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[@evanjuleen]

When he says "I'm not your servant" but she's literally supposed to be the whole family's servant.

[@myqueerplantfamily]

Yeah, exactly, that’s her SURPRISE job 😂

[@5050TM]

YES!!! They are both so dead wrong and annoying.

[@anniepoulsen]

@@myqueerplantfamily😅

[@sonya209_]

@@myqueerplantfamily 😂😭😭

[@JaseekaRawr]

Oop 😳😆 Yeah, it's still kind of old school here in India, but getting more progressive. But yes, the mom usually carries the entire household on her back. It just depends on the specific family, tho. For example the South Indian fam I married into is actually super progressive, prob more progressive than my own fam in KY! (Bc husband's fam is more educated than mine lol) So they don't expect me to do everything my MIL does, esp right when I arrived here. It isn't a one way street, tho. Everyone in the fam pulls their weight. So if you're not working & staying at home, then it's kind of expected that you take care of the chores. Same mentality as the US, imo. If you can afford it tho, you can get a maid service. That's still normalized here & I was shocked by that. India still has a "middle class" tho so many ppl can afford it. Btw, most families can survive on one income still, unlike the US. 🥲 So hubby usually works & wife manages the house. All that to say, she's not completely stuck ☺ His fam seems nice & progressive enough for them to approve of a love marriage, so that bodes well for her! I honestly think it's a storyline from TLC, bc they'd naturally talk about how they'd live together beforehand. (TLC loves its American exceptionalism after all 🥴) Also a spousal VISA doesn't allow you to work. If she wants to work she'd just have to apply for the proper VISA. There's def options! I'm curious to see more from this couple & how they navigate all this, bc I lived through the same thing lol. Sorry for the novela lmao.

[@shelann5496]

Kimberly is so clueless despite being clairvoyant and gifted. She's in for a rude awakening

[@zzzdreamz341]

Is she really clairvoyant (and all the clairs apparently) and gifted or is it more just she’s self proclaimed lol

[@JaseekaRawr]

​​@@zzzdreamz341I'd say 9.9 times out of 10 it's absolutely self proclaimed 😆😆 So much so that it's become a red flag for me, tbh, if someone says they're a psychic lmao. 😅

[@hannahm.8080]

None of that shit is real anyways lol so…. She’s just clueless 😂

[@SaturnSenshi3105]

Saying you’re clairvoyant and gifted IS clueless

[@radiantgoldensun6438]

@@hannahm.8080it is real, but she isn’t it

[@djceo7232]

The parents approval rate increases with a decreased age gap lol

[@thevoid747]

trrueeeee

[@julietteoscaralphanovember2223]

Yes, so this way they don't have to look for a new maid for years!!

[@zweij]

tbh mine is quite big and I have to agree. It took my parents about a year to accept my fiancee xdd

[@keekssss]

As long as you’re still young enough to give them grandchildren lol

[@traceyarnaud8433]

The grand children factor!

[@iLLSHiNEz]

Kimberly is what happens when someone watches too much Harry Potter and thinks they have magic powers.

[@beewest5704]

She reminds me of those girls who turn to Eastern practices cause they have no personality & are anxious because of the uncertainty & unpredictability of life.

[@Aprillove97]

@@beewest5704😂😂 pretty much.

[@DocBree13]

😂 true

[@millicentcunningham1863]

😂😂😂 just like Ms. Piggy aka Daniele. Kicking a coconut around all the while she has integrity issues 🤣

[@anarchist_parable]

She's giving Hufflepuff

[@anjajohnson6905]

I literally don’t even watch 90 day Fiance I just watch your videos. I always enjoy the commentary.

[@elainefranco725]

Ditto!!!! I only watch your re caps

[@thisdrinkinglife]

Eh....that's most people....doh😅

[@ludpitkahuerta9823]

sameee lmaooooo , best recaps

[@janebaker4912]

Me too. It's a recapppppp. It's a recappppp. It's. A. Reeeeecapppp

[@user-oq3tt4mi6x]

I do watch but I actually enjoy her commentary more than the show!

[@beanieNX420]

It comes out throughout the show that what actually happened is TJ started commenting and liking all of her posts and photos and after awhile the Kimberly noticed and sent him a message about how to pronounce his name. That's not 'one night I meditated and POOF!' nor is it 'I dreamed him one night and the next day, POOF!'... just to be clear ya'll.

[@tedros6917]

To be fair, I 100% believe the producers just asked him say that

[@sarahj6995]

"The Kimberly" 😂😂

[@danasandoval624]

Yes they are both full of bs. Like when that girl came in to get a reading and Kimberly went on & on about herself, I would have said shut up & read the cards or give me my money back, I didn’t come to hear about you!

