8 Signs You're With a Toxic Person

Are you dating a toxic person? When we are in love, we tend to see the good in them and hope that our love, care, and support will change them for the better. We ignore all the red flags of dating. Are you looking for relationship advice on how to draw the line between compassion and exploitation? Is someone worth sacrificing your mental health and self-love for? Watch this video to see if you identify with some of the signs. Share this video with someone who might need it.
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If you relate to this video, here is another video that highlights the 8 Side Effects of A Toxic Relationship:
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Credits
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Vanessa Val
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
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Enola Holmes

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Haikyuu or The Promised Neverland

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My fav netflix series is lost song

[@Nawnii]

Were my exes just uncreative and did every single one of these or..

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💀💀💀

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Don't know whether i should laugh or cry

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Oop-

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[@qcharlieeee]

Aww Nawnii... :(

[@MeganCookiie]

The signs (just in case ur too lazy to watch): 1. They try to control you 2. They don’t listen to you 3. They manipulate you 4. They constantly criticize you 5. They take things out on you

[@priyakalloria3273]

There are other red flags too: 1. They'll say not act 2. They'll let you do all the emotional talk and never take charge of being vulnerable 3. Even if they do become vulnerable, that's becs they wanted to do so, which is the third point, they will love you when they want to , and that's selfish babe. 4. The best memories you've had with them are sexual. 5. Just like in the video, they will bring you down especially by bringing your weaknesses up in public 6. Never sorry yes why? Becs they don't care and they'll rather blame you and make you feel sorry about them and fall for them again like their baby sitter. ❤️❤️

[@ShadowShiek646]

that is actually a much deeper analysis than the aspects mentioned in the video, totally agree. thanks :)

[@priyakalloria3273]

@@ShadowShiek646 thanks my degree in psychology didn't leave me astray haha.😁

[@ruchamansukh1203]

That 4th point really means a lot...more people need to understand that. Thanks for this..

[@muskaanbedi8406]

Thanks..

[@sf3testvids]

Yea generally think this adds another dimension to think about.. many thanks

[@kayla-gd2tp]

Me: *reads title* “sees how to know if your a toxic person” me again: YES I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO! YES *sees title* oh-

[@reinazreik3137]

Same

[@reinazreik3137]

Lmao

[@eplatamx2017]

Same

[@fcknsick]

It's reversible

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mood 😭

[@PolishCowvsJuan]

To the 1 person that’ll read this: *you’re cool and adorable stay safe*

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@@MeganCookiie nawwww

[@KA-th9mg]

thanks man i reallyy needed that. im kind of going thu a tough time

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I now don’t even know what to feel about this. I don’t exactly like bots, but this message isn’t trying to gain anything but instead is a positive message.

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Ty! That's so nice :'D

[@squid1397]

*Me being single af watching this..*

[@froooooooot]

same i've never dated anyone yet here i am

[@WoWkillerz17]

at least you know what not to look for now tbf

[@sekharthapa184]

Lol me too😂

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Ayee single gang✨

[@michellewall6748]

Best way to be!

[@LandonTroyer]

Watching this I feel it’s important to remember that it’s easy to just apply these to an ex after getting out of a relationship, but also take a moment to see if any of these apply to ourselves as well. That way we can all become better people (:

[@ohmcb]

Jokes aside, i found out that my ex is toxic and my boyfriend now is the opposite.. We all deserve a good partner and we should be one too ☺️ hope you all can get a partner that make you stronger!

[@posbermaje]

Amen sister.

[@x._.y6894]

"We should be one too" A good thought

[@sayoshejin1502]

Had also a toxic ex and my boyfriend now is so good to me...I just forgot what a normal relationship should be like in almost 7 years of manipulation and emotional abuse. Have to learn how to communicate and behave in a healthy relationship again. I also try to be a good girlfiend, cause i have struggles with serious conversations or constructive criticism - get flashbacks to situations with my exboyfriend and start crying. It's hard, because i don't want to make my boyfriend think, that this is his fault. I tried to explain everything, but it's difficult to understand something you never experienced. I don't get numb of this kind of situations - it is like... i hear my ex shout at me, call me stupid/naiv/stingy/ignorant...and i feel so miserable ...again. These conversations are important and i want to deal with them in a healty way, accept criticism and say something i'm not okay with. Don't want to cry again, cause these tense situations are triggering some bad memories - i know "he" is gone and my partner means no harm.

