5 Very ATTRACTIVE Things That Tells A Man You Have CLASS

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Firstly a man must be CLASSY in order to recognize and appreciate a woman with CLASS . " Hey Beautiful " if am attracted to him i will be loving this to

[@christinepeel9461]

And yet you can hear this in the beginning and they still end up cheating.

[@msdemeanour]

Keeping it classy = not getting naked for random strangers. Stay classy ladies 🎆

[@NatileeHamilton]

EXACTLY 💯

[@ladyzamora5157]

❤ yes! Tell them

[@alpal87]

This video is 100% true. I don’t go out often but when I do go to shows or go out occasionally I get approached. When I do these things I don’t do it for attention I do it because I want to be with my friends and have fun and I’m present. That aurora and energy is attractive and brings not only guys but all sorts of amazing people and interactions to me and has led to long lasting friendships and experiences. Shoot this stuff has happened in the grocery store and workout classes. My bestie says good things always happen with me. Focus on loving yourself, being disciplined, having a good relationship with God, and knowing your value and not standing for anything less. ❤

[@tonettanhelms794]

True 👍🏽 Indeed. Best Comment

[@ptcpowerup1350]

This is me as well sis!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳♥️

[@nickorobinson5328]

🏆

[@ishamunu1283]

People may forget you, but they will never forget how you made them feel. This is such an important message. In a healthy relationship you do not feel distressed and anxcious.

[@trietlytritueconhan]

Cảm ơn bạn đã chia sẻ suy nghĩ. Thật sự, khi chúng ta quá bám chấp vào những tiêu chuẩn hay hình ảnh về một người có "class", đôi khi lại làm cho chúng ta mất đi sự tự nhiên và cảm giác thoải mái trong cuộc sống. Bạn có bao giờ nghĩ rằng chính sự giản dị, tự do và không quá quan tâm đến việc phải tỏ ra "class" mới chính là điều thu hút người khác hơn không? Bạn nghĩ sao về việc thử sống một cách thoải mái, tự nhiên mà không cần phải áp đặt bất kỳ hình ảnh nào lên bản thân mình?

[@trietlytritueconhan]

Cảm ơn bạn đã chia sẻ suy nghĩ của mình. Việc tái định nghĩa một khái niệm như "BOY PHỐ" có thể phản ánh sự thay đổi trong cách nhìn nhận và đánh giá của xã hội về những yếu tố liên quan đến cá tính và phong cách sống. Tuy nhiên, nếu "BOY PHỐ" chỉ là một định nghĩa bề ngoài, vậy liệu cái gọi là "class" mà chúng ta tìm kiếm có phải chỉ là những thứ thể hiện bên ngoài hay là sự trưởng thành trong tư duy và hành động của mỗi người? Bạn nghĩ sao về việc một người có thể có "class" mà không cần phải dựa vào vẻ bề ngoài?

[@GregMunro]

A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient...

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

[@GregMunro]

Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white...

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks..

[@GregMunro]

You wont regret it.

[@Caroline-d5i]

@@TrentReeves-c2k Focus on self and improve yourself. it raises your vibration and if it is meant to be she will return. if not you will fall in love with yourself more and learn to live without her.

[@Danielle-r4u]

there are men who like drama too but thats another subject

[@NatileeHamilton]

💯

[@PaulinaMedia]

@Danielle-r4u yep. My last boyfriend. We broke up cause I was too normal for him (he introduced me to his friends and family as a “really REALLY good girl.”) He NEEDS drama, chaos and dysfunctional behavior.

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Yeah ,real drama KINGS out there 😂

[@rosamoreno4794]

02) self-respect - this varies from person to person and this varies with the person you are dealing with. I respect everyone and their space but I personally do not F with everyone. As you get older and wiser, I tend to prefer smaller circles, unfortunately.

[@MsE711]

🙏🏿🤗

[@msdemeanour]

Why unfortunately? I think it's great 👍🏼

[@cindyjones2093]

Being viewed in high regard is truly a blessing ❤💯

[@rosamoreno4794]

03) you are selective and not desperate- unfortunately most of us, men and women, see a pretty face or handsome sexy face and we tend to break for them. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@MsE711]

🙏🏿Thank you for the summary!! 🤗

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@tiannad1378]

4) having standards for yourself and others and knowing your worth, exuding that with the way you carry yourself and talk

[@talenalewis1823]

That's so true, but i have always been selective and not desperate and i could never understand why women get so crazy over a nice looking guy. I'm concerned about how you will treat me and if you have a nice personality. Looks are nice, but it's definitely not the most important thing.

