6 Behaviors That Make Someone Chase You

Are you looking for dating advice on how to make someone chase you? Psychologists and researchers have long been developing studies to find out what exactly it is that makes someone attractive. Good looks? Pleasant voice? Positive attitude? While these are goals anyone would want to achieve, indeed they are attractive qualities, as we desire them for ourselves - what about the little habits we can develop that will make us more attractive? Behaviors that can make a potential partner admire you so much they’re willing to chase after you?
#attraction #crush #dating
If you find this video helpful and want to learn more about what makes you attractive, we have a video on that as well: • 8 Things That Make You...
Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor: Morgan Franz
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Tris Canimo
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
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[@Psych2go]

How many BTS references can you spot? Comment below :)

[@mathshascalculus725]

holdon, I’ll get my sisters

[@athena_the_avocado]

@@mathshascalculus725 same 💀

[@melveljocaitlinn.amarillo8844]

Oof

[@felopatermelika2040]

ARMY?

[@bu1t3rfly17]

*two weeks ago*

[@JKAZ_M]

If you steal someone's phone, they're almost 100% guaranteed to chase you.

[@_serenity3298]

🤣🤣

[@cheesebutter9531]

Who are you who is so wise in the way science

[@ttinbibuddy5083]

good way

[@tienkemargareta5721]

this is the most accurate😂😂

[@fabianugalde3789]

But then they will kill you afterwards 😂

[@wisdom-for-all]

You must first be that person you want others to chase. Be such a beautiful soul that people crave your vibes 🖖

[@nightangalesweet9239]

@Old dudes wisdom I hope you are healthy and away from Corona. I have a question🙋. I have heard to be the best version of yourself. Also opposite attracts and not sameness of the person. If I am talkative I will be attracted towards introverts. If I am a clumsy person I will attract towards the orderly person and so on..😷

[@divaowu7469]

@Emely ! I NEED SЕЕХ ღ*GO MY PROF!LE* ღ, wtf is that name????? Pls change your name, thank you!

[@TheBontekraai]

But isn't that seeking external motivation? Just be yourself seems better to me, and others will like you for it.

[@nicolefuentes8279]

Indeed :)

[@nehanair5552]

True

[@mangotangolango]

"hang out with a group of friends" ...we are going to pretend we didnt hear that

[@chatonsacrement7454]

"You're more attractive if you hang out in groups." So I'm screwed, I always do things alone.

[@mangotangolango]

@@chatonsacrement7454 bold of them to assume that we have friends

[@skaldlouiscyphre2453]

@@mangotangolango I find cardboard cutouts of celebrities work almost as well. Wanna borrow mine?

[@rashmisharma9711]

@@skaldlouiscyphre2453 😂

[@andrewlerdard-dickson5201]

This is once was called the " l am going to sleep with all your friends affect ! "........ and only those that find you more attractive when you are in a group.....is refured to as "FOMO", Fear Of Missing Out.....So it is Bullock's that they find anyone more attractive in a group at all, the trueth is the only thing that the find attractive about viewing a group of friends of the same gender.....is their desire to manipulate and sleep with certain members of that group......so this video is actually saying you are more attractive if you sleep around with as many people as possible with out any commitment......yeah sure and why not just make a video based on implying false misinformation !

[@fz1792]

I like how every k-drama director has this knowledge

[@spoon4732]

Clumsy girl secretary = marrying rich COLD ceo of a big company

[@Mazechan-3]

@@spoon4732 Yess... Same shit in every drama.... 🙄🙄 A dumb poor girl and a rich CEO guy

[@ladythmilin]

Aahahah!

[@littlebodybigheat4737]

Lol

[@shailzabhati7248]

Haa ha! true

[@zuko1569]

1. Attractiveness _Oh wait that's not a behavior_

[@pcdlee6536]

wtf are these replies bro

[@Ash_Wen-li]

You can learn to behave more attractive. Body language, posture, eye contact, voice ect

[@aestthelicx4408]

@@Ash_Wen-li my bones says no

[@Me-th8go]

Find your honor yet

[@maple_latte2669]

@@Me-th8go 😂😂😂😂😂😂atla fan 😂😂😂😂

[@aliciadeleseleuc]

Summary: - Compliment others -Spend more time around your crush -Play copycat and mimic -Say their name often -Be capable and intelligent, but still human -Hang out with a group of friends

[@dleenedouglasdd]

My crush stays like in a whole other country *cries in lonely

[@vreep7497]

But still human? Does that mean i can't sell my soul to demons?

[@--alvie---3000]

@@vreep7497 you really a mood lol

[@peggz223]

Thanks g

[@npaul-]

i already do that tho :cryemoji:

[@wysteriaherr8306]

I'm 40 years old, and this channel teaches me more life skills than I ever learned in school.

[@cheesebutter9531]

That is good right?

