QUESTION OF THE DAY - what types of soft or subtle touch to you love to share with men?? Let me know in the comments! → Sign up to get access to my weekly email exploring love, life and relationships you won’t find anywhere else here 👉 www.matshaffer.com/
@kahalacromwell974110 ай бұрын
Kiss to forehead, slap on the bum, thigh caresses, stomach and chest kisses, shoulder kisses, footsies, entwining yourself around him, massaging his feet and hand, holding him to your breast, rubbing your face against his gentle, blowing into his ear, nibbling his ear, just go with the way you feel. That’s all.
@ksisu13245 ай бұрын
Tacing 😊my finger lightly down his spine
@deborahschultz89604 ай бұрын
I really liked this video on touch.
@ksisu13244 ай бұрын
Great video on touch
@Mat_Shaffer3 ай бұрын
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@marthahardie10 ай бұрын
During my late husband's final days with Alzheimer dementia, I would touch my forehead to his and he would smile. I had started this gesture with him before he became bedridden. He responded and I have to feel there was something sweet he remembered that made him smile. I cry when I write this.
@TahoeSnowbird10 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for you both. I believe he knew you were there and appreciated your caring for him. My late Mom who I cared for had Alzheimer for many years. I was the primary care giver. For years before she passed away she only recognized me as someone who took care of her. She didn't remember me as her daughter. But the days before she passed away, she recognized my voice as I whispered in her ears and squeezed my hand in acknowledgement.
@angelagraczyk212310 ай бұрын
Blessings to you.
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@AngelinaRomero4 ай бұрын
This is so beautiful. i am so glad that you figured it out. Sweet
@MaryGoga-hp5zo4 ай бұрын
I cried when I read this. How sweet of you.
@deborahortwine528310 ай бұрын
I am a very touchy-feely kind of person. Anytime I would walk past my late husband if he was sitting watching television or reading or whatever he was doing if I’m walking past him, I am touching him as I go. That would just grab his attention, thinking that I wanted something from him but I said no that’s just passing little love onto you, every time I did that afterwards, he just knew that here comes more love
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
YES that's so activating! He was lucky to have you as his partner :)
@GenRN10 ай бұрын
What a sweet relationship.
@deborahortwine528310 ай бұрын
@@GenRN it was, but he took his life just over 13 years ago, I don’t know why and I can’t question it because I’ll never know
@susanwalker345410 ай бұрын
Love that
@susanwalker345410 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that Deborah
@IM-uh5tk10 ай бұрын
2:06 feather-soft face caress 3:04 neck nape graze 4:18 fingers through hair 5:21 surprise hug from behind 6:27 gentle hand squeeze 7:45 run your fingers up and down the spine 8:43 forehead connection 9:59 warmth of your breath
@ofir_coach10 ай бұрын
Thank you! ❤❤
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Thanks so much my dear!
@654Tennis10 ай бұрын
Doing the Lord's work, thank you! 🙌
@Mockduck20205 ай бұрын
That’s 8!
@Mockduck20205 ай бұрын
My last beau would get so mad if I touched his butt…some kind of Mexican homophobia he claimed but eventually I just became afraid to touch him.
@rebekahodell718610 ай бұрын
I was married 14 years to a man who hated touch and PDA would only like it during sex... now divorced and getting back into the dating world, your videos have helped me so much. I am realizing how being with my ex had me conditioned to hold back my touch. Im now dating a new man who LOVES touch and PDA ... i feel like I'm freee again and no longer holding back my urges to be affectionate and in return feel so wanted and nurtured myself! 🎉🎉🎉 im so happy now and wonder WTF i was doing in a touchless marriage for so long! Haha i love touch!
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
I’m so glad this helped you!
@Angrymobs6210 ай бұрын
Dangerous marrying wrong person
@Erin-c7k10 ай бұрын
Same! I didn't even realize physical touch was one of my love languages, until I met my current boyfriend.
@juliechildress890510 ай бұрын
I was in a similar situation while I was in my 20s. Touch is another form of communication.
@lillywitch9788 ай бұрын
So happy for you
@carolinereidartist10 ай бұрын
A hug when you first meet breaks all the nerves you have in meeting a stranger
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
yes it totally does!!
@kathleenscreations39767 ай бұрын
Great
@joiluckadoo-villa960110 ай бұрын
I agree with all of these. Pay attention ladies bc the men send these messages the same way. I didnt realize my "friend" had feelings until he starting reaching for my hands across the table and looking in my eyes. We have always just been good friends.
