A Fantasy I Use To Help Myself Grow and Heal

[@charlesdaubner1017]

"I have myself, I have my true self, I have my self reflective relationship with me. That's my #1 ally and has been for decades" So well articulated, Daniel, and the most important ally to have. Thanks Daniel

[@BhavanaShivu]

Daniel, We your listeners are your community. We do not always tell you how much we love you. Your words are soothing and healing.

[@dmackler58]

Thanks!

[@mysnackr]

I do this too. I imagine an all-good version of my mom exists in a parallel universe and she can comfort me about this world's version of her. I had to go no-contact due to abuse and it does help.

[@Olmonolo1]

We are your community Daniel. You are our north star. Please continue this important work Daniel

[@pod9363]

Damn that a lotta pressure lol

[@whiterunguard1434]

Thank you so much for your videos. I'll easily listen to them for around 8 hours at work. I've got so many problems no one understands and I don't want to bother anyone with and genuinely everything you say resonates with me and helps me. Thanks

[@allthe1]

You can ne certain a lot of us watching truly have found someone who seems to read our minds... If only more ppl were honest more often we could have these conversations irl and feel understood

[@CristinaAcosta]

I saw this fantasy come true when my late father developed dementia. There was a sweet spot in the progression of the disease when his ego dissolved and his loving self shone forth. It was remarkable. What a gift.

[@enlightenedinterstellarbei8020]

That’s amazing!

[@AuroCords]

At the core of each human this fantasy is the only truth.

[@allthe1]

Same with my grandfather. I was too young to realize it when He died. All I had to work with was that he had Alzheimer's, he had always been a scary selfish asshole, but the last things I remember is he was just clueless, he hummed and laughed and cried like a little boy in his hospital bed. Everybody was just sad and scared so I felt uneasy. Now I feel he was just finally free from all of his inhibitions, having forgotten them at the same time he forgot the people he had hurt all his life, his wife, his children. I was scared pretty much all my life to end up like him because his family is so traumatized noone ever bothered to actually face their own past and heal, or even research or ask serious questions on the matter. I was left with the few fearmongering tidbits of info my mother and her siblings were able to bear sharing. Now that I've taken up the courage to face my past I no longer have that fear. Honesty towards others prevent me from bottling up and hurting my brain. Daniel and commenters like you have helped a lot on this process so thank you so much for sharing

[@EdzioListonosz-rz5yy]

❤

[@pastry111]

Daniel, I hope you know you're saving lives. You are a blessing that the universe sent to me. You are proof and evidence of the right person, right time for me, thank you for your wisdom. You are loved for what you do.

[@roxydina7615]

You are my hero. Thank you, thank you, thank you

[@michasosnowski5918]

Once I confronted my mother about beatings in my childhood. It was over the phone. First she denied, but then I got a message with like 10x capital SORRY! I didnt responded to this message and I regret it, becouse the next day she wrote me few cold messages denying everything. She told me that nobody was beating me, that I was loved unconditionally and that everything was normal, and I have some imaginative beef with her that she doesnt understand. So basically she denied and put the blame on me, like I am hurting her. This confirms your theory. Yes, my mother had True Self that acknowledged the harm done to me, but she didnt had enough of it to keep it going, so she returned to denial and lies.

[@yvonneshanson1525]

It's their stance.. too hard to change. They are immature. You know she knows tho. And that's what matters. You're not alone in this. Take care 🙂

[@3nrika]

There is a word for this in an investigative setting like you spoke of, namely 'corroborate'. I have no quarrels with what you had to say but it can help ourselves and others to be descriptive. 'Confirm' refers to a conclusion that we're able to make. 'Corroborate' refers to our ability to contribute to an emerging picture. Sorry to potentially ruffle some feathers. I have had the same experience with my own mother on some different terms. She would occasionally through my childhood come to me and let me know that she is sorry for having made so many mistakes, but it wasn't a complete apology detailing what she had done wrong and how she had learned something about herself from introspection and finally how it would lead to a change. In the case of my mother and when it became apparent that I was catching on, my interpretation is that she only wanted to reveal as little of her inner workings as possible in order to preserve plausible deniability of abuse. I am certain she would not accept the label 'child abuser' to this day, in spite of it being unquestionably true.

[@caitybug.]

@@youssefdiraniwhy?

[@caitybug.]

@@3nrikasame situation with me. I think at some point it’s healthier to just move on without them ;(

[@3nrika]

@@caitybug. Yep, you're right about that. Sorry you had to go through it too.