[@wysteriaherr8306]

@@cheesebutter9531 that is definitely good

[@midnight-cn7vd]

Wow really?

[@wysteriaherr8306]

@@midnight-cn7vd yes....if you are in school now, I urge you to listen to these videos... really listen and put into practice what they are teaching you... especially when it comes to communication skills.

[@midnight-cn7vd]

@@wysteriaherr8306 ok I will and thank you💛

[@candiedbakery3832]

"Hang out with a group of friends" Anxiety: I think not

[@whatshouldisayifvaskmeforc5217]

Same--

[@chimjinxii2130]

My introverted ass can't

[@chimjinxii2130]

@@whatshouldisayifvaskmeforc5217 hi army💜

[@whatshouldisayifvaskmeforc5217]

@@chimjinxii2130 hi💜💜💜

[@lks806]

Also corona: *are you sure about that?*

[@zaynrobert1110]

interviewer : so tell me about yourself Me : spills coffee you're hired

[@somasengupta902]

🤣🤣🤣

[@toujama7715]

A good one🤣

[@water0627]

not even funny

[@cathyt451]

@@water0627 it's just a joke lol

[@water0627]

Cathy Tobing no

[@agr0nianTV]

You forgot a big one, be yourself. If you're using a fake persona then even if you get your crush then things will not turn out well after all the relationship would be formed on a lie.

[@fredericmoresmau4303]

Moving to Auckland. If they don't they wasn't interested to start out.....

[@spookyho5994]

truee

[@Halcyon1997]

Think its also important to mention, you gotta be your best self. Be who you want to be, but be true to You. It's imperative though, that you do not sacrifice your values to get someone to like you, be honest about how you feel about things, don't compromise, don't settle... Sorry for the book lol

[@cheesebutter9531]

Who are you who is so wise in the way of science

[@Jords250]

Being myself is the problem here

[@ramen24_]

“Hangout with a group of friends” *cries in lonely*

[@wollythewolf3995]

*Cries in relatable*

[@valkeitos]

Cries in here for you

[@wollythewolf3995]

@@valkeitos tanks

[@rosina29]

Awww **hugs** not any more :)

[@wollythewolf3995]

@@rosina29 big tanks

[@aleyandrarazellyn8340]

"You making some mistakes still make you look capable and intelligent" Then there's me looking like an idiot

[@MsMegamom]

You are probably a lot smarter than you think.

[@sorohye]

Shit I got straight A on exam yet I’m a blur type of person and people always said that how can I get A hahaha

[@cristinabrando5924]

is it just me or does anyone else find someone way more attractive when they’re by themselves rather than when they are in a group of people?

[@amymhchan1584]

@Cristina Brando I agree

[@Bioniclema90]

I prefer if they were mostly by themselves. It's WAY more difficult getting close to them if they're always with their friends.

[@ashercoleman-smith8562]

me 2

[@marijajanicijevic8211]

Maybe because the people you found more attractive alone were like that because they were pretending to be someone else in the group. I know fakeness is repellant in many cases (regardless of the gender, both men and women are less attractive when being fake), for me at least.

[@avantikaroy5146]

I'm the same but I've always noticed it's the complete inverse. Peeps always like ppl who ate in popular groups. Idk why.

[@amornratsaengsun800]

I swear her voice is so relaxing-

[@notatallraj]

I can't agree more

[@ghostlysketche8384]

Ikrrrr

[@ravenouscheese4400]

Much agreed

[@jennadrenth1418]

not me falling asleep to it

[@ammarfarw7052]

Fax its like listening to ASMR and learning about psychology in the same time

[@michellemonroe-rz2di]

Me to my crush: you’re so nice and energetic Crush: *runs away in horror*

[@BtsArmy-pr7fg]

My crush runs away if he sees me coming in his directions 😕

[@Bioniclema90]

Every woman I've ever had feelings for runs away freaking terrified at the slightest hint of anything more than friendship.

[@sansadrake4133]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@sansadrake4133]

@@Bioniclema90 😂😂😂 not good...you must be doing something wrong

[@ZIATVofficial]

HAHAHAHA

[@meology8510]

btw, complimenting others DOES actually make a difference. I was the only one in my class who called my new physics teacher beautiful for the past few weeks and today she told me that she likes my personality and thinks i'm kind and a good person. but remember to be genuine in your complimenting :)

[@reddragon6174]

I don't mean to be rude but, at what age did you say this to your teacher?

[@Sad_Baguette420]

"Be capable and intelligent but still human" *Confused cheeseburger noises*

[@athena_the_avocado]

I CHOKED- 💀

[@greatwavefan397]

h a m b u r g e r

[@listorin6314]

Are you my hamburger in roblox?

[@greatwavefan397]

@@listorin6314 no

[@listorin6314]

@@greatwavefan397 k

[@panikz8754]

“Hangout with a group of friends” me: they fall in love with my friends...