[@boosqueezy2418]

no one believed that anyways

[@msKita43]

😂

[@The_random_hero_jedah]

Her dream in the desert riding sand buggies sounds like she fell asleep watching Nicole and azan episodes lol

[@_J_E_A_N_I_N_E_]

"Almost there, lazy....."

[@makeapositivedifference]

🤣🤣🤣

[@boosqueezy2418]

“you’re just lazy”

[@DocBree13]

😂

[@bigwoogc]

😆😅🤣

[@simmiejimmie8116]

TJ is slimey for not telling Kimberly what him and his family expect of her. She needs to run and leave that man.

[@tina6651.]

I think she is a nut case & unless he wants to spend the rest of his life being screamed at by that crazy woman, he is the one that needs to run!

[@Luvandrockettes]

She’s a clairvoyant, she should already know 😭

[@sereniteepot]

He's holding out on her until he can trap her in a marriage. Sadly this is done to many many young women in India, and some are just sadly stuck in it for the rest of their lives because they have no choice and divorce is highly looked down on here in India.

[@sarahmarie238]

That's a whole scary setup.

[@Pepe-le-pewpewpew]

I just wanted to provide some context. Indian culture often gets generalized and grossly minimized by the West to fit a single sentence to describe it if they can help it. But people fail to acknowledge it's literally a whole ass subcontinent with its roots dating back to the earliest civilizations, oldest religions and thus understandably you'd have a plethora of ethnic subcultures and diverse heritage that are still practiced today. TJ's culture isn't unanimously "indian". Hell, I'm Indian & absolutely cannot resonate with his/his family's "rules". My grandma would headshot me with a slipper if I dare omit garlic or onion from any cooking. My dad would bury him in our backyard and forbid our dog from digging him up if he found out I was expected to play Cinderella for the rest of my married life. Which brings me to my point that anyone looking to date Indian, know that we're all very unique in our beliefs and you should really get to know each of us and understand our backgrounds (and what you're signing up for) when pursuing any commitments whether it's friendship or relationship. Stereotypes do exist and you may meet a handful who live up to them but they're not ALL INDIANS. With every culture (not just Indian mind you) there's always a hint of generational trauma, religious bigotry, toxicity and misogyny which does need to be called out and changed for the better. Many Indians today are working towards raising awareness and making strides towards improving this for future generations. So yeah. We're not perfect, we're not claiming to be perfect, we can do better and we all don't fit in a box. ✌️

[@hj5520]

This was really well written

[@DM27995]

Thank you for writing this! This is important for people to consider. I mean I'm Indian and there's no way in hell, I'll be able to live/envision my life the way TJ and his family expect their daughter in law to be like. I've grown up in a very different kind of environment. So it depends from family to family.

[@imchuckbass4757]

very well put!

[@Chandra_Moon13]

Perfectly said! My father is Punjabi and would NEVER let me be a submissive in my relationship. After all, I’m HIS daughter so why would he think his child has less value than someone else’s? In fact, I was always treated special in the family just for being a girl, which is not something you often hear. And, yes, onions are a necessity for every Indian dish in our family. I happen to dislike onions, so now I’ll be looking for those Indian recipes without onions.

[@Financiallyfreeauthor]

Exactly! Thank you.

[@Rums1517]

As an Indian American woman who just got married, Kimberly really is getting the short stick. They should've had a talk about the culture and expectations. Poor girl

[@2paranoid2think]

her spirit guides should have told her. They did her dirty

[@flyby3079]

@@2paranoid2thinkshe certainly isnt psychic at all if she didnt see all these things coming!! 🤣🤣

[@RasBojanChe]

​@@flyby3079she is delusional for sure and arrogant and ignorant

[@vdg5346]

Indian US American is miles different than US American in India.

[@Rums1517]

@@vdg5346 So? I have Indian parents who immigrated from India and my spouse is also from India, I def know that they should've had a long talk about culture and expectations, because it is vastly different from what SHE is expecting. Him not telling her is a disservice to her and unfair! She should know what his side expects and he needs to know what her side expects.

[@iheartdates]

Re: Kimberly’s temper - in my personal experience, people who claim to be spiritual in a “woo woo” sort of way (like Kimberly), are the most explosive.

[@saneira]

agreed

[@pippetandpossum]

Yes, they're really unstable usually

[@5050TM]

I'm spiritual too and I've noticed this. Many use spirituality as a cover for their madness, insecurity, and possible narcissistic traits. It's the same with religious people though.

