8 things traditional Asian parents don't understand about their kids.

[@mantrmishra1219]

To this day I struggle to say “I love you to my parents” because of the way they raised me

[@sangonomiyakokomi5764]

Don't worry man I feel you

[@V1SHNU_V1PER]

@@sangonomiyakokomi5764 Same bro. That's why I stay in my room at the time. I just try to make my room a bunker. A cozy bunker so then I lock the door and just stay safe there.

[@geebee8041]

@@V1SHNU_V1PER ow dude, I'm 18 and still have to sleep with my parents🤦 it's so uncomfortable. I requested for my private room when I was 14. They said It's cost alot of money to renovate my room, but I know they just don't want to make it. I don't have my own privacy or any space. I'd like to go outside for get away from home, came back in the night and always fight with them because They hate when I go hangout. They have to know who did I go out with, how did I know them, sometimes they asked for my friend's parents phone number🤷

[@V1SHNU_V1PER]

@@geebee8041 If you are 18, then I have an advice. I am only 12, but I want to help the best I can. If you are 18 and not done with highschool, finish that, get a good college and move out as soon as possible, don’t call or facetime, because you said you keep fighting with them. You can have fun with your friends and be happy. Plus, you get your own room :)

[@CanadianProud_]

Relatable.

[@doubt6726]

They don't think of mental health, even if schools put mental health messages for no reason And when they finds out you're deppressed they'll just say "it's because of that phone" or "because it's your fault"

[@meow_imut]

True It's like we have to be perfect or at least we have to reach their standard

[@V1SHNU_V1PER]

@@meow_imut Yeah it’s like they are royalty and we are the peasants. It’s always their perspective that matters, no one else

[@Hyp3rMango]

Yes I try to play some games but when I’m bored I try to play games they say I’m on drugs(my iPad)

[@lilacspring2556]

I get the question what are you thinking at your age that you are depressed 👁👄👁

[@doubt6726]

@@lilacspring2556 bro either your grammars are bad or mine are worse what i can tell from your emojis are that you're asking something stupid

[@JiggyJ415]

What makes me happy is that there’s videos like this to show me and other Asian kids were not alone but what’s sad is that there’s also videos like this to show how common the toxicity is with our community

[@simonchen5284]

Welp its the normal for some kids infact since when did you not get a smack or "beat" from your teachers for talking in the class or when your classmates talk in the class.😅

[@CyrintheYini]

Samw

[@Hmm-kj3fj]

@@simonchen5284 never once cause that’s illegal

[@BearsDenn]

My mother can’t have a conversation with me without commenting about my weight, and she will always somehow bring the phrase “I’m your mother” into the conversation, my parents brought me to Australia for a “better life” and they are somehow surprised that I’ve adapted to the western way of thinking. My mother always say she’s jealous how other girls are with their moms, like friends. But she doesn’t EVER fucking think for one second that she doesn’t even allow me to be friends with her, she will always want to be the parent in EVERY FUCKING SINGLE conversation we have, how the fuck am I suppose to be friends with her if she doesn’t even change. Honestly she’s surprised that I fight back because she called me fat and it’s like, how the fuck would you feel if your mate called you a dickhead every time they see or talk to you, sooner or later you snap and they are just so surprised like “oh shit it’s out of no where, DISRESPECT” fuck man I’m literally binge drinking and eating because they cause me so much fucking stress and they don’t ever think it’s their fault

[@yamligma]

I feel your pain

[@ravenwithcall8527]

The fact that 16k people have purposely searched up and watched this video and 284 have complained about their own fucking parents shows how terrible asian parenting as a whole is.

[@otakumonkey]

That's a worse.

[@Unknown-individual]

Moral of the story: lay of the cupcakes. It'll fix your relationships with your parents

[@milkystraw15]

I can totally relate with you. The difference is she is my MIL not even my mum. She wanted us to have mum daughter relationship which I thought was sweet but she treated exactly the same as your mum. Even a little belly fat she called me fat, I thought she was joking n I made the same joke as her, and she reported to my Father in law that I called her fat and he started to lecture me! Then, when I pulled distance she guilt trip me saying that she felt like a wall between us n wanted us to be like friends. Like, make up your mind! My mind became distorted eventually because she treated me like a her puppet even I am not her own daughter. It is all about power and self satisfaction, right?