[@astoldbynickgerr]

right 😅

[@beth.594]

At least you have friends...

[@seinshwehtoo3581]

Un relateable I have friends but i never go out

[@cheesebutter9531]

I can already feel the pain

[@moochieboochie5262]

Wait... Which friends?

[@veganroastedturkey]

I can't believe I can chase food, even though it has no human qualities at all!

[@Mariue8553]

It doesn't lie...because it can't talk😂

[@heliosw8068]

WHAT IF THE FOOD IS CHASING YOU

[@Usoda_]

Our ancestors did that a lot

[@iyaiiya-wawg3657]

Taste is enchanting. Food doesn't have to talk when it makes love to your tongue.

[@fahmida9533]

😂

[@youknowwhoyouare11]

I spent more time with my crush to the point he started acting like me and I acted more like him. But he never saw me as anything more than a friend. Even though we didn't end up together, I see that as a win

[@stewartmarques1485]

If you actually confessed your feelings maybe it would of gone somewhere 🤔

[@bananian]

@@stewartmarques1485 Yeah but girls never do that.

[@sorohye]

@@bananian yeah I agree and please don’t ever confess to a boy (from experience) unless you’re as beautiful as an angel

[@ayumimaxinerallos2824]

@@sorohye awieee. You can owe it to yourself to at least be honest with what you're feeling towards a guyyo. If the person don't find it well, give yourself a pat for the confidence to confess. Patpat.

[@phillinedenniezejulle]

Such a beautiful mindset 💙

[@user-tw9bk9is4l]

Am I the only one that thinks the animations are so c u t e 💛

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much! We're glad this video has helped you in some way! Which behaviors would you like to try on your crush?

[@bekaeast7346]

@@Psych2go have friends 😖

[@jak.cr1ym]

@@bekaeast7346 :(

[@bekaeast7346]

@@jak.cr1ym haha I do I just thought it was funny & was the first thing to pop in my head. I’m gay in a southern state so I’m auto friends with every gay around here ahhaha

[@jhashope2398]

Your not alone they are sooo cute

[@lemon_boii1074]

This is why I'm afraid of liking someone. Its literally all in my head.

[@rosiepestel7836]

So true

[@senpaiguapo]

Because of all the pain it leaves behind

[@pokemono4699]

I saw you in my dream lol

[@lyrical4347]

True

[@noelgaming8727]

Same...i dont wanna fall in love again...cause i experienced.it...its very hard to move on🙂

[@kimyejin3802]

"Spend more time around your crush" **covid joined the chat** **quarantine joined the chat** **social distancing joined the chat** **quarantine added modules in the chat**

[@-r-3656]

Socially awkward joined the chat.

[@VictoriaWilder95]

I just entered the chat hehe

[@TehAntares]

2020: *Slowmode is enabled.*

[@VictoriaWilder95]

New comments have been temporarily suspended. Please wait 8 working days before responding.

[@Andrewalten]

Lol

[@syk2973]

It doesn't matter how many of your vidoes i watch, i'll end up dying alone

[@bookenjoyer3970]

I’m sure you’ll find someone, just takes the right person to come along

[@xinhuichen8849]

😂 same

[@thebatman.]

Everybody has different preferences, so I can basically guarantee there’s someone for you out there. It’s just a fact. Also, sometimes you have to fail alot before you can succeed

[@esthervip]

hold onto hope

[@LicensedGuitarist2000]

@@thebatman. there's nothing for anyone.

[@ClipThat10]

Me to my crush : your friend is lovely My crush : go and date her then

[@rowantaylor335]

this happened to my friend once and they actually are dating now

[@me-eh1zt]

R.I.P.

[@faivana_]

AND its at 69 😏

[@ClipThat10]

Thx bbys for 140+ likes plz pray for me 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

[@maraalexandrasuditu5989]

it means she likes u. tell her asap or she might lose feelings bcs she thinks you like her friend. TELL HER

[@ewruuweeddd7528]

I really like the way she speaks, so peacefully makes me feel so calm

[@imnotyouraveragecuteduck646]

Ugh ikr. She has the best voice.

[@charleslu8264]

Truuuuu!!!

[@HaziD]

And she's super pretty

[@oliviafung6939]

Yesssss!!! I like it so much

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much!

[@adfka.algie1011]

Funny thing is that a few months ago, I actually tried to spend as much time w/ my crush as possible a I said his name often while nobody else did (they called him nicknames he didn't like). And well, now we're dating 😁.. So it worked for me

[@CoM_tE]

Oh my gosh, I'm so envious

[@myainx]

Why does your comment say 22hrs ago...

