A Conversation about: Marriage, Parenting and Learning to Love Yourself

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Seen & Heard with Tami & Tessanne

Seen & Heard with Tami & Tessanne

Күн бұрын

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@christineweston6692
@christineweston6692 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for all the lovely comments. I appreciate and love you all. Nana.
@Rose-vv5ok
@Rose-vv5ok Жыл бұрын
Love you Nana! 💕💕💕… hope to see you here again ❤
@giselleduff1001
@giselleduff1001 Жыл бұрын
You have no idea how healing it is for so many people to see the way you allow your grown children to flourish as their true selves, and not judge them or shame them. We don't all have that blessing. The way you and Mr. Chin seem to have protected them from the toxicity of a split spilling onto them (even now) is incredible. And finally the fact you actually WANT them to put themselves first instead of berating them for not doing life in exactly the same way you did. Priceless. Lovely conversation to witness 🩷
@bevblanchardholt6518
@bevblanchardholt6518 Жыл бұрын
We love you more! You are a beautiful person, it just shines through, can’t fake that and you’re also an awesome Mom!
@beverleyreid8258
@beverleyreid8258 Жыл бұрын
I'm Beverley Christine, so I feel a deep connection to you Nana. Love you and thanks for sharing your heart to us. Love, love, love you.
@kenziidiizynz5266
@kenziidiizynz5266 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing with us and expressing your vulnerability… so many of us out here, even younger feels the same, feeling a lack of love but knowing we are 😢😢
@bebebe1354
@bebebe1354 Жыл бұрын
I’m 47 and my parents never told me they loved me, never told me they are proud of me. I have achieved so many goals but never heard the words. I know they are happy for me but never said it. I have one child almost off to college and she is awesome and I tell her very often how I’m so proud of her. She will also tell me how good of a mom I am. I treat her whenever she does well and she also treats me 😂. She took me to chick fil a today because I got a promotion at work. She is very thoughtful and also thankful. ❤❤❤
@traminamcintosh3942
@traminamcintosh3942 Жыл бұрын
Very proud of you, even tho I don’t know you . For you to express that it’s a lot. From a mom to a mom congratulations on all your accomplishments especially being a great mom.
@bebebe1354
@bebebe1354 Жыл бұрын
@@traminamcintosh3942 Thank you for your kind words. All the best to you..
@true1boss
@true1boss Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on all you've achieved in life and being a mom,I love you ❤❤❤,even thou I don't personally know you. God bless
@bebebe1354
@bebebe1354 Жыл бұрын
@@true1boss 😇thank you so much. Love you too, first cousin.
@andrepalmer7796
@andrepalmer7796 Жыл бұрын
I am a 32 year old man watching this and I couldn’t help but cry… this is just beautiful… thanks for this therapy session…
@christineweston6692
@christineweston6692 Жыл бұрын
Awww Andre, so pleased you listened in and commented. My oldest son's middle name is Andre, too. Much love ❤️ Nana
@earthstrong_nat
@earthstrong_nat Жыл бұрын
Boy Tami I don't think you have a bigger fan than me. I just love your heart and your mind. The world needs more people like you. Awesome talk!!!
@dorethastewart3376
@dorethastewart3376 Жыл бұрын
Agree
@skilol7669
@skilol7669 Жыл бұрын
We need another episode before she leaves please. so amazing. natural setting. pure and genuine. Amazing Amazing Amazing 👏
@julineplunkett3114
@julineplunkett3114 Жыл бұрын
I agree am here for it all day
@narnar8915
@narnar8915 Жыл бұрын
So pure
@jenwilli9832
@jenwilli9832 Жыл бұрын
There is so much gems from Nana..1.As a mother to an adult child, I didn't know what I was doing but she turned out fantastic. 2. Divorced at 49, 2nd time around is possible and can be great. Its been years and I struggle with 2nd marriage. 3.Dont take your spouse for granted.4. Know and appreciate their love language.
