A 'Church Girl's' Confession - The Scandal that sealed it & being walked out from Service

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@ayoteju8416 2 ай бұрын

Church hurt is real. A terrible experience. I pray daily that I can erase all the negativity of that horrific experience around me. Some pastors will definitely go to hell. The pastor came to my house and told me and my husband that I will eventually commit adultery in my marriage. Like😮😮😮😮 but my husband told him, I have forgiven her in advance even if it happens . I broken down in tears. I couldn't believe this pastor came to scatter my home

@thesecurelifeofdani 2 ай бұрын

Thissssss❤️❤️❤️❤️

@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 2 ай бұрын

False prophets exist.

@amazingdryewwy5318 2 ай бұрын

Thank God your husband wasn't deceived by him. I know of a marriage that broke down spiritually till today from various influences of fake or immature Pastors that told the wife that the husband was doing the wife spiritually. She used all her prime seeking various Pastors that will validate the evil prophecies. Today she's very broke with no property to her name after retirement. She still says it is the husband that pushed her spiritually to have encounters with the 100s of Pastors she went seeking to help k*ll or destroy her husband. The husband tried his best taking care of his children, providing her shelter and food but couldn't feel the love of Christ from the wife but hostility. The children are permanently traumatized emotionally.

@oreoluwaoyadiran Ай бұрын

Ah ah what’s this???? 😢😢 It is well, may God strengthen you

@busayoadeyemo455 Ай бұрын

Waoooo.....I can't even imagine how he presented it in your presence.

@TosinKunmi 2 ай бұрын

This is so on point. I pray that we'll be able to grow to that point in our walk with the holy spirit when nothing anyone does can derail us from this heavenly race we are on. Well done Solutions. More inspiration

@damiekay 2 ай бұрын

What you just said about honor and idolatry is spot on! This is the real challenge. Many of us struggle with this balance. Honor them but do not idolize! And the Holy Spirit is one because this same Hebrews 12:2 is what I was led to meditate on as he asked me to focus on him. Too much distraction in the body of Christ in this season. May the lord help us. I pray for healing for anyone who has been hurt in church. May you be reconciled with your father and seen him first and his kingdom setting your eyes on him like a flint, and you will not be put to shame in Jesus name. Amen!

@damiekay 2 ай бұрын

Also I want to add… if you have a great relationship with your earthly father/ mother and they own a company, they employ you to work there and you do so with your skills adding to the growth of the company. Then some of the staff, perhaps the general manager offend you/ hurt you. Would your decision be to leave the company completely? Or would you take a different approach? If you do decide to leave the company on such grounds, can we honestly say the parent who owns the company would be happy with the decision? Just food for thought… again may the Lord heal every broken heart and grant us all understanding 🙏🏽🙏🏽

@MyLifeAsRaphael 2 ай бұрын

Don’t have too many expectations from the church members or the leaders and you will never be disappointed.

@berthaonyebuchi7922 Ай бұрын

“Solutions” for a reason❤

@maranathaahenkorah2139 2 ай бұрын

This is so good: pure, concise and practical. Thank you so much Maa Solutions, your heart is beautiful❤

@abodemetto8127 Ай бұрын

I have personally experienced of church hurt,but thank God i have a personal relationship with the Holy Sprit.I have left the workforce,but still in the same ministry,let God be our focus.

@olawuyiadejoke803 2 ай бұрын

Thank you ma, really blessed with this. May the Holy Spirit always give you insights to bless us more

@DeborahOlafare-u7w 2 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏🙏 Amen 🙏 Thank you Ma CEO ❤ God bless you Ma CEO Thank you for prayer ❤

@florenceolufade-adewoye1417 2 ай бұрын

Taking ownership of your faith-walk👍👍👍👍

@BabalolaVictoriaTolu 2 ай бұрын

Good morning mama T ,Thank you so much for all u do, i will love to join the mentoring class but right now the dollar rate in Nigeria is very high... and alarming but God willing i get to join some day. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

@PopGirl-g4p 2 ай бұрын

Scriptures 🎉 about the virtues of a pastor/believers. If your pastor does exhibit these virtues or any of the fruits of the Sprit. Run. Just run. Also watch how they treat people who leave.

