8 Unspoken (But IMPORTANT) Rules of Healthy Relationships

[@endlesswonderland205]

0:22 Learn to love yourself 0:54 Do not avoid red flags 1:26 Have the uncomfortable conversations 1:48 Acknowledge and support each other 2:08 Be loyal to each other 2:22 Keep your promises 2:41 Be friends 3:05 Always say good morning and good night

[@Kenju157]

my guy watching and making timestamps

[@Kenju157]

props to you mate

[@jessieh9127]

I was just about to do this lol.

[@Kenju157]

das it

[@fresh.prince7472]

I'm actually cured after reading this depression is no more 😆

[@muditahlawat]

When ur earlier then the timestamp person

[@PeachLemonTea]

Fr I was kinda surprised

[@khalilahd.]

😂😂😂

[@khafa1]

TRUEEE

[@internationalentertainment6906]

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[@johann_saint]

Wow fr

[@witchw0lf98]

The part about red flags was very helpful for me Im a very anxious person so I do tend overthink on things like that and I needed to hear that its okay to talk about some "red flag" issues and grow with each other instead of just running away from it sometimes.

[@wallflower_365]

One of the hardest things for me was the difficult conversations (since we both hate conflict), but I think I've found a way to address present problems in a constructive way so that we get to talk through it. I mean relationships can be complicated (mine is no exception), just remember to look out for yourself and your well-being first and foremost.

[@theliftexpert]

Don’t dig up the past,it’s gone ……have your difficult conversations about the present and how this will enhance your future together.

[@wallflower_365]

@@theliftexpert thanks, that's what I meant to say (idk why I added past in my comment tbh), staying present is definitely something that has helped

[@theliftexpert]

@@wallflower_365 you’re very welcome 😉….. I think we all have a tendency to suffer in the present ,from our past negative experiences. I too am trying to focus on the present and future when I communicate with my partner,family and friends. Enjoy your life journey ❤️🥂

[@screamingfrogs7917]

Pleasantries like saying "good morning or good night " only made them feel like they were somehow superior to you . Which I guess they were right ?

[@raynewithhorns]

It’s like I’m ignoring my own feelings so it doesn’t hurt him

[@elizabethrose644]

THANK YOU for the red flag one. it’s ridiculous some of the little things people consider red flags without even finding out why the person does the things they do

[@Nola5427]

Depending on what it is! That' s not a reason or excuse, fix it!

[@solrxjas]

Timeline ✨ 1) 0:25 learn to love yourself 2) 0:53 don't avoid red flags 3) 1:25 have uncomfortable conversations 4) 1:50 acknowledge and support each other 5) 2:08 be loyal to each other 6) 2:22 keep your promises 7) 2:40 be friends 8) 3:07 always say good morning and good night

[@khalilahd.]

Thank you

[@aronclosson6732]

Being able to love myself has been one of the hardest struggles of my whole life. I’ve gotten better in recent years, but to be perfectly honest. I still have a very difficult time with this concept. There are days where I can barely manage the negative feelings I have towards myself. Would you be willing to go more in-depth on this subject in a future video? I know I would greatly appreciate and learn from it. Thank for this video.

[@mankrip-]

There's no need to love yourself. The actual point, as explained in the video, is to learn to accept love from others. Even thought I hate myself, I let my wife express her love for me, and thanks to this we got together. And even though I hate myself, I don't talk about this to the people who loves me, because this would make them feel as if their love for me isn't making a difference (when it actually does help). "Love yourself" is more of a catchphrase than an accurate description of what people are trying to mean.

[@loopzfordayz]

@@mankrip- you don’t need to love yourself if you don’t want to. But if you’ve never had that loving relationship with yourself, you really won’t be able to truly love another person. “Love yourself” is not just a catch phrase. It’s taking care of yourself the way you would want to be taken care of by someone else. Loving yourself allows you to be independent of outside validation, So the moment anyone stops showing you love, you’re able to walk away just fine because you know your self worth.

[@loopzfordayz]

Look at yourself as if you were your own child. You have this child you need to take care of, what are you going to teach your child, what are you going to feed your child, how do you want your child to behave, how do you want your child to feel. Unfortunately many people forget to take care of their inner child before having kids and it’s one of the main reasons many kids grow up without discipline. In addition, it is extremely important to have that healthy relationship with yourself before you even think about starting a relationship with another person. It makes it so much easier to build a relationship once you’ve built yourself up. Patience and Persistence. Stay Positive!

[@loopzfordayz]

@Nontobeko Ncube No problem! Never give up on yourself! Take care!

