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@nazeminebundhun369 ай бұрын
N ..b
@Portia6209 ай бұрын
Define hight value? Some of us don’t want money we want class! I agree mystery is important. Class was never about being better.
@JoyP-rw5bc9 ай бұрын
What music is this at the start of your video it is so pretty please let me know
@ellivatepro8 ай бұрын
ismael give examples for more clarity plz
@fotigou8 ай бұрын
It takes a man of class to appreciate a woman of class.
@suzaneveiga20238 ай бұрын
Mic down 🎤
@Nasaza86285 ай бұрын
Exactly
@ldy_c84234 ай бұрын
And in nowadays there are no man of class
@DaisyPira4 ай бұрын
Exactly
@genxx27242 ай бұрын
@@ldy_c8423 I agree. And the Bible says not to cast pearls before swine.
@nayanaparmesh53439 ай бұрын
Classy women 1. Emotional maturity 2. Pride (take care of oneself) 3. Resilience 4.Respect -self respect 5. Modesty- mystery 6. Kindness 7. Independence
@vivhiggins56569 ай бұрын
True,
@vivhiggins56569 ай бұрын
I do and I dont care if a man like's me fore who I am ,and I dont drink and I try too look afere my self and I am kind too people,yes can be too kind I know,only too well, and I am indepentet,independent, so do a lot off men,
@Pooja-bc1es9 ай бұрын
I have all these qualities...then y he is not talking to me
@HeavenlyLights9 ай бұрын
This is a great list for how to get rid of the low class man… do the opposite of this list.😅
@chomama16289 ай бұрын
@@HeavenlyLightswoman who have these qualities attract men with the same qualities.
@user1245-p1p9 ай бұрын
Young women: invest in your growth in all areas, invest in your career, your education, your physical, emotional, spiritual, and financial health, and focus on yourself and your self-love. What you think about yourself is what is important. YOU are the one assessing men; do not settle or wait for men to assess you and choose you. Value yourself and be authentic; do not play the game of trying to make men or any person happy.
@kathreyn348 ай бұрын
For real! Never be accountable for someone else's emotions! That is their job. Well unless it's a child (like under 8yrs), than as a parent that is your job.
@Echo-u4n8 ай бұрын
Well said!
@dhaarapabari55558 ай бұрын
Well said!
@Ann-eb8dp7 ай бұрын
Well said
@loved59877 ай бұрын
Yasss, fuck his opinion!!!
@gingerlemon8659 ай бұрын
Excellent tips! As a woman I've learned that religion plays a big part too. When she's close to God and puts Him first she is worth keeping and fighting for. We all have a purpose in life beyond just finding someone, getting married, and raising a family. When you put God first He will give you that wholeness you've been searching for. A man can't complete a woman and a woman can't complete a man. Only God can.
@MobiltKonto-ju2mv9 ай бұрын
If she is religious she's more likely to be modest and that's what attracts men, it actually has nothing to do with God.
@spmoran47039 ай бұрын
A modest woman reflects her love for the creator . I do modesty because God wants me to be . I cover what needs covering because God wants it that way. It also shows respect for self and it honours your partner . You do not have to look like a bag lady. Look at some of those Muslim women . They are modest but they are Super Sassy . Showing the booty and the boobs also shows disrespect for the man in your life . Because other men can see the goods too.
@redefinedliving59749 ай бұрын
I beg to differ 😂😂😂 The most religious people are the worst
@deec4119 ай бұрын
Very well said!! God Bless ✨💖✨
@yididyatilahun99759 ай бұрын
Agreed 100%
@streaming53329 ай бұрын
Class is not swearing and behaving like a bogan. Class is being diplomatic and staying above the insults of others.
@ojala55559 ай бұрын
👍Great statement!
@kathleenpopata97189 ай бұрын
Hahaha must be duped by religious doctrinal upbringing judgment upon Bogan person's 🤣
@Calmingrainsounds31639 ай бұрын
I agree ☝️
@LauraParadis5949 ай бұрын
Great summary
@gabriellacindyxoxo5 ай бұрын
i do swearing etc but my quality overall is btter than those trahsy woman who dont swear . means in not classy thhn? weird huh
@wella123459 ай бұрын
i am all of these yet he never hesitated in breaking my heart by going with a lower class woman. still healing...
@ojala55559 ай бұрын
Yes, there are no guarantees in life. Maybe he knew he couldn't live at your level all his life and decided to go back to his familiar dog life.
@SaveTheMessenger9 ай бұрын
Remember it's not only about who you are, it's about what he values. If you chose a man that values superficial traits over depth of character, then you'll always feel inadequate.
@hushpuppies8729 ай бұрын
Ya. I've been there too. It almost feels like men don't want classy women.
@nichole47159 ай бұрын
It's not about how they value you but rather how you value yourself. Rolls Royce doesn't decrease the price of their cars, everyone cannot afford it, but there are those who can ..... Maintain your value, baby girl. Someone will value you one day. Don't discount yourself for someone who doesn't value you.
@bizlady75669 ай бұрын
Be true to you, He showed you what he was about. You were too much woman for him so he went for low hanging fruit instead of the fruit at the top.
@CeciledeLuire9 ай бұрын
i'm not even sure if most of us need to "change" so much-except when change means to really start caring more for our souls, loving life and living according to our values. The rest will follow
@SaveTheMessenger9 ай бұрын
Change that leads to self-growth.
@CeciledeLuire9 ай бұрын
@@SaveTheMessenger okay then i agree.
@dewdrop86269 ай бұрын
Guys should have to change too then.
@CeciledeLuire9 ай бұрын
@@dewdrop8626 many of them yes, but we can only do our share and have values and boundaries ; ) That may make some men want to change for the better .
@JennaHasm9 ай бұрын
@@CeciledeLuireRead the book "Datonomics" by Jon Birger. There aren't enough men that are willing to do self improvement (most of them are stuck playing videogames, gambling, and being deadbeats). This guys is selling you a load of lies. Men don't care about none of those, they just want a cheap prostitute/escort (they'll use a corpse, drugged street walker, a woman unconscious or even their own children, if they can). Don't believe this guy's lies. You're lower than a prostitute in men's eyes. The only women men value is their favourite pornstars.
@katey419 ай бұрын
I respect all the advice here but still it's in the eyes of the beholder, its in their personality preferences.. we can't say that men like these or that, different people, different preferences. Some like shy some find it boring. All I can say as a woman is just BE YOURSELF and whoever accepts you of who u are is your right guy.
@PromoteThings4U8 ай бұрын
I agree.
@meredith72368 ай бұрын
You left out one vital point , spiritual strength.
@gracia1309 ай бұрын
a classy woman shows by their actions, behaviors, characters and their lifestyles. A classy woman also reveals a right upbringings, good moral values and good peers that reflects who they are.
@MagdCastillo9 ай бұрын
Young woman: my best advice: dont lost yourself for a guy... The correct one will love you as you are❤
@daisymontero67659 ай бұрын
Thank you . I needed to see this.
@Calmingrainsounds31639 ай бұрын
Exactly!!👍
@shareenmonga9 ай бұрын
Exactly and keep improving within yourself, raise your own vibration for yourself and you’ll naturally attract high vibration people around you
@spmoran47039 ай бұрын
It is absolutely true .
@reenapalav80009 ай бұрын
Thank you🙏🌹
@pritchettwendy9 ай бұрын
I loved the analogy of eating at a restaurant vs buffet. Very good video. Not sure why it popped up on my feed but I enjoyed it 🤷♀️
@OTurkey249 ай бұрын
This is the best advice coming from a man I’ve heard 2024. Social media has distorted the message we communicate with our outer appearance and superficiality of status. That’s not attraction that leads to the essence of a loving relationship❤
@lameart20419 ай бұрын
Thank you for the video. I just told myself “I’m just 23 and it’s okay that I didn’t learn these values before, my life and life lessons are just getting started, now is the time I get to learn, it’s not “very later “ it’s actually the “right stage/right time””.
@SaveTheMessenger9 ай бұрын
It's the perfect time. You're only 23. Life has just begun.
@mariad.24958 ай бұрын
Hello Ismael. I discovered your channel not much time ago and I'm glad I did. Your content is so interesting, useful, synthetic, gets straight to the point, not too long videous so one can't lose the concentration and you convey authenticity, sincerity. Thank you.
@vartikaguleria57529 ай бұрын
Thank you for your explicit guidance Ismael once again ❤️
@oilnurturelady23479 ай бұрын
I've observed when women are smart, friendly, beautiful, tasteful, hard-working w/aspirations, well-grounded, connected to God, family & friends, (makes friends easily w/long-term friends,) ... sometimes the wrong guys are attracted to this as a "challenge." Not sure how that 'fits,' nor WHY that happens if all you mention above is accurate?
@lynettejwhite9 ай бұрын
A classy women is attractive and admired by many men, but not all are eligible. It is our job to identify the men that also have class!
@kinndah25199 ай бұрын
This happened to me. I was often told I needed to be humbled. Until I learned about men like that and narcissism, I know what to look out for now. They would brag about how it's easy for them to pull women like this bc of their "power of seduction." They became so enamored with winning their challenges that they gave themselves away to their very own target. It's concerning, may God guide them.
@eunice66949 ай бұрын
@@lynettejwhite meaning a guy who is kind and looks after her
@mishtiquelegance3 ай бұрын
That’s true I always attract toxic men
@Secret-sw8ih9 ай бұрын
My new man says I have class! I didn't even realise. But I AM these things. 😍
@Secret-sw8ih9 ай бұрын
Omg. This is so true. I have class!!!!! 🐸
@DebsBabymoon20209 ай бұрын
I subscribed to your channel today. I listen to your videos often and they are well said. 👍😊 I agree with a lot of the info.
@SaveTheMessenger9 ай бұрын
Welcome to our community. Glad to have you here.
@ishasinha55118 ай бұрын
Every thing that you said adds so much to a great and sort after personality. A woman with all these qualities is so respectful and in demand 24 × 7. Your example of a buffet and fancy restaurant is so apt. First time on your channel and already a subscriber. Great job, great insight.🎉
@Dorothy359 ай бұрын
1) Emotional maturity. Can you control your emotions and express them. 2) Pride. How.you take care of your body, home, car. 3) Resilience. Can you keep a clear head in the face of adversity?. 4) Respectful of others 5) Modesty. Leaving things to the imagination physically and emotionally. 6) Kindness. 7) Independence
@staceykersting7058 ай бұрын
YES, this!
@deec4119 ай бұрын
Thank you for all of your informative videos. At 60 I finally met the man of my dreams and appreciate any information to help our budding relationship. ❤❤❤
@ayintovah31329 ай бұрын
Congratulations enjoy
@kimyoung34849 ай бұрын
🎉❤❤
@SuperDflower9 ай бұрын
Let that be me soon…please. Been alone so long
@deec4119 ай бұрын
@@SuperDflower if I might make a suggestion--let go of the want /need for a man and concentrate on being a better and happier you. God Bless ✨💖✨
@SuperDflower9 ай бұрын
@@deec411 Been doing that for years.
@XYZ-qu4yq9 ай бұрын
Brilliant subject and well executed! 👍 Thanks!
@brigitteverstraete43279 ай бұрын
A lot of wisdom coming from a young gentleman. Thank you. Love from Belgium
@sadisticparagon3 ай бұрын
Ismael, BLESS YOUR HEART ❤️ REALLY! You're do not only give Amazing advice, but you are such a gentleman! I watch your videos Daily and I write them down as I do have ADHD and want to ensure that I am remembering every word! Whoever has the means to work with You is So Extremely LUCKY & BLESSED 😊 And Whoever is the lucky lady that gets to be with you, well I Hope she recognizes How Truly LUCKY she is to have such an Amazing man in her life! Keep going and I will recommend your videos to All the ladies I know! Thanks a million for being You and Keep Shinning ✨️
@Goodwillwinoverevil19849 ай бұрын
Wow you know so much despite your age, Ismael. Thank you for this! It's gonna help me heal faster from my break up.
@crikeymos229 ай бұрын
But he know me nothing in reality.
@d1v1n1ti6 ай бұрын
my downfall is definitely clutter... I don't want to lean on my mental disabilities but it's definitely a huge struggle for me and sadly does not reflect on how much I value my things and more on my inability to stay focused with organization. I work on it little by little but hoping if I have all the other qualities I will still be eligible for my person 😬
@lizzetterivera23248 ай бұрын
You’re absolutely right at everything you described👏
@tamaralandreneau80059 ай бұрын
I tell my man, how that he has made me realize that I have never had a really Manly Man! He makes me feel so feminine and secure. ❤
@elle50318 ай бұрын
THIS IS REALLY GOOD...THESE ARE CHARACTERISTICS I WANT IN FRIENDS OR A RELATIONSHIP...
@loveshorses78 ай бұрын
I watched all your videos and you have really pointed out some things i had not realized, things that happened in my last relationship. Thank you so much for doing these videos. I appreciate you, you do a wonderful job explaining and i am so thankful.
@fernandaaraujo3950Ай бұрын
I like to study about femininity and the tips Ismael gives in this video are so valuable and true. The Bible teaches us a bunch of those characteristics, and how investing on yourself as a woman, and not settling for men who have no values, are some of the ingredients for a healthy relationships.
@aramarsarabia81305 ай бұрын
Eh estado analizando tu contenido, y a mi perspectiva, en escencia se trata de una profunda conexión con nuestro amor propio, con nuestro espiritu, la escencia de la vida.... de manera que vivamos desde la conciencia.... Una sabiduría profunda y simple como un niño..... Gracias por compartir tu conocimiento
@rashmigama24178 ай бұрын
Why don't we make some videos on how women assess men's class also. Would be a breath of fresh air.😊
@soniyakapoor1535Ай бұрын
Awesome Advise thank you so much ,God Bless you
@dawns_swan8 ай бұрын
I would like to suggest that you convey this good advice as if you were telling it in an intimate way, as if to your young sister or a woman whose heart is broken. You obviously have that aspect in you and I think you would have more meaningful responses from your audience.😊. Bless you.
@VESNA499 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. Honest, straight forward and informative information. One of the best videos I've watched to describe the traits men look for in a (potential) long-term partner!.
@Moon-vy2yd9 ай бұрын
to your part 3, you SHOULD tell your partner the things that bother you and just communicate that authenticly. People some don't realize the things we do until someone else tells them. Communication is what women want from men.
@katflorez72808 ай бұрын
Excellent points. Ismael is very knowledgeable. Please listen and pay attention
@SreejataChaudhuri9 ай бұрын
Im learning about softer feminine energy. This rings true. But these qualities come from deep inner work and connection to God Also need a man to be equally evolved. In many cases women dont receive the safe space that would aid, bring out these qualities in a woman. Both work hand in hand
@eleenashamen48089 ай бұрын
Me waiting till he winks 🤭 anyway thank you for the valuable words keep it up ❤😊
@emilytaylor10019 ай бұрын
You look hundsom with glasses. Class! Thank you very much for another fantastic wisdom👌🌱☀️😊
@NataliKamp9 ай бұрын
2:28
@Berta-eu9mk9 ай бұрын
Agree 💯 thank God I'm well rounded
@ArtemisWiwa9 ай бұрын
Feminine energy. Grace. 🕊️ Gratitude. Humility. Warmth. 🌷🍃 Love your videos Ismael! 😊🦋 Lluvia de Bendiciones desde Suecia! Endless Blessings from Sweden! Shine on. 🌷🕊️🇸🇪
@moumitabiswas18019 ай бұрын
Thanks Ismael for sharing this list. Very helpful. What if a man is not appreciating an independent woman? Is he a red flag?
@SaveTheMessenger9 ай бұрын
How would you describe an independent woman? And what things is he not appreciating about that?
@missionm89498 ай бұрын
At the end Man will seek for the one whose communication skills are constructive in nature.Due to high divorce rate , man don't want to remarry again ...
@desertrosesc9 ай бұрын
Great advice! Thank you for sharing.
@Gina719549 ай бұрын
My soul mate says I have all this and is smitten with me.I say he is everything I wanted in my ex but couldn't find and I ❤❤ him so much.don't lose hope but keep on believing there are good ones out there.Love is so beautiful and so good.keep on loving those who deserve it.Even those who don't just give them some ❤️ ❤
@KaiyaKN269 ай бұрын
Wow. Thank you. Please make more videos. They're so helpful.
@SaveTheMessenger9 ай бұрын
Thank you, I will.
@KaiyaKN269 ай бұрын
@@SaveTheMessenger Thank you🫡❤️
@Tee-Diva9 ай бұрын
Then I'm good to go, thank you for your video. I don't struggle to live all 7, that is my identity👌🔥
@شاهينشاهين-ص2ق9 ай бұрын
Thank you Ismael
@ReleasewithPhilece9 ай бұрын
Great content for us ladies!!!❤❤❤
@ameryek.96077 ай бұрын
Excellent advice - but hoping for more detail, such as when you gave advice on the air.
@nhuypham72889 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for putting Vietnamese subtitles
@Trisha18079 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@becomingsurrendered81418 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this!!
@annag97548 ай бұрын
absolutely gd knowledge u r giving 👏 thanks ❤
@kathreyn348 ай бұрын
Ha! Hit the nail on the head, basically every complaint my partner has with me, fits into one of these categories! Possibly the only thing i have going for me is resilience... #postpardumdepression
@marvelloustoyosi65798 ай бұрын
Im watching this because a woman of class, who is interested in men, would only care about men of class. Lets see what you have to say.
@MA-iw6og8 ай бұрын
The more relevant problem is finding a man with a class!
@loveshorses78 ай бұрын
Thank you, i have watched all you
@viviankankam97049 ай бұрын
Oh yes I am glad Gomez is here ! ☺️😂🌹🎁 Fantastic!! 😻😻
@JanRoberts-ul4bb9 ай бұрын
Appreciate these thoughts
@sandrahbradley15119 ай бұрын
Very enlightening, thank you. .💜
@QueenOfAnsweredPrayers7498 ай бұрын
This is nice. Thanks for sharing
@JeriMeeks9 ай бұрын
Good advice coming from a very young man. Thank you. ❤❤😊😊
@manalipatel8214 ай бұрын
❤ it was not this difficult in past to find a partner 😊
@makelifematter18967 ай бұрын
I was blessed to have a man I reached out to while going through a wake up call in life meaning my X of 30 yrs found out had been cheating on me should have seen all red flags basically things Ismael mentions on his videos..but tye man from the past has been my healing angel and now he makes me laugh will see if our friendship grows❤Hard part for me I have autoimmune and that is embarrassing for me sadly loosing my pigmatation, make up doesn't help ..
@SEWUESETARKUSU8 ай бұрын
I love this section ❤❤❤
@berlyntinasilva36539 ай бұрын
You all have these and they still cheat :( but thanks for sharing!
@bizlady75669 ай бұрын
Look for character in a man.
@mtngrl58599 ай бұрын
One can never control another person's behavior. However, there are signs when one is dating & if a woman is not lost in the dream of a relationship, character flaws will be evident.
@eunice66949 ай бұрын
Nothing to do with you though. ❤
@VoulezVouz-p8j7 ай бұрын
I have more than a few of the positive traits. I have a few of the negative traits. I'm a mixed class 😀. If anyone walked into my place they noticed I had class that right away. Class is not only all the materials things someone owns. Is the way you carry yourself too . That is my opinion.
@marieestelle7098 ай бұрын
Thanks ❤🎉😊
@DebsBabymoon20209 ай бұрын
I can relate to all of these facts! 😊
@giovannalaiwing28619 ай бұрын
Thanks for your insight
@marysh38409 ай бұрын
That was great. Thank you
@MaiNguyen-lr8zc9 ай бұрын
Thank you my Heavenly Father Jesus Christ for your gift. I have it all those 7 qualities. That's is why my man attracted to me so much. Can I add 1 more traits which is playful nature ( being serious when needed) Thank you for the great advice ❤❤❤
@luxurydoll60079 ай бұрын
Well ❤ said
@selena59799 ай бұрын
I am meeting a man i like should i give him a hand shake or not i like to give a hand shake but i am afraid if he refuse to shake a hand ? Whats ur thoughts
@SaveTheMessenger9 ай бұрын
Be in your feminine energy and let him guide the interaction. Simply smile and say "Hi". Let him decide if he wants to shake your hand or give you a hug.
@genxx27242 ай бұрын
What country are you in? Proper etiquette is that a man shakes a lady’s hand only if she offers it. It is up to the lady to decide whether or not to shake hands, and if she offers her hand, certainly it would be rude for him not to take it. So you should not be concerned about this. If you shake his hand, and you feel like you want to convey more warmth, you can put your other hand on his hand as well. If you both feel good, a little hug can follow. And then you’ll know from now on you hug each other.
@rahmasamir9099 ай бұрын
The man who will loves u truely u dont need to do any efforts with him to be this way or that way just be yourself ❤
@mc75308 ай бұрын
Love thisssss
@NikolaTeslaXP9 ай бұрын
Just scratching the surface of storytelling and video creativity here. VideoGPT made its way into my workflow, discreetly refining my content and adding that extra sparkle.
@karen945589 ай бұрын
Proverbs 31 woman 🥰❤️
@suzaneveiga20238 ай бұрын
These are the traits I look for in a classy man too 🤔
@Ina-Lori-tm2zh9 ай бұрын
One time having lunch w-mom...a older couple said to her...your daughter is refined lady ? (Is that same as class)
@NY100079 ай бұрын
Indeed. Being refined is classy.
@mattanderson66729 ай бұрын
Thanks
@Julie-n6k9 ай бұрын
I wore a t-shirt with fcuk on the beach ,😂😂😂😂oh im so classy🤣🤣🤣
@SherealsPhia9 ай бұрын
I have class my friend is crazy and wild but yet the guys chasing her
@ayintovah31329 ай бұрын
She is being chased by the wrong men don't worry
@realestatecoach86269 ай бұрын
They not real manly men !
@bizlady75669 ай бұрын
They'll chase her but probably won't marry her. Who wants a wife everyone knows😉
@Nitra8139 ай бұрын
Don’t listen to these other ppl. A man will absolutely marry your friend if they value her personality and light heartedness. Men love women they can have fun with. It’s up to her though whether she wants to accept a marriage or not. There are also men out there who prefer a more quiet and reserved woman. You just need to go where the men are they you’re actually attracted to who are actually attracted to YOU. Also learn how to enjoy your own company. Stop worrying about what everyone else is doing. You’re different and that’s okay but don’t play the comparison game.
@nehagupta11668 ай бұрын
There is no comparison of family members with others, we truely love our family members, how we behave with family members is totally different from outside world. U can't say that if someone is behaving in a particular way with outsiders will behave the same way with family members. Family members r the most important for me, for them I can die in less than a second.
@joycewright53867 ай бұрын
Lol well my husband of thirty years told me what attracted him to me was the fact that I had a real job, lived independently, and didn’t wear makeup. Go figure.
@kacythomas13278 ай бұрын
All my class went out the door when I was in survival mode..don't tell me I don't have class. Ass .and whose worried about some man at this point
@VoulezVouz-p8j7 ай бұрын
Same here 😮. I feel you.
@fatimadavis908 ай бұрын
Gotta look pretty, think pretty and then act pretty.
@onyxmoon48438 ай бұрын
100% truth
@AdamJamesEarlyChasebliss-ru8tq9 ай бұрын
⭐️👍Oh wow⭐️👍
@suekremelberg76447 ай бұрын
I have class ❤
@TheGoldenYears519 ай бұрын
Getting to know you stage I'm very shy😊
@user1245-p1p9 ай бұрын
6:38, so if I had abusive parents and toxic parents and did not have a good relationship with them, I would be doomed, and according to this, I would have no class either. I see