A Covert Narcissist’s #1 Most HIDDEN Agenda, GUARANTEED

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Rebecca Zung

Rebecca Zung

Жыл бұрын

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@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
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@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
I'll see you all there!
@annacanale9780
@annacanale9780 Жыл бұрын
I would like that very much! Thank you 🙏
@taraarrington2285
@taraarrington2285 Жыл бұрын
Good thing about going through a massive smear campaign from these people is you no longer care about looking good cuz you understand that they've completely ruined your reputation and it's just not even worth it to try to convince people or defend yourself or whatever. So it pretty much fress you of not worrying what people think of you anymore. And it also makes you understand that if people who've known you for years were so willing to believe the lies in the smear campaign that you don't need those people around you anyway.
@stacygyuricza2187
@stacygyuricza2187 Жыл бұрын
Truth💯
@mmmsunshine5367
@mmmsunshine5367 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@annettegardiner7270
@annettegardiner7270 Жыл бұрын
Yes i agree 👍
@giftij
@giftij Жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I personally leant to love myself and dress for myself. What can beat that!
@ging-a-roo2429
@ging-a-roo2429 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for saying this….there has been several times that I wanted to go in my past and try to correct thing. I have stopped myself because I know it will just bring more turmoil. I can’t handle anymore trauma.
@caralee2617
@caralee2617 5 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, infidelity tends to go hand in hand with narcissism. Especially, somatic narcissism. Narcissists believe EVERYTHING they need is external, including self-worth, self-esteem, validation, etc. Those things are what make up our inner world and we are supposed to develop and cultivate them within/on our own. Narcissists DEPEND on people to supply those things for them. Because we cannot (nor, are we supposed to) supply every want/need of a partner, narcissists are always on the lookout for "better supply". They will always gravitate toward anyone they feel can meet the needs/wants their spouse isn't (and can't). Narcissists are unstable and they cannot soothe themselves. They cannot meet their own needs and their needs/wants are constantly changing. Narcissists are black holes. They are human abyss' of unmet needs/wants. Even if you gave them everything, they'd still want MORE... All while giving NOTHING in return. Narcissists are also pathologically bored. They do not experience boredom the way normal adults do. They're like children. Once they become bored, they tend to throw their toys (people) in a corner to collect dust. Then, they search for new ones... Untilllll, they realize that their newest toy isn't as fun. Or, it doesn't function as well as the old toy did. Then, they'll go digging in the corner to find that old toy (the reason their relationships tend to be off and on). People are objects meant to keep them occupied and entertained. The newer the toy, the better/more exciting it is. However, EVERYONE will inevitably lose their shine with the narcissist. You must accept their reality and realize that it's NOT ABOUT YOU and it never was. This is also the point when it becomes crucial to sit your ego on the curb. Your ego will want to fight to be seen. Your ego will want to fight to prove you're enough. Your ego will feel it's "worthy" of the narcissist and fight to "keep" them... But, again: IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU. Most narcissists are extremely irresponsible. Many of them marry to secure stability. Or, to have someone they can count on to help with bills to free up their resources. It also ensures they'll have somewhere safe to land when they fall - because they always f*** up... Do yourself a favor and pull that rug of security out from under them and save YOURSELF. Narcissists do not have a moral compass. They do not respect the union of marriage. It'll always be a one-sided arrangement with you being the giver that's making their life easier and them being the taker that's making your life harder. We deserve the same love, attention, support and understanding that we give our spouses. You will never get it from someone suffering with NPD. Moreover, if you feel sure that your husband might never cheat on you, you might have to rethink. Most wives in marriages are shocked when they find out their husband cheating, and it happens more with people who never thought they would cheat. This is why you have to take the tiniest suspicion carefully. If your husband is cheating on you, the best and probably the only guaranteed way to catch him is to spy on their phones. However, spying on a phone is not something you can do without any external help unless you have the James bond level of spy skills. In such case you will need an expert phone spyier Metaspyhub@gmail. com for the purpose,,,
@stellar9349
@stellar9349 Жыл бұрын
A covert narcissist wants to destroy you mind body and soul
@angiegreakcuellar2617
@angiegreakcuellar2617 Жыл бұрын
“No one will believe you”. Truer words never spoken …. They make you crazy. You are right
@ND-or5so
@ND-or5so Жыл бұрын
You really can't tell people who see them in a different light and know nothing about Covert Narcissism because you get nowhere with them as you have to try to explain to them what a Covert Narcissist is and convincing them that the person they know and see arenot the person they think they are and they tend to not to believe you. It's a lot of work to try to convince and educate these people who have no clue
@victoriavitoroulis3273
@victoriavitoroulis3273 Жыл бұрын
@@ND-or5so exactly .. explaining their mind games , you end up sounding crazy to ppl .. it’s like explaining a rainbow too someone is blind .