[@otakumonkey]

The worst thing is parent don't understand even if we tell them these things. They fight back with emotional unjust.

[@panzerkampfwagenvitigeraus344]

As an asian kid can confirm that parents don't understand their kids enough and push them to be the best using any means they like.

[@MakeTodayCountOk]

For some reason my parents are asian and they let me spend with my friends and choose my job,they don't make me do things I don't want but the only problem is that they are Judgemental about my looks

[@dragonball8729]

Beatings is a way for way to many parents do

[@loveismylanguage9162]

And now you’re amazing. I think Asian Parents are some of the best. Asian’s are so brilliant and successful

[@buksiblingsfun8906]

My mom expects me to look at her as a "Friend" like i did when i was 8 I can't do that because you look down on me as a child and force me to put my gadgets away because "its addicting" even though im practicing my writing with online communities that are more helpful in this area than you Friends trust me to be a human person

[@thebluenessofthesky]

Parents said that we can share them anything, but when we try to share it, they just don't care about it. I feel it too btw.

[@darKILLusionnn]

I resonate with this soooo much. They tell us to share anything with them, but can't respect our opinions.

[@mantrmishra1219]

Don’t forget a friend wouldnt force something you hate upon you

[@Darkmrl1213]

My parents when I share something that I’m going through or is hard for me right now they try to help me through it by talking to me about it and how I can get out of it I think I have good parents

[@LukeLeafs]

@@thebluenessofthesky same here

[@buksiblingsfun8906]

Hands up if you just love listening to western kids complain about their parents disapprove of their clothes or their boyfriend at 15 years old 🙆🏻

[@arisyahannah]

That's noting compared to my mum.

[@rexhunter2729]

Thats nothing my mom will get worse They will question my existance

[@alyxxpratt678]

You act like western kids don’t also suffer from abuse from their parents. Some kids complain about stupid things yes but abuse is abuse no matter the ethnicity

[@northstar2621]

"That's nothing that's nothing" way to belittle everyone else's problems and not take them seriously just like your parents do to you

[@rena4278]

I swear of god my parent will never understand about my life perspective. I told them that I have depression since my I have 3 honor classes in Junior and have a ton of homework so they can leave me alone. And you know what they said to me, they say that the damn phone make me have depression. I legit cry in my room for how long I don’t even know since they don’t understand my feelings and how my life operate during teenagers time. For now I will just focus on getting average grade and achieve CompTIA A+ certification at the end of my teenage years.

[@ddb2024]

Sorry for u.

[@sangonomiyakokomi5764]

@Aura Darkskipper Thats the spirit my dude

[@V1SHNU_V1PER]

@@sangonomiyakokomi5764 Yeah. Lets beat their ass up

[@mrrandom1265]

I live in Vietnam and I feel sorry for all those kids who grow up like robots: school with almost no holiday except for summer, no social life, piano, math and English classes every night after school. This is insane.

[@TranquilRiceman]

I always hated it when my parents just compare my grades with someone else's and continuously shame me for grades that lower their expectations.

[@otakumonkey]

Ever thought why 9 years old kid want to die? Cuz his parent compared with his friends for a silly thing like could not hammer a nails well as his friends and wished his friends to be one of her son. 😂

[@timothycao3851]

@Ari luvs Jesus Ikr. It's one of the most annoying things in the world

[@Unknown-individual]

Then why didn't you study harder?

[@xAnimelovvvvverx]

@@Unknown-individual Why do you exist?

[@Unknown-individual]

@@xAnimelovvvvverx No, but honestly. Sometimes people don't succeed at school/work or life in general because people don't want to apply themselves. You guys can huddle up and bad mouth your parents for trying to push you to be better like a bunch of ungreatful people but at the end of the day, you grade and your life is a reflection of you. Not your parents who you want to blame; not your teachers; not your friends but you. Now you can either change your attitude and a approach to life or you could keep looking for someone to blame for your inadequacies in life.