[@gerry7860]

bruh i call people nicknames they don’t like at first, but eventually, they get used to it. only do this to people i’m close with tho

[@astrophile_0721]

Well good for you 😊

[@rasnabegum7749]

Myapooh 1157 Early access probably

[@meikme]

Me: " Sarah is just so great. She's so nice to everyone. She's adorable." My crush: "can you hook me up with her" Me: 🙂😀

[@sapphirec_5689]

✨*pain*✨

[@roses2170]

I felt this first hand ✋🥲

[@swagataojha6647]

😂😭

[@carolinerajkumar]

I'm Sarah 👀😂😂😂😂😂

[@bethanyhays2926]

Story of my life.

[@dailydoseofmedicinee]

Here's how - without playing hard to get Build a high-quality, exciting life. Don't stop being single. Raise your standards for love. Don't give him boyfriend benefits if he's not your boyfriend. Judge him only on his actions towards you.

[@SomeSCP--withInternetaccess]

guess I can’t get chased down an alleyway. I’m empty for love, I barely have love for myself lol.

[@jehakim4067]

I don’t know about that last one, you should also look at if the person you like is an overall good person and not just a good person to you specifically. Otherwise you might find that, after some time together, they start to treat you poorly or worse. Finding a person who is genuinely a good person is important.

Good, solid advice for females. Men have it somewhat easy. All we really need to do is take time paying attention to make sure she's not a psycho. I must urge both genders to be genuine and not pretend to be something that they're not. In the long run that works in the best interest for both. .

[@Ash_Wen-li]

The last one is questionable. If someone is good to you and treats everyone else poorly, the they are most likely faking it or toxic

[@visit_vaticancatholic_dot_com]

There’s no such thing as “boyfriend benefits.” It’s called HUSBAND benefits. People need to fear God and be just and pure. By the way, do you know how many “long term boyfriends” a woman can have before she’s 30? Then women stupidly wonder why no one wants to marry them. Body count does matter, even if the number was accrued in a “long term” context. I realize people will think this is politically incorrect and “backward” but the simple truth is that sex is reserved for marriage. Don’t give husband benefits to boyfriends is the correct way. Fear of God, self-respect and common sense will help us to be our best. (Men shouldn’t have high body counts either and should also be virgins before marriage. I had to add that before I am accused of misogyny etc.) Even if a woman were involved in one “solid” relationship for 5-15 years, there’s the old saying that goes “why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” Don’t EVER be anyone’s fool (“cow”). Visit vaticancatholic.com for crucial information about why it’s necessary for eternal salvation to become a traditional Catholic. Take care.

[@Nintentoad125]

1. You pretend youre the gingerbread man. If you shout "can't catch I'm the gingerbread man!" and run away, if someone chases you, this might be a sign your being chased

[@a_raichub]

Perfection.

[@a_raichub]

@@imnot1291 Likely a bot.

[@greatwavefan397]

_I don't think you have any idea... how FAST I really am._

[@ArtofBrandonTruster]

This is stupid enough to possibly work! By that, I mean it is smart. Too bad I hate humans and no longer desire a mate or, I would give it a try.

[@Dee010s]

Ralph, is that you?

[@lunamadz1983]

The two types of ppl watching this video: Those hoping to get ppl to chase them And those hoping to stop doing things that make certain ppl chase you

[@gamerfreak9419]

Finally someone who understands

[@ChicaneMedia]

How about being bored and just binge watching everything in KZbin recommended 😂

[@Natasha_-kg4bm]

Spot on!

[@mafazabatool5234]

2nd type

[@demolen3041]

Both left with crap

[@eevee93]

If you break someone's car, they won't stop chasing you alright

[@cheesebutter9531]

But if they are getting annoying, break their leg to make them stop

[@vibez5441]

Just incase they are still chasing you snap their neck it will end it for good👌

[@LittleTheKobold]

I mean... your not wrong lol

[@KdramaLover168]

@@vibez5441 then hide the body in a bag and bury it 😀

[@_-classy-_8145]

This hurts to watch after finding out my crush doesn't like me back...

[@elchikano1719]

Don't worry you'll find someone one day. I've been in that same boat before but you'll learn and grow from it. Thinking of it as a learning experience is better than thinking of it as rejection. Hope you have a good day!

[@_-classy-_8145]

El Chicano, thanks brooskie that helps

[@ArtofBrandonTruster]

Welcome to the club. None of my crushes like me, either, even when those crushes aren't exactly the most desirable mates. Maybe you should find someone that you don't like? At least that way, you can experience the joy of getting laid then watching in amazement as your mate crafts BS out of thin air as justification to not interact with you again.

[@_-classy-_8145]

the beans Art & Music, o u ch Dang dude, sorry to hear that.. Hope someone cool enough for you comes along, it'll happen eventually just chill and do your own thing. If you like someone be straight up so that you don't get too caught up in feels, (it really helps doge bullets) and just c h i l l, don't Frick around with people cause they can be going through tough shiz.

[@ArtofBrandonTruster]

@@_-classy-_8145 I like your choice of words. I'm good. Doing my own thing is all I know how to do anymore. Consequently, that keeps me indoors where I belong. Sorry to hear about your misfortune as well. I guess "it" happens to all of us at some point.

[@rxdrxd8887]

What i've noticed about myself the more that i dont care about someone the more they become into me... and its always that someone who s i least expected the one whos having crush on me

[@NoNickname9090]

Absolutely this!! And it never fails. From friends, to people who have liked me. I just never see it coming. I be seeing what they mean when they say "don't look for love". LoL!! Because it's when I'm at my most peaceful secure state that people tend to... just like me. Maybe I need to be a bit more calm and stop being so anxious about life. Just let things... fall into place.

[@peaceofmindofpeace1650]

@@NoNickname9090 Well said 👍

[@sierrafazekas3530]

When people make a mistake and laugh it off, I think it's cute... But if they make a mistake and get irate it's not cute.

[@goldflo91]

If they get irritated when making a mistake, they may be reacting as people they've seen before, that tells a lot about their past and family 🤔

[@Angel-gc1gn]

If they laugh it of to me that feels like a passive aggressive person depending on how they act after but if someone was irritated and lets it out but can still communicate and understand each other in a argument or in general I’d respect that a lot more, but if they just constantly attack me and do nothing but be negative then yea that’s not attractive in the least xD

[@ЕвгенияЕвгениева-о3г]

@@Angel-gc1gn you are right, but I think they meant mistakes out of physical clumsiness, not mental abuse

[@cloudanimal5209]

The one about complimenting others makes so much sense! I always get a feeling that if someone is talking bad about others to me, they would talk bad about me to others. The opposite would make sense then too!

[@lilywebber7718]

1. Compliment others 2. Spend more time around you crush 3. Play copycat and mimic your crush 4. Say their name often 5. Be capable and intelligent but still human 6. Hang out with a group of friends

[@TheAmazinqStar]

Thank you for this!! I hate hearing her voice for some weird reason 😩

[@ArtofBrandonTruster]

Compliment a woman and you can go to jail.

[@ArtofBrandonTruster]

@AshLand it's okay so long as the girl is already attracted to you. Know what? I polled women back in 2017. I asked them how they would respond to a rape scenario where Johnny Depp was the rapist. They all responded that they would be fine with it. I did another poll replacing Johnny Depp with a picture of a hideous male, guess how they responded to that? :)

[@cameronm896]

Basically Mt. Everest for ASD folk like me. Can we have a vid about accepting that you'll never experience a relationship?

[@spongebobgirlfriend]

"How to manipulate your crush into liking you back"

[@kay9kill]

The only thing I find is manipulative in my opinion is mimicking someone else to make them like you. But, in some cases if you do that, it won’t work because they hate themselves🤣

[@lynnhaning5373]

You took the words right out of my mouth, my friend. It was my understanding that, based on the title of this channel, the goal was to educate the general public on human behavior, and not to give well intentioned, yet generalized and misguided dating advice ? KZbin is already saturated with these kind of videos, as it is. The only piece of advice, that I agree with, is spending more time around your crush, so they can get to know the REAL you. Other than that, just be yourself. If things between you and your crush progress beyond a friendship, great 👍. If not, cut your losses, and move on. There's no point, in wasting precious time and energy on people who do not value you for who you are.

[@julianchrobak-prince1915]

suddenly i don’t want to try any of these anymore :(((

[@victherocker]

as if you don't want your crush to like you back

[@TahirTravels]

@@lynnhaning5373 the name thing is good advice too. Saying someone’s name makes it so your acknowledging them. It’s a quality I find attractive personally.

[@lazypotato2928]

The person who voices this makes me want to cry! It’s so soft and calming.

[@laurajames2308]

I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem

[@laurajames2308]

Text me via what’s app for recommendation

[@laurajames2308]

+ 1 6 7 8 4 2 6 5 0 9 5 From Los Angeles

[@worldwidehandsome52]

REMEMBER Be with a guy who respects you and your choices. You have your own self respect nd never let anyone break it no matter what! And remember to first love yourself no matter what

[@shybairnsgetnowt]

I really like this channel's comment section. People are kind and positive and joking heartily, sadly a rarity on KZbin nowadays. And the animations are incredibly cute!!

[@user-db5km]

"spend more time with your crush" oh no, he's in another country

[@Mister_Kourkoutas]

In a another country in the middle of a global pandemic. I know that feel

[@MythopoeicNavid]

@@Mister_Kourkoutas what ya'll doing crushing after folks in other countries? ... asking for a friend

[@Mister_Kourkoutas]

@@MythopoeicNavid Met her a few years ago and have been catching up online. It’s stupid really but this pandemic is spreading loneliness globally and it’s the same in every language.

[@MythopoeicNavid]

@@Mister_Kourkoutas true. Good luck with your pursuit for love, friend. Just be honest to yourselves and be chill while you're at it!

[@frogperson7481]

...They're not real... They're fictional 😞😞🔪💕

[@Psych2GoDE]

Mirroring the person you're talking to really works. Small gestures like tilting your head the same direction they do, or touching your hair/face, when they do can go a really long way!

[@samb2814]

@ANJEL LARRA BRIZ AGUTAYA ?

[@sussyballs4908]

ANJEL LARRA BRIZ AGUTAYA ???

[@Floofypan]

@ANJEL LARRA BRIZ AGUTAYA ????

[@vi2448]

"hangout with a group of friends" *Silently cries..*

[@lowkeyrose8020]

Saanvi Pahari i’ll be ur group of friends😔✋

[@vi2448]

@@lowkeyrose8020 thankyou :)

[@vi2448]

@@lowkeyrose8020 yayyyy, i have a frienddd!!!!

[@dldl5731]

@@vi2448 two* xd

[@TheHumanBeanbag]

Why don't you have friends? You can't be innocent on this one. Maybe you're not a likeable person.

[@hugoyaztromo3532]

I always notice when someone is mirroring me, and knowing that, the chameleon effect actually feels manipulative and creeps me out.

[@trollzynisaacjohan1793]

Why? It means they care, just ask.

[@noobulon4334]

Sometimes it can be unconscious, especially in people who think highly of you

[@shresthaditya2950]

1:35-Spotaneous Trait Transference 1:48-Mirror Exposure Effect 2:30-Chameoleon Effect 2:56-Cocktail party effect 3:36-Be clumsy since mistakes make you more human 4:44-Cheerleader effect

[@gengarvenom1180]

mere*

[@gardenoffaith_6983]

“Do you find yourself subconsciously mimicking the gestures, movements, expressions of your crush every when you’re talking to them.” **snorts** Bold of you to assume I even look his way!

[@5ive-l9p]

Armyyyyyyyyy

[@pigeonseed3366]

1. Steal their phone 2. Run away There ya go. They’re chasing you now (:

[@mikochaa]

What i learned from my experience that people likes positivity, like when you're being happy and smiling. I once got my crush liking me back after breaking up with his gf simply bc i seem so cheerful, well yes i was sad when he dated her but then i decided to just be happy and keep being nice to him, its a long story but he fell for me even tho judging from my appearance, im not that pretty. Being positive is actually attractive :D

[@demoniceditslol]

Being confident and at the same time having a bit of clumsyness sometimes is the best way for all genders.

[@enfynet]

“Try getting them to notice you first.” Hmmm ok “When you’re with your friends” Oh 😒

[@munnabhaiya3993]

How to make a girl chase you? Step 1 : Take a picture of her Step 2 : Laugh after looking at the picture Step 3 : Don't show picture to her Step 4 : RUN FORREST RUNN!!!😂😂😂

[@sugaaa679]

HAHAHA 😂😂

[@rashmisharma9711]

@@sugaaa679 ARMYs SPOTTED 😂💜

[@sugaaa679]

@@rashmisharma9711 YESSS 💜💜💜

[@sugaaa679]

@hayley h. step 6. Lose them, cuz you're obsessed and karma is a bad bitch

[@desmariewilliams8216]

😆

[@Rachael_Callista]

Did anyone like her voice....aww it's gold

[@heysanyasmith]

YES first thing I noticed! Accidental ASMr

[@irunbrOOklyn]

who else loves the animations and the narrator ?!!! o m g even with challenging things to hear i am at ease while listening.

[@christopherrobertson7723]

When people say my name too often I feel like I’m in an interview instead of a conversation

[@theambitiousduck]

I don't really have a crush right now. This video just makes me feel calm and happy

[@Meikyu88]

"Hang out with a group of friends" I'm the type that goes shopping alone 😂

[@kareneveler9658]

Be concerned about u getting noticed

[@Meikyu88]

@Short& Sweet Aawww thanks for liking my profile picture haha and thanks for the tips too. 😂 Sry that I've been too busy and didn't notice the reply! Tbh I'm not upset about it, I quite enjoy shopping alone too but ya, maybe I should interact more with others.. I will think about it~ 🤔

[@facedowngaming]

Same and I’m very extroverted!

[@facedowngaming]

@Da Virus Think about it, you go alone and no one will bug you to buy this or that etc. saves more money in your pocket to spend on yourself! That’s a win.

[@RojanSayson]

Is it just me who fell in love with the characters on the video? They're so cute😍

[@afloatgamer8582]

Complement them Me who has social anxiety: hey... You look... Good today...

[@Aaron47916]

Hello I am in fact not a serial killer and I am pretty sure you are not one aswell, do you want to reproduce.

[@tonypajares4660]

@@Aaron47916 What the crap 😂

[@fallenangelmichael1276]

Good

[@ametsunami4070]

Me who is the living embodiment of anxiety: you.. you’re a human being..

[@abtribal100]

ZodiacMoon What you think as Me!. Is not who u really are. You are the being experience life through what u call is me. Your thought is creating anxiety you are also not your thoughts

[@juliastermer1272]

Be the best version of yourself that you can be, while still accepting your own flaws (but not dwelling on them), and people will naturally feel attracted to you

[@RL-DarkSpark]

I've done this for 16 years now. I hate how people say "be yourself". Not true at all. People will NOT be naturally attracted to you. In fact, you'll get ignored (☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)☞

[@miiviinn]

wise words 🤝

[@t-poset-pose9827]

Reason why some comments are 2 or 1 week old is because they have member ship aka Early access to videos

[@morrissmith5338]

I think it’s important to take some of these methods in stride. Like in some cases, saying someone’s name can come off kinda creepy if you force it into your dialogue too much

[@stewartmarques1485]

None of these actually work with woman anyway xD

[@m.tigerbeans6898]

Same! It bothers me when I read it in books too, like why do you keep repeating it, she knows her name! (Also when it's done to me it absolutely feels manipulative)

[@NevanRead]

I'm 24 years old and I'm still single 😵. I have had no one chase me. I have decided to be single forever by choice, because I can't bear getting another rejection. I'm also an introvert, which doesn't help matters

[@goatku]

Sounds like you may be a fearful avoidant attachment style. How does being introverted not help things?

[@didjaseemyjams1582]

I'm 22, and an introvert as well. I've never been in a relationship before. But I only have myself to blame for that because I don't seek out enough oppurtunities to get to know guys. Rejection is hard, but you've got to pick yourself back up because that's life. I'm currently enjoying being single for now, but you have to be confident the right person will come along when the time is right.

[@user-jv1qk4qf4f]

Aw it’s ok. Me too. I’m okay with that. Being in a relationship takes so much energy and commitment which I’m not capable of. ☺️ Let’s have fun as we are!

[@Yan-np5do]

“Hang out with a group of friends” Coronavirus has left the chat

[@bekaeast7346]

Update- coronavirus still hasn’t left the chat

[@totall3371]

Corona virus has entered the chat

[@akt3037]

How I see myself talking to my crush: hey how's it going? How I actually talk to my crush: is it mangos or mangoes?

[@miragepeter8412]

Lol

[@misskitty1134]

I absolutely love this narrator's voice. It not only sounds nice but it calms me. Thank you voice

[@strawberry5954]

“I’m early! Yay!” The people who were here 2 weeks ago: “Aw how cute.”

[@aj_zafra]

hahahha ;-;

[@ughries4490]

sana all

[@marinopirulli4096]

When someone sits alone at lunch it's more attractive when they are not on their phones even if they're alone. Even if you're alone with no phone , you're still being sociable and inviting and interacting with the world around you and being aware and people watching.

[@mariawaheed4073]

"Spend more time around your crush" What crush?

[@ArtofBrandonTruster]

Isn't that stalking anyway? Lol...

[@mariawaheed4073]

@@ArtofBrandonTruster Agreed

[@macalagayelijahrej6255]

she has one of the calmest voices i've ever heard, it makes me wanna chase her

[@xisoxik861]

''Hangout with a group of friends" Me :having no friends Crying in corner..

[@ArtofBrandonTruster]

You don't need friends, you have yourself. Find a hobby that could be turned into a productive business venture and everything should be peachy.

[@crazymadstriker766]

@@ArtofBrandonTruster not really you are reminded of your lonliness every day you go back to school though having my new hobbies, starting to excerise makes me feel better school still reminds me of loneliness

[@ArtofBrandonTruster]

@@crazymadstriker766 Oh, no, you have to go to school? Not only can that be the loneliest place of all, it will actually cause you to learn at a slower pace. IF you have the means to self-educate, it might be a good idea to pursue that instead. Well, that is my opinion, anyway. What are your new hobbies? Are they anything you could turn into a viable business?

[@crazymadstriker766]

@@ArtofBrandonTruster My hobbies are learning spanish, playing the drums and excerising recently started that. I actually find a nice group of people so while im still lonely the feeling is less

[@deannaswanson216]

I just recently reconnected with an old friend that I haven't talked to in 35 years. I may use a few of these tactics on him. Thanks for the video!

[@mazatlazulchampa-jaramillo540]

This channel is actually really useful. I personally am really interested in psychology and would love to follow that path, so thank you.

[@suparnadas3821]

The next time I start having a crush on someone,I will definitely follow these steps.

[@hwangjiji]

1. 0:57 Complement others 2. 1:46 Spend more time around the person you have a crush on 3. 2:16 Play copycat 4. 2:43 Say their name 5. 3:35 Be capable and intelligent but still human 6. 4:45 Hang out with a group of friends

[@socialpsychologymantras]

“The beautiful thing about love is that you just need to plant it once and nurture it and it shall bloom into blossoms that would cover the valleys.” - Hermann J. Steinherr

[@PlanetPsych]

"People may not 'tell' you how they feel about you. But they always 'show' you". So be on the lookout:-) Have a great day!!