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@LOUIE-ox3me
@LOUIE-ox3me 8 ай бұрын
NO ONE BELIEVED ! DONT TRY ANYMORE STAY AWAY FROM THEM AND MY FAM TO WHY WOULD I LIE !! WITH COVERT NAR 33 ! LOST MYSELF ! 3:39 FOR YEARS YEARS
@qtaromar1970
@qtaromar1970 Жыл бұрын
i have a sister who is the covert narcissist, she calls herself an introvert and yet says everything about her life on social media, she goes on retreats with monks, always telling people how good she is, how nice she is, does spiritual outings and according to her she is sooo good at it that she finishes the program earlier than expected. Everything is about her, she lies, manipulates, gaslights and then is always the victim. She tries to change family dynamics and history to fit her victim persona. If you dare confront her she becomes, nasty and vindictive. She holds grudges and tries to get revenge with threats and telling people SHE IS THE TRUTH TELLER. She is a piece of work and we no longer talk, I have completely gotten her out of my life.
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer Жыл бұрын
Exactly the same as my younger sister. She likes to feel she is "leading" everyone else, now that my mother has died.
@dharmadharma3960
@dharmadharma3960 Жыл бұрын
Same same.
@gingertart6201
@gingertart6201 Жыл бұрын
Same here!
@janetpattison8474
@janetpattison8474 8 ай бұрын
So so so so true ✨🌼✨🌼✨on all counts…. Mine had a MAJOR raging, maniacal fit when I told him in a nice way how he attacked me. After too many years, I still have contact, & I’m thinking it may need to change, 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️since the narc can’t control himself. 😫Maintains normal behavior for a bit, then, just cannot hold-in the vitriol any longer, and absolutely MUST do the covert digs, jabs, & devaluing complaints. 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 Congratulations on going “no contact”, that’s awesome! ❤🎉😊❤😊🎉❤
@theyellowshoe
@theyellowshoe Жыл бұрын
Here's how I feel. I simply don't care anymore. He could fall over dead & I would be like great now I have to call the morgue. Yes I'm at that point. Yes I have a plan to leave, getting the finances arranged.
@freedom768
@freedom768 Жыл бұрын
Wow ,well done you, stay safe, focus on yourself, keep educating yourself on narc abuse, best wishes for the future, one day at a time ..remember your important in your life...
@freedom768
@freedom768 Жыл бұрын
As for finances, tell yourself large amounts of money comes to me quickly and easily now, it worked for me ,I kept saying it over and over I got 10.000,,then I started saying money comes to me in cresingly quantities on a continuous basis ,Bob proctor, ,.....
@carriebell3566
@carriebell3566 8 ай бұрын
I feel for you. That’s a horrible position to be in. I wish you all the luck in the world. You can break free.
@elizabethsesso9356
@elizabethsesso9356 Жыл бұрын
...as innocent as a snake....
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer Жыл бұрын
I thought my mother was a snake. It was all I knew to describe her.