[@vaksehund2]

​@@MeetStephanSpeaks You're gonna give great advice dear.

[@rosamoreno4794]

01) avoid drama 🎭- unfortunately this takes getting older and wiser and humbling to get there 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@ShannonJohnson-c6o]

its some old people that get older but never wiser smh

[@lovinglife58]

So very true! I am 66 and just now learning this, thanks to videos like @Stephanspeaks

[@KaeWhatsNext]

Not always. Not everybody is stubborn, unwilling to learn & emotionally unintelligent. ❤

[@KaeWhatsNext]

Sometimes drama is an addiction, & something is missing, drama fills that missing hole for some. Until its filled who knows. Im 28 & I genuinely hate drama, I also live a very mentally peaceful life. My mom is 48 and she hates drama but unbeknownst to her, she remains the center of it, wondering where to find real happiness at.

[@diidiijones9491]

Girl that is not true I have I'm in my forties when I was in my twenties and thirties I have experience older women and men. Who was very ratchet. Because of my good morals I still try to respect them but with a thin line there. It hurt me so much to see immature older people that I took my tears to Jesus and pray that God forgive me whatever I did to them but actually it was what they was trying to do to me.

[@rosamoreno4794]

05) a respect for others, you respect others - again, this is a tough one for me because I don’t F with everyone 🤷🏻‍♀️I respect people and their spaces but most of the time I want to keep my distance. I am working on this but it gets tougher as we age and get wiser.

[@MsE711]

🙏🏿🤗

[@crissipooh]

You never cease to uplift me within the first moment of all your sessions. I don't get on social media often-so when I do; it has to be worth my time. Keep up the excellent work. You are the real deal. Kudos to you my Brother! Peace

[@JStig12]

@crissipooh The only speakers that I primarily listen to on KZbin are Stephan, Dave Ramsey, Rachel Cruze, and George Kamel.

[@SUCCESSPASS]

It’s important to avoid drama, some people will try and manipulate you and drag you into it but you have to have healthy boundaries and put up a wall….!

[@dtoussaint0615]

You crack me up! Your one liners always send me 😂😂 When you said I like a little ratchet, I lost it 😂😂😂

[@TrendyT.]

Can proudly say I check off all of these.

[@naturalcurlyhair8331]

Rudeness, cursing is a turn off for me.

[@JStig12]

@naturalcurlyhair8331 Cursing is a turn off for me too. That might make me increasingly rare for a guy. I haven't felt led to settle for a woman who curses yet. I do have a desire to find out what causes women who do partake in that language to settle for that.

[@BylondaKing]

I always appreciate your knowledge.. definitely insightful

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm glad you found it helpful 🙏

[@faifai4635]

I definitely agree with the drama part

[@ringrinka]

i just realize your video here is louder than a month ago! am happy for this improvement! thanks Stephan and team... God bless....

[@gmilner84]

There you go wearing my favorite color!

[@KINGDEVON16]

Is it Lavender? or Purple in general?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@cindyjones2093]

I view my own self in high regard first and foremost ❤❤

[@lovinglife58]

Oh wow, I so needed to hear this at this very moment!! I had a horrible day and all the drivers on the road were so aggravating...lol (I was in a very bad mood), and I was so ready to tell my man when we talked on the phone tonight all about it (we are long distance), but when you said that classy women don't do drama, I decided to keep my bad day to myself......I know he does not like it either so by me complaining about my day, it would not sit well with him. THANK YOU !!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm glad it came at the right time 🙏

[@teresanevins7167]

Isn't there a way to talk about your day without drama?

[@Mywatercrystaltv]

I think there is a distinct difference between a desire to share the challenges of your day with your partner vs. "drama"

[@Marie-vz2qp]

A classy woman knows what she wants.

[@peanut20002001]

Really? How so? Explain.

[@teresanevins7167]

Unfortunately, some of the same men, (that say they don't want drama), help to create the drama with their dysfunctional behavior. You attract what you are.

[@tinajoyner8399]

Those are the type of men you stay away from.

[@peanut20002001]

Exactly. I’m an Empath type and my aura attracts narcissists, unfortunately, masquerading as nice, considerate men. I was just the trophy, non-dramatic women they want. The mask comes off from time to time.

