A Man Is TOO IMMATURE For You When You See THESE 5 Signs

[@wejoin]

I met an immature man who did not have his priorities straight. He was very reactive, easily triggered, and was not interested in change. Trust me, he will not show up for you and only cause you grief.!

[@texasstardust6010]

...I knew one of these ...AND it CAN often mean " he's a " bad guy ".... damaged and damages other people.

[@stayitive4343]

Sometime self centered not 'interested' in anything unless self serving and on a transactional level, you just a human commodity without effort/investment.

[@rx4207]

Girrrrlll....i hope you ran farrrr and fast from that man!😁

[@PrincessJojo_]

Omg thank you and immature speaking negatively & def the anger issues he blew up on me for the last time

[@patriciasenter7601]

Hallelujah 😂

[@BelleMaria267]

1) cannot take care of himself 2) he doesn’t have his priorities in order 3) he’s guided by his emotions 4) he doesn’t take any accountability 5) everything has to be his way

[@ArcFallOrder1919]

Yup, I have to be careful if I ever see those signs I'm done

[@jasfaso9665]

Number 5🙄

[@xena1374]

I'm learning this the hard way.

[@mzwisdom7504]

And he Looks better Gone🎉

[@MercedesFamous]

This video just gave me the strength to cut off a toxic immature man. Thank you!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I’m so glad it gave you the strength to do what is truly best for you

[@jacl1923]

Me too!

[@bernitapennick5930]

Yes too grown boy immature and the mamma’s boy immature looking for a wife too take care of him

[@Petra.80]

There is no better turn on for me than a man that can pull himself together when he is boiling on the inside... Stays composed and not acting out of character... That part, oh my God! That is strength

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I’m praying all men can achieve this important trait

[@enumangene6914]

I tell you, it is a true strength indeed!!!

[@scdundee12]

Sexy AF

[@Bianca042011]

Currently healing from an immature avoidant “man” 🙃

[@mzwisdom7504]

😂 It's almost like they are a Dime a Dozen.

[@nicksterp2805]

Soo many out there!

[@PACKERMAN2077]

I'm healing from being that kind of way myself Long story short I'm 31 my mom died back in February she raised me to never leave her we were both codependent on each other emotionally physically and financially, I've been diagnosed with Asperger's ADHD bipolar manic depression as a kid and I haven't changed since grade school because my mom being a single mom for the past 13 years never wanted me to abandon her... That means I never changed and I'm still holding on to the Past. I lost my first girlfriend of 2 years, 7 months and 14 days... I didn't understand getting myself together I just wanted enhance someone's life selfishly with gifts and lavish attention but no concrete support because if I had a bad day at work I might want to kill myself I was overwhelmingly love bombing filled with guilt always trying to earn and prove my affection but I was cheating because I didn't even know what my sexuality was yet. Like I said I'm autistic and extremely impulsive it scares people and I get short-term memory loss. I was a extremely religious almost damn homeschooled kid my mom was my pastor when she died I started drinking weed painkillers Adderall for the first time and almost overdosed twice

[@nicksterp2805]

@PACKERMAN2077 that's great insight into your behaviour. I hope you find healing and sobriety. I see that a lot in dating. The mum gets divorced and clings onto the son. Never let's him have a life of his own as they don't want to feel lonely

[@NT-jf5vn]

The truly heartbreaking part is being with someone like this that gaslights you into believing they are worth it….that if you just were more resilient…more understanding…less judgmental…etc…and before you know it you have lost YEARS of your life 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

Self accountability is a way of being responsible.

[@PrincessJojo_]

Omg yes and not always blaming someone else. Also being controlling but don’t wanna be questioned.😤 glad that situationship is no longer he got issues and only see everyone else’s

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

@PrincessJojo_ That's good you got away from that.

[@patriciasenter7601]

Mr Speaks TY Once again 😊

[@carmstrong909]

He cannot take care of himself, He doesn’t have his priorities in order (broke but playing video games, not looking for jobs), doesn’t think things through - Emotionally Reactive (easily triggered, abusive, traumatic past), Doesn’t take any accountability ( he cannot see the wrong that he is doing, deflecting blaming everybody else). This we cannot overlook.

[@lala5061]

At all

[@LessettFoster479]

Dirty house too

[@janewasson4845]

An immature man is just looking for a Mommy he can sleep with.

[@daniellestanton8124]

That's nasty

[@anissaholmes4495]

Ewwww

[@etcwhatever]

@@daniellestanton8124 she ain't wrong though...

