A Big Unique Problem Which Indian Society Is Facing ? | समाज की एक बडी समस्या

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[@afreenfatima3092]

SOLUTIONS FOR PROBLEM 1. Parents should stop discussing their marital life with children. They Should show respect & love to their spouse in front of childern. 2. Girls should search responsible money earner lifetime father for her upcoming children. 3. Losser boys should work upon their hygiene, looks, carrer, should be understanding support girls, yet be diplomatic in life. 4. So called charming boys one day will reach in their 50s with no stable carrer , no money, no looks, eventually no girls for hookups. Becoz they have spend their youth in these things, so eventually in long term they will be unsuccessful, they were not focused in young age , so it will eventually impact their life and career . KARMA will hit them for sure.

[@2903kiran]

Well said

[@All-purposefacts]

@@antanwar1 usually parents search good income boys for their girls, in that cases before marriage they are no hookups. Girls are into hookups becoz of good looks of boys. If a boy is rich &average looking , she will never hookup before wedding, she will only marry him and settle down. These charecterless boys will never get beautiful young girls, becoz these girls are for successful men. Such boys in most cases are unsuccsful and after age will get average homely or may not be homely girls. Becoz this category of boys marry in 40s or 50s, in that age usually they won't get youthful 25 age girl

[@afreenfatima3092]

@@antanwar1 yes you are right. Girls should also improve their social skills.

[@shivkapoor3302]

@@antanwar1 indeed

[@homosapienssapiens4848]

♂️ A female wants a male with a future and a male wants a female with no past that's the essence of the whole thing. ♂️

[@2903kiran]

Well said

[@KIIXI]

♀️= female ♂️= male

[@homosapienssapiens4848]

@@KIIXI That symbol denotes my gender.

[@hardysandhu9490]

Well said..

[@kumarDI5374-h5d]

😂😂😂😂

[@sreethi_nair]

Iska solution ek hi hai, Sir. Show youngsters what a healthy long term relationship looks like… teach them the benefits of such a relationship/marriage. And as a society, we need to start showcasing and idolising people who are happy in their marriages/relationships. Because, youngsters don’t have any examples to learn from, whether it’s in their own family, peer group or movies and society… Once they realise that marriage/long term relationships are good, then the criteria with which boys and girls evaluate their partners will change. Short term relationships, having multiple partners aur dating apps ko “cool” banana bandh kar do. Healthy long term relationships ko “cool” banao.

[@San_home-chef]

​@@Daredevil007-v7m I agree with you fully

[@sanyuktaah]

Agree 💯

[@Indianmogger]

There aren't Advantages for me.

[@alok0980]

Jiski shaddi acchi chal Rahi hai wo society me dhindhora to pitne se raha jinki nahi chal Rahi uska tamasha sab log maje se dekhte hai

[@ijustfelldown]

Most parents of Gen Z and Millennials spent their life complaining about their spouse towards their kids. Aise bacchon ne long term relationship toh dekh liya magar yeh bhi dekha ki maa - baap sirf un bacchon ke waaste divorce nahin le rahe. Agar jam nahi rahi aur phir bhi divorce nahin lete while also continuing to talk trash about marriage - aise parents honge to obviously kon chahega mummy papa ki tarah arrange marriage karna? Aisa environment sirf ladkiyon ko nahi, ladko ko bhi shadi se nafrat karwane lagata hai. It's so hard to do anything when all the mental damage has already been done before the kids even reach the age of marriage.

[@dollyjhaom]

Problem : movies and social media. Everything from live-in, to infidelity to double- timing to nudity to elopement to pre marital pregnancy- every damn vice is so bloody glamourised it seems cool to do all this.

[@varunretro]

Absolutely correct, concept of alpha male and toxic feminism is killing the relationship. What we saw in west till now, it already here and more lethal. Parents or elderly don't even have idea of these concepts so can't take the blame for this.

[@underratedidiot4568]

And the fall of patriarchy.

[@saranginag2290]

Sir yr great! Mai apki fan ban gai hu. Aise topics pe ap bolte hain Jo samaaj ko ainaa dikhate Hain. Thanks sir bhagwaanji apko or famous banaye or apki Baat Har ghar tak pahunche.

[@AshutoshMishra-qc7nl]

I would completely agree with you, I fall under the loser category avg looking, tall dark, good pay 1L+, don't drink, smoke, never had any relationship thus my expectations would be same I would not want to settle with a girl with too many baggages since once a cheater always a cheater. Clueless here.

[@friendshiprocks8673]

I am a girl, looking for a same life partner earning only 37 k per month😊. But from ur name it seems u r a Brahmin so we have no chance 💔

[@kishansoni-cm5tm]

​@@friendshiprocks8673 chint mat karo apko acha ladka mil jayega

[@fortalk6032]

​@@friendshiprocks8673 why so biased because of his surname, and then people blame UC for discrimination

[@RAJ-km8gw]

@@friendshiprocks8673 Arey china math kaaro... Ladka mil jaega .. Waise apko chaiye konse type ka ladka ????

[@TheDivyachandan]

Sir… amazing topic🙏🏼 A template solution for all A, B n C :- (Disclaimer: simple but not easy) 1. Self control 2. Acceptance and respect for the others 3. channelizing energies in other creative stuffs

[@seinairis]

As a girl, I'm proud of myself as i have always been in my limit (not being in any sort of relationship) even though my friend told me that "you never know if your future husband* was in any relationship (physical) , why don't you give it a try and enjoy " I didn't and i am happy with my decision😌😁

[@AnkitKumar-kk3iw]

Right decision yrr 😊

[@Optimistic_mind441]

Good decision.

[@maaadhyam2344]

girls like you exist today?😮😮😮damn

[@mayak2676]

Good decision. But did you get a good partner ultimately?

[@Akashyadav-rd1eo]

I m in love with your thought

[@acousticians8704]

Self control is one of the most important attitude that every individual today have to develop within. Kyuki without you, your dicision your life will be all mash

[@Capxxxx]

You keep Shaking the conscience of Indian Society Every Week... God Bless You

[@pg4740]

The best solution i can think is dont badmouth ur partner in front of kids. Warna overcorrection k chakkar mein kids will choose complete opposite. Aur wo bhi galat hi nikalta hai. Be content in your relationship

[@priyankabehl3444]

Sahi.