@godbless4608
@godbless4608 Жыл бұрын
Tami really looks like Nana 😍
@anavick9414
@anavick9414 Жыл бұрын
@@godbless4608 she does😊
@maxinehall5382
@maxinehall5382 Жыл бұрын
Nana you are FABULOUS❤❤❤
@srrfounder1
@srrfounder1 Жыл бұрын
I have a similar upbringing to Nana. My parents didn't tell me they loved me either. It was a generational thing NO DOUBT, which of course did not serve us well, but I too STILL have tears when I think about it, even at 65. You're not alone, Christine, BIG virtual hugs! 💚💚💚
@julzki9679
@julzki9679 Жыл бұрын
Fffiffjwmn😅
@julzki9679
@julzki9679 Жыл бұрын
Gg 23:21 23:21 mjjjjjjjjjjjynjjm hi
@lucilleebanks3860
@lucilleebanks3860 Жыл бұрын
Tammi I enjoyed the conversation you had with your mom.Such inspiring one
@michellejackson2099
@michellejackson2099 Жыл бұрын
I can tell Nana is such an awesome mom
@AngelaTheMessenger
@AngelaTheMessenger Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tami and Nana. This was a rare and valuable gift. An honest and powerful display of pure love, brilliance, wisdom, growth and self-reflection and generosity. You are helping me to re-raise myself. Love you from here to beyond the moon. Truly.
@graceanderson3285
@graceanderson3285 Жыл бұрын
that was indeed lovely!!!
@yvonnelawson7438
@yvonnelawson7438 Жыл бұрын
I just thank you both for such honesty and true genuine love. Nana reminds me of my mom who passed away in 2020. I cried when Nana said she wish she put herself at the top of the list. Such wisdom and candor, I know that we as the viewers are so blessed to experience all her wonderful knowledge. The immediate family is so fortunate to have her in their lives. Tami, you are a great mother and it's no wonder, your mom is a GEM....Thank you for sharing her with us..I am definitely an MTM cousin...Love you all....
@judithshaw5449
@judithshaw5449 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so, so much for this very special episode. I am the same age as Nana , it was lovely to hear her views on the topic discussed. You are a loving caring family who are not afraid to display love and affection. Nice one Tami and mum
@lindaflowers5268
@lindaflowers5268 Жыл бұрын
This episode gave a lot of feelings. Wow. I am so happy for free therapy. Who knew covid also gave some positive residue. I stumbled on meet the mitchells during lock down. I have been a faithful student and cousin since then. I can't thank you enough for sharing. Much appreciated.
@JulesE17
@JulesE17 Жыл бұрын
This was so lovely watch, love Nana!! I especially liked the part about the awareness of parenting the child in front of you or possibly the child within- that puts a lot into perspective both as a daughter and a mother. The whole family, extended family included- is such a blessing ❤️
@Usernotfoundhereany76
@Usernotfoundhereany76 Жыл бұрын
Mi just love deh video yah so so much. Touching touching touching
@eliseparkeclough8907
@eliseparkeclough8907 Жыл бұрын
I truly love these honest conversations. Wish many families could have these experiences
@AHT88951
@AHT88951 Жыл бұрын
So true Nana Fowl. I grew up with my grandparents from 3 months and they always told me they loved me. My parents never did 😒. My grandmother always told me to tell my children from the conception that I love them. Even when I punish them, I give them time to think about what they did wrong. Then as parents, we sit them down and ask what they did wrong and why they were punished and we always end with a hug and a huge I LOVE YOU!!
@blackbeauty826
@blackbeauty826 Жыл бұрын
This comment derverse a Grammy good parenting skills
@KINGDOMDAUGHTER
@KINGDOMDAUGHTER Жыл бұрын
Plus pray for them and with them. LOVE ENCOMPASS ALL THINGS. LOVE IS THE CORNER STONE & FOUNDATION OF A BALANCE LIFE & Family Thanks for your post and sharing with us We love you
@Trinity25Apr
@Trinity25Apr Жыл бұрын
Oh Nana your recollections remind me of my mum. She was one of 8 and she spent her early life trying to find a sense of love or approval from her mother. She came to the UK in 1958 from Trinidad. My father followed her here. They were married for 25 years before he returned to Trinidad...long story. They never had good communication and that impacted me and my sister. They never had the tools to discuss, they went from a seated position to stratospheric in zero seconds. Nana and Pa grew up together and then grew apart, they never lost sight of their unbreakable bond with their greatest accomplishment, their children, and they tempered their separation accordingly. Their new partners are very fortunate that they have married the graduates from an outstanding relationship. 👏🏼 Watching the two of you share your experience is so delightful. Cherish these times.
@sherondasilva7517
@sherondasilva7517 Жыл бұрын
I love this mother daughter talk, thumbs up.
