How To Be More Confident

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Learn more about the science of confidence in the article: www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-be-confident/

[@ignaciomoranbarrascout]

Self confidence is not "they will like me" It is "I'll be fine if they don't"

[@simharasiphalaalu]

The qualities that confidence people have: 1. Demonstrates confidence and leadership 2. Isn't afraid to be unique 3. Communicates and interacts with everyone. 4. Shows respect and concern for everyone. 5. Is knowledgeable and well-rounded 6. Has humility and shows willingness to admit mistakes 7. Does good things outside the job

[@amala7647]

I become so nervous when i have a presentation that my voice ends up cracking, but at the end i’m proud that i’m brave enough to present in front of people and with time i’ll get used to it and become confident presenting

[@AliSalman-254]

I think ,it call stage fear at initial but gradually removed

[@catherinewest5609]

That's great but is public speaking necessary for everyone? Can you be a confident introvert without others expecting you to change?

[@mumtaz.qureshi]

I worked with Filipino interaction with other companies with Filipino, their style of saying heloo over phone is mind blowing, filled with happiness...helooooo

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Love that!

[@shailyshekhar3409]

You are just wonderful Vanessa. You boosted my confidence to yet another level, now I got elected as school president against the most popular girl in school. Couldn't thank you more💜

[@suhailshuaib8092]

Congratulations!

[@AliSalman-254]

Congratulations on your achievement

[@antoinettenovella1630]

Awesome work Shelseas. How was your year?

[@gaganaa195]

Damn !!!! Awesome !!!

[@varunsharma2068]

Congrates ji

[@sarushanarayan3838]

My role model is you Vanessa Van Edwards . I’m that awkward person, who realised my awkwardness only after watching your Videos.I’m headed towards that complete positive transformation with you backing me up virtually. Lots and lots of gratitude, respect and Love Vanessa 🙏🏻

[@deepikaa.18]

A year later, where are you on this journey

[@natebarlow6408]

My biggest takeaway from this video is: To be confident, be happy; to be happy, find some humor.

[@YET64]

You put it in good way. I was about to comment !!

[@Studio-uv8ve]

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[@angelus_solus]

Real easy to say for those who don't suffer from chronic depression and schizophrenia, even when being treated by drugs.

[@katherinepem6676]

@@angelus_solus Yep...most people aren't going through that...😬

[@x3no841]

Here's a thing...im not that funny lol

[@Fire____Flower-ICU]

I come across many videos in you tube speaking about building up confidence. But truly she cracks it all with such wonderful presentation skills and I haven't come across such a person who speaks so naturally and with ease. With each word this video carries that energy reaching its subscribers an amazing level of confidence! May be because she really does mean every word she says instead of thinking it just a subject or topic and do this with all passion inside her, to motivate others! Thanks much!!

[@ted775]

You are now my secret role model! Your confidence is astounding.

[@gtberg]

What worked for me was hypnosis. My confidence went up 200% in one session! Much easier than trying to force ourselves to follow all these rules.

[@danialteaches]

I love how Vanessa talks about confidence in such a simple and effective way. Great video.

[@mattjahnke239]

I love how she breaks down everything.

[@johneq]

I’ve been googling “How to walk Science of People” the past few days. How did you know? 🤯 I wish I’d seen this channel in high school. Your work is truly life changing, Thank You Vanessa! 😁

[@angelus_solus]

You do realize that Google owns KZbin. Right?

[@aramsmanri]

Something new that I’ve learned from this video is that we have different ways of showing confidence!

[@rizalfatoni4075]

It's hard to live when we always worry about small things, we hardly focus and neglect our responsibilities, thus we can't get what we want and that become disappointment. This kinda how to tips arereally helpful especially as an insight, so we have options when we feel trapped in a difficult situation. Thanks Vanessa, this is really helpful for many people out there, The the gestures, expression, and tone when you deliver this video is fantastic!!!

[@GroUp512]

Finding happiness and confidence comes from discovering your value and your strengths. What you bring to the table. Thanks for the awesome video!

[@estherIU]

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[@gugonim9738]

This is like a crash course for learning how to be confident.. DAMN AWESOME.

[@amethystessence]

Confidence is the best outfit. A lot of it depends on how you feel inside. That way, it radiates outside. Thank you for this video.

[@gauravsinghbedi6536]

Thank You Vanessa Van Edward...You are doing wonderful Work...Thank you Vanessa...God Bless You

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you! You too!

[@bangfruit]

This is literally the best video I have watched in quite sometime! Thanks Vanessa!!

[@infodwheels623]

Your hands along with the rest of your body language is amazing. wow!