[@lillidaisyASMR]

I don’t get it- if my boyfriend couldn’t even give me a decent finished place and he couldn’t even acknowledge it and just walked away and trash talked me behind my back I’d have a temper too wtf is wrong with y’all

[@tiajones8939]

Also I can’t stand Mary because she is freaking out about Brandon being on the plane next to a girl while she literally said she hangs up on the call sometimes and BLAMES it on a typhoon power outage so she can hangout with her guy friends like ??? Bitch makes me mental-

[@emmavrijburg6676]

so funny how the "traditional" guys go for the "exotic free and outgoing more western women" but they also want them to abandon that part of themselves the second they get married because now that's undesirable

[@DollfaceLizkah]

Because they're abusive.

[@kayanurshiya3778]

It’s because they want to control ‘ free’ women and subjugate her under their control. Notice how most conservative men in America also pursue liberal women and then try to turned them into the trad woman. These men don’t want a yes woman that would be boring so they purposely go after progressive women . It’s all about bringing women under their control.

[@MrWood-qd6kr]

Crazy right?

[@benjamin7114]

Everyone is looking for who they aren't - free exotic women despise free exotic men, because they can't control them. Traditional men will be easier to control but you'll have to give up control too.

[@daniellecowan459]

@@benjamin7114 pretty broad statement based off some kind of weird sounding psychology… It seemed like they had similar outlooks from their spirituality group and low-key if he didn’t tell her that that’s what he wanted. It would’ve been kind of racist for her to assume that he was going to be like other Indian folk, and want some thing traditional. Maybe you like toxic relationships but I am free spirited and all that shit and I want someone who has the same would never date someone traditional. Also, pretty sure since I curse and have tattoos and I’m not a virgin most traditional men wouldn’t want me and that’s perfectly OK.

[@sonya209_]

TJ should definitely talk about everything BEFORE they get married.. usually when they don’t everything turns out bad.. 🤦‍♀️

[@ahakahsushs1964]

Definitely. This is gonna be a mess i feel like 😅

[@angelascharmedlife]

I guess she didn't pull a card for that.😂

[@thatgirlwiththecrazyhair2067]

Sounds like she didn't check anything out either and her expectations were irrational for not having done that. She travelled 72 hours without knowing exactly what she was getting into? a real interesting move if she's particular 👀

[@blink182izawsm]

The trick said she san see the future, she shouldn't need be told nun

[@UariiUripi]

​@@blink182izawsm😂

[@saneira]

You're telling me that manifestation was invented by a multiple-thousand-year-old religion and not by Danielle (of Danielle and Yohan)? I am _totally_ shocked. Also Kimberly and her gentrified Americanized apartment ideas is sending me lmfao

[@angelascharmedlife]

She is baby Danielle for sure

[@mythots]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Gio-bh3uc]

This comment cracked me up 😂

[@StrawberryLetter24]

If Kimberly was such a clairvoyant and could see and hear everything, why couldn't she have seen that the house would be a mess? 😂

[@trippy6183]

Interesting how Kimberly is so “spiritual” & supposedly has all of these “gifts”… yet is incredibly affected by her material circumstances, can’t coexist with her negative emotions, & “needs control.” Seems antithetical to spirituality.

[@officialmasellomotana2511]

White girl spiritual, like spirit light, not the actual spirit iourney

[@theupwardspiral1580]

I noticed that too lol few it was a lot.

[@julief2830]

Personally I think she is full of crap

[@tina6651.]

I don't believe for 1 min that that was Mary's first kiss! I also don't believe for 1 min that she dropped out of college & gave up her scholarship because of Brandon's jealousy, it was because of HER jealousy & SHE wanted to be on the phone with him constantly, having to know what he's doing 24/7! No instructor or college professor is going to put up with that!

[@mysurfing3550]

It's really sad she is so mentally unwell. Brandon should have done them both a favor and refused to humor that though. If someone needed that from me I wouldn't have the patience and I would just say listen, no. We can talk every few days like normal people or peace out this isn't for me.

[@imchuckbass4757]

yea, I feel like the college thing is just a convenient excuse for the real reason why she dropped out, which could be a number of things.

[@lkanety]

If she hears the spirits or whatever- she shouldn’t be surprised with the traditional wife part 😂

[@5050TM]

They should've warned ol girl before she got back on the plane!

[@laurenmorgan1416]

There's no way I could give up the garlic and onion combo. It slaps

[@lm13981]

When she said that “I’m Italian I live off of garlic and onions”; I said out loud “facts” as I’m putting garlic in my food lol. 🇮🇹

[@LifeAdviceSite]

Po’s face after he mentions giving her mom a sleeping tablet... 😂😂

[@hospitable_ghost]

TJ didn't discuss being a traditional wife with Kim before she came over because he knows she won't agree to it unless she's forced. You know, like if she's stuck in India.