[@charrydog22]

The path to love yourself is not linear but as long as you are making an effort (even a slight one) to love yourself you are on that path

[@sober1373]

0:24 ❤️ Learn to love yourself 0:54 🚩Do not avoid red flags. 1:26 🫤 Have the uncomfortable conversations 1:49 💕Acknowledged and support each other 2:09 🤗 Be loyal to each other. 2:23 😇 Keep your promises 2:41 🤝 Be friends 3:06 🥰 "Always" say gm or gn omg "all" you guys did timelines lmao

[@anubhavghosh7660]

I have been in a relationship for three months now, and it feels great to know that my approach has been right, specially because I have problems expressing myself, or even recognising how I feel at times, and even face trouble while responding to some stuff. The last point just hit so hard, it is now a routine for us, and I've always seen it as a bridge across the passing days.

[@LottieWeb]

Good to know that the made-up relationship I made up by rping w/ my friend (and crush-) is 100% healthy

[@drcheese2]

Where is the boundary between a made-up roleplay relationship with a crush and an actual romantic relationship anyway? 😅 Good on you guys 🥰

[@piegirl8263]

As someone who has never had a partner this is very helpful!

[@metal6447]

can't wait for you to hit 10.000.000 subs soon! sooo well deserved. keep making the great, loving and beautiful content for the people in need. for a channel like this can save lives.

[@lem0njuicee]

Timestamps: 1- 0:22 Learn to love yourself 2- 0:53 Do not avoid red flags 3- 1:26 Have the uncomfortable conversations 4- 1:49 Acknowledge and support each other 5- 2:09 Be loyal to each other 6- 2:23 Keep your promises 7- 2:41 Be friends 8- 3:06 Always say good morning and good night And remember that communication is key for a good and healthy relationship! Hope you have a good day 💕

[@torsasarkar301]

Here's the time stamps 0:24 --- 1.Learn to love yourself 0:54 -- 2. Do not avoid red flags 1:26 -- 3. Have the uncomfortable conversations 1:50 -- 4. Acknowledge and support each other 2:09 -- 5.Be loyal to each other 2:24 --6.keep your promises 2:41 --7. Be friends 3:06 -- 8.Always say goodmorning and Goodnight You're welcome ✌😉

[@ThisFactswin08]

Yes 🥰 Learn the Love language both of you. ☺️ And treat your partner as your best friend.

[@erlgjnerigneoifnroiueabgr]

this was such a helpful video for me. i have now just completed a month of my relationship and i have always worried that both me and my partner had used subtle manipulation tactics on one another (such as lovebombing and the silent treatment), and i was paranoid that these few details meant that we were doomed to be a manipulative mess from the get go. well, recently i had the talk with my partner and he agreed we kinda lovebombed eachother into a corner, and everything was great! we have great communication and do everything else in the video. but something kept telling me that just because we did something red flag-y at the start meant that they would always be present, which is not the case, and i just realised that now. thank you!

[@amyli092]

One thing that made my relationship toxic in the early stages (and is still a work in progress in some cases) is that neither one of us had a strong sense of love for ourselves... my boyfriend would struggle with low self-worth/depression, and my self-worth has been shaky since my teenage years for various reasons. We've come a long way with the help of some counseling and a lot of talking about uncomfortable, personal issues, but this isn't to say that we don't still deal with these issues sometimes. We just need to find that balance of having enough together time, and having enough alone time. ❤️

[@UndercoverTherapist]

I think the best among these rules is the one about loving yourself. You must be able to love and value yourself first before other people can love and value you. Once you both value and respect yourselves, then the remaining rules of friendship can easily fall into place.

[@SoloMotivation]

*This Will Open Your Mind* Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So, throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore, Dream, Discover. *I LOVE YOU* 💝💕

[@diegogalvan1810]

I absolutely love the drawings in these videos, they’re too cute

[@dr.aiswaryad.b.6192]

💯 . . . Self love.. loving yourself first can make others love u more.. . . Living in negative vibes is hard..So find the posivity in everything you do...

[@iamgoddessoflove]

How much each of you give and how little each of you take for granted, will determine the success of a relationship. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[@JReyesTbn46]

I'm glad my relationship checks off all of these items. There was one time my girlfriend and I didn't say goodnight to each other and it was because she took cold medication that knocked her out early. It's funny how little things can make such a huge difference. My past relationships didn't check all of these off (I would say equal blame between my exes and I) and I understand why they didn't last. I'm glad I learned, because I want to spend the rest of my life with this woman.

[@khalilahd.]

So many wise tips in this one ❤ thank you!

