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@maggot1111666 Жыл бұрын
i found what she said very inspiring. as 26 myself, im looking forward to the future, and i feel lucky just to be alive
@aestheticto5 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤ same ❤❤
@lifecoachingtoronto Жыл бұрын
Knowing & being yourself at 26 is an awesome realization!
@rigoolivares3126 Жыл бұрын
Wtf is wrong with this comment section? There's a ton of comments assuming she's just a rich daddy's girl. We don't know anything about her.
@jackjack4412 Жыл бұрын
We know that she's 26, rich and can assume well educated.
@molly5262 Жыл бұрын
Just look at her. Materialism to the hilt.
@cosmickinks Жыл бұрын
We don't like being told everyone has the same 24 hours since time is the most privileged commodity and most of us have have none
@jackjack4412 Жыл бұрын
@@cosmickinks we do all have the same 24 hrs to reach our goals, but rich people have cars while others are walking.
@cosmickinks Жыл бұрын
@@jackjack4412 they got speed train tickets handed to them‼️ I'm not trying to hate on being rich, just dont act like you got there on merit alone, lady.
@salma_Nella22 Жыл бұрын
Good for her. Being a people pleaser gets you absolutely no where. Being codependent gets you no where. You can be a beautiful and useful person while having boundaries!!!
@aubreybondoc Жыл бұрын
I agree with her. 25-30 years old is the best age bracket. You get to earn money, you get to experience things, you can buy things for yourself and most of all it is so exciting to be independent.
@journalsfromdavid7 ай бұрын
I’m broke as shit
@patriciabosing Жыл бұрын
Why all be so negative about her experience. it's no contest. Life is not a contest. Good for her that she feels like this 🎉
@OplzITSCreez Жыл бұрын
Capitalism is a contest… it is exactly that.
@rockysalvatore435 Жыл бұрын
@@OplzITSCreez cope
@scholaroftheworldalternatehist Жыл бұрын
There is an illusion that life is a contest. It really isnt. Our only biological purpose is to mate and have children. Even then, its not really necessary since humans will not go extinct anytime soon. So quite literally there is no real purpose for most humans other than exist
@kathleenhensley5951 Жыл бұрын
She is going to live a long and lonely life if she doesn't live for more than herself. Helping others, being of service, being here for more than hedonistic pleasures gives life deepness. She's still a kid at 26... the long expanse of her life is still before her.
@Skankhunt420. Жыл бұрын
Because saying I'm independent and everything should be on my terms because I don't owe anyone anything is a typical inexperienced 26 year old thing to say. It's a narcissist thing to say that leaves no room for family values where the things that really fulfill people in life are helping their family and friends through life
@christinamendoza9636 Жыл бұрын
People just project their own limiting beliefs in others. This girl has a great outlook on life at young age. Her belief in herself will take her far 👏
@musashi542 Жыл бұрын
her dad took her far not her outlook lol
@212letliveonearth Жыл бұрын
@@musashi542 assume with all your might , hopeless creature
@ciaxx Жыл бұрын
@@musashi542 sexist much?
@musashi542 Жыл бұрын
@@ciaxx dont be a cringe loser Cia
@s0ne01 Жыл бұрын
@Cia nah, it could be her moms but it's usually the dads
@Bunnygirl6346 Жыл бұрын
I'm 26 and my life is no where near where I want it to be and I'm frustrated. Trying to take it day by day but it's exhausting tbh. Can't afford anythinggg
@juicejuicy Жыл бұрын
ur not alone. we got this; just hustle and make goals
@anasquadri7919 Жыл бұрын
Same here everything expensive and people are mean
@dmvxtrap3232 Жыл бұрын
Try setting goals and having someone hold you accountable, we tend to let ourselves go and not actually reach for our goals since no one can really tell you to keep going, unless you have someone to hold you accountable. I’m 22 and it is difficult but I’m still pushing and looking to further my education so that I can get paid more thus using those “excessive” funds to pursue my business aspirations. We can all make it just gotta be a little more ambitious
@CaterinaDomenech1 Жыл бұрын
That's the normal thing even in your 30's...
@s.daniel2259 Жыл бұрын
This is a reality for many people so a lot of what she's saying seems like it's for those who have a bit more money coming in.
@MrKeeyt-jm3ji Жыл бұрын
As a 26 year old father of one son so far, I’ve realized I want my son to look at life as she does. He doesn’t need to struggle, nor witness the bad. Only the good, then I hope his children have it even better. Work is no longer work, it’s just something that needs done. Being 26, to me, is when light bulbs are clicking yet I’m cleaning up the messes from 18-25. All in all it’s a joy and I love life. Could be better, could be helluva lot worse.
@Sunflo07H Жыл бұрын
You'll do just fine!!! I assure you 🙏🏻💞
@ahsinrev6704 Жыл бұрын
Same
@manuelr1079 Жыл бұрын
What kind of mess Im 22 looking for an advise?
@MrKeeyt-jm3ji Жыл бұрын
@@manuelr1079 shit, the best advice I got right now is Stay away from alcohol, if you can’t drink in moderation trust me your not missing out Credit.Credit.Credit. Rich folk stay rich because they don’t spend their own money for shit. If your score is high great. If you don’t even know it’s probably ass and you NEED a secured credit card and you need one yesterday. Your friends, ain’t. I’m not saying they bad people but they fade with the seasons. Appreciate it while it’s there but don’t keep it going “for old times sake” Don’t look for the highest paying job. You can be check to check but you WILL figure it out. Look for what makes you happy, if I was to ask you right now “what is your passion” and you hesitate even a second. You haven’t found it and you need to, take your time no rush. If your in college, military, families house whatever. Understand the plan you got now is beyond fucked and it’s gonna change quite a bit. Accept the challenges when life gets hard, be grateful for them. Learn from them. Life has a funny way of doing the same bullshit to you until you say “aiight that’s quite enough” Have fun.
