9 GREAT Tips For Dealing With An EMOTIONAL Woman

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

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[@imetaboyiusedtoknow8308]

I once phoned a man I had just started dating to make an emotional over the top statement . He responded ok and hung up. He called the next day to break up because he didn't know when I would react like that again. I apologized and begged him to reconsider but he patiently stood his ground. Having consequences put on my actions taught me a much-needed lesson that I applied with the next man I met, who became my husband.

[@johnjackson9235]

Based upon that original experience, how did you learn how to better manage your feelings and engage in more productive and cooperative communication with your man? That was a major issue in my marriage (as my wife felt that she could talk to me in any way that she wanted to as long as she "felt some kinda way"). Most issues (even basic things) seemed to have a level 8-10 emotional response. I could be "patient" or "be quiet" for a couple items but I couldn't stand it over the long term and it ultimately would drive me crazy. So how did you tangibly change your communication strategies and tactics?

[@imetaboyiusedtoknow8308]

@@johnjackson9235 Maturity, realizing men and women process issues differently, and not wanting to lose another relationship over bad behavior. Also my husband and I spent a long time before we got married discussing how we wanted our marriage to work, we wrote it all down, it was like a book.lol. on disagreements, we addressed words, actions and attitudes that were off- limits and how we would work through disagreements. It wasn't perfect, I still took too long to get to the point and he didn't pick up his socks and clothing from the floor but we overlooked this kind of stuff and didn't let it escalate. He passed six years ago. I still miss him and our marriage. It is difficult to give other people marital advice but I hope you two can work it out.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm sorry to hear about the demise of your husband and thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

[@joyricherson4570]

What did you learn,?

[@johnjackson9235]

@@imetaboyiusedtoknow8308 first let me say I am sorry that the love of your life is gone. I can presume that there is a proverbial hole (emotionally and spiritually) that doesn't seem possible to fill. So prayers to you for continuing to live your life. I also wanted to commend the two of you for having the wisdom to put in the pre-work and understand the value in doing so. It shows that you both took marriage seriously and wanted it to work. Well done. Having mutually created guidelines and best practices gives everyone an emotionally neutral mechanism to hold yourself accountable and hopefully adjust your behavior in the moment.

[@darkphoenixaresryu]

Study stoicism and become stoic. Not detached just calm and unphased. You are her rock.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@zacharyjeffery7587]

My lady went off on me one day because I forgot to get ranch from Wingstop. After a brief chat with her I figured out It wasnt the ranch, she had a rough day and felt like everything that day didnt go in her favor and something simple like having ranch with her food was hard. As men we mist control the situation by staying outcha feelings and deep diving into the real issue, makes like with women much easier.

[@tramayneharris7044]

Most definitely 💯

[@sk8ingthemystery]

I dated a woman who would have insane emotional outbursts / episodes over the most random shit. Usually it all boiled down to my tone, but she genuinely did not understand putting people in frustrating situations makes them frustrated. Therefore the person responding isn't gonna respond as if they're ecstatic. I wouldn't yell or name Call obviously, but any slight annoyance in tone would start the cycle all over again, it was absolutely obsurd. Broke it off after warning her several times, my life is now so much more peaceful. This video brought back some PTSD foe me 🤣🤣

[@DonBrowsing]

Congratulations. I know how that feels. Enjoy and do everything you ever wanted to do for yourself.

[@Officialprodbytreybeats]

Yeah, brotha, I was in situation similar, lots of emotional PTSD from getting shit talked to and yelled at over questions or being "too helpful"... but then when I do me, it's an issue. When EVERYTHING is an issue, it ain't you its THEM!

[@sk8ingthemystery]

@@Officialprodbytreybeats PREACH

[@TherealSIRenity]

Crazy I’m going through the same thing. Kind of a unlucky girl and anything that goes wrong she burns everything in her path

[@simoneaux15]

@@TherealSIRenity it’s been 10 months bro, if you haven’t already, get out. You’re in for a miserable life if you don’t.

