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Just because you're able to offer someone a favor or help someone in need, doesn't mean it makes sense to do so. The world works better if you offer people help with things that you actually enjoy and that don't impose on you much or at all, and leave other people to do things that you enjoy less than is typical or that are harder for you than for others. Different people have different strengths, weaknesses, and different personal preferences of things they like or dislike, or resources that are abundant or scarce.
By offering from our abundance and asking from our scarcity, we can use both our offers and requests for favors as a way to make everyone collectively better off.
And by communicating better with people, we can avoid imposing on others and also communicate to others when a favor would impose on them. I give some examples and tips for navigating all these types of situations!