[@random_phobias_1119]

I need to work on my self love so bad, i just don't know where to start :(

[@TimmyKawaii]

tysm Psych2go ! 9th !!!! love ya i remember LOOK AFTER YOURSELF TOO your important 2 so its very kind how you help others..just make sure you spend time on yourself too : get a nice drink ( starbucks recommended B,) , go on a walk by yourself or you ~+your dog if you have one or ever just chill and watch something! 😺😺

[@ACE_6210]

Loved this video, and this definitely goes for any relation/friendship. Also, loved seeing Moomin in this video!

[@Haze_Limited]

I messed up and ended my relationship awhile back and it was my first best real relationship and it’s been so hard to forget being with them (as I’m with them as friends cause I can’t just leave them they were funny cool awesome silly it’s hard to let them go cause I liked(and yes still but I recpecting being friends and school and I don’t wanna hold them back from anything, and I don’t want them to see me not able to love myself and sadly seeing the dark issues I have either) and they were my friend and I still wanna be friends, it ended it for a few reasons and I told her my reasons and I should have told her more of them cause I don’t know how to show my emotions or let them out and trust is hard and I doubt they wanna talk to me that much. I hope as I get older me and them can be friends who talk more then right now. I’m scared cause I miss them a lot and it hurts. And it feels like I really have no one to talk to or be around like no one texts me people barley talk around me it just always feel lonely. And that one person made me feel a lot better and not see how alone I was but barley talking to them :/

[@mousumisarkar7406]

Rule #0: First get into a relationship.

[@MoonGlow22]

I finnaly learned what Im doing wrong

[@returnoftheromans6726]

There is a level zero. Good to know.

[@tacolemon1992]

Number 3 is the main reason I ended my last relationship. He was too immature and flat out refused to have serious conversations, to the point of not talking to me for more than a day when I tried to bring up something.

[@Doessisyphossmile]

There is a german poem: Gute Nacht Bessere Nacht Die beste Nacht Ist die Nach der ich morgens schon mit deinem Guten Morgen Erwach (Goodnight / better night / the best night / is the one / after i wake up with your / good morning

[@Olivia_Faiheng]

I needed this so much :)

[@thereal_Achilles]

this was actually really helpful, thank you! I also rly liked the adorable artstyle :(( - love from a stranger online

[@keynosdreffan]

I'm literally sitting next to someone I had a very bad relationship, we are "fine" now but I feel so sad seeing this and seeing everything I did wrong in our relationship

[@orangfriut1994]

I haven’t been in a relationship for the better half of a year and yet here I am

[@keerthanas8038]

thank you psych2go for always uploading videos and help me be aware of myself better also, for anyone who's rushingg, 1. Learn to love yourself. 2. Do not avoid red flags. 3. Have the uncomfortable conversations. 4. Acknowledge and support each other. 5. Be loyal to each other. 6. Keep your promises. 7. Be friends. 8. Always say good morning and good night.

[@nurhariyanto5438]

: every time I watch video from this channel, I just like list-checking every point with my current situation.. and yeah, this was very useful for helping me build better relationship..

[@Noone-rw8qp]

Wow I am early for the first time on my fav channel

[@RayPeng-07]

It's so nice to hear Amanda reading again

[@nick27march]

Didn't leave any stone unturned for keeping NK happy and smiling. For a single frown I would fight against the whole world. For them I would have fought against Goliath.

[@tammytsang3487]

The rules are helpful. Thank you!

[@pandascoops]

Important to know that red flags are okay to avoid when seen before an official relationship, it’s more understandable. but once in a relationship, red flags are more like flaws and address it from a place of love than anger or despise.

[@mankrip-]

"Learn to love yourself" isn't necessary, actually. The actual point, as explained in the video, is to learn to accept love from others. Even thought I hate myself, I let my wife express her love for me, and thanks to this we got together. And even though I hate myself, I don't talk about this to the people who loves me, because this would make them feel as if their love for me isn't making a difference (when it actually does help).

[@loopzfordayz]

I’d recommend watching the video again, that’s not the point at all. By going about your relationship in that way, you are depending on someone else for love. By loving yourself, you depend on yourself for that love. Bottling up your feelings is never a good idea, if you hate yourself for any reason, you need to open up about it and figure out why you hate yourself or else you might just be sabotaging your relationships.

[@alessadolan5718]

Self love is a big plus point in relationships, some people can not enjoy their own company what leads to to much attachment with the partner which can be very uncomfortable over time. some people don't like how they look like and are insecure about certain things and that leads to jealousy and being controlling over their partner. some people do not take care for them selves and are most likely to get their partner grossed out which leads to a break up or lack of care for their partner.

