7 Signs He's Just Not That into You

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Tomisin

Tomisin

Күн бұрын

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@Tomisinatobtele
@Tomisinatobtele Ай бұрын
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@LL-rk5lv
@LL-rk5lv Ай бұрын
I think becoming a cat lady sounds better than ever
@Florida_gyrl
@Florida_gyrl Ай бұрын
YES! This man is CORRECT! If a man never introduces you to his family or close friends - especially his family - that man does NOT like you! Point blank period! You are not the woman of his life! You are Mrs. Right Now. How do I know this? I have been there! That’s how I know and I got that jerk out of my life too.
@favouruka2359
@favouruka2359 Ай бұрын
Some can still introduce you and still leave
@deb2319
@deb2319 Ай бұрын
Umm buyer beware. A NARC WILL BRING U HOME TO MEET THE FAMILY DURING THE LOVE BOMB STAGE. Seriously. STAY off date apps. I had to learn the hard way.
@samxsara
@samxsara Ай бұрын
Sometimes he introduces you to his close people but still doesn’t want to build
@mysteriousserious
@mysteriousserious Ай бұрын
A man can still introduce you to them and start losing interest in a few weeks.
@Florida_gyrl
@Florida_gyrl Ай бұрын
Thank you everyone for mentioning that a man can do all of these things and not like you! My comment was not to dismiss that.
@deirdrehanlon3625
@deirdrehanlon3625 Ай бұрын
When I continue watching these videos, I start to feel so bad I almost feel like I am hating men. I feel like they are almost all the same.
@Bluesmoke4200
@Bluesmoke4200 Ай бұрын
Same. If they were decent or had hearts they would just leave girls they aren't interested in alone. Instead they manipulate them and use them for sex. Ever woman men call "crazy," "desperate" 'bitter" "run through" etc. was once open, kind, honest, sweet, naive, innocent etc but after several times having her heart torn apart by guys she was showing up to in good faith she just snapped. Is it surprising?
@rominaconstenla5624
@rominaconstenla5624 Ай бұрын
They are all the same
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 Ай бұрын
They're all the SAME.....
@LoveLeeLifeHair
@LoveLeeLifeHair 5 күн бұрын
They are all the same- but the info is making me feel more empowered! When you know- you can move in more confindence!
@fweedomfighter6285
@fweedomfighter6285 Күн бұрын
You’re one of the only youtubers I’ve seen creating this kind of honest, no bs, actually helpful content, and not selling some stupid course!! Thank you.
@EO-j7b
@EO-j7b Ай бұрын
I'm seriously angry as I'm watching this video. This crazy guy thinks that he can play with my feelings 😂
@SwearWerdDebris
@SwearWerdDebris Ай бұрын
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@schadenfreudeegoism7485
@schadenfreudeegoism7485 Ай бұрын
Same 🤣 anyway thanking God for Tomisin 🙏🏼 better late than never
@FashionTechnologist
@FashionTechnologist Ай бұрын
You being angry about it is allowing the guy to play with your emotions
@EO-j7b
@EO-j7b Ай бұрын
@@FashionTechnologist Naaa... That's never happening
@ABC-jq7ve
@ABC-jq7ve Ай бұрын
If you know he’s a loser and you’re not gonna date him, why are you still engaging with him? What do you get out of posting this message disparaging him in public? This gives strong emotional energy to me
@FairyGirlMagic
@FairyGirlMagic Ай бұрын
Fun thing is when a guy opens emotionally and Talks about his traumas, emotions and is vulnerable but all the other (under-)points fit perfect. Had this with a guy last year, I really wanted to know better. He even was surprised how easy he could open up in front of me. But he never asked me questions or was interested in really dating me. I was just the "female therapist friend". Unfortunately at that time I had no ideas about such signs and dynamics with men. So be careful not just to his therapist because he opend up, when he fits all other criterias that he isn't into you.
@Florida_gyrl
@Florida_gyrl Ай бұрын
@@FairyGirlMagic yep! I have met those men myself! Had no idea those kinds of guys exist. I have met men that are only looking for validation, acceptance, an ego boost, feminine energy or female attention. Very disappointing but since I know better now I do better.
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 Ай бұрын
Huge red flag...draining you.
@estherharing7430
@estherharing7430 8 күн бұрын
Never be a mans therapist period
@LL-rk5lv
@LL-rk5lv Ай бұрын
Women protect your heart
@elharrop
@elharrop Ай бұрын
Guys don't aplogise anymore as they are too proud, they would rather just ghost and then try and find someone else online.