[@hannah-tn5kh]

i have lost intrest in everything i have enjoyed because of my parents if they ever want me to have a "successful" future they already ruined any chance of it...

[@nillythelich688]

same :( 😕

[@areyoukirringmeirriyaa]

wanna talk about it? i’m asian as well and in college rn, it’s super stressful

[@mickido7891]

Welcome to the future where doctors are no loger needed beacause surgery robots exist and lawyers are useless because AI exist

[@LukeLeafs]

Same I lost interest

[@nsingh681]

Relatable

[@jaddenn7660]

my dad literally gets angry about little things, and he always has his face turned to fire when theres no reason to get angry about he will call me "you dont know anything" he will call me "stupid"😑

[@s.6986]

I am not Asian but this literally describes my mom omg

[@clareliu2547]

Omg this is SO relateable it's good to know that there are other asian kids out there like me that have parents like this too

[@elijahdaleb.cruzado4023]

This is true And iam an Asian That's why this is so relatable

[@AndreDV07]

My asian parents caught me watching this and now their punishing me with a slipper (its true, it actually happened...)

[@chiakinanami4570]

im sorry to hear that. you dont deserve it!

[@mnm1022]

Yes! This is all true!

[@peaceforever166]

Kid : Commit suicide because of stress Parents : It because of that god damn phone

[@nsingh681]

Relatable

[@Unknown-individual]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@smeraarkalgud5703]

Is it just me or is it hard to tell them stuff because if you tell them you feel sad or hate yourself or if u have depression you will be considered crazy or insane?

[@degamey2537]

I have Vietnamese parents, everytime if I get a bad grade on a test, my mom would always scream at me and call me a disgrace, they hid everything I have ( my pc, my phone )

[@Unknown-individual]

You'd be getting better grades if you studied instead of being on youtube telling us your problems.

[@sarahashley5644]

My boyfriends parents split and he has lived with his loving, caring and always compassionate mother(nyc) since he turned 18 he recently moved across the county to live with his dad(Nevada) because it’s closer to me(California) so flights are much cheaper and easier for us to see one another. His father is a cruel and harsh man, your quote on quote “traditional Asian dad” he’s so hard on him in every way you could ever think of. If it wasn’t for me he would not have to endure the mental abuse from his father. I’m so torn I love him so much but I don’t know what to do when he’s crying on the phone with me and sad whoever he has to fly back to his dads house after visiting me.. idk I genuinely don’t know how to help

[@AIAnimationandMusic]

You’re a good person and I feel you’re right

[@Unknown-individual]

Help him by telling him to stop being a sissy.

[@leabeckman3558]

Heck when I was younger I do my homework and chorus no doubt but I can’t have social life end up babysitting. My teenage life suck!

[@Auditorexe_Official]

I can relate to this too, because when I got a 4/5 or 3/5 on a quiz, they say " why do you have this score, study hard or no phone for a week." It's like they wanted me to become a "perfect" son to them.

[@crimson5239]

It like my Family....they never understand me....they always blame me ...everything is always my fault...maybe now I being thing that they said a "mistake " I remember that what mom said to me "she said if I wasn't had you I can go far than now".....thank for reading😄😄😄

[@mr.coolkid9782]

I feel you I’m asian too I wish I was actually white

[@lollwhyy4370]

@@mr.coolkid9782 I had pride in being a asian teenager but i don't believe in abusive idiotic parents.

[@Unknown-individual]

​@@mr.coolkid9782 Don't come here with your bafoonary, nobody cares.

[@mikasauchiha6785]

I'm also an asian. I'm a pilipina maranao and I know that feeling. Most maranao people prefer professions like doctors, lawyers, teachers and more. If you want to be a farmer, a janitor forget it. Your parents and your relatives will belittle you. Tbh, it's ok with me to end up as a farmer even a janitor. No pressure, no conflicts, no compition etc. But our society dictates us. 😒

[@libl2915]

YES! This video is so good. It makes me burst to tears. I am having so much pressure, ahhhhhhhh!