[@kusumrastogi5672]

Yes, how children see their parents relationship affects their perspective of their own partner

[@ayush885]

Sango, I think you've missed one category, just like boys are A and B category, girls are too. This is mostly happening to B category girls, basically average looking girls, who try to get into relationships with A category guys. B category males already know that the A category girls are above their status.

[@Lolobebo51]

U r absolutely right sir

[@manjular3678]

And the A category girls look out for A Plus category boys

[@jda7499]

Absolutely on point !! Very well said, want to add one more thing is that Cat B boys or even Cat C boys number is way way higher then available Cat B girls or Cat C girls and the way things are in India presently any Cat B or Cat C boy will take any girl B/C/D he gets - Instagram and social media and overall new way of life is such.

[@ayush885]

@@jda7499 These desperate men who'd accept any woman are also part of the problem.

[@gauravdubey6989]

​@@manjular3678 😂😂😂😂😂

[@seer7152]

Thank you for bringing this matter to public attention and showing the bigger picture. I have been thinking about this for very long time and observing children of all ages. This topic needs a series of videos. You are doing great work. 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@divya-13]

Very nice video, holistic approach towards society, so many factors are at play

[@Hetal28]

Solutions : 1) Good strong close knit parents and children relationship 2) parents giving their children open atmosphere to talk and discuss any topic or problems at home (removing parental fear) 3) our Indian culture- Marry boys & girls giving them choices at a correct age so that hormonal needs are taken care of in a healthy sound legal relationship of man-women 4) Girls need to remember to not be easily available to any or every man for looking cool or getting benefits like promotions or gifts. Women have let their character so lose- forgetting that women are creators & nurturer of this world 🙏🏻

[@avinandadutta1030]

Whatever you said is absolutely true Women should not loose that value at all and should invest only in long term relationship and also focus on financial independence. You can't move forward by depending on someone

[@vishwasagarwal]

The way hookup culture is portrayed with positivity and glamorised in web series and SM. Without showing the aftermath of it. Could be one factor. A solution could be sensible movie or series which shows chemistry between an average male and female. How it might look boring from outside but its sustainable and healthy in long run. That might make at least some youth aware of the reality.

[@kanchanmoon777]

But somewhere this is helpful for female population in getting the lesson as well ; that not all that shines is Gold . Both genders gets this lesson that there is more to the human than the beauty and the body & you won't get this lesson until you get interaction with such a type of crowd. Otherwise you will forever be in this disney world of handsome prince ( a preset beauty standard ). Same for male section who desire princess in one preset beauty standard. Slowly people are getting educated & they are accepting all skin types , Body types , body issues . This problem is only faced by young teenagers but once they get it , they get the value of Life !!

[@priyankabehl3444]

Prapti you’re not connecting with right families. Brown is the least worry when comes to adjustment and understanding

[@sujitsingh3158]

To be honest boys dont care how much girls earns , even if girls are earning , she has attitude that her money is her money and husband moneys should be use to run the house and retirement plan , some are treating men just as a wallet and ATM ... husband should help equally in house chores and pay more as he earns more ,every girls want super rich prince charming .... women are using law as a weapon to achieve this mean ... after marriage they are filing 498 , domestic violence and finally maintenance .... note: skin colour of girl does not matter here

[@RAJ-km8gw]

@Prapti maheshwari 3 k men seriously!!!!!!

[@nothanks0009]

This is indeed a real problem. It's only making people more resentful of each other for a long term. This is the reason why there's a 4th category: girls and boys who are lazer focused on career and are not even participating in dating and marriage market.

[@varunmittal3617]

will form majority

[@samairakapoor440]

I am from this category

[@Indianmogger]

To be honest bro, such girls are easy target for me. Let me break it to you. Such girls don't waste their time. But if you are lucky and attractive enough. You just be there. In the end they're humans too. They will tell you how frustrating their work is and all you just make them laugh and you can have them anytime sooner.

[@nothanks0009]

@@Indianmogger Baccha ye YT bandh karke padh le warna agle saal bhi NEET ke liye drop dena padega. Ye Law of Attraction wagera nahi work karegi jo tune playlist bana rakhi hai.

[@Indianmogger]

@@nothanks0009 NEET Nahi Hua Didi , But Law Of Attraction Se Different chize achi Hui. But Through ICAR. Studying In Best Agricultural College of India. Which is enough with the looks I have.

[@milisingh3155]

Sach h guru ji. Ladkiya bhi ab chooser ho gai h. Ve bhi equally educated h. More earning capacity h aur vo bhi handsome sathi chahti h jaise ladke beautiful girls chahte h. More over vo samj chuki h ki unhe bhi ye bahumulya manav jiwan apne progress apni aspirations aur dream poore karne ke liye mila h na ki jivan bhar seva ya dasi ban kar jine ke liye

[@Hullstomper]

💯

[@rahul18348]

Namashkar Sangwan Ji. The problem is we as so called modern society want to adopt all the progressive ideologies & act upon them without giving up on traditional (conservative) outcomes. If you want a progressive society with all its freedom w.r.t women rights, trans rights, abortion rights, adoption & surrogacy rights for transgenders, grooming rights & every other right possible under the sun without any accountability, then marriage as as social/legal construct is already dead.

[@LifeExperienceOfRK65]

Great sir..... Great sir ...Great sir ... आपने बहुत सामयिक विषय उठाने की बहुत शालीनता और कठोरता से हिम्मत की है इसे 1 अभियान बनाने की जरूरत है.

[@yogeetayadav3909]

Guys need to step up in marriage, they can't live the way their parents lived with their partner. Girls are overwhelmed and exhausted by taking everything on their head and still being critized by boy and his family. First of all, boys should leave from umbrella of their parents the way girl is leaving to start a new family. Then they should contribute equally to household and finances . Even working girls are still burdened like a house wife and guy is enjoying news , tv after coming home. and still complaining to wife if 56 bhog is not ready for him. they are not even polite and thankful to what a girl is doing.