[@bryangonzalez4604]

You know honestly I used to be in a relationship before but it didn’t go well and I still miss this person to this day because we had so much in common and we got along so well and now I’m afraid that I won’t see her again online. But I’m hoping that things get better for me in the future and hope I’m in a relationship soon because I don’t have many irl friends rn.

[@elizabeth_4real]

thank you so much Pysh2Go!! 💗

[@apexian2827]

Can you make a video on enemies to lovers?

[@valerievandenbroeck6651]

I really like this one, i Needed this very much! Thank you ❤

[@nomad50528]

Could you possibly make a video on how to keep a long distance relationship going, ill be moving soon and going into one for the first time and its feeling very tough just thinking about it

[@piotraugustyniak6591]

Great video 👍 great advice 💯

[@valerievandenbroeck6651]

Please more of this. On how to maintane a healthy relationship, friends, lovers and otherwise like colleages (I’m not a native speaker so excuse me for typo’s and other errors 😊)

[@BCSchmerker]

+Psych2Go *I am not in even a friendship without immediate family, let alone a romantic significance.* Thanks for the pointers anyway: 0:22 (1) Learn to love oneself 0:53 (2) Don't ignore red flags 1:25 (3) Conduct conversations uncomfortabe to oneself 1:49 (4) Acknowledge and support one another 2:08 (5) Be true one to another 2:22 (6) Keep promises 2:41 (7) Be friends 3:05 (8) Greet one another at morning and night

[@Absolhunter251]

I needed this, thank you for this video..

[@saranikolovska540]

I really appreciate your content! 💖

[@Lahah5_lara_art_comics]

This is awesome, you guys do the best videos

[@kenrickbautista6141]

Yeah, I truly find them helpful. Thanks as always, Psych2go! 🙂

[@sarvaepc]

Psych2go, EVERYONE LOVES THIS ANIMATION STYLE, WE NEED MOREE

[@naomivasquezvega6045]

Thank you for this info guys!!!

[@ellenberg7961]

Lucky these women find the right man for them to be happy with that is an empath who looks good and does not cheat or play mind games with them or try to make them jealous also does not need to take selfies. Those who have empath friends that are there for them and do not stack you in the back or gossip about you or betray you.

[@Ash-yb8ex]

tysm!

[@peggyrogers9943]

Excellent advice. I listen to all these and like them all !

[@xxxtsukuyomi1191]

My ex girlfriend and I used to watch all these types of videos. Especially the psych2go ones. I miss her very much. I which we had more time to work on ourselves before it crashed and burn💔

[@MrSa458]

You know that does make sense cause I just think that my God ordained spouse is taking a little time off I won't trip I'm a patient man cause I had asked her if she knew how to twist dreads and she never responded maybe I should reach out more I just don't want to come off as creepy you know. So anyways God bless you big sis and you're beautiful family 👨‍👩‍👦‍👦 congratulations on the bun in the oven keep up with the videos about mental health 🎚️🔥🕊️🙏

[@R.N.LosAngeles]

Perfect!

[@afriband6244]

please What is the name of the program you use to create image you use in your video

[@radicaldisability9192]

I disagree with number one because I never understood what love is my father was always authoritarian but when I ask for the love I felt at one of my schools I never got it I am 24 seeking whatever that good feeling was from my days at Quaker school

[@Princess_Orla]

Thank you ☺️❤️

[@shambhaviverma2890]

2:51 Its Charlie Spring's room!🤭🙈😙💟

[@rainycross8929]

Hi! I'm wondering if you guys can make something about long distant relationships, me and my partner are close but sadly live 11 hours away.

[@caseycarney9660]

Close to 10 million subscribers very very nice

[@MissFirenze1]

What destroyed my relationship was the other checking out mentally and emotionally, lack of seeing each other and the problems with some communication. Psych2Go has good insights into relationships

[@Dr0wzyst0rmz]

2:43 holy crap Charlie springs room 👀

[@babylyrics2005]

I fall in love your voice

[@meisstupid1831]

But if you spoke the rules, would it still count as “unspoken”? DEEP THOUGHTS WITH THE DEEP

[@Toasted_bread37]

I began doing that last one kinda naturally

[@xeniathetiefling831]

The heartstopper reference ☺️

[@liberty.b.r]

Hope everyone does well in their relationships or otherwise, and God bless! :)

[@zenendrahhernz1371]

First one is already hard. I think I've made progress since highschool but still have a lot go 😅

[@gr1nm]

The unspoken rules of a healthy relationship are: 1) 2) 3) 4) 5) 6) 7) 8)

[@mariannapapikyan4123]

I always write good morning and good night to my boyfriend I like to say that my day always starts and ends with him It's come to a point that when I don't text it he thinks something happened and is getting worried and I get too because I know he will get worried and obviously don't want that He's the best

[@urfavphish]

How am I supposed to communicate with them when i absolutely hate talking. When i talk to them about something I’ve been holding back i start to stutter. And when i stutter i start crying and after i start crying they find me obnoxious

[@ax0ltl881]

Not the heart stopper background at 2:44

[@FA3WILDES]

Love this TvT i might send to my partner!