[@shantelle11111]

Side note; thankyou for being a talking potato 🤣😂 this is the only uninterupted adult thing I can watch as a SAHM💀😂 My toddlers love you

[@kcar8974]

Same! My 1 year old and 3 year old drop everything to hear the potato song 😂

[@mrod87]

😂😂😂 top tier comment and parenting 😊

[@anilorac8932]

I never thought a woman’s hair(Holly’s) could be nastier than a long neglected man’s beard

[@Dovah21]

Yeah, don't ever take someone who claims to be as "powerful" as Kimberly seriously...genuine practitioners tend to be keep very quiet about their gifts, and also if Kimberly was legitimate, she should've been able to tell that things were being kept from her. Girl is a joke.

[@RyuzaChuden]

It’s alllll a joke 😂

[@w1tchmom]

My ex-husband is Indian & my in-laws LOVED me!! He ended up being a d*ck but I still keep in touch with his brother & sister. My daughter hangs out with her cousins whenever they are in NY. He was Punjabi (Sikh) & he used onion in everything (I added the garlic too😁) I couldn't agree more almost all the couples are CRAZY, BIZARRE!!!! Brandon IS weird & bizarre bit Mary needs to see a shrink. There is something about Wayne that gives me he could be a serial killer vibes. Did you notice that he always has his arms around or hands on Holly..very controlling!!

[@truecrimefan1433]

😢 I totally agree about Wayne but I'm starting to think it's a south African man thing because Ronald from and Tiffany and Ronald's season , he acted similar and he was also south African 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@flyby3079]

Syngin was from South Africa & he’s nothing like Wayne & Ronald. Though he’s very lazy.

[@beepboop3784]

The no onion and garlic thing is very dependent on region and caste (the importance of caste also varies by region even though it’s antiquated and gross but I digress). My parents’ families who live in coastal South India LOVE their onion and garlic. Growing up in the US, anything my parents made, regardless of cuisine, was filled with onion and garlic. That’s the most I can empathize with Kimberly, though. It’s giving entitled American. Edited to add: I wouldn’t date TJ, though. His expectations are way too traditional for me, and he can’t seem to stand up to his parents or be forthcoming and honest.

[@Seaglassandsage]

I was wondering about that, I don’t think I’ve ever had Indian food that didn’t have onion and garlic in it😂

[@sereniteepot]

Yes his family is way too orthodox and looks like they have 0 boundaries and are looking for a free live in maid instead of a wife/daughter in law. Any girl dating TJ would be settling for less

[@daniellecowan459]

Garlic naan FTW also I’m not really sure if it’s in titled American. I’ll have to watch more of the videos and see or if it was that TJ did what he’s doing with everything else that he won’t be honest about and brushing concerns under the rug/not telling her shit he knows what upset her. Like I don’t know I’m sure there were many many conversations about their home and many chances to tell her that they had no windows yet or that some of the things she’s used to might not be able to come to fruition. Maybe if he was telling her about them on the phone or whatever and she was throwing a tantrum absolutely but when someone makes you think everything‘s OK and then you take a 72 hour trip and realize you were most likely lied to or had your concerns rushed away when they were legitimate I would probably flip the fuck out to. Again past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior, so I’m not sure why were acting like he was mad upfront, and she knew what she was getting into.

[@Financiallyfreeauthor]

@@Seaglassandsage There's a particular sect of Viashnavas that believe in some strict asceticism that includes avoiding energetic foods. Of course Indian food has a reputation for being spicy and flavorful. In that community it is not spicy at all.

[@saladnips2415]

i’ve been watching you for about a year and a half and i never really comment but i just wanna say you’re literally a friend to me, i love your videos so much i’m up to date on 90 day but i still watch every video because i love your personality and your singing and we share the same opinions. thank you for being so great🫶🏻i watch a lot of youtube and you’re definitely up there in my favorites

[@saladnips2415]

also little side note i am so damn tired of hearing about gino and jasmine tho girl let them crash and burn😭

[@mythots]

omg i've got happy tears!!!!!!! thanks babe

[@saladnips2415]

also i love that i was apart of the group telling you to cover this season , it’s wack af , i finally found a season where i’m interested in every couple

[@amelia_mimi6153]

The “tense moment” when Mary’s grandpa asked Brandan what he did when he saw Mary for the first time made me laugh. Like, Grandpa doesn’t really speak English, so Mary could just edit what Brandan said in translation lolol

[@MelissaWilliams74802]

All I hear is Usman saying KIM BALL LEE

[@UariiUripi]

😂😂😂

[@kaylynvandermerwe]

The second I heard Wayne's accent... please leave South Africa alone we are embarrassed enough by Ronald 😭😭

[@brittanyk8028]

Curious what you mean by his accent and what that told you about him? I don’t know much about South Africa so my interest is piqued!