@annacanale9780
@annacanale9780 Жыл бұрын
To hide behind you from the rest of the world!! Thank you Rebecca!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
You got this!❤
@sirrantsalott
@sirrantsalott Жыл бұрын
My mother is the matriarch and covert narcissists :( and she intentionally put a stop to creating a healthy and attuned relationship between my father and I. She also lied about his estate, effectively disinheriting all of his children except for her own birth children. An absolute disgusting, sad, and evil woman.
@CatherineSTodd
@CatherineSTodd Жыл бұрын
My mother was a Queen Narcissist Witch and it's all I can do to learn to recognize and avoid these types years and years later. As soon as I meet one, I want them to "like me" and I will do almost anything to try and make that happen (of course it won't, but that doesn't mean I don't keep trying!). Thank God for videos like this one!
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer Жыл бұрын
@@CatherineSTodd yes, yes, yes about my mother too!😈
@CatherineSTodd
@CatherineSTodd Жыл бұрын
@@CynthiaSchoenbauer : and now we can spend the rest of our lives RECOVERING from it! (her!)
@donnaparks1919
@donnaparks1919 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like some stuff what sis did to my nephew but his did still alive. She was jealous of there relationship so she did all kinds of stuff. Abused him lied about him made him seem like the worse kid in neighborhood everyone avoid him he said the Marines was nothing compared to what she put him through through. I know here what u saying 😥
@donnaparks1919
@donnaparks1919 Жыл бұрын
I forgot to mention my nephew's mom & dad still married.
@mintlatte9934
@mintlatte9934 Жыл бұрын
This description of covert narcissists is so spot on!💯
@CatherineSTodd
@CatherineSTodd Жыл бұрын
He made me his slave, and I "honoring my marriage vows" and what everyone else kept tellng me, went along with it. NOW NO MORE! Now I AM FREE.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Proud of you! ❤
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer Жыл бұрын
"To keep you squirming 🐛". Yes, exactly!
@simplyone200
@simplyone200 Жыл бұрын
What to do then?
@sirrantsalott
@sirrantsalott Жыл бұрын
My golden child brother is the same. He is an accessory to my mother’s theft of millions.
@melp8616
@melp8616 Жыл бұрын
The Phony Covert Narcissist is the worst!
@catherineyoungilayan1331
@catherineyoungilayan1331 Жыл бұрын
You're right... No one will believe you. I'm moving ON!! TY for all you do!
@rllght
@rllght Жыл бұрын
So very true. The accuracy and realism in the way you described covert narcissists sends chills down my spine. This is exactly how I felt and what I experienced with these grotesque monsters. If you get close enough and spend time with them long enough, you'll know that these beings are sick to their core, untreatable and incurable. I was unlucky enough to learn that in a hard way. Reliving those icky feelings of abuse makes me want to vomit.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@andyjones5230
@andyjones5230 Жыл бұрын
Trying to move on and be free of this Evel person.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
You got this! 💪
@ND-or5so
@ND-or5so Жыл бұрын
They alway's play dumb and it gets sickening
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@andyjones5230
@andyjones5230 Жыл бұрын
You just hit the nail on the head!
@chadrider2720
@chadrider2720 Жыл бұрын
Just move on... Finally said my final goodbye to my "mom" it is the most painful thing but also one of the most healing things I've ever done for myself. having a funeral for my "mother" that is still very much alive. Her final act of making me feel insane but forced to be done at my own hand... plausible deniability for her...again... it's impossible to process so many conflicting emotions all at the same time especially when the source of all this chaos and insanity is the one person who is supposed to love me the most... her stealthiest most covert move yet... so masterfully manipulative that it's almost impressive but it's so incredibly painful to be in awe of it. my mom wants to destroy me just because she can... since I've had a funeral for her and her main flying monkey my "father" somehow i know things will eventually be okay for me... don't know when or how yet but i just can finally feel a small shift in the power she has always had over me. Reality does truly bite sometimes but at least reality can be dealt with as it is what it is... that she can't change and can do nothing about. I have some power now just don't really know what to do with it completely.. it still hurts too much to focus on for very long but I will get there in time.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Proud of you Chad!❤
@emirodriguez7501
@emirodriguez7501 Жыл бұрын
What to do. If you are dealing with someone like this in child custody? How do take mask away from them in mediation and in the court room?