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
yeah so true... nonverbal communication is super powerful!
@andersnielsen604410 ай бұрын
Well a male would not be around you as a "friend" if he did not have feelings for you.. That is just not happening!
@shwa892010 ай бұрын
One of my best male friends in college was 100% just a friend. Neither of us had feelings for the other one that were in the least bit romantic. We are both married with kids now and still the best of friends.@@andersnielsen6044
@a.d.b5355 ай бұрын
Yes Ma'am
@lmiller14135 ай бұрын
Lucky you. Take him off the market
@KathyPricer8 ай бұрын
My husband and I knew each other in high school. 25 years later, we ran into each other again in a 12-step program. We spoke a few times at meetings, basically just saying hi. I was newly sober and he had about two years of sobriety. At the time I had no thoughts about having a relationship with him. Not too long after we came back into contact, he was speaking very emotionally at a meeting about having just found out that his teenage son (whom he had not been able to see growing up, but had just started having contact with and getting to know)had recently been killed in a rock climbing fall. I immediately got up and went and sat down beside him and took ahold of his hand as a way to try to comfort and support him and just sat there holding his hand as he continued sharing. Powerful stuff - a little over two years later we got married. Now he's got 23 years and Ive got 21 years of sobriety. We've had rocky places in our marriage, but we have been best friends since that day and always will be.
@Mat_Shaffer8 ай бұрын
AMAZING love that share!!:)
@zensvlognotapro10 ай бұрын
There's a healing power of a touch .😊🙌
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
I appreciate your opinion on this!
@zensvlognotapro10 ай бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer thanks I appreciate you too Mat . I learn something from you the Rise in Love 😁
@MsGigi77710 ай бұрын
Love this, Mat! Thank you for the reminder that men are not just about going straight for the ‘bread basket’ as you put it (I’m stealing that) 😆
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
HAHA steal away im glad it serves you!
@TheAttractionTriggers10 ай бұрын
*True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked.*
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for your feedback!
@purpleplumtrinkets2 ай бұрын
The person I connected with a few months ago,made the bells go away ☺️
@Musicisthelanguageoflove10 ай бұрын
Matt is so right about a man's reaction telling it all. I went on a date with a guy who said in words he wanted a relationship and wanted affection from me. I touched his hand as we walked along and he freaked out, pulled his hand abruptly away, and felt so uncomfortable he had to go home, and just left me standing there....... He was still in love with his ex wife and was trying to push himself forward to move on when he wasn't really ready to. ..... But his natural reaction said it all to both himself and me.
@Mat_Shaffer3 ай бұрын
Wow, that’s such a powerful example of how actions speak louder than words. Sounds like his reaction really did tell you everything you needed to know. 😬 It’s great that you recognized it and didn’t settle for less than what you deserve! By the way, if you’re interested, I’m hosting a FREE live coaching love + relationship course next month. It’s a great opportunity to dive deeper into these kinds of insights and join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/ 💖✨
@creepypisces8310 ай бұрын
A squeeze of the bicep when your hugging or kissing is well recieved 😊
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@ForeverTogether21910 ай бұрын
I agree 🤩
@noremac01234567897 ай бұрын
This was heartbreaking in a way….I did all this and more but rarely if ever did I ever receive anything similar in return.
@Mat_Shaffer7 ай бұрын
Don’t give up on love sister!
@KimberlyPhillips-zv6bi5 ай бұрын
I'm finding out those men are narcissists...
@lmiller14135 ай бұрын
Same. Also says " get away" and push off in some way. He found it irritating.
@Sunshine-ms8ceАй бұрын
@@lmiller1413he's gotta another woman doing all that and loves it!!! I promise!!!! Don't be stupid like i was for awhile!😂
@HappyMonkey117 ай бұрын
My man was cooking dinner for me. I was stading off to the side, just observing him and washing dishes. I pinched his but ever so softly, and he LOVED it!
@Mat_Shaffer7 ай бұрын
Amazing! love hearing that!
@mistyblue53864 ай бұрын
And a little kiss 💋 there
@lindadeise457510 ай бұрын
Thank you Mat again for your wisdom. I do know too my boyfriend also loves having his back scratched. He just melts ❤
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Love that!
@annamassek906410 ай бұрын
I can’t wait until I can touch my man😊😮
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for your feedback!
