Stop Helping These 8 People - They’ll Only Use You!| Inspired by Anthony Hopkins

8 Types Of People You Should Not Help | Inspired by Anthony Hopkins
Not everyone who asks for help truly deserves it. While kindness and compassion are admirable traits, there are people who will take advantage of your generosity, drain your energy, and leave you feeling used. In this video, we break down the 8 types of people you should think twice before helping-those who refuse to change, manipulate your good nature, or simply don’t value your efforts.
Disclaimer:
This video draws inspiration from the motivational teachings of Anthony Hopkins and is meant solely for educational and inspirational purposes. The voiceover used in this video is an AI-generated voice, not that of any human being, although it closely resembles the voice of Antony Hopkins. As admirers of this legendary figure, we channel our passion into creating these motivational speeches, inspired by his timeless words and virtues. Through our dedicated efforts, we aim to inspire and motivate everyone to achieve success and inner peace.

[@merdeangonzi7999]

What a reality check, 100% correct video … Stop helping abusers and help a dog in need…

[@Stevie6636]

Nailed it!

[@KathyGemmecke]

As a 71 year old, divorced for 21 years after a 26 year marriage I absolutely love my aloneness. I would rather live with my pack of four legged roommates/ therapists than a man ever again. I have become so strong and I love being the one in control of my life. Don't sell yourself short be strong. If I can do it so can you!

[@Wastelander13]

Im a 65 year old man and think the same. I dont want a relationship anymore. I cheerish my loneliness and the company of my dog.

[@tracykim6830]

TRUE SAY more love and loyalty from my big muscular fur boobe ❤

[@GoldenHeartAdvice]

The part about 'The Perpetual Victim' at 01:53 is so eye-opening and relatable. Definitely a highlight! ✨

[@teopensitalima3125]

I will now set a boundary for my peace. It's never to late 🙏🙏🙏♥️

[@TwilightDoomSlayer301]

I was friends with a guy since middle school and for the majority of my life he was been nothing but manipulative. At the time and after high school he was the only friend i had until i started working at my local Walmart and gain a true group of friends that helped me grow. A few more years would pass until I finally broke myself away from that manipulative persion with their support and my life has been infinitely better and more fulfilled.

[@kenburke9920]

Same here. I have a friend who I've done a for. That has only escalated his requests. Six times he's requested for me to bring him food. Each time I said "No". His last request was to spot him $200. I'm done with trying to help him. I've got my own problems.

[@TwilightDoomSlayer301]

@kenburke9920 glad to see that you're doing better without that toxicity in your life

[@EchoesofWisdom-c5p]

"This is such an eye-opening perspective. Sometimes, setting boundaries is the kindest thing we can do for ourselves and others. Thank you for sharing this valuable wisdom!"

[@beppiefleurdenheyer4486]

Through out my self and life around my neck have been sticking out for others and they don't return back the same level of service in helping each other and now after so many years of being there for them all, I'm closing the door on them all 😢😮 no longer love lost on them all 😮😅

[@michelemcmanus6098]

No one wants to be a victim. It's the deceitful, jealous people who cause the drama and make you a victim while you are trying to go on with life.

[@MrETS68]

Weak people will use you, they don't have any conscience doing that, but they fall apart when no one longer says yes, in the end, you get what you give..

[@Stevie6636]

I’ve met them all. Once bitten. You know the rest. “Protect your well-being, at all cost” I chose to walk away.

[@SeedsofFaith-c89]

"Everything comes to you at the right time. Be patient and trust the process." Such a deep statement.

[@EMMETTGHOLSON]

THANKS

[@QuotesToday2025]

To anybody reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind may clarity replace confusion. may peace and calmness fill your life.🙏

[@PeterOHalloran-hf2ho]

Same here in Ireland i have so many close people to me who i went overboard to help and didn't see them when i needed them im ignoring them now

[@yasminenazarine1629]

Those kind of people everywhere not only in Ireland snow 🏔️ green 🌲 land Fake baggers everywhere

[@MrMutt1960]

Hi peter,i have done the same all my life, thinking that showing kindness,giving my time and help many times, much to my cost,at the time i shrugged it off, thinking i am doing good in giving,in many cases its come to bite me on the arse,i felt joy and worthy of doing what i thought was the right thing to do,then the realisation sets in,ive been taken for a fool,used for my kindness,not everytime ,but more often than i should have said no to,when i realised this ,the disappointment has been more than i could bare,to say it deflated me is an understatement ,hit me like a blow to the head with a wood pole,rinsed and spun in dirty water then left to dry,at 65, i never learned,now i am left with bitter thoughts of regret,wished i hadn't bothered except the genuine ones that you know when they are truly grateful,they say it with their eyes,n body language, you feel it,that then is pure joy,makes ya glow with satisfaction. The best defense is not to engage with them in the 1st place,listen but dont act,i wish i minded my own business rather than feel the need to help,how sad these folk took me for a mug,bastards,take care kind kindred spirit,i wish you happiness and peace,from yorkshire.

