Black Cat Energy MISTAKES

[@antihipsterboho]

This makes so much sense. When you celebrate a man for who he is immediately rather than for his actions your feeding into his narcissistic validation.

[@proudtobeme1ashkente]

Your content has become really valuable to me. It keeps me calm and focused on this little project of mine who I hope will become a safe, loving and supportive part of my future. I just need to put in the work to get there. This time, I don't want to feel taken advantage of or lose princess treatment like I did before.

[@dgeorgefit]

Me too!

[@ivanalima6838]

Tomisin is the best relationship coach out there! I love your videos and your analogies. Thanks for helping us to get wiser while navigating the dating scene. I wish Brazilian girls had access to this channel because dating here, especially in Rio where I am from, has been a nightmare 😂

[@mercyaltamirano9462]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@annas.6125]

1. Interest 2. Progression 3. Feedback Loop 4. Body seduction 5. Suppression

[@lorryvelarde3956]

You are so spot on in your examples!! Thank you!!!

[@sowasify]

Thank you for thinking of us metric system fellows 😆 it’s much appreciated

[@nehajain5850]

How to politely reject a man without hurting his ego? Another video-worthy topic! 😉

[@lv4tmnt90]

For your benefit or his? Are you afraid of being labeled as mean? Are you concerned he might get emotionally destroyed and will be ruined for the next women who give him a chance?

[@MsWatchnseeme]

How do you come up with these analogies?! You're the analogy KING 🤴🏾

[@mattanderson6672]

Fantastic discussion Excellent analysis Thank you Sir

[@tilapiyah]

tomisin could you share your thoughts on what guys think of long distance relationships? especially the ones that start off long distance? your videos are the best LOVE YOU!!!

[@lv4tmnt90]

Ha! Dog teat.😂 Be careful what you treat your golden retreaver with. You don't want to spoil him rotten or give him an upset tummy.

[@IAmAll99]

Thanks. I ruined things on the last point 😂 Blocked him on a rash decision but then decided unblock him and talk. The issue got cleared but he tried to tell me that he won't try to reach out again if i block him again (which is understandable). Told him i was perfectly fine with that.

[@FracturedOrigins]

Tbh just block him and move on, he ain't the one

[@IAmAll99]

@FracturedOrigins I diddddd, weeks ago lolol

[@mykamelgar5061]

You should have released this a long time ago

[@Evie170]

Not the "dog treat." :O

[@kaytee789]

Great advice

[@sarahkariman822]

What if she has already done the mistake of no interest then started showing a little interest though the guy didn’t take any initiative (in his Feminine energy). When she approaches him the connection progresses (towards Friendship). Once she stops making effort the pattern gets back. Will he ever try to take the initiative to pursue her romantically?

[@JessicaGambling-r7x]

Sounds like he's already decided your not the one and is now keeping you on the bench until he's ready for some attention. If he can't find anyone better then he'll pursue again but do you actually want that? 🥴

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

Omg cat and mouse 🐭

[@dailywithkels]

Indeed😭

[@allysondelaguila9010]

Serious question, why are men nice before they ghost you? It makes no sense to me

[@SwearWerdDebris]

Shifting the abandonment story(that usually roots from childhood) nips that right in the bud. These tips work and are true.. but it's honestly MOSTLY about the story you have surrounding you and what you deserve and\or what you are able to receive. Also the story you have around men(or people in general). Embody a new state and watch what happens.

[@_bl00my]

18:21 😂

[@Jamie-ht1hd]

Not to be that person but I feel like I would pick the maze 😭😂 Still appreciate the metaphor tho 👌

[@Nay_NaysWorld]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

🐈‍⬛⚡️🐈‍⬛⚡️

[@ToLetMyselfGoTr]

we’ll be disCUSSSSEING!!!!!

[@iam_melaninn]

What if he stops reaching out because he says I'm being too hard on him and you said we shouldn't listen when men say they want it easy. Should I just let him go or should I check up on him

[@SwearWerdDebris]

Let him go and focus on strengthening your feminine energy, beautifying yourself, pursuing your hobbies and just loving on yourself while KNOWING, that ofc he's gonna come back AND someone even better lol Shift your attention and care you were giving to him to you.. it never fails. Drop desperation.. you'll be fine

[@IAmAll99]

Don't listen! Men may try to cheapen what they can't afford. Stay in your worth

[@nplatt91]

❤

[@alexatoure3407]

🤣😜💯

[@javieraignacia9445]

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