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*These insights are so useful for guys who want to improve communication, especially in tough conversations!*

[@cbaileygo]

Stephan is always…always on point, the only relationship advice coach that I follow and watch daily. Stephen needs a 30 min segment on our local TV network channels. 🔥✊🏾😉

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@MansaMusa-v5q]

Rule 1. Put effort Rule 2. If putting effort doesn’t work leave and don’t look back Rule 3. If she start to complain too much or disrespect let her ass go Rule 4. It’s a 50/50 thing If you always tending to her every lil need you will create a monster

[@whitewolf9547]

I started out so solid and grounded in the beginning of our relationship but the lies and deceit eventually got to me and I was emotional in the end. We broke up last week and even though its tough, I know it was for the best

[@gregoryjackson7239]

Thanks! I would like to know how I can get some direct help in a situation that I am caught up in I would like to have your consultation, so how do I get in touch with you?

[@Shadybiglpac]

Classic KZbin it’s really nice to have practical tips to explain these kind of things and the way you break it down is so good I appreciate that a lot I find it useful

[@gp9532]

Great stuff. The reality is this advice applies to EVERY WOMAN in your life, ie Mom's, Sister, Spouse/Partner, Auntie, Grandma, Co-Worker, etc, etc

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

You're absolutely right!

[@lls4341]

Hmmm...I had a reflective moment. I've been all these women at some point in. Healing with therapy and self accountability. Thanks for valuable insight.

[@Mike-size]

Really good video. I have a very emotional wife and lately I have been able to be patient with her. I used to react and yell. I have since gone to therapy and I haven't had any outburst in a year. But it has opened my eyes. After all the work I have done to myself I realize I'm over it. Controlling myself has led me to respect myself and I'm looking for a way out. I'm working on myself but I have never seen the same from her. I'm out.

[@melmel7011]

Im so sorry. Have you tried telling her that if she doesnt change, you are living

[@whitewolf9547]

Yup this is me exactly. If I’m trying to fix you and if I’m arguing with you occasionally then that means I care. Once I’m just like “ok no problem” that is when I’m emotionally checked out and I end up leaving. There is only so much unnecessary drama that I can put up with before my internal peace is at jeopardy

[@mrbloody562]

Once you mentioned god at the end and spoke about finding your true purpose i swear it ran through me like a flood. This is my purpose i wanna start a channel like you brother and learn how to live on that pray god continues to bless it

[@downtimewithdemille3116]

Stephan!! Brother, I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!! I find myself binge watching them while I am working out. Keep up the great work. Question for you…I know you are saying as men, we should not be lead by our emotions when dealing with an emotional woman, and we should remain calm. But as a man, how should you handle yourself if in the moment the woman is talking in a disrespectful tone, raising voice, even cussing at you? Where do you say “ok, it’s time for me to defend myself?” It’s hard to not be lead by your emotions in that specific scenario. Would love to get your thoughts.

[@Squirrelflight_luv]

Thank you for this video

[@papaainsl3705]

I have made so many mistakes in my current relationship . I wish that my changes will not be too late ...

[@chooseaname1423]