@taraarrington2285
@taraarrington2285 Жыл бұрын
I would like to know this to.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
This might help you better slay.rebeccazung.com/home ❤
@leapsill1969
@leapsill1969 Жыл бұрын
My ex narcissist oscillated between grandiose and covert. That should be talked about more. That’s what is so confusing. You think they can have arrogance at times but yet they have a good heart because they want to help others, so you overlook the grandiosity thinking they are really a good person deep down. Ugh… I went through the ringer. 💯 passive aggressive and competitive. They do want yo be better than their partner. They don’t want you to be happy or have any good things happen to you. So they really do want to win.
@Jackgritty28
@Jackgritty28 Жыл бұрын
An ulterior motive,if your fooled by the subtleties,the hidden agenda is at play.They lull you into a false sense of security,they infiltrate a situation or workplace,pretending to care about you or what their doing,but their goal behind the scenes is to get their supply by controlling their percieved victims,don't be fooled by the surface,if you scratch the surface ,you get the real person,and if confronted they deny it,they'll deflect any personal questions,they disguise compliments,to manipulate you❌🆘🚩✔️
@carriebell3566
@carriebell3566 8 ай бұрын
Th e way Rebecca mentions they don’t want to win is because they don’t care where you are in relation to them, meaning they don’t care whether you are doing better than them or not they just want to you be miserable, period. That’s what she means.
@jamoriah
@jamoriah Жыл бұрын
Subtlety is the devils playbook.
@krystjanchanerley9288
@krystjanchanerley9288 2 ай бұрын
Your description of the covert narcissist is spot on ..
@jonmicheldyer517
@jonmicheldyer517 2 ай бұрын
This is absolutely without a doubt true I know I was married to a covert narcissistic for 10 years and had a child with him on the tail end of him spontaneously combust prayers for you all I am here to tell you there is hope and you can get out you are stronger than you think k take your power back!!!
@soniasteffen3547
@soniasteffen3547 Жыл бұрын
This is my current boyfriend to a T - the behavior is always & only to me - alone. Everyone thinks he’s great ( bc he is in front of them!!!)& the few times I’ve tried to ‘share’ my concerns re: some red flags…… I must be trying to sabotage the relationship or I must have misunderstood…… Um, no I didn’t. Thank goodness I got the flu - a whole week of separation & a lot of time to think…… and to see all of this crystal clear. Sorry, but this is just not going to work out for me. I wish you all the best~ Wish me luck 🍀
@ernestthompson891
@ernestthompson891 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely Just Move On. Thank you again Rebecca for sharing your insight and wisdom. Subscribed w/ notification.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@edwardspriggs5076
@edwardspriggs5076 5 ай бұрын
OMG, this is 1000% correct, the rage, blame and deception is always in the underground.
@alicejoseph6304
@alicejoseph6304 Жыл бұрын
So helpful and true! Thank you!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Thank you Alice. Glad I can help!