@NinjaNursing Жыл бұрын
What you do for living
@fatimamukhtar2947 Жыл бұрын
Point of correction: we owe to the people that raised us, to God and our community. There's nothing wrong with living life well but knowing we owe to others makes us strive for selfless excellence. We all have to stand on someone's shoulder or lean on them to be where we are. We should give back by doing same ...... We actually rise higher by considering others. Staying down to earth is a metaphor!
@kezukivalentine5071 Жыл бұрын
So true
@kskfernando2945 Жыл бұрын
+1
@tobiaschurch8848 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately we mostly forget this. This world has turned into a selfish world. No one has time for anyone's problems anymore. Christians should lead by example, despite what Jesus said about love, we just tend to just see as far as our family situations.
@musicgal983011 ай бұрын
@@tobiaschurch8848 The world was always selfish. That is no reason for someone not to love themselves. Too many people allow others to dictate their lives. We cannot give to others from an empty cup. Part of filling that cup is getting to know Jesus christ, as He is the source of all love, peace and joy.
@audiblematter2152 Жыл бұрын
It’s great to be 26 and realise your aesthetically beautiful, wearing an Ace of hearts sweater and also have the brains and emotion to harness it. That definitely helps
@ilivemylifeforthestarsthat3140 Жыл бұрын
Yup 😐
@marvin2678 Жыл бұрын
ok incel
@audiblematter2152 Жыл бұрын
@@marvin2678 🤣 nice one pipsqueak!
@marvin2678 Жыл бұрын
@@audiblematter2152 i mean thats what you are
@hakeemsd70m Жыл бұрын
@@marvin2678 do you have anything else to do but to hurl childish insults at people over the internet?
@juannunez4436 Жыл бұрын
Comments are proof people only take advice when it comes from a random guy who doesnt look like he made it. They want advice from people that made it but as soon as someone appears and looks like it went well for them..they dismiss it and turn hate mode
@akiko3688 Жыл бұрын
Did you get a crumb
@jamoriah Жыл бұрын
I think its more about energy. People pick up on other peoples energy and they tend to like it or they dont. Unfortunately on social media there is no filter. In real life there is.
@jackjack4412 Жыл бұрын
I agree. The point others and I are making is that she most likely had a great start to life to be where she's at by 26 years old. Observation : she got there early in life Conclusion: it's going to take me longer but I can still get there
@juannunez4436 Жыл бұрын
@@jackjack4412 i agree, thou people view success very subjetive, is not like she is super rich or something, she had a good start but even that is up to discussion, she could easily have got there by herself. Problem is thou, that people instead of making that valid neutral point, they go hate mode and that can be seen easily. Is so sad..that people often will resonate more with a person that doesnt look fancy or something cuz it reinforces to them some kind of fetish about succesful people or something.
@jackjack4412 Жыл бұрын
@@juannunez4436 Totally agree. Hating and tearing her down is 100% the wrong response. Better to stay objective/rational/logical/neutral than get emotional/subjective/divisive. Cheers.
@duhvnlocs Жыл бұрын
What I’m most impressed with is her doing an interview in a 2nd language. I aspire to be that good at my 2nd language
@heladar Жыл бұрын
Arabs from rich families often go to Englisch boarding schools or private schools :) not trying to diminish the skill but usually it's not like they did something special about it
@rawanBairouti Жыл бұрын
I freaking hate when people say 'everyone has the same 24 hours'. No, they don't. Someone who has people to clean, cook, and do basic general life things for them, has way more time than someone who has to do these things themselves.
@hime6935 Жыл бұрын
But that rich person was also that one who didn't have anyone to clean, cook...but still manage to be successful
@marvin2678 Жыл бұрын
jealous
@hastip.5852 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. Only a 26 years old with no responsibility & prada sunglasses says “ everyone has 24 hours a day”
@dxmino7588 Жыл бұрын
Shut up
@abzshaker Жыл бұрын
Ermm that’s just the top 10 percent most of us have to do pur own cooking and cleaning….and if you complain about that then its just beeing lazy tbh
@Grandmaster_Vic Жыл бұрын
The one thing I struggled with growing up was trusting my gut. I had a lot of anxiety growing up and it was difficult to determine whether my fears were rational and irrational. I learning that anxiety is a symptom of a Traumatic upbringing and learning that I had to manage myself and learn to put myself in the best situations where I’m more mentally healthy and clear (eating healthy, being around a good environment with good people, etc) but also that these mental health issues is a response to something so if you feel like something Is off, trust it, even if you are wrong. It’s good to trust yourself as when things don’t feel right, it’s never gonna get better the more you ignore it.
