8 Ways To Be More ATTRACTIVE That Have Nothing To Do With Appearance

[@kiera9664]

✰1. kindness ✰2. positivity ✰3. sense of humor ✰4. passion ✰5. drama free ✰6. confidence and self-awareness ✰7. connecting to your femininity ✰8. decisiveness You’re welcome lol 💕

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤️❤️❤️

[@nishivasnik2838]

I’ve 6 of those. Self-awareness I’m still learning and confidence can be situations depending on mood.

[@loml143]

so her number 8 explanation has number 3 on it...love it. thank you

[@monika7023]

That's exactly what I expected from white wholesome mom. So basic.

[@UniCorn-vq1xo]

@@monika7023 what are the things you do?

[@kge6492]

About the sexuality and femininity: it helps when you take some dance classes, especially latino solo type of dances. Teachers can show you tricks to better your movement and teach you how not to be afraid of yourself. I have been taking ballroom dance classes for 4 years as a teen. It helped so much to find my feminity, learn how to interact with men and become really sensual being that knows herself to great extent. And it all came before I was 20. It was amazing to be the only girl in any group that never had crush on a guy not worth attention, that from the begging knows how to choose a man that respects me and not let anyone disrespect me and that feels herself nearly always. Surpisingly it all comes down to staight posture and keeping your haed high.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

love this idea! might need to look into some glasses for myself :)

[@ragh9014]

I've never heard of such classes before Do you learn like how to act or how is it exactly?

[@nadineee_12]

Wow I admire you. That is one of my problems too. Being attracted to boys that is not worth my time and also feeling that no one would love me just because boys my age does not flirt with me. It’s a bit cheap for me to feel that feeling but I am working on it. Glad that you are a very respectable and sophisticated woman.

[@kge6492]

@@nadineee_12 men that arent bad for you are hard to find and also good men arent usually a flirts. Often its the women that needs to show men that they are welcome, only Then they would be willing to start flirting. Mattew Hussey has great channel about relationships, flirting and confidence. Educate yourself about this, it helps in every area in your life. 😉

[@kge6492]

@@ragh9014In thoose classes you learn how to dance in pairs. It can be samba, salsa, tango, Waltz, rumba, chacha, jive or all od them combined. Often schools have classes only for ladies like belly Dance, latino or tango solo.

[@MsOrchidBouquet]

So true! When I met my hubby I didn’t think he was that good looking but after getting to know him and how intelligent, funny and kind and generous he was, I just fell for him. 20 years later I still think he’s amazing.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

aw❤️ thank you for sharing :)

[@KrisisWorld]

It would be so interesting to hear you talk in more detail, maybe a separate video even, about reconnecting with our own sexual power! That’s something I feel isn’t talked about a lot but is definitely an insecurity of a lot of people, myself included. I loved all the tips, thank you so much! I’m now going to look up how to develop a good sense of humour😉😄

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

love this idea! will definitely keep this in mind for future videos :)

[@li.t7118]

PLEASE do a video about this, it would be so interesting !!❤️

[@13Imolka]

OMG YES please!!!!

[@3434rocky]

You breaking the gossip thing is a big sign of maturity. There were women older than you at my daughters school that I would chat/listen to that were big gossips. I knew I never wanted to get close to them bc there's no trust. Even though they seemed really fun.

[@zanebrahmane]

I agree. Self-awareness is truly attractive. It makes a big difference when a person is aware of their feelings, can put their emotions into words and explain how they are feeling or what they want or don’t understand. It’s great to be self aware and to see yourself from another perspective or in a bigger picture. Beautiful to see that people have the sense or feeling of who they are as individuals and appreciate who and how they are here on this planet without judging or comparing.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

agreed! 🙌🏻❤️

[@ishitaraghav8092]

Fun fact- Valeria doesn’t age. Ageing doesn’t exists for her . 🥰🥰😘

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

definitely not true, but thank you lovely❤️

[@rajshreepardeshi_]

This is SO TRUE!!❤️😍

[@anastasiiaha]

She is only 30, how do you think people look like in this age?