[@Khigha87]

The 3 South Africa guys they've had on the show are pretty much a variation of the same person and the accent confirmed this. We're a very diverse country, we have 11 official languages each with their own accompanying cultures and still variations within those based on where and how you grew up. Like city and town mice are different but still mice. We have a lot of very distinct groups in our population and TLC seems to be blind to all of them but one.

[@Seaglassandsage]

I actually really like a South African accent

[@kaylynvandermerwe]

@@brittanyk8028 I recognised his accent as South African, it sounded almost Australian but a little tinge of something else which for this kind of south african is a dead give away that they're South African, like another comment under this said South Africa is very diverse (we have 11 official languages and several hundred sub communities) and it's a shame that the only South Africans they have on the show are like the same 3 guys basically 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI]

We have other races too.

[@ramonaezra7271]

TJ is being an idiot for not explaining his family's expectations to Kimberly. Kimberly is being an immature mess. They're both terrible for each other. Bring on the 🍿! I love your channel, by the way.😁

[@Luyco]

I definitely agree that the whole "she has to be a traditional wife" thing needs to be talked about before getting married. On the other hand I also believe it to be asinine to marry into a traditional Indian family while expecting to not have to adapt to their culture at all. Also, (in case they get married and end up moving in with his parents) living with your spouse's family while acclimating to living in a different country can give you a big head start and form a great sense of community, it doesn't have to be a permanent thing, but it's respectful towards their culture to at least give it a try. For claiming to be a spiritual and woke person, Kimberly seems to be VERY set in her ways and not willing to adapt at all. I dislike her a lot. 😅😅

[@janebaker4912]

He's never moved out. You think he will now. It's their culture to measure three daughter in law the new slave

[@Seaglassandsage]

I totally agree with you. I think if she just threw a tapestry over the bathroom doorway and they worked on the apartment little by little it would be really nice. She didn’t have to react like that, and she’s also lived in India for a year, so why is everything so shocking to her?

[@danasandoval624]

I completely agree! Another American that couldn’t bother even while she lived there to find out about the culture. It isn’t a secret and unless she lived with a bag on her head she should already be aware of his way of life. I don’t agree with him not telling her and I think she is destined to make everyone in that family miserable!

[@danasandoval624]

@@Seaglassandsagebecause like many Americans (I am American but never expect others to change for me) she thinks every person in his family plus all of India should accommodate her and how she wants to live. It’s embarrassing to watch, if people can’t live the way others live in THEIR country then they need to stay home.

[@Seaglassandsage]

@@danasandoval624 absolutely, on top of that the family greeted her so warmly. She pretty much screamed and cried over crown molding for two days. My husband is from Pakistan, when I saw that apartment, I said to him “I would be so amazed and impressed if you built that apartment on top of your parents house for us to stay in when we’re in Pakistan”. The house seems quite nice, and in a good area of Jaipur.

[@WestIndianAK]

This is one of those cases where both parties to the relationship are in the wrong to some extent. It's beyond foul for him to deceive her about the expectation that she'll be a traditional Indian wife until after they're married. But she was wrong for flipping out and overreacting to the whole construction issue. These are both very flawed people.

[@narcisseamour1013]

Garlic and onion are in basically every curry base...is he trolling her? Lol

[@Snartfoodler]

onion / garlic is considered bad for you by some hindus

[@shefk7325]

As an Indian woman, I'm surprised that Kimberley didn't do her research. The family she's marrying into is clearly very conservative even by modern Indian standards- and TJ is your average Indian guy lol. He's going to never defend her from his family and will expect her to do all the housework. And I'm going to go out on a limb and say it here- he really doesn't care about her, her freedom, her personality, else he would not hide things from her- he cares about her whiteness and unfortunately she got attracted by her oriental perspective she has of Indian culture or whatever. This shit is so doomed.

[@HippyNinjaSimmy]

Hearing other people talk about South Africa is always such fun 🤣🤣 and I'm currently commenting this during loadshedding.

[@raebsen]

I'm in the USA. My husband works 60hr weeks. I make all his meals, i take care of the household stuff and work part time in nursing because i WANT to. My husband works so hard and I'm so happy to make his life easier because he makes my life easier 😊

[@boosqueezy2418]

teamwork is where it’s at!