@dmw9803
@dmw9803 Жыл бұрын
" ...... Big belly a wear .... DWL😂😂😂😂😂. Tami and Nana are soooooo real, love the way you say it as it is . ...😘🇯🇲🇬🇧
@berryberry7180
@berryberry7180 Жыл бұрын
Bwoy yuh jus knock it out again...lessons learned: 1. Parent the child in front of you not the one inside of you. 2. Communication is powerful but not the only key to successful relationships. 3. We are gaining age not getting old..🔥🔥🔥🔥💗
@654KAC
@654KAC Жыл бұрын
My lord! This was such a beautiful episode/video. Just beautiful! I cried when Nana cried but we LOVE you Nana. You’re so loved, even from a distance. You’re loved!
@Omega7ish
@Omega7ish Жыл бұрын
So LOVED! ❤
@Kaemti888
@Kaemti888 Жыл бұрын
Your mom is a beautiful soul. She is a GEM! You are blessed to have her ❤
@EverybodyLuvsFriday
@EverybodyLuvsFriday Жыл бұрын
I especially appreciate the conversation on conscious unpairing. This isn't spoken of much these days, especially in Carribean culture. Thank you for this Nana and Tami 🙏🏾💖
@afimiown4294
@afimiown4294 Жыл бұрын
Nana please Grace us with your presence again before you leave. This climbed all the way to my top favorite TTE video.
@torilee2431
@torilee2431 Жыл бұрын
I admire the fact that your mum comes to be there for her daughter’s births. Mine wasn’t there for one and she lives 3 hours felt away. I had them 17months apart and with my husband and I we did it and still doing it because they are only 1 &2. Consider yourselves blessed.
@julineplunkett3114
@julineplunkett3114 Жыл бұрын
Awe am so sorry to hear that blessing to you and your family am sure y’all doing well now
@bebebe1354
@bebebe1354 Жыл бұрын
Oh my… blessings to you and your family ❤❤❤
@torilee2431
@torilee2431 Жыл бұрын
@@julineplunkett3114 thanks a lot. Let me tell you God is in the midst of my little family and I would have it no other way. Blessings to your family as well ❤️
@torilee2431
@torilee2431 Жыл бұрын
@@bebebe1354 thanks a lot love. We are doing great. Listen god don’t make mistakes. I love my mom forever.
@giselleduff1001
@giselleduff1001 Жыл бұрын
It may be a blessing in disguise. No one overruling you or trying to edit the mother and wife YOU want to be. It's hard but you get to be you. You must have a special husband as well 🙏🏼
@KeyrahAyana
@KeyrahAyana Жыл бұрын
Our parents did their best emotionally with what they had. My mother told me she loved us five months prior to her death at 91 years old yet, growing up as a child we knew she loved us by the things she did. She was the wisest woman I knew. Missing you so much mama with tears.
@JulesE17
@JulesE17 Жыл бұрын
So true, they did the best they could with what they had ❤️ so happy you got to hear the words although you knew she loved you.
@lydias.w.7524
@lydias.w.7524 Жыл бұрын
16:21 Nana that's a fact. Becoming mothers, we truly believe that the only person that matters is our children.
@natashajoseph-deleon6572
@natashajoseph-deleon6572 Жыл бұрын
I love this little sit down with Tami and Nana Fowl. I felt everything that was said. Thank you for your vulnerability Nana. I felt your tears because they are also mine. Thank you for raising such beautiful children inside and out. Looking forward to more sit downs. #MTMFAMILY Love and Blessings 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️💞🇨🇦🇯🇲🇹🇹
@sharonfearon3263
@sharonfearon3263 Жыл бұрын
Vulnerability
@kerrileestewart9544
@kerrileestewart9544 Жыл бұрын
Mothering is the most challenging thing I’ve ever attempted. At night when it’s quiet you question was I too stern, did I nurture him, did I celebrate him. Ugh. But it’s oh so rewarding. Someone told me once if you’re thinking about it you’re doing it right.
@sonecessarycreative
@sonecessarycreative Жыл бұрын
Same😩
@sandratomlinson2633
@sandratomlinson2633 Жыл бұрын
It was such a great conversation with Tami and Nana i would sit a whole day listening to both of you i enjoyed it a lot may the lord bless and keep the family
@aryahcass2115
@aryahcass2115 Жыл бұрын
You are not alone Kerrilee. Same here.