[@juliakoltzoff6870]

Yes...but then she lives by these rules......maybe it would work for anyone? Just a shot in the dark🤙🏝

[@kevinwilson3337]

@@ValeriaLipovetsky if it’s nothing to do with physical attractiveness, You can’t be more attractive. Why do you guys find time to make these stupid videos

[@catherinebourgault4670]

In the household I grew up in, you literally had to get permission for every little thing and a lot of things we were forbidden from doing (like chewing gum or spending our own money. Don't ask me). I've been struggling a lot with my own decisiveness, to a point it's like I'm scared my mom would jump at me if she ever found out. It's a bit of a journey of unlearning that stuff and trying to get into my head that "yes, you're an adult and you're not restricted to those rules anymore". It's both amazing and overwhelming, being granted freedom to choose lol

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

definitely comes with its own set of responsibilities! trust the process❤️❤️

[@isabelladasiak8065]

My whole childhood i used to wear clothes from older siblings or cousins so now i have even a problem with choosing clothes when i am shopping, because i have to decide on something

[@rociogallegossanchez]

Same experience over here! I can't decide over the tiniest of things, I get overwhelmed with all the options!

[@natural91LC]

please make a video on "how to find the goddess within you", I know how to apply the others lol but this one eludes me

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

will keep this in mind!

[@natural91LC]

@@ValeriaLipovetsky Thank you

Great idea!!

[@kristinakovaa5916]

Pleaaaaaaaaaaaaase!!!!

[@EdieWonder]

yesss, about feminity, sexual power etc.

[@mackenzybarry6625]

You should make an entire video about how to embrace your feminity and sexuality!

[@bekind913]

I agree Val. These things have nothing to do with the looks and they make you look attractive.

[@dinidawng4824]

This is why you're the best, Valeria.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

too kind! thanks babe😘

[@andromedamaxima1543]

i do not know where you at such a young age have amassed such a tremendous amount of knowledge and are able to communicate it out to the world in such an easy and entertaining way. You have great skill Valeria!

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

thank you so much my girl❤️❤️

[@goldenrayofcentralsun1111]

Yes. I can’t stand it when s/one says that their person completes them. No one should complete u. U should be 100% whole when u find ur person. And the other should be 100% too. Very insightful 8 things u brought up!

[@Babyy_girl]

I love this idea because it's so true. Attractiveness comes from within and instead of changing our behaviour or our looks for other people we should live a life that makes _us_ happy. Be at peace with yourself and people will join you on your path

[@kingapawowska5229]

I'm thankful for added subtitles on ur videos. I'm not an English-speaker person and it really help me with better understanding :)

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

love to hear this 🙏🏻

[@LoLelfy]

This is such good and genuine advice ✨ also I just love your energy in this video, definitely noticing your transformation. So confident and radiant, yasss, sky is the limit once we start embracing ourselves for who we are!

[@samiyashaikh6587]

Valeria u r just an outstanding example for all the people out there U r so dam amazing✨The way u leave smiles on our faces through all ur videos is so so sweet...!!🥰Truly a big fan of urs💕Thanku so much for noticing our comments and for being sweetest towards us....🥰Wish u a lot more to come..!!✨💕Bit late this time🥺

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Wow, thank you my girl❤️

[@karlaavilao]

These tips sound so simple and easy but I think so often people grow in these toxic environments or society and they are left there trying to figure themselves out. I feel so grateful that we live in this time, where we can find positive role models and content so easily. I which your content was there while I was growing up, it would have been so much easier 🤭 luckily is never too late 💕I send lots of love

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

sending you lots of love❤️

[@explorewithCK]

Drama free 🙌 yes. We neeed more people like that

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Agreed 🙏🏻❤️

[@magneticgoddess1116]

Ah! I love this! Very well done video💕🎉 Inner value is such an important piece of the growth process and learning how to nurture it is so priceless 🤗

[@VilleGardian]

I am a very negative person yet posses a great deal of sense of humor. That is how I balance it out. Being kind is nice but not too much because being too kind puts us in a vulnerable position and people will just take advantage of it. Also, many take it as a sign of weakness (which is sad). I would say being a nice decent person is the way to go. Also when someone is too nice, it does not look very natural.