[@cruzcastillo6227]

Interesting...

[@creativetech1701]

I will

[@ponchoshop854]

True

[@omghighlights1366]

Hie!! nice pic again

[@christianv-h3278]

Dude how did you get a picture into a _youtube comment?_

[@quadroalas1567]

Your voice is so calm that makes me feel calm and better

[@swethayang4307]

I did all of them And guess what? 😎They chased me Away...😑 Edit:- Thanks for the likes P.s- replies got me dead😂

[@abelle2006]

Oof

[@Triadii]

Yes that’s what would happen to meh

[@malaya3272]

LMFAOO

[@joanoona]

F

[@ughries4490]

i-

[@rain__cloud3]

The animated characters are so freakin adorable🥰🤗.

[@jayde2657]

Number 5: Capable and Intelligent but still human My mind: namjoon, kim namjoon, rm, joonie

[@sugadaddeh8281]

YES FAX

[@somniumneon6233]

Not looking for someone to chase me, but those who follow me hate it when I better myself , and when I set the bar they have to meet me there to make a statement on my character and some just can’t. Some arent nearly as dedicated at changing themselves as I am for me. All in all this channel has become one of the most relevant channels for my growth when others want to cut me to size. Thanks for helping me recognize my own light , it better explains the bugs. (:

[@danib712]

“People tend to find others more attractive when they are in a group over being by themselves” well….that explains everything….😅

[@Kalidreamine]

These videos are so good. Researched correctly and thoroughly. I have a psychology minor and I’ve learned a lot of this in school too.

[@LunarTheFrog]

Anyone else here cause they like someone and are unsure if they like you back but their friends joked about him/her/them liking you and u wanna be sure that before you even say anything about liking them, they use a few tricks to give them better chances? Just me-? Oh- we'll have a nice day anyways :>

[@bunkerdisc]

This makes so much sense without thinking I naturally do what the person I’m talking to dose and they usually tell me they like me

[@SuperNovaGirl90]

How can I "hang with a group of friends" and "hang around" my crush more, during a pandemic??? 🤔😅

[@chlbr3]

I know 2ppl who had their family reunions I'll think you'll be ok

[@water0627]

s

[@howtodoit4204]

Corona virus loves you

[@Psych2go]

True!! :( Let's wait till this is over

[@sivansharma5027]

Zoom!

[@knightleeb3606]

I was really starting to hang-out a lot more with a girl I meant last year and starting to like and I think she was getting to like me back. And I already understand the more time you spend time with someone it really grows your relationship and all that. But Since the Pandemic, it's been really difficult to see each other(We live over an hour away from each other in a different states and she working all the time, mostly on the weekends when I'm off work.) It's taking a toll on me and her. This a really hard time since before we really didn't get out much before and we were just breaking our shells getting to enjoy stuff, then the plague happened.

[@person4119]

When you realize you’ve been trying all of these for years: Guess I’ll die

[@honeybun3596]

*Proceeds to compliment absolutely everyone*

[@SundaeDoodles]

1. Be a runner Then you can play tag or cops and robbers and be chased ^-^

[@nayeli2723]

"Hangout with a group of friends" Me: has no friends ... Anyone want to be my friend?

[@whatshouldisayifvaskmeforc5217]

I need 1 too

[@rashmisharma9711]

Me

[@viranyiaron6749]

Yeah

[@bass5310]

Nayeli ofccc

[@rashmisharma9711]

@@whatshouldisayifvaskmeforc5217 Army Spotted 💜borahae💜

[@m3ta11ica_]

Thank you so much! I really needed this! Also love your animations! They’re adorable!

[@mariebebi3128]

I don’t even have a crush her voice is just so calming im watching all her videos rn

[@dleenedouglasdd]

“Spend more time around your crush” *crush who lives in whole different country *also me being too shy around crush if we ever meet Well lemme just sit here in the corner:’) *cries in lonely

[@cheesebutter9531]

Don't worry, this common happened

[@karthikavengat453]

Yessss..mee too...🥺🥺🥺🥺but not other country 🥺 another state

[@dleenedouglasdd]

karthika Vengat 🥺🥺

[@stewartmarques1485]

Mybee find a crush in your town and start working from there... its gonna be close to impossible if he is in a different country...

[@turisteandoentexas]

Definitely what you give is what you get. If you are helpful to others and always bring POSITIVISM ❤️, they will feel at ease to approach you and feel atracted to you, as oppose if you are always negative or never willing to help.

[@30ajgo]

So sugarcoating. Got ya

[@jacoblee208]

Imagine being attractive enough to prove love exists

[@the_aspect1885]

Saying these things will sell me out onto people that I have a crush on someone and I don't feel good about that

[@moumade4704]

people don't remember how you looked or dressed, but how they feel with you❤️