I’m almost 52 and dreamed my whole life about singing a solo. Was diagnosed with ADHD and Social Anxiety Disorder. This year I’m choosing to do something about it! I will do my solo before I leave this earth! Good luck to everyone else struggling!
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
Amazing - you 100% got this!! ❤
@kikataye6293 Жыл бұрын
@@ScienceOfPeople thank you!
@miawinnter1278 ай бұрын
Hello? Did u do something already?
@alifzahir39332 ай бұрын
How it goes?
@Abdulrahman.S.L4 жыл бұрын
7 steps to overcome stage fright. 1. Form your clear intension 2. Pick up a focal point 3. Breath mindfully 4. Release muscle tension 5. Find your center 6. Repeat your process cue (e.g smiles and good questions) 7. Direct your energy
@srin_meow Жыл бұрын
8. break a leg
@belleofthecamp6530 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the cheer sheet! Screenshoted for my speech today 😅
@shakirajoas34235 жыл бұрын
I'm performing tonight Wish me luck✨
@coldfangesamurai92505 жыл бұрын
So am I 9
@hampton_the_one54195 жыл бұрын
How’d it go?
@cjfleming80054 жыл бұрын
I know I'm late but I hope you did great!!!! 💓💛💚💙💜
@letaureauduforex68764 жыл бұрын
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@mo2wheelz744 жыл бұрын
I pretty late but how did it go
@rainyriver6 жыл бұрын
Thursday I have to do a monologue all alone...I got my character pretty well developed I just need to get over my stage fright, I developed my character as a sassy teenage girl, the monologue I got was about a grandmas “world famous” meatloaf (I know a little weird) I’m trying to research and study how to develop characters and get over stage fright...so I’m watching videos of how to try to develop a sassy character of something like that. 1 like = 1 less piece of stage fright
@Diana-yz6zx5 жыл бұрын
I want to be an actor when I grow up and I asked my older brother if I could be an actor and he said sure I can be an actor and there’s one problem... NERVOUSNESS!!
@alexandrahamilton26665 жыл бұрын
Tomatobang saaaaaame 😭
@legendguy96163 жыл бұрын
When u are getting an ward as an actor,you hv to give speech.
@Reborngurlll8 ай бұрын
Me too ❤
@Jjslaysroblox7 ай бұрын
Don’t wait until you grow up. Start now! We’re in the right place even looking for ways to overcome. Start doing improv, acting classes. I believe in you too!
@Flamingerudostalion5 жыл бұрын
I'm a school teacher, and I use these every now and then for myself, and to help anxious students too. Much love. ♡
@OllyNewport5 жыл бұрын
actual steps begin at 1:57
@fortherecord12272 жыл бұрын
You saved my ass😂😂
@aurum123510 ай бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@NotSoSane_TacoFan7 ай бұрын
ty my man 👍
@katenhydris12263 жыл бұрын
Vanessa has the most well practiced hand gestures! Every word she speaks--I do not want to speed up to 1.25, rather,stay normal speed and watch her unfolding every point of her video!
@jjranko4074 жыл бұрын
Im pursing a Music career. Wish me luck at my future concerts!
@mo2wheelz744 жыл бұрын
OMG ME TOO I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK I haven’t gotten there yet but I’m determined
@tashiannathomas55063 жыл бұрын
Has this helped you?
@tiaraliz28083 жыл бұрын
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
@Christine-zw4dx6 жыл бұрын
Congratulations new baby momma 💖 best of health to you both !
@12012channel5 жыл бұрын
lol, trying to breathe purposely is making me anxious. Figuring out how to relax my body parts are just making them tighter.