@helenreaches1185 2 ай бұрын

Thank you very much @solutions. God continue to bless you and give you for what you're doing ❤

@victoriashittu5163 2 ай бұрын

Well done, ma'am. You definitely are a lover of Sarah Jakes Roberts. Chiiiiillllld... that's so SJR but in solutions way. Well done, ma'am.

@stessyjonathan 2 ай бұрын

I wanted to make a video about this yesterday and...see you sharing everything i thought to share when we've not sat together to discuss it! Thank you for sharing it out...

@lebenenadegefioklou7306 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this🙏🙏🙏 GOD RICHLY BLESS🙏🙏🙏

@KinkohNoredineBiy 2 ай бұрын

Great word. Thank you Tolu ❤

@oluwatoyinadelabu980 2 ай бұрын

Yes, ooo, a pastor did not name my sisters baby because he said he did not like the name the parents gave their child

@auntyjayne 2 ай бұрын

Wild😂

@simplyteeto 2 ай бұрын

Imagine!

@mayowaoyedokun9828 2 ай бұрын

This is serious, I wish to know the name involved here

@amyrose3166 29 күн бұрын

@@mayowaoyedokun9828Why? 😂That serves no purpose!!

@mayowaoyedokun9828 29 күн бұрын

@@amyrose3166 just wish to know. Like can the name be that bad for a pastor to refuse.....

@OnyinyeAgu-ex8co 2 ай бұрын

Thank you ma😩😩❤

@KomanaKTetteh_KokazTreatz 2 ай бұрын

Exactly. Separate God from the human being 🙌🏽 Honor them, respect them but do not think they are incapable of falling short of glory

@bangibabs 2 ай бұрын

Thank you Lord for this word🥹❤️🙏🏾

@vivianchepkoech4018 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing. Please talk about church hunting when in a new location not necessarily in a different country

@Marie_Tee 2 ай бұрын

Amazing 👌🏾

@amazingfamekitchenodunola 2 ай бұрын

My own story of church hurt is even from a pastor and his wife ……I went through hell, I’m sure I’ll share this with you one day cos during SMS one on one ……. How could you be telling lies about me in front of the whole church as a married woman, he literally called my name in the church and said XYZ …. Like how on earth 🌍 is that? Until my husband said no no we are done here ….. but that never stop me from loving Jesus cos I later realized they had a bargage they are carrying and they are just transferring that on their members 😢the church is not standing again ……I’m not shaming them tho but some people need therapy but they don’t wanna admit…. I pray they see light 💡

@Feast550 2 ай бұрын

Mama you're glowing 😍🥰 what is your skincare routine?

@Abbycare-g4j 2 ай бұрын

Yes. It is real

@Tchibazz-TV 2 ай бұрын

Beautiful ❤❤❤

@RachelShaningwa 2 ай бұрын

As for me my pastor hurts me and chased me out of church. My christian family rejected me, I really went through so much pain. As am speaking I don't know where to go anymore, because I went to another church and he still came after me and I was hurt more.

@fortuneoguibe5013 2 ай бұрын

Hey Rachel. What exactly is the issue? Why’s he chasing you?

@RachelShaningwa 2 ай бұрын

@@fortuneoguibe5013few weeks after my baptism, he accused me of bewitching him and his family and he said am destroying the church of Christ. I was in shock because I have never been a witch. He wrote a text message warning people to stay away from me, people started preaching about me... I went through a lot of pain

@EatwithEdem 2 ай бұрын

Hmmmm church hurt is real . I have chosen to serve God and ignore anything that has to do with mortals and their attitudes in Church so I don’t think anyone’s attitude can take me away from GOD 🙏🫂

@oyinlolablessing1189 Ай бұрын

Solutions❤️

@___tems 2 ай бұрын

Church hurt is so so real 😢 my sis went through this and it affected her for years but we thank God for his mercies to overcome the pain and hurt and look unto him(Jesus) not thinking about any other thing

@Wunmigoldempire 2 ай бұрын

Solutions,this video is everything people should stop placing people in place of God. Just do you SIMPLE.

