7 Tips to Instantly FEEL More Attractive & Confident

[@katec.4361]

My tip is to wear perfume every day, even if you’re just at home by yourself. Scent is powerful. It’s mood-boosting and/or calming. And when you’re feeling down and don’t want to get out of bed to shower, looking forward to wearing a perfume that helps put you in a better mental state can be motivation to get cleaned up. And then you feel even better since you’re nice and fresh. It can also help with focus. There’s science behind wearing the same perfume you wear for studying while taking a test to improve information recall.

[@DansonforJoy]

Enjoyed this so much! My ten-year-old daughter was watching with me, and you sparked some VERY good conversation, as she is becoming a young lady and beginning to pay attention to things like this. She laughed when she looked at her nails as you mentioned chipped polish. ;)

[@bethanyleonardo]

Oh I love that you both got to watch it! My niece is 10 and it’s such a fun age 🥰

[@ajohonly3721]

So sweet 🥰

[@nabilahossainbhuiyan5050]

Good 😊

[@jenniferweston]

I shower at night because I don’t like getting into bed if I don’t, but I think the act of washing my face and putting on skincare has the same wake-up effect as showering in the morning 👍🏻 These are good tips, I think jewellery and makeup are what help me feel confident, as well as dressing “up” (as opposed to super casual).

[@NoodlePassion]

Great tip cause i shower at night too!

[@toosense]

Yes, for me jewelry is definitely icing on the cake! :)

[@madikiestherkhiangte9884]

Yep i took bath every night, i feel dirty without it.

[@maggierillo6233]

@@madikiestherkhiangte9884

[@user-nm6dr4uy3d]

The tip about blush has been such a game changer for me. I went and got myself a hydrating mineral lip & cheek tint. It makes my face come alive. I don't really like to wear makeup all that much, and a nice rosy tint just takes the no-makeup-makeup-look up a notch!

[@Rachel-yr7ch]

Love the subtle birds chirping in the background...really adds to the aesthetic of the channel and promotes a calming feeling when watching your videos

[@jana3859]

Nice tips :) Don’t forget about the power of posture and positive self talk!

[@coffeetea8577]

Talk about timing! i’ve been feeling a little down lately because of my acne and how I’ve tried so many remedies for it but it doesn’t work. I’m due to start Accutane soon too and I’m nervous about how much worse my skin is going to get before it gets better, but it’s important that my skin doesn’t suffer for my overall physical and mental health. I’m trying to focus now on getting adequate hydration and gentle skincare so that I can pamper my skin as much as possible before starting treatment.

[@bethanyleonardo]

wishing you all the best during this time, lovely ❤️

[@alexandrasmith7682]

Remember, a lot of people to on to have beautiful skin after a few weeks. Concentrate on the long term benefits .... The next few weeks will fly by!!

[@mutintamudimba6185]

Try changing your diet as well

[@thedepoqueen]

Accutane was the best decision I ever made. You’re going to be so happy in the end. ❤

[@IWillSayItLouder]

Hey there, as a nutritionist reading your comment, just wanted to mention that zinc can really help acne, especially hormonal acne. Zinc picolinate is the most absorbable form of zinc, and it’s very affordable. I always suggest trying this supplement first for a few weeks to see if it helps clear things up. Can start with 30-50mg and make sure you eat w a good meal so you don’t get nauseous (as minerals can sometimes do on an empty stomach). Also ask your doctor or parents before beginning, but honestly most people with acne are deficient in zinc so it’s a good conversation to have. Anyhow, best of luck to you!

[@clarissetorres2435]

These tips are realistic, practical and doable. Theyre not cliche at all!! The quality of your contents are getting more and more valuable ♥️

[@bethanyleonardo]

I really appreciate that! ❤️

[@motherof1132]

I take a shower to relax at the end of the day. I never leave the house without lipstick. That pop of color changes your look. I totally agree with undergarments. I do my nails once a week. I give my nails a break from nail polish twice a week. Rings are wonderful.