[@akaLaBrujaRoja]

But would you “WANT” to do all that for your husband’s parents and brother, too, while they dictate what you can’t eat because it will offend their god that you don’t believe in?

[@tiffanykim2773]

There is nothing inherently wrong with TJ's family and their traditions that stem from their culture, however why why why do these men keep courting and trying to built relationships with these American women who have little to no respect for your culture, for your family or for you? And who you have to lie to in order for them to marry or even stay with you? Bruh choose better or marry within your race or culture.

[@blink182izawsm]

Tej likes a lil white rice on the side😂

[@maurreese]

People have been able to marry and build families with similar challenges for generations. This couple is not the norm hence why they are on a reality show.

[@mrs.h2725]

One of my best friends from HS is Indian, her parents were older Indians who adopted her there and then moved to the US to give her a better life. Her parents taught her that while their culture has a lot of beauty and love in it, it is very toxic with the expectation of women to be servants to their families. A big reason why that part of the culture is still perpetuated is that the Indian government has zero infrastructure towards taking care of the elderly or disabled. So the greedy politicians can pocket the money that should be used to care for their needy citizens, and instead shame the women of the family into being full time caretakers/maids. Her parents even insisted she finish college first before they’d ever consider giving their blessing for a marriage. Thanks to their evolved viewpoints she has a successful career and is happily married with a beautiful baby boy. Pointing out the sexism and toxicity in cultures doesn’t mean you hate the culture, it means you love it enough to want it to improve for everybody’s well being.

[@danasandoval624]

@@mrs.h2725very true but it’s very disrespectful to go to any other country and expect them to instantly change to accommodate you. He should have been up front and honest from the beginning. There are plenty of other people in the world and others both could have been happy with. No good relationship is built on lies or omissions nor is it built on my way or else and yelling to get what you want. They are a terrible match!

[@sofvalauren]

All these dumpster fires of relationships I am sure are contributing to global warming.🔥😩🔥

[@elizabethb.4617]

They definitely made Brandon out to be creepy and controlling but he clearly has had a traumatic childhood and needs a therapist. It’s one of the few times where I feel like he is the one being taken advantage of

[@vickielawson-ur1it]

Her doing all the household chores is going to Fly Like a Lead Balloon 😅

[@raydragerns3657]

"I have many spiritual gifts." Sure Jan. This is what comes of default accepting everything everyone says is "their truth"

[@NM-ph4tk]

17:27 As a South African, I can confirm the 8-12 hours of no electricity every day 💔

[@toxxicprincess7780]

Loadshedding made it international🤣🇿🇦

[@NM-ph4tk]

@@toxxicprincess7780 🤣

[@julietteoscaralphanovember2223]

It will be a real hot mess once she finds out she's the new maid!! Not telling her is so bad!! This relationship is doomed!! She was vicious!! But things are different in that country! And at least they won't be sleeping in the mother's bed!!

[@meenachadha3766]

As an individual with Indian parents... I'm confused with the onion and garlic issue. My experience and practice with Hinduism doesn't include this practice nor am I familiar with it. Confuses me even more bc most Indian food includes onion and garlic..... may have to deep dive research this topic

[@tiajones8939]

The way you say “*PISSSSSSSED*” is hilarious😭

[@CourtneysCockpit]

I'm team her. You can't hide things like that and then not give an Italian woman toulet paper, onions or garlic and think that everything's going to be okay

[@sereniteepot]

Yess, he's trying to trap her into a marriage!! I know how it is india, I've seen better houses here and the work he's trying to get done doesn't cost too much either, so he's super poor, looks like his entire family is and she'll have very poor living condition moving on. And looks like he's expecting her to do the entire housework and act like a servant, big NO

[@lunastar7599]

😂😂😂😂 you're so funny! I like your recap better than watching the show! I don't have a t.v., but thats not the only reason I watch you, it's because you give us a very detailed ,funny, and entertaining dialog!!! Your the best!!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@MelissaWilliams74802]

Can you imagine having a guy in your DMs and say thats the man of my dreams haha

[@rameyeliza]

I thought there was a Hello Fresh ad coming when you talked about not wanting to go to the grocery store 😂

[@nitavideo]

How can she be clairvoyant and still miss all the red flags 😂😂😂

[@Deshwie]

Not liking onions and garlic is a dealbreaker for me. 😂 I'm pretty picky because of ARFID and there's so many foods I can't eat so I kinda over indulge things I do like. For example I put so much onions to my soups. I love boiled onion.