[@Thegoat1980-f7v]

THIS!!!!!

[@barbsyakubu]

Emotional immaturity is not necessarily financial but one who does not know what he wants or best for him, emotionally deregulated and lacks priority values as a partner and leader, this could be so draining and toxic with time.

[@bookwarmtee7750]

That's most men, unfortunately. Most men are still under mommies wings. Moms start raising men and stop cuddling your sons. You are just hurting them! As a single mom, I raised my son to be a man who can be the future husband of his wife. I don't need my son to place me first. I need him to place his wife first so they can build together. Pathetic how many mothers ruin their sons' lives, intentionally!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I won’t say it’s most (possibly), but definitely a lot

[@bookwarmtee7750]

@MeetStephanSpeaks Stephan, you are the relationship professional. I wouldn't dare to disagree with you. But my friend, come to Colorado and you will understand my point of view. Lord, have mercy!

[@SarahBurkholder-v9x]

Absolutely, I'm dating this man and his mom tells me all the time ' I see less of him since he meant you'. I about had it. He's job is door dash or shipped. I suggested that he should find a more stable job. He said no. He doesn't need to work because his mom and dad are both giving him money and two houses. I'm planning on breaking up with him soon.

[@bookwarmtee7750]

@SarahBurkholder-v9x I get you. That's a major red flag in my books. A man without ambition becomes a liability down the road.

[@jacl1923]

I agree!

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

Exactly...a man should be able to handle his priorities and etc.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Most definitely

[@Lemons19902010]

This is how my ex is. Financially unstable at 45, constantly calling out of work or working less than his scheduled 40 hours a week, always shifted the blame when issues arose in our relationship onto me, claimed that he didn't need therapy and could actually be a therapist himself, etc.

[@okaycola2]

They want you to be perfect so they can be the screw up. Somehow this is less work for them

[@Amazinglilflowers]

Sounds familiar to me lol

[@Cantetinza17]

I know a guy who is 50 and wanted to date me. His mom used to pay his rent (until she cut him off) and he is an alcoholic. No thank you.

[@atongethompson9345]

This is definitely dead on! I only regret I learned this much later. I was married to a man much older than me who bore every sign. Immaturity knows no age.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Very true, age does not determine maturity

[@atongethompson9345]

@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you, Papa Stephen! 😉 We definitely need more Men of Valor in this day and time. This war between men and women is very fierce!

[@11Dreams]

@@atongethompson9345It shouldn’t be a war. We are not competing with each other.

[@LilianKalu-cc3fb]

The worst of all is indecisive and sarcastic attitude

[@narrowjourneyz8665]

The sarcastic attitude definitely

[@angieb2472]

The sarcastic attitude is passive aggressiveness.

[@narrowjourneyz8665]

@@LilianKalu-cc3fb Then when you want to talk they say nothing and it builds resentment.

[@okaycola2]

My favorite boss built up her first husband only to have him leave her after he completed law school. I have always remembered this. It seems hard to find men

[@DasBan-o3i]

Cool-video! My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life as anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I'm saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him!

[@RatibaJhansoun]

I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but I could not let him go, so I had to do all I could to get him back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and I must say I am enjoying every moment.*

[@DasBan-o3i]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach one.?

[@RatibaJhansoun]

His name is Owen Abiola, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex...

[@DasBan-o3i]

Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked him up online. impressed

[@thanks2ugod]

Girl be glad. You can't make a man love you and want to be with you. What was he doing for you in exchange for all your love? He did you a big favor.

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

Healing is very important.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Without a doubt

[@Cantetinza17]

I know a guy who has trauma from his mother not being a mother and then up and leaving him. So now he has a negative outlook about women and his interactions with him is via web cam girls and only fan girls. I once asked for his help with my car, and he said that he'd only do it if I was naked the whole time. I said no way. I blocked him. For a friend of mine, he wanted her to wear a short skirt and bend over in front of him, not wearing underwear.

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

@Cantetinza17 That's really messed up. Hopefully he heals from his past wounds, and work on his negative views of women.

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

@Cantetinza17 If he was just asking you for freaky favors, and it was just the two of you that would not been so bad. However, apparently he's all over the place. At least you saw it for what it was, and wasn't nsíve about it.

[@Cantetinza17]

@TawandaClark-ii9ps He shouldn't be asking me for freaky favors period. We weren't dating. We were just friends. That's up there with a guy demanding sex for taking you to Buffalo Wild Wings on a first date. And I would have been public naked, not even in a closed garage. He

[@carmstrong909]

5. Everything has to be his way. My way or the highway, no flexibility. Throw tantrums, shame you nasty manipulate you to get his way, toxic, force you into his way

[@ArcFallOrder1919]

Don't forget the guilt trip

[@Linde6450]

I had such a man, for years no improvement, no job, always stuck in victimhood

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

This has happened to a lot of women

[@jerilee-carter1068]

That part about not be able to handle his emotions is why I had to detach. It became unbearable mentally and emotionally. His emotions was unpredictable and petty.

[@CLAUDETTEBELFIELD]

I have an issue with a guy who cannot manage his emotions by complaining about you to others. This is a huge no in my book. This should never happen. Any man that I have ever dealt with can walk into a room with my friends and family because I never complain about him to others. The only time you make others aware if it is abusive. But if it is not abusive, then your life needs to be handled between you all. This is a sign of an immature man to me. I can say that I don't do this. If he cannot understand the importance of covering his woman, then I don't want this man either. Because, in the long run, this relationship will not work.

[@LauraJeanz]

My sisters try to get me to talk about my man. We've been through the wringer over the years, and there is no way, no how that is ever gonna happen. I grew up in a family that didn't know how to take concerns to the right audience, and I'm happy to say I broke the cycle. I can't agree with you more about this being an indicator of immaturity we should use to choose relationships. I use it for evaluating friendship potential as well.

[@CLAUDETTEBELFIELD]

@LauraJeanz Amen

[@takeysha4]

Being immature is a turn off for me I could never get use to that

[@barbaratrevino4838]

I just want to thank you because I’ve been going through a break up and your videos have helped me be on the right path to heal and your words bring me a lot of comfort, God bless you and your family!!

[@dianaross1055]

💯big truth when you need a woman to survive on 💯 and cant grow up on living alone.

[@sanimal.social]

I'm totally with you on the work-life balance and maturity - there's a maturity required to be able to have a healthy relationship and to have awareness of how being overly preoccupied with work and money goals and being aloof will impact a relationship and how it will affect the other person. I really wish I had known this before marrying someone that seemed "mature" (self-sufficient, goal orientated) but with no emotional maturity or "relationship maturity". And accountability really needs to involve actually making changes and not just saying "I can see how you feel that, but I never want to upset you" and they keep repeating their upsetting, dismissive behaviours over and over again. Going only as far as saying the words is dangling a carrot, and I would say a form of gaslighting and a way of making the other person feel guilty for being upset, as though they should never have been upset in the first place.

[@AlexisNexia45]

To your first point, even as a woman in my 50s, there are men around my age , who talk about “building together”. I get that they may be struggling post divorce or job loss, but it’s not fair to expect a women to help. They try to make you feel bad for not wanting to date them. They may be paying their own bills, but want to ‘date up’, or at a different status financially. Why not date women at their own status or below? Then you hear men crying about women saying they’re ok being independent when they make good money. Maybe a good video would be , dating within your lifestyle . Particularly for people dating over 40.

[@gabrielamartiniuc6322]

A guy can be taking care of himself and his priorities aren’t in order . He spends more time in the bar than he does being productive. He has to have a roommate in order to be able to party. 46 yrs old. IMMATURE 😮

[@Amazinglilflowers]

Stephan I’m a mother of a son. He’s a toddler. Can you make a video on how a woman can raise a healthy, masculine man. I want him to have a great life and I don’t want anything I do, to come in his way

[@rx4207]

I am dead lol😂😂😂😂. I'm driving & listening to this & i had to comment. Best video so far sir. He said blah, blah, blah, & no woman should be puttin up with no nonsense like that, shit. A woman definitely does not want an overgrown boy in a man's body. I love the humor, & the laughing looks good on you! Ohh man, right out the gate & alllll😂😂🤪👌🏾🖐🏾🚘😁

[@jessicab331]

If this ain’t a sign Idk what is… I’m NEVER this early to a video😩… I’m absolutely having this problem right now and Idk what to do.🤦🏾‍♀️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I pray it was helpful to you

[@xena1374]

SAME!

[@erinkeating4271]

I'm definitely dealing with this

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I hope this video is helpful to you

[@B_ready4671]

Love that Stephan has a channel for men..I've often wondered if he advices men the way he does us woman..thank you for trying to bridge the gap btwn men & woman❤

[@lazavictory7330]

All correct sir 👍on point 👌

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for watching

[@JackieS812]

Great video! I was in this place at one time! Thank you!❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I’m glad you enjoyed it

[@ArcFallOrder1919]

To me I don't see a problem living with a parent as long as you have all of your priority stuff together, mental health situations and doing things right in order to earn your keep. But if you are just living off of your parents like a leech then there's a problem, not seeking help to grow up that's another problem and the red flags that I see you mentioned. But in other words I do see the red flags that you talk about I really need to see and I'm opening my eyes. I'm trying to recover. I have major PTSD from my past relationships. And I'm getting help as much as I can.

[@Claire-gv7pi]

My ex was all of these things! Happily single now i know better

[@dianaross1055]

Stephen speaks thank you for a powerful knowledgeable video ❤️ when a man is able to acknowledge his wrongdoings, able to live alone to grow it better himself to make positive decisions I believe that will help him to want to be responsible to be better and to love ❤️

[@DaisyC-nq2vf]

I dated a man who was easily triggered, did not care to take care of me emotionally or financially, blamed his poor behavior on me, treated his mother and sister poorly, he never took accountability or apologized but expected these things from me

[@luv04angels]

Yes! Accepting accountability is an attractive characteristic that I seek in a partner. I was in a relationship with a master manipulator. Whereas he would say, "he is working on himself and he is not perfect but work in progress." Then quickly try turning it on me, "you don't take accountability at least I am trying" (He sounded like a 5yr old versus a 51yr old. 😮‍💨) Now, I have heard these words for 2.5yrs and observed very little progress that repeated itself but no growth. When it became convenient for him suchas, after a break-up and when he wants to work things out...he will use these words. After having many talks about working on oneself and constantly having to diffuse his defensive side anytime we try to have a calm and mature conversation... it was like always walking on eggshells and/or calming a 2yr old down with a tantrum ..it's exhausting. I finally had to call him out on his bs in a mature manner by explaining, "An individual who is taking accountability for their wrongdoings is first recognizing the action and accepting it was an unhealthy choice that led to some type of hurt, then learning from it depending on what it is for an example if you hurt someone then 1 way would be self reflection to see where and how your actions came across hurtful, then owning your actions by acknowledging it was wrong and follow it up with a sincere apology, and with self discipline keeping in mind those actions were hurtful and by learning other ways how to approach situations by making healthier choices...is when the progress of working on oneself becomes growth. Self-awareness is by choice towards a healthier life.

[@strive09]

Hi Stephen can you make a video if the guy is insecure & unbalanced & pulls away because you too good for him 😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I will add that to my to do list

[@dianaross1055]

thank you for that request 💐 I need that video too especially when you know you are enough but instead they want to mentally hurt you because they is unhealthy for you 💯 thank you brother Stephen we both need to hear that video

[@strive09]

@dianaross1055 no prob 🙂

[@strive09]

Hi what’s is your email maybe we can chat

[@monikaleszko5343]

RUN!! I had that for 6 months and they’re nasty. Jealous insecure and secretly hates you Just RUN LOL

[@xena1374]

The crazy part is when you bring up things about him, and he then makes it seem like you're always picking/nagging/blaming/complaining ahout him.

[@morganedwards7936]

Hey I just wanted to let you know ever since I discovered your channel it’s helped me immensely 💯

[@helengracecacao728]

Yes you're really true...like what I see to my husband he don't know how to hold his emotion, even a small thing he get angry and the sad thing is he became a verbally abusive to me as his wife every word he throws is a cursed from his mouth .... Is it right my decision to leave him now.?.I feel unvalued and unespected.

[@etcwhatever]

My first boyfriend. I really loved him. We broke up and made up multiple times. It's been 7 years. We briefly reunited but not in an official relationship. We could have a child between the ages of 4 and 7. Since he is very immature I can't be with him. I tried to help him to no avail...He's the only man i've ever really liked or tolerated. Since I'm bi, I'm dating women now. All of it is annoying

[@NBPPOP]

I like that it’s not only talk about immature men but women too! P.s. I’m a woman

[@dpaper7962]

I’m in love with narcissistic man who falls underneath the psychopathic category smh. All because I see POTENTIAL in him. That’s where many of us get our hearts broken when we see potential in a person and in reality they are taking advantage of us. He doesn’t show empathy towards me, he can come off as selfish, BUT I AM STILL IN LOVE. BUT eventually I shall walk away or just accept him as a friend that I talk to once in a blue moon

[@JackieS812]

@@dpaper7962 you might want to re-think dating potential especially when you’re losing yourself in the process. Fall in love with you! When you prolong your healing, you’re basically saying I don’t know who I am and, as a result, you’re going to attract the wrong men. They prey on these kind of women! You have to learn to be alone before you invite someone else in. This was me at one point in my life. I’m not judging you! Just trying to help you find you! Sending lots of love!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Justdoit-q1n]

Please do, rrrruuuuuunnnnnnn, it almost killed me, I'm glad I'm out. God says no, we by pass the no, and enter in the why. This is Why I said NO, when we experience the Hell from those monsters

[@Amazinglilflowers]

Look into breaking trauma bonds

[@jenniferblack5140]

Run as fast as u can

[@09222228162]

Thanks for this

[@rainbowgoddess777]

Lol😂 I don't need 5 (!) signs to detect that..! 😂😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

As long as you can recognize it, then that’s all that matters

[@ellejolichaine140]

Education starts at home, and the first teachers in a child’s life are always his/her parents. I have always felt that our grandparents would have either taught us that, or take how their parents treated them and pass it down to us. Sometimes I feel like it’s an ongoing curse that’s really hard to get rid of. Like say, because your parents treated you badly, and now years later you’re a parent, and because of the way you were treated as a child, you decide to spoil your child. Not realizing that what you’re raising is a spoiled brat, who grows up with unbalanced family values. This world needs Jesus! Lol!

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

Absolutely no man should be acting like a spoiled brat.

[@nicksterp2805]

I dated a guy that laughed about being behind in his child support and spent it on beer instead. I told him i dont respect someone like that. I grew up w a single mum and my Dad couldnt care less about paying child support. byyee

[@denisej2937]

I had a coworker 52yrs old wanted to date me. I was thinking hell no😂. See and smell the immaturity a mile away. He associates himself with immature men who horseplay around with them and make obscene jokes 🙄. 🚩 lives with mom, doesn’t pay bills on time, credit score 530, plays tit for tat, and soo many other things I can’t I know for damn sure I can’t deal with. I also think he shows some signs of autism that I notice my niece show the same behavior signs. I suggested to him to look into it. I know u didn’t discuss this in your video, but also look for some form of mental health issues. ADHD, autism, bipolar, narcissistic behavior, substance abuse etc that go unchecked. My coworker is not a total douche bag, but we’re friends from a distance 😂

[@adoraloftis1517]

Your stating facts not bashing 😅

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you 🙂

[@monikaleszko5343]

What about forgetful and needing to be reminded ? is this immature or just a man with a lot going on lol

[@jolenemcclean3351]

Good advice !

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you ❤

[@user-wc5dw2qx9i]

I see the comments it shows alot of ppl are dealing with grown boys 40 plus mine is 44. Met me i had everything together came and stayed w me. I didn't see the flags. He doesn't know how to be responsible, pay bills, keep a car,work for more than a yr. Mommie to the rescue. He wants me to buy a home and him a car. No sir im running. Go back to mom, he claims he takes care of me how? His friends even called him a lil boy and needs to grow up . Priorities all wrong, he can go eat and bar everyday but that's it

[@Lifeofcivilrightactivistanetra]

Every thing your speak on is correct anyone get mad that in thier growth as as man an a woman. It’s more about growth an acknowledgment know when you been take advantage or when he like u purely without him ask you help but fail at his part.

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

No a guy should not allow his emotions to guide him either.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯

[@docwhoshops]

Thank you sir

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Always my pleasure

[@BrooklynRayne-w8z]

I wish I saw this video 20 yrs ago

[@ConchettaTucker-vc3cm]

Happy Holidays 🎄

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Happy holidays to you as well

[@bernitapennick5930]

Did you ever knew a man that said he was the captain, or king of the castle, but expects everybody to take care of him and don’t have no money drinks 40’s everyday and blames everybody else for his complaints and does not provide for anyone but he’s a leader right??????

[@ludmillabogucharska3182]

Good video, thank you. If you love someone, you always think about them better then they are, and justifying many things they are pulling on you. But these are the clear signs to watch out for.

[@Rose_Charboneau3619]

Reasons I'm staying single for the rest of my life.