@sita487 Жыл бұрын
struggling with this right now
@aena5995 Жыл бұрын
Relatable I know my family is toxic however I got no option but to deal with them right now
@Grandmaster_Vic Жыл бұрын
@@aena5995 save as much money as you can, find some roommates, then bounce
@marinaluna2799 Жыл бұрын
What an intelligent young woman
@spiceince Жыл бұрын
Im amongst those who wasn’t dealt a privileged set of cards and life was hard- but one thing I have learnt, is the negative mindset is the killer- getting upset at things like this is what kills dreams and progress, find the good take the lesson and try to step forward. Having this negative view and opinion keeps you In the same place . It can be annoying to hear those who are privileged give advice (not assuming she is) but remember, those in privileged positions a lot of the time have a privilege, knowledge, mindsets and skill set that less fortunate ones didn’t have access to, which we can take advantage of an learn from??? Yeah it’s easier to listen to someone who relates- but at the end of the day my biggest help was to just find value and a lesson in each and every person no matter the background
@sadhu7191 Жыл бұрын
A good person is a weak person. A dangerous man who has it under control is a strong man
@Mira-pm3ni Жыл бұрын
@@sadhu7191you are wrong 😂
@sadhu7191 Жыл бұрын
@@Mira-pm3ni a weak person can only be strong when things are easy
@Coleyjp0716 Жыл бұрын
I hate that saying no we don’t all have the same 24 hours some people have 24 hours to do whatever they want some people don’t have a choice in what they do with their time at all some people have a couple hours of free time but have to spend most of the day working and or studying
@cammac9145 Жыл бұрын
And working or studying is a choice
@pinapardoki9708 Жыл бұрын
@@cammac9145 Its not a choice if your are poor or in low class status. If youre rich, it is a choice
@darklaser134 Жыл бұрын
Its still a choice you may not be able to leverage time the same but only way one can leverage time is lowering cost of living and educating yourself a skill that pays you well enough
@darklaser134 Жыл бұрын
Thinking you don’t have the same time just inhibits you from achieving your potential so it’s not beneficial to think like that while it may be realistic from a different vantage point
@cammac9145 Жыл бұрын
@@pinapardoki9708 what Kevin said
@supunfonseka9221 Жыл бұрын
It is so wrong to say that you don't owe anyone anything. Always be grateful for what you have and try and give back. Make it a point to make the people that gave you all the opportunities you have happy! Meaning make your parents happy! They've given you most things - you gotta owe them something!
@jannetatrenholm3141 Жыл бұрын
Money,money,money! Always sunny in the rich men'world!
@Mookiethedog Жыл бұрын
Yo is that some ABBA?
@jannetatrenholm3141 Жыл бұрын
@@Mookiethedog yeah!
@marvin2678 Жыл бұрын
cringe
@jakemccoy Жыл бұрын
She is a good example of how a dad wants his daughter to present herself to the world. I would not change a thing.
@Kitiwake Жыл бұрын
She contradicts herself.
@sadhu7191 Жыл бұрын
Looking at the dads I can see they live through children because of generational trauma
@MarshSmellow Жыл бұрын
i started being independent when i was 16, life sucks
@sallylemon5835 Жыл бұрын
Rich kids independent is when they get to move out with daddy buying them the apartment and they just work for fun to buy vegetables and feel "independent"
@saehisaya Жыл бұрын
@@sallylemon5835 And even just by working “for fun” we still contribute more to society and pay more taxes than you worthless philistines. Nobody works “for fun”, we all work for money because we all understand the value of a single unit of currency.
@marvin2678 Жыл бұрын
why ?
@KeyonnaD Жыл бұрын
I love her outlook on life! I’m 26 too and I found that now, at just a few months away from 27, I’m loving for me. It feels good to be in control of my decisions and progress.
@Chiroman527 Жыл бұрын
This young lady spews words of wisdom. Too wise for her age. She seems to be a product of being Spoiled and being covetted by her parents who gave her everything. I'm 71 yo, and still trying to discover myself. Being Down To Earth = you are Solid, Grounded, Unassuming, and fully responsible and Reliable to others Family! With her attitude (although she is Young and WOKE ) , it will Fail her a little later.
@Everysingletimeowitz Жыл бұрын
Good. These roasties are delusional these days. Especially if they come from privileged backgrounds.
@wyleecoyotee4252 Жыл бұрын
She's educated and likely has a lucrative job
@jackjack4412 Жыл бұрын
Spews? 26 isn't all that young dude. Yes, she's rich but she's had plenty of time to come to her conclusions.
@molly5262 Жыл бұрын
@@jackjack4412Hahaha!
@nirahcelestesingh Жыл бұрын
She’s 26. Why is everyone judging her for her money? She earned that at her job! Like most people in this world, she’s relying on herself. If you want what she has, work for it. Stop complaining and calling her “rich” just because she’s spent the money she’s earned on nice things she likes.
@81runaway Жыл бұрын
That was an awesome answer! I wasted my 20s Working and Drinking
@nasircli Жыл бұрын
Nice
@ruttekkkoko4863 Жыл бұрын
You didn't wasted it
@Margriet101 Жыл бұрын
Yea i think that is the real deal for most off uss. Just depence on youre social class and if you have some fruitfull talents or not. This girl probably studied Fashion or something
@81runaway Жыл бұрын
@@Margriet101 yip..I could've been a tattoo artist but I was too impatient!
@marvin2678 Жыл бұрын
sad bro, did you change ?
@OplzITSCreez Жыл бұрын
Molly-Mae again with ‘The same 24 hours’. AMI Paris Jumper £350 Canada Goose - £1000 Prada Sunglasses - £200 Jacquemus Bag - £500 This feels like a naïve, highly privileged outlook but maybe I’m wrong and just bitter that I do not feel this unburdened in my 20’s... I am not without my privileges either. (Edit: I'm definitely bitter and probably living in the wrong city doing the wrong thing)
@kkorova Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you! I think it’s awesome that she wants to live her life, but being only 26, it’s highly improbable that she fought much for that freedom, as the outfit alone is a couple thousand dollars. Quite telling.