[@alexacepeda2801]

These are gorgeous qualities to value in ourselves and others--they absolutely boost beauty and attract those with similar attributes! Thank you for your honesty, charm, and helpful content, it always makes my day when you post

[@chiarascaglioni7794]

Since quarantine I’ve also been dancing in my bedroom alone in my lingerie every single night😂 and girl, I’ve never felt sexier🔥

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

I love that 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@ludovicabraglia1743]

love this, bring more of these kind of videos😍 also, i’d love more content about connecting deeply to your own femininity and sexuality!

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Thank you for the suggestion 🙌🏻🥰

[@martukiartixta]

I LOVE this kind of content! Missed it so much! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you for your advise 🥰 it feels like talking to the wisest friend ever

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Glad you liked it!!

[@nadineee_12]

You are soooo lovely,funny,intelligent and ideal. Everything you said helped me to have a new perspective about myself and other people. Thank you so much and I just wanna say that you are absolutely the perfect definition of beauty inside and out. 💗

[@kristinamusaelian7803]

Hey, Valeria! Thank you for the video :) I just wanted to let you know that your recent content (both on Instagram and KZbin) made me relise that actually "bodies that look like this also look like this' and that is totally okay. Like you don't need to be 100% perfect all whe time, and belly showing itself after a big meal doesn't make you less skinny or less beautiful. I really like your confidene! Thank you for this insight!

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

yes to all of this 🙌🏻 so glad you enjoyed the video!

[@martagonsi]

You are a Goddess and thanks for incuraging everyone else to be one too. You have such a wonderful soul and mind... I just hope we can all learn a little. Thanks again.

[@amikshaupreti9837]

You're the sister everybody needs. Much love from Nepal ❤️

[@emmabyrne2208]

Love this! Especially the dancing around your room in loungerie, so much fun and just lifts your mood and makes you feel great! xx

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🥰

[@ruchisuyal1883]

Dear Valeria... thanks a lot for reminding us the human core values..will practice kindness from now on ❤️❤️

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@aleena7386]

I truly believe that it is extremely attractive to NOT travel during a pandemic!! It has nothing to do with appearance and everything to do with common sense!

[@ewaw1188]

Great video and I agree 100%. I have a friend who is very far from being classic beauty, but she radiates attractiveness and everyone can see it 🥰

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Love that!

[@karlarojas5843]

I'm from Costa Rica, and I can't believe that you all are here! It's amazing

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

we absolutely love this country 🙌🏻❤️

[@federicaottaviani3974]

yes yes yes!!! I love this kind of video and this "come back". Love you❤️

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

love you back!

[@shwetajanjarla3362]

You are so pretty. Thanks for sharing. I learnt something amazing today.

[@farheenzubair482]

I really look up to you Valeria!! I aspire to be as confident as you are❤️

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

thank you beauty❤️

[@blairbardot53]

Valeria can you make a video on your go-to healthy recipes and what you are doing to stay healthy please ♥️♥️

[@agustinacollado1]

I definitely need help and learn more about #7 .... I’m married, with 2 kids and still feel so awkward and not connected with myself and that has nothing to do with my husband but with me.

[@nataliaamos6887]

I love this video, Valeria! I've been following you since way back and this video reminds me of your early days when you attracted me with your personality! Yay!

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Thank you for all your support🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@stutisabarwal6461]

All these things just BLOOM in your aura, so clearly ❤ This helped. Thanks❤

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

You're so welcome!

[@moofoo1842]

Number 5 is my favourite one, its a constant struggle to be in control of yourself! I think its a postive approach to making oneself a better person for themselves! Self growth!!

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

agreed 🙌🏻

[@bratchal]

I do really need a video about 7-femininity ❤ That's what I'm trying to figure out about myself right now 🥰

[@esraaal-rashed3936]

Thank you Val for the positivity boost early in the morning

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

You are so welcome 🙏🏻🥰

[@agrsolvej123]

Kindness and positivity are contiguous! ❤️

[@juliakoltzoff6870]

Keep going girl.....good for you and everyone out there that needs it! Pura Vida!🤙🏝💪❤️

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

😘😘

[@queencamba]

Downloaded this, to remind me on my everyday life ☺❤

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

love to hear that 🙏🏻❤️

[@magadiendor]

I just realized you're some sort of therapist to me. You give good life advices! Also, Mary J Blige never lies.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

🥰 sending lots of love!