[@NicoleIleneGreensher]

Drinking water is such a important tip, and it really does make a huge difference in how the skin looks, the face literally looks fuller, less acne, and more energy as well. And also in the summer, with the heat super important to drink a lot of water!

[@ksubasinghe]

Bethany, your channel is slowly becoming my happy place! 💖

[@bethanyleonardo]

Oh I’m so happy to hear that!

[@dishadeka]

What I like about your videos are the feature of plants they add an added certain cosy charm apart from your beautiful personality❤

[@bethanyleonardo]

oh thanks! We considered selling them before our move but ended up taking them with us even though they were cumbersome to bring. SO happy we kept them, it truly made the new place feel like home

[@ashlynnkaplan680]

These are tips I can share with my soon to be 10-year-old, thank you! They are also simple and practical for anyone. The Burt’s Bees Pomegranate lip balm is exceptional because it’s balmier than the others and has a very minimal red tint I can really bring some color to your face without looking like lipstick! It especially great for those of us with skin tone color lips. Good laundering practice can go along way! I don’t use a steamer, however, for silk clothing because it is all too easy to burn. Instead, I will dunk the silk garment in Coldwater and drip dry in the shower! Silk dries quickly and this method renders it just about wrinkle free! So I do this between washes to keep the items refreshed and minimize how often I need to wash them, ensuring longevity too.

[@LifeWithElyse]

Yes to the steamer. I keep mine in a wrack by my bed to remind me every time before I even put my clothes on. I also try to have most of my clothes already steamed before I put them back in the closet or after getting laundry done. Great tips! 💕

[@bethanyleonardo]

You are a closet hero 🙌 much respect

[@usedgucci9604]

I’ve finally started doing the same... I’m a real adult now 😂 also now that I have one I can’t imagine life without a steamer

[@theezzie]

A steamer was honestly a life saver in college. One of my roommates had one and let us borrow it. It was great.

[@rosyapplekitchen635]

Bethany I don’t know what it is but you are so mysterious and it’s such an attractive trait. It is so unexplainable but makes you very interesting. Love the content and your style is my definition of perfection.

[@hinnaparmar]

These are some amazing tips that I am definitely going to use! Sometimes we all need a little something to make ourselves feel our best 💕

[@bethanyleonardo]

So true!

[@beverleyroberts1025]

Really good tips Bethany. When you just put that little extra effort in, it does pay off. And if you feel more confident that portrays on the outside. I actually think you have a better day when you feel good about yourself. 😊

[@caramelgirl6962]

I just wanted to say your channel is wonderful as yourself You are so loved

[@CodiBear]

Love the tip about using lip balm on cuticles / nail bed! I've never thought about that! Totally gonna start doing it

[@bethanyleonardo]

Absolutely! It seems much more hydrating than lotions in my opinion. Hope you're doing well and enjoying Nashville!

[@BellaBankes]

Thank you Bethany :) I prefer to shower at night, and get into bed fresh and clean. Then in the morning, it shaves off so much time getting ready for the day!

[@pamelanoya4776]

Great tips! And the background music OMG your voice 😍 i hope i could listen to the full version

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks Pamela! ✨

[@andersdottir1111]

I live in the sub-tropics so shower at night, as I could never imagine getting into bed dirty and then again in the morning. I also wash my hair every second day as it tends to get greasy, when I was younger I washed it every day! Sunday afternoons used to be a ritual for me to do the week’s ironing- all the school uniforms and clothing for my husband and myself, now I hardly have anything to iron.

[@thetravellingwitch8047]

The tip about underwear is soo true!

[@stupor_mundi]

Great tips

[@asokurocat8849]

I was watching this video with my mom and we were both amazed by your beauty! very unique.

[@katec.4361]

I just got the Steamery steamer for my birthday and I love it! Thank you for featuring it. It’s so easy to keep plugged, and has a small footprint. It looks nice, too, so it lives on my desk.

[@bananachip92]

I have definitely noticed that having a lip balm and hand lotion nearby help a lot when I'm out and about!!

[@sarahbreisch4750]

Very good tips and good ones to share with teens. Morning showers are not within my grasp (I have a very large family and one bathroom), but I absolutely cannot start my day well without washing my face with a good gentle soap like goat's milk based, and lotion, and brushing my hair. If I do makeup it's even better, but waking up your face and the feeling of not just being "presentable" but doing something good for yourself is so important!

[@annleci372]

Yey! You're back! I was wondering if you can also make a video about the plants that you have at home!?? I love plants and I see some of them are same as what I have at home. xx

[@bethanyleonardo]

would absolutely love talking through them! It might be a long video haha 😜

[@annleci372]

It would be..haha! Please keep doing what you're doing. Your videos are amazing! I literally bought everything hair essentials/routine you had in one of your videos..and I love it!!! :)

[@priyankadsa3488]

Such beautiful hair

[@deborahmichele]

Nice video; I love the subject matter. I understand what you're saying about a shower, but to me, much more confidence building would be: Exercising every day and/or doing some kind of breathing exercises. I think they perform a similar function to your shower, but with much more profound and long lasting benefits that build over time. Love your look today as well - very French!

[@MAvila744]

Hi Bethany - I loved your tips! Wearing pretty undergarments is a good one. Thanks for giving us something to think about. 🤗

[@thebeauty_minimalist]

I love seeing these types of videos from you Bethany 💜 such beautiful details throughout 😍 my confidence boost lately has been wearing lip liner and taking time to style my hair.

[@luxuryglow]

So true! Thanks !

[@rmmr1168]

Going to buy a dress for my birthday dinner and am planning on rewatching some of the masterclass today! Plus maybe treat myself to some purchases to complete my Elevated Basics sheet.

[@bethanyleonardo]

absolutely delighted to hear that! Happy birthday 😘

[@sierracockrell616]

I definitely needed this video. Went to a salon to dye my hair and loved the color. Instead of another appointment I tried dying it myself and .... I have been down in the dumps over the outcome - a red ketchup hue. I'm usually very sunny and confident in my demeanor. But ofc this hair dye job has me wanting to hide under a paper bag ( not like me at all). These tips definitely makes me feel better.

[@divyapuranam5881]

Missed you Bethany! Looking beautiful as always ❤️

[@bethanyleonardo]

aw thank you!

[@leprechaun1281]

I've been breaking down lately because I'm not mentally stable, I took a week break from social media and only opening youtube incase I'm bored. And your video pops up in my notification. Tbh I'm in the verge of crying because it wasn't easy for me dealing with insecurities and I feel disgusting and gross everytime. I'm not really okay for now but I'm helping my self. Thank you for helping us too

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thank you for sharing this with me, I hope these small tips can be helpful. Sometimes when I’m feeling like I’m spiraling, it’s the little things that feel too big, but they start to make a difference. Your feelings are valid and I’m rooting for you ❤️

[@ninac.5921]

I like these so much! Because the emphasis is on yourself, it‘s small things that most likely other people won‘t notice (the je ne sais quoi effect) but you know it and it makes you feel put together and confident!

[@alexandrasmith7682]

I am a Medical Biochemist ..... Be careful how much lip balm you are using as they can cause your lip health to become unbalanced and can actually dry your lips out more - in fact, it can become a vicious circle. Great piece! Keeping your overall standards neat and fresh really makes a massive difference to how people perceive you. They tend to approach you more, smile at you etc.

[@bethanyleonardo]

thanks for the tip!

[@sarahbreisch4750]

I have noticed this-- usually i only use a beeswax based balm when going out in wind or cold. water and lots of healthy fats in my diet keeps the chap away for me.

[@queenaleksa]

The best thing to put on the lips is vaseline/aquafor/healing ointment on the lips. It doesn't cause any unbalanced and derms recommend it all the time

[@Aileenwasright]

@@queenaleksa Seriously tho. Good ol Aquaphor has consistently kept my lips moisturized more than any natural or fancy lip balm Ive ever tried.

[@ellypretty]

I heard this before. What do you recommend? I use lip balm everyday.