@jacquiedunn5193
@jacquiedunn5193 Жыл бұрын
​@@sandratomlinson2633me too.
@stacybrady528
@stacybrady528 Жыл бұрын
That's literally me right now. I have a 7 yr old daughter and now 6 months pregnant with another daughter. I worry at times if im doing things right. Many times, others looking from the outside in says I'm doing great, but I guess in most cases, we are our biggest critic.
@diannbrown1227
@diannbrown1227 Жыл бұрын
Tammy talking is really one of your God given gifts. Your gift continues to uplift us as beloved Tacklers. Continue to reach out to using your methods. Guess what Tammy see how best you can get sponsorship to have a television program Tackling Parenting in Jamaica . Or a Theme of your choice. The television program would be of assistance to parents... What do you think?
@EverybodyLuvsFriday
@EverybodyLuvsFriday Жыл бұрын
I loved this episode! Having Nana on while she's here is such a blessing. I would love another Story Time with Nana or Pops on how all of you came to have names starting with T 🙏🏾
@bellanona17
@bellanona17 Жыл бұрын
Good afternoon, Tacklers!!! Have an amazing weekend!!! ❤️
@sharontate6442
@sharontate6442 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tami and Nana such a wonderful convo full of wisdom and love. Have a great weekend❤️❤️
@crystala4058
@crystala4058 Жыл бұрын
I love Nana Fowl so much. She's so wise and has a beautiful soul. Look at the legacy her love created. And to hear her say that she still suffers from feeling unloved hurts my heart. It's crazy how our old hurts can dwell with us throughout our lifetime.
@jujusworld9605
@jujusworld9605 Жыл бұрын
Wheeewwww! That was one emotional conversation. It's amazing how much respect your mom still has for your dad. Your mom is soo full of wisdom and emotions. Which is a good thing. I wish my parents told me they loved me growing up. Even now my parents don't even show signs of emotional vulnerability. I try not to be that way with my kid. What I would have liked to have with my parents as a kid, I try to be with my daughter.
@normacoote9856
@normacoote9856 Жыл бұрын
Don’t feel badly . Wherever you are from in the island of Jamaica, things were the same. Parents rarely expressed love publicly in those 50’s, 60’s , 70’s, and prior to those decades etc. They showed love in the meals prepared , keeping us clean, sending us to school & church.
@JusTess876
@JusTess876 Жыл бұрын
This conversation had me evaluating myself, relationship, child raising and I must say that a lot of what was said resonated with me so much that I felt as though you were reading chapters from my story. Thank you Nana Fowl for sharing bits and pieces of your story with us, I love you and I’ve never met you. Thanks for sharing your mom with us Tami. Nana I agree Ivy is Tami’s twin with a sprinkle of Wayne & a dash of Tessanne.
@lydias.w.7524
@lydias.w.7524 Жыл бұрын
Wow!!!! This convo makes me teary-eyed.
@MsDrobertson522
@MsDrobertson522 Жыл бұрын
The oxygen mask analogy hit me hard!! I let a lot of myself go for my kids, and it was not the best thing. I have told my children to learn from my mistakes. Thank you for addressing this🙏🏾💕
@vidadowe7173
@vidadowe7173 Жыл бұрын
Awesome conversation 👏 👌 👍 🙌
@deesweptaway
@deesweptaway Жыл бұрын
This was an emotional and insightful conversation. I love Nana's honesty. My Mum passed away in 2018 two days after her birthday and I was the last person she spoke to when I called her on her birthday. I really got to know her as a person, not just a Mum once I was an adult, and we had honest conversations and it gave me a much deeper understanding of her. I wish that we would have had more time for these. I had parents who separated and then reconnected years later and became closer than ever in the later years of their lives, so I can relate to Tami's parents in that respect as well. Life and people are complicated. These moments are treasures
@jenniferwiilis5267
@jenniferwiilis5267 Жыл бұрын
That’s one thing I think children forget that mommy is a person too and we also have feelings and needs
@EverybodyLuvsFriday
@EverybodyLuvsFriday Жыл бұрын
Nana is such a grounding Spirit. I look forward to living long enough to enjoy when the gaps between my children close.
@stephaniecumberb9709
@stephaniecumberb9709 Жыл бұрын
The best Tami Tackles yet and they have all been great!
@ingridmartin2985
@ingridmartin2985 Жыл бұрын
That is so true. You don't know how much you are affecting your kids until they are grown.