It’s usually a build up of things that matter and match the emotion, but it can be triggered in a moment that appears to be insignificant and not match the emotion. You will impress her, and make her feel safe to speak calmly about it if you show her you are open, curious and want to hear her out. Ask questions to figure out what the mountain is below the mole hill. You’ll get to the root of the problem so you can solve it for her by reassuring her and ask her what actions/words she wanted from you in the past that led to that conclusion/worry/need/emotion. If this work is never done, the mountain is actually a volcano that will explode at some point. Don’t ignore it. She may start to vent at first and you can easily get upset and give up. Try to keep listening. Tell her if you need a break but let her know it’s not because she’s too much or you don’t care, you just need a break before continuing the conversation so you can be the best listener you can for her. Find a way to serve her or touch her while she’s opening up to you. She’s upset because she loves you and wants you and she’s not feeling that from you or getting something she needs to be able to stay with you and she’s desperately hoping you’ll figure it out and resolve that so you can stay together. So massage her shoulders, rub her feet, hug her/cuddle, hold her hand, etc. Stephan mentioned it feels like she’s trying to battle you. Odds are, she is batteling for the relationship and desperate for her man to do the same. She knows her needs and she needs you to understand them and meet them in order for your relationship to be successful….and vica versa, so she isn’t being selfish, her emotion is telling you it’s the unhealth of the relationship and that it’s at risk so if you react like it’s ridiculous/she’s selfish, it will break her spirit and make things worse. Communicate your issues too, but save yours for another moment. Make that her moment. It works better when one is exasperated and upset if you deal with that one issue first. Bring yours up later. She will want to hear yours and please you more if you show hers respect and consideration and make an effort. No, hers don’t necessarily need to come first, it’s the partner who’s been emotionally triggered first that should go first. That’s likely the woman because hormones make them more emotional. Men need to speak up for their own so theirs are heard too. Men don’t say enough. Women can’t read minds, they want to know exactly what you want. She will be doing things thinking you like it or it is good for you, but often it’s not. I was pissed when I found I was putting in so much effort for my man that he didn’t even want or need. Wasting both our time. I was relieved when he finally told me exactly what he wanted so I could put all my energy in to what was actually welcome and worked for him. Don’t be afraid to ask for exactly what you want and say exactly what you don’t want. I wish I’d known sooner. It makes a woman feel foolish to have spent a lot of time and pour all her heart in to work that a man was essentially throwing in the trash. Don’t let that happen to your woman. Give her the roadmap to your heart and guide her on it with love, when she veers off, show appreciation for what she was trying and gently tell her you’d like something else. Good luck

[@AllegroFitnessLondon]

This is actually really reassuring to read that being a woman means being more emotional. My ex used to say my emotions are irrational and it would serve me better to not listen to them. Sometimes they were, sometimes they very much weren't. I was never cruel but could get sad over little things especially certain times of the month (e.g. I once cried I'd never be as good of a dancer as the ones on So you think you can dance because I was too old/too late for me lol). Now I have such a complex about whenever I get emotional over something I punish myself for it. It's reassuring to hear it's normal and valid (but also not framed in a 'not taking accountability for your weaknesses way' for example these influencers/'therapists who go with this rhetoric of 'yes queen, you deserve everything and if he can't handle it, he's not worthy' kind of way) and that men should help us navigate them rather than just tell us to 'get over it'

[@mishawesley5312]

Let me add this that I didn't hear in the video, LEARN HER, STUDY HER. If you want to intentionally measure her emotional temperature and temperance, then get to know her frequency. Also, if you cannot reel that woman back in to an emotionally calm state, then she may unstable or maybe even slightly unhinged. Just wanted to add that, SINCE IM A WOMAN 😉

[@nadas.5643]

Right! Because as a woman no matter how emotional or upset I am. If my man stands in his masculine, and makes me feel safe, secure, and heard. It will bring a me to a calm place. Ain't nothing like the strength of a man when you are having a moment. If you can't calm your mate down y'all are not compatible and she might be emotionally unstable for sure!

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

Agreed.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤

[@Officialprodbytreybeats]

Unless she truly crazy. Then good luck my men!!

[@DonBrowsing]

I wouldn't go with that game plan when you are maintaining your own respect and peace. A man would like to be in a relationship with an adult. We are not animal whisperers. I wouldn't advise women use the passive aggressive game to hope your man get the hint. That has a high failure rate for women.

[@kennethyoung4892]

Thank you for sharing this information this is very helpful. I'm dealing with my woman who is very emotional today. I know what the underlying issues are and I'm constantly praying for her and myself as well. Again thank you for this great content

[@mikek2954]

I understand what you saying as far as it's a moment it will pass but how many times you have to experience I'm not going to keep having failed conversations and there are no changes in Behavior

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Communication is definitely key and if you can't communicate together why are you still there?