[@maeavekgregorios4300]

Your voice is music to my ears

[@Dipanjanakusary]

The video came just when I was feeling down and very irritated with myself and I needed some tips so atleast I could Feel confident or at least fake it till I made it 😃thanks Bethany!

[@bethanyleonardo]

We’ve all been there! So happy to hear it came at a good time ❤️

[@lauraelainedesilets1189]

I appreciate this quite a lot! I like a beauty hack that says just to put a little vaseline on your eyelashes and curl it with a curling tool. I also like to put a little bit of body spray on. But everything that you said is really great as far as just feeling more put together. Taking a shower is really good anytime if you're feeling down because it kind of breaks that mood off. Really enjoy your content thank you very much and have a blessed day

[@genzvideos]

Self confidence

[@sethrintatu]

I love this video and watch it when I get ready in the morning 😊

[@abtoschner2952]

I've been so loving your channel lately. You produce amazing content, and are such a beautiful person. Good job!

[@evybethm5538]

Thank you for the tips, Looking lovely as always ❤️.

[@monaazim7863]

Thanks for the great tips! I always look forward to your informative videos. You rock!! ❤👍

[@shannonwarren6200]

I just want to say thank you for this video ❤Also your hair looks amazing!

[@WhistleKate]

I hear you on the chapped lips - I know this is totally unsolicited, but Laneige Lip sleeping mask has changed my chapped lips! It’s so amazing, I recommend it! TJMaxx often carries it too :)

[@katinalam2263]

Love this video! Thank you for the tips you shared.😊 I hope you’re doing well!💗

[@bethanyleonardo]

so happy to hear it! :) Yes, doing very well! Hope you are too, Katina ✨

[@katinalam2263]

@@bethanyleonardo I’m doing well, thank you! I hope you have a great day!😊✨

[@CC-kk8yh]

💜 Please only use hyaluronic acid when it's humid or rainy, or as directed by your dermatologist. It works like a humectant which draws water from the surroundings, sometimes the nearest source is from your own body giving you the reverse of the desired effect.

[@ellypretty]

This hair 🤩🤩🤩 Gorgeous, gorgeous!!!

[@kataliza8693]

thankyou..

[@mariarosariosilentvlogs]

This for me is very therapeutic ✨

[@mariaberkenkamp3718]

Thank you for the amazing tips. I’m a mother of 3 (11-15 y/o) I was wondering if you can make a video for moms on the go kind of thing. Every day outfit, that can be used also for game night to last minute pta meeting. TIA

[@bethanyleonardo]

Love that idea 🥰 it’s fun to hear about this moment in your life, Maria!

[@igobyjesse]

you’re voice is enchanting, calm, poised, elegant, and enchanting 🤎

[@justachannel4760]

You have no idea how badly I love your hair

[@SabbigalAS]

Thanks Bethany. Great content. I love the hopping in a shower to start my day off great. That's a big one. Will we be getting anymore flower bouquet making videos soon? I loved the last one and have been looking forward to another. For lipbalms, the only one that I've found so far that beats any other for me, is Live Beautifully's Strawberry Rose lipbalm. I absolutely adore it. Super long-lasting moisture and incredibly hydrating.

[@msdoanne]

I love videos like this Bethany. You are obviously very successful doing your passion and helping others - can you speak more to how you stay positive, consistent, happy, you know, all the things that allow us to feel more fulfilled in our lives? Thank you for all the content I love all of it

[@bethanyleonardo]

Oh so happy you loved it! I certainly am not those things all the time, but I’m happy to share what keeps me positive in the future ❤️

[@msdoanne]

@@bethanyleonardo wonderful looking forward to all of it!!

[@quitelyxie2893]

Thank you for this new video 🥺💕 Really appreciate this content 🤗

[@bethanyleonardo]

so happy to hear it! 😘😘

[@quitelyxie2893]

@@bethanyleonardo 🥰

[@jasminetyxo]

Lovely!!! I always love your tips I find them so helpful and realistic 💕🤗

[@brendaceciliadesigns]

Love this kinds of videos! Thank you 🙌🏻♥️

[@dhenukita]

Yay! New video! Loved this as usual. So on point. 💜✨

[@iwonakiely1915]

Your vocals at the end of the video... 🤩🤩 Is there more to come?

[@bethanyleonardo]

yes, more to come! our friend James produces music and so happy that he put that together!

[@iwonakiely1915]

Can't wait to hear it.. you sound amazing

[@Sera_Vaz]

Coconut oil works wonders for chapped lips and pigmentation!

[@yumkhamthoibichanu3278]

Great vedio , love it. All ur vedio is very helpful. By the way, I shower every early morning to pray God , in our culture ( manipur, meitei)is compulsary to shower in morning. But in Evening b4 to bed i shower for fresh ....

[@FrenchGrey]

Tips that actually work !🌸

[@zenaidarodz3353]

Love the couch

[@ibrahimlovesblink]

she is so pretty

[@mariawelling4194]

Hi Bethany 👋, Water is amazing but try using electrolytes as well.We tend to loose nutrients when we drink excessive water..Love!

[@ayianmasudgamingchannel6531]

Most confident person in my life

[@WanWan-mu2rl]

I love all your videos very informative❤️❤️❤️

[@andry4439]

Have faith in you and you will feel confident.

[@nasreenh7888]

I'm pregnant so i really appreciate this.

[@carolinebevans]

will you be doing another flower bouquet video soon? ☺️ it’s one of my hobbies too, loved it!

[@roopalideotale9863]

Nice tips!! Can you pls share details of the top you are wearing?

[@lucyinthesky7923]

love it Bethany !!!!

[@farahmansour5665]

So the background music is actually your voice? Just when I thought this channel couldn't get any better

[@bethanyleonardo]

hehe yep! 🤗💛

[@sierrabarr1702]

These are wonderful tips! Thank you for the reminder and for sharing. I also can attest to the wonderful brand of Negative underwear, their products and brand as a whole have been truly lifechanging for me, I can finally feel confidently myself after finding undergarments that truly work for me, and I'm so grateful for that.

[@bethanyleonardo]

Love hearing that it makes a difference and that you love the brand!

[@pittdog4496]

Betheny we need to see u more often pls more videos

[@bethanyleonardo]

working on it! xo

[@ΙωάνναΠαγανιά-ν6ψ]

Thank you!

[@veronicaidatpl]

Thanks for your sharing 🎉

[@ashita7949]

Love your content ♥️

[@bethanyleonardo]

thanks Ashita 😘❤️

[@uttot7455]

Loved your content. psych2go is the same narrator as you ma'am?

[@sehrish1203]

Beautiful hair

[@taresy6789pp]

be an good human being with good intentions

[@grazielearaujo1325]

Thank you ❤️✨

[@erisiabatto]

Top tips!

[@motherof1132]

I always leave my iron out. Then I don’t feel so lazy. Don’t forget to moisturize

[@Sara-tn6tx]

I loved these tips sooo much and enjoyed the video 💕💕 can anyone please tell me where to get the same bracelet as bethany's or the name of the brand that would be awesome 🤩 ❤️❤️

[@Dliz_empire]

Nice

[@emanmahmoud9439]

You look gorgeous

[@rufakha]

I love listening to you ❤️

[@SOMEOFMAAZ]

Quite different here we shower two times a day... ❤😀

[@mii-chin143]

I got a steamer for my 23rd birthday to easily have my clothes looking nice! Never been very confident with the iron sinc eI'm afraid I'll burn or damage my clothes, especially those delicate ones! But with the steamer I don't tihnk that even I can screw it up xD

[@puneetjindal6426]

Right.. I m idoit.. I be confident.. Atlest I m a good person..

[@ajohonly3721]

Steamer is the absolute lifesaver 😅. Thanks to KZbin university 🙏🏿.

[@nayeayangda2199]

Love you ❤️

[@bethanyleonardo]

❤️✨

[@lucyt2999]

Would you be able to do a YT short on how to use a steamer? I bought one but find that it’s not nearly as effective as an iron, so I must be doing something wrong