[@nancyparra5741]

Yes

[@debk.7566]

I’m too Old for Drama~ Don’t waste my time ♥️ Well, said Stephan. Keep up your Good Messages🙏🕊️

[@cindyjones2093]

Awww ☺️ thanks 😊 for the encouraging words about having a good 😊 heart ❤and being a blessing

[@roxannemoore3659]

Drama you are so true I lost a good man from jealousy anger petty drama that he was not even a part of but my mind was playing tricks on me nd I showed my anger he jus got silent no calls or tex nd I did the same it ended nd I realized I was the problem child

[@sherylpeters5764]

Excellent content ❤ Thank you!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're so welcome! 🙏

[@fantasiaroberts5157]

That was lovely to listen to, I wanted to hear more! 😊 I fully agree with you Stephan 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏽💚

[@daneenbrown9651]

I have to invest in workout clothes lol Im always raggedy at the gym just getting there is a win for me lol

[@darleenowens6137]

I couldn't help thinking of Ms. Parker when he talked about a woman flirting with a man who's giving you nothing to work with. I love how Monique plays that role on The Parkers. 😆

[@ishamunu1283]

I do agree with Mr. S . The way they make us feel is the only truth about a relationship.

[@TaunaWestCoast]

Love your content you’re the best!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I appreciate that! 🙏

[@Cindy_Love_2025]

Lovely quote! Excellent video! Great topic!❤️❤️❤️💯👏🏼

[@tosheriahtaylor6849]

So true a "hot mess" and "you doing too much" is very subjective depending on the person 😅

[@jenniferjayasrivrindaraum655]

Stephan, your videos have been an amazing help, and you've provided so much support during my search for a healthy partner. Now that I found him, I want to keep listening to you and getting your advice! Will you make some videos for couples? ❤

[@ashley-nicole.]

Wow, I just put two and two together that the book, "The Man God Has For You" (that I purchased over 5 years ago) is yours! Thank you.

[@AshleyNisbyLMT]

Stephan...The guidelines you've (you/your team) given yourself for the last 6 years from what I've witnessed fit you well 😊. FYI in my opinion if the event fits and you want a cutie in a fitted dress so be it. Nothing wrong with having a lady who can flip her look and be versatile💜

[@Joy.Nakia.the.Musician]

Your videos are very interesting and informative. Thank you

[@alxura20]

please do a video on dating as a single parent. it’s rough out here 😭

[@ladonnapopovich5846]

Very well stated!

[@RoyalSweetness22]

I think those twists suit you, best friend. 😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you 🙏

[@cindyjones2093]

Yes 🙌🏾 I know my worth 💯

[@JackieS812]

Great video! Everyone should be respectful no matter what! As far as clothing goes, I say look presentable. I’m a tshirt and jeans type of woman but I can get dressed up when I need to. When I go to the gym, I wear capri leggings and a tshirt. Nothing sexy! Seeing a person’s heart in my opinion, is more important than anything. Also, I say stay humble because this is a very attractive quality! I appreciate you!❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you! 🙏

[@NatileeHamilton]

Stephan in my DJ Khaled voice 😂 And another one great video ❤❤❤❤❤

[@victoriavictoria4781]

I have these qualities and I’m still single 😅😅

[@5050TM]

This made me feel wonderful 😊 I do all these things already! ❤❤❤

[@MissBB111]

Thank you for this 😅 some of us grew up with no male figures in our lives, so videos like these really help us better understand the opposite sex 🙏🏾

[@PhyllisRobinson-b5y]

You are 💯 correct I don't have time for dummer. I don't have time for game. I like looking good and smelling good. I don't like showing my body . I get more respect the way I dressed. And I have alots of respect for myself. I respect him. And he respect me.

[@JStig12]

Maybe I've set my bar too low for class, but all I primarily feel the need for for class from a woman at the present time is no continuous cussing.

[@docwhoshops]

Hello there sir. You sound a little raspy. Feel better soon. Praying for you.

[@zensvlognotapro]

I allow men to open door for me I feel I'm too feminine ,I'm a lady 😊 . I like the way you share your expertise Stephen 😊👍

[@spiritualistdestiny8]

I will never go outside looking a 'hot' mess ..FRFR!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@monaeeekattii6923]

I really love my man to open my door. But I want to break the cycle. I'll open my door from now on.