@jevans5956
@jevans5956 Жыл бұрын
@Rebecca Zung You are an angel! Thank you for all of your hard work & videos in helping victims of narc abuse. Kicked my covert narc husband out 3 days ago! It hurts but I suddenly was able to see all the lying, manipulation & control tactics which had been going on. We’ve been married 5 years & symptoms worsened in the last 8 weeks & exploded over the last week. He is also bipolar who is not taking his meds & a marijuana addict. He has reverted to his old habits I have now discovered which caused us to separate 3 years ago & almost divorced. He promised me when we got back together he would forever be a team player in our marriage & make his mental health a priority. As of now, he has told me his word meant nothing. I think he thought he had me by being able to stay in my house & do what he pleases while he’s been out running around & I’m pretty sure he met someone over the weekend because his discard of me was sudden & he became very verbally abusive telling me he can’t wait to get away from me, we’re not married, I’m crazy everyone knows it. The standard discard tactics. Thank God this drama, trauma, & chaos, especially over the last 8 weeks, has come to an end. The hardest part is being schooled enough on their tactics to be able to see clearly enough to navigate as they ‘muddy the waters.’ Your videos help clean the swamp they’ve created! Thank you again!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@jevans5956
@jevans5956 Жыл бұрын
@@RebeccaZungEsq Thank you for your kind response. I’ll definitely watch the link you shared. I’m hanging in there & fighting to detox my emotions of this bottom feeder! Some days I suffer with a lot of grief as if I’m mourning for a loved one that died. I think I’m reconciling with myself on the cognitive dissonance ie: what I thought we were & shared vs what we really were to him which was something easily discardable. I found a video he posted June 1st under his name on KZbin where he’s speaking to someone specifically & then says love you & blows kisses….I mean we’ve been separated a month! Now, I’m trying to find him to have the divorce papers served! I know it’ll get better just can’t believe I trusted him! I’ve got to do better protecting myself in the future from these toxic people. Thanks again as your videos are SO helpful!❤️
@katereaves8710
@katereaves8710 Жыл бұрын
This is my covert narcissist Father. I finally got away from him permanently……and then when my daughter turned 18 and we were going through the tough years, he swooped in and bought her a new car and payed for her insurance etc and asked her to come live with him ( he has money), so she did and there was nothing I could do because she was 18. He has since brainwashed her against me and she hasn’t spoken to me in years. She is now 24. I’ve written several letters but nothing. I don’t know what to do. I am devastated and heartbroken. What do I do?
@yathome5596
@yathome5596 Жыл бұрын
Let her go. One day the truth will be exposed, it always does. Until then just live your best life, do NOT fuel the Narc with supply ie. Writing, begging, pleading etc. that’s exactly what they want, to see you broken. It’s their fuel.
@priyanesan3299
@priyanesan3299 Жыл бұрын
OMG, that is exactly he had in mind when he slithered back. Very sad. You need to wait long years, but your daughter will understand. Live your life . 💕❤️💕
@patriceaustin6160
@patriceaustin6160 Жыл бұрын
You have described my co worker spot on!!
@lorainedevilliers2095
@lorainedevilliers2095 Жыл бұрын
Sums it up so well!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?
@CatherineSTodd
@CatherineSTodd Жыл бұрын
Sounds like my husband for 45 years. He kept me financially enslaved and he's still doing it to this day. No one believes me because he is Mr. Wonderful! JUST MOVE ON! Amen.
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer Жыл бұрын
That sounds like my "dad". He kept me financially so enslaved that I am still asking for and needing money in my 50's and 60's. He was supposed to support me as a child that I would be able to do it on my own.
@CatherineSTodd
@CatherineSTodd Жыл бұрын
​@@CynthiaSchoenbauer : best thing I ever did was NEVER "ask" them for anything, but figure out how to get it for myself (very difficult on minimum wage as a single mother in the beginning, but somehow I did it). My husband contributed practically NOTHING to our family so again I had to learn how to "double my income" overnight. Then he started taking that too. Now he pays his bills and I pay mind and he doesn't touch a penny of what I earn (but don't think he doesn't still try). Separate bank accounts and more. Best way to live for sure, no matter how much or how little I may have. I have had to learn to "just say no" to any manipulation or financial crisis" he would cook up and make ME responsible, but those games don't work anymore. Hahahahaa! Good luck and never give up and never give in!