[@boosqueezy2418]

YUM!

[@MelissaWilliams74802]

Im Italian and my BBF growing up also didnt eat garlic and onions bc they said they made you angry( *looks at dad*) I can see where this comes from hahahaha

[@carmin.]

I live in South Africa and love your channel. Honestly hearing you talk about loadshedding and our violent crime is wild. We are super used to it.

[@katherine4283]

Kimberly is delusional with that future prediction thing!! She couldn’t predict the train wreck she was heading towards when she went to India 🤦‍♀️ Also TJ should be embarrassed to leave everything like that for Kimberly like seriously NO windows WTF

[@kira196]

If Kim lived with TJ and his family for a year already, doesn’t she know all about his culture already? 🤔

[@anthea6669]

She had her own apartment when she lived there, but yeah, she still could have learned what their culture is about

[@beewest5704]

Traditional Indian families would not allow that. She stayed in her own plays.

[@kira196]

@@anthea6669 Oh! I forgot she had her own apartment. A year there I would have taken some language classes myself. I know a lot is scripted so I think she may know a lot more than she lets on.

[@ninajohnson9540]

She would have been a guest and treated as such. I’m sure she noticed the mom doing the work but didn’t expect she would be expected to do so after marriage.

[@tina6651.]

The controlling one is not Brandon it's Mary!

[@rosiered3403]

I guess her spirit guide forgot to tell her that she will be expected to be a maid for her in laws. It never ceases to amaze me how these women don't bother learning anything about the culture of the countries they are moving to. I'm not Indian and I knew about the wife being expected to do everything for the man's family.

[@kimberlyrobinson1978]

So…Kimberly was there for a year and they got along fine. Now that cameras are watching, they’re fighting every day 🤔

[@timekacarter3142]

Not living with TJ's family should have been a non-negotiable for her moving to India.

[@lalayastill610]

quite frankly, i hope the second he mentions cooking and cleaning for the whole family, that she flips her s**t and headbutts him

[@eteldias5176]

Wait until she finds out there's a cow in the house😂😂😂

[@Beastboy1994]

The Kimberly forgot to mention in her dream she saw red LOL

[@_edits6698]

My husband looks over at my screen & says “it’s a potato in the desert 🤣🤣”

[@theMadness36]

I couldn't believe how quickly they seemed to go from genuinely happy to them blowing up. And if she was so concerned about the renovations, she should have had him wait until she got there to help. She kind of just dumped that on him then complained about everything.

[@louis.louie28]

As an Indian and a Hindu and someone who has never watched this show, I'm gonna correct or rather try to correct whatever I got from your recap. Firstly whatever meditation or manifestation TJ did is so laughable coz no f-ing person does that. And the onion garlic thing, its definitely not in Hinduism... I'm sure its in Jainism. Also the "everything after marriage" is such an Indian thing... And its bs I know😭 And no! Not all Indian/Hindu marriages are like that where you have to leave everything and just take care of the family, I'm pretty sure only a few people still do that. And the way Indians and our cultures are presented on this show is so frustrating and annoying and wrong 🤦‍♀️

[@danabryant6138]

Ok, TJ, which one is it: Did Kimberly reach out to YOU after you manifested her texting you, or did you contact HER on social media first, which is why she knew you were the one in her dreams? 🤔 Edit: I will not even entertain the THOUGHT of living my life as a chef without onion and garlic. I WON'T HAVE IT! 😂

[@Jules-916]

Good thing the other Kimberly on this show is spelled Kimbaaaaaly, so we don't get them mixed up.

[@bigwoogc]

😆😅I don't know why this cracked me up

[@prairiehorse6168]

Actually garlic and onions are eaten by most Hindus but there are certain people/sects that make the exception. It's the people who belong Jainism (completely different religion from Hinduism) that have to strictly refrain from garlic, onions, and any sort of meat/eggs. However, even within Jains, there are people who don't adhere to these restrictions.

[@theupwardspiral1580]

I liked the house addition. It was clean and more modern than i was expecting. And the car he used to pick her up from the airport in was spotless. Those are my positives for the day. Lol

[@Hooperjz78]

I really want a baked potato now..... It's weird to say you look delicious, right? 😂

[@greenthumbnail1831]

Grocery shopping stresses me out too much 😅

[@boosqueezy2418]

me too. i have anxiety attacks on my way to the store. dead serious.