[@TheEmotion215]

Stephan, wow, very insightful video! Thank you!! So I have 2 choice right now: 1. date a guy who is financially unstable (and long distance) or date a guy who has addictions (alcohol, weed) and emotionally unavailable…😢

[@sharnesejohnson6099]

Or CHOOSE not to date either one, especially if it’s truly not what you want…

[@Cindy_Love_2025]

Great video!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💯❤️

[@juliedaly2381]

Absolutely true

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Not my intention to bash anyone, but this type of dudes are prevalent in relationships where his mate is much older than him then she becomes his MOM, ATM machine and TEDY BEAR

[@agatastaniak7459]

I would say what he describes as "mature" is something I commonly see in women yet very rarely in men. Why? Society permits it to be this way. So if women hope for it in a male chances of finding it in real life are very narrow. I would say even more, looking at various relationships if our mothers had waited for someone like he describes to enter their lives, most of us would have never been born. But yeah, at the end of the day decision is always yours. In medevial times some females remained virgins for life in hope they will manage to attract a unicorn, so you can too. Some people still claim that such things like unicorns equpped with magical powers exist, so maybe males he decribe do exist too. ;-)

[@brandnewday1058]

Im gen xer....know a couple things...never met a man who lives with mom be good relationship material...NO MATTER THE AGE...man needs to be away from mommy...if he's saving $$$ ...never seen that either...

[@jenniferrivera3908]

#3,4,5 😂 smh. You bet I put my foot down.

[@wendyomanga]

Listening to you is so soothing. Are you on tiktok?

[@ibstayfly]

Facts 💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯

[@tshay8946]

What if he is saving but does not pay bills in his parent's house?

[@kayligo]

Do you want to wait and see if he gets himself together?

[@nicksterp2805]

I work in a mental health and there are soo many man babies out there. No job, takes drugs every day, just be irresponsible, mother does everything for him. Then he has the cheek to complain about the meals she cooks. And theyre 40! Grow up!

[@Cantetinza17]

Yeah I agree don't bash him, but you just have to be willing to not attach yourself to him. Let him figure his self out first. I dated a guy who was still living with his parents, but it was strategic and for cultural reasons. He was paying for his college and in his culture its ok for kids to stay with their parents until they get married. Lol, hes a little more Americanized, so as soon as his budget allowed he moved out. 😆 I commend him because he started his own business. It didn't go well, but he is going to try again at a later time.

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Knowledge is KEY this I can say with uttermost confidence After finding you and your channel I know that am on my way to better things , thanks a million Stephan mighty God will continue to bless you Regarding relationships and dating I was lost,but thankfully I found you and that's how I learned the way

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

That is awesome to hear 🙌

[@Kayzcruise]

@stephen hi Stephen I love your insight. God bless you 🤲🏻 can you kindly make a video on a topic a divorced man with kids wants to marry a woman in the same situation as his(divorced woman with kids) what should be the ground rules to discuss before marriage in order to avoid any occurrence of conflict Thank you 🤍

[@juliedaly2381]

Absolutely not for him at all

[@juliedaly2381]

These men will cheat

[@jarvisholland7837]

Great

[@brownshuga71]

Whats the channel for men? Just curious

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It’s here kzbin.info

[@RoyalSweetness22]

Lemme get five✋🏼 on the front side best friend. We know you could keep going tho. 😉

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏❤️

[@miss.moon.alyssa]

4B all the way

[@44DimensionSeven]

My ex had all these. My current has 000🎉

[@Kassiex5]

What’s his page for men ?

[@sarahaparicio1839]

#5 😂

[@JessicaAnotii]

Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.

[@Adakataba]

Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.

[@JessicaAnotii]

It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?

[@Adakataba]

Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.

[@JessicaAnotii]

I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤

[@emonramirez2338]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@suehailagrinsoni3470]

👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@flooredjustfloored]

Why? Religion

[@malimbep4298]

Undeveloped lol

[@trukingdomlivin]

Trying to contact you

[@ctgeblue17]

Is this video for reals? What age group is this for exactly cuz I'd be shocked an experienced woman would even consider these manboys!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

For various reasons it happens more often than you may think, at all types of age groups

[@nicksterp2805]

Guys i know your mom might not be able to afford rent on her own but its not attractive

[@gwendolynpatrick6539]

Don't fool yourself. He could be over 80 years old. And still a boy man

[@kmt4739]

🙏

[@lazavictory7330]

All correct sir 👍on point 👌

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much

[@carmstrong909]

5. Everything has to be his way. My way or the highway, no flexibility. Throw tantrums, shame you nasty manipulate you to get his way, toxic, force you into his way

[@lala5061]

Yea that's an abuser right there...don't care nothing about u for real just selfish...