[@lifeviz28568]

So relatable, I wish my parents understand this but they don't. They just restrict me from having a normal adult life (socializing, hanging out with friends, dating, etc.) and they now wonder why I am so eager and want to move out when they call me out for being "selfish". Thanks for sharing this informative video that everyone can relate to!

[@koiiyanxe]

all of these are so true! I just got into a fight with my asian parents and it didnt go well...

[@LukeLeafs]

I got into a fight with my dad he saying that I’m 21 now that I have to get a job but I’m not good with communicating with people and the pressure they are putting on me is not helping

[@Unknown-individual]

​@@LukeLeafs you were eloquent enough to type this but ca- ca- ca- can't type a CV?

[@LukeLeafs]

@@Unknown-individual what

[@charles5895]

They ALWAYS blame everything on video games. They’ve developed a mentality where every time a problem for their child comes up they almost always immediately resort to blaming it on whatever they don’t like, often video games is the scapegoat and takes the blame.

[@raniaran9790]

My dad always gets mad with me because i raise my voice when i talk to him. Most times it's spontaneous bcause that's the way they raise me. They always yell at me and now they get mad because i yell back.

[@WDWTV506Helper]

Same for me too! Why are parents extremely strict? 😢

[@theunknownbachatero8899]

Oh please tell Number 8 to my mom. She NEVER USED TO LET ME DO ANYTHING FOR MYSELF. She used to be reluctant to teach me & my brother to cook or do laundry bcuz her biggest fear was that we'd become independent & move out.

[@yoqiu_]

So relatable. So many of these parents come with ingrained, fixed mindsets that are so unadaptable it it just makes life a tremendous, completely unseen struggle for their kids. Having to deal with their preconceptions about life and how that affects you is battle unseen by so many of your peers. Honestly the struggle is so hard with asian parents and grandparents. Some other things too: extreme favoritism and racism, especially towards African Americans.

[@lollwhyy4370]

This should apply for all of us kids/teens that are different race that are abuse. Even if a minor abuse.

[@elaineen1]

My Puerto Rican Dad was strict. However I remember him allowing me to sit with him at our table with his peers. I was 14 and I sat with my Dad, uncle and my Dad's army buddy. They shared how they came to the U.S. from Puerto Rico during the depression with nothing. They served in World War 11 and struggled to provide a decent and honorable living for their families. I felt honored to be allowed to listen to their life experiences. It gave me a perspective on their struggles and motivated me to do the best I could.

[@sasharcycanon9090]

I came here to watch because this just happened when I was just doing my homework...

[@bellachan211]

Yes I relate to this because my parents use to try to force themselves on me and the fact that they force me to even take care of them when my mom didn’t ever show she deserves it

[@TozkahsKorner8281]

I am severely mentally unhealthy, due to the fact that they made me feel like my grades are equal to how much they love me. To this day, they deny my problems, refuse to let me seek out professional health, and use the few things they keep me sane as a scapegoat for the causes of everything that's wrong with my brain. I'm successful now, but I think the end product is nowhere near being worth what I went through.

[@GenericPhantom1]

My mom gets mad at me when I get a B. She herself admitted that she was getting Cs and Ds and she has a decent life now??? She wants me to study so much. But she also wants me to have friends... My dad had worse grades. And he has a decent life now. I wish that I would have a 750 euro salary (no tax in Serbia.) Not going to school and not be living with my parents

[@lollwhyy4370]

She(your mother) admits to hypocrisys.....

[@LukeLeafs]

I got a f when I was in school

[@amylau4817]

Everything you mentioned is TRUE. Exactly how I feel. Thanks.

[@prodbyevadwave]

Even though I'm a Filipino they keep on pressuring me to have grades, I need to help my sis on almost everything and they blamed me now for having low grades.

[@mr.coolkid9782]

I have good grade and i’m Chinese but everyday I get yelled at sometimes hit from no reason

[@prodbyevadwave]

@@mr.coolkid9782 sad you can do it bru

[@ahawksjawbc2464]

@@mr.coolkid9782 Grades don't matter.