@AmourofgodShinelight
@AmourofgodShinelight Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this Rebecca, You're absolutely beautiful and understanding, This was absolutely tremendous, Keep shining light, Speaking truth, Educating and exposing, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the most high God ⚖😘🌹🦄✌👁⚽♱👽🐎🦁🕊🕆☘😃🌈❤💚💗💜💙💛🌌
@liepa7768
@liepa7768 Жыл бұрын
It seems impossible to win in court against narcisists 😢😢😢
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer Жыл бұрын
I know the feeling. But it is just a feeling that you have to grow past... it is feeling like you are still under their thumb. Don't you agree? .... 💩that you are soil under their feet. There is power there for you and me that we can feel and pick up on, once we know their game and can reverse it to be fair and have our own voice heard.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
This might help you better slay.rebeccazung.com/home
@robgardner7689
@robgardner7689 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Just what she does . thank you Rebecca for your information. Big kiss to you 😘
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
I'm glad to be helping! What is one point that you start using today?
@mikegump3766
@mikegump3766 Жыл бұрын
Thanks again for your wealth of knowledge & sharing all your videos...❤
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Glad I can help! What is something that brings you joy?
@anthonycampagna
@anthonycampagna 6 ай бұрын
So have so got it right!
@hasukeas5749
@hasukeas5749 3 ай бұрын
Spot on 👌🏻
@yathome5596
@yathome5596 Жыл бұрын
JUST MOVE ON! I went no contact with my sister a little over a year ago and it’s awesome. She behaved EXACTLY how you described them here!
@igozi5728
@igozi5728 Жыл бұрын
I did same to my older sister couple month ago. She is just the worst covert narcissist you can ever imagine. Only chaos, drama, abuse, fake victimization. She blame everyone all her downfalls in her life, especially my mom, which have gave her more than most of the kids in a world can ever have. Caring, protection and wealth. Does you sister blame your mother or parents and you about everything??
@yathome5596
@yathome5596 Жыл бұрын
@@igozi5728 YES!! My sister has everything she could ever want and it still brings her no joy. She hates our mother and blames her for whatever ails her, which to this day we don’t even know what that is. Narcs need to play the victim and as she can’t really blame anyone for her crap she targets her mother. My sister is a covert narc, the worst there is.
@matanhermoni
@matanhermoni 9 ай бұрын
you rock!!! Here in Tel Aviv Narcissism is very much a religion
@markocipkar2999
@markocipkar2999 Жыл бұрын
I love your videos there helpful when you have to deal with them other than that I just walk away. But when I can't the demons in my mind wants them hard
@yukio_saito
@yukio_saito Жыл бұрын
Just move on! I just walked away from my ex-friend. His second spouse stepped away from him. His first spouse ran away from him.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@kellyobrien7914
@kellyobrien7914 9 ай бұрын
wow.. u nailed it.... everythings an act keeo u ..wondering
@tonyborbon957
@tonyborbon957 Жыл бұрын
Always watching you all advice for free. I wish to be my lawyer in future but not yet.❤😂😂😂
@ArleneDisessa
@ArleneDisessa 2 ай бұрын
How about when thru say "I always defend you when people talk about you" Their lies about being abused. Moving on!
@grantaugustyniak6667
@grantaugustyniak6667 Жыл бұрын
Coverts always give the very bare minimum to everything & everyone just to squeak by the surface of their superficial life they live.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@terranman4702
@terranman4702 Жыл бұрын
She gave ne hope for almost a year, WE would have a relationship. She Had another guy a month before officially rejecting me. Confronted her. She got vile, understood that would upset me minutes later and started a charme offensive, said sorry for taking my advances the wrong way, pretended she was doing me a favour by talking about her problems to me and all that. I wasnt ssure, what she was. But her first reaction gave it away hard!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@ImreadyforJesus
@ImreadyforJesus 6 ай бұрын
I need an attourney like you
@almcelroy4818
@almcelroy4818 6 ай бұрын
Creepy and enlightening to realize that the confusion is the point!
@karenhayes8385
@karenhayes8385 10 ай бұрын
Oh. And be nice...
@juliaagnes7
@juliaagnes7 Жыл бұрын
Teflon coated!