[@Ashs1231.x]

2:49 this bit reminds me of heartstopper because of the background I can be the only one that thinks that ❤🌈

[@shawnciantar1953]

these kind of people I'm upset about that always gives me unhealthy relationships.

[@vangothengirl]

9.) Never go to bed angry

[@drinasun6984]

Hi!

[@BeeSweet16]

All relationships! Not just romantic ones!

[@ssjcybersonic9255]

"1. Learn to love yourself" Welp there goes that idea.

[@darknight3613]

If i gave everyone the love i give myself i would have no friends xD

[@nabinayadav4753]

Wen i think about redflags now i really see dem but it's too late now ,i know he was toxic ,made my self esteem down still i m always constantly thinking's abt him , hoping him to come.its 1 year he left me but m still..once a self confident, ambitious nd professional girl ,now just turn to be lonely, depressed,sucidial nothing helps..if u can't be faithful,loyal nd dedicated just don be in relationship else yr sometime fling kill other one..

[@lulu_g8445]

I love it!

[@cartersessal4551]

2:08 Can you make a video about being loyal to one another and the trust within polyamore love relationships? :)

[@Humiliated1234]

Are you in one?

[@cartersessal4551]

@@Humiliated1234 Not anymore. And while I had one polyamore relationship I didn't have another one, so it was just theoretical polyamore. But I'm not sure if I want multiple polyamore relationships in my life or a single monogam one, still have to figure it out. I guess I couldn't live a monogam one with the person I had a theoretical not lived polyamore relationship, but I guess in truth I would prefer a monogam one, bc I kinda like the idea being exclusive with another person in a love relationship :) I was asking bc I'm interested in how you would be loyal to one another if you have two or more relationships. Maybe just in talking and doing nothing relationship related without having talked about what's okay and what's cheating. And where you wanna talk about it first if it's okay. For new relationships for instance. Or in polygam relationships too. There you just have one relationship but have sex with other people too. :)

[@arikiri_698]

Damn that first question hit hard😅

[@Mayeoli22]

I was looking at these through a friendship perspective until it mentioned partner and relationship 😅

[@krisztoth8475]

If I don't look into your phone or go through your stuff then I expect the same thing from you and if I dont allow you to go through my phone that's not because I'm cheating on you.

[@kiwikey1840]

ahem sooo I've been in a happy relationship for almost 11 months now and I don't really know how to ask her if she's ok with talking or doing more intimate things between us. We're long distance but I want to know if shes comfortable with it, or if she's not, when would she, if ever?? It's not anything big worth breaking up over for me but even though I can talk to her about almost anything else I'm having trouble bringing this up and it's making me feel terrible (and at one point it was making her feel terrible because I was saying I wanted to ask her something but I felt like I couldn't say it) does anyone have any tips to help bring it up???

[@lysma8929]

Hi! I like the video - just a little feedback though. Shaking the images is fine, but shaking the text (titles) on screen is not fine. It makes it impossible to read and gave me slight nausea. Remove the text then or better make it static. Thanks for your consideration :)

[@internationalentertainment6906]

IGNORING A (*** RED FLAG **) COULD BE VERY , VERY ,VERY DANGEROUS..... ESPECIALLY IF SOMEONE IS (** ABUSIVE TOXIC NARCISSIST NARCISSISTIC ABUSERS CRIMINALS,ETC....

[@lisadunkle4112]

I couldn’t agree more. I tried to write that on here and a troll had to jump on my comment to correct me. I ended up deleting my comment - I decided against engaging with that person.

[@moss913]

1. 0:26 Love yourself n shit 2. 0:53 Red Flags n shit 3. 1:28 Have the uncomfortable conversation n shit 4. 1:51 acknowledge and support 1 another n shit 5. 2:09 be loyal to each other n shit 6. 2:23 Keep your promises n shit 7. 2:41 Be friends n shit 8. 3:05 Always say good morning and good night n shit I hope you and your bf/gf are doing well and loving 1 another n shit . Have good day and stay blessed n shit ❤️

[@CandyLemon36]

The inspiring depth of this content calls for action. A book I read with related messages altered my life's trajectory. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint