90 Day Fiancé Recap: Cleo UPSET At Christian

In this episode of “90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days” a lot went down! From Cleo getting upset at Christian and accusing him of “gaslighting” her, as well as Amanda meeting Razvan’s friend. “90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days” airs Sunday at 8pm PT/ET on TLC and discovery+.

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

Please just get Jasmine off the show. I fast forward when i see her now. Shes actually emotionally exhausting.

[@gracieshepardtothemax1743]

It had to be said! She’s being exploited for her what seems mental issues. They did the same to Darcy, Angela.

[@tartinomiel]

And we dont need to know graphic things about their sex life, I am exhausted too

[@historyloveriii2949]

D-I-S-G-U-S-T-I-N-G!!!

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

Agreed!

[@Bunny11344]

I skip everyone and only watch Cleo Christian and slater and Dempsey

[@tracyzenero9913]

He talked a big game, but he isn’t as comfortable with dating a transgender person as he thought. He didn’t want his fiends to know they had sex. It’s time to walk away

[@davicool4284]

What is transgendered "sex"?

[@Banana12813]

​@@davicool4284gay sex

[@rileycoyote8275]

​@@davicool4284Lube lube and more lube. And a reach-around, definitely a reach-around.

[@gararohere]

​@@davicool4284gay sex

[@Bunny11344]

@@davicool4284 butt segg

[@ms.michaud8866]

Christian is a liar, gaslighter, delusional, needs to leave Cleo alone!

[@rileycoyote8275]

Cleo is all of those things and so much more. He can't accept himself, yet he wants others to accept and validate him. He needs psychological help.

[@ms.michaud8866]

@@rileycoyote8275 I think they all should get a group rate on therapy🤣

[@Bunny11344]

Cleo needs to leave him alone did u see her sob during next weeks preview when she took them to see some bs physic life chart and she told them they won’t last😂

[@abbymurray9730]

I feel sorry for the camera crew that had to film Gino and Jasmine in their bedroom Id feel so uncomfortable 😳

[@chencho3041]

The moment he said you hear that bell Miesha…….. you can see in her face the cringe 😂

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

He will quickly become verbally abusive if she stays with him. He has already shown his true colors.

[@MotoNick]

Christian looks more and more frowned and depressed every episode.

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

He is an alcoholic. He becomes depressed during the day until he starts drinking,you can see the change come over him.

[@historyloveriii2949]

Just give him a shot!🥃

[@Bunny11344]

He should just shave his head at this point the receding hairline doesn’t help

[@muthroiltrails2897]

I liked Razvan's friend. She was bang on

[@lizmuhl4846]

She is rediqulouse and a red flag not him! Her behavior is a woman that has no business dating still clearly morning and hurting, she is selfishly trying to fill the massive loss of her late husband, she needs to grow up and stop behaving like some type of prize, she isn't, she is just acting ugly, a user to fill her void. Go be a mom and he needs to find a good ready to be loved and return that love. She is the reason I can't watch there story, everyone one I know fast forward when she is on the screen. Stinks for him but she is not someone IAM watching ps literally everyone one I know , minions

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

She doesn't want him to come but is putting the blame on him. He was so shocked when she said she didn't know he wanted to move to USA. he knows he told her multiple times but she's playing dumb in front of the cameras.

[@lizlikes405]

He deserves better, she acts like he's beneath her.

[@vidikat]

I am more curious about the dog in the background than I am about Gino and Jasmine.

[@danyielsays4621]

Well maybe both of them should haven't said anything 😕 just keep intimate details to yourself not cameras 🎥

[@trancd822]

Hmm they are on a reality tv ... it is in the job description

[@tartinomiel]

Cleo was using a vocabulary with her friend in the morning... just teasing things..

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

But they are getting paid to be on this show...

[@cat-alina8139]

No gurl, Cristian is just no clear in what he wants, he has internal transphobia, to date a trans person he needs to be at least queer to not feel gay or whatever is happening in his mind

[@rileycoyote8275]

​@@cat-alina8139Or maybe he's just not attracted to insufferably, selfish, insecure nitwits who expect others to pander to them and indulge their delusions.