@miwdiva
@miwdiva Жыл бұрын
These are also all the behaviours of toxic/passive-agressive people, even not necessarily narcissistic.
@cherylh1807
@cherylh1807 Жыл бұрын
It’s hard to move on when you have three kids together and a part time job😣
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@jenaran99
@jenaran99 5 ай бұрын
They cry and start claiming they are victims,
@dougstobaugh376
@dougstobaugh376 9 ай бұрын
Yes Covert Narcissist ex wife tries to get everyone on her side and play the Innocent victim that hasn't done anything wrong but try and help you just enough to make her look good. GOD-BLESS.
@carriedillmann4455
@carriedillmann4455 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY MY EX!!!!!!🤬
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@karenhayes8385
@karenhayes8385 10 ай бұрын
Interesting.. you mention Gaslighting. I just found an article from Washington Post on that subject
@pe2914
@pe2914 8 ай бұрын
JUSSSTTTTTT MOOOOOVVVVVEEEEEEE-ONNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!
@crazyredheadbeyotch8125
@crazyredheadbeyotch8125 3 ай бұрын
GEEEEEEE, WHYYYYYY DIDDDDDDN’T IIIIIIII THIIIINNKK OFFFFFFF THAAAAATTTTT??????
@justynadominiak7631
@justynadominiak7631 Жыл бұрын
GOD BLESS YOU 💖...🕊❤🕆 AMEN 🕆❤🕊...👼🙇🙏
@pe2914
@pe2914 8 ай бұрын
& DO NOTTTTTTTTTTT LOOK BACK!!!!!!!!!
@stevee8472
@stevee8472 Жыл бұрын
Do they know they are narcisists? Aware of their behaviours? My ex.., kid's mom fits all this to a T.. and still forced to deal with her daily.. help..
@sirrantsalott
@sirrantsalott Жыл бұрын
MONEY
@carriedillmann4455
@carriedillmann4455 Жыл бұрын
KEEP MOVING !!!!!’
@DawsonDave-YZF-R6
@DawsonDave-YZF-R6 Жыл бұрын
Just move on 🏁🏁🏁
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Proud of you Dawson!❤
@DawsonDave-YZF-R6
@DawsonDave-YZF-R6 Жыл бұрын
@@RebeccaZungEsq Thank You Rebecca ! 💗You are a life saver 💯!!!!!! I found a place to move 😎And Im delaying the Maid paper work. Canada medical assistance in dying Im only 52 and Thanks to You 💪😎I will see many more I ! Your the Best I could never Thank You enough ! Everyday your videos keep me on track 🏍Your an Angel💖Rebecca Zung 💖
@traceywilliams5427
@traceywilliams5427 Жыл бұрын
I need to move on cause I'm going through some much l need treatment for this
@benjaminhurlburt5532
@benjaminhurlburt5532 Жыл бұрын
When I was 13 years old my cousin Dr. Braxton Chase McClung (Radiologist) and his sister Dr. Roxanne Zarel McClung undergraduates at the time thought it was very funny to show me an illegal web site with content that made me gag. The more I gaged the more they laughed.
@benjaminhurlburt5532
@benjaminhurlburt5532 Жыл бұрын
It was a fixed dedication scene.
@whitneysawyer483
@whitneysawyer483 3 ай бұрын
"Just move on"
@simplyone200
@simplyone200 Жыл бұрын
Yes How to deal with such?? 😢
@kathyt5734
@kathyt5734 6 ай бұрын
JUST MOVE ON! -- Lord help me and shield me from all their hidden schemes and cunning moves... Keep me alert and strong-willed and wise in Jesus' Name I humbly ask and pray... Amen.
@hasukeas5749
@hasukeas5749 3 ай бұрын
Still in marriage Bt moving on No Contact Living like a stranger
@simplyone200
@simplyone200 Жыл бұрын
What to do then? How to stop that or deal with that??