[@antanwar1]

You are a true product of feminism (see who george soros is). Society practices are result of past experiences. For example child marriage - If you see US (that is where modernity supposedly lies and that is the culture we are supposed to follow, aren't we ?), there are teenage pregnancies, then what was the need for abolishing child marriage ? At least in older systems the woman and the child were protected by marriage and family. In the US culture, the girl becomes a single mother and is unable to get decent step father for their child, she keeps prostituting herself. The child grows without a father and has development issues, increasing criminality etc and society is degenerating. Kudos to our women who are trying to replicate US culture here. If we go head like this, not so far ahead in future will threesomes be normal, there will be nude beaches around, single mothers, teenage pregnancies, girls doing pornography, gun shootouts, drugs, criminality will all be normal. All thanks to our ever progressing society. It will not be quick but we are definitely getting there. My questions to all females is why should a male leave his parents ? That is the only safety net most parents have in India with majority of them having no pension. In US they have social security, but in India what is the security that the parents have ? Do you think your husband will like you for forcing him to leave his parents for you. Once he sees his parents struggling (and parents now are living longer) with health and finances your life will never be normal. Having said that even girls parents need to be taken care of if she is the only daughter or where no male is present. Her parents have equal right to be taken care of, may not be legally but morally for sure. And this culture, girls it is your responsibility as a mother to imbibe in both your male and female children. Cooking, cleaning etc is not gender role, it is a lifeskill. It is as much required for a girl to learn driving, cooking, swimming, cleaning, earning money as much it is required for a boy and vice versa. A guy will hold a woman in extreme respect who treats his parents very well. If the saas is bitter, just ignore the caustic talks, there are only 2 people (his/her parents) whose remarks you have to ignore. Just do it and see how well your husband treats you and how happiness reverts in your family. A family where parents are unhappy will never prosper. And remember you will not stay young forever. Your time too will come in next 20 25 years. Instead of aping the west with its crooked ideologies, we should start the movement of going back to our culture where family as a unit was there to protect everyone. It is in everyones interest. Sadly no one talks these things nowadays. The parents have no voice. Everyone wants nuclear families and suffer in silence in old age. Did not understand - checkout what happens to older generation in germany. They are shipped out of the country to a foriegn destination where they are fed and medically taken care of till they die - sophisticated prison isnt it. At least they get the dignity, In India due to no social security net, the old suffer in silence. Ever seen temples, railway stations, you can find lots of such older couples crying and begging. My heart bleeds when I see them. All because someone couldnt digest some caustic talks and couldnt adjust. And that is not the womans fault totally. She is doing what the society is brainwashing her to do. It is the parents who could not imbibe that learning in the children. Ladies - you are mothers - you can change the world. First understand that you have been taken for a ride, and a failed philosophy has been thrust upon you in the guise of modernity.

[@RohitMehar]

Esi reality based talks sunkar maja ajata hr sir

[@anshumanjha3374]

Very well pointed problem sir, I myself has encountered the same during my partner search and have deeply analysed exactly the same way, which you did in this video...and I totally agree with this...but the issue is we all aware of this problem (all classes of society) but unfortunately there is no materialistic solution to this....its a "shift in the mindset" of both girls/boys and their respective families/gaurdians which is required but the issue is...."shift" toh tab aayegi na...jb koi isspe humare tarh deep analysis kre....

[@ranjanapandey9630]

Meditation can be a good fix..and not trying to promote anyone but yes it definitely limits your desires and brings more clarity and discernment. All the Best for the youth to take conscious steps and not get flattered...what seems to be appealing to senses may not be their right serving. God Bless All..अपने स्व के विवेक को जागृत करें, ध्यान करें🙏🙏

[@GanuRajput101]

Average bhai logo Solution ek hi hai apne aap ko upgrade karalo bhai Nhi to koi ni milegi aur agar mil bhi gayi to bahut buri zindagi jio ge .... Physical emotional fit Bano..

[@prisurya1]

As a parent am now concerned. Good that you informed us about the trend

[@srinjoydas6644]

This is exactly what is happening predominantly in the West, now spreading in India.

[@meghnasengupta2000]

But jab tak bachelor parties, boys holidays and office incentive trips all go to places like bangkok..then how will people learn to value and nurture long term relationship?

[@professorbabaji9540]

Boys go to Thailand and Girls go to Pondicherry, both wrong 🙏 Boys and Girls should go together, not for drug parties in Goa but with family for a pilgrimage instead.

[@noonecares3996]

sure , 30 aatee hi sab samajh aa jati hai . Aur india me Payer chat ne wale larko vi kam nahi hai ... Foreign countries me jo 30 reach karne ke bad unko achhe kamane wale beta simp milti nahi ... but india me simp ki kami nahi hai .

[@munishsehrawat7608]

No comment sir.... U r man with guts and revolutionary kind of like bhagat singh ji to say what is right for the nation

[@non-senseredefined7288]

Tu apna mu band kr

[@munishsehrawat7608]

@@non-senseredefined7288 ok bhai age se dhyn rkhunga..... AaJ aaj maf krna

[@sushmalakra9176]

​@@munishsehrawat7608 😂😂😂 Bach Gaya Aaj to ...hum to Darr Gaye 😅😅

[@munishsehrawat7608]

@@sushmalakra9176 sushma di ye hmara muh band krwadena pls silent

[@shounaksen3336]

If society is based on materialistic pleasures and money, it's bound to happen

[@SR-mv2mf]

It gives sooo much peace for me to listen these logical points from a guy who is of a father status. If only all parents can think like you, then there will be no issues. God bless you sirji.