[@pola2216]

If I kissed a man on his cheek after the second date, could that come across as deperate? He had told me before that he didn't know if I liked him enough to go out with him and he held my hand until walking me home. Then I kissed him on a cheek to say goodbye and he looked very unconfortable as if I did something wrong. I felt very embarrassed. Then he sent me a couple of messages and he basically ghosted me, I didn't reach out because I felt that I already did too much. I am so confused :(

[@user-wc5dw2qx9i]

What if he brings the drama, I'm not into that. I simply got disrespected bc I told a co worker I didn't feel comfortable w him telling our personal business that's a NoNo. So that causes chaos. He thrives off it. What should I do or am I doing something wrong. I've since said nothing. And he accused me of cheating in things is he insecure or what cuz I respect my relationship don't do those things, not engage. Someone plz respond

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Anyone that brings drama should be kept at a distance whenever possible 🙏

[@Sunlightsam24]

Is that a co-worker who’s a BF? Stephan is right, either way, stay away! Men are just as dramatic as women lol

[@alpal87]

Boundaries are things we do and we share those things with those around us so they understand how we operate our lives. It sounds like after you mentioned you didn’t want him sharing your personal business you realized you can’t be as honest with him and that’s why he is gaslighting you and suggesting cheating. I had a similar situation where I told the guy not 1x but 2x I didn’t want him sharing my personal things about me, I told him them in confidence. Well he continued to do the same thing in addition to not listening to me about things I expressed. When someone doesn’t hear you when you speak you stop talking the same way to them. As a result this guy started doing the same thing and accusing me of things. I turned around and told him more about my future plans with my schedule and he took it as an attack to him because it “sounds like I’m not going to be a part of any of that. I have goals too. Everyone has flaws” I told him I literally was trying to tell you more about my life because you said I was holding back and you respond this way? I said you need to ask why you need external validation and that he was the one constantly bringing up his past not me. More and more of that negative behavior and “victim” mentality came out after that response. He said “nothing ever went right in his life” and considering the position he was in after the choices he made I would disagree with that and tell him he is responsible for his choices and can choose what he does forward. Something I’ve already said countless times because I live my life by “what you’re not changing you’re choosing”. I told him on our first date that I don’t deal with people who move like that and have a victim mentality or “joke” in ways that are self-deprecating or inappropriate. I ended things and said I wasn’t going to be able to give him what he needed. You need to show people how to treat you by valuing yourself and walking away when someone has shown they don’t respect you.

[@user-wc5dw2qx9i]

@@alpal87 Oh yes, the gaslighting thank you he blames our age but he certainly doesn't understand a thing right from wrong. He's always right. I can't change him. Best I live my best life bc I have goals and want to be at peace and happy. He's a jealous, insecure man. That battles within. Wish him well.

[@Si_pearl]

Stephen you're right❤❤❤❤

[@DJBranch]

Hello Stephan, I enjoy your videos. I have a half-sister that is wanting a husband, but she thinks that the man coming into her life she doesn't have to change her look, i.e., clothes hair shaving her mustache. She thinks being feminine is wearing earrings and nail polish and her masculine energy runs men off and says it's due to being in the Army for 30 years. I would appreciate it if you could do a video regarding this position from a male perspective she has been watching videos from the female perspective. I believe that if a man really tells her the truth, no holds barred, it may help. Thank you.

[@CrazyLilGemini]

What about when the "drama" is caused by him?! Like you find women in his phone or him deleting messages and Lying?!! When he says you're causing him drama then are you the drama like can You not cry or have emotions? Like xan you not want to know what all you have been lied to about?!

[@emeriom]

First one here… hehehe 🤭🤭

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Yes you are! 🙏

[@grectsimarendorff7209]

True though

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you 🙏

[@grectsimarendorff7209]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you most welcome 🙏

[@Decades-pl2kl]

I think these videos are inspirational when it comes to getting relationship advice from a man's perspective to a female audience but believe me when I say there is a large population out there of drama kings ensuring they don't go unnoticed. The Kings with no kingdoms. Its not difficult to see the growing number of Kevin Samuel type men out there of all age groups that are using social media in targeting, bashing and publicly humiliating black women and ensuring they let the world know we are the brunt of their ridicule and jokes. Even white men and women felt the need to come to our defense and push back on the bullying and drama. I keep saying im going to do some research to see if there's any other male ethnic group besides black men who are using social media to attack their women. Unnecessary drama has nothing to do with being gender specific to women only and i don't sugar coat biased opinions.

[@katerinahoffmannova7309]

Agree!!!!