[@chancepipkin8570]

Yup, Value is key.

[@sayoshejin1502]

@Adrian Fuentes I don't think of who is the guilty one and don't blame him or myselfe for everything. My ex had a few problems and i also had a few. I was to frightend to break up and spoke less with him over problems, because i felt more awful after our conversations - he apologized often, but never changed how he treated me. I never stood up for myselfe and he din't put the effort into changing his toxic behaviour. You never know what's going on in a relationship as "outsider" only the two who are in a relationship. You can't feel the same way and experience situations differently. I often try to ask myself "How do you feel now?" "What was your personal success after the break up?" - i feel more like myself and i have more energy for my own life. My personal success were my passed exams last semester. Don't blame yourselfe for things in the past! Try to understand your feelings or why you acted that or this way and learn from it. Hope your safe now. Take care

[@x4v_r]

I guess I am dating a toxic person.. He cheates anyways.

[@1verysillyperson]

dump him!! he's not worth it!

[@saneperson2]

Leave him, he’s not worth it

[@xinyy]

leave them if you think they are toxic.

[@kurapika3217]

When you realized he was cheating thats when you know it would be toxic

[@ctrlven]

OKAY LEAVE HIM, LEAVE THE GUY! HES NOT WORTH YOUR TIME OR YOU.

[@RogerStaysCreative]

Another example of manipulative behavior is empty promises. Saying one thing but doing another. Consistantly getting your hopes up to let you down. Emotional roller coaster

[@xinyy]

Posted : 45 seconds ago everyone : I am *SPEED*

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And I'M SAD

[@amyusesyoutube]

8 signs you’re dating a toxic person: (these signs can also be evident in friendships!) 1. they try to control you (0:34) 2. they don’t listen to you (1:07) 3. they manipulate you (1:44) 4. they constantly criticise you (2:21) 5. they talk down to you (2:56) 6. they take things out on you (3:32) 7. they bring you down (4:01) 8. they’re never sorry (4:27)

[@sheena_1378]

Thank you

[@juliemarie8963]

Thank you 😊

[@mothercoyote351]

This is very ☹️ but very true @ the same time. Ik this to b true as well cuz I've had a few toxic friendships b4 unfortunately 😔.

[@bookenjoyer3970]

Thank you!

[@juliemarie8963]

@@mothercoyote351 You’ll find a great match, just takes time 🙃💕

[@PlanetPsych]

I think the only way to win with a toxic person, is not to play!

[@TheHermitTeller]

100% don't give them the fuel to their fire

[@swatisaini6447]

YESSS!!!!! U r so right

[@michellewall6748]

This is spot on! Walk away!

[@Kornhulio18]

It's like the saying "Don't feed the trolls". The more energy you put into these sick folks the more energy you get sucked out of you. They play to win, not to grow together WITH YOU, that's a big red flag.

[@iceluvndiva21]

Amen

[@specimenairsoft3869]

I just broke up with a very toxic and manipulative person, we've been together for two years, and even though she's done so much wrong it still feels hard after the breakup

[@a.m.1675]

It is normal that you feel this way. In fact, it's far more easy to break up with a healthy person, than with a toxic one. This happens because of the trauma you've experienced + guilt for number of reasons, such as "why I didn't notice that before hand?" (you didn't know what you didn't know) or "what if they aren't like that?" (they are, and even if don't, your relationship ended anyways. And there was at least one reason for that.) or "what if it's me? What if they're right and I'm the toxic one?" (I don't know) or "what's wrong with me? Maybe I brought it on myself?" (No, you did not. Toxic people are not Santa Claus, that bring peace and joy to "the good kids" and punish only "the bad" ones... It is usually the other way around.) + you feel you can't tell it to others, because they may not understand... It is harder to get over a toxic relationship. And that's ok. And you WILL get better. You just need more time to processing what's happened. Continue looking for your way out from this mess. I wish you all the best. I wish you to find your peace