[@andreearistea6012]

your videos are so useful for everybody, thank you!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you! So glad they are helping!

[@jennyrodriguez7166]

Thank you Vanessa for creating these awesome videos!!!!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@teesta80]

My sincere thanks for all your wonderful work to help us! My takeaway is internal happiness directly reflects confidence. During the down days look at your accomplishments that I made it through big or small. Trash Imposter Syndrome. Avoid social media to get a digital detox living a fake life! Take time to learn YOU!

[@kawsudrammeh3055]

"I don't want to build my confident because of social media I wan't to build my confident to inspire powerless people.

[@_valeriabeauty__]

You are the only one I can watch the whole video!!!!

[@SolarJakee]

I've perfected the art of looking and sounding confident and making a great first impression. The problem comes when I talk to people for some time and they realise that I'm actually a socially anxious wreck.

[@ManMountainManX]

I'd encourage you to watch Vanessa's video on "How to End a Conversation and Gracefully Exit Any Awkward Situation". It's worthwhile..

[@orion5397]

Omg this could be me😂😂

[@laflameee6968]

I am definetly sooo much more confident thank u babe

[@ralfj.1740]

Confidence comes with acquiring skills. Great video Vanessa! 🙂

[@begrateful6153]

We become more confident when we go deeper into our core to gain validation from ourselves. We become less confident when we go outward looking for validation from others. Get to know you!

[@katywaldrop5036]

God bless you Vanessa! Love your content!!

[@christineawuor3805]

I'm fired up. Confidence is in my DNA.

[@prakashchavan894]

Great information Thanks :)

[@ScienceOfPeople]

My pleasure!

[@Cats4origami]

I am watching this while getting ready for work today and I’m so excited! I hope to ask my manager how I can feel more confident. I’m motivated to be confident! Thank you ❤️

[@FilipinoSC]

I'd been watching you and following you, Ms. Vanessa. I'm struggling with public speaking. I'm a teacher and it's not good. Im also an awkward person. Hope to recover toooo 😂 and this morning while doing my module, i decided to emulate you ♥️

[@kapil1192]

You are right, she give only scientific reason, research show that that, and at some point she is right but she don't tell what to do that will help you in long term. Confidence come believe in yourself doing right thing that are important. I seen his some video and i find it she is faking and doing to please people. His youtube channel is there from so many year but she is not telling real things, she only give scientific reason. Filipino you tell the truth in comment and all are blind folded there eyes. You are fucking nice filipino sc

[@christshandmaiden]

I love your book Captivate! I recommend it to anyone who wants all of her helpful videos and tips in one book :D

[@RAMAYTV]

What type of content does it cover?

[@seyfun1452]

#1 Look like a winner. Take up more space, claim territory, hold your head high, open your chest, loose your arms, roll your shoulders back and low, stand tall. Avoid looking like a loser, don't slouch, don't put your chin to your chest, don't turtle, don't lower your head, don't cross your arms, don't round or lift your shoulders tensly. #2 Have a confident, powerful voice. Don't answer the phone in a bad mood. Talk with happy and authoritative voice. #3 Add meaning to your day and career. Happiness and confidence go hand in hand. Find out, write and showcase visibly your mission statement. Make a success folder in your computer. #4 Walk in a relaxed way. #5 Choose a confidence role model. It's not about being the most bubbly, extrovert person. #6 Boost your inspiration and motivation. Create a KZbin playlist anytime you need a boost. #7 Overcome imposter syndrome. This syndrome is about feeling undeserving of our accomplishments. Have a motivating self talk. #8 Treat social anxiety. Look for CBT therapy. #9 Program your thoughts. It's impossible to feel confident without having confident thoughts. What are the stories and self truth you tell yourself in your head? Where do they come from? Dig deeper and ask yourself if your beliefs are objectively true or subjective ones. Go through your 3 biggest limiting beliefs and ask yourself if they're actually true or absorbed from negative environment. #8 Limit social media consumption.

[@silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892]

Standing on a ladder, while your hanging up your own poster (looking amazingly better in person btw.), high upon a light post on the pavement, with an aide dude next to you on another ladder, being greeted by someone you haven't seen in 32 years, who's actually just stopping to give you the opportunity for an in-person scolding? What's that resulting in? Being Overly confident, or vulnerable?? Asking for a friend, seriously. :D

[@botakram]

Hey Vanessa, you are truly awesome. Thank you for sharing your videos over the years. A fan of your stuff.

[@omarhamid5107]

Thank you so much teacher

[@accordingtoalondra]

I’m slowly growing my confidence and am still seeking a bigger boost in confidence. I have done things that push my comfort zone, like travel alone and forward focused mindsets. Today, I plan to go out in public and take pictures of myself (both for my blog and my comfort level). I can’t always rely on other to go with me on trips or to take photos or to help me actually get a job so I have to keep learning to do things solo. Before the summer ends, I also plan to go skydiving 😊

[@nene90047R1]

Being alone gives you the freedom of confidence and get lots attention without you even realizing it. I love it. It’s so powerful to be alone in public and that’s confidence. I feel like nobody pay attention to me but is totally the opposite

[@zfoska]

Thank you, you beautiful soul! 💖🌻

[@admirbarucija2018]

I wish I had any sort of confidence. I’m looking forward to this video :)

[@selftalkswithme1045]

Wow! I definitely felt this video was talking to me!

[@khosiiaimson8023]

I like the way your talk.your smile,your presentation 👍

[@rtem1sFowl]

This was a very good video on how to present yourself to others confidently.

[@joramsvlog9907]

Thanks for this awesome topic on how to be more confident in different ways.I learned a lot!!!

[@rajgajjar7987]

The ownership of thoughts is really necessary and therefore . I always know something new from you

[@bhimpokhrel8386]

Confidence is important skill that we must develop and grow in order to be a success in our own field. Very useful video. Amazing.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for watching! 😊

[@bhimpokhrel8386]

@@ScienceOfPeople your every videos are very useful for me. As a Bank manager, I have to cope with the people and staff everyday. Hence, every words in videos are really worth watching for me. Thank you for making my job fruitful and more valuable. Thank you again.

[@Ptgpedro]

This entire video is gold

[@enumahglory6921]

This is my first time of meeting you. I love you already. You are amazing Vanessa

[@selimreza9439]

Vanessa, I think this is the best video you have ever made. Thank you. I love your way of expression. Love for you from Bangladesh...

[@g6mogulthepeoplesmogul]

This was great ! Definitely appreciate the tips. Love your work !!

[@samazaidi3087]

Hey Vanessa, thanks for sharing this knowledge. Much love for you and your team. I don't listen to your words, i digest them. Love ❤️

[@nady2265]

you must have a magnificent metabolism. Lolll

[@nady2265]

@Hemle c is it possible to at least try and make some sort of sense when replying.. thanks

[@heythere6660]

These are wonderful contributions. Thank you.

[@S--yo3zr]

I think the important thing to seem confident is to believe that you are confident ,you have to keep repeating this idea in your head. say i am confiedent and i can do whatever is in front of me that's how people believe it.

[@msinbalony]

Excuse me, I'm confident enough to answer the phone being sad or upset too. I'm not here to entertain anyone. I'm just being me and I'm allowed to be complex and have a range of human emotions, and if anyone has a problem with that they can move along. This is what I don't like sometimes about American culture and why they seem so fake sometimes. Just smile and look happy and you're good.. we'll like you. I deserve to be liked in all my aspects.

[@cutemuzzu3081]

Thanks ! Veanessa ! for sharing this video ! Can you share the Video how to confident and successful CEO at all times even at the worst times of the company.

[@lokeshsingh9731]

best intro ever i saw on youtube really!!😆😆😆😆😆

[@superduperenglishidioms]

I watched a TED Talk about "power posing", which has been shown to physiologically boost confidence. Essentially, powerful, confident people have a certain body language, and if you imitate that body language (especially before a meeting, presentation, etc.) you will be more confident. Powerful poses are arms stretched out, shoulders back, chest puffed out, etc. (using your mobile phone gives you a non-confident posture). Condensed version of that TED Talk with Amy Cuddy: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qGjHiKaAYtJ4r6s

[@michael_the.girl.]

WOOWWW!!! I just realized I probably have imposter syndrome with dating women! I have always felt like my gayness was really suppressed and so when I did start to date women I felt like I didn't deserve something that good and if someone I like did get to really know me they wouldn't like me anymore. That's so good to know I could learn to overcome that! This is so exciting!! 😁

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for watching and I'm glad you learned something! I'm excited for you!

[@theAvaNJames]

Absolutely agree to stealing the show with the confidence you talk about!

[@joseabad2552]

Thanks for sharing this information have a wonderful day ❤

[@ScienceOfPeople]

It's my pleasure ❤ Thank you for watching!

[@JJMLJ]

I love this video. Thank you.

[@mskaification]

Great ideas about a job. Makes me think of what career matches me. High school counselors should have there students ask these questions to find what career they would like. Thanks so much you! I now know what career is best for me

[@DailyCollectiveChannel]

You're amazing! I always learn something new from you.

[@claumalta4371]

By far the most intereting video I found on youtube in these last months. I can't wait to read your books! And thanks for share it! =)

[@ShyamkrishnanNair]

Absolutely! Confidence is like a muscle-it gets stronger with practice. I learned this the hard way, especially through the "look confident" tip! I used to slouch and instantly felt less capable. Then, I started standing tall, shoulders back, and boom-felt more powerful instantly. It’s like a life hack for your mindset! And don't forget to smile when you speak-it makes a huge difference. The Sense of Humor Improvement Program by Habit10x also helps boost my confidence in stressful situations. Keep practicing, and soon, you'll radiate confidence too! You've got this!

[@medhachakraborty7474]

I am glad to have explored your channel 🌈✨🌈

[@ScienceOfPeople]

I'm glad you're here! =)

[@hamine146]

Im pretty confident but im still learning from you !!!

[@kingcaleb7057]

I feel the same way, Vanessa's videos are so helpful, it's been a Great few days lately! :)

[@socialsimodesign926]

I really enjoy watching your videos 🙋‍♀️

[@KennethInyamah]

This video is sooo helpful! I practice this on my channel and at work all the time haha

[@sevanyouhanna2491]

You are so awesome. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

[@virgilstox2677]

So substantially informative

[@yarobhaddad4014]

Hi Vanessa, I would like to thank you so much for all the precious information you provided. Appreciated. Hope in the future I can see in real your lectures. Wishing you all the progress.😊

[@MrWookLoaf]

Great tips. I've heard many of them in various forms over the years. Something I would add from my experience, is to take care of your physical health in a serious way. I'm not saying hit the gym until you look like the god of thunder. But eating right, getting adequate sleep and having some kind of physical routine, went a long way in helping me with my confidence.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Love this!!

[@MrWookLoaf]

@@ScienceOfPeople thanks

[@BarrengerFynar]

Okay so I thought I'd throw this idea out there, something I'm trying is while standing or walking tuck my thumbs into the corner of my back pockets, this pulls my shoulders back and broadens my chest. The idea being after awhile of doing this my shoulders and chest will do that naturally(muscle memory).

[@NenaLavonne]

Your personality is simply contagious. Inspiring and insightful video, thanks for all you do! ♥️

[@Prince7-n3t]

I so liked her hellos 😆🥰

[@karengonzaga1508]

Thank you for reminding me again that confidence can be put into practice. God bless :)

[@NaryGearacam]

Thank you, thank you, thank you very muccccchh.. New subscriber here.

[@josefelix5130]

This woman is very likeable! I will follow her advice

[@Shaurya_1020]

Thank u so much beautiful, for this video. It means a lot❤️

[@pitchireddymedagam673]

Hi mam you are sharing a very valuable information. Simply superb.

[@dmdildar]

You are just amazing! i love your videos and when I start watching them, it takes me minutes if not hours to watch or listen to them. Thank you

[@goncalogalhoz3833]

Pretty good advices

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you!

[@JD-dz9lx]

Vanessa looks extra vibrant in this video!

[@rinslythennakoon8452]

Really iconic tips to be more confident....really love it...💜

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Glad you enjoyed the video! =)

[@lifelessons19951]

Wow so educative especially for me and I have just started practicing what you just taught us ma'am . 😃💃💃💃💃💃 thank you so much ma'am . I wish you can be my coach really. 🙈🙈🙈

[@chriswalls5831]

I'm confident and humble

[@IevaKambarovaite]

What a great video. Reading your book Captivate and absolutely loving it. I cannot wait to share it with my clients helping them to have the best dates ever 😊🎊 thank you for all you do.

[@mushayijagisabenjamin262]

What is the name of the book dear?

[@hunterdale3186]

Vanessa, you are wonderful! Thank you!

[@yonitomorrow7502]

Thanks 🙏 for everything

[@priyankapariyar1502]

Sending one like for you to boost ur confidence.. so that u help us even more through your videos.. Regards..❤

[@ahmedfahimmughal5643]

Useful presentation

[@wahidi411]

Great video and tips, it definitely helps us alot...

[@cheyennelugtu]

RAAA I HAVE A DECLAMATION TOMORROW THATS WHY IM HERE

[@hollymoses5108]

Venessa your awesome! I like your words religiously keep going.

[@marynegere7934]

Hi Vanessa, I love all your videos and all the life skills of the human social development. You have answered all my questions and difficulties. I really want a chat with you to express some of my deepest secrets that makes me powerless and unlikable

[@ericotto314]

Confidence can be learned by changing your thoughts and beliefs, especially your beliefs about yourself. See yourself through God’s eyes, precious and made in His image. 🔥🧡👍

[@Nyaatastic]

you had me at the first half, not gonna lie

[@TherismosFoundation]

Vanessa is becoming even more beautiful!