[@AnthonyWhiteside-rj9vb]

Honestly One of the Best Female psych explanations. Bro thank you for your 10 years of service and sacrifice.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I appreciate that ❤ 🙏

[@abro99]

Thanks!

[@tochukwumodebelu1920]

You are very good at what you Do Stephen, point 6 Got to me

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@Marie-vz2qp]

Love this video, positive words, some men can't communicate at all.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

[@waltslife155]

Excellent advice bro

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you ❤

[@marygranke204]

I have never been an overly emotional woman and I have even been told that I am cold hearted, but that is far from the truth and I am a person who is considerate of other people. Good content.I recently got upset at work because there is not good communication with administration, and I had expressed there needs to have better communication, but was never fixed on the assistant principal and I had expressed in a not good matter, but I have to deal with them on a regular basis, so I will try to check myself and walk away next time I get upset by lack of communication on their part.

[@marygranke204]

I even apologized to them.

[@neverslacken7965]

I rewatch your videos and it helps so much! 🙏🏼

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@neverslacken7965]

@@StephanSpeaksforMen Thank you 🙏🏼 I can’t wait to watch the new videos you post. I hope we can chat one day to get a better understanding.

[@sersop]

Thank you Stephan. I am a man of God and I pray almost always. Great advise!

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@kernaishaxoxo]

I think I am lucky in this regard. I grew up with a mom who would say anything and everything to us and our dad when she was mad. When she felt better she felt we should too, so if we brought it up we were the bad guys. It instilled a deep disgust for saying things out of anger. That doesn’t mean I don’t wanna cuss his ass out sometimes, but there is such a deep hurt when you say something you know you can’t take back. It’s never worth hitting below the belt, woman or man. That being said, clearly I deal with a lot of childhood trauma that my man has been very patient and open while I grow and let go of the past.

[@sulemanlubanga2616]

You are right brother...thank you very much

[@bogslawK]

You are amazing bro

[@whitenight144]

So much great advice. Thank you

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

My pleasure ❤

[@cget]

Great video, Stephan. I've definitely dropped the ball with both saying things the right way and encouraging healing. The last woman I dated had a very short fuse. With the last argument that we had, I tried my best to carefully and kindly suggest that she get therapy. Primarily because she mentioned to me earlier in our relationship that she felt herself being a lot more emotional than usual since her mother's recent passing. She took this the complete wrong way and broke down. If I recommended that we get couple's therapy instead, I'm sure she would have been a lot more receptive and that probably would have prompted her to get individual therapy as well. I don't know if that relationship was worth trying to save because I really started to resent her because of the lack of peace I had, but looking back it these tips might have gave us more of a fighting chance.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

[@johnjackson9235]

After being married to an overly emotional women (and we are going through a divorce currently), the question of the day is who should be responsible for "having patience" and "giving grace" to the person who is not engaging in communication best practices. Why should a man have to "tolerate" an overly emotional woman who is making false accusations, not speaking transparently, and potentially being disrespectful in their language choices. We are talking about adults (not teenagers). Towards the end of my marriage I chose to just be quiet and not really respond (and that ultimately didn't work for her). So I simply gave up substantially on believing that we could have a dually beneficial, respectful conversation. Objectively, in every conversation, someone is acting more "out of bounds" than the other and grown folks in a relationship should be able to acknowledge that (rather than continually making excuses for emotional people that don't know how or don't want to better manage their emotions and their word choices).

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus should be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@johnjackson9235]

@@StephanSpeaksforMen and that requires someone to get outside of their feelings and doing what seems objectively in the best interest of the relationship. This is why I am a big believer in having written rules and guidelines for decision-making, problem solving, and tough conversations. The emotional person, in that moment, will always believe that their behavior and word choices are justified.

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

@@johnjackson9235 all I read in your comment was: I, I, I and you really didn’t understand what he was explaining.