[@laffin_out_loud]

Girl I totally agreed with you about him being a red flag. I honestly think he's a red pill 😂😂

[@aliceinwonderland5433]

I LOVE YOUR POTATO REACTIONS HAHAH SO CUTE AND YOUR VOICE REALLY ENCOURAGES ME TO WATCH MORE AND MORE YOU ARE SUCH A GOSSIPY POTATO 😂🤣

[@JV-fg2ol]

18:37 your face and the moms smile! Lmfao I didn’t even notice that when I watch I’m dying

[@shmwmlam3953]

I am not Indian but a neighbor of India. And I eat lot of Indian dishes and also cook many in home. And everything has garlic and onions so suprised to hear they dont cook garlic and onions. May be a subculture?

[@Kaito028]

Yes there are some caste in Hinduism who don't eat it.

[@shmwmlam3953]

@@Kaito028 oh that make sense

[@beelow2023]

As a native with long hair, your comments made me laugh so hard especially with you zoomed in. Iam growing out my hair as a tradition

[@hc____]

Everytime i watch, i get excited about where you are going! You are the definition of ENTERTAINMENT 🤣🤣

[@timekacarter3142]

You going in on Holly's hair 😂. She had it in a bag when she went to the coffee shop 🤣.

[@universallove7967]

With the Holly and Wayne situation...it is true that there certain areas that are unsafe in South Africa and there is loadshedding....however the amount of break-ins he has seems suspicious it's either he is involved in something illegal/he owes someone dangerous money...because I've lived for 21 years in one of the dangerous areas in South Africa and I have been robbed once and had 1 house break-in. So he is definitely not telling Holy the whole story and might be putting her life in danger 🤷‍♀️

[@chocclat]

You can look up the theft and robbery rates in South Africa

[@universallove7967]

@@chocclat Yes I know the theft and robbery rates because I live in those dangerous areas but nobody's house is getting robbed that many times because of loadshedding

[@universallove7967]

@@chocclat he is being specifically targeted for a reason

[@Arista177]

Mary's brother looks so creeped out during the kissing scenes.

[@natasapap7936]

18:41 a red flag? The man is a whole ass 160x200 deep scarlet red sheet.

[@stephanieclark1487]

Mary is the real problem I mean she hides things from him including hanging out with her male friends, but he can’t sit next to a stranger on the plane. She’s deranged. Plus, she should not have left him out of the loop on with the grandparents told her to do it should’ve been his choice.

[@Khigha87]

Agreed! She's getting busy on the side and naturally can't imagine that he isn't. When I can't find my phone, I ask "has anyone seen my phone?" , when a thief can't find their phone they exclaim "someone has stolen my phone!" Because in their world, that's what happens to phones. She didn't tell him about the kissing because she's BEEEEN kissing boys lol

[@JaseekaRawr]

Miss Po!!! Your videos are always amazing. ❤🥔 Thanks for being here & entertaining us! I esp like this season bc my husband is South Indian & I'm settling here. Also omg when TJ was scolding Kim it was eerily similar to when my husband has to do the same 😆😅😅😅 So funny, the tone of voice & everything, must be an Indian thing! 😆

[@HKona7]

❤ your channel so much! I look forward to seeing new vids. You just crack me up 😂

[@eggman5436]

thanks for uploading right in time for my lunch break!

[@GingerRamoth]

Your videos are like comfort food 🥰

[@shawnaclarkson9401]

16:59 that dress was a clubbin dress😂

[@MelissaWilliams74802]

When your hair is your whole personality

[@Sunset553]

omg. my overdue pandemic haircut + social anxiety = even i need to work out a way to get to a salon before it gets to that point 😢

[@thecatinthetinfoilhat915]

Holly: "I need a hair tie" My thots: nope you need a hair cut

[@Paisley_1313]

😂said the same exact thing too!

[@poochieluv]

I’ve been waiting for this and you did not disappoint bravo 👏

[@Johnny47i]

gotta say this is the cutest potato ,better than human face narrating the things

[@janeenharrison1953]

You are soooo funny! Enjoying your content, thanks!

[@TS-ls7uz]

I can’t wait until Kimberly finds out about taking care of the whole house and I think it will come up before they get married and she is going to blow her gasket ..😡🤯

[@chelsea-t]

Every season of 90 day gets weirder and weirder....

[@rosaliel.2787]

The "no, thank yew." was amazing. 😂

[@LunatheLoungeSinger]

According to Google: In Indian cooking garlic is a one of the key ingredients and with it's two best friends onions and ginger they are cooked to create the base of most masala sauces. It is an essential part of Indian cooking and there are probably only a handful of dishes in which garlic is not used.

[@shaycorry9070]

Yaaaaay! Love your longer vids!!

[@janebaker4912]

If you want a traditional girl, go get a traditional girl