[@teresaj6374]

@@PeterOHalloran-hf2ho me too.

[@ivrz]

Very common in Ireland

[@yasminenazarine1629]

@@PeterOHalloran-hf2ho land of poverty starvation shipped in boat 🚢⛵ & airplane ✈️ ilgail run away hole 🕳️⛳ must be

[@pinardemircan1749]

So sad to face the consequences but I embrace the lessons

[@reachlove6779]

I never see myself as a victim. I encounter the wrong people into my life. People who intentions aren’t honorable or trustworthy spiritually . I learned a valuable lesson over the past year. I claim this message wholeheartedly. Learning how to use discernment while sleeping is very important to ask for protection from harmful entities negatively affecting your life and health.

[@silviasevilla239]

I needed to hear this for the longest time. Thank you Sir Anthony Hopkins for your powerful and beautiful voice.

[@zenisfun]

I learned it through the hard way. Helping my aunt seeing she is weak and end up she is a energy vampire It took me so long to prevent her from coming to see me and I was so stressed out. These people usually have sob story to tell and going in circles that they cannot get out of it. It’s so scary Nowadays I can sense this kind of people from mile away and never want to get too close to people

[@KB-uw6ne]

This is actually a very brilliant video, one of the best in the net. Thank you for your truth.

[@paulstuart551]

*What is being described is narcissism, there are many types but most patterns are shared: the constant victim is covert (they may grow to believe their own lies), the show offs are overt who begin many projects but don't see them through, communal gather friends & bitch about others, the malignant control & excessively punish when displeased. Many traits overlap like love bombing to gain initial supply & when established will either lie or omit the truth, ghost - as if you are not there while making their presence obvious by slamming things etc, gaslight - try to question your sense of reality, have childlike tantrums, snide remarks to make you look foolish & demean you, if you distance they breadcrumb emotion to keep you hooked. They will take without giving back & intimacy is absent, they need constant validation & praise. More dangerous are psychopaths & sociopaths as they have no conscience & do not fear consequences. Anything you give is never enough. You can't set boundaries with such people as they change their games, the only solution is to grey-rock, which is to give no response. Ultimately living this life is intolerable, like always walking on eggshells, so no matter how emotionally invested you are free yourself by cutting off all communication. They are master manipulators who are expert at spotting vulnerabilities & you may not realise until you get caught in their web of mind games. One warning sign is that they ask all about you but reveal little about themselves except to elicit interest or sympathy. They often have a new person lined up to prey on if they don't get what they want from you. Only give if there is an explicit need for help, these people rarely ask & suffer in silence.*

[@joannturi3968]

We are told to pray for our enemies. Give it to God.

[@earlvyncampbell1397]

One hundred percent True some People dont respect you they Will used you and abusé they Will Never stop unless you put a stop to it

[@RonBudd-h4v]

They are so slick they don't ask but passively request by their actions, so I'm up rooting .

[@elisabethdemoreaudandoy478]

How right you are!!!

[@aishalaliyu278]

Thank you for your, words of wisdom, I really appreciate.

[@julie5668]

You can't have a relationship with a selfish person because they're too busy having a relationship with themselves, and there isn't the room for anyone else.

[@duck5tar]

The world of AI is a magnificent thing. In truth, my heart has never been more energised than it is now. I cannot welcome anything more than I can right now!!

[@KristinaBergkvist-c6m]

I will not help them , because they have hurt to many . Long ago I came to this conclusion . Thank You Anthony ☀️🤗 👱‍♀️ .

[@Jetdale200Canalhouse20]

Thank you for your wisdom...Sir Anthony......David in lreland

[@dolittle6781]

Sounds very uplifting! This is an interesting reconfiguration of “entitled takers,” narcissists, sociopaths, and other cluster B types. Appreciate that your focus is on defending ourselves from such individuals so we can prosper and not feel bad about saying no.

[@DaveV173]

Men need to listen to this when a woman who gives out signals she needs saving, give , give, and all she does is take from you . Wake up guys !!

[@yasminenazarine1629]

Learned of my mistakes 😭 Still making mistakes because of the love heart for people

[@RTRT-t8t]

EXCELLENT ! Great advice for all

[@davidfurtado2098]

All I can say after watching your first video…wow…exactly what I needed to start the next phase of my life …onward we go…thank you…

[@P--O]

So much wisdom! I wish I had this knowledge earlier. Now having lived too many years with the second "type" it has sadly totally destroyed me as a person and beyond repair I'm afraid.