[@not2tees]

I think it was Bob Dylan in Talkin' World War 3 Blues who said "I'll let you be in my dream if you'll let me be in yours." We all need some good fantasies to encourage ourselves, and our soul mates, to make it through the world as real as we can be

[@carolineprenoveau7655]

What I found after years and years of purposeless suffering is that you inherit the traumas of your ancestors, big and small. The traumas don't go anywhere. You either bear them, or you pass them on to the next generation. I used to see it as injustice, I see it now as a call to courage, to change the course of time. Maybe what you see in your fantasy is the world as it will be if everybody bears their own pain, their cross, even if it's unfair, with dignity and courage. That's where truth can emerge. Otherwise, we're all just hiding.

[@michellemathers4529]

That was beautiful

[@Faeriefungus]

Thank you for sharing your heart

[@tiab4697]

I'm realizing the value of a fantasy self where I'm healed. I do long for connection, but only authentic and respectful, because I've paid the price for engaging with others. My part in failed relationships is that I have low self esteem, always less than and being vulnerable without boundaries. I don't have anyone who really 'see's me but I am utilizing the fantasy self where I am whole and accepted.

[@pod9363]

I have the same fantasy where I am healed and confident and assertive and happy all the time, and just totally in love with existence. I hope that's what lies at the end of this process.

[@alvodin6197]

What if you start seeing yourself that way? It's a good start.

[@JulianLancia]

@@alvodin6197 my first thought. This is a really good strategy, especially in letting go bad/unhealthy/wrong perceptions of ourselves.

[@spinningwheels-bu8jn]

Damn, Daniel's back with another banger! Big ups, my G.

[@bernadettebockis4120]

Families carry trauma down through the generations. You are clearly working on breaking the chain. When people share the most truth, they are seen as dangers to the lies others uphold; or seen as sages, swamis. This is the false world, the stage where we act out our lessons with others most appropriate to our needed counterpart. How could you have suffered and learned what you needed if you didn't have trauma and lack of support. You got exactly what you needed in this life to learn the brilliance of understanding. When we release from this body, we return to our true selves, and no time, communication with all or any at will. "All?" becomes clear, and life is filled with love - or maybe a bit of 'hell' to pay. You can return to learn more in another life here or in other worlds. I enjoy listening to your struggle to truth. I wish you truth and the knowledge of divine love.

[@loutfchihneh]

You're a gift to humanity Daniel! thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. Your authenticity is such an inspiration to those who are going through similar experiences in life. I personally believe that there's a spiritual side to all of the challenges truth seekers face with those who only want to live in their fantasy and not be held responsible for their actions (aka narcissists).. Bless you ❤️

[@AuroCords]

Thank you Daniel! I believe you are attracting a very healthy, honest and loving community.

[@bluemoony102]

8:35 Thank YOU🙏🏼 for existing Daniel ♥️

[@charlottem6065]

Thank you Daniel ❤️🕊️🙏🏼🌞🌻

[@ruth_gordon]

Wow, what a healing exercise this is. Thank you for sharing this fantasy. (Side note: I would faint if my abuser apologized so genuinely.)

[@LMc-l7h]

What a beautiful fantasy, thank you for sharing.

[@Vanillababe7]

You dont know me. But I feel so much love towards you Daniel! You are such a positive coscious light in this world. Blessed be your soul!

[@rihannagirl556]

A pure genuine fantasy. I use maladaptive daydreaming and its quite the opposite. Escapism from the truth and the pain...for me, grieving and journalling is hard but implementing it and being honest and not putting up a false self with people feels extremely difficult.

[@pod9363]

I think you’d benefit from reading thru daniels essays if u haven’t already. He says if it’s overwhelmingly difficult to try to grieve that maybe your subconscious doesn’t feel safe to do so given your situation, and that may be something to try if things feel a little too much.

[@flyingfig12]

@@pod9363 There's IFS that can help ~ Internal Family System by Dr Richard Schwartz edit: as well, along with Daniels essays.

[@bartjohnston]

yup, the truth sets us free; peace

[@pinksparkle6891]

Thank you for creating this channel and thank you for all the videos!