@hashh2019 Жыл бұрын
you dont need to apologize, not all of us have the luxury to get it all straigh by 26- one wrong decision and we can be in a wreck
@deecee7042 Жыл бұрын
I saw the other video. She’s a doctor
@hashh2019 Жыл бұрын
@@deecee7042 makes sense
@deecee7042 Жыл бұрын
@@hashh2019 I hate that people are saying she didn’t fight for her freedom. She literally had to perform extremely well in and out of school to get into med school (you usually need at least 2000 hours of patient care to get in- so you have to work as an EMT or CNA to do that) and had to endure med school. These people are so presumptuous.
@scarlettcosta4106 Жыл бұрын
I think 26 for me was the age of understanding myself and learning to grow as a person, sure i havent achieved any milestone yet ( like the house ,the car,marriage or kids) but i saved some money well and i got the chance to travel a bit , i think all of us should just go at our own pace, some people have more time and resourses so its a bit easier for them but i think comparison is truly the destroyer of Joy and that we should celebrate all our achievements no matter how big or small they look to others but for how they made us feel. I hope this has brought some hope to you and enjoy the holidays. 🎆🎊
@samreplete1842 Жыл бұрын
can I travel with you?
@jc2386 Жыл бұрын
26 is when you like I don't care about anyone but myself, stop caring about other people because it is never worth that time caring for others like it would be caring for your self. The pay off is better caring for you self and loving your self than trying to help or care for others. That's the age when you dont feel as young but you dont exactly feel old. Wait 10 more years and feeling old starts to incorporate into time and effort.
@SR71GIRL Жыл бұрын
To much concern over "self" can result in selfishness, self-centeredness & self absorbed. The only "Self" I want to be associated with is "selflessness", giving to others. That's beyond material things, more like giving of my time. Spending time with loved ones, friends & everyone along the way. It's a great way to live. My experience is that when I am wrapped up in "self" I'm pretty miserable. God bless!🙏❤️🙏
@jc2386 Жыл бұрын
@@SR71GIRL We all need love an money and we need it now. 8 billion people in the world how many of them have great child hoods and lives? How do we measure acts of service and what is considered gratitude vs utilizing someone. You want to give get prepared to be used, everyone is used.
@jackjack4412 Жыл бұрын
@@SR71GIRL lol keep being idealistic. You have to be selfish for a while to create an environment where you can spend time with/on others.
@Demetrius416 Жыл бұрын
Even when i first turned 20 i didnt feel as young as 18 or 17
@SandMonkey Жыл бұрын
Crazy how her words are misconstrued as an effect of her outfit
@SupernaturalLove100 Жыл бұрын
Jealousy is a disease lol along w misogyny
@desertmoonlee6631 Жыл бұрын
A lot of misogynie unfortunately many men nowadays hate to see women happy or trying to be happy just because they have self hate and mad about anyone else not feeling or in same position as them. At least when women are jealous they will just stay jealous but the problem with those incels they tend to be violent. Most crimes and all wars are done by who but no let’s focus to hate on some girls on internet because they think they own them something.
@marvin2678 Жыл бұрын
@@desertmoonlee6631 by black people ? is that what youre saying ?
@ARZiehm Жыл бұрын
I get your point, but what you wear says a lot about you. There are billionaires who wear basic polos - it’s an outward expression of inner personality.
@guckax7730 Жыл бұрын
@@ARZiehm no it isn't. You can dress fashionably and have depth and you can dress like a shy mouse and be evil and vindictive and jealous. It's entirely unrelated. I'm so tired of this poor logic and judgemental attitudes. There's nothing inherently wrong with wanting to look good.
@hellohawra11 ай бұрын
I’m 27, no partner, very few friends, I still learn so much from my parents and grandmother they have experience in life no friend has given me the amount of trust and encouragement I get from them
@amyc8442 Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy she learned this young. She’ll have a much more fulfilled life. Kudos to her ❤️
@ZahraFit Жыл бұрын
The beauty of these interviews is the fact that you can see these different perspectives and understand how people see, experience, and think of life differently. She may be more privileged than others, but it’s not to say she doesn’t have her own struggles. We have to remember that each and every one of us struggles differently and at different stages in our lives. The issue with a lot of the comments here is people are comparing themselves to her. The worst thing you can do to yourself is compare yourself to others. The best approach is comparing yourself to yourself. If you feel that you’re lacking in certain parts of your life, work on those parts. And instead of criticizing her, learn appreciate the fact that she’s doing well for herself.
@vicsolimo Жыл бұрын
I agree
@daveyt4802 Жыл бұрын
Don't worry about her, worry about improving yourself.
@leogol6045 Жыл бұрын
"Comparison is the thief of joy."
@nirahcelestesingh Жыл бұрын
She’s 26. Why is everyone judging her for her money? She earned that at her job! Like most people in this world, she’s relying on herself. If you want what she has, work for it. Stop complaining and calling her “rich” just because she’s spent the money she’s earned on nice things she likes.
@lllllllllll11111lllllllll Жыл бұрын
she deserves everything good coming to her
@luna1r Жыл бұрын
and so do you! :)
@Warrenwalker30 Жыл бұрын
Obviously has never been broke and helpless and gone through the real broken heart and helpless struggle
@sadhu7191 Жыл бұрын
Would rather is be me a man then a women.