[@johnnyvdmerwe459]

Thank you for the wise words and advice Sir Anthony. I have been a fan of yours for verry long....you are so tallented

[@jamescolpas]

Thank you so much for this simple beautiful wisdom it will make your life better❤

[@justynak7297]

Just help and that is all. Help best you can do and then walk.

[@GrazznaKrzystek]

Danke SIR ANTHONY ♥️🌹

[@ChrisJansson-g5c]

ANTHONY. MY WIFFE AND I ARE DRIVING AROUND LAS VEGAS. FEEDING HOMELESS ON MINIMAL MONEY. WE CARE. WERE BROKE BUT GOD PROVIDES...LOL

[@darryltognarelli6769]

@chrisjansson-g5c That’s not wisdom for there are non profits for this

[@nishwijetunge8843]

Thank you Sir ❤️ Golden WORDS ⚡️🌹

[@MusashiTetsukobu]

Do whatever you want. There is no noble or ignoble act. There is no judge apart from society and the excrement it has deposited in your memory.

[@michelemcmanus6098]

It's other people who cause others to be a victim. Stay away from the person who causes people to be a victim.

[@AffectionateDragon-hi8pv]

Agape love does not come naturally to us in our sinful state. However, it does come naturally to God and is an integral part of Him. By drawing closer to Him and experiencing His love, we can begin to understand what this real love means. Only through Him can we show and experience agape love.

[@Traeumer13]

Thank you for sharing. It is very important.

[@RayAtkins-wk9zv]

Wish I heard this when I was a younger man

[@Wildi-z5b]

Wow this hit home everything 😢

[@kuriakosepalathinkal4598]

If the motive for reaching out to others is anything other than genuine altruism, there will be plenty of disappointments in store. It's better to be a loser in giving rather than a gainer in getting. Ultimately, one should choose to do whatever gives joy to one's heart.

[@chrislastnam6822]

Sometimes people just want to discuss things not to have someone else solve their problems.

[@CT-oe1ry]

No good deed goes unpunished!

[@iamenough6218]

The entitled taker was my mother.😢

[@Nat77ification]

Same.

[@RADIUMGLASS]

Once they got labor or money out of me I haven't heard from them until the next favor. But when I ask for something small, with help moving something simple or a simple three sentence letter that needs to be typed out they can't do it. Even when I offer to pay. I've offered to pay and then ask for the help and it was still turned down.

[@darryltognarelli6769]

I’ve learned to be motivated and determined to survive rather than ask people or monies or food I’m not saying everybody, but I will tell you there are many that are addicted to drugs and alcohol and that’s what puts them in that position but they’re in these people need psychological help And giving them them monies especially will not help you wanna help give a tad bit Food because if you give them money, you don’t know if it’s going towards any kind of drugs and alcohol at that point you’re not helping them you’re encouraging them to buy something they don’t need

[@Amarjit-v8x]

Very true material

[@joanbondejensen506]

Thank you from Denmark.

[@Pedritox0953]

Great video! Peace out

[@Lisa-s7x]

❤thank you from Canada

[@MMPGA2025]

A guy I met at the poker table. He is very friendly and seems to be a nice person. He asked me to loan him money but I said "no". I told him that I can buy him a dinner if he's hungry but to loan the money for him to continue gambling is a "no" because I don't think it helps but harm!

[@Dragon211]

I have a friend who constantly tries to use me to make his life easier. He tries to guilt Trip me but I know he is a piece of s*** so it doesn't work.

[@philipburdick8160]

Also consider persons who exhibit several if not all of these traits and use them selectively depending on which will work best on you or progressively if the first one they try doesn't.... what they consider to be "survival" tactics are all coping mechanisms to avoid positive growth and come in "suits" like a deck of cards. Choose hearts & diamonds over clubs and spades.

[@Southeastasiantraveler]

Please include place markers for each sub topic

[@RADIUMGLASS]

Anthony lost his house in the fires.

[@rebekahbjackal2818]

Yes.. a coincidence since he has been doing these videos free of charge..🤔

[@aganethashroeder]

Yes 😢

[@charlesnajera746]

I feel this 😊

[@golondriz3]

Thank you

[@Undermineded-333]

Don’t go to work for anyone even if they ask!!!!

[@DB_Vocal_Studio]

Not Anthony Hopkins, voice is AI generated. The video is not his.

[@michaeldelavega-k5r]

That van man in silence of the lambs is a serial street actor

[@WhatshisName-hu1up]

Thank ypu. A difference perspective of movie , silents of the positive,

[@michaeldelavega-k5r]

A.I. can be helpful knowing who to help and not help but computers often like to trick and humans today cannot discern liars and actor's

[@blertabarjami2892]

True !