[@ravenwithcall8527]

I’m Filipino and I have low grades too. When I get low grades on my test my parents tell me to ‘try hard’ and I say that I tried my hardest and they said ‘Then try harder’. Like wtf that is like saying to somebody with a broken leg to move and they say they can’t so you tell them to stand up and walk.

[@raxriot5900]

i had a sad life when i whas a kid my asian parents never cared they want me to have good grades but now they reliazed that they love me now

[@AverageAngel]

Oh my this hurt especially #5, I wish that we could without everything always been brushed over

[@TheWutangclan1995]

It took me up to graduating college where I realize I should do things for myself that makes me happy and I would stop impressing my Asian mom because she will never be satisfied. I got yelled at really bad during the car ride to campus and would have to hear her go down the list of things I did wrong. What’s suppose to be a special and big day for all of us became a day where I just question myself. It really made me feel like crap. Only thing that fixed it was leaving later that night to celebrate with my friends.

[@anniezhang347]

this morning my dad called me a failure because i wasn't studying for my sat.. And just now on the way to my 2nd covid shot he exploded in anger because i didn't sign up to get a 25 dollar reward (even though they still gave us the reward when we got there). I'm currently shaking right now. Academics and saving money-- the only two things that matter to my narrow, fixed-minded dad.

[@theanonymous1492]

I love your mindset and hope you’ll succeed in life I know you will

[@christineyang316]

Omg, EVERYTHING is sooooo true. I really wish these things weren't though...

[@raenia3655]

Not to mention, they completely neglect their child's mental health. I was and am still going through depression and when I told my mom I wasn't happy, she was like "Are you crazy?! That's nonsense, just study more." as if that would help and she keeps forcing me to do things I don't want to and when I try to cope by listening to music or buying food to deal with the stress, she just tells me to stop whereas my father, I believe, got the memo because he doesn't complain about how "atrociously" messy my room is and give me some time for myself. I'm too scared to get therapy because I don't want them finding out or to be a burden, but once I grow older, I will surely move out.

[@warrior6673]

when my sister has mental health problems and wants to get therapy and says to her mom and dad to go to get the therapy : mom : you think the psychologist will help you ? dad : therapy will not help you mom : psychologists will not help solve your problems . what do you think they do ? they only talk

[@CHUCKBORRISNORRIS]

It's crazy how we have so much in common... it's like we all have the same parents... I gave up on changing their mind... It's impossible to have a conversation with them without their ego getting in the way...

[@lol_editz69]

Just kwil yaw pawents

[@CyrintheYini]

I feel so sad and comforted at the same time :( Being Asian kinda sux

[@DH-nu5oc]

Sometimes being Asian American in this country is a lose-lose. We can never fully live up to expectations of traditional Asian culture, but facially we look "not American enough" to be accepted by a lot of other cultures. It's an uphill battle being Asian American.

[@cuteaisyah23]

watching this now after a quarrel with my asian parents.. sending extra love to any firstborns to traditional asian parents

[@lenabambina1234]

I'm lucky my mom was not strict with my grades, but not to downplay those here saying they get fussed at forgetting Bs. I was usually borderline about to repeat a grade in grade school and then teachers change their minds when they saw my improvement later on... My mom didn't put stipulations on what I went to college for-never "U should be doctor teacher or lawyer" (in my family's culture, lawyers are seen in a kinda negative light which is interesting) , recently when I graduated she would complain the college didn't give me a job ... However, she did want me to study nutrition since it's applicable to daily life and I did take one class on that Something not mentioned in this video that applies to me is that it seems like Praise and compliments aren't always necessary and gets confused with honesty...as if praise is no good....

[@wendyjanemotionpix3496]

1.- They always force me to do uninteresting things 2.- They always thought that a tiny dirt on a shirt is a big deal. It’s not really a big deal it’s just a tiny dirt! 3.- My friends always say i’m pretty, but my parents said the opposite cause of my dry skin. I don’t know why beauty is important! But what’s important is, be yourself, be who you are Okeeey it’s supposed to be private about my life with parents ;-;

[@masterclassbeatassclapyour7698]

;-;

[@hienienguyen6766]

Yes thats so true. Great post.

