think the energies are even more fluid and flexible in same sex relationships than they are in opposite sex ones

[@Mat_Shaffer]

@@legzfalloffgirl5148 YEP definitely much more fluid! Im sure its super fun :)

[@mermaidcirianneaqua]

As a music major, the musical references are much appreciated 😊😌

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much for your feedback!

[@Iamanncohen]

I'm a fabulous kisser and yet I learned a few things....💃🌟🎉 tysvm Mat

[@Mat_Shaffer]

so welcome! love it! :)

[@helennettlefold7355]

Wow, you have the most beautiful teeth Mat

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Helen nettlefold aww appreciate that!

[@rickiwood9588]

I agree

[@gidgetervin9174]

Awsome teeth❤️

[@DianaKatyrina]

You’re awesome! Love your content - just found you and I’m subscribed 💖

[@Mat_Shaffer]

beautiful welcome to the tribe my dear! so happy to have you :)

[@kathrynmoore524]

Oh wow thank you so much this is definitely going to help me with my bf A LOT really loved the vid :)

[@Mat_Shaffer]

wonderful you and your BF are gonn ahave some fun ):)

[@orange_lime]

Love the language you use to describe the process 😀😏

[@Mat_Shaffer]

yesss so glad you enjoyed it!

[@maritakalogerakou8507]

He has an ASMR voice

[@Mat_Shaffer]

I didnt know what ASMR was until this comment and now Im like fascinated by it... do you think I could launch an ASMR channel??

[@maritakalogerakou8507]

@@Mat_Shaffer Yeah sure, you have the voice so why not😊 I would subscribe!

[@captainswan3079]

True

[@SarahMelbourne23]

Great video mat! Thank you!!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

so welcome my dear!! :) Glad you liked it

[@sophiaa2418]

Really good video! Thanks for the it.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

so glad you liked it!! :)

[@maikacrampton7204]

The kiss is the most intimate of human connections 💋

[@christinah.1884]

So I do all of these but I laughed thinking about women just biting the crap out of a guys lips.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

HAHA it's happened to me before! That aint fun at ALL ;)

[@rankamarx]

Yes! Guys LOVE the nails running through their hair and nape of neck 👍

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much for your feedback!

[@7Zsta]

Great job with the video! 😇

[@Mat_Shaffer]

thanks so much! :)

[@prettydisabled9060]

Thanks! My hand really enjoyed those tips. 👁️👄👁️

[@Mat_Shaffer]

You are so welcome!

[@shambhavimohare1106]

Woww ur vedios are so friendly im amazed honestly ❤❤ love ur content🌸🌸

[@Mat_Shaffer]

[@mushuthebeardeddragon3732]

Wow I actually have had fun reading your comments so much so ivwatched more of your videos get on you MAY SHAFFER HEART THROB LOL

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for your kind words :)

[@iwonac.295]

Love your video💕

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much for your feedback!

[@elishawhite4033]

And that is the secret to achieving Scorpio seductiveness- Good night everybody! *and scene*

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much for your feedback!

[@thelmasanders172]

Shaffer I love your beautiful eyes and perfect smile. It is interesting, once a man I liked a lot mentioned the importance of a a good kiss and I ended up tutoring him how to kiss like a king. The irony of life, there is talented people who will surprise you in sexually speaking. Thanks for the advises cause I am always to self-improve in the sex department.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

THANK YOU Thelma I love getting comments like this!! So appreciate your share and glad you got value from this video :)

[@bcoral8101]

Great tips!! What if he’s too excited too quickly where it doesn’t give me space to set the tempo or do these tips?? He goes from 0 to 100 so fast 😂

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Tease him and give him some space to slow him down a bit! you can do it!

[@lilineannilus5335]

Thank you 😊🙏🏾Mat 🥰

[@Mat_Shaffer]

so so welcome my dear!