[@rsaug]

Thank you so much for this video 🙏🏼🙌🏻 Here below is the jotted down list. Plz like or respond to my comment so I get a reminder folks! Thanks in advance 🫶🏻. 1. Perpetual Victim 2. Chronic Complainer 3. Entitled taker 4. Master Manipulator 5. Habitual Liar 6. Opportunists 7. Drama Seeker 8. Entitled person

[@evaholzarte2119]

Thanks

[@blumenthol]

Good points

[@boonraypipatchol7295]

Don't do bad, Do good, Purify own mind....

[@rootavaress]

Hi Mr. Hopkins. I hope you're doing great and I would like to thank you for all advices. But I've got a question to ask that may seen to be a sealy but even if tell you that I already got my decision I hope you can help. I love my mother and I always have, but I confess that she use to beat me to death when I was a kid or even tenager. Today she is about your age but she got the Alzheimer but she still talking, she is quit all right . And I was wondering many times that I had to move one and live my own life and I left them for the first time I was only 18. AndI though to never go back because she will beating again even then I was in the in the college. One day, I remember I lied to my colegues because she beat me to hard and I can see the marks on my face. Today she is so fragil and I'm the only son betwen the other three who really cares about her and taking care of her. Well, I was wondering about what you sayd about people who easily drain our energy if we let it. I think she have always did that to me and even now nothing has change. What if I move on without her, she probrably will died earlier cause nobody cares about her anymore? But I love her from the button of my soul and I won't leave her behind. I hope you 'll spare some time to read and answer. Thank you so much for you help.👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@teresaj6374]

Yep!!!

[@tresajessygeorge210]

Addendum:A kind of BLACK MAGIC AROUND HERE...!!! The same neighbor...!!!THANKS...!!!

[@helnoftroy]

true!

[@somutfaydalarpesinde3289]

First one is my Ex thank you 😅😂

[@geeseylynn]

You all need to know that it's NOT TOM CRUISE that has anything to do with this. This is because my sisters husband was taken out, the same as my Dad was, and the military refuses to pick up me and my sister and reunite with our families! The "T" that you see, that he says "I font care" is Actually the initials of my sisters husband that was taken - Threlfall, Rick Threlfal. The movie of Aquaman, were Jason finds "his dad" walking to the end of the pier every day, is actually MY Sisters Husband that was taken! RICK THRELFALL IS WAITING FOR HIS WIFE TO COME BACK TO HIM - AND WE CANT GET OUT OF HERE UNTIL DOVER AFB MAKES PEAVE WITH SLL THIS SHIT AND BRINGS US HOME! 5:18

[@JulianWaugh-u2o]

vampires do exist

[@MulandwaOkunrotifa]

Everyone..... everyone..... EVERYONE including these "8" characters deserves GRACE from you. Leave the rest to GOD......do your part.

[@motherpedar3592]

It comes from my family

[@Nat77ification]

Yes, same here.

[@stephenowens3687]

I just found my channel!

[@harrypaulschlocker9849]

Mega Dittos!

[@GEA955]

👍😊

[@Michael-d3t]

❤

[@piafokking]

sometimes is the one you are speaking about not capable of asking what he or she needs. and is the one who ties to act helpfull not interrested enough to listen to the problem at hand. europe wants to expand because of ( elenor rigbe, beatles) and the money they spent is put into pockets of those behind the desk. leaving the strong independent people with trash and rubbish.

[@jamesdurber88]

How many adverts like evert 2 mins ffs

[@danabaillie3948]

Habitual liars - describes a lot of the false teachers on Christian broadcasting

[@ner30]

Why that much repetitions ❤❤😂😂❤❤❤😂🎉😢😢😮😅😊😊

[@yasminenazarine1629]

I wish this new technology's years ago computer 🖥️ phone 📱

[@ChrisJansson-g5c]

IN A WHITE VAN. ARIZONA PLATE

[@jonmati778]

So why are you so good with complaining over losers, if you are an winner, why take from the poor, when you are so rich, but now you also need an helping hand, after the fire,

[@Leonchuckmoutsoulas]

From actor to self appointed something or other. Yikes

[@vitorarthuso7327]

❤, elio Jonas dearrudah life way of warrior peaceful one most man don't believe only believe money is their boss sick world we earned some only negative

[@clifforddriver9434]

He appears to be talking to Joe Biden directly.

[@Mkaltered]

Ai Anthony victim blames and plays favourites

[@Newton-g9k]

A lot of this is untrue

[@MarkChappell-f8c]

We've lost Freyr , I blame you. Cate I can save she still has love for me. And love gets them home safe.

[@MarkChappell-f8c]

Jacob demands everything so he can kill you like the Joker in Batman. Jacob and his three sisters are lost to us they are evil to their core.