[@nk-hg1dm]

Building on the point of how kids would share more if they could: The hardest thing is choosing not to share information about something that hurts you, like depression or a toxic relationship, out of fear of having the blame placed on yourself.

[@kavinboylah]

Thanks man, this is pretty true!

[@BoccherNo.69]

My father is pretty chill But my mom HOLY SHIEETTT!!!!

[@indonesianguy4026]

You asian dude cuz im south east asian and I can relate so much

[@soo_shii3263]

Same Asian parents are really strict also my mom is like f*CK really strict and all

[@migz101199]

Its mostly the moms Its rarely the dads

[@soo_shii3263]

@@migz101199 I argree

[@PungiFungi]

Same here. And she wonders none of her now grown up kids call or speak to her.

[@blackcurrantpop]

So true. Great video. Wish my parents watched this when I was young.

[@regularlad6391]

Every time I have an opinion my parents don't like, they just get angry and its so frustrating because they bring up either grades or that I gave birth to you when they can't respect my opinion

[@gyarushi09]

Bro this is so relatable

[@MonsieurZemuya]

0:29 Yeah that is true, My parents want me to take over their stereotypical Asian restaurant. This I could totally relate, I want to become an Animator/Voice Actor but my parents don't believe that's the best path for me. This might sound grim, selfish and remorseful; but I wish my parents is dead. It's because they think like psychos or people who should be set in a Mental Asylum or in Jail. 2:00 OMFG, I cannot stress this enough and now I am about 28 years old. I suffer from PTSD, GAD, and Social Anxiety because my father is fucked up and abusive towards my sister and I. My Parents developed this Sadism Fetish and it's not funny anymore. Other people my age have jobs, my mom kept screwing with me and think I can rely on her forever. She's the opposite what an Asian mother would be like. She never bothers my sister and her constant nagging just makes me wish someone knocked her out in a boxing Match and probably in a Coma. They also think Doctors are Gods and when they see a Casino it is like Those Nintendo 64 kids and if I don't take them to a Casino they keep complaining and nagging, it will drive anyone insane! 2:43 I would never ever talk to my parents about this issue, they are cold-hearted conservative racists because they poked fun of people who are different from them. I don't even know how are they not dead yet in their restaurant from engaging into fights and most of their customers left because of unwanted racism next to to being Hygienic. 5:11 Yup happens every time when I go visit my parents. They bullshit to the cops and tried to threaten me to call the cops when I was trying to defend myself. My Father called me a "Slave" once thinking it's Tradition. I just hope they die before the age of 70. They won't learn a damn thing unless they end up in the ER in the Hospital. Either that or deportation whichever comes first. I will never say "I love you" to my parents; They've given me a rough childhood and when they die, I will finally get the Freedom and Independence of a Normal Adult in America should deserve. I swear, sometimes I just wanna say "Your grateful you don't abusive and toxic next to Psychotic parents like mine!" because I would rather see them get their asses deported or in jail for all the Nasty Sadism, Abuse, and long term Trauma caused by their Traditional Bullshit they should've left back in Asia and not use the same tactics living in America!

[@MonsieurZemuya]

Sometimes I wish I can get a job! Sometimes I wish somebody could get my parent Deported so they can't stop worrying how others think of me and my sister. I just want a normal, loving life. There's a woman I fell in love with who lives up in Canada, My parents think this is a joke. They think very old School and is full of Bullshit Hatred. I loved a woman who's different from me, I don't care how much people poked fun of me. Love have no Weaknesses. If my parents don't go out of Business of Deported from the ICE, soon they might Dictate me until they die. I hope I can get a job, save my money, go up and Canada and find the woman that I would love and cherish forever. Even if that means My parents would be in 2 Tombstones in South Korea. I am Chinese person born in the United States and I wish my parents would listen, but they never do. I loved someone who meant the whole world to me, my parents just wanna tear her up in half! Somebody please get rid of my parents by calling the ICE Officers and have them Legally Deported! Seriously, They need a taste of their own medicine. Otherwise, my life would be a living hell! My parents are Dumbasses who are meant to be locked up in a Mental Asylum not a Restaurant or any Business. If I loved someone else, They shouldn't be jealous or pissed off. They should support it! If anyone can legally get rid of my parents, I would be honored to say "Thank you" to them. So, I can move on with my life with a Brand new chapter and hopefully accomplishing with my sweet love. Somebody have to give them the "No Way back to America" pass because I really want them to suffer and be dead! They are abusive and hateful. They love Money and Slot Machines more than me, They Admit Doctors are God and not Human Beings!