@QuesoPluma973 жыл бұрын
I know! These steps may be good for some but not all people can deal with anxiety the same way
@mahrukhmirza6985 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@brendaceciliadesigns Жыл бұрын
Me tooooooo
@amandarosehargreaves884 Жыл бұрын
I’m the same
@sessionsunderthesun3042 Жыл бұрын
Hi, @12012channel. Wanted to reach out to you to connect. 🙂 I’ve been a musician for over 15 years now and still experience stage performance anxiety symptoms. As a recent doctoral graduate, I wanted to dive into personal research as I connect with others who experience similar anxieties whether on stage, speaking and presenting in general. Would you be open to sharing some of your valuable insights with me? Just Looking for those willing to help with my research! Grateful to find a community here! 😊
@gregpeoples92726 жыл бұрын
Great advice, thanks. Congrats on the baby
@mayen6556 жыл бұрын
Ooooh, damn! I really felt that relaxation exercise! Congrats Vanessaaaa! You are glowing today, but then, you always are! I couldn't guess there was a little angel involved this time. He or she is going to be the luckiest baby... A smart and hardworking mom, with the brightest, prettiest smile there is. I love you so much, and I'm very happy for you! Let me add, I'm in Cameroon. Thought you might like to know how far your fan base extends.😋
@rj772aj35 жыл бұрын
@@ScienceOfPeople kind words he ummm kinda sweared
@sessionsunderthesun3042 Жыл бұрын
Hi, @mayen655. Wanted to reach out to you to connect. 🙂 I’ve been a musician for over 15 years now and still experience stage performance anxiety symptoms. As a recent doctoral graduate, I wanted to dive into personal research as I connect with others who experience similar anxieties whether on stage, speaking and presenting in general. Would you be open to sharing some of your valuable insights with me? Just Looking for those willing to help with my research! Grateful to find a community here! 😊
@rahulanand18974 жыл бұрын
Wow this video shows probably the best anxiety vanquishing advice I my whole life. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!
@AdityaKadamMechanical6 жыл бұрын
I am going to watch this video just before the interviews. Thanks and congratulations Ma'am :)
@eugenecharlesindico19064 жыл бұрын
This is really amazing Ms. Vanessa! I've been watching your videos many times, then I tried to do everything from your video, it really helps me to conquer my fear of speaking and socializing in front of many. You even inspired me to pursue my dream of being a psychologist. I wish you more subscribers. 💖💖💖
@sessionsunderthesun3042 Жыл бұрын
Hi, @eugenecharlesindico1906. Wanted to reach out to you to connect. 🙂 I’ve been a musician for over 15 years now and still experience stage performance anxiety symptoms. As a recent doctoral graduate, I wanted to dive into personal research as I connect with others who experience similar anxieties whether on stage, speaking and presenting in general. Would you be open to sharing some of your valuable insights with me? Just Looking for those willing to help with my research! Grateful to find a community here! 😊
@berniehenry19606 жыл бұрын
Have a school play tomorrow, and I'm already feeling nervous about it. Thanks so much for the tips! Congrats on your baby! I have a four month old sister ;)
@Sakshi-dn3xc5 жыл бұрын
How did it go? Did it help? :)
@Rahulthakur-sd3cv5 жыл бұрын
I didn't even try this till now but still I am felling almost confident Thankyou so much mam😁🤗
@mayashata96645 жыл бұрын
I'll perform after 14 days exactly and am so nervous since this moment.
@jamshedanas5 жыл бұрын
how was it?
@dudeman53034 жыл бұрын
Yeah, how did it go?
@sveinrei55944 жыл бұрын
We need a answer
@wrigley42474 жыл бұрын
how did it go?
@gch773 жыл бұрын
Hi, I'm Very late How was it dear?
@Tarikkb3 жыл бұрын
I get this burning sensation in my chest , to people who dont have it the best way to describe it I think is , it’s just like when ur riding a roller coaster and your heart drops and you’re shaking , and ur filled with this uncontrollable energy and you can’t focus on what you need to do you just get lost
@sessionsunderthesun3042 Жыл бұрын
Hi, @theoaire3355. Appreciative to connect with you in this community. 🙂 I’ve been a musician for over 15 years now and still experience stage performance anxiety symptoms. As a recent doctoral graduate, I wanted to dive into personal research as I connect with others who experience similar anxieties whether on stage, speaking and presenting in general. Would you be open to sharing some of your valuable insights with me? Just Looking for those willing to help with my research! Grateful to find a community here! 😊
@jayala19924 жыл бұрын
I sing opera for my Facebook audience and I plan to take it live one day, and some of those techniques I use. I always take a deep breath before I perform to calm myself and I always keep a goal in mind. I do I love singing and the reactions is makes it worthwhile ❤️
@staciarenee43185 жыл бұрын
That moment when your choir teacher make you do a solo at a choir festival and you just want to run away. Anyone or am I alone???