[@chrissihoneybunny]

Thank you for including the subtitles!! Makes your wonderful, empowering content more accessible for everyone!

[@camillatromborg-coach]

LOVED these tips, you are so right ✨❤️

[@kayliewalker2340]

Honestly, the best role model. I hope I am as cool as you when I grow up!

[@gloriacoloma5293]

Best self-love coach ever! Love your content and the way you do it. Congrats dear, you’re amazing !💘

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Wow, thank you!

[@larrywatson3479]

Hello Valeria! You radiate such beautiful ❤ self confidence. Everyone loves you so much. Love you so much Valeria! 💘 Love, Janice and Larry Watson

[@rajshreepardeshi_]

LOVE THISS VIDEO!! Thank you for sharing this!! You inspire me so much babe!! LOVE YOU SO MUCH VALERIA!!❤️❤️❤️

[@fatimasadaf9413]

You have my heart girl❤️ After watching alot of videos of yours my day is soo postive today. The vibe coming out of me the energy am reflecting is jus amazing, it's like am attracted to me today 😁❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@vaambond2570]

I'm doing all these things and didn't realize it😄 But have 3 close friends and no-boyfriend😂😂 But this is what I choosed, not who's choose me🙏🏻🙌🏻

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤️❤️

[@its_miss_mela1324]

Love it! We all have that type of person one time or another I think. In addition to your list Valerina, I would say a vision of your future and being with your present self it's sexy

[@giselle7351]

I love all of them but for sure I struggle with the last 3. However, I'm currently working on it and I've been enjoying the journey. Thank you for this video! 🤗🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

You got this!

[@twotraveluvers]

Gosh I love your vibe! I truly believe in the above.

[@sararas1909]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE this video. You are absolutely right about all the behaviors!!! I caught myself doing some of them at it felt like a dejavue 😁 great video! 🥰🥰🥰

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@pursuethemoment4400]

I love this and your explanations of each point are so great, thank you! 💕

[@delaraluna6294]

this is the most beautiful & powerful video i have seen in yeaaaars! thank you valeria

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Wow, thank you!

[@princessdeleon9832]

You’re amazing in all aspects!!! Love your videos! 🔥

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Thank you so much!!

[@worlddisneyandme95]

thank U Valeria for this video, it is so obvious fact but i feel like a lot of people forget about it! I am gonna put this into my journal

[@Caroleenakoreaadventures]

Tbh when I was still in college, I had a breakup after my first year. I then spent three years slowly and painfully developing these things for my own health. All of a sudden everyone at my college was attracted to me and people were asking me out left and right.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤️❤️❤️ so happy to hear this!

[@robytallo3147]

Nice video!Have you thought about making a video of your entire jewelry collection?

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Maybe one day!

[@tialemlapongen3858]

Me following you everytime I you say hi beauties welcome back to my channel. Amazing video. Love it just what we all need during these times ❤️❤️❤️

[@zhyonkripke]

This video contains all of your essence ✨ thank you my online friend🥰 If we are kind to ourselves the universe will definitely be kind to us ✨❤️ we attract what we are 🌼

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

You are so welcome, and thank you❤️

[@maniesha3797]

this is what we called beauty with brain 😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ i love you Val! 🥰😘

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@jess1434]

this is just soOooO goooood!! thank you for sharing your thoughts and advice . Speaking of confidence, I just recently realized that PEOPLE keep telling themselves that OTEHRS ARE WATCHING THEM, thus ONE feels the awkwardness and discomfort in his/her body and well-being. We need to stop thinking about it, instead let us tell ourselves, our friends, family or strangers that WE are GREAT just the way WE ARE! This helps me start boosting my confidence. But DECISIVENESS, hahahhha. I gotta do something to stop it. Thank you Valeria.❤️❤️❤️

