7 Ways Kindness Will RUIN Your Life (and how to avoid them)

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In a world that often feels bereft of compassion, kindness stands out as a beacon of hope. But what happens when our best intentions begin to chip away at our well-being? In this thought-provoking video, we delve into the complexities of kindness - exploring seven unexpected ways that being too kind can inadvertently lead to self-sabotage, and crucially, how you can avoid these pitfalls.
From the dangers of excessive people-pleasing to the fine line where generosity becomes self-detriment, we unpack the nuances of each scenario with real-life examples, psychological insights, and practical strategies for balancing benevolence with self-respect.
🔸 What You'll Learn:
-Why striving to always please others might be pleasing nobody in the end.
-How to recognize when your kindness is being exploited, and what to do about it.
-The importance of expressing genuine emotions, even when it feels unkind.
-Strategies for helping others without overextending your own resources.
-How to engage in necessary conflicts without compromising your kindness.
-The critical link between self-worth and selfless behavior.
-And the key to understanding that true kindness doesn't mean being passive, but involves being strong and assertive in your compassion.
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My name is Amir, Im a 27 year old video editor and animator.
I'm a student of philosophy & psychology and I create these videos with the hope of helping other
people overcome their biggest hardships and obstacles in life through philosophy.
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[@3coins.]

Many have died from good intentions.

[@cliffnielsen5380]

OMG!!! I sooooooo needed to hear this message 🙏 Thank you ❤️

[@Caitriona_]

You hit the nail on the head in this video.. teasing out the many complex and intricate details of navigating this trait ❤ you are one talented individual and a blessing to humanity, thank you and keep going 🎉

[@nikkivelz]

1) People Pleasing 2) Being Taken Advantage Of 3) Suppressing Genuine Emotions 4) Overextending Yourself 5) Avoiding Necessary Conflict 6) Diminishing Your Self Worth 7) Misunderstanding Of Kindness

[@PatrickGraven]

Being good is not the same as being kind. Just because someone else sees our need to progress and win as bad or in any way unacceptable, does not mean that we should soften it or abandon it. You can never be fully accepted as social if you want to truly be yourself, that separates you from that society. Something inside you has to stay true to instincts that will distance you from anyone who don't share the same fire and passion. Following too much advice makes you follow someone else's life rather than your own.

[@herrweiss2580]

Yes, to demur subjectively is imperative.

[@MichaelRyanEpley]

Goodness and kindness are as close to perfect synonyms as I can find. Niceness is not very nice, but kindness and goodness are always preferable. Of course, extremes are to be avoided and those that use others will take a mile when given an inch. That is not to say kindness does not remain preferable in all cases to a world without any. The mantras in the system push us to remain nice at all costs, not kind. Your basic terms are confused. Too much niceness is dangerous. Kindness is never dangerous.

[@StoicRealms]

"The only way to find true peace is to let go of the need for control and accept the natural order of the universe." - Epictetus

[@dapperblue1764]

Fantastic video!

[@realStoicBond]

“Regard [a friend] as loyal, and you will make him loyal.” ― Lucius Annaeus Seneca, Letters from a Stoic

[@halohalo86]

This video seems to be perfectly speaking to the ENFJ personality type ❤