@Conscious5910 ай бұрын
Oh my, these were all great tips! I filed them all under 'M' for Memory! Thank you Mat!
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@kendregab73289 ай бұрын
All these touches are amazing and totally relatable in relationship. My boyfriend loves it when I run my fingers through his hair especially after he gets his monthly haircut. He pouts when I forgot to do it when I see him it's very cute. He giggles and smiles the whole time. I also randomly grab his butt and he giggles( he's ticklish like me ). He also loves holding my hand with hand squeezes and I do it too especially when we are in a crowd since I'm much shorter than him he doesn't want to loose me. I also give him hugs from behind and front( he's taller than me by 6 inches so I feel like I'm hugging a tree). The slow back traces makes him giggle and melt when we're cuddling and definitely helps start foreplay when we're making out, along with the warm breath in his ear and fingers through his hair. It's my foreplay triangle I call it 😂 I agree the forehead connection is super deep and very connecting. I feel like that is the deepest touch out of all especially after a good emotional talk or activity. Thanks for sharing Mat 🤗
@Mat_Shaffer9 ай бұрын
Amazing my dear so so happy for you
@Stacy-xw2eg6 ай бұрын
My man was sitting in a chair outside I went inside and when I came back out I came up behind him and wrapped my arms around his chest and kissed his neck softly. And he placed his hands on mine and I could tell he loved it. Also have ran my fingers up and down the spine of my man he went crazy.
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
You’re fabulous! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and spreading the love. 💖
@loriengoedhart389810 ай бұрын
These are all great tips, thanks Matt. One of my favourite parts of a man is his arms and I love to massage and feel the strength of his muscles. Tell me, what effect does this have for a man?
@rainbowgoddess77710 ай бұрын
Gemini's love it.
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
YES massaging his muscles is very empowering and activating to his masculinity! It’s super hot!
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Haha I bet they do!!
@loriengoedhart389810 ай бұрын
@Mat_Shaffer good to know. To me, there is nothing better than being wrapped up in a man's loving arms
@AngelinaRomero4 ай бұрын
I love the advise to hug from behind. It is so powerful
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
I love hearing from you! Your words light up my screen. ✨
@tanishabrown16033 күн бұрын
I did this new years day to a man I am talking to while I hugged him. The whisper in his ear, he sounded intoxicated when he replied back.
@juliaweinberg733610 ай бұрын
Once again Matt, Clearly, intelligently, thoughtfully, and sensually conveyed in such a heartfelt way! Wishing you continued success and I feel as though I found a new ally on What is for me, a new dating path after widowhood.
@Mat_Shaffer9 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words, they truly touch my heart!
@robyncaddy88879 ай бұрын
Your videos are absolutely amazing Mat I was married for 32 years to a man who was emotionally unavailable no touch or hugs ever Now im with my younger man we are so affectionate with each other i realise how starved of affection until now Ps I left my ex 20 Years ago Years ago
@Mat_Shaffer9 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@geraldinehughes449010 ай бұрын
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
YES those are all super hot great job!!
@ForeverTogether21910 ай бұрын
Agree ✨
@pricesunbury5910 ай бұрын
A great video. Love the touching ideas. 🎉🎉
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it!!
@Stacy-xw2eg6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much I am doing a lot of these but love to hear more about what men like and crave from a man’s point of view. When I am holding hands I will usually take my thumb and gently and softly caress his hand with it. Also you are walking and you take your arm place your hand gently on his back and give some gentle touches.
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
You’re lighting up the comments section! Thanks for being awesome. 💖
@yahushaschild226520 күн бұрын
It's hard to do the forehead touch with a man who is so tall your head reaches the middle of his chest. Need to think how I can do this one. He recently started quickly blowing his breath in my ear or on my face. Love when he does this.
@aspenbrooke5154 ай бұрын
100% on this! Atm, he's experiencing an oncoming illness, upper respiratory and he said he's never had this done before...the face around his sinuses and it actually opened his upper airways! He said thank you for this so I bent over, face touching his ear and whispered "you're welcome". He absolutely loves "Love Touch" ...LOVES IT ❤
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts! So happy this hit the spot for you. 😉
@samantham71098 ай бұрын
I have been married 26 yrs now ,learned a lot from your channel and it really works,it helps me to do n know better...thank you wish more women watch these vids n bond with their guy instead of talking most of d time ,i like to touch my hus whenever i pass next to him 😀 i can see that he likes those things❤
@Mat_Shaffer8 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words, they truly touch my heart!