[@Mila-ml2oo]

It makes me pretty nervous to have kids since I feel like an emotional wreck inside due to my parents being emotionally unavailable. I don't want to pass the same trauma onto my kids, it's not fair for them.

[@kittsupremacy6827]

My experience with Asia parents summarised in a sentence: mental health doesn’t matter

[@Jimmynguyen659]

Worse part is they don’t even love you at all. They say study hard, get a good job, only for them to retire, & use you as a bank account.

[@warrior6673]

The same goes with some european parents

[@endingalaporte]

I'm 100% with your points, mine has all of them except 2 and 6. And it is very hurtful. Only way I found is getting away and cutting all contact unfortunately

[@ravenwithcall8527]

It is good we all know the mistakes our parents are doing because then we can actually raise an entire generation that promotes encouragement instead of punishment.

[@Gravy222]

Dude they agree to having me send to a factory thing to work at if I don't complete every single homework or anything like this is why I realy think what have I gotten my self into

[@Uraniumpanda]

My childhood was messed up, being born with Asian parents mostly sucks as a child

[@ss-zs4bu]

I am asian too and my parents says they wish l was never born. They said they wanted a son not a daughter.. l really couldn't say a single word to them. Tbh now l feel like l wish l was never born so l couldn't get slapped and get hurt like this

[@kimnguyen1854]

Asain vietnamese 32 female and still hate my parents. They ruined so much for me. I remember feeling suicide most of my chlid hood. Thank you so much for this video 💚💚💚💚💚

[@manisfestesubs2271]

I feel so so sad about my parents, so pathetic that they need happiness from their kids

[@sangonomiyakokomi5764]

I want to find the courage to spam send this to my parents, I also want to tell them that I would probably casually approach them for help if they didn't resort to harming me over a couple of numbers on a report card

[@V1SHNU_V1PER]

Omg same. I can’t come to my parents that easily, but my perfect sister doesn’t have to worry, bc my parents like her more than me

[@IluvTama]

Me:got 99.9 test on math test Parents: it because if that dam phone

[@PiolsFlorentino]

If you're a 90's kid, it's because of that TV

[@oolioo2406]

I hope my parent would understand when I show this to them… But I don’t want to show it because they might judge me

[@jasonzhang7725]

another 5 years and I'm outta this shit hole

[@Whocky]

I swear my parents especially my dad would always tell me to eat even though I already ate or was not hungry and it annoyed me when he said "I didn't see you eat" like holy crap

[@Whocky]

He doesn't even ask if I'm hungry, he just wants to make me fat cause fat=strong for him Ig

[@yoleeisbored]

then they say "You So Fat!!!" and hit you.. god asian parents suck

[@joshfilms4088]

I never experience Amy of these but this is just sad, what has society become?

[@deadhand1550]

this man spitting faxxx

[@edge9323]

Everyone can agree with this cuz my parent is like this

[@morijin8564]

I have low grades on school cause im scared at report in front of the class (Performance task which is 60% of your grades)because of my past when i was bullied and my mom got mad at me and slapped the Grade Card on my face,i want to tell the reason but they dont want me to and if i can tell the reason they will just ignore it or they will find another reason to make me wrong.

[@rycanlase3639]

Yea they deserve to hell

[@bruhbruhin_a_sling7775]

The sad truth is that in China grades ARE everything.