@TheTeaisDelicious Жыл бұрын
I know this girl 😂😂. She is Emirati. Her family are well off compared to most people in the USA because the UAE government gives its citizens insane hand outs to buy their loyalty. Plus there is no TAX! She is not a spoilt brat. I can understand why because she is wearing designer clothes, etc. I’ve known her for four years of which we dated for two. Fatima Al Zibbi I love you
@murk959 Жыл бұрын
Dude don't say her name And if you dated her Are you still together?
@user-wh6fw2id9n Жыл бұрын
@@Eliane-pf5nb She's half Lebanese
@Warmeater Жыл бұрын
next question should be what do you do for living 🤣
@littlestbroccoli Жыл бұрын
She's a doctor. She was in another short of his
@XXLady Жыл бұрын
What do YOU do for a living??
@SupernaturalLove100 Жыл бұрын
@@XXLadyinternet warrior projecting their resentment lol
@zest01 Жыл бұрын
@@SupernaturalLove100are you the girl from the video?
@daveyt4802 Жыл бұрын
Sure is a smart girl though.
@ronrobertson59 Жыл бұрын
She is correct my 20s was the best years of my life in many ways. The 1970s was a great time to be in your 20's. I turned 21 in 1973 but the 60s as a teenager was pretty great too.
@yazzmin13 Жыл бұрын
Good for you but for a lot of people of color those were definitely NOT the greatest years to live in
@iampicasso1811 Жыл бұрын
So wise 26! Love her.
@gedilsonronaldo9802 Жыл бұрын
Very confident, I liked her a lot!
@XXLady Жыл бұрын
Some people are so insecure, they can't handle a woman with an opinion. So pathetic.
@jjj-hs7tk Жыл бұрын
She is an actual NPC you goof
@trigcat3107 Жыл бұрын
a women with opinion is always wrong tho, atleast most of the times to be precise
@ran_haibara Жыл бұрын
@@trigcat3107oof someones jealous of women
@nextbigthing2917 Жыл бұрын
@@jjj-hs7tkActually what she said is the opposite of an NPC.
@ilikepancakes2368 Жыл бұрын
Women’s opinions are always useless anyways.
@hashh2019 Жыл бұрын
She learnt a lot real quick- generally it takes a lot of trauma n experience to not remain a people-pleaser
@sallylemon5835 Жыл бұрын
It's because people been pleasing her since day 1
@microfarming8583 Жыл бұрын
I really like this girl. She is very wise for her age. Very attractive personality
@yoli5779 Жыл бұрын
ALWAYS be humble, no matter where you come from, background or status. No human is superior to another, we're all the same in the end. STAY HUMBLE.
@crappiehookking387 Жыл бұрын
She's too wise to be saying all that stuff in her mid twenties. I barely learned that in my early 30s after becoming homeless. My best piece of advice from a 35 year old is take chances and don't be scared of loosing everything, be free like a bird man! Don't waste your youth being responsible, have fun and you can fix your life in your 30s and beyond. Make mistakes, drink too much, get fired, quit some jobs, tell the boss to fuck off. Live your fucken life to the fullest! Life is too short to care what others think. Like I said be free and fix your life in your 30s, because you're only young once don't waste it being scared.
@saehisaya Жыл бұрын
In the West, most people think that their lives are over at 30. Hence the partying culture during the 20s
@tiawilliams2274 Жыл бұрын
She has her current life figured out.
@sadhu7191 Жыл бұрын
Till her xanax wears of and she cries in bathroom 26 job she hates with no date for 4 years
@sadhu7191 Жыл бұрын
She' made her dad proud but at what coat she wanted to live in country caring for children while man cares for her
@AlexHabighorst-xv4tn Жыл бұрын
My favorite part is her motivational speech and life is a challenge and the world is a mean nasty place and it's not always sunshine and rainbows
@skrrtfranklin Жыл бұрын
She’s got it , good vibes ❤
@spiritualharmony3152 Жыл бұрын
It's stupid to say we don't owe anyone anything. It all boils down to one's situations and circumstances. If u are a parent then u own the responsibility to provide for them and not live life on your own terms. Learn to draw the line and do things that won't make life complicated for those depending on you.
@lmusima3275 Жыл бұрын
I miss being 26. I was so vibrant, energetic, working, learning languages but had other unresolved struggles that wouldn’t go away
@UserGK273 Жыл бұрын
He moved directly to his room after this conversation 😂😂😂..Too intelligent to question 🎉🎉🤭🤭💂💂💂💂♂️💂♂️
@yokai_G Жыл бұрын
staying “down to earth” isn’t about “limiting you” 😅, it’s about taking your humanity into every levels of your life honey ^^ ….
@Vyansya Жыл бұрын
Wow these people in the comments are so bitter, no wonder why your life feels like shit compared to her positive mindset. You dont know anything abt her, what she went through. Stop judging.
@goatog9443 Жыл бұрын
I'm 27 and penniless parents want me to have a law degree but I suck in studies can't disappoint them so I'm hanging on with 5 back papers. I believe there are many people like me and some are having it worse than me so can't complain about it. Respect to those who made it and to those who didn't ,you are not alone
@philoki Жыл бұрын
„You don’t owe anyone anything.“ pretty narcissistic shit. Where does she come from? Where was she educated? Whose tax dollars paid for the school? The roads, the traffic lights? Who keeps the electricity working, who keeps the water running? Everyone owes everyone everything. That’s how societies work, that’s how humanity has evolved.