[@deepayanc]

In short...today's education system... Starting from home and then after turning that on other parameters... Lack of knowledge in the true sense of the term and less of interest to turn that knowledge into wisdom...this the actual scenario of current youth... 1/3 don't know why how what they do...another 1/3 r dipped into drugs...and rest 1/3 r studying but not in that way it should be as you told those girls classmates batchmates r not putting grass...hence they don't get that interest to turn their regular knowledge into wisdom...Yes politics is involved as education system comes under this... This EDUCATION SYSTEM got disturbed very badly being mingled with many other things... This is the actual problemS to solve and what you addressed here Sir that part will automatically get balanced... More than this I need not to elaborate...You r the better Judge Sir to understand my untold words

[@priyankasahasrabhojanee7698]

I think making the people aware of this situation is the first part of the solution. Like any other ongoing processes of social evolution, the rest will follow its natural course based on how each one of us exercises one's free will in life. I am glad you did your bit by creating this video. Thank you for that.

[@iammealways1124]

Every bs isn't come under evolution. It's a thousands of years process.

[@roshinitoenlightenment]

Time has gone

[@denzel9518]

If we recall our memories of recent past, we had availability of good resources in plenty as well. Only difference was that we had go get it, like books from library, money from Bank etc. Today life is easiest then ever before, accessibility of those resources are available within the comfort of your bed, some have seen struggles of older gen but most younger gen guys and gals believes that this ease always existed in past the way it is now. Resulting in lack of having hobbies that involve manual effort such as art and craft, spots, DIY and basic house hold work.

[@vaibhavgupta3378]

The day boys get a job they become charming if they start taking care of themselves.

[@grishmasharma7420]

Ye ek bhaut badi problem hai definitely..... Ismein humare parents ki galti hai jaisa apne btaya sir...... Attraction love ki age hoti hai ye...par parents ko lagta hai nahi humare bacchon ko kuch esa dopamine release hota hi nahi..... Jis age mein humare parents ko attraction hoti thi us age mein unhe ek rishte mein bandh diya jata tha ....unhe need nahi thi..... Ab ladkiya isiliye settle hon chahti hai career mein taki apni pasand ke ladke se shaadi kar sake jab tak nahi hoti tab tak yahi btana hota hai gharpe ki ..nahi esa kuch nahi hai i am studying....

[@vikasmalik02211]

I think we have a solution. boys who have average looks, and low salary are the ones who claim to have a good heart and wants to get into a long-term serious relationship. If they really want that to happen then be an alpha man first and then use your pure intention (of getting into a long-term relationship) to have a good girl in your life. Go to the gym, make the body, start earning a good amount of money, and don't let a small ratio of men attract N number of girls. make a balance between demand and supply.

[@friendshiprocks8673]

Financial issues gaya tel lene, bhai har koi fit and handsome nehi ban sakta, facial structure change k lie plastic surgery lagti he uske lie paisa lagta he, tum lower middle class hoke surgery nahi kara sakte. Maa baap young age me padhai padhai karte rehte he unko kya bolke jim jaoge?? Ghar pe kar sakte ho but jim nehi jaa sakte boss. Practically possible nehi he demand and supply

[@brinjal1371]

It will take one entire life time to do all those you have mentioned

[@sujitsingh3158]

and what will girl bring to the table , if everything boys will only do

[@userS1351]

kya yr.. damaged products k liye etni mehnat... not worth it🙄🤦‍♂️. Category-A guys have biological advantages .. other guys can't compete with them.

[@RAJ-km8gw]

Yeh badi achi baath kahi hai apne

[@Porcupine626]

This problem is going on sonce long. Not all girls go for physical intimacy at any point of time in their relationship (gf/bf relationship). They are not getting good match even when they are sanskaari. Not all mothers rant about their toxic marriage before their daughters. Girls observe all the women around them including mothers, aunts, grandmothers etc. and witness how much toxic a marriage can get. No doubt old generation men are responsible for this. Nobody wants to marry a maa da laadla and a pitrabhakt. Marriage with such boys definitely results in divorce coz girls are financially independent. Only way out is educate boys how to make their girls feel secure in a marriage.

[@kusumrastogi5672]

Also educate girls to respect their own relationship with partner

[@MohdowaisKhan-qe3lx]

Not all girls are good looking

[@sumanaganguli2480]

I guess the root cause of this situation is expecting for ready-made socially savvy grooms and brides, it is this fixed mindset which is causing the problem....a true marriage is all about growing and glowing together...with love and respect for each other, and by adopting a growth mindset both can fulfill each others needs and desires.

[@nirupamasharma4389]

You said it❤

[@shikhakakkar6935]

Oye hoye. Maza aa gaya Sirji. Mere Mann ki dabee awaaz Jo pichhle 15-20 saal se andar ubaal kha rahi thii aaj aapne saaf saaf bol diya

[@azaharmachwe9662]

Lack of patience in making things work and giving effort in a relationship. So we fix blame instead of the problem and that is a band aid fix.

[@facetious07]

मोदी जी और राहुल जी खुद शादी नही की, वो किस मुंह से समझाएंगे समाज को😂

[@Bhupendra_Jogi699]

Modi ji ki shadi ho chuki hai

[@okfine_33]