[@lordemerites1335]

Not only china,even india.😞

[@soo_shii3263]

South korra

[@Ak_Door-kun]

Malaysia :/, at least for me and my living environment

[@kidscheung5521]

my parents always just one smash my dreams like I want to be a KZbin artist but my mother just going to scream at me and say I have to be a lawyer same with sexuilty I'm bi and my mother scream at me for liking girls and boys

[@yoleeisbored]

please dont listen to her... its okay to be Bi sexual. i also got screamed at too over pointless stuff

[@V1SHNU_V1PER]

Oh she hates bisexual? We got an 1800’s karen here. Don’t listen to her, she’ll just probably call the manager and the manager will show the cameras, and the karen will be mad bc you proved her wrong

[@timmycho3191]

KZbin Artist......

[@kanrapheeratchakij804]

You are my cure

[@catherinemartell2873]

I wanted to see a psychiatrist after being under pressure for the past few years, but they told me to see an ustadz to be performed a ruqyah (sort of an exorcism) and now I haven't seen any psychiatrist and still in the same state because they think that someone my age (I'm 16) shouldn't go to a psychiatrist and they will be ashamed that their daughter goes there as if she were crazy

[@cabbagememes2852]

Asian parents-Let me just pretend I did not see that

[@kukukakikakakkukaku]

Me : Done some chores Time to get chill Grab my phone Mom, passing by : "You such a lazy girl. Now sweep the floor!" i'm already done that, you dragonmouth bitc-

[@yourcutemc]

I understand that like having high grades is nice. But if that what we'll focus for the rest of our lives, what's the meaning of living? Especially pressuring kids into doing something in school that they won't know in the future. In the future if i become a parent myself, i wont do these to my kids, i want then to enjoy life while having simple knowledge too

[@somehybrid]

because of my parents, i feel afraid to do anything i have no social life feel depressed be afraid to talk about any of my problems yeH bUT At leAst u HavE goOd gradeS

[@Unknown-individual]

Good boy🎉

[@defuncttttrickster]

As an American born Chinese I can confirm

[@kingsrealepiccreatures1275]

As an asian, i feel what he was saying because it really is. 🖤

[@Chinacommunist]

The last time I tried to be independant because I wanted to learn how to do real estate, I got beat, and grounded. Traditional Asian parents….

[@jessycuhx8754]

can we have this translated for my mom to understand 😪

[@Bononie301]

But she’ll ignore to listen this

[@tevinlim9123]

Mine doesn't respect me as an adult.

[@nemumami]

Honestly I hate to admit that the biggest factor as to why I’ve been depressed to the point of attempting suicide is because of my parents.

[@kiswy1882]

I got a 49/50 and my mum was furious

[@PALACEOFDREADOFFICIAL]

They care about our grades but they will care if we are died

[@4ortp]

In and out of depression because of my parents :)

[@bravewarrior236]

I'm sure someday , someday you'll be popular but don't lose you're virtue !'

[@jackz7057]

2 dislikes are from parents

[@supertrouper]

Here is what I think. Some Asians can be way too traditional, but there are some westerners that are way too liberal. I think there needs to be a balance between the two. The problem with many of the traditional Asian parents is that they are coming from very different generations where they did not have quality education like westerners to understand social situations and mentalities and how they affect individuals. Many of them want too much and criticize over minor things and have very narrow minded ideas that to be successful and smart, you have to be like Donald Trump or Stephen Hawkins or Dr. Anthony Fauci or a district attorney and etc. Many of them unfortunately see them as financial properties or a money tree to benefit them instead loving and accepting them for who they are and wanting the best for them. When it comes to mental health problems, many of them think are so insensitive thinking it is fake or science fiction and will say things like that the person is being too dramatic and just telling them to snap out it and get it over with and when it is a child, all they say is because they are young, they do not know any better and they will just simply get over it. Unfortunately, many of the American Asians that are able to become successful and make a lot of money and also came from these types of parents, they often will leave their parents and move into a white suburban town disassociating from their family's cultures and sometimes they limit talking to their parents, sometimes no contact at all and this is all because they did not like how their parents treated them and then when it comes to their parents health declining, they sometimes just simply place them in nursing homes and not even bother to come visit them or either very limited.