[@annj2252]

@@a.m.1675 I can’t get out of a toxic relationship and always blame myself even if I know it’s not my fault. Your comment makes me feel better, thank you

[@gnarthdarkanen7464]

I'll second "a.m." there. Breaking up is always a rough task. It's right next door to Hell when you're breaking up with a toxic mess... especially when they're manipulative on top of your (healthy-ish) emotional attraction and connection. BUT this is the break-up, so she's an "Ex"... Exes are exes for reasons, so don't go second guessing or denying your own importance (to YOU) and go back on it... It don't seem like it now, but it WILL get easier. It's going to take a while, but "cold turkey" is the best thing. Scratch out a few notes about what was wrong in the relationship, everything you disliked, found uncomfortable, or repulsive... AND keep them where you'll find them regularly. Remind yourself in moments of weakness or regret. ;o)

[@PennyJackson123]

@@annj2252 I have been with a covert narcissist for two years (online only) and it is hard to get out. Every time I try to end things I end up doubtful and question my decision. I believe we see the potential, and what could become rather than the reality of what is. If they haven’t changed then they won’t. And if they do change, then we don’t have to be part of their process. It is hard to let go because I end up feeling sorry for him. That he needs me, and that I am the only one who can “help” him. But while staying in a toxic relationship, I am betraying myself. The one person I should be taking care of first and foremost. 2 years is a long time to establish if someone is going to change or not. Look up codependency. Trauma bonding. Attachment styles.

[@RareVariant]

it just takes time for a person to heal and go through detachment especially after spending time with someone for two years, it will be hard to move on at first and they might be the only thing you can think about, but ride it out you'll be alright you got it. also so there's no need for you to be bombarded with all these different terms, it's really not that complicated. stay strong man.

[@louislonestar8142]

If only I had this when I was in my first and only relationship, at least I know what to look out for now, thanks

[@brookigutz]

The narrator's voice is so calming to me

[@JaylaisAwesome]

I know right?❤❤

[@KoiFish.15]

My mom is dating a toxic person and she knows that😔 Edit: All the negativity is getting too me

[@ctrlven]

bruh tell her to leave himm 😭

[@KoiFish.15]

I have been told her that she says she is only using him for his money because that's what he told her to do after she found out he cheated on her and than he broke her phone

[@KittyUnicorn56XD]

@@KoiFish.15your mom needs help she should go to someone to help her. I think maybe she will let go of him because she will probably realize that this type of relationship is not normal and needs to be avoided. (I hope this helps 😊)

[@gnarthdarkanen7464]

Yeah, that old "please use me for the money" line... I know that kind. It's code... It translates to "I pay for shit around here, so I own you at the end of the day." Seriously, your mom doesn't need to be treated like a whore... AND you're best off keeping this guy at arm's length. Clam up around him. He's no good for you either, so don't say anything more than absolutely necessary. Avoid him as much as you can, and don't let him know he gets to you. Find yourself some help if you can, even if you can't save your mom. I'm sorry, but we can't save everybody... Be careful of his "gifts" in case he decides to try "getting sweet" for you. Those gifts come with strings attached, a neverending stream of them, too. Bad as I hate to say it, take the best care you possibly can of them, and the first mention of something like "Well, I got you the X, so you owe me some respect" you can just give "X" back to him. This is ESCPECIALLY important in case his idea of respect or gratitude or a favor is something you aren't comfortable with. I don't care how petty, you don't owe nobody your soul. Favors are little things like fetching a tool or a beer from the fridge or whatever... If it makes you uncomfortable or question "right and wrong" of it, then you probably shouldn't blindly agree to it. This kind of manipulator likes to use "baby steps". Instead of just talking you into something directly horrible, he'll start with something small. BUT it's a slippery slope. Every time he gives you a hand or listens to troubles, he'll have something just a little bit meaner and more destructive for you. Nobody just wakes up one day and loads a gun and goes out to blow a bunch of people away over their "loyalty"... Even romantic couples don't just suddenly "snap" and lose all track of humanity or reality. It's one manipulative nutjob, and one slightly submissive and otherwise decent person who gets slowly twisted into another monster... Just... watch out. This could get dangerous. AND maybe let your mom know (especially after she's had some kind of hurtful trouble out of him) that she isn't a whore who gets owned by some prick with sparkly things. She doesn't deserve crap like that. AND especially if you find yourself getting rewarded by him for something you don't like or think is alright, GO TELL SOMEONE... GET HELP. ;o)

