A high bodycount, previous relationships that ended badly, indications she is either severely anxious or avoidant, entitlement are huge red flags.
@timurdyrdin68562 күн бұрын
Can confirm. If you see these happening. Leave as fast as you can
@TrippAdvice2 күн бұрын
Yup
@glennandersen15529 сағат бұрын
I made the mistake of calling out my little brothers girlfriend abuse towards him. She drew her golden Victim card and now I am being seen as the difficult one by the family. xD Oh and on the side note. She has all of the red flags. Very good and accurate video :D
@thesamoceanКүн бұрын
A girl who likes to go out and drink with her gfs when you're not there. Red flag to me
@TrippAdviceКүн бұрын
Depends
@FiscalDeComentariosImproprios18 сағат бұрын
Don't be like that. They need their moments without us.
@tinkleshartzinpants422115 сағат бұрын
Yes, she is cheating
@tinkleshartzinpants422115 сағат бұрын
@@TrippAdviceNo, she's cheating, just like if they don't show jealousy ( no jealousy = cheating 100% of the time).
@rumannkoch486423 сағат бұрын
You totally left out the most important: how is her relationship with her father!
@TrippAdvice22 сағат бұрын
That’s a big one
@Mudpuppyjunior10 сағат бұрын
More important; how WAS her relationship with her father. Had two FA exes, both the product of divorce with daddy issues. But both repaired the relationship and had good ones with their fathers in the present, but the damage done in childhood remained.
@July41776DedicatedtoTheProposiСағат бұрын
NO, NO, the mother is the most important~!!!!!!!!
@0w3n27Күн бұрын
You can basically boil these points down to emotional maturity.
@July41776DedicatedtoTheProposiСағат бұрын
well, that is pretty judgmental when the parents are the cause.
@gregthompson9434Күн бұрын
If I like her she certified crazy 😳
@mitchgarber6609 сағат бұрын
Excellent discussion. Concise and to the point.
@sparkybob1023Күн бұрын
There might be a deeper more revolutionary reason for this. Beautiful, intelligent women, are highly sought after.
@user-ic1mx4hj5d2 күн бұрын
1:28 - cries every month because of her cycle. Saw that a lot. That was actually cute.
@omarhamdy8288Күн бұрын
Thank you Trip! I’ve been following your work for years, this single video will save men’s lives!!
@TrippAdviceКүн бұрын
I hope so!
@johne7212Күн бұрын
It’s appropriate “affect.”
@venky1932 күн бұрын
Great compilation... super stuff ✌🏻
@smferreiro2610Күн бұрын
I'd say the 8th red flag is she "does nothing". My worst relationship was with one woman of this kind, although she would score 0 on this test of yours. She did all the house chores, she cooked, she cleaned, she had a home job for "her" money and she even was in the mood for intimacy if I hinted and everything to make her look like a jackpot woman... but life with her was hell. She didn't go anywhere with me; people thought I was single. She was afraid of me having meetings with relevant or important people or investors. She never got happy about success ("it was your destiny" or "it surely had been written"). She was afraid bills weren't going to be paid. She freaked out when I started pushing an innovative idea. She didn't even cry or communicate her fears. She just suffered on her spot. She wanted a secure, frozen-in-time life. She wanted us to live as retirees on social security, with the security of a check at the end of the month.
@TrippAdviceКүн бұрын
Oof that’s rough. I agree.
@jonshawunited2 күн бұрын
Very very true. :/ Thanks for this wise video. Jon
@TrippAdvice2 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful Jon!
@thesword-sapdog32218 сағат бұрын
Bit disappointed in the state government school system of the last 70 years. This subject should be mandatory for males starting from year 4 Elementary.
@MickeyMouse-lo4sy5 сағат бұрын
You do realize who teaches most classes, right? You expect them to give away the keys to knowledge?
@Blahzay-m84Сағат бұрын
This is like saying that men should completely take over society, to some extent. That's basically the problem; delusional women en masse and all the simping to them going on, that doesn't show effect for 20 or 30 years. I think the soy in the food supply which is estrogenic, and possibly, the marijauna culture that is being pushed are two culprits. Ive heard people speculate, and Ive thought myself, that the plant is feminizing; as its the female plant that is being consumed. Some things to consider.
@russandrews3078Күн бұрын
Good stuff!!
@jonmueller21179 сағат бұрын
RUN!