@traceywilliams5427
@traceywilliams5427 Жыл бұрын
I need a person to talk to me in person one on one please 🥺
@kimperkins5010
@kimperkins5010 Жыл бұрын
Tracey, what's going on? My name is Kim. And I'm getting ready to leave my situation.
@deepmaven8773
@deepmaven8773 Жыл бұрын
The covert stalker hacker is the same as a covert narcissist.
@donnaparks1919
@donnaparks1919 Жыл бұрын
Sis was just joking bout poisoning food she would never really do it she wasn't joking with her son when she made him 😨 to eat to the point he almost starved to death as well as other health issues 😥
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@nickel7065
@nickel7065 Жыл бұрын
My ex wife in a nutshell. Always the victim, always the nice facade.
@jomahanovo3091
@jomahanovo3091 Жыл бұрын
My mother in law fits all the characteristics of a covert narcissist.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@mikegump3766
@mikegump3766 Жыл бұрын
"Just Move on"
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Proud of you!❤
@simplyone200
@simplyone200 Жыл бұрын
What to do in such situations?
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@SteveTrevathan
@SteveTrevathan 2 ай бұрын
Why do these things, for so long, 18 years, I didn’t even know what it was, , What a waste of 2 decades
@annettebaumann5333
@annettebaumann5333 Жыл бұрын
Just move on
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
Just move on! I live for the day when I can!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Stay strong! ❤
@advenvtech
@advenvtech Жыл бұрын
Just move on. Rebecca I just met my daughter's therapist and we were discussing about my wife. My daughter's therapist informed me that my wife has a deeper problem than just being a covert narcissist. She has Borderline Personality Disorder. How does one deal with such a situation?
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@advenvtech
@advenvtech Жыл бұрын
@RebeccaZungEsq As I don't recollect whether I mentioned earlier I'm very strong internally so I don't have trauma but to hear her BS drains me mentally. When this happens I surrender my mental woes to the divine universe and I become calm and refreshed.
@user-in6oi5kh3s
@user-in6oi5kh3s 6 ай бұрын
Ahhh… haaa…!!!… lol That’s the first one… Move on…!!!… lol…💪🏻…
@hadysriphol
@hadysriphol Жыл бұрын
Just move on!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Stay strong! ❤
@nikkimarie7
@nikkimarie7 11 ай бұрын
Jesus, this is actually worse than the traditional.
@swansondavis8733
@swansondavis8733 Жыл бұрын
Just move on!!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
You're strong you got this! ❤
@pe2914
@pe2914 2 ай бұрын
JUST MOVE ON!!!!!!!
@NirmaleneJayarajah
@NirmaleneJayarajah 2 ай бұрын
Just move on.
@Anonymous-ul8ts
@Anonymous-ul8ts Ай бұрын
JUST MOVE ON
@nicholecornes1915
@nicholecornes1915 2 ай бұрын
Thats the stupidest thing I've ever herd 😂
@MegaMusical10
@MegaMusical10 Жыл бұрын
Just move the hell on.......
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Proud of you! You got this ❤
@SalvadorHernandez-to2gq
@SalvadorHernandez-to2gq 7 ай бұрын
You seem drunk! 🥴
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 4 ай бұрын
Check this out - www.rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop Keep slaying!
@derrickbarker6100
@derrickbarker6100 Жыл бұрын
just move on... need paperwork link have theorpynunder way
@richardlenz2655
@richardlenz2655 10 ай бұрын
You are talking about my old girl friend. Perfect. Do you know her? 🤭🥱
@feliciadean1084
@feliciadean1084 Жыл бұрын
Just move on
@mmmsunshine5367
@mmmsunshine5367 Жыл бұрын
Just move on!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Proud of you! You got this ❤
@craigburns227
@craigburns227 9 ай бұрын
Just move on
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 4 ай бұрын
Check this out - www.rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop Keep slaying!
@remembertruth33
@remembertruth33 9 ай бұрын
Just move on
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 4 ай бұрын
Check this out - www.rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop Keep slaying!
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