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 Ай бұрын
When you remove accountability in society this is what occurs. Some apologise but I don't really care.
@michellelong5081
@michellelong5081 Ай бұрын
I want to cry listening to the first 2 points 😢 Don’t stop doing this ❤
@WildAntics13
@WildAntics13 Ай бұрын
2025-- after crying my heart now I finally learned. Men are good great pretender to get what they want the sad thing about women we approach relationships with love and good intentions but men don’t they’re playing the game! I think we need to learned better for 2025 keep your legs close until he proves he is right person for you the more you close your legs the more you will see his true intentions. Ladies I don’t want to hear another women crying over a man i heard a very deep excruciating cry from one my friend in a psychiatric ward who almost lost her mind after the man she been with 10 years dropped her when she is sick inconvenient and old. I pray for all of us.
@NicolasaNicolasa
@NicolasaNicolasa Ай бұрын
Is so hard, i didnt open my legs and now he ghosted me😂, i didnt Lost nothing but that hurts Cuz i started to liking him, but i just decided to not smsing him anymore
@WildAntics13
@WildAntics13 Ай бұрын
@ girl it happened to me too, then I realized good thing he eliminated himself now i know he can’t handle boundaries he just wants to smashed 😅. I cry for a while and realize fck this tears. I am worth loving waiting and investing because I know i do that to myself too. Its just abandoned wound from childhood. Shake it off. Run , and never look back. There’s more ahead better.
@favouruka2359
@favouruka2359 Ай бұрын
@WildAntics13 stay in relationship with a man for 10 years? Nawa oh, I can't
@locoa648
@locoa648 Ай бұрын
No gender to it but protect yourself because that’s what they do they don’t care about you they only care about themselves but that’s not all men but most and don’t think they love you protect your heart and watch there actions not there words and don’t fall in love just by getting introduce to family and friends means nothing 🫶
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 Ай бұрын
You will not even remember him in a week or two. Feelings are fleeting.
@khemaloving4031
@khemaloving4031 Ай бұрын
The Psychology of Heartless Specimens… The Game is crazy, T… Thanx for the inside scoop!
@NicolasaNicolasa
@NicolasaNicolasa Ай бұрын
Heartless specimen😂
@dandelion9094
@dandelion9094 Ай бұрын
Thank you for the video, I wholeheartedly agree with your signs ! Intention and consistency is the key. It would be lovely if you could make a video about jealousy : something that I've been encountering the last few years, are men acting extremely jealous when other men are around me (even when a male coworker says good morning !), looking hurt and angry, but still they never ask me out. Thank you for your work !
@FairyGirlMagic
@FairyGirlMagic Ай бұрын
My guess is you are on the replacement bench. They think you are a nice person but want another woman more. So they keep you warm on the bench. But if there is another men who makes a move (or could make a move) and you would go for it, they will lose you on the bench for the future. Thats why the are not amused.
@MWroses
@MWroses Ай бұрын
​@@FairyGirlMagic interesting
@schadenfreudeegoism7485
@schadenfreudeegoism7485 Ай бұрын
Jealousy doesn’t mean much tbh. It’s like they want to be the king and want us all as concubines only devoted to him but he isn’t devoted to anyone. (Only if he wants u to be exclusive but does anything he wants)
@mattanderson6672
@mattanderson6672 Ай бұрын
Fantastic discussion Excellent analysis Thank you Sir
@veronikablack704
@veronikablack704 Ай бұрын
Damn. I went from laughing to crying. But my main emotion= gratitude ty for the 🎁 🎄gift & now i have actplare to halt any future confusion Olympics in future interactions between my naive nurturing spirit & any learning project men who's unfortunate fate is placed along my journey to put their karmic debt closer to a neutral balance check ✔️.
@Unaminousverdict
@Unaminousverdict Ай бұрын
He doesn’t want anyone to know about you other than uh you 😂 dam
@Reallythere54321
@Reallythere54321 Ай бұрын
That got me too 😂
@saranawara3407
@saranawara3407 Ай бұрын
Never thought of that 😮 Thank you!
@HistoricallyBeautiful
@HistoricallyBeautiful Ай бұрын
Damn that party scenario is EXACTLY WHAT I WENT THROUGH THIS SUMMER. and as soon as he told me this, I cut that shit off expeditiously. I won't be disrespected.