@michaelhussey440Күн бұрын
It should be part of the education of all boys of school age to be taught about how to select a high quality stable loving partner. Only problem is , how do we get this past the women teachers who dominate that sector ?
@TrippAdviceКүн бұрын
You’re so right
@davidsisson20268 сағат бұрын
I don't think it would sink in to a young lad. Especially if they come from a dys functional family. Unfortunately most of us learn the hard way. And many never learn.
@July41776DedicatedtoTheProposiСағат бұрын
Childhood trauma from Parents who are pathological narcissists is almost 100 percent related to this depression and crying. My wife has had 4 narcissistic farther and step fathers and mom, she has been in treatment for 30 years. I love her, but there is no sex.
@CraigAndersonn2 күн бұрын
Ion if i woke up and seeing my girl liking other dudes pictures ik is a red/orange flag
@smferreiro2610Күн бұрын
A flashing red!
@GuyVinmara15 сағат бұрын
This is a great test. Right on! Question for the "older" ones among us. Do you have any offsets for the females that are menopausal?
@NooneselfКүн бұрын
Big problem. Your girlfriend scores perfectly. How do you know if she is aware of of this criteria and faking it.? Best wishes
@TrippAdviceКүн бұрын
Most people can’t fake it for that long even if they knew.
@immanuelcolbert690123 сағат бұрын
Time reveals all most can't fake it more than 3 to 4 months. The mask slips off. Usually you'll sse signs of the red flags in that time span but no longer than 8 months and you'll know shes not worth your time.
@Mudpuppyjunior10 сағат бұрын
That's why you date. Almost no one [perhaps the occasional psychopath] can fake it in a sustained dating relationship.
@erikkdravenКүн бұрын
I say this to everyone thatl eft a relationship dont see anyone for at l;east 6 months because it takeasa lonmg time to find yourself again believe it ior not when we enter a rel;ationship we change and adapt adn become aprt of each other the longer th releatioonship the more we in a loose way lose ourselves so staying single we find ourselves again , I have seen many people jus tjump back int oa relationship with in a week and it gerts bumpy some dont last others do but the ride was not a smooth one
@dannyortiz442 күн бұрын
You look more like a model not only from getting older and wiser, but also marrying that dime piece inside out, Tripp-O. (Honest compliment) Loll
@Mudpuppyjunior10 сағат бұрын
Hmmm, I've dated two FAs. The last one scored a 12.5 and was impossible to keep. We lasted 11 months until she monkeybranched with a useless ex. The first one was not apparently self aware and only scored a 2. But she was nuttier than the first and ghosted me over nothing two days after we were trying to decide whether to elope or have a wedding. People are crazier than any test can reliably measure.
@Davitron_87Күн бұрын
Wish I had this 6 months ago.
@TrippAdviceКүн бұрын
Sorry bud
@gametheoretic13 сағат бұрын
"Appropriate Affect". Not effect.
@mrjlee42947 сағат бұрын
Ha news flash they’re all crazy
@JohnStiletto17 сағат бұрын
Get an AI GF, problem solved.
@brentjames760017 сағат бұрын
No doubt. Most logical thing no n day's
@paulvandersluys741216 сағат бұрын
Can't wait for a AI wife -robot women that is a duplicate of Barbara Eden 'I dream of genie' and have the ability to 'stop and re-boot' her when necessary. lol
@JohnStiletto16 сағат бұрын
@@paulvandersluys7412 nice choice.
@tinkleshartzinpants422115 сағат бұрын
If she's not jealous, then she is cheating on you. So, your green flag is a red flag for me.
@jaialaiwarrior14 сағат бұрын
Incorrect. The most loyal woman I've ever known barely had a single jealous bone in her body. The trust people deserve often directly reflects the trust they have to give - as with most traits and behaviors.
@tinkleshartzinpants422111 сағат бұрын
@jaialaiwarrior she was cheating, jealousy is just desire. She wasn't faithful
@Mudpuppyjunior10 сағат бұрын
You know less than you think. I was married for 23 years to a saint. She was secure and trusted me because I proved my trustworthiness. Jealousy is a sign of insecurity.
@johnhartsock1891Күн бұрын
An old guy and his 30 year old gal pal cry at restaurants, church services, and rock concerts
@The-You-DooberКүн бұрын
This all sounds like every Democrat voter when they don’t win or get their way also.🤣🤡🤣🤡