@mariecait Жыл бұрын
As a disabled person we do not all have the same 24 hours. She means well though. ❤
@DivineLogos Жыл бұрын
Exactly, you don't have to do what parents or society expects from you, like go to school, study, find a corporate desk job etc.. In our heart we know what we want, and we know it better than our environment what is right for us. Don't live a lie.
@sadhu7191 Жыл бұрын
America is an advertising company. If u don't follow rules u go broke on streets
@aena5995 Жыл бұрын
Easier said then done I hate these ppl but I got no option but to deal with em ugh atleast until I get a degree idk if that guarantees a job even in this day and age but yeah atleast it's something technical like business data analytics
@DivineLogos Жыл бұрын
@@aena5995 The things that are most worthwhile and meaningful never come easy.
@rebeccak5846 Жыл бұрын
While I admire how ‘together’ she seems at such a young age, I’d like to offer an alternative view on her claim that we all have the same 24 hours to make use of. Unfortunately, society doesn’t offer everyone equal freedom to pursue our full potential. Variations in education, finances, support systems, gender, race, sexual preference and physical and mental abilities etc mean that not everyone is as empowered as the next to make the most of each day. Hopefully she will broaden her mindset to realise this as she matures.
@ddacoe0 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I agree with this. You have to understand your audience. Obviously, this isn't the right audience for her advice, but of course she couldn't know that since she's a random pedestrian.
@mika_chu Жыл бұрын
I’m 26; and I’m in very bad situation for myself. I understand very much what she’s talking about. I don’t see how, but I hope so much to get better.
@elsie4714 Жыл бұрын
Wow... we all have the same 24 hours, yes, but if you're a celebrity with a personal chef, assistant, trainer, house cleaner-- you can be a lot more productive on your own initiatives. Hard to be super productive if you're working for a minimum wage with no healthcare, for example. She's obviously speaking for a place of privilege where she hasn't had to consider those who struggle.
@wyleecoyotee4252 Жыл бұрын
She's likely educated with a lucrative job
@deecee7042 Жыл бұрын
@@wyleecoyotee4252 yeah I saw the other video, she’s a doctor lmao
@Asad-zeetwo5241 Жыл бұрын
She's 26, so up until now or so, her parents have been paying for everything. Hope she does the same for her kids, but you can never tell when they call themselves this new independent women garbage!
@Mike-sj9si Жыл бұрын
True. I was financially supported by my parents until I was 23. Long story short when I was 23 something happened that was out of everyone's control and I lost that financial support from my parents. I was in a bad spot. I had a college degree but I had chosen the wrong degree and the wrong career. I had very little money to my name. My job paid little and was unstable. I had ambitions to change my circumstances and to do so independently. I followed through on those ambitions and was successful BUT it was a HUNDRED times harder than it had been back when I had my parents' support. Also I can't say for sure that I could've done it without the privilege of 23 years with financial support, not to mention a lot of emotional and psychological and other types of support. Despite the bad immediate circumstances I still had a leg up.
@JohnnySensei7 Жыл бұрын
@@Asad-zeetwo5241 you people are so miserable assuming you know who these people are
@surfbug1 Жыл бұрын
She doesn't have it too rough, those sunglasses are thousands of dollars
@kyleemeg2171 Жыл бұрын
Y’all acting like money will make you happy… it’s just sad. Some of the richest people are also the most miserable and unfulfilled
@emmanuel_nwogu_medic Жыл бұрын
@@kyleemeg2171 money does not guarantee happiness, but at the same time, money is so important for a happy life
@mikeouxma5061 Жыл бұрын
@@kyleemeg2171 Money may not buy happiness but it sure helps keep you from being gloomy.
@manuw7367 Жыл бұрын
Thousands?? More Like 300-400$
@nazfx2648 Жыл бұрын
You can buy fakes you know maybe she just likes the glasses and bought a fake version for like £30-40
@kj2139Ай бұрын
Im so happy I came acrosd your video. Im a 26 yr old black woman feeling so lost in life. I dont haves career, i keep going from job to job & im back living with my mom. I want to get my own place because me & my moms relationship is not the best but every place that i want to live is too expensive. The cheap places are in unsafe areas. Im still single & never been a relationship & i wonder if i will ever find love & get married. I hate the usa so i want to move to another country but i dont have enough money. I was thinking of studying abroad because i do want a degree. I just feel like idk how to execute my plan
@neria1372 Жыл бұрын
She's a wise young woman. I agree with what she said about remembering what the kid you were wanted.
@Sashas-mom Жыл бұрын
You have some uplifting content and this young lady is a great example. We’re not all experiencing our darkest hour! Yay her! 💃🏼🥰💃🏼🥰
@okayyeah9745 Жыл бұрын
We see people with money on the internet and think that’s the whole world but in all reality it’s the smaller percentage. The rest of us must enjoy what we have but don’t try trying to get rich. You may reach the end with regret.
@CHIRAG_____ Жыл бұрын
She is clear on her way..I like her thoughts ❤️❤️
@LowlierThanThow Жыл бұрын
She repeated a bunch of clichés that are used in TV shows/movies; but said them as if they were her own original thoughts.