@bevblanchardholt6518
@bevblanchardholt6518 Жыл бұрын
Hey nah, I could sit and talk with Tami and Nana all day on these topics. Thoroughly enjoyed this chat.
@celiabrown5657
@celiabrown5657 Жыл бұрын
My mom didn't tell me she loved me either but I knew she did, she was grown by strangers,her mom died when she was a toddler. Now that i am grown and she is no longer with us, That woman God bless her, she instilled morals and values in her children and that as help us to raise our children.
@charmainefrancis-thorney9917
@charmainefrancis-thorney9917 Жыл бұрын
This Family is sooooo different starting with NanaFowl and Daddy (and their new spouses) Then Tami and Wayne ( with Gio, his mom and her Family). All get along 🙄🤗💕💕💕💕👏🏼👏🏿👏
@nicolawilliams5535
@nicolawilliams5535 Жыл бұрын
I identify with this episode. Being a parent is one of the hardest jobs in the world and for most of us mistakes are inevitable. My only hope is that my son knows how much I love him.
@kenziidiizynz5266
@kenziidiizynz5266 Жыл бұрын
😢😢 the feeling that you lack love and not thinking your loved made me bawl because I give so much love and always feel like I’m getting none in return but yet I believe that I am loved 😢😢 …
@mushymoshy
@mushymoshy Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tami & Nana for being open and sharing your realness. l❤both MTM family & Tami Tackles Everything🎉🎉❤
@SusanChung01
@SusanChung01 Жыл бұрын
I'm not married nor a parent but such a good episode. And you can see that from long time tami mommy love language was words of affirmation as she said earlier. She later said she didn't knw she was doing well with her kids until the first one said ...I love u mom..awwwe Need to call my mom🥺😭
@Linda-mc
@Linda-mc Жыл бұрын
I broke down when nana said she never felt cause I didn’t either and struggle still but I be all over my daughter cause she gonna know even though it gets on her nerves ~ love you nana ❤
@Lmr9000
@Lmr9000 Жыл бұрын
Tami, you must be me!! I’m a little tough on my kids regarding schoolwork because I didn’t get that growing up and hubby refuses to involve himself - he’s the consummate hard worker and provider. At the same time, I missed the expressions of love and the physical touch that mum spoke about missing too; btw I cried when she teared up too. Thanks also for the reminder about the 5 Love Languages - must revisit with hubby. This was a good, non-judgmental session. Thanks for doing it!
@nays2264
@nays2264 Жыл бұрын
This was absolutely lovely to watch and listen to! My mom passed away 15 years ago and now having become a mother myself I wish I could have such a moment with her! I laughed, I cried and I felt encouraged. Thank you ladies for sharing
@onelove835
@onelove835 Жыл бұрын
Sorry I missed you both while you were live! I enjoyed the history very much! Grateful and Blessed watching you both this afternoon! With hands clasped!
@andreamiller135
@andreamiller135 Жыл бұрын
Nana - you were the parent Tami needed and Tami you were the child Nana needed to become the person she is today. Likewise Tami - you are the parent each of your kids need and your kids are children you need to grow into who you are becoming. That’s how God works I feel 🥰 Wonderful conversation- it’s so important that we all see our parents as people at some point in our lives. Whole humans who have dreams, have fears, make mistakes, make corrections, are imperfectly perfect.
@christineweston6692
@christineweston6692 Жыл бұрын
This is my belief, too, Andrea. I tell my children this too. I even think we chose our parents, but that's just me with my analytical mind. Nana.