[@swatisaini6447]

@@KoiFish.15 even if she is getting money ultimately her mental health will be ruined. So it's not worth it. Try to make her see that

[@MegaExo]

I don't even have a girlfriend and probably never will but this video will be helpful to remember

[@Nicole-nf1sr]

Always important to have hope! Whoever you’re meant to find, will find their way to u

[@FriezaSucks]

@@Nicole-nf1sr Unless you're an ugly bastard. Citation: Real life experiences suffered by thousands daily.

[@Gg_3x]

@Dream omg

[@FriezaSucks]

@@Gg_3x yes, I know, horrible realities yadda yadda, but yous guys are gonna keep rubber necking this car accident so im gonna let it ride

[@Rupix15]

@@FriezaSucks 😂

[@i.muattar9410]

I wish everyone watched this video and make a conclusion whether they r trying to save their partners or family member or they are being toxic

[@thepsychhike7177]

8 signs youre dating a toxic person: 1. they try to control you 2. they dont listen to you 3. they manipulate you 4. they constantly criticize you 5. they talk down to you 6. they take things out on you 7. they bring you down 8. theyre never sorry

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Yay you copied and pasted from another comment. IQ 1000

[@heatherlien6939]

Someone already said that why’d you copy

[@XerXens]

I was dating a toxic person but we broke up and we're just friends, however he's still ruining my mental health. I feel myself deteriorating the longer I stay. I keep running back to him, even as a friend, I can't cut him off. It's an easier way out when you're used to being mentally abused so you don't have to feel the void when he's gone. I'm not ready to be lonely again and I'm disgusted with myself that I can't leave. At this point, I don't know if I still like him or I'm just filling the void with his toxic company.

[@rebeccacarraway480]

WOW what an accomplishment...I managed to find someone who exhibited EVERY one of these...😳 Wish I’d had this 3 years ago 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@JoyxStyx]

I think an important sign ist: They're not giving you time or space to analyze your own feelings or emotions. Someone who leaves you just because you tell them your struggles with fears ist good for your health. I've been dating someone for a month and lately I wanted to open up to them with telling them that I have a fear of intimacy and I need more time to develop strong feelings. They shut me completely down and told me that I play with their feelings when I'm unsure of how i feel. I think that's also toxic behaviour, especially when you're just dating

[@onyxth3ripper]

I got out of a toxic relationship only about a day or two ago. It hurts but venting is the only way you can tell someone everything. Just scream it if you want. It helps. Cry. Punch something. Sleep. It's okay. It's better to seem angry and sad then to hide your feelings, like I did for almost six years.

[@mariamhussein7390]

He left me after a year and 5 months, i want to know how you feel now, it's been a month since the breakup and i don't know how to feel I'm so confused

[@dailydoseofmedicinee]

The warning signs include:👍 Checking the other person's cell phone or email without permission. Constant put-downs. Extreme jealousy, insecurity or anger. Isolation from family or friends. Making false accusations. Physical violence. Possessiveness. Controlling behavior

[@andreamagyar7776]

Oh yeah.