@opemmiscorner4514 2 ай бұрын

What about a pastor dehumanising workers who fall or fail, and the pastor and church condemn, crucify and judge this worker and send them out, Suspend or disband them.... Church hurts. Know christ for yourself fellowship with God... Associate with like minds serve God.... but I don't necessarily need to commit to a Church once the church hurts me I quickly disassociated with that church no bad blood and look for another bible living church.... Activities isn't salvation.... Yes, I will serve but not at the detriment of my salvation. Thank you for sharing.

@kelechiitiba7799 Ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@faithandlove3727 Ай бұрын

First, it’s expedient we remember that the church more like a hospital. Everyone there is either treating people or getting treated. Our Lord Jesus was betrayed by his own “church treasurer”, his assistant pastor as it were denied him thrice. Our resolve should be to stick with the Lord and the principles of the word. Nothing should drive us away from the gathering of believers. Nothing!

@haircarebymimi408 Ай бұрын

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@TheAdeJohn 2 ай бұрын

Being hurt by a pastor or church member is not the most common problem in the church; rather, it is more common for pastors to use spiritual means to control and manipulate church members. It’s rare to find a pastor or prophet today who does not use some form of spiritual manipulation to control their congregation. Many of them visit spiritualists to get spiritual help to sustain their churches. It’s only when you get close to pastors that you begin to realize the questionable spiritual practices they engage in behind the scenes to maintain their church membership.

@onyinyechin4610 2 ай бұрын

Please you have to be sure of what you are saying. When you say many, have you seen those many people consulting Spiritualists? Did you go with them? Or are you assuming? As much as Satan has decided to plants weed, there are a lot of good men of God that still operate with the power of God. Don't let your mind accept defeat. There's is a good God and there are still the 7000 Prophets who haven't bowed to Baal.

@TheAdeJohn 2 ай бұрын

@@onyinyechin4610 I think you're speaking according to your age and belief in God. You still lack the experience to understand what goes on behind the scenes of Christianity. As you grow older, you'll understand the tricks of the religion. You can continue quoting the bible now. I pray that your eyes eventually get opened. Some of these things come with age and maturity.

@mariettekaosisonna774 2 ай бұрын

First to comment. Let me watch & learn. Happy Sunday Solutions.

@Sami_Afolabi 2 ай бұрын

Watching for educational purposes.. Was in church yesterday and they were talking about this whole chosen stuff and how believers should stop joining people in making "Mockery" sort of and never get associated with anything that has to do with dragging or questioning any man of God in quote. And I was somehow disturbed. So, does that mean that people should now not be held accountable? As long as they are men of God? Lol. Feels somehow to me. Like, someone is somehow doing what is not right, so as long as you're a believer, and they're men of God, you should just shut your mouth and be looking? Every human is meant to be accountable in my Opinion no matter the status. And people do and undo when they don't. Looking for clarity regarding this.

@Detela_svelte 2 ай бұрын

You are right. However, two wrongs doesn’t make a right. To correct a wrong , you don’t mock. You pray if you are not close to the person. You talk gently if the person is in close proximity. Most importantly, let your approach be inspired by the Holy Spirit. Jesting and Mockery is not the way to go. The devil can use that to water down the essence of the subject matter, which is ‘Miracles’

@EstherOghosaGOW 2 ай бұрын

People should be held accountable and that can and should be done without mockery and ridicule. Mockery just pushes people farther from the right direction. And in as much as evert human is to be accountable, not everyone is to be accountable to everyone. Accountability is based on authority, relationship, submission All in all, the best we can do is to ask the Holy Spirit on what to do. And He'll direct us