BOYS :- Their software (thinking capability) is of three types 1:-via mom seeing how she's treated by his father so he'll also treat his wife like that. 2:-via GF when they don't get emotional understanding from parents especially from mom, kyuki papa se toh Indian culture mein kalesh hai 😁aur yeh sab 13-25 ke beech mein yeh concept arise hoga saying like NIBBA-NIBBA (tere jismein , tere rooh pe bas ek hi haq Mera 😂) Baad mein kata toh bolte hai ladki sirf loot ne wali hoti hai... 3:- via WIFE ya toh emotional bonding milta hai yar fir nahi ya fir dono side se chakki pising ya fir zeher ka goont peekar reh jaate hai taaki koi ungli na utha le .. Mein matter of fact is that ladke kabhi apna kuch system rakhte hi nahi hai .....(ispe focus Karo) Par ek baat sach hai ki agar ek ladke ko emotional bonding kisi ladki se mil Rahi hai toh woh apna poora zor lagayega uski companionship ke liye irrespective of age,racism ... At the end i understood that BOYS need a place where they can CRY,SHARE THINGS WITHOUT ANY HESITATION matlab bas sunne wala chahiye aur woh galat ho toh bataye .....meine kal comment mein bola tha like jaise tum intimacy related apni mummy se baat nahi kar sakte waise hi yeh saari baatein bol rahi hu... Boys chahakar bhi sexual urges ko daba nahi sakte unka mechanism hi Aisa hai par unhe isse navigate karna hoga...🤞 GIRLS:- Inke 2 types ke software hota hai. 1:-Ghar ka kaam hi tujhe sawarega via (grandparents,mom,kuch relatives) 2:-Likh -padh aur kama(ladka chikna milega ) Chikna yaha par kuch bhi sakta hai like 🤑💪😂samjh rahe ho na (zyada Paisa wala,sexy body 👅) Par koi mental level thinking ka koi kaam karta hi nahi hai.Girl need support for future when she get married.. Ladki humesha kamane wala(zyada)ke paas jaati hai taaki security mile(agreed according to evolution) 🧬 par ladki ko abhi samajh na hoga ki kam kamane wala wale shaadi karke (mental thinking OP) chahiye toh kuch saal woh kam kamane wala zyada kamane wale ko beat kar dega kyuki emotional support milega , sex milega 😁 Companionship milegi😜 Aaj ke time pe ladki ko ladke se 🏦🏧 , inheritance (baap- dadaji ka home) nahi dekhna chahiye balki ladke ki mental clarity aur thinking capability ko check karo ,test karo aur agar iss mein sahi laga toh karlo par agar ladke ke paas sab kuch like money 🤑, ghar , property but not mental thinking OP toh RED FLAG FOR GIRLS Babu bhaiya ....... Yeh Mera opinion hai please criticism mat karna par Haan kuch aur baatein ho toh zaroor batana ..... Thank u for reading till here 😎👍🤞 Aur bhi likhna hai par comment bada ho jayega isliye nahi likha Sir koi job ho toh please batao i want to do (work from home mainly)

[@ketanbagaria2433]

Solution can be achieved by asking 1 question " WHY" this kind of situation was not prevailing or was prevailing to a controable extent at the time of our Parents or Grand Parents : Ans :1) Pre-Maratial sex was almost non existent 2) Arranged Marriage were made before the hormones kicked in . However early marriage is not advisable in these times but at least youth can try and refrain pre-maritial sex--> this could be the main reason for marriages falling apart 3) Dont get impressed by the western movies / social media which promotes this kind of practice 4) Most Impiortant : CLEARLY DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN LOVE & LUST & "GIVE HIGHEST REGARDS & VALUE TO LOVE "

[@debayansarkar4699]

Sirji, ye trend last 10 years se chal raha he. Mere khudke female frnds na jaane ladko ko kitne filters se Chhan lete he. Aur handsome ladke (not all, a significant number although) charitra ka dhajjiya uda diye he. Ye problem John Nash (the beautiful mind) movie mein bhi dikha diya tha ek scene mein.

[@varunmittal3617]

1-2 generation lagege. abhi middle & rich class mae hai so itna matter nhi kar tha.

[@Indianmogger]

Dhajiya Nahi Uda Rahe sir, Ladki ki consent se hota h, aur ladkiyan ko band kamre m kitni izzat milti h woh bhi janta hun

[@freedom4813]

​@@Indianmogger tum kisi ladki ko touch tak nahi kar sakte agar uski consent naho,per her koi boys ko blame karne ke liye tayar hai

[@debayansarkar4699]

@Kushal Dear Kushal... Hope you have noticed I have mentioned the aspect of "farmayeshi" programs of the girls too. I am not saying that it is happening without consent. I am saying that it has been a trend, that people (who have the charisma to explore this option) are exploring this particular lifestyle. "Charitra" or character should not be assessed by whether with the true intent of marriage (or a longer term serious relationship) in heart you have ended up sleeping with more than one individuals and later found that they were not the correct person. Happens quite often in the lives of serious people in the western world too. It is a sign of bad character when one starts a relationship on the pretense of the promise of marriage and then after sleeping with them one ditchs them. I am certain you are younger than me. In my known circle only I have witnessed 6 individuals of such "Charitra" unfortunately 4 of them belonging to states of northern india. I am just saying that it is a trend that started a while ago. Secondly, it is practiced "unfortunately" a lot more in the northern states of India, as the boys have often been brought up with a sense of false entitlement as Amit ji has often talked about.

[@shivkapoor3302]

@@freedom4813 yeh bhi satya baat hai

[@amtize]

Very relevant

[@dr_rockstar]

Society needs to work on it's ethnic and moral values. Everyone has to try to increase their own standard (both girls and so called losser boys) and coming to alpha males they should be checked by their family members and people around them to taught about ethical and moral values.

[@6112arjun]

First of all , I am amazed that a person your age knows what's going on in the current dating market of 18-24. It's absolutely true , Good looking men are rare, there's science to back it up. Men are polygamous and females are hypergamous. Good looking guys (chads) are having the time of their life while bottom 80% men are watching their crushes getting used by these men. Eventually growing bitter of both these good looking men and women in general. These men then dive into the manosphere, some go mgtow , some go blackpill. Some buy courses from dating coaches, some become extreme misygynist. Honestly, I have experienced life as a bottom 80% male and even as a top male. The only solution I see is , women should not give into sex that easily cause that's the point these good looking men start loosing interest. Nevertheless, nature was always like this. Winner gets all, looser gets none

[@xcalibur1523]

It's not the girl's issue that they are not settling for mediocrity. We boys need to focus on ourselves! Hit the gym, become financially sufficient, be disciplined...

[@userS1351]

jo ladka etni mehnat krega.. vo sirf ek ladki pe ku rukega..vo b kafi flavors taste krega... to find the best one.

[@userS1351]

@@Lavanyachawla55 and the reality is.. girls alwz fall for such guys(playboys), ignoring decent guys.

[@shubhamjoshi8762]

​@@userS1351exactly and just kachra must be dumped out High value girls kisi aur culture se dhundh lenge hamara kuch nahi ja raha

[@ShaileshBhargava1]

Thank you very much for bringing this topic, sorry for my language but you need balls of Steel to bring this on public platform. This is a big topic, solution is not simple. It will be done in phases. For coming generation as sex education and good touch bad touch is included in daily curriculum. A subject how to live life. Should be introduced. As it used to be in past in Gurukuls, where when a person attains age of 13. Is fully mature to take his decisions. He's been trained in all aspects of life, political economical etc.