[@CBReal1290]

Wow. Ha thanks for confirming me! Lol

[@Iam_MunecaMichelle]

Classy women bring peace 🫶 are peaceful and look for solutions.

[@thethreeladiespodcast]

Exactly

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯🙏

[@ceemee3082]

11:27 Nikki Parker......you meant to say NIKKI PARKER! 🤣

[@tshawndajones6794]

🥴🥴😂😂🤦🏿‍♀️❤❤right to the lil bit ratchet🤷🏿‍♀️ 😂😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

😂🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

😂🙏

[@tshawndajones6794]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I feel like Jody off baby boy....Ion know why I do I just do 😭💀🤦🏿‍♀️

[@JNoMooreNumbers]

Drama? I avoid like the plague😂. Too old for that. Though if it's pouring rain or freezing I race to the door and open it😂. I'm and have always been silly. I like to see and have a sense of humor. Watch out for narcissists. Want to be worshipped and gets mad when you don't. Had a narcissistic bi polar stalker and had to sell my house and fix up another. That bad and got out of Dodge.

[@quinndellarogers1828]

I love that you said👂 that because I actually exude🤲 that type of respect mainly🤌 because I give it🤲, but I have noticed that since I've been single man run to the door 4 me❤or they just have that nature i💪n them to open the door for a lady 💅that's well-dressed. Like I am.🤗

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing 🙏

[@faithlamatrix3334]

What if a man pursues but doesn't call you pretty or beautiful? Does he still find you attractive? Should you be worried?

[@CarmelitaBabineaux]

Thank you peace that’s all I want🙏🏾✨

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Amen 🙏

[@Yesenia25-m8n]

Hi Stephan

[@KedyHunnnyyy]

Stephan, I would love to meet u

[@GracefullyMe82]

Amen 🥰

[@Tracie727]

He lost me when he said looking sexy, why to boost your ego? You can be sexy in sweats!!

[@laurenholloway8770]

I think sexiness is confidants, if you feel good in an outfit then others can feel that. 100% can be sexy in sweats.

[@Belizairebeauty]

That’s what he likes

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Don,t forget with the right fit and weight ha ha !!!

[@shysmoov]

I need to stop watching kountry Wayne skits.. it’s the only drama I have.. drama nonetheless 😑

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

😅🙏

[@user-wc5dw2qx9i]

Im classy but i like to be ratchet sometimes like do i do that in the comfort or our home, like what .. i dont want to be boring acting like a old lady.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thanks for sharing 🙏

[@aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470]

Then you know what you are.

[@Love2Love927]

I act silly aka ratchet at home. Everyone knows what I’m going to do & they love it !!! They can’t stop laughing. They prob come over or invite me over just to laugh 😂

[@denanikiawilliams]

Labossiere You talking about what you like🤗. Sweetheart God know what you love🥰. You know your girl is going to be herself regardless. By the way sweety, I got your sexiness. You already know, you can read through it, but please keep it going sweetheart. We're loving every bit of it💜💙❤.

[@robinbell4418]

I keep seeing rachett in comments. You can be sexy and classy, and yet NOT rachett

[@barbaracanterbury8533]

👌👌

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thanks 🙏

[@ORANGELILY4U]

☀️✔️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@eleanorjamison1985]

❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@hijaumorson]

seriously

[@11940ful]

Stephan, I can’t believe you love ratchet women. You’re too classy!! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

😂🙏

[@Lasting9]

😅

[@gold-in-melanin7488]

"All about balance"

[@11940ful]

@ 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@erniechipdouglas9779]

This man is so dysfunctional he makes statements about women’s situations and laughs when he’s repeating unfortunate things such as when a man does or says something which hurts a woman’s feelings it’s happened multiple times he chuckles the timing is wrong you’ve just said a man has insulted a woman yet your laughing

[@lauraschouweiler-sy1os]

In other words you have to be perfect to be classy in a man's eyes!!!! Lol.....

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Lol not at all. 🙏

[@frankyavery]

This video sounds familliaaarrrr...

[@user-nd3tg5zn1b]

I don’t care about the drama of your sports team or your kids team ! The drama of you wanting to cruse people out because of their driving!! So try to keep your drama at a minimum because you don’t play those professional sports 🏀 🎾🥎⚾️🏈⚽️🎳🏒🏏🥍🥊🏂🎿🚴🏋️⛳️🤼‍♂️🤾🏌️‍♂️🤽‍♀️🤽‍♂️🏄‍♂️