[@lauraalexandra5728]

Hi I love how cute these animations are🥰

[@abbegailaballe4080]

Watching this to see myself if I'm one of them. Self-reflection is important too you know.

[@50centricher9]

Facts it also shows who's who. A lot of times the people who love to point the finger and *play* the victim 24/7 are usually the actual issue

[@briandc9401]

@@50centricher9 ikr you can easily tell their being toxic by using their manipulative ways such as playing the victim card lmaoo

[@50centricher9]

@@briandc9401 exactly bro lol

[@vin.2]

you’re very mature tbh!

[@ashblackberry3789]

I don’t see any of these red flags in my friends/partner, I see a bunch of these red flags in my mum sadly.

[@alexandrugheorghe5610]

Basically, narcissists in a nutshell.

[@wokeman9928]

Da Alex adevarat 😂

[@esthercobersy8638]

Thank you so much for this video it really helped me to realise he never cared for me

[@demetrajanic3962]

Thank you so much this helped my sister!

[@GiftedFestiveBee]

WOW I love the animations, they make the vid look really smooth and good. I notice more each video and it is a really nice viewing experience! Thumbs up!

[@Psych2go]

Thank you very much! Is this your favorite one so far?

[@GiftedFestiveBee]

@@Psych2go One of my favorites but I have noticed the new animation style in the new videos which is really nice!

[@galacz4019]

5 and 6 definitely hit hard especially with how things are going right now 🙃 anyway well done on this video, amazing job as always !

[@coffeeh.joestar-kujo9862]

I had those kinds of experience with an ex I once thought he's the one. But then few years back, I love watching some of your videos and already know the signs of a toxic person, but I've been blinded on the time when I was with him. Now I'm with someone else who trusted me as forgives me for my actions just as much as I forgive his actions.

[@ukelelekid6937]

Thank you guys for making this video it is so helpful for people. I just go out of a toxic relationship with a girl that slowly turned to physically abusive. You guys are amazing!! Keep doing this amazing work!!!

[@saneperson2]

Plot twist: YOU are the toxic one

[@xlfz_1]

Im-

[@froooooooot]

lmao

[@garbanzo_garbage7242]

Plot twist #2 I am not dating anyone. Plot twist #3 you werent suprised by Plot twist #2. Plot twist #4 Plot twist #3 should have not have been a Plot twist

[@jameshogue1639]

That made me laugh. Thanks!

[@nathanjohnpalaogaming4872]

Plot twist: *HARD REBOOT*

[@itznowornever6652]

This is an amazing video! I have shared it with all my friends and family ☺️

[@demi1443]

Wow my mum and dad are in a toxic relationship My mum has left him a few times but he always guilt trips her to come back. Once he said he would k**l himself if she didn't come back

[@LilMatrixBeats]

The animation is so good. I love watching your videos. Very knowledge with such a positive community.

[@astrokits]

I started with the assumption that I'm toxic and ended up with knowing someone else is

[@keerthanas8038]

hey psych2go THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR VIDEOS!!!!

[@EvilBeastly]

The animation just keeps getting better and better! Good job! I’m excited to what videos you’ll make next. Some of these videos help me through my darkest times.

[@sekharthapa184]

I love your animations, your beautiful voice and obviously what you make at the characters head (plants) this channel make me relaxed and happy

[@radiantcloud4814]

All these signs are almost all describing my best friend..

[@helionhelion7890]

Thanks, your video is so useful and can help me.

[@OzStazaw]

Literally experienced this to the fullest extent recently. Get the hell away from people like this, no matter who they are!

[@jakeofalltradesmusic]

In the 2nd point, my wife has this habit of asking me what I want, when in reality, she has already decided what the "right" answer is, so I have to give her the answer she already predetermined as what I want, or all hell breaks loose.

[@astethicyt24]

I love this channel so much it really helps me ✨😭💖

[@lou8976]

this posts right when i’m crying about him yelling at me for trying to leave him out and he’s sending a bunch of pictures of him with another girl lol i’m ok thx

[@dragonkfg]

Ouch

[@saneperson2]

Leave him, he’s not worth your tears. You’ll find the one soon in this life.