@cherylgolec8928Ай бұрын
I am so glad you’ve returned.
@charlottecheverton92279 ай бұрын
Thanks Mat, I also learnt & experienced breathe up the spine of my partner after giving him a relaxation massage , at the time I was a masseuse. I can’t recall his response now I think it was much appreciated…..too long ago! But worth trying again everyone😊
@Mat_Shaffer9 ай бұрын
Amazing! love hearing that!
@marthaczaja516310 ай бұрын
❤so timely!!! So excited!!!
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for your feedback!
@haveawonderfulday27910 ай бұрын
Thank you for this amazing video once again! 😊
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
you are so welcome!
@barbaramclarren26252 сағат бұрын
I think you are gorgeous! Love your beautiful blue eyes, and the passion you show!😊😊
@heidiesimms25368 күн бұрын
So enjoyed this! Great ideas and can’t wait to try them out.
@myrachelethomas320Ай бұрын
Oh my, yes yes yes the neck touch. I did that not knowing anything about it two years ago and he went while. I just re-subscribed to you. And turned on all of your notifications.
@thinkb4uspeak2766 ай бұрын
Matt - You’re a 5 Star Communicator!! Excellent and Real information - hope to use some or all soon!♥️
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@neniaemat107910 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing 😊 God bless you Sir ❤🙏
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
so welcome!!
@lex28lush1010 ай бұрын
Wonderful vid. Thank you, Matt 🎉
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@kerstinclarke77975 ай бұрын
Thank you fot that my hubby is in the military and when he gets back home i will do all of that
@Mat_Shaffer5 ай бұрын
You’re the best! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and lighting up the comments. 💖
@jazzqueen110 ай бұрын
This is very useful video Matt
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Glad to hear it!
@rachelsmith568710 ай бұрын
I love this information thanks!😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
You're very welcome.
@lydiahiby754310 ай бұрын
Another super video👏👏👏👏
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
so glad you enjoyed it!
@KELLY-m1w3 ай бұрын
This was a great video…I’ve done all but the back of the neck and the breath! Thanks for the insight!
@Mat_Shaffer3 ай бұрын
So glad you enjoyed the video! 😊 Sounds like you’re already a pro - just gotta add that back-of-the-neck magic and breath for the full effect! 😜 By the way, if you're interested, I’m doing a FREE live coaching love + relationship course next month. It’s the perfect time to join the beta launch! Learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/ 💖✨
@jacksns45 ай бұрын
Love your LONG HAIR❤️. As a big drive 73 yr old, past hippie craves hair. THANKS FOR YOUR INFO. AFTER 40 yrs married need spicing it up🔥
@Mat_Shaffer5 ай бұрын
You’re lighting up the comments section! Thanks for being awesome. 💖
@Callmethebreeze90222 күн бұрын
omgosh me too. A guy with long hair like Eddie Vedder to Gregg Allman is hot. lol 😊
@paulaa575210 ай бұрын
Eye kisses, touching/kissing palms and pulse points like neck, wrists and back of the knees for example.
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@tanyaholstun27994 ай бұрын
Plus touching and caressing him in a certain way
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
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@Mel5515110 ай бұрын
What an awesome channel ❣️
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Thanks so much my dear!
@revision_spirit558210 ай бұрын
Exactly what I needed to know this week. Thanks for sharing.
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
I’m so glad this helped you!
@lovelyshirl3 күн бұрын
New subscriber here. I really enjoyed this video, thanks.
@anac231410 ай бұрын
You’re so correct!!!
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Thanks so much my dear!
@kimwalker439010 ай бұрын
Jesus gives the best advice.
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
haha I do my best ;)
@rebekahsteeper10 ай бұрын
😂 #bestcomment
@kaeros552110 ай бұрын
😂
@joiluckadoo-villa960110 ай бұрын
😅
@踏雪寻梅-m7w9 ай бұрын
❤❤❤hahaha…… It's Jesus❤❤❤
@AngelinaRomero4 ай бұрын
ok, you are simply amazing. I am sharing all of this wiith my new love interest.