[@SangoLifeSutras]

Thanks for input. Pls do share this video with friends

[@akshatmandrekar5815]

I sincerely think all schools MUST include Bhagvadgeeta's teachings in their curriculum. It must be made mandatory ASAP or else there is little hope from the future generations.

[@Rahul-or9hr]

What an Realistic Video Sir ! 100% true !!

[@amitashetty5956]

Sir i love your videos, plz make a video on whether " God exist or not " . Going through lots of issues in life thank you tc God bless

[@miyamotomusashi3679]

I'm a gen-z male, and this may not sound good but according to me, this is the nature's way of containing overpopulation in the modern era.

[@miyamotomusashi3679]

One solution is- Since India has less females than males and since nature dictates polygamy as well as hypergamy, Indian men should expand their options and date women from foreign countries as well. Do not be limited to India. Basically the same thing that Haryanvis did/do to account for lack of women.

[@scifigal1]

Haryanvis were sharing and exploiting women like an object to use and pass on. Is that what you are suggesting ?

[@subhamsarangi2090]

@@scifigal1 every is exploiting women not only haryanvi.

[@GIGADEV690]

​@@subhamsarangi2090women are exploiting men not the other way around.

[@balajidbv]

With all due respect sir, this is not a new problem at all. Women always choose the best, the difference is now that they are independent to make a decision. Nowadays average girls sleep with the best men thinking they will end up in the long term. When thrown away by the Alpha they start hating all men. And at the age of 30, they realize their mistake and settle with the average boy like them. And such women destroy her and the boy's life too. Women with such a past can never become a good wife. The solution is to never marry a woman with past relationships. It's harsh for many but this is the long-term solution, which even you cannot come up with now. A huge population of lonely miserable women will be a lesson for young girls to make the right choices.

[@subhamsarangi2090]

@Prapti maheshwari guide us what single men must do to become attractive

[@daymah.l1840]

Great regards from dr Heera Lal dayma MBBS dausa raj 🌹🌹🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@amitkamra7822]

I don’t think this is a new trend or phenomenon. This must have happened in past generations as well...

[@AkshayNaik404]

Issue arrises from parent and children relationship issue to this whole big mess. I know some guys and girls who come far away from their hometown to cities so that they can quote "enjoy life". Go to parties, enjoy liquor or substances, have bf/gf. Which results in some people become get addicted, get into casual relationships. Imagine if parents treated their children like grown ups and let them enjoy their life as adults. Current society frawns upon having bf and gf, frowns upon drinking but their children are doing these things behind their back anyways. Parents, please be open minded about your children having bf gf, let them introduce you to their friends, bf/gf's. Be open that they might be into alocohol. It is not the end of the world. It is better to have you know who's the partner of your son or daughter. Its better to have your son / daughter take relationship / dating / reproduction advice from you than their immature friends. Its better to have your kid tell you they drink (within limit) and be safely home at correct time. Most of the time we are not open about these things and that does more harm.

[@deleteduser133]

The best solution is to change the diet to avoid hormonal imbalance, it plays major role in perceiving the world .Like alcohol shows immediate effect ,but junk foods and fast foods are far worst than alcohol they are slow poison

[@hardikshyara1518]

1. Education system waste youth time its should decrease from 16(total years of education) to 14 2. Solution already exists sir in your time period that needs to follow now, right time marriage or early engagement....

[@holisticwellness1686]

You've addressed a real problem that our society is facing. The older generation must be responsible in exemplifying the beauty in the institution of marriage rather than playing the victim card

[@ostrav24]

You are so true. The average Indian man needs to look at himself and needs to pull himself up.. Take care of their health and bodies and their communication skills , education/professional skills and mostly be humble and kind

[@MohdowaisKhan-qe3lx]

Not all girls are good looking and have personality that they deserve good men

[@amus835]

Social media has a lot of influence on the generation...we see and desire a lot of things

[@suravibehera2246]

Both men and women should go for long term relationship.. otherwise it is better to remain single..live in casual hookups may give you short term pleasure but marriage will give you long term happiness and satisfaction in life..do marriage otherwise become bramhachari😂

[@trueword4971]

Both men and women should not marry. Marriage is a bondage and it's always give you loss. Even if you marry although don't give birth

[@Indianmogger]

I feel the guys who give fake promises aur stuff are not that attractive in the first place.

[@sakshi_bairagi]

Unfortunately, there are many well known famous KZbinrs who promote dating apps, date in your early 20's, trying out different people...we should be rather focussing on career in early 20's

[@debuchhetri1071]

​@@sakshi_bairagi don't you think that is damaging too.. dating several people gives you the delusion of choice.. no man/women is perfect but with time you realise different people fulfilled different needs... Hard to get a complete package.. then we just end up with resentment.. I think the solution is more conscious decesion making

[@jpmaha70]

Government must introduce more social behavioral topics in school which are essential in this consumer oriented society. 1. Love and relationships 2. Financial discipline 3. Sex education and pros and cons of pre marital sex 4. How market oriented economy is leading to a consumerist society where envy and comparison is the basic human behavior Let the school reduce syllabus for all othet subjects and add 3 periods per week on above topics with discussions on case studies as done in MBA. So the more awareness right from age of 14 to 15 will help children grow with more focused and definitive goals in life rather than experimenting aimlessly.

[@BodyMindSoulLifesutras]

Yes society ka patan ho raha ha 😢 divorce rate are increasing very high in India late marriage phir baccho wali parents ka divorce. Child custody female ke pass men are free again

[@roshinitoenlightenment]

Alimony also

[@AbhishekSharma-yk4zp]

well said...Actually the problem is not the past relationship or being physical but the person and way of thinking becomes after going through these short term casual relationships whether male/female. These people generally fail to control there sudden urges and encounters these activities after marriages too. And there are many other things also.