[@Thom7953]

Run!

[@lou8976]

@@saneperson2 god i wish i could 😐

[@lou8976]

@@kodiak9079 yeah i guess

[@anastasiawilliams716]

This video helped me a lot thank u.

[@19demarco]

I've been through this recently. It's so painful. It destroys you . and I can't understand why people behave like that. Narcissist. Emotional abuse. Domestic violence. Being cheated. You always think "he will change. He just had a bad day" but he is killing you. Isolating you from friends and family.

[@tristanmanzano9536]

Is it just me that thinks her voice is so relaxing that it can cure depression? BTW Thank you too, for helping many people, in fact cuz of Psych2go i've become a better person and manage to help my friends in need, spot liers and fake friends, Thank you❤❤

[@ZZ-ny4sh]

Yes she should do sleep affirmation videos!!

[@sandeeppalla004]

Spot on! Thanks!

[@juan91617]

This video made me cry. But I needed to hear some of this

[@superking_-id5yb]

i just randomly woke up for no reason and i log on here and see this vid and i feel like i was awoken for this , i needed this with everything thats been going on in my life , thank you for posting this vid , keep up the good work !

[@GiftedSince92GiftedSince92]

Great video!

[@FMeister94]

I adore Van Val's art style and I really like the imagery. One thing that is missing from the channel is discussion on how people can help (you could say administer antivenom on) 'toxic' people. Hope to see topics like that.

[@ryanfay3599]

this helps me so much, it makes me sit back and think about if I ever have done or have been through these things and I can change it.

[@sadiebutler9204]

Your drawing is getting amazing.

[@Void_0001-]

Your voice just makes me so calm for some reason..

[@piotrschulz320]

Wow your channel changed a lot but i still love your videos!!!

[@sophia1851]

i started to notice i was with a toxic person just before i dumped him. and looking back i think it’s crazy how much my love for him blinded me. he had some superiority complex that made my friends despise him for being too arrogant and insensitive. i was always being hurt by the things he did and said, but i was also the one who would always end up apologizing. it’s like I’d feel guilty for being hurt... cause he’d always say he expected more from me than to be hurt by something he did, as if i was too sensitive. actually, if i told him “this thing you did hurt me”, he would say “god, you’re so sensitive, so immature, can’t believe i expected more from you. disappointed”. and then I’d apologize lol so stupid. then i started to notice that he would lie a lot about minor things. sometimes I’d catch him in a lie and he’d manipulate the whole situation to make it seem like i was crazy for thinking he had lied. that’s the reason we broke up actually. i caught him in a lie and, when I accused him, he started to say i was crazy, i was like “there’s no point in denying it, it’s obvious that you lied. even my friends told me the truth”... so he started insulting me, saying i had to medicate, cause i was crazy, and that i was stupid and immature, he even told me to go to hell, took things out of proportion. i literally just said “I can’t be with someone that treats me like this, we’re done”. and that was it. got home, blocked his number.

[@FMeister94]

Every time I watch it the imagery gets more moving and powerful every time I watch. Van Val is such a genius.

[@arielmaule]

Amazing video.

[@ll3832]

I might not be the only one trying to time travel right?

[@waluigihentailover6926]

Hmm

[@spainwithoutthes]

Woah ok but props to how you made your comment's time like that-

[@froooooooot]

oh wow

[@ll3832]

kodiak actually...I get enough attention but I'm just bored so lol

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@@waluigihentailover6926 Hmm

[@movha.1322]

I've never dated anyone lol

[@waluigihentailover6926]

Same

[@airysbabe]

😹

[@Dartyisaperson]

Same lol

[@lolitacan2659]

Sisoy

[@stars4saii]

Same

[@jollinalopez5647]

Your videos help me on how to love yourself and not to be manipulate by toxic relationship

[@LimeLivesMatter]

I love the quality of the video

[@kyra5831]

Needed this..