@Omega7ish
@Omega7ish Жыл бұрын
Here, here. So well said! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@veeanderson2874
@veeanderson2874 Жыл бұрын
What a wonderful woman love you Nana lots of hugs and kisses ❤
@berydale
@berydale Жыл бұрын
Nana and Tami, I too am a few years younger than Nana. I fully endorse what Nana says. A mother's mental wellness is absolutely paramount. Thereafter, husband and children entwine. Albeit, children didn't ask to come and therefore it is a duty of care that is a given to be provided by both mum and dad. When young as a parent, we hardly get it right. Even now as an adult I love my mum from afar. I do not hug her! Long story! My children, I give them hugs and kisses in abundance. Thank you ladies for sharing your life. I would love to hear more about Nana's parents...... Blessings to you both. You are both therapy in abundance. 🙏🏽
@Yawdieooman1979
@Yawdieooman1979 Жыл бұрын
I had to stop the video before the end. Man oh man. Mi cry because I experienced some of what Nana was talking about. Never heard I love you growing up or got any hugs. Never truly felt loved either. It was one of my daughters asking me, “mommy how come you don’t tell grandma you love her?” that started me saying it to my mom. We would write it in cards or letters to each other but never said it verbally. It was so awkward in the beginning. Over time it became more natural. My mom passed in 2018 and I see the love my kids had for her mimic the love I had for my grandma who raised me during the crucial early adolescence years. Thanks for this episode Tami and Nana. God blessings to the entire MTM family-immediate and extended!! Love oonu bad bad!!🥰♥️🙏🏾
@diannbrown1227
@diannbrown1227 Жыл бұрын
Tammy tell your parents how much I love them. No family is perfect but as a family you're allowing us as Tacklers to know your beautiful parents... continue to cherish them and the wonderful family moments you have.
@michellesmall76
@michellesmall76 Жыл бұрын
I love nana’s vulnerability and openness...not prettying up anything ❤.... love her ... stay true
@marisolania2696
@marisolania2696 Жыл бұрын
Well Tami I am a therapist and that was so deep as Nana say. What will stick with me forever is “You have to remember to parent the child in front of you not only the one inside you”. Wow I will certainly carry that one with me! Nana Fowl have such a loving, gentle and humble spirit. I could’ve listened to you two for hours!!!
@jalgal876
@jalgal876 Жыл бұрын
This has been the best episode for me, It brought me to tears, thinking of the relationship with my Mom and the issues we had, I wish we could have spoken like this before she passed last year. Thank you.
@herrettahunt7533
@herrettahunt7533 Жыл бұрын
This is my favorite episode, this reminds me of much of my mom she didn’t get the love and support growing up. She had 12 of us and I know it was very hard for her, as I grew older I realized that she did the best she could with what she knew. I got so emotional just watching this love you guys.
@giselleduff1001
@giselleduff1001 Жыл бұрын
Tami, consider yourself immensely blessed with an emotionally mature mother who understands you have grown into your OWN person, with your own hopes, dreams, goals and beliefs. She seems to accept you for exactly who you are, and not who she wants to forcibly mould you to be. Don't overlook how huge that is, ever.
@christineweston6692
@christineweston6692 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Giselle. 😊 Nana
@rhondasargeant7488
@rhondasargeant7488 Жыл бұрын
Nana. Listening to you feels like you are telling a lot of my story. A lotof your story is so similar to mine. I'm now 57. I got married at 18. I have 4 kids and 4 grandkids. I always wanted to be a wife and mom. I'm divorced. I also grew up feeling unloved, and still battle with that feeling. I'm hoping to find someone and be married again. I relate to you in so many ways.
@trulysensitive5620
@trulysensitive5620 Жыл бұрын
Four generations of unintentional mistakes. We forgive all our generation for not knowing what to do . BUT GOD. Nana, You have spoken the truth. This conversation has continued to free mom. Healing is continuous. I love you Nana.
@trulysensitive5620
@trulysensitive5620 Жыл бұрын
Tami, I am so marveled at the genetic makeup of the family. Your first son has the genes of the little Cherokee that your dad spoke about. The family tree is so , so rich. God bless your family. Tami thanks for what you do. Also Wayne, thanks for planning that trip and Ivy came along. God is so so gooood.
@bever-leighwisdom5157
@bever-leighwisdom5157 Жыл бұрын
I hope that every family in Jamaica watches this video. This sit down was needed. Love you Nana❤️ definitely one more episode before she leaves 😉
@fayelyons9166
@fayelyons9166 Жыл бұрын
I love this mother/daughter session. Nana is so cool and I love how candid she is, love her. Tami she's such a gem.
@ben23442
@ben23442 Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Tami and Nana. It was a great conversation, I learned a lot from this
@RayRayAmbeau
@RayRayAmbeau Жыл бұрын
Tammi and Mom, OMG!!!! This was so needed. I wanted to respond about doing things when you didn't witness growing up. I was a kind of a scandal baby because my mom had me in her teens. I knew she loved me, even when she didn't say it. When I became a mom(late in life) I tell my daughter every day I love her. Tammi, this came naturally to me. My mom witnessing this began to say I love you more often❤ This episode was very therapeutic, Thank you!!!