[@crea_tivemen]

Girls have the power to change the attitude of boys. Boys are heavily controlled by the family. Everybody expects them to provide. Not everyone can handle the pressure. Girls have to be strength of boys . Stop criticism and and inspire them to be better. Boys will do anything once they sure that they are loved. Boys are born achievers. It's the family who wants them to be submissive and loosers .most fathers don't want their son to be successful. They bring toxicity in boys life. I have seen many times fathers destroying sons future for their own selfish reasons. Girls have to make sure that boys see a future with them. We live in a Indian society heavily controlled by others. Once boys have clarity them wouldn't shy from achieving success.

[@gaurisathish8932]

Solution is the previous generation should shun/give away their ego of wisdom and Sanskar they have and discuss this topic with this generation.the previous generation is not willing to accept the problem and just wants to blame this should be avoided instead they should accept the reality & empower youth they should accept the interplay of hormones of both the gender rather than stereotyping and rendering it bad. If you r in a relationship it should not be kept secret as someone else can point u d red flags atleast relationships me rehne is not bad and should be normalised by previous generation aapni na chalaye

[@frc_sc9114]

Only solution is instead of focusing on what your partner can do for you, focus what you can do for your partner. Do this and you will attract the right ppl. This is for both men and women. Men instead of waiting for a decent girl to pick you, work on your career & fitness. girls instead of wanted a rich man, work on being rich yourself. If both genders focus on improving themselves instead of expect a decent partner, the no. of decent men and women in the marriage market will improve and so will the quality of relationships

[@beingpositive7861]

Guru ki mai to depression me Jane Wala tha rishtedaro ke chkrr me apke video dekh ke life ko aim mil gya sir🙏🙏🙏

[@theawarescorpio]

Sad reality, but solution for the weak man is to become the strong one, for the sake of themselves.

[@MohdowaisKhan-qe3lx]

Kya sabhi girl acchi hoti hai Unme bhi to average category hoti hai

[@rpradhan500]

Social media bohot trigger kar raha hai insecurity in girls and boys... Now you have the previlige to compare your life with someone who you hardly know....

[@neetuagrawal8118]

You are right Amit ji, elders apne haath easily jhad lete hai instead face the situation & struggle to make youths understand the reality.

[@aditya.k.kochhar]

Sir Ji, solution to bohot mushkil hai par thoda alag se soche to solution hai ki bachhon ko 8th -9th standard se hi paid part time apprenticeship/internships start karwa deni chahiye... Jab bachhe thoda Kam karenge, thoda jimmedari lenge aur samaj ko thoda behtar samjhenge to shayad ye problems Kam hongi...maybe government can a bring a scheme by name of 'kartavya veer' like Agniveer, where young children are encouraged to do civil service jobs and are paid a little bit of money in return.

[@shaangaming350]

1 solution DONT GET PHYSICAL BEFORE MARRIGE STAY VIRGI@ TILL MARRIGE . FIRST MARRIGE THEN ..... MAKE YOUTH BELIEVE THAT SOMETHING IS AVAILABLE AFTER MARRIGE ONLY

[@RS-lv1cm]

Females tends to go for highest quality and men tend to go for highest quantity . Its survival of the fittest at best . Solution to this problem was marriage They forcefully pair one male and one female ,whether you like it or not Marriage is a compromise between men and women where men sacrifice quantity and women sacrifice quality. Marriage is a also a compromise between high quality men(small numbers) and poor quality men(large numbers) ,otherwise they would kill each other . Today you cant kill others easily so everyone is just bitter and sad . In extreme cases, loser men will eventually go towards prostitution(incel type) while used women's will themselves become prostitutes (onlyfans type). Its sad a very sad ending . Only solution right now is active discrimination of both men and women of such nature . Or better women should discriminate against women of such disposition and men against men of such disposition . Fathers should tell there side of stories as well because mothers are giving wrong and biased picture to children . For girls. ... please look for sustainable men not the rich,handsome in demand For Boys .. choose one and be loyal . Sab apni aukat mai raho warna bhaad mai jaao

[@YehvsWoh]

Solutions as per me: 1. Girls vs boys should be stopped. Girls and boys are supposed to compliment each other and be part of each other. 2. parents should become friends of their kids, especially in teenage and should provide knowledge about sex before marriage, greed and attraction towards the opp gender. 3. early marriage can also be a solution.

[@cupcake5003]

This is not unique to Indian society. This is happening elsewhere as well. 10% men are " desirable " and almost all of the single women want to be with those 10%. This is a class issue. Because marriage is a valid and quick way to jump class. It's not entirely true either that such women don't have much options later. On the contrary, if she breaks up with 10% guy, there's a queue of 90% men to date her or marry her.

[@brinjal1371]

@Prapti maheshwari there are ways to identify damaged goods. But problem is most are.

[@SeriousStudent603]

@@brinjal1371 what do you mean by damaged goods?

[@brinjal1371]

@@SeriousStudent603 good that are damaged

[@ajayflute]

Samaj or law system agar dono ko dekha jaye, To law system keval ladies ko justice dena chahta hai, ye samajik dosh se bhi badi dikkat hai . But raising issue is good for society.

[@mohit22792]

2 din se yahi topic soch Raha tha me khud, according to my research also. Bilkul sahi observation.

[@Evaisgalaxy]

True sir..ajkal bahot gandgi bahot ho rhi hai society mai hookup culture ke karan relationship mai values moral sb khatm ho gya hU

[@userS1351]

B-category girl ditches her B-cat bf for A-cat guy... later she gets ditched by that A-cat guy and does vidhwa vilaap. 31-32 ki age me to jethlal me apna prince charming nzr ane lgta.😂

[@userS1351]

@@antanwar1 bro boys me b bht chutiye bhare pade h.. pura market hi khrab krke rakh diya h.

[@subhajitkarmakar]

Boys at age 16-21 -> studies, have no money, loves his tuition mate unconditionally and some 25 year old guy steal that girl. Men at 25 years age -> With a well settled job, a good body after years of workout, steals a young girl as one of his girlfriends. Girls at any age - Wow that guy is so rich, so confident and looks so damn perfect and I think I can somehow manage him to love me and marry me, who cares of who loves me currently, he's not even that perfect. 🤑🤑 Moral - they are not different men and women, they are same. By the age, they change. Specially men change drastically when they see society is valuing them on the basis of their current achievements and not their moral values or ethics. I have seen most of friends suffering from loneliness but they have excellent moral values, good jobs, and decent personality. But somehow girls are attracted to "badboys" only. I don't know how does this thing happen. But I myself am enjoying watching this show with a bucket of pop corn.