@musashi801 Жыл бұрын
she doesnt understand enough about ‘humble’ concept
@antwuntrademark Жыл бұрын
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@salma_Nella22 Жыл бұрын
You can be humble while having boundaries. Being doesn’t mean let people walk all over you or define you
@Mira-pm3ni Жыл бұрын
@@salma_Nella22 she said she doesn't owe anyone anything. Well that's arrogance and ignorance.
@salma_Nella22 Жыл бұрын
@@Mira-pm3ni she told you that she used to be a people pleaser. If you stop overthinking it, how is it ignorant to stop being a people pleaser and to stop doing what people want of you despite you not wanting to do it? It is actually quite ignorant to bend to the needs of others ALL THE TIME. It is ignorant to just be what people want you to be. And it is ignorant to believe what others want you to believe without having your own invented thought process
@JDG81-r3b Жыл бұрын
This woman SAID IT ALL. There is nothing I would add to this.
@virginmirage4717 Жыл бұрын
I soo agree with her that staying down-to-earth limits you and also, if I may add, makes people take you for granted... Also, whatever our age, we can accumulate experiences and grow in our wisdom through them and any age can then be the best age ever !
@melissachanthalangsy3091 Жыл бұрын
Really wise for her age! Love to see it 🎉
@adrianaforex Жыл бұрын
I feel so identified with her. You don’t own anybody anything. Believe in yourself and be confident of being who you are and become who you want to become. I’ll be 27 tomorrow. And I loved my 26’s
@TheDukeEsquire Жыл бұрын
She literally just regurgitated the most cliche internet talking points. Everything she said are Instagram guru quotes. But hey, good for her if she is happy.
@nothing-jl2dz Жыл бұрын
True, she does look quite happy and healthy though compared to a lot of people
@nothing-jl2dz Жыл бұрын
The 24h a day quote really doesn't consider privilege though
@juannunez4436 Жыл бұрын
The most hard-core truth are cliche, because at the deep and end of all, the "guru quotes" are all there it is to be. Try talking short about something you overcome in your life and it will probably end up soundikg like that because most problems and solution are basically simple
@magnumopiss244 Жыл бұрын
I can tell u big mad 😭
@SupernaturalLove100 Жыл бұрын
@@nothing-jl2dzirl bye. privilege this privilege this like u got privilege over other ppl in this world who have less and guess what, they got the same 24 hrs as well.
@TTS12 Жыл бұрын
she said a lot of good things: 1.Believe in yourself. 2. You should really be who you are 3. You don't owe anyone anything. 4. You have to be humble in life. 5.Everyone has 24 hrs in a day... it's really what you do with them (utilise your time)
@ketishadale3433 Жыл бұрын
26 and wise... Love this lady's response! 💖
@Bedrews Жыл бұрын
She actually gave the best advice, believe in yourself, maturing and realizing a lot of dumb shit you did before, having those reality checks of life that your parents told you turned put to be true when you argued with them, i feel it man
@lifelessons069 Жыл бұрын
Finally someone ask different question good question.. great job bro
@girlwomen4685 Жыл бұрын
She’s on the right path ❤❤ love what she said!
@azatgimadiev1955 Жыл бұрын
Rich people vision lol Me, 26 y.o., who have to work 24/7, watching this shit: 💀
@laurivaltter Жыл бұрын
why don't you start a business or two?
@lastbornrelic3430 Жыл бұрын
@@laurivaltter have you?
@laurivaltter Жыл бұрын
@@lastbornrelic3430 yea brev
@azatgimadiev1955 Жыл бұрын
@@laurivaltter if you are homeless just buy a house moment 😂 Nice joke, tho
@lastbornrelic3430 Жыл бұрын
@@laurivaltter I'm 15 name is sergiu,want to retire my parents,do boxing,mma,read books,cold showers and all the self improvement things,where do I go from here it's a bit foggy
@elizabeth6778 Жыл бұрын
Im not trying to be an ass, but I’m guessing she has a lot of money to experience those things. At 24 it’s a living hell. Everything’s too expensive and I feel like I’m rapidly aging day by day due to the stress of living in itself.
@inquisitivenessandcontempl9918 Жыл бұрын
She definitely is "privileged" in one way or the other, she has a foreign accent, I would guess she is from the former USSR, maybe its Middle-Asian part. Over there those who have an opportunity to study in the West or move there usually come from rather affluent families. At the same time her English is very good which signifies doing her undergrad in the US, and it's very expensive for foreign students (they are not eligible for instate tuition, financial aid, etc.) Also, it's a big deal for women of a more traditional cultural background to be able to curb social expectations of a more traditional society and experience the Western liberties. But hey, that's what life is, wouldn't you provide your child with better starting conditions if you had a chance? I most certainly would. At least she was talented and hard working enough to learn English and succeed in her education, that counts for something.
@Dev1l19q Жыл бұрын
Same. Im 23 and i feel like im running out of time. The stress and pressure is crazy.
@elizabeth6778 Жыл бұрын
@@Dev1l19q dude and don’t even get me started if god forbid I want to even buy new underwear, I literally have to check my budget to see if I can toss $4 aside for a new pair. I can even pay for basic necessities without it being a struggle and she’s out there living life carefree. Im jealous lol
@msjeeperscreepers Жыл бұрын
Yea definitely privileged 😩😩😩
@Everysingletimeowitz Жыл бұрын
@@Dev1l19q It feels like I was 23 yesterday. Your gonna blink your eyes and all of a sudden your 30 and look like a completely different person in the mirror. Maintain your health, eat healthy foods, exercise, lots of water and SKIN CARE to keep looking youthful!