@juniormurray9820
@juniormurray9820 Жыл бұрын
I just subscribe Tami. Like the young man who posted a comment before, I am almost moved to tears by this discussion with your mom. I am male and will, if I live, be 64 this year. Nothing beats heartfelt, honest and open conversation. Your mom sounds very much like my late mom and her relationship with my grandmother. She never heard “Polly, I love you.” And she vowed that she would never make that mistake with my brother and I, and she never did. She made mistakes all of her own, very painful ones for me, but her love was indisputable and undeniable. I see elements of both of you in my mother. Tami, when I see you with your children, especially in your kitchen, it takes me home. And now, the tears are flowing. Thank you both for sharing.
@simsimma2159
@simsimma2159 Жыл бұрын
I’m enjoying this vlog with Nana. I’m hoping you can do one with all the sisters and Nana before she goes back to England.
@AHT88951
@AHT88951 Жыл бұрын
I would love to meet you Christine.
@shanteljohnson3171
@shanteljohnson3171 Жыл бұрын
Everyday I thank God for people like nana who can sit and talk these things out loud. Because honestly we need to understand these things and words of wisdom can never be too much. I really appreciate you both❤️❤️❤️
@sandrajackson2695
@sandrajackson2695 Жыл бұрын
I always enjoy watching/listening to Tami tackles everything. Beautiful conversations💕
@karrineconceptualizingcrea3944
@karrineconceptualizingcrea3944 Жыл бұрын
This is such a touching conversation. It brought a lot to light in being a mother or parent in general . Nana seemed to have concentrated on the individual person each of her children were and shaped them to be their unique selves, which so many mothers find difficult to do because they end up doing what society, at the time, thinks is best or the "norm" to do.
@7nobu344
@7nobu344 Жыл бұрын
1000 hugs and a million I love you’s to Nana. I hope you know how much you are needed in this space. This tackle was therapy for us all. Thank you both so much😘😘😘
@christineweston6692
@christineweston6692 Жыл бұрын
Thank-you, for all the hugs and I love yous'. I appreciate you so much. Nana
@milli6415
@milli6415 Жыл бұрын
Water fell from my eyes when Nana almost cried. Look at how things can affect us that happen all 50 years ago....my mother loved me, but i did feel like she put my stepfather before me...awww bwoy...God bless Tami and Nana for this very informative and interesting segment!! Am sure a lot of parents will benefit and learn from it
@lloydiciaarcher
@lloydiciaarcher Жыл бұрын
I still suffer from feeling unloved... that never goes away. THIS HIT SO HARD!!
@lyndaclarke9279
@lyndaclarke9279 Жыл бұрын
The eye is for Tami but everything else is for Wayne.I want to see another podcast before mommy go back to England.
@raphiel__
@raphiel__ Жыл бұрын
It’s so beautiful that mom and daughter can have such deep conversations.
@karenharris9569
@karenharris9569 Жыл бұрын
I did not feel that I was love by no one. And it hurts me a lot, but I'm over come it by the help of God. I have 4 children and I ❤❤❤❤them 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@TobyTV
@TobyTV Жыл бұрын
I’m going to record my moms stories because one day that will be all we have. Memories.
@shann218
@shann218 Жыл бұрын
I think this conversation should be inevitable between parents and adult children. It not only benefits the child but the parent also, and does prompt a feeling of fulfillment after. My methods of raising my children was not a copy of what I endured, I had to plan a whole different approach. I couldn't imagine my kids living my childhood. I say all that to say, our parents probably did their best, maybe they could've done better but it's important to know why, the reason behind the madness, it'll lead to understanding and empathy. And for all my fellow boy moms out there, let the boys cry, it doesn't take away from their strength and future dignity. ❤❤❤
@afimiown4294
@afimiown4294 Жыл бұрын
This is such a perfect episode for our 1 year anniversary of this channel!!!!
@sharontrimmingham2766
@sharontrimmingham2766 Жыл бұрын
Hey Tammie the the five love languages came about because Gary Chapman’s Marriage was in trouble and as a marriage counselor he and his wife had to go through counsel conversation and lot of pray, to save their marriage.
@hillaryrichards9295
@hillaryrichards9295 Жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful Nana so good to see you Tami and Tess is so lucky you are awesome nuff love great vibes ❤️🙏🏿😘
@srrfounder1
@srrfounder1 Жыл бұрын
Can you discuss with Nana why she moved to England, and how you ended up back in Jamaica? Thank you ☺️
@AHT88951
@AHT88951 Жыл бұрын
I spent my last pregnancy doing 15 weeks on my back with my legs up in the air.