[@yvonneshanson1525]

This is brilliant Daniel !!!.. all so true ! Your words I will be using in my head too..! Once again thank you for being so transparent and brave. We all here are your allies and you've helped me so much with your sharing all these years. Your mother definitely knows what she's done, she just won't admit it in words, cause then it'll become concrete and real and she can't face that. She's like a child that won't admit to a mischief by pretendingit never happened. Their eyes as they get old are windows to their Personal Hell.. It's really hard to accept that our parents are so messed up and they've caused so much pain in our lives. Wishing you a peaceful and comforting week and sending love your way✨️🩷

[@KELSEYYYYY]

Truth isn't welcomed in this world

[@pod9363]

But it is desperately craved in each person :)

[@Wingedmagician]

We do it to each other. No one tells the truth because no one wants the truth. So we overcorrect into lies and neglect.

[@TheSapphireLeo]

@@pod9363 100%, agree!

[@michaelboulos3272]

The king of love came to the world to save it and we crucified him for it

[@pod9363]

@@TheSapphireLeo optimism gang 😎

[@intolerandus]

Thank you so much for sharing this.

[@sidhreji]

Thank you Daniel. Your videos have helped me so much ❤

[@caitybug.]

The whole thing you talked about with your grandmother and your family system is exactly how my situation is and It’s so frustrating having these people who are supposed to be the ones who genuinely love you and you’re supposed to be able to trust them but it’s like they just shake you off for speaking out about these things that they’ve normalized for their own selfish needs. I’m that one in my family that has always been the one to speak out and the one everyone shames for doing so and been shut out, called crazy, a liar, and wrong. It’s like sometimes I really do believe I might be crazy or just imagining all these terrible things that go on and I just want to scream and shout at them to wake up or something and to just let go of all that covering up and take responsibility and just be REAL. It deeply pains me and it feels so lonely because I’ve always been honest with my feelings and the things I do. They’d rather shut me out from the family than just admit theirs a problem and try to change. It’s like they’re literally not able to ever really change anything in their lives. I find comfort in knowing other people are in this situation. Love ur videos

[@bartosik321]

holy fucking shit dude, i cannot even believe that a person like you exist, a true hidden gem. I can relate so much to what you are saying in most of the videos. Even though I have never spoken a single word to you, i feel so heard, and like i am listened to and understood for the first time in my life just by watching those videos.

[@chrisdryer]

Great video. Wow. I am always surprised at where you go with what you are saying. Thanks for the valuable perspective.

[@alejandro1979x]

Did you have a vasectomy? Because I did and that helped me to understand that I will never hurt a a son or daughter, since I never had one. And this makes me really happy .

[@1981Elpbaba1981]

Bravo Daniel! I consider myself your ally.

[@ninax23]

Another hit, Daniel! I also do this sort of final reckoning fantasy. And I am glad you have a couple of real allies. I don't know that we get more than just a few. I suppose that is why denial is so popular. People can stay lonely in groups.

[@lucagethmann7682]

Here's a simple thought/feeling experiment that will give you some insight: We all know what it's like to not be conscious. We all know what it's like to hurt people. We all know what it's like to lie to people. Something inside of us was always listening through all the lying and harming and suffering. Just listening in silent, enduring what was happening without judgment. And this isn't JUST you trying to imagine the past through your now eyes. I know that you know that this is more. So I think that sums it up.

[@RKTGX95]

i can really relate to what you've described with peoples eyes. If one is connected enough to themselves, then it almost easy to see so much just from the person's eyes and face. you can see either a spark or emptiness in one's eys, usually though it's a mix. Also, maybe it's one of my survival abilities i've gained in childhood, but a person's face says almost everything about their earliest and strongest trauma. it almost screams outside like a relic or geological fossil of the soul that was and maybe still is. Actually i see some right now in you Daniel. really little though since with every word action and expression the aura of authenticity and strong balance comes through, in the way that the facial features are almost touching the core of your truth. in most other people you see layers of pain with more layers of falseness of various dissociations. Still, i can see the imprint of pain, probably from the earliest times. my guess is pain of abandonment or hurt. Thank you Daniel for your authenticity, you are part of a stupidly rare group of people.

[@TomeRodrigo]

I imagine two lovely, kind and supportive parents that are different from my actual parents, and it gives me some form of weird comfort and peace for a moment, but this image can only go for a little while, unfortunately. Also, the link you have provided to a video of that Jeffrey Dahmer doesn't work, it says that "Video unavailable - This video is no longer available due to a copyright claim by CNN".

[@joannasu39]

Thank you so much for the sharing.

[@maryfisher6569]

My Nana always stuck up for me. I took after the best of my grandparents. When my mother and sister would brow beat me, be mean to me she would aways love me just a little more, she knew what was going on. My mother and sister would get so mad. Finally, one person in the family who loved me despite me being my family's scapegoat. I will NEVER forget her.

[@Jhawk_2k]

This is beautiful, thank you for sharing. This resonated so deeply with how I want to live my life but didn't have the words to describe it until now. Now for the process of learning how to live this every day

[@FernandoGonzalez-jy3tq]

You are so Healthy Daniel!

[@abeydore]

You have absolutely no fucking clue how much you are helping me and all the people who I can be helpful. You are awesome

[@jonathanalcantara3385]

Daniel, I hope you find community for your healing process. There must be others like you in similar circumstances, but in their own paths, that I hope the universe presents to you soon. Know you've attracted a base on this channel and your process has been integral to others' processes. I've been trying to facilitate safe space for my groups of friends in recent years so that they feel safe and heal. I am making it my life mission to make this the new norm in society.

[@shyvenyx]

Your videos are very helpful, thank you!

[@Amy-E.-Jones]

Thank you so much Daniel, I feel like you understand me, hearing your honesty when I'm in a dark place gives me courage and strength. Your work is really valuable. Keep going. 🌸

[@RobbiePfunder]

there are no bad parts :) just, as you said, traumatized parts… that want us to listen

[@bobvillanueva712]

BUDDHISM; If you die before you die, then when you die you won't die... ME; "Telling the truth in a liar's world is dangerous", yea? I can really relate to all your videos, yea? living in a toxic Christian CULTure made my life a living hell, converting to the teachings of the BUDDHA gave me peace of mind, yea? I'm grateful for being able to finish my tour here on planet earth as an invisible nobody, yea? "EVERY WISH FULFILLED" E.T.

[@russellm7530]

Wow I've had some similar fantasy or thoughts many times. I wish I'd known way sooner what my mother and others relatives were, (psychopaths) and told my grandmothers about them. I didn't start realizing it till my last grandma was going down hill, dying.

[@marklawson2871]

Daniel, you're like the George Carlin of psychotherapy. Thank you

[@karenkarinaxoxo]

Thank you for your vulnerability here and sharing your thoughts and feelings, new perspectives, your open heart. Know that it has touched my heart deeply. I think it’s an act of true love for others to share how and what you’re sharing, as for me, I feel so seen. Thank you.

[@christinebadostain6887]

I do inner work precisely because I "know" that I am in physical space to prepare for spiritual "space." Otherwise, what is the point of gueling it out? The purpose of humanity's existence is physical space is to acquire spiritual attributes to take with us when we transition.

[@Maaraujo7]

Nice fantasy, thank you for sharing !

[@annmarie6870]

Been wanting you to mention Dahmer forever I felt like I was invisible on here lol

[@NightinGal89]

Your posts always make me feel better, thank you 😊 🙏🏻. Just had like 3 anxiety attacks in the past 24 hours and felt horrible. By the way, do you have any opinion on them and treatments? Scariest thing I've ever gone through and I am seriously considering medication. I had one in 2017 for the first time, thought I was dying. Then didn't have any until this year..and I have no idea what triggers them

[@Earl_E_Burd]

Wishing you well. That sounds like a tough experience. It sucks that you went so long and then the empire strikes back out of nowhere! With the whole trilogy. I just had a really embarrassing one yesterday 😰 I'm rooting for you. Knowing is half the battle and this is the right channel for continuing our healing journey. May you find answers to your questions. ☮

[@Earl_E_Burd]

I recommend MadInAmerica as a resource on psychotropic drugs. I've been on a lot of meds through the years, but not for the last three years. They didn't help my anxiety but everybody is different. I could expand on these stories if you want but just keeping it succinct for now, for etiquette.

[@NightinGal89]

@@Earl_E_Burd thank you. It's funny you said "embarrassing one". I feel the same even though they're not something I can control. Yeah but they were not as bad as the one I had in 2017. I still felt like I might die, chest pressure, difficulty breathing, this time I cried each time, it's probably stress build-up. First time I was in a public place and threw up and almost fainted. Someone called an ambulance. I would've felt embarrassed but I was busy trying to not die. They just took my vitals in the ambulance and let me go, asked if I wanted to go to hospital and I said no. Later my gp said it was an anxiety attack.

[@NightinGal89]

@@Earl_E_Burd ok, thank you for your story..kind of annoying that meds don't work for everyone.

[@Earl_E_Burd]

​@@NightinGal89 Up until a few years ago I had been rotating various psychotropic meds, one at a time, through the years ('99-'19) like sertraline, escitalopram, bupropion, lamotrigine, amphetamine salts. You may have heard of most of these by their brand names on commercials. It started in high school when my mother took me to our family doctor to help with my seasonal depression. At the time we all believed in the since-debunked "brain chemical imbalance" theory that was a drug sales campaign. Doc obliged us with Big Pharma. Drugs served as an external band-aid to numb out from difficult feelings so that everybody was happy and no one had to discuss the underlying trauma that I was unaware of. I didn't figure that out for a long time. I guess the drugs worked in that regard. I'm still eliminating other substances. Caffeine was really easy, weed has been off and on, and sugar/carbs is proving extremely difficult. Twice now after I've taken extended breaks from weed, smoking it again (both times I was excessive with it) has triggered an anxiety attack. D'oh. Time will tell if I've learned my lesson there. Just my experience, I know it's different for everyone.

[@frankstared]

Remember, Daniel, that your family does not exist in a vacuum...and neither do you. Make healthy connection that effect authentic equity to balance the recovery and rumination.

[@rosaspagnola222]

I've heard that after death we see the truth clearly and the evil we have caused will be our torment, unless we repented of it in this life and tried to make it right. I so appreciate everything you share, Daniel... thank you very much ❤.

[@johnathanabrams8434]

Who did you hear that from?

[@agustinthierry6719]

@@johnathanabrams8434Christianity

[@pod9363]

My big fantasy is that when we die we just wake up in the time in the future where humanity has figured out how to bring back or resurrect consciousness. Idk if that’s 10k years in the future or 10 million but whatever existence is, I’m glad you and others are trying to make the best of it. Even if everything just ends and the universe collapses back in on itself and starts back over, I’m glad you’re here. 😄

[@G.Man-]

I think you will find the following two channels of interest...: - Inspired - Jason Shurka (Much of the stuff is very very out there, but i'm keeping an open mind...)

[@pod9363]

@@G.Man- I shall take a peak

[@pod9363]

@@G.Man- I took a peek at Jason and glanced at inspired and it all seems like hokey stuff used to prey on older people. Very out there and not down to earth and real like what Daniel does. 😣 If there was a certain video that proved this wrong tho pls tell me. It’s hard to find people on this site like Daniel.

[@G.Man-]

@@pod9363 Are you aware of Klaus Schwab & the 'World Economic Forum' agenda in cahoots with the world's authorities..? If not, then you are probably not ready to go down that rabbit hole, yet (which 'Inspired' & 'Jason Shurka' address & try to inform the 'Collective Conciousness' about), especially if you are trying to work on yourself & deal with personal issues...

[@G.Man-]

@@pod9363 Instead, here's some great people who deal with personal development, trauma, healing, health, etc: - Todd Perelmuter - Gabor Mate - Dr. Rangan Chatterjee - Timothy Ward - Vex King - Stephen Guise - Mark Manson - James Clear - Green Renaissance

[@rapperstyle-jj1yf]

I agree with the comment below "You're a gift to humanity Daniel! thank you for sharing your knowledge with us"

[@alcosmic]

That would be nice

[@Gypsywandering400]

I don’t agree that it’s hell to be honest, with yourself or with others. It’s difficult and painful, but you feel liberated, free, and real for it. And it gets easier and easier with practise. I think hell is when you can’t look at parts of yourself and have to build walls inside yourself to hide from yourself, which, of course, is not possible. It’s hell to try to drown out the voice of your conscience, but never quite succeed.

[@yakorolevka3806]

This is amazing! Thank you so much for sharing it

[@idan4989]

can you make a video about psychopathy caused by trauma ?

[@JL-re1rx]

Bless you and thank you so much for sharing Namaste

[@thehumbleofsoul2256]

I am so curious about your thoughts and feelings on Divine Truth 😄

[@GlobalistGazette]

Thanks for this excellent video. Ive started to really progress thanks mostly to influences such as yours. Im going to write it all down. Thats going to be my means for healing.

[@BozhidarKurtev]

Good bless you Daniel. I've been listening to several of your videos. It's very sad that there is almost nothing out there to help us young males. The sources are limited. Thank you for what you are doing. The perspective helps. I do hope you eventually find it in yourself to have a family of your own.❤

[@lizafield9002]

When you get well, & can feel deep grief for your forebears' pitiable suffering & bravery, you'll actually hear from the departed & God. Your brain will no longer be a blockade, or a bulldozer, or a hard nonporous exoskeleton. Aim for that.

[@SArthur221]

people's wish to live after they die is something i've seen often that i still can not wrap my head around. can you please help me?

[@pod9363]

I think it’s peoples wish to have some guarantee that they will live in a world where they and everyone else could live in a truthful world.

[@SArthur221]

@@pod9363 that's only possible while alive

[@jubileej1629]

Can you explain further what you mean by that

[@SArthur221]

@@jubileej1629 it's only possible to wish while alive. as in before dying. It doesn't make a difference to you whether or not your wish comes true or not. You won't be able to live it.

[@liiastarckenko3757]

Спасибо за эту фантазию, за эту идею. Привет вам из Севастополя! Удивительно, как мы далеко друг от друга физически, но как близки бывают чувства и ощущения отдельно взятых людей.

[@dmackler58]

Пожалуйста! В 2021 году я проплыл на корабле по Черному морю из Украины в Батуми и увидел вдалеке Крым и Севастополь!! Горячий привет из Нью-Йорка. Даниэль. (P.S. Извините, если это не имеет смысла. Я использовал Google Translate.)

[@mariekejansen7658]

❤️🙏

[@joshepherd9095]

Not a fantasy for me. Thirty years ago, and three years after my father died, I had a message via a spiritual healer. He said that he didn't normally channel but there was someone close to me who had a message. I told him my father had passed and I immediately felt his presence. The message was that after he died, he saw what he did and he cried buckets of tears. He came back to apologise. This took me by surprise.

[@dianacano780]

As always, appreciating your content.. ❤ thank you for sharing, I like to fantasize about a newly created reality as well, it’s ironic how in our process of self-healing we actually develop empathy for our abusers, even rationalizing their behavior at times, in our effort to understand their actions and their why’s

[@Thesisinxumaloblog]

I'm a psychic medium, and one of the things I've noticed is how people become themselves when they're dead and their families don't recognize them or know them because what they think, feel and say when they're dead is completely different to what they thought, felt and said when they were alive. The loss of the body means a loss of the ego, and the soul's truth comes through.

[@ericcrites3389]

I'm also a medium and I've seen this too in the other side. We don't have the same worries we once did, or feelings. Our soul isn't something that really suffers.

[@미미-t2r]

I need some help on something that's is abt living my life or ending it but unfortunately I can't pay. Can you help me?

[@enlightenedinterstellarbei8020]

Ending your life isn’t the answer.

[@미미-t2r]

@@enlightenedinterstellarbei8020 not everything we do is to find an answer

[@mikeexits]

A lot of people report and believe we go through a life review basically immediately after death. Everything you haven't integrated or come to terms with, you are required to integrate and come to terms with before you can move on with your existence, including all your experiences, all the ways you've impacted others and your environment, and all the ways others and your environment impacted you. So in a way, Daniel's fantasy could be basic to the reality of life and death. I believe this work is a large part of the reason or purpose for us to come here, to become educated in our souls on how to lose yourself to the maximum degree and still come back to yourself, keeping all the wisdom and insight you learn along the way.

[@AuroCords]

I believe this fantasy to be the ultimate truth: we all share the same being which is pure conciousness and peace, and that part of us always knows the truth. That being said, it is rarely realized by humans, so each one has to do the work to heal their own self.

[@peaceuponthesoul]

nailed it

[@SlimShady51]

Fellow fantasist, call me crazy if you wish to. But in the glare of greater future science, I see, in the fusion of time travel and after life, a school for the reptiles among us to hibridize with humanity, redeem themselves, repay all the harm done and maybe drenched in good deeds hit the shores of forgiveness.

[@dualshock3]

Hey man, sorry for changing the topic but what do you think about the Blackpill? I've been observing this "ideology" for a while and thought it would be interesting to hear your point of view on it :)

[@dmackler58]

Hmm, I don't know much about it. I just read a little on the web about it, but I've never spoken directly with anyone on it... So I guess I don't have much to add -- except that it sounds very sad... Daniel

[@stephenfiore9960]

…Cool, but it could be kind of incomplete. You are a very compelling speaker

[@Earl_E_Burd]

Daniel, if you ever do a Q&A - I wonder what's okay for us to put in our private journal? For example, prejudice thoughts (i.e. gender, etc.)? Or are some of our worst thoughts just best kept to ourselves.

[@Earl_E_Burd]

Also, are there societies less sick than the western world?

[@Thenew104]

Im from saudi and I like your content and pure soul a lot, i got upset a little when i heard you say you don’t believe that our souls just stop existing after death, in islam we believe that the soul is from god and it’s infinite, no one can escape thier fate in the day of judgement. I really like your mentality to the point i pray for you to become a muslim, please please please try reading the Quran and learn about islam FROM muslims. Thank you❤️

[@Thenew104]

Ive been watching your content for more than a year now and i love how honest you are, Every thing you realised about people after those years is exactly what we learned from islam, im sure youre gonna find a new, better wisdom within the Quran.

[@juankgonzalez6230]

And, through time's sands and rivers, Plato endures (metempsychosis is a really nice thing, I mean)

[@ShinyaKyo]

I've been watching many of your videos and I'm always surprised how you speak from the "spirituality point of view" yet say here you don't believe there is a soul beyond death (man will you be pleasantly surprised once you cross over :P) . Also you seem to have arrived at these views by reflecting on yourself and looking inwardly, which is very impressive to me, and inspiring.

[@ginaroberts4355]

Haha the eyes like coralline. It’s not really funny just reminded me of how movies are so real.

[@QuixEnd]

I think by acknowledging the inner best self of others you're subtly reinforcing your own goodness. By admitting that even THEY are good people, that deep down so are you. Empathy for both

[@Rose_Ou]

I can only imagine how traumatized Jeffrey Dahmer must have been when he was a child. I can't even look at or listen to his father because I'm 100% sure he is the one to blame for what happened to his son.

[@alvodin6197]

Forget about blame, because we can blame the people who raised the father, and their parents and so. But, yes, it's obvious when you hear his father, he's a charlatan, a liar, dishonest. Dahmer defended his parents because that's what even children who have been abused do.

[@le_th_]

I speak the truth a whole lotta the time, and let me tell you, people do NOT like it. Wow, do they not like it.

[@JordanDuffie]

i love the videos and for a smart man as yourself don't make up your mind on the death thing that quickly if you can study real science that shows us are consciousness is fundamental maybe u can further help the world thanks for the videos

[@CompassionIsPower]

Yes! My parents have a glaze of dishonesty in their eyes. Exactly! Let's not diss reptiles, tho. Let's not be speciesist. Thanks!!!

[@thehumbleofsoul2256]

The Jeffrey Dahmer Video link is not working unfortunately

[@dmackler58]

Sorry about that! I will remove the link. I don’t know what happened

[@eliseuhackbarth7003]

I am sorry for you when you were a boy and didn´t have a mother to nurture you as you were. Don´t blame her. I know it is difficult to not blame. Well, at least she gave you a shelter, some milk when you were a baby, didn´t let you froze, etc. I also wanted to have a close relationship with my mother... I see others that are very close to their mothers and it seems so wonderful. But anyway, we must endure the path we got into and live up to it. As we grow older it becomes easier and easier to live alone, our brain adapts and we become what we have been in the past and so it goes. Edit. I hope that you can publish your book before you are gone forever from this world.

[@SDHT1111]

How ironic that after you stopped being a therapist, you continued being a therapist 😊

[@AgeofReason]

THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS!!!!!!!!!

[@JesusSaves77799]

Hello, Thank you very much for your very insightful and open videos. When you speak about your past and pose questions about your future way of being, I keep thinking about Jesus and His life and His teachings. He, too, was mocked, beaten and scorned for doing absolutely nothing wrong. Regarding someone stealing something from another (as when you were mugged and contemplating if you could have gone even further in your sensitivity to another), Jesus said the following in the Book of Matthew in the New Testament: ““You have heard the law that says the punishment must match the injury: ‘An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say, do not resist an evil person! If someone slaps you on the right cheek, offer the other cheek also. If you are sued in court and your shirt is taken from you, give your coat, too. If a soldier demands that you carry his gear for a mile, carry it two miles. Give to those who ask, and don’t turn away from those who want to borrow. “You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy. But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven. For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike. If you love only those who love you, what reward is there for that? Even corrupt tax collectors do that much. If you are kind only to your friends, how are you different from anyone else? Even pagans do that. But you are to be perfect, even as your Father in heaven is perfect.” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5‬:‭38‬-‭48‬ ‭NLT‬‬ bible.com/bible/116/mat.5.38-48.NLT This verse is a challenge for me too regarding loving others who have been abusive to us. I think we can be loving with extreme boundaries. Sometimes boundaries and no contact for a period of time is actually the most loving thing we can do. In my belief, in doing this and protecting myself and following the Lord, maybe with my non-judgmental, extreme boundary, maybe this action can actually cause the person who has hurt me to reflect in time about his or her behaviors or actions. I think this is actually the ultimate goal - to be lead to become a born-again follower of Christ. (To die to our original spirit and to become a new creation in Christ when accepting the Holy Spirit into our hearts.) Regarding your inspirational fantasy for yourself, I think you fantasize about ultimate truth becoming a reality. That is not a fantasy at all. This is exactly what Jesus teaches. That there is a universal truth and we will all know it soon. The Bible also shows these very important passages about Jesus in the Book of John: “In the beginning the Word [Jesus] already existed. The Word was with God, and the Word was God. He existed in the beginning with God. God created everything through him, and nothing was created except through him. The Word gave life to everything that was created, and his life brought light to everyone. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it. He came into the very world he created, but the world didn’t recognize him. He came to his own people, and even they rejected him. But to all who believed him and accepted him, he gave the right to become children of God. They are reborn-not with a physical birth resulting from human passion or plan, but a birth that comes from God. So the Word became human and made his home among us. He was full of unfailing love and faithfulness. And we have seen his glory, the glory of the Father’s one and only Son.” ‭‭John‬ ‭1‬:‭1‬-‭5‬, ‭10‬-‭14‬ ‭NLT‬‬ And, “Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. “If you had known Me, you would have known My Father also; and from now on you know Him and have seen Him.”” ‭‭John‬ ‭14‬:‭6‬-‭7‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ bible.com/bible/114/jhn.14.6-7.NKJV

[@davidcawrowl3865]

Re. Dahmer, yes, he had nothing to lose in just being himself when he was imprisoned. No walls, no defenses. In fact, it was reported that he was baptized into Christ. Where his soul resides now is not mine nor anyone else to speculate.

[@caliblue2]

Jeffrey Dahmer was more honest than my parents 😆 Brother I feel you. I guess they call that reparenting In what you would have liked to of heard, how you would like to have been treated. I actually came to believe in the reincarnate soul about age 50 after a life long ponderance And even the fact that we may choose our families/situation for our soul’s highest ascension. But I think each expansion is a continuation of the character You developed in your past lives. Both my parents are deceased but I don’t picture them having 1 ounce of remorse for who they were. When you create the positive image of them I feel like it does complete the circle and balance your psyche into the middle way where true peace exists. And when I walk to the park I’ll take myself as a child and say all the things that I wanted a parent to say to me. But if our souls are eternal that means we’re ancient and this isn’t our first rodeo. I’m like you in the singularity of existence- If this is my first time to accomplish it it’s awesome because I’ll start out even stronger next time. That’s a conversation you can have with your future/higher self😘

[@antiochiaadtaurum3786]

I think to the degree that you remain angry with your parents to more you are not going to move into your own adulthood. As you know, what they did to you was done to them. Looking for apologies from the next world is a waste of time. Move into your own power, move on.

[@LisaMQuinn]

There are no perfect parents, taking responsibility for your own growth is the only way through, and understanding Biblical principles (which are not part of this guy's worldview), which may explain why the blame game is his favorite passtime on many videos. Can't he set his healthy boundaries and wax strong and creative without scapegoating parents who of course had issues? How does that help anyone? I liked reading Carol Dweck's book Mindset. It talks about tunnelers who had way worse childhood than DM, and became contributing adults. Might be beneficial to understand who opened the door to Satan in the family system, psychosis, mental illness is nearly always witchcraft, occult or masonic ancestry. No, easier and better to blame mom and dad.(Not). Social workers can be so smart, but unless they understand the unseen spritual roots of disease, they're kinda dumb.

[@Misses-Hippy]

I have no idea what you're talking about.

[@maquantotempo]

Thank you so much Daniel for sharing your light. I feel reassured I have found someone else that feels similarly to me and has a found a way through the darkness. After seeing your videos I know I want to become my biggest friend and ally. Sometimes we waste a lot of time in life in fruitless relationships, giving more and more and getting less and less. I want to look inward and find in me what others could not provide/chose not to provide. I want to have in me all I need to have a rich existence in this world. I think I am almost there, at least 95% of the times. I have an incredible respect and admiration for your courage and honesty. Speaking against some institutions or societal taboos takes a lot of strength, courage and energy. You are serving the world with your wisdom and hard learned lessons and I want you to know that your energy was felt that on the other side of the ocean (Europe) and that my days have considerably been lighter after finding your channel. I can still see and hear a vulnerable child in your speech and body language; keep that purity and lightness with you please. It's the most amazing thing that we survivors learned to preserve. Please keep giving us your contribution and much needed life experience. You have another ally here in case you ever feel like it. 🙏🤍