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
You’re making me blush! Thanks for the lovely comment. 💕
@SassyST5 ай бұрын
I dated a man once who shared with me how much he loved it when we were holding hands and I’d reach across my body to lay my free hand across our held hands …if that makes sense. It wasn’t even anything I thought about before doing it, I just never could get close enough to him. I wanted to be as close as possible without smothering or being over-the-top. He picked up on that subtle message and just ate it up. ❤
@Mat_Shaffer5 ай бұрын
Your comment is a breath of fresh air! Thanks for sharing. 🌸
@emilygomez474810 ай бұрын
Thanks for educating us, Mat!
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@Eden6392 ай бұрын
Thank you this is a very nice and thoughtful video.
@Mat_ShafferАй бұрын
Thank you so much! 😊 I’m really glad you found it thoughtful-it means a lot that it resonated with you. 💖✨
@rebeccanestor444 ай бұрын
This is sooo good!! Tysm!!
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
You’re making my heart smile with your kind words! Keep being amazing. 💖
@QueenOlson5 ай бұрын
Love it! Will do it! 👍
@Mat_Shaffer5 ай бұрын
You’re lighting up the comments section! Thanks for being awesome. 💖
@taniamiller457210 ай бұрын
When we're walking, he slides his hand into mine, entwining our fingers.❤❤
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Amazing! love hearing that!
@Joirychelle6 ай бұрын
Such a great video, like a wonderful refresher😊 Thank you, Mat! 🙏🏽
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
I'm glad you enjoyed the video! Thank you so much😊
@annila11764 ай бұрын
Thank you, Mat! For all that info!😊🙏
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
You’re making my heart smile with your kind words! Keep being amazing. 💖
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@Jennalucci10 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
so welcome!
@jolienwillowtree22485 ай бұрын
it's so powerful, more of this
@Mat_Shaffer5 ай бұрын
Your comment made my day! Keep shining and being fabulous. ✨
@haroldstein3187Ай бұрын
I’m a woman named Harriet, so I go by Harry 😊 (wouldn’t you lol)? I adore you and think you have great advice. Thank you!
@portiawilliams31359 ай бұрын
Love these tips
@Mat_Shaffer9 ай бұрын
Glad you like it!
@lauradardi58487 ай бұрын
Amazing you are so right on!
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
You’re a gem! Thanks for the sweet comment and for being here. 💕
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@GiselleSuarezАй бұрын
I wrote my thesis on how touch affects trust way back in the early 90’s! Back when you had those printers that took forever to print, were super loud, and you had to tear the perforated sides of the pages. 🤣🙄💖
@the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_IАй бұрын
What was the essay called?
@GiselleSuarez22 күн бұрын
@ I don’t remember and you wouldn’t be able to find it anyway. It was for my final grade in one of my classes at Long Beach State University. I think it might’ve been something like “how touch affects trust”
@sandyshayegray148111 күн бұрын
Beautiful💜
@martasimmons812510 ай бұрын
Thank you for the advice
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
I’m so glad this helped you!
@Mariacorazon-p7d8 ай бұрын
lol when I’m handling a piece of paper work to a certain physician accidentally he touches my hands and said it tickles him and the other physician who’s interested witnesses it told the other physician no to do it again protecting me from his maybe flirting but at the moment I have no idea what’s happening or going on. Now being married to my late beloved husband of 54 years of married life in his loving ways he’s protecting me and kind of being jealous too 🙏🛐✝️📿🎶
@Mat_Shaffer8 ай бұрын
AMAZING love that share!!:)
@smuccilicious4 ай бұрын
Excellent video
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
You’re making my heart happy! Thanks for the sweet comment. 💕
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@KaraTowner4 ай бұрын
love these!
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much my dear!
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@LifewithLava3 ай бұрын
He loves it
@Mat_Shaffer3 ай бұрын
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
@carlalagace75167 ай бұрын
Thank ya amazing videos wow
@Mat_Shaffer7 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@LJ-zk9iw10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ thank you ❤❤❤
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@Jackie-g2p10 ай бұрын
I Love All of Matts segments !! Very very good advice !! ❤ . Looking lil ghoulishly castaway 😂😂
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
Your kind words touch my heart
@carlalagace75167 ай бұрын
Wow your amazing
@Mat_Shaffer7 ай бұрын
Many thanks! You are amazing too!
@dcrank06074 ай бұрын
As a female, the fingers through my hair or fingers at the back of my neck gets had the same effect on me.
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@Mat_Shaffer3 ай бұрын
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@southernrock-star5007 ай бұрын
It works if they don’t walk away from you when you’re trying to do all that.
@Mat_Shaffer7 ай бұрын
I appreciate your opinion on this!