[@subhajitkarmakar]

same league bro..

[@sachinkumar-cq9ui]

best video ever on channel. unfortunately with no solution but actual thing and problem in society. my solution for this got to be, we need to call a spade a spade . stick or carrot policy got to be work best everywhere , should work here also. since the choice here lies with the ladies, they are accountable for the same and instead of glorifying a free will sexual persuaded life , we need to appreciate a strong girl who works on herself , control herself and it should be clear enough to society and girls that you will be treated as per your choice , no one to hide your mistakes , no sympathy and no victim cards. you get what you choose raw and rough. sex, polyandry, materialistic pleasure juice in youth or respect ,integrity, regret free , prosperous bounded life . since partial choice of selection goes for fuck boys category too, same lies for them, but as society we also need to change practical standards like preferring committed, loyal person over a casanova.

[@adornis0078]

Solution Hai Knowledge and wisdom... Understand the concept of Runanubandha in Yogic terms. The body has memories and remembers touches. Karmic energies are transferred at a very intense level in the act of SEX. Touching another person transfer energy to that at person. In SEX especially there is intense intermingling of Karmic streams of the persons... In if there are multiple partners then inevitably karmic streams of those also get intermingled within your stream. This is not a joke. it may be a "concept" explained in Yogic terms , but even in scientific terms it shows the same effect. Solution to youngsters is --Change the phrase "My body, my choice" to "My body, My responsibility!"

[@tanvigirme8364]

Mazaa aa Gayaa Amit ji, I hardly see this type of discussion. But unfortunately nothing will improve.

[@dinesh25meena]

I am in now 20 s but understand long term relationship not college relationship only time waste think logically take decision long term 🙏

[@gzzhytihubgithabibhub]

I'm still single and doing a job but I don't know whether I'll be the first love of my future spouse or not because nowadays even in my college the majority of Girls were engaged in relationships.

[@RAJ-km8gw]

@@gzzhytihubgithabibhub Yeaaah u are r8

[@Conditionedsoul3]

Sir, as you had said in one of your videos- whatever pains/gains one has to get in relationship/marriage, they will get, no matter who they decide to be with. If youth accepts this concept, it would be easier for them to choose their life partner. Additionally, treating their role as a husband/wife as a lifelong duty rather than source of enjoyment will keep the marriage going smoothly. So, Girls can select lifepartner on the basis of nature rather than temporary looks; unattractive boys should work on themselves rather than complaining; and more attractive group of males should focus on marrying to one because that would keep them more stable and senses more controlled. P.S.-Acceptance of whatever lifepartner one has is the key

[@mrssingh5416]

I think females ko 2000 saalon se itna zyada dabaya geya hai, jalaya geya hai, mara pita geya hai, dahej k liye mara geya hai, itni zyada restrictions k under rakha geya hai shaadi se pehle bhi or baad mein bhi k abb in females ne thaan liya hai k ab bas. Ab hamari baari. Ladke pehle bhi sish kar rahe the ab bhi aish kar rahe hai. Jahan tak baat loosers ki hai to hum unki baat kar hi kyun rahe hai. Jab ladkion ne apne aap ko itna badal diya, education, looks, fitness or career k area mein or ye loosers kuchh kar nahi rahe. Ek baat batau. Koi bholi bhali fas bhi jaye ink chakkar mein to ye us se shaadi nahi karte( good for her) kehte k shaadi parents ki marzi se karenge( kyuki waha dahej zyada milne ki umeed hai) or ladki ko puri duniya mein badnaam karenge or bolenge mein isliye chhod di jo apne maa baap ki naa ho saki hamari kya hogi. Do I think they deserve to suffer.

[@seer7152]

If Modi ji talks about this , he will be called conservative, orthodox, Manuvadi. Not progressive. Also, youth will say, what does he know about the relationship. Very difficult situation.

[@forgamos2000]

Solution is that one whole generation (or maybe two generations) will have to suffer, because of what has been already done with so much effort by previous generation (ultimately broken men and women will die and next generation may understand what happened before and then try out better ways)

[@avinandadutta1030]

Women should focus only on education and financial independence

[@rjain965]

Sirrr 😂 ap kitne straight forward ho maza aa Gaya

[@SuperAryan1212]

One solution could be to reignite Yadhopavi Sanskar culture of our sanatan dharma.

[@userS1351]

vhi top 20% males.. bar bar unboxing kr rhe hain.. bakiyo ko to 2nd hand b na mil rahi😂..yhi chal rha. females are suffering bcz of their own choices while males(except top 20%) are suffering bcz of choicelessness.

[@noorie777]

Insightful , huge concern , highly disturbing , however this has a direct connect with homes, parenting , & education system I my years of dealing with youth their aspirations , & communication gap that’s widening in every section of society One sure way is involving corporates and develop this mindset to face the rapidly changing world A proven way is to give a tool that can help audit individuals lives every 6 months and set minds

[@VELLEGYAAN]

In my opinion whatever the situation like emotional, pressured & attracted etc do not lose your virginity before marraige say no to boys directly before arrange marraige .Disscuss & do things with the acceptance of your parents .Girls do not cheat yourself as well as your parents only for looks & money of some boys

[@SM-bv8bt]

For ..This important relevant issue .. any few lines in comments section will not justify towards solution.. as there are multiple dimensions added to this entangled mesh.. yes he is right that on individual level some solution or way out can be suggested with limited scope but to make a template acceptable at socitial level addressing for all stake holders.. is a chapter of life manual which can address the dynamics of changing times. If I get the positive remarks here, will post to guruji..my solution oriented research of past 5 years. Or I can leave my email id. This issue and similar other related.. affecting the basic fabric of our relations.. will make things irreversible causing psychosomatic and no one will be able to understand each other's point of view..

[@radhikagupta4216]

Hey! I want to read your thoughts about the research you've done