[@TheFiestafan123]

Pls make a video on what to do when you’re trapped in a toxic relationship and can’t get out for any reason. Also, what to do if your family or the people around you are toxic but you can’t escape them. Hope to see this type of vid. Will help many people who can’t change their environments.

[@larissarosa3008]

Watching while it's only in the playlist

[@anettereyna4742]

1 month??!!!!!

[@joyzie]

I hate how some of these can be so hard to find but it’s so clearly there

[@Superstar-go7ps]

Number 7, heavy!!

[@arianrahman4840]

that moment when you know you're the toxic one and are in constant pressure from yourself

[@SyedaSabikaRizvi]

Script writer Rida Batool so proud of you ❤

[@selfpeace953]

Disrespect, Judge, Manipulate, Criticize that's how that person treated me.

[@jennamorningstar9744]

Honestly, where was this channel a decade ago?! For real.. 😪 I am so glad though it exists to help young people against the horrors of toxic relationships. Thank you, Psych2Go! 🥺🙏💖 Unfortunately, I had a terribly abusive and toxic ex some years ago. I knew it was wrong, but I guess I refused to acknowledge just how wrong it was. I also dealt with issues of self-hatred, which made it harder to leave. And thus, I stayed it in for 6 trecherous years, rather than leaving sooner. It's left a scar on me.. 😓 While I am much better than I was, I have to work hard to maintain my mental health still. The healing process is ongoing for me. 🥺 Please know that they are NOT worth it, and yes, YOU DESERVE BETTER!! I hope anyone in an abusive situation is able to get out. 🙏 Remember, you are loved and worth it. 💗 And no, you cannot help someone this abusive and toxic. They are likely sociopaths and won't change their ways. So please, don't hurt yourself any further. PLEASE, GET OUT!! 😢🙏

[@dankirt15]

I have just gotten into a relationship after a few years alone after some really bad times, this is a really good checklist for myself and her included. Also I'd like to say the the animation In these videos is always beautiful but this one was extraordinary. Thanks people

[@irfanbattlestar]

Beautiful animation....ty again....

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much! is this your favorite animation so far?

[@irfanbattlestar]

@@Psych2go Yes....Murielle's animation is also very beautiful...

[@Skynet_the_AI]

Wow, your sweet nutring voice is refreshingly soothing. I appreciate your energy and your information. God Bless You and keep up the positive work that you do. Peace and Love to you and everyone reading...and to You I say also, God Bless You! Stay strong!⚡💛 This video has helped reinforce my intuition, that whitch which i already knew. Thank You.

[@JamesTyreeII]

All three of my ex girlfriends are conservative “Christians” all three were and still are very negative and toxic and draining. The first one is a covert narcissist

[@gnarthdarkanen7464]

Overtly zealous religious groups are a haven of narcissists the world over. It sucks, but there's a reason you have no need to even try to find me in a church. ;o)

[@quadzilla561]

😳

[@spiral_down5320]

My friend was doing numbers 1, 2, and 8 even before I gave him constructive criticism and he called me sensitive, told me to calm down, and blocked me. Just want to let everyone know that this type of behavior can also happen with friends or even family. Stay safe out there folks

[@Urstargirl.]

All my friends keep saying my current boyfriend is toxic but I don’t feel like he is tbh and I don’t know what to do I don’t wanna lose my friends but then again I don’t wanna lose him. I don’t know what to do anymore.

[@saneperson2]

Be the observer. Ask them why they say he’s toxic and let them say their reasons. Then spend a day with him and see if he actually is what they say. If he is then cut him completely off. You do NOT want those types of people in your life.

[@aoisora9003]

Observe your bf then, if he really isnt toxic like what youre claiming then maybe spend lesser time to your friends. Dont seriously take any words from ppl whos not even in a relationship, bcos the way you feel and think differs. Follow what you feel, be with someone you think youll be with for the rest of your life and if thats your bf, so be it. If ever you are wrong, your friends will still be there(if they really are your friends), if not then they never were.