[@johnjackson9235]

@@sunshinesunflowerz1647 I agree 100% with what he was saying. But you can only engage in the strategies for a short period of time. My point is how do you manage things that happen consistently over a long period of time. How do you hold your emotional partner for failing to get better at communicating? It should not be my responsibility to keep "being the bigger person" for 20+ years. The goal should be for both of us to get closer to the middle (as the goal should be to have true, mutually beneficial and respectful communication). Ultimately I think your message is for me to focus on me (which is true and I receive that). All I can ever do is manage my feelings, my words and my actions.

[@nw6860]

@@johnjackson9235 I agree with you. Your points are valid. Don't let @Sunshine Sunflowerz 🌻 dilute your argument. Sounds as if she lacks accountability herself.

[@lisamonsibais3623]

I love this advice ❤️. This makes sense on what a woman wants and helps me understand better how men think 🤔

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@traceyday2020]

Really enjoying your videos. I think as a society we need to be careful with the term emotional. It's too often used in a negative way (not by yourself). Saying a woman is 'too emotional' is negative (like you say, emotional instability is different), making men feel they're weak if they are emotional is a negative, not allowing children to show their emotions (have tantrums) because we see them as negative behaviour. We all have emotions. Women are not 'emotional' & men 'emotionless'. We all need to be able to stand in our own power & show up for one another 💕

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@BabyFaceRose]

FACTS

[@iamvyv3742]

Amen

[@narviaflournoy3869]

Ooh my goodness, I watched this video again and it's refreshing to bring this knowledge back up to forefront Amen Amen !! 👋🏽🛎🙏🏼

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

❤ 🙏

[@rayellejohnson9961]

Best video ever

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@christopherdunkley1859]

I was in a relationship with my woman she have this same emotional problem bwoy it was stressful she would get loud and angry for every little ting and when i talk to her about it she blame everything on me. man that stress me out real bad I had no choice but to brake off the relationship with her.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@romeloburnett]

That brother preachin

[@lafaelbey8206]

Not only this for relationships but use it for a daily thing in life in all situations

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@olivias7724]

This is sooo good.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@TheShytallica]

Not a man of God nor will I ever be, however your videos are inspiring nonetheless so I will keep watching, I may even consider buying one of your books to see if I can self help my way through the heartbreak I’ve been faced with for the last year. Regardless I appreciate the work you have put into these KZbin videos. Thank you for your service.

[@Ccnnee888]

I habitually listen to rebuttal. I listen to defend myself. I hold resentment for being told I'm useless, asked why haven't I killed myself yet, I'm ignorant, I'm dumb and stupid, I make everyone's lives miserable, etc.. I'm having trouble speaking from consciousness and love so I don't escalate the situation. His patience has beyond ran out with me and in result there have been physical altercations and bc of those instances, I retreat to trying to make sure it never happens again and being anxious constantly. I've been told I have no patience and that every time I speak against him, he will shut me up. Those are my consequences for my emotional unstability, resentment, and disrespect.

[@kennethyoung4892]

This is an excellent content

[@joyricherson4570]

And definitely not just the case in a romantic relationship.

[@wandafossett846]

☺☺💯Agree Stephan The Mens Channel ROCK 🤗💜🙏 Great Info!!!

[@joyricherson4570]

Pray should have been number 1

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Absolutely!

[@joyricherson4570]

No lies detected!

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@iSon25]

Tha n k you

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

My pleasure ❤️

[@narviaflournoy3869]

🗨🔥🙏 ThankYou for sharing !!

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

My pleasure ❤️

[@danieldoca7158]

I am not saying that men shouldn't be calm and listen but women also have to practice emotional self control. I mean we put up with a lot of things every day and the last thing I need is to come home to someone who is a ticking bomb. What happened with easy going, easy to get along?

[@rjgerichten8251]

Love your vids! BIG HELP! #3 I learned recently that it's important to talk about what's "True" in what she's saying and not talk about what's "not true" with what she is saying. 'youre always on your phone' Instead of saying "I'm not always on my phone" I would say "Yes, I am on my phone a lot" Game Changer fellas!! How she is feeling most often does have to do with you. Don't take everything personal, take yourself out of the situation and Listen to the Truth that she is saying.