@caesar_8004
@caesar_8004 Ай бұрын
i love myself too much to have them in my life breadcrumbing me🤷🏻‍♂️ i have better things to do in my life
@suejean168
@suejean168 Ай бұрын
I recently meet a guy and I'm trying my best to be very careful with my heart, time, emotions, and body!! Your videos really help me with all your advice!! Thank you for making these kinds of videos!! 💜💖💜 ^w^
@DuskDaimon
@DuskDaimon 6 күн бұрын
What fucks with my head the most is if they do some of these things, yet take other actions that lead me to think they're maybe serious. For example.. not wanting to post pictures with you online and hot & cold treatment, but meeting friends and family..? lol 🤔
@riquipoo5578
@riquipoo5578 6 күн бұрын
TY for the continued validation that men suck and that remaining single is always the best resolution. 😊
@Saadbabeey
@Saadbabeey 7 күн бұрын
You’re like the big brother / cousin I never had.
@stellarhope6954
@stellarhope6954 24 күн бұрын
Emotional aloofness
@TamikaTaylor-rl1im
@TamikaTaylor-rl1im Ай бұрын
Sooo true what you are saying: 😮😢: my guy is only nice to me when he wants something ( money, attention, sex , stuff etc) otherwise he is up and down and round and round 😮😢, so inconsistent, short tempered, but guess what always super nice to everyone 😮😢❤and he tells me also that he loves me but his actions definitely speak louder than words lol on my way out 🤣🤪🤫
@Inatfromdenmark
@Inatfromdenmark Ай бұрын
This video makes me so sad. I never wants to be treated this way….i dont even want to date a guy who have treated another girl like this. So maybe theres no guy for me.
@locoa648
@locoa648 Ай бұрын
This I been saying it no gender to it but so many cold people in the dating area
@noface3928
@noface3928 28 күн бұрын
Girls do this too! I didn’t even realize I wasn’t into a guy when my friends had no idea I was even talking to him after a YEAR of knowing each other. It’s because I didn’t think what we had was serious so there’s no point in talking about him
@intentionalgreatness
@intentionalgreatness Ай бұрын
This was so good🙌
@Liurika
@Liurika 10 күн бұрын
I guess there are exceptions where the player includes you in his close friends circle even though he didn't see a future with you (happened to me last year). Now I still have his friends' friendship but he is no longer in my life and even blocked me 😅
@LL-rk5lv
@LL-rk5lv Ай бұрын
I’ve been in two dates with this guy then he told me he was going out of the country on a vacation with his family and I haven’t heard from him since 4 days ago. He usually texts every day.
@stellarhope6954
@stellarhope6954 24 күн бұрын
I think I've been in the limbo state with a man I've been seeing 4 months
@Bluesmoke4200
@Bluesmoke4200 Ай бұрын
Tomaisin, do men at least feel guilty about thse behaviors? Or do they pretend not ro realize that the woman they're seeing is catching feelings? How can they cause so much pain to another innocent human who not only did them no wrong but actually committed the crime of really liking them and trying to kak6e them happy? Why can't men just leave women they're not into alone rather than using them for what they can get despite no intention to ever give them anything they want and then discarding them when they have sucked them dry? These poor girls could be out finding men who actually love them rather than wasting untold amounts of time and grief and self respect)esteem and mental stability and peace of mind on men with whom they think they are on the gf track but really they had no chance with them ever. The guy literally decided he would never give her anything she wanted or needed two dates in but continued to make her think there was hope so ahe wouldn't leave. Women don't do this. They don't date men they don't like and just spend their money without ever having sex with them, for example. Why are men in particular so heartless??? I just don't get it!!!
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 Ай бұрын
They're predatory... no Male role models and zero accountability in society. No shame no outcasts anymore. No one cares. The laws were put in place for MEN. The bible the commandments for men. Women don't cause such destruction overall.
@FashionTechnologist
@FashionTechnologist Ай бұрын
No guilt. They don’t care. Sex comes before dignity for the average man.
@genboulay9831
@genboulay9831 6 күн бұрын
Downtown Toronto 🎉
@stellarhope6954
@stellarhope6954 24 күн бұрын
Not being invited to friends and family events
@stellarhope6954
@stellarhope6954 24 күн бұрын
Several days random disappearances
@joneiNYC
@joneiNYC Ай бұрын
💯 TRUTH #7
@ExcitedJungleWaterfall-cj5wj
@ExcitedJungleWaterfall-cj5wj Ай бұрын
Guessing game😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@edmicajeanpierre3162
@edmicajeanpierre3162 Ай бұрын
You’re gonna have 1 million view by the end of 2025 I swear.