@memememe19872 ай бұрын
I as a female can say all this works on women or me too I crave this touch connection 11:49
@Mat_Shaffer2 ай бұрын
Yes! 👏 Touch is universal-we all crave that connection, and it can feel just as magical for women too. 💖 Keep embracing those moments-they’re powerful! 😊
@debigates30332 ай бұрын
My man has amazing hair and I love to run my fingers through it and I had no idea that that was something that men liked, but I tell him all the time I love running my fingers through your hair….
@Mat_Shaffer2 ай бұрын
You’re already ahead of the game! 😏✨ Trust me, men love that-there’s nothing like a gentle touch through the hair to send those shivers down his spine. Keep it going! 💆♂🔥
@Sunshine-ms8ceАй бұрын
Running my fingers through the hair on his chest, would take all my stress away and turn both of on!!! And he'd always rub my feet, yep,we headed for bedroom, gotta have some alone time.😂... RIP babe 😢
@christiesimmons82823 ай бұрын
If interested in someone would you want to be around that person all the time? What would touching his elbow do to him? Will he reaction to that touch?
@Mat_Shaffer3 ай бұрын
It’s natural to want to be around someone you like, but balance is key! A light touch on the elbow could get his attention and show interest. By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting next month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
@lmm810 ай бұрын
I'm curious what you would recommend when there is a large height difference, for example the forehead touch or touching the back of the neck? Wonderful tips and encouraging that I am on the right track with expressing my feelings without words. ❤🙏
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
I’m so glad this helped you!
@janespitfire988410 ай бұрын
Good info..thank you!! Ahh how about massage his inner thigh near the gonads?
@Mat_Shaffer10 ай бұрын
ohh yeah thats a GREAT SPOT!!! :)
@MiahDoughty88810 ай бұрын
Damn I watch all your videos and I just gotta say I'm a naturual. Lol. Not one thing you said I haven't done when being intimate/romantic.
@MiahDoughty88810 ай бұрын
Just has to be somebody worthy of that kind of touch.
@MiahDoughty88810 ай бұрын
For men that dont like public displays of affection, a gentle, squeeze of the wrist with 2 hands. Firm but noticeable. Quick tho so as to give him is space to be free to be himself in public... I call it a wrist hug. Lol
@jacksns45 ай бұрын
@@MiahDoughty888 me too. So reassuring.
@ellenieellenie59414 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤ lovely soul you .
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much my dear! You too!
@ulrikaa15816 ай бұрын
❤ How do you flirt with a co-worker, without being aggressive?
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
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@shannanigansbutnotevilshan46299 ай бұрын
My fiance and I do 'I love you' with 3 hand squeeze
@Mat_Shaffer9 ай бұрын
AMAZING love that share!!:)
@azure-yu5vqАй бұрын
Single me watching it at 3 AM in the morning xD
@jessicakebschull28705 ай бұрын
I want to try the forhead touch but I am so short compared to my hubby it would turn very awkward, real quick! Lol...
@Mat_Shaffer5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. It takes courage to be open, and I’m here for you. 🌸
@shellsea95203 ай бұрын
❤ SUBSCRIBED
@Mat_Shaffer3 ай бұрын
Thanks so much my dear! 💖
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@bernadettemacatangay59353 ай бұрын
Wow I learned to you I do this hhah
@Mat_Shaffer3 ай бұрын
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@AutumnGold07067 ай бұрын
Is it alright to teach a man to do all these touchy feels to me?🤔
@Mat_Shaffer7 ай бұрын
Great point!
@Mat_Shaffer7 ай бұрын
Great point!
@loveinautumn397810 ай бұрын
What if he's bald😭
@Mat_Shaffer9 ай бұрын
Don’t give up on love sister!
@lindascharf68333 ай бұрын
What do I do he. Has no hair😅
@Mat_Shaffer3 ай бұрын
No worries! Focus on what you love about him beyond looks. Confidence and personality are what really matter! 😊
@e.watson63465 ай бұрын
My guy is bald- I did rub his bald head.
@Mat_Shaffer5 ай бұрын
Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts! So happy this hit the spot for you. 😉
@carolblaser3789Ай бұрын
I love your long hair…totally different look than the conservative short style
@PolyWobbles-kr8gb29 күн бұрын
So blowing a raspberry in his armpit and randomly licking his cheek when he isn't expecting it aren't options on the list then. 😂 Gutted!