@emmamariae4 жыл бұрын
I signed up for show choir without thinking about it and now I have to sing in front of professional singers..
@tashiannathomas55063 жыл бұрын
Happened to me in middle school. Im fine singing in a group but a solo....
@gothycutezy90678 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! I have a dance to do with my friend and I was so nervous but now i feel way more confident
@rosannacanela36865 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU THANK YOU SO MUCH I had a solo and at first I was nervous but than I followed what you said and it worked so well THANK YOU SO MUCH
@readyforthemoshpitshakabrah2 ай бұрын
i am a great dancer, but everytime i get on a stage or dance in front of people my knees and hands shake so much. i hate it. i feel like i have no control over my body 😭 i just want to dance without feeling this way. its not that i dont feel confident, i know that i am good.... but my body doesnt let me
@readyforthemoshpitshakabrahАй бұрын
i never show people how i really feel because i want to inspire them to chase their dreams. but how can i be that person for others if im not even strong enough?
@ScienceOfPeople2 жыл бұрын
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@dollriott5 жыл бұрын
My friend forced me to sing with her in a talent show at school and now I have to sing with her in front of the whole school !!😭😭 I hope this works!!
@jakecgaming20635 жыл бұрын
melanies bigbadwolf good luck🌟🌟
@philiptalk2 жыл бұрын
Thanks very much. Great advice and highly useful ideas.
@ScienceOfPeople2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@mkelly805 жыл бұрын
I want to be a singer badly when I get older but I am terrified
@emmamariae4 жыл бұрын
Try out for show choir
@blodyn78024 жыл бұрын
Same, you just have to push yourself, take the oppurtunties to be in front of people, even if it isn't singing, if its performing for your family, singing at Christmas, acting on a stage, doing a school presentation in class. I've done these and I'm still working on pushing myself to get more comfortable in uncomfortable situations
@rishabhpathak13675 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much. Tomorrow is my Presentation.
@shruthijayavenukumar6 жыл бұрын
Congrats on the baby, Vanessa! 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
@janetcashmore86226 жыл бұрын
Thanks Vanessa! I’m getting so much out of your vids...Congrats on your pregnancy!& All the best 💕
@trishas10995 жыл бұрын
Thank you for ur wonderful tips. I have to do a speech tomorrow. I went in search of ways to overcome anxiety and found this video. Hope it goes well
@anjelcpks305 жыл бұрын
trisha s good luck I hv a speech tomorrow too
@sessionsunderthesun3042 Жыл бұрын
Hi, @trishas1099. Wanted to reach out to you to connect. 🙂 I’ve been a musician for over 15 years now and still experience stage performance anxiety symptoms. As a recent doctoral graduate, I wanted to dive into personal research as I connect with others who experience similar anxieties whether on stage, speaking and presenting in general. Would you be open to sharing some of your valuable insights with me? Just Looking for those willing to help with my research! Grateful to find a community here! 😊
@flavianomersi79056 жыл бұрын
congratulations on the baby
@flavianomersi79056 жыл бұрын
thank you a lot for sharing your works
@prasadsawant41535 жыл бұрын
Thank you ma'am. This video is especially helpful for me.
@accoladecourage9765Ай бұрын
I'm performing tomorrow. I'm one of the speakers in the biggest debate competition in Sub-Saharan Africa. Wish me luck! 🎉
@Heavy2deep6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful presentation! Congratulations on the baby!
@skkzzzz4 жыл бұрын
The more I watch these videos the more nervous I get
@kitkat35452 жыл бұрын
Omg I had a presintason today and this really helped👍
@deepakvikhe53675 жыл бұрын
Thank you,helpful tips...congratulations to you.god bless
@baatmanabdlmalek46 жыл бұрын
Hi teacher vannas you're always the best thank you so much I'm from Algeria
@sosororo48916 жыл бұрын
This is great. .I love you. .can you please summarising the important points at the end of each video.. Thank you
@GTO2012201210 ай бұрын
There are several degrees of stage fright, these steps are great for some people who just feel nervous and have done few stage appearances. For people with intermediate to severe stage fright this might not be the answer but a good starting point to practice alone or in front of someone they feel comfortable with.
@makehumanitygreatagain81286 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your pregnancy, Vanessa. Thanks for the helpful vid.
@sagarkhadka9705 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the wonderful tips.🙏. Keep up the good work. 👍
@Ambigirl20115 жыл бұрын
Thank you Van. Getting back in front of the camera again. Fill you in later. God Bless the Baby!
@darlingjoely5 жыл бұрын
I don’t mind presentations in front of my class, but I used to do hip hop when I was really young and when I was performing in front of a crowd I completely froze, and I was the only one who wasn’t doing the dance, I felt so disappointed
@khalilzed993 жыл бұрын
I used to be an excellent public speaker when i was a high school student but at university one time i delivered an awful presentationsdue to lack of preparation and other personal problems . since then i developed some stage fright when i speak in front of the classroom i feel as if i'm running out of breath . i speak with a wussy sound i dont know what happened to me i really want to overcome this !!!
@sessionsunderthesun3042 Жыл бұрын
Hi, @khalilzed99. Appreciative to connect with you in this community. 🙂 I’ve been a musician for over 15 years now and still experience stage performance anxiety symptoms. As a recent doctoral graduate, I wanted to dive into personal research as I connect with others who experience similar anxieties whether on stage, speaking and presenting in general. Would you be open to sharing some of your valuable insights with me? Just Looking for those willing to help with my research! Grateful to find a community here! 😊
@khalilzed99 Жыл бұрын
@@sessionsunderthesun3042 ok how can i contact you?
@CamilazAniamationz7 ай бұрын
7:00 The relax ur glutes had me dying (sorry)
@elysianvoltaire5 жыл бұрын
This makes me feel a little more confident for Drama class
@BiroFerenc4 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much it’s so helpful to me. I am so great full I find this.
@mrsparkkimjeon99852 жыл бұрын
I am a singer. I used to thrive on stage but since the past few years it has gotten so bad. I practically forget how to use my voice, something which I do with ease in my home when i am alone.... i dont know how it has suddenly emerged. It is crippling my confidence like nothing else...
@madihjorth81643 жыл бұрын
Wow, I discovered that I have stage fright. I take karate, I’m a brown belt. Im nervous about performing in front of new people and I just have to break 2 boards and 2 forms. Yeah it sucks. Thinking about skipping belts or maybe quit
@sessionsunderthesun3042 Жыл бұрын
Hi, @madihjorth8164. Appreciative to connect with you in this community. 🙂 I’ve been a musician for over 15 years now and still experience stage performance anxiety symptoms. As a recent doctoral graduate, I wanted to dive into personal research as I connect with others who experience similar anxieties whether on stage, speaking and presenting in general. Would you be open to sharing some of your valuable insights with me? Just Looking for those willing to help with my research! Grateful to find a community here! 😊
@sofiaamoroso386 Жыл бұрын
hi Vannesa Iv'e been having anxiety for weeks now cause ill be auditioning to Laoag City got talent on dec 2 and im really overthinking like alot and im scared but i hope this video will help me with my stagefright ill comment again after the audition and we will see if ill do great
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
Wow, how exciting! You got this!! Definitely let me know how it goes. ❤
@sofiaamoroso386 Жыл бұрын
VANNESAAA I DID IT I HAD A LITTLE ANXIETY THO BUT I DID I SANGG MY HEART OUT LIKE YOU SAID THE JUDGES TOLD ME I SANG LIKE AN ANGLE AND THEY WHERE REALLY SWEET ABOUT IT I DID STUTTER A BIT ON THE FIRST TWO SENTENCES OF THE SONG BUT THAT DIDN'T STOP ME FROM CONTINUING IM VERY GREAT FULL OF YOU AND THIS VIDEO WITHOUT IT I WOULDN'T HAVE STEP UP THAT STAGE AT ALL THANK YOU SOO MUCH BUT THEY SAID THEY'D CALL FOR THE SECOND AUDITION I HOPE ILL GET IN THE FINALS❤❤❤❤
@sonyaamelia16216 жыл бұрын
Great video.. and Congratulations on your pregnancy!
@notpxtrick5 жыл бұрын
Performing today I have social anxiety and I cried multiple times bc I signed up for that stupid singing competition
@celiar17265 жыл бұрын
During band, the singers get to do a karaoke song and I kept on going back and forth and then I ended up kind of getting pushed up and I just sat there with kids telling me to do it and I tried but my voice sounded weird because I was that nervous and then kids started singing the lyrics on the board and then I cried 😐
@mukhbansinghsokhi18446 жыл бұрын
You are always best dear.😄
@Flamingerudostalion5 жыл бұрын
AWESOME ADVICE.
@antonettebaylosis15234 жыл бұрын
Tomorrow I will be singing in front of many people all alone. I hope this works, I know this will work.
@garyalbertmusic Жыл бұрын
The only way to overcome stage fright is to get to the deepest root cause of the subconscious structures that keeps you in fear and then dissolve those structures so that no longer affect you. I help my clients to overcome stage fright and performance anxiety in one single 2 hour session… ❤
@emmysmalley7811 Жыл бұрын
Can u help me?😭
@vinaya56826 ай бұрын
Is there any way to help mee💔💔💔
@allylaban68023 жыл бұрын
I have to do a dance and a prayer in front of TWO WHOLE SCHOOLS!!! please work..
@AmyV142 Жыл бұрын
My main issue is that I don’t know why I have an issue with it but I do so it’s ages before anything and I’m already crying about it
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
You are definitely not alone in this! So many people struggle with stage fright. You got this!
@learenaee5 жыл бұрын
I need this because I asked my mom if I can become a child actor (like Millie Bobby Brown or Finn Wolfhard) and she said she will support me and she will pay for my auditions and stuff but there were THREE problem that was holding me back... stage fright, camera shyness, and school
@fanacccounttt37645 жыл бұрын
I really want to become a child actor too but I’m super nervous my mom said she will support me but I need to get rid of my stage fright
@shreyasa31856 жыл бұрын
Hey Vanessa, video full of useful tricks as always. Congrats on becoming Mommie....Just so you know you are world famous, I'm from India..!!
@nugg3t_t0x1c44 жыл бұрын
my inteion was to make ppl happy and do what i love to sing
@matthewwuzhere80335 жыл бұрын
Idk if I have performance anxiety. Normally right before I go on stage I feel great but the second I get out in front of the audience my teeth start to get cold and its like a shock goes through my body and my teeth hurt then I forget all my lines
@sessionsunderthesun3042 Жыл бұрын
Hi, @matthewxxuzhere8033. Appreciative to connect with you in this community. 🙂 I’ve been a musician for over 15 years now and still experience stage performance anxiety symptoms. As a recent doctoral graduate, I wanted to dive into personal research as I connect with others who experience similar anxieties whether on stage, speaking and presenting in general. Would you be open to sharing some of your valuable insights with me? Just Looking for those willing to help with my research! Grateful to find a community here! 😊
@indianmoin6 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Was very useful.
@hudagillani87549 ай бұрын
I have a thesis proposal presentation in a day.I am extremely terrified
@lovedog495075 жыл бұрын
What about clinical performance anxiety in nursing school some students have that ?
@stephaniewormsley37725 жыл бұрын
im literally taking notes cuz i am performing 2 solos tomrrow plus little parts along with other people and i have severe stage fright. im trying so hard to fight it and be confident but its really really hard.
@brick99214 ай бұрын
once i played piano for a kinda big artist in that area, i couldn't feel my fuckin fingers, they went numb,, i did'nt even played as we practiced and just went for basic chords,, i just couldn't do it, the song was "when we were young" by Adele. yuh, sadly i will never forget that performance
@Moskal914 жыл бұрын
i had a super bad performance at something im good at (guitar). this should help
@ImSimplyAHuman4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤️
@Lvlyra4 жыл бұрын
I have to dance in front of my entire school in a group with two other people tomorrow. We get only five minutes to make an entire performance. The first time I performed in front of my group, I had a panic attack. Istg I’m so nervous I hate performing
@valeriebwilliams7012 жыл бұрын
like how she made sure her dress top is appropriate
@parker27972 жыл бұрын
In may I have to preform in a play and have 38 lines and I’m really scared I’m going to freeze up and ruin it for everyone
@cjfleming80054 жыл бұрын
I wanna be in a musical but my state fright is so strong it's actually a huge problem.
@jamezday5 жыл бұрын
what if you don't believe in what you have to present............
@nigelcharles73864 жыл бұрын
Oh no just like me
@livingstonesang66474 жыл бұрын
I am doing a presentation tommorow and i have no idea what to expect
@NihilNovi3 жыл бұрын
Going to play my first concert in about a month. I'll totally gonna rock it, but just in case I'll familiarize myself with this technique. Cant hurt. 😀
@Hxmedawgz5 жыл бұрын
I really really want to act. whenever I watch behind the scenes of any TV show/movir I watch, I just look at all the fun they have and stuff and I really want to be apart of something like that one day. But I have really bad stage fright. I get up on stage, even in front of a small class of kids I know, I can't say anything, it's almost like I'm going to breakdown. I'm really worried that people will think I'm weird and laugh at me.
@last2freez6183 жыл бұрын
5th grade social studies we took cereal boxes and put facts about different people on the box I had to present it and I started trembling and I started crying luckily I didn’t
@AlanMcCarthyguitar6 жыл бұрын
great video and advice all round but for me few days before important performance im feeling the pressure which gradually increase s and makes these mental exercises virtually impossible for me ,I just cant concentrate my anxiety is so severe
@aniramanid82085 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUUUCCCCHHH
@ronaldo1010004 жыл бұрын
How do you do this ON STAGE?!! 😆😆
@aryannanicole49365 жыл бұрын
I have an adition for disney on oct. 2 i have such bad stage fright😡😩
@crabcrusher61175 жыл бұрын
Tomorrow I will present a skit😭😭😭😭😭😭 hope this works😪😭😭😭😭😭😭
@AlbaPasinatoMusic5 жыл бұрын
How did it go?😊
@dreamerj26636 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on baby..
@nigelcharles73864 жыл бұрын
I have a research to present for my final yr so I hope this helps😭
@spedupvibes88882 жыл бұрын
It’s about my theatre competition and I’m really scared for how I will perform and this is my first time
@autopedu18065 жыл бұрын
solo auditions for the middle school choir on thursday and i’m so nervous
@jerrypixar92456 жыл бұрын
Dear Vanessa I have a humorous outlook on life,and my comment is about your “theme song”which to me sounds like an interesting mix of anxiety and confusion.
@kshamaphatak56845 жыл бұрын
Thanks....from india
@IdolEyes845 жыл бұрын
Thank you xo
@peatwhiskey6 жыл бұрын
Help me with my stammering problem venessa!
@kyshn60856 жыл бұрын
Amar Kumar watch Kings speech movie , it'll teach ya how 2 get rid of stammering & stuttering ;)
@peatwhiskey6 жыл бұрын
@@kyshn6085 thanks Where do you live? Which country?
@ashprasad90755 жыл бұрын
What if ppl start laughing while you're on stage
@sonicstep5 жыл бұрын
Then you immediately turn the spotlight on them. Ask them politely to leave your space. Only once polite attention is restored should you resume your delivery.
@augustinechinnappanmuthria70422 жыл бұрын
Super 💓❤️
@mhelapark34895 жыл бұрын
Were Going To Perform A song ang Im leading The group .. Buttt.. i have a stage fright when Im in front Of the audience.. My Voice is Going To be shaky And my hands is Getting Cold and Shaky... When im Nervous
@itsyuneesha52145 жыл бұрын
All the best
@erikacordell65995 жыл бұрын
Tryin get my music heard and become a better rapper, any advice?