[@Urstargirl.]

@@aoisora9003 ah I see I’ll take that into consideration

[@Urstargirl.]

@@saneperson2 ah alright thank you I’ll take your words into consideration as well

[@PennyJackson123]

So here is the thing. A relationship is between two individuals. It is not for others to involve themselves or judge a bond between two individuals. If you and your bf are happy together, and you are satisfied with him this way, then that is something your friends need to accept. They might not have dated him themselves, but that is exactly why we all have different preferences when it comes to our romantic partners. They might not like XYZ about him, and that is perfectly fine, but they have to support you if you like XYZ about him.

[@annj2252]

Im dating a very toxic person and he has convinced me that I'll be alone for the rest of my life if I leave him and I just can't move on

[@setofreakinkaiba8553]

What a dick. My partner lied about going to work when they didn't want to deal with me.

[@PennyJackson123]

You might be codependent (I am!) try to look into that and work on yourself, self love and detachment. Once you have done that, it is easy to let go. By being with someone like that you are betraying yourself

[@snowflakes8226]

He is so wrong. Hun, there are other (probably better) fish in the sea for you. Dont believe anything he says.

[@posbermaje]

You can get anyone you want, your boyfriend says that because he just doesn't want you to be happy and believes that he's the only one you'll ever have, but that's false.

[@PennyJackson123]

I was with a guy once who threatened to end himself if I left the relationship. Inevitable I left, because emotional blackmailing is so cruel and malicious. He even faked doing it and turned off his devices and had me contact the police and show them the screenshots via email, which made them rush out to his house and found him asleep in his bed without any intention of doing anything at all. The next day he lashed out on me for involving the police. At that point I realized that he was only holding me hostage in the relationship for his own sake and did not care about me and my wellbeing. Emotional blackmailing is cruel. Very abusive. What your guy is doing is emotional blackmailing too. He plays on your emotions to keep you stuck in the relationship. The fact that you are stuck indicates a codependent attachment and a trauma bond. So I stand by the first comment. Work on yourself and self love, and detach (emotionally) and you will be fine and have an easier time seeing things clearly again.

[@katieburke2902]

Oh, this sounds Great !!! Where's the Excedrin...

[@valflirt1393]

single squad where are you ~~~

[@a.m.1675]

Heeeere we are! ~

[@nathanjohnpalaogaming4872]

.......uhhhhh

[@ribsthegamer4157]

We both were toxic. Her pessimism drove me to be judgemental. I made mistakes. I own it. Sad about it, but will be better moving forward.

[@Absolhunter251]

Wish I had this sooner all those years!

[@fiercenarcopathfighter6453]

Thank you. The illustration always gets me sad

[@user-hu6st2pk1w]

Your voice makes me sleepy more sleepy more and more ❤️😘

[@TheMrblueprint]

This couldn’t come at a better time 🙏

[@yuielf318]

I saw the first quality and it followed .... I was in a toxic relationship before It's not healthy Was with him for a year It's tiring and my self-esteem went down I hope people learn this It's not okay And I hope u learn how anyone should treat u If they love u it shows

[@copytechful]

my gf and I both watched this and agreed we both do guilt tripping but we also call each other out on it.

[@saraakef4202]

This remember me on transaction analysis with the kid me or parent me. Hey maby you could make a video about it it's really interesting.

[@jaredbowles7269]

It's relatable things like this that have made me stop dating maybe forever

[@alyssal3851]

Started crying before the list even started.

[@veonyxx]

I’m not and have never been in a relationship, but am I still gonna watch this? Yes.

[@TheGhostGirl.]

I did it, I prioritized myself, the fact that now I feel free says a lot. And it was a friendship, this video works for friendships too I guess. If you're reading this and relating to this video, please put your life first, your happiness and peace, it is not selfish to leave a toxic relationship. I root for you ❤

[@DanielleSkye]

When your very first boyfriend doesn’t have a toxic bone in his body. Still don’t know what I did to deserve him...😂😂😂