[@terryramos7126]

Christian is not good for her!! he’s immature and just wants to party and he’s only there cause he was curious. His intentions are not genuine .. she needs to move on.

[@historyloveriii2949]

Plus his TLC clout $$$.

[@rileycoyote8275]

"She" needs to stop playing make-believe and accept himself.

[@cat-alina8139]

The church Bell 🔔 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ashleyrigatoni702]

Meisha & Nicola is like Goddess & Wishkin Troll.

[@historyloveriii2949]

Amanda stop, STOP FUSSING WITH YOUR HAIR!

[@kalpanabharatme]

It is so incredible annoying 😭

[@historyloveriii2949]

@@kalpanabharatme Thank you!

[@vidikat]

Cleo honey, why are you confused? It’s clear he doesn’t wanna be with a trans woman - at least openly… Move on to something better.

[@rileycoyote8275]

"Cleo" can't accept himself, so how are others going to accept him?

[@user-sv7fd6es6s]

First of all I really love Dempsey's father. He seems very protective, and he does not like Statler AT ALL. Look at the look he was giving her when she was talking about moving to the UK and how she had an English girlfriend before. He thought she was nuts. Also Gino and Jasmine are gross, I don't want to hear about her golden shower, but it did look like Gino enjoys BDSM so there is that. I think Gino's excitement was very real. Christian is creepy the end.

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

Dempsey's father reminded me of Brian Denehhey (idk how to spell his name) that actor from the 80s/90s. Agreed on the Gino and Jazmine - TMI !!!

[@evamitchell499]

Misha and Nickolas what did she saw on the guys 😝?

[@shannon222ish]

I think I would look into anyone's eyes in that way if they announced my menstrual cycle to a party full of ppl & at very least a stranger I just met. That girl is desperate for him & clearly has feelings for him. That was super uncomfortable Amanda shouldn't have been put on the spot like that.

[@thapoppyman]

Your the new person meeting a group of friends. Like it or not your going to be put on the spot. So get off your phone and engage with them so razzmatazz doesn't have an opportunity to say something you don't like. If you just become a hermit and rely on your partner to take on the social interactions then expect things could be said that you don't approve.

[@shannon222ish]

@@thapoppyman Sure opening up is fine disclosing your bodily functions is another. Hella awkward

[@aanon5716]

the trans thing i cant even...too problematic of course & not in my world. the troubled state of these people only makes me sad for them. amanda= i cant stand the frustration & hurt i see in razvan. if amanda cant make any decisions about this relationship or when she can even tell her kids about their relationship, she shouldnt have started this whole romance. it looks like shes just playing & testing the waters being w/ another man but shes not ready to get serious. my own observation is she quite boring & stubborn. if i was razvan's friend i would tell him to end this thing. it will already hurt him, he is so invested. but he needs a woman who doesnt have her baggage & one that is mad in love w/him. hes so sweet. its very one sided. he is full of love & ready 4 committment. the constant arguments already? big red flag. this is suppose to be the honeymoon period. u dont argue, u have stars in ur eyes lust love & having fun laughter intimacy, etc... & another thing, its always going to be HER children. u hear it in her voice. he will not be able to father those children. another big red flag. & of course there was some miscommunication w/ her saying she told him upfront no more babies & he wants them. thats not a red flag thats the sinking of this realtionship.

[@davicool4284]

I'm glad RazClots friend called Amanda out. Somebody finally had to do it

[@Kelly-mi1yz]

This is Christians first time with a trans…. Sooo I would think cleo would understand with being not so open at first! Also TONS of straight people on the show have lied about having sex too and it was never this big of a deal. This is the issue with some trans, they only think about their journey and not the others…. As if it’s not as hard or as valid as their trans story. Ugh

[@makreviews2146]

I think the issue is that they clearly didn't have a conversation about what they each would tell producers. If they were trying to actually build a relationship honesty and open communication should be happening, it doesn't seem like that happened here. The reality of the situation is that if someone is going to choose to date a trans person they have to learn and realize what goes into that and decide whether or not they can handle it point blank period. Ofc most people trans or not are going to mostly consider their own perspective and try to protect themselves as they should, especially when evaluating if they should be in a serious relationship with someone or not. When anyone doesn't consider their own best interest and properly protect him or herself they can get taken advantage of and hurt. There is nothing wrong with protecting one's own self interest when dating, doing otherwise is foolish and indicative of low self esteem and sometimes desperation.