@kinko9670 Жыл бұрын
Why are people arguing in the comments section. Her family is rich or middle-class at least is the truth. She have a great job and currently are in good state. She feel like she didn't own anyone even her parents so she just didn't struggle much with stress and money. She think anyone have the same amount of time is absurd, clearly didn't experience much about people who are struggling. You could learn something in 3 hours but someone could learn it in 2 hours, that is not the same anymore.
@migueltlg Жыл бұрын
Always keep making this kind of content mr.big youtuber im proud of you
@hereweare9096 Жыл бұрын
As an older woman… 26 is nothing!! It gets BETTER!!
@mrsauce9307 Жыл бұрын
Are you married with kids?
@janardannn Жыл бұрын
i love her perspective and her overall vibe ❤
@instruments_gold8412 Жыл бұрын
She did a good job explaining how to keep a balanced perspective, show some grit but, also assert yourself.
@littyliah Жыл бұрын
She needs to be on a Ted talk I feel like she’d be a great motivational speaker❤
@trallalla8078 Жыл бұрын
She does come off a bit shallow in her delivery, but the truth is that if she was 20 years older, everybody would be gushing in the comments at how wise her words are
@noworneversoulbeach Жыл бұрын
I have the opposite experience on this earth. I’m just waiting for God to take me.
@MegaGeo18 Жыл бұрын
Hang in there. It gets better I promise
@Zootedpatrick3349 Жыл бұрын
Don’t let your thoughts kill you man
@zxt6788 Жыл бұрын
Same, some days I just wish I could scream until my breathe runs out then just lay down ND die
@wolfy9649 Жыл бұрын
Same
@Gohad158. Жыл бұрын
@@zxt6788 I’m sorry to hear that. I pray that your heart get some ease. Don’t let unnecessary thoughts run around your head please. If you’re lucky enough to have family and loved ones, be around them. Share your grief. I promise it will get better.
@alicelucy13336 ай бұрын
Shes doing well in her life so people are judging her. People always want you to do well in life untill you actually do!
@pareshsings3759 Жыл бұрын
It's the best video of your channel cause it's relatable ✨
@EyePatchGuy88 Жыл бұрын
"You don't owe anyone anything" God Your Parents Your Family Your Friends Your People Your Country Humanity You owe them.
@bonitaapplebum0088 Жыл бұрын
No you don't
@bonitaapplebum0088 Жыл бұрын
@@lunalotus5980 caring and owing are two separate principles. I do things for others bc I care not bc I owe it to them. I give bc I want to not bc im forced or expected to.
@natemorgan1996 Жыл бұрын
@@bonitaapplebum0088 exactly, you don't owe them shit
@TruthSayer2007 Жыл бұрын
Guy: How old are you? Girl: I love myself and everything is about me!
@tcrijwanachoudhury Жыл бұрын
What do you want her to hate herself? Lmao
@sorahills8402 Жыл бұрын
THIS ! I’m gonna start to think that it’s something you experience and work for the closer you get to the 30’s cause geez this is the truth, yet a whole lot of people aren’t ready to work on themselves and rather stay in the comfort of misery.
@zareeftashfique8168 Жыл бұрын
People out here defending her and bashing ppl that don’t agree with the negative comments about her For a second really look at her body language and see if she really had to go through any hardship at all? How do you expect someone to teach you about how to make it through hard times in life from a 26yo girl that obs look like she got life handed to her because she is pretty and knows how to put on makeup… stop with all the virtue signalling bro You aaaint an angel, and neither you nor her has anything to share about making it in life Relax
@lavonnealexander6936 Жыл бұрын
Lol 😂 people comment section are bitter asf.
@cjuuljohnston Жыл бұрын
At 26 years old, you are not who you're going to be. Just like at 10 years old you're NOT who you're going to be..
@Angelhaswings555 Жыл бұрын
Down to earth comment ! I love it !
@AggressiveMenace7 ай бұрын
I'm 27 and I don't consider it the best age, but 25-29 are just the transition and best age range for preparing a successful and prosperous 30s and 40s (in my opinion, mature and experience are always better, you acquired more emotional intelligence among you're growing, the only "misses" are probably physical due alopecia and/or skin health).
@lejlagabela Жыл бұрын
Honestly, most inspiring thing in a long time 🙌🙌
@tyleroliver5571 Жыл бұрын
I’ll be 33 in couple months. 25 hit me the hardest. That 1/4 life mark. Assuming my next one I won’t like is 50 the halfway mark
@Dirt578 Жыл бұрын
You don’t know where the halfway mark is. For all you know you’ve already lived 80% of your life, you could die tomorrow, but you could also live a long happy life. Try to enjoy each day
@tyleroliver5571 Жыл бұрын
@@Dirt578 don’t be so negative… 100 it is! ;) “assuming” is there for a reason!
@jackjack4412 Жыл бұрын
1/3 mark
@tyleroliver5571 Жыл бұрын
@@jackjack4412 yeah I’d be down for 75. That’s a good long life
@DXR4488 Жыл бұрын
I’m 25 and completely broken
@eddiefniii Жыл бұрын
I’m 65. Don’t care what day it is. Or time. lol. Or what anyone thinks of me. No one pays my bills but me so they don’t matter! I’m a good guy. One of my uncles (90) that I just went to see told his kids , my cousins, that I’m a kind soul! That’s a compliment. Enjoy life and save save save for retirement. Need verses want!