@TamikaTaylor-rl1im
@TamikaTaylor-rl1im Ай бұрын
Question: What about a guy who treats you badly in front of other people but is really nice to you when you are alone? 😮😢😫😱💔
@ABC-jq7ve
@ABC-jq7ve Ай бұрын
Dump him. Disrespecting you in public is abuse.
@biaotoch
@biaotoch Ай бұрын
that movie too bro is real
@SRios-dx7dg
@SRios-dx7dg Ай бұрын
If he hasn't asked me to be his woman but we act like a couple what should i do? We've been dating for 3 months now. We see eachother a lot so it seems longer.
@pendafall2394
@pendafall2394 Ай бұрын
Pull back and set boundaries. I was seeing a guy 3 times per week then he said he didn’t want a relationship I took space for a month. We reconnected and I said I won’t be spending so much time with him since that’s what people in relationships do!
@locoa648
@locoa648 Ай бұрын
Don’t waste your time start talking to other men a man who is genuine is not gonna keep you confused if you are his women or not know you are worth more 🫶
@DiamondsRexpensive
@DiamondsRexpensive Ай бұрын
Leave and don't look back. Ever.
@SRios-dx7dg
@SRios-dx7dg Ай бұрын
@@pendafall2394 i love this, thank you
@SRios-dx7dg
@SRios-dx7dg Ай бұрын
@@locoa648 thank you
@oliviadanielle2895
@oliviadanielle2895 Ай бұрын
Doesn't want to walk into walmart with you. 😑
@prepthepolish
@prepthepolish Ай бұрын
I agree
@spacegirl881
@spacegirl881 2 күн бұрын
How long do you think we should start knowing about friends or family etc.? 😮
@rhondapope3811
@rhondapope3811 Ай бұрын
What if your husband did this to you? Well now my ex-husband…
@toinettaabney
@toinettaabney 11 күн бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@zainabrose96
@zainabrose96 Ай бұрын
God bless you!
@polnocnimeditace3134
@polnocnimeditace3134 Ай бұрын
why I as a woman, act like a man :D this basicaly described my patterns when im not into a guy
@terenarosa4790
@terenarosa4790 Ай бұрын
Would he be embarrassed because he's 15 years older than me?
@locoa648
@locoa648 Ай бұрын
Most likely go for closer to your age going for older men will cause alot more trauma for you most older men just mess with very young women there’s only a few who will take young women serious be careful 🫶
@terenarosa4790
@terenarosa4790 Ай бұрын
@locoa648 how much closer do you suggest?
@DiamondsRexpensive
@DiamondsRexpensive Ай бұрын
​@@locoa648I find age doesn't matter as much as you say it does. All men of all ages wanna mess with us.
@kaytee789
@kaytee789 Ай бұрын
​​@@terenarosa47905 years younger to 7 years older
@rominaconstenla5624
@rominaconstenla5624 Ай бұрын
​@@terenarosa4790your age, 3 or 5 years up or down
@prepthepolish
@prepthepolish Ай бұрын
Can you make a video about how to tell if a male coworker likes you but is fighting his feelings and trying to deny the fact that he likes you b/c he has a girlfriend that he loves.
@KrissyFizzle
@KrissyFizzle Ай бұрын
As someone who's been in a similar situation, let it go. Bc if he wanted you he'd go after you. Most likely he's just stringing you along not "fighting his feelings"
@Whitney_
@Whitney_ Ай бұрын
This must be super common😂
@prepthepolish
@prepthepolish Ай бұрын
@ thank you, it frustrates me b/c one day he’ll compliment me, stare at me intensely and ask personal questions and the next day completely ignores me to the point that he can be kinda mean. It’s hurtful . Once again thank you!!
@commandery3574
@commandery3574 Ай бұрын
you deserve better than guy who’s doing his girlfriend that dirty. wtf. he sounds like a loser
@taniskasingh7058
@taniskasingh7058 Ай бұрын
I am sure that you deserve better things and you must have a really fuck*d up self esteem to even entertain duch a dude. Honey, fuck fighting feeling, even if he is fighting for his life there's no way he is into you when he has a gf. All of us girls do these mistakes, make sure you don't repeat it.
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