[@rileycoyote8275]

It's all about Cleo. He doesn't care about how Christian feels, as long as Christian kisses his ass and panders to his delusion.

[@TombRaider666]

It’s crazy how much Mischa looks like an older Megan fox

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

Right!!

[@abbybarrett4855]

Megan fox looks old now lol, misha isn’t too far off.

[@thapoppyman]

Aged very well.

[@JM-wn1gr]

As a real woman, Christian grosses me out

[@rileycoyote8275]

As a real woman, they both gross me out.

[@JM-wn1gr]

@@rileycoyote8275 Agree. !

[@michelle_m4446]

Cleo Cleo Cleo...your relationship is effectively over. Not cool.she knew Christian was struggling with accepting her as trans . she should have left quiet. She knows she is a manly female. She outed him and that was NOT cleos place

[@888.cecilia]

She’s trans!? I’m surprised that’s all.

[@babyanimals3777]

@@888.ceciliahow can you not tell?

[@888.cecilia]

@@babyanimals3777 I should have known. I was more focused on the drama.

[@royharper2003]

Dude is on TV dating a transwoman, he outed himself.

[@888.cecilia]

@@babyanimals3777 Where is she from? She kinda has a accent

[@cat-alina8139]

Is I was a tv producer for religion show i hire Micha , she is hot 🔥

[@MamawithAtude-ib4em]

I blame TLC for trying to create drama where it did NOT need to be. Ppl define "sex" differently. So what? Who cares? He did NOT say they just hit second base, CLEO. He said a couple of bases. Cleo is looking for a reason to stand on her high or should I say, "Trans" horse, and make this a political thing where it does NOT need to be. I am genuinely disliking Cleo for this. But I'll give her a pass since she is on Spectrum and has issues.

[@Laura-qd5fn]

I thought Cleo was gonna say he recorded their sexual endeavours or something the way she was carrying on. She’s seriously upset he didn’t tell the world he had gay sex for the first time as a straight man (coz I’m sure she or he said she still has her male parts). He’s a creep imo but he’s not in the wrong here.

[@angelface5031]

He is in the wrong you’re on national tv dating a transsexual and want to deny that you two had sex?? That’s pathetic and sad LOL and you need a lip lift as much and Christian needs to sort out his insecurities

[@selinaoakley3613]

He seriously is in the wrong because he LIED. To Cleo, the world & himself. He knew what he was doing... He's just shown himself up for the two faced insecure manipulative untrustworthy idiot that he is.

[@thapoppyman]

I think he went in thinking he's the man and is gonna show her a good time. Then to find out quickly that she's way bigger than him lol. And was reminded every time it touched or brushed up against him.

[@rileycoyote8275]

​@@thapoppymanEww. That's all I have to say.

[@rileycoyote8275]

"Cleo" needs plenty, and by plenty I mean 24/7, validation. He can't accept himself, yet he wants and demands that others validate and kiss his ass nonstop.

[@mariausma9446]

I mean The trans girl is being a little much Like get over it

[@tracyzenero9913]

How would you feel if the man you loved denied having sec with you???

[@babyanimals3777]

@@tracyzenero9913 first of all they just met, they’re not in “love” secondly, If my partner had the same genitalia as I do and they don’t want to be outed I’d respect that, especially when you can be clocked from miles away

[@ashleyrigatoni702]

Girl, my ass, he's Nicholas Cage with a bad wardrobe.

[@rileycoyote8275]

​​@@tracyzenero9913Loved lol. Cleo doesn't love him. Cleo doesn't even love himself. There's no way that he will ever love anyone until he learns to accept and love himself. Not to mention that "Cleo" is too self-absorbed and self-centered to know how to love another person. It's all about "Cleo" and lest anyone forgets, he will manipulate the situation and play the victim.