A Man's Guide To: Dating An Anxious Person

[@HikmetYolcusu]

Over functioner and under functioner anxious can be the same person displaying these qualities in different aspects of life. That’s my experience.

[@GoodMagnetic]

Thank you! Perfect timing for this video in my life

[@skiaddict08]

Me too

[@rolyjoely1]

Me 3

[@Erika-q3d]

It was very eye opening hearing about how my insecure attachment affects my partner. I’ve heard him say I make him feel all those things normally in the midst of an argument so I had not absorbed it like this video. It is something I will be talking to my therapist about.

[@RivyO]

You are literally explaining my dream guy. Thank you Connor. This is exactly what I want in a man. Literally saving this video for future to even practice this on myself.

[@realBeltalowda]

And if both people have anxiety you can see this dynamic continuously flip back and forth as each partner gets burnt out overfuncitioning to make up for the lack left by the underfunctioning partner until that contempt and resentment and EXHAUSTION builds to the point of causing a rift in the relationship. At that point the underfunctioning partner can switch to become the overfunctioning partner and vice versa.

[@error_User_Not_Found81]

Damn brother needed this one today, I'm in the talking stages with this amazing girl and we both suffer from anxiety from abuse, and lately we've both been going through it

[@valentine-p2r]

This is also great info for us anxious people to know how to take care of ourselves.

[@TommyLomeo-k5d]

I have been BOTH and I can tell you with absolute certainty that Over Functioning isn't just the most toxic and hurtful towards your partner, but incredibly toxic to yourself. I was always trying to 'Do' because I was afraid, insecure and an egotistical asshole because I was living a false life. A lie. Being over critical, even if it comes from a place of love, can destroy your relationship and the person you love. Please... it's never to late. People love you and you can get better. 🫂🫶💪

[@lachutequimarche8074]

This channel has been so much more helpful than other forms of therapy I’ve done so thank you yet again for helping. I was nodding my head and tearing up throughout this. Thank you!

[@pjhikes]

Excellent. I will watch this again, I know there is more to learn.

[@mrrostaron2386]

Would you also make guides for "Dating an avoidant person" and "Dating a disorganized person"?

[@ManTalks]

Hadnt thought about that, but absolutly! Great suggestion. On it

[@davidmonroe2008]

Interesting how your guide for an avoident person is less than half the content as anxious . Done just like an avoident person Maybe?

[@musokiemily336]

You explain these things so well. It's exactly what happens

[@mustangjane77]

Great talks you are providing. I will be referring many of my male clients to tune it!!

[@kylejones3526]

Fantastic job once again Connor, appreciate your consistency and contribution. Kyle

[@Smitty617]

Hey Connor, do you have any videos on Retroactive Jealousy OCD? If not, I would really love to see one. If you had and I just haven't found it, could you also do one on dating someone who suffers from it?

[@carpediempersonaltraining4249]

Loved this. Thank you

[@Tyler-Dubs]

Very helpful! I will try your suggestions on my wife.

[@nikosilix111]

Related HELLA hard to this 😮

[@lorna197]

Great content Conor! I have to say… “let’s make out” as a suggestion when your partner is feeling anxious. lol 😂 Not sure that would help me, I’d probably roll my eyes at my guy if he suggested that during my anxiety. 😅🙏

[@SD-fc7jn]

Thanks! Keep up the excellent content.

[@gaberealgaminggrg4768]

I’m not the anxious partner but I have anxiety about confronting my partner about her anxiety…

[@DJFamouzGamer]

Guide to avoidant?

[@jake_with_the_BIG_snake]

Thx for putting out Absolute chad videos ☺

[@jesseskellington9427]

Thanks for making the video :-)

[@e6e55]

For dating as an anxious man wht to do

[@MapBroVideos]

he released a video about 2 months ago about this 👍

[@jesseskellington9427]

Seattle Washington does anybody have a therapist in this area? I have an ongoing issue for the past 10 to 15 years with the my ex the mother of my children and her mother the children's grandmother. I've gone through 12 mental health professionals nine lawyers to judges and one magistrate. No one has ever heard or understood this paradigm. Just looking for somebody that can help me through it

[@bluepak]

B A D A S S !!!

[@surgeonvicryl4872]

i wish my avoidant ex was that communicative but no.

[@gaberealgaminggrg4768]

The people who we watch this video for are not watching their own videos most of the time. So when try something we learned from KZbin they’re not receptive to it at all and don’t even get a real chance to practice it

[@dadmanlafosse90]

This is the first time i looking for help , im the good dad probaby drink to much wheb im sad thought anxiety is a excuse everyone has it deal until i realized those people have prescriptions we drink and fight fast itd the.same thing i pride myself on being the Hero neverbsaw what I was actually doing, i dated some one who I thought was the underperforming one No i clealry realize i was that but when ingotnhome I would go in the bathroom and listen to two songs for my best friends that passed ine about metal hype song theb desr alcohol to try my Honest question is how do not fix it wheb that's all you have ! I suck alone is it yoga my buddy suggested church its ok but that is not ny issue I know I'm a good guy jistnask my little girl but sorry long story short im the under preformer after i lived with it where do i start

[@KG-uo7jv]

🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

[@carls7860]

If i buy your book is it just for straight men or does it cater for gay men also? It seems all your content here is about dating women etc..i don't like reading a book that mentions wife/girlfriend etc rather than just saying 'partner'

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