[@cbaileygo]

Damn, off the dribble. 🔥

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

🙏

[@kevincorpus8964]

The video I wish I would’ve seen sooner

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

🙏

[@anthonyhodo3216]

Whew this one is tough I dated a overly emotional women it was tough…She was a good women but started to break me down we end up separating but she was a handful!!

[@Gunterforever]

U did right, LEAVE THAT MESS ALONE, its called DAMAGED GOODS, until that is fixed

[@MrDaniels1914]

I love your videos but on this one you are putting alot of responsibility on the man. Sometimes you can do all of these steps and the people still will be super emotional. Accountability is the issue. There are times when I might be stressed out/emotional but I am not going to lash out towards my lady. I know that my emotional state isn't her fault. I take accountability that I might be in my feels. So I tell me lady, hey give me an hour or so before I respond back. I give mysekf time to calm down before I respond to her.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@Bpreppye]

I liked this comment, because even though we need to be in control on our emotions, our female counterparts are supposed to be our place of peace , i know female nature is to create caos in order to feel , but most of the times is hard to deal with frequent argumentative and combative behavior , i always recommend to look after feminine, friendly , calm females that even with their voice can calm your world.... Not saying they cannot be crazy too, do your research...

[@Quianna]

​@Bpreppye A woman's nature is not to create chaos to feel. Where do y'all be getting this stuff?

[@Sldp90]

Both men and women have to learn that they're not the same. Just like men need to understand that women are emotional human beings, us women need to learn more about men too. I believe Stephan is focusing on giving tips to men in this video, and he won't talk to the women here. But men, keep in mind that RESPECT and COMMUNICATION is the most important thing in a relationship. BOTH need to be aware and accountable of their part in every situation. I'm a very emotional woman, but I know I need to learn how to regulate my emotions and gather my thoughts by having some space before I speak too much or say things I might not truly mean. I have also learned I need to speak about how I feel and why I feel that way once I'm in a less emotional state, since I realized is very unhealthy to not speak or not be clear or being passive aggressive. Many times it's just about that time of the month, I find myself being overly emotional about the most stupid things, and only when I look at the calendar I understand why, lol. Other times it's because I'm very stressed either because of work or because of family, and that can affect the other parts of my life by being too sensitive. We cannot control our hormones unfortunately. And it worsens when women get pregnant and in the post partum. Guys, please be patient with your woman in these moments. But also keep in mind that YOU are responsible for who you choose to be by your side. Almost all women are emotional, but there's also good and bad types.. healed and not healed... so keep that in mind :)

[@visiouslp]

Feeling is not fact!

[@theman2017inc]

This video as always is timely as well as poignant Plus in my case, this has come much too late for a past relationship where I was dealing with a emotional woman and admittedly I did not handle it with maturity as well as stoically. What you’ve talked about, taught her will take time to learn/ master like doing martial arts, will start off as novice to getting experience/ master level

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@hmaidhaydari9662]

I think there should be a class in high school to teach young men these things, which are much more important things to know and be aware of in life. Unfortunately, for most of us growing up in a healthy household and toxic environment where, we learn how to behave and react to these situations based on how our parents and siblings reacted in the past. Our society is failing at this very moment and little hope for a better future.

[@KXXNG5]

Don’t you think these types of women needs therapy ? Sounds like too much work , feels like a damn shift

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Healing is definitely key!

[@kevinfancher434]

Some women will always take things the wrong way. No matter if you show them you are their loving safe place, caring, good tone of voice, proper body language, facial expression. Most women just listen to react, not to understand. My last Ex, I would talk to her in the most loving kind way and try to communicate her feelings and she would say " why are you being so mean ". I pray for her healing of her bad past everyday and for my improvement on understanding. I am God's work in progress, but it's only my job to heal me not anybody else. Thanks for the great content😊

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for your feedback. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@jerzygrl8896]

A mass text of #6 time 17:31 needs to be sent to every man on the entire planet.