@sashie3304
@sashie3304 Жыл бұрын
I can relate to most of this. I am just about to be 30 and my pregnancies were death threats always to my health. I vomit and lost tremendous weight and I had preeclampsia throughout so my babies were always left in the hospital for months when I went home. My second child; I am now learning to love her because I never had any support, no family, no one and I wasn’t waking up after my emergency C-section so I never saw her until like a week after she was born. I enjoyed this conversation
@Angela-bc7ff
@Angela-bc7ff Жыл бұрын
Wow… this conversation! I have too much to say! Thank you Tami and nana for being so open and honest and showing your vulnerable sides. Nana fowl you are such a Gem, and you have raised amazing children, and believe me you are so loved ❤🤗🥰
@kereanmiller1120
@kereanmiller1120 Жыл бұрын
I can relate mommy because I'm going through the same thing! I never had that love from parents or family, but even though I'm still struggling with it until this day. I love my 2 boy's with every drop of blood in my veins and, I tell them every chance I get. Thank you Tami and, mommy for having this discussion! ❤️🙏
@shanaedyer
@shanaedyer Жыл бұрын
Good afternoon Tami and Nana. Looking forward to hearing this.
@crystalxyz3286
@crystalxyz3286 Жыл бұрын
Good Evening from Cape Town, Love and Blessing to everyone. Looking forward to this vlog. 🙏💖
@bevblanchardholt6518
@bevblanchardholt6518 Жыл бұрын
Gosh I felt those tears Nana. They touched me to my core. I fully identify with your experience and conscious decision to hug and say I love you to your kids.Big hugs Nana! You’re loved!
@heavenly8146
@heavenly8146 Жыл бұрын
Wow! This episode was really interesting and fun .. I will sure to tune in again… Such blessings 🙌🏻👏🏽🙌🏻👏🏽🌷
@trinisparkz40
@trinisparkz40 Жыл бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed this. I agree with everything, especially when Tami says you're parenting the child within. You're doing what you wish someone had done for you. I have said many a time that as I raise my son, I am working through some of my own childhood traumas and fears etc. To see Nana tear up... waw... we often think that the older generations have it all figured out and just that moment was like, "Nope, I'm still working on it." I know you're all busy, but I would loveeeee to see a second sit down with Nana. This was awesome.
@audreyfoster424
@audreyfoster424 Жыл бұрын
Loved this episode. Great words of wisdom and insights from Tami and Nana. I very much appreciated Tami’s and Nana Fowl’s authenticity and candor on these topics that so many avoid. Another amazing episode! Blessings to you all❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@jillianhusbands7011
@jillianhusbands7011 Жыл бұрын
Please have another TTE with Nana before she leaves. This conversation was so profound. It just hit home i differently in so many ways. We need to connect with our loved ones before they (or we) depart from this earth. Life is so short.
@ameishablake2669
@ameishablake2669 Жыл бұрын
Awesome therapy session 😅❤😊
@reggaeog5604
@reggaeog5604 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful dialogue! Today, I saw Tessanne in Nana, so much.. the same demeanor, voice tone & personality. Also see, Mr. Chin in Tami! Wow. A beautiful family with strengths, ties, and bonds that will carry on forever. Blessings ❤️
@racquellaughtravellive
@racquellaughtravellive Жыл бұрын
I absolutely loved this... Nana made me cry when she said she was still consciously navigating that she is loved. I felt that to my core because I too do the same!
@annemorgan547
@annemorgan547 Жыл бұрын
Yeah!!’ Loving this 👏🏼🤗
@carollynch4710
@carollynch4710 Жыл бұрын
Real talk. Very motivating. I just love how Tami and her mom rap. Sweet mother and daughter. I love the bond
@AHT88951
@AHT88951 Жыл бұрын
Omg!! In high school I was known to be wanting 10 children!!
@JusTess876
@JusTess876 Жыл бұрын
Lol, I wanted 10 children also because I come from a huge family. Let’s just say I didn’t make it to 10.
@jeneffierjarrett555
@jeneffierjarrett555 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed the Conversation with Tami and her Mom, I wish my Mom was still here with us now. God bless you both, and the your family. Peace and Love.
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