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

so glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching 🥰❤️

[@honeybunch29]

hi valeria you are v kind, love you & hope you have/had an amazing amazing day🌻

[@aliann7002]

love you Valeria, you keep it real 100%

[@drashtigohil5276]

This was insanely helpful and something I really look forward to apply and sink in my life ✨. Thank you Valeria for putting it out here 💕

[@raashibhardwaj4721]

You helped me become a higher version of myself🌸 You are AMAZING.🌸

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

that makes me so happy to hear 🙏🏻❤️

[@monicachhetri1995]

Thankyou so much Valeria for this much needed video 🥰❤

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Glad it was helpful❤️❤️

[@m_nur_b]

This is exactly what I needed, actually for all people. You're perfect! Thanks for it sweet mama, luv U😘😭🙏🏻💐💝

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤️❤️❤️ love you back!

[@Amy-dm5ih]

So cool that Valeria replied to so many comments !

[@mizpahteves3323]

Thank you! 💕 it means a lot that i found your youtube channel! 🙂 🥰

[@laylabug39]

11:11 ✨

[@mellypn]

Love these tips! I will definitely be implementing these 🙏🏻 love from Toronto!

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Glad you like them! sending lots of love❤️

[@consciouslypure2176]

Such insightful points! I absolutely agree with you with all of them! :) some of these are really hard to actually put into practice in life, confidence is especially tricky for me, so if you had any tips and thoughts on it I’d love to hear more about how you developed more confidence and how we can work on it.

[@2beolivia]

Thank You Valeria, just what I needed to hear. I started a new job at an office environment, and can totally use these concepts.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Amazing 🙌🏻 best of luck beauty!!

[@2beolivia]

@@ValeriaLipovetsky Thank you Valeria😚

[@sulhakhan3130]

Ahhh how much I missed these videos thanks Valeria u made me so confident..u proved wht is to be beauty with brain tysm girl 💟💟💟💟😚😚

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

the sweetest❤️ thank you love!

[@logos2895]

You should also mention “smile” it just makes you super attractive in no time ...as your smile Valeria ❤️

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

very true! This video was talking about things that don't have to do with appearance though :)

[@Harshita_Bhardwaj]

Mindful video out here seriously! Great video❤

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Thank you my dear🙏🏻❤️

[@Harshita_Bhardwaj]

@@ValeriaLipovetsky ❤❤❤

[@jadhurshanashangar]

Love this topic that you picked to talk about and thank you for making this video.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Thank you!!

[@emizeoli]

thank you for the subtitles!!

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

welcome lovely!

[@nabilamemon9273]

This was such a huge help. Thank you so much valeria😘😘

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

so glad you enjoyed watching 🙌🏻😘

[@princessdenne]

Valeria you're my first favorite youtuber ever when I started creating an account for youtube and I thought you were 18!

[@nergisceydakoc1569]

can you talk about gossip and femininity a little bit more? sometimes I do not know what to do when I want to gossip or find myself talking negative. also I've never thought I can grow a confident feminine energy before! I would be appreciate if you talk a little more. Such an inspiring video❣️ Love you

[@sadiecoyne]

Just found your channel and I’m obsessed! All the blessings❤️ I love your energy 🤩

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Aww thank you so much lovely! Welcome to the family ❤️

[@fairyprincessunikitty2032]

Approaching a deeper beauty than skinlayers? - I love that focus, especially since turning 30 💜🌈

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Love that!

[@AC-px5qn]

Needed this! Love u Valeria 😘😘😘

[@ciaolia]

Oh my goodness I love you so much hahaha had a huge smile on my face this entire video!

[@mackenzybarry6625]

Missed these sit down videos ❤️✨

[@oksanareikina7703]

The part about decisiveness is SOOO true! And you explain it so perfectly! Thank you for this video!

[@naamabinnes657]

Loved this video! I thought all your points were fabulous 😍

[@lorraineturton4485]

Fantastic !!! all 8 of these are super !!! you have expressed some very valuable tips here that can definitely improve life :-) thank you :-)

[@kala2704]

such a valuable content! thank you for that video and reminding me that being attractive comes from within!! love