[@moremanjengwa4637]

As always, everything is super. Waiting for new crack from your team

[@wildwinener3203]

Why should I have to be on my top game and settle for a woman who cannot control her emotions or COMMUNICATE her feelings? As if she were some type of kid. When like you said in the video not all women are like this. I believe she chooses how she treats you and you are a fool to believe it is because “she can’t help it”

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@visiouslp]

Yes, definitely not married but you know!

[@timothybroadnax2692]

That last talking point was a hard pill 💊

[@slickpanther6160]

Please start talking about... The signs a baby mother may take you back... Or what to do.. Your videos aim to the beginning of a relationship. The high majority of your audience are mature black people with children. And it's hard to use your advice in already established relationships. This is a area within your industry that is not spoke on much... Which is a shame because millions are suffering. Help us Stephan.. Thanx.

[@MansaMusa-v5q]

Never go back to a baby mother NEVER

[@wandafossett846]

Also that's a lot to work out So Men please take this Advice So not to waste time on the wrong Women.. While the right women is s waiting Healed and Patiently for her Boaz ok guys 💖😌🙏

[@BabyFaceRose]

I hate how emotional I am fr

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

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[@DonBrowsing]

Cognitive behavioral therapy. It rewires how your subconscious impulsively reacts to emotional stimuli. It's rewiring your logic. So your emotions are stable. But you will always be you. Just not to turn people away, because for a man that experience with a woman can be hell on earth.

[@Garwey1]

The problem here is most of these situations are because she is not the one for you. If it happens often, trust me no shrink or psychologist will fix your relationship. Best solution is peacefully walk away before it get toxic and you both reach level of mental health issues which consequently leads to resentment

[@deez4evs]

12:33 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@abigalestoll]

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[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

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[@Lonewolf-mt4fw]

what do you do when she always gives you slient treatment

[@nayanapendleton2607]

Well if you are calm for too long ie. 3 year then she must go

[@kairosunltd130]

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[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

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[@jrtorres1317]

Bro all these adds your tripping can’t even stick to a point

[@nnadams2003]

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[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

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[@MassGainingGuy]

One great tip...dont deal with a emotional unstable woman, it won't end well!

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback ❤

[@narviaflournoy3869]

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[@wildwinener3203]

No bro I found this channel today. The first video I watched I agreed with him this one disappointed me. Women will disrespect you and blame it on emotions. Truth is you just doing the wrong thing before or doing the wrong thing now. She will not have an “emotional outburst” with a man she respects. A man she respects is doing everything right. Women are manipulative and not so much emotional as they claim. Stop steering your following in the wrong direction. As a man we do not have to deal with such behavior. It’s mentally draining do not tolerate such. She wants to make you feel as if she didn’t do it on purpose and you helping them do that for shame

[@GetRightEarly]

Boys to men out there just remember this 1 thing Never ever ever ever ever get married.

[@F1ukez]

How to handle women? Dont.

[@visiouslp]

Again why is he doing all these things when she is the problem; maybe you should be teaching men not to get married because women are children 😢. These guys be caping for women and leading men down the road of unhappiness and divorce.

[@Gunterforever]

Man this guy is okaying those bad habits instead of telling them to fix that nasty mess, nobody wants to be laying beside a ticking time bomb

[@joshua.l.henderson5209]

First and foremost the masculine energy is wonderful amazing 😍🤩😍🤩😍🤩😍🤩😍🤩😍🤩😍🤩😍. We can allow for the feminine energy to win. No. No. I am a male no female

[@SantiagoVeraLoor]

And some crazy people want s femalt president. Of she gets upset with her husband or its thst time of the month she starts WW3 😂😂

[@joyricherson4570]

Why are you using the d word like crazy?

[@michaelwaithaka1008]

stay toxic☣☢

[@Marie-vz2qp]

This goes for men tool.