A Man's Silence Means THIS! Do THIS When He Pulls Away

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@beastewart2293]

Will definitely join!

[@KVG822]

This is happening to me. I asked for a more of a commitment and he said he can’t he has so many thing going on. I said I am 38 and would like to build a life with someone. I just removed him from my life.

[@MCR_8967]

Smart Girl!!

[@NatashaBailey]

well done

[@joycefiore2721]

Sharing your feelings to a narcissist doesn't help. They have no empathy and turn things around on you!

[@JonathonAslay]

That's the time to run...

[@joycefiore2721]

​@@JonathonAslayI know that's what I should do. The trauma bond is strong! I have been sticking up for myself! It sucks really bad! 😢

[@mimimorales6999]

Ty for reinforcing how I feel and see things❤️The right guy will not have you second guess anything. Love listening to you!😂❤so funny!!You are 100% right.

[@RoseMoke]

Opportunities comes once and born once

[@VitranaVitrana]

Interviewing or interrogating is definitely key! But I am always surprised when some men find it difficult to accept this process.

[@Lil-Be]

It depends on how you do it. If it doesn’t feel like a job interview but rather a genuine interest, they are usually okay with that, unless they have bad intentions and/or want to hide something.

[@beastewart2293]

Erm...I think you need to be coached by Jonathan....interacted? 😅

[@sherriflemming3218]

I heard men say they don't like to be questioned. Intelligent people ask questions. Inquiring minds want to know.

[@JonathonAslay]

Indeed

[@RosemaryBrewington]

I completely agree with you ❤

[@rainbow616]

I'm so happy that you're speaking about most people over 40 being wounded because I see that in myself and other people. I think it's really sad. 🙏❤

[@RosemaryBrewington]

I asked twice and I never ask three times

[@katemoffitt1641]

His love bombing & discards are due to other “peeps” being in the pic. To think otherwise is 2 my detriment. He wasn’t an avoidant. Nope! Just a liar. Known him for 30 years, but when he came back n2 my life declaring ME as the “love of his life” … it ended up being pure BS. Been 2 years of painful hell since then… but I’m dating someone else now & am finally feeling better. Whether I’ll ever get over it or not IDK. Sadly, I don’t believe a word out of anyone’s mouth now… BUT I will still be my loving self. Won’t let it change me.

[@JonathonAslay]

That sucks 😕

[@joycefiore2721]

It's raining good men!!

[@BBGoldenGirl]

I needed this two weeks ago when I was honest about my feelings and he completely disconnected. It stared with silence and then a text telling me he didn’t want to continue communicating! Thank you for all your insight.

[@sandraaaa6486]

I love this ‘you have to be your own match maker’

[@JonathonAslay]

Exactly!

[@RosemaryBrewington]

I agree with you completely ❤

[@Pickles1497]

Yeah more Jonathon. Good morning❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Hi 👋

[@adrianacavalcanteapo]

We've being seeing almost everyday for a month...Yes I did some questions, and heard all of sudden that my questions were too deep and he wasn't prepared for that and felt pressured... Then is slowly pulling away. I feel sorry, but won't regret, maybe I could improve the way or when I asked. He is definitely scared of deep questions/conversations....

[@JonathonAslay]

How you ask somethin matters...

[@carimccrary7907]

Needed this. Thank you for helping me stop my internal narrative!

[@JonathonAslay]

Happy to help!

[@NarcissistExpose]

Man Silence means Pain

[@chantallajeunesse6621]

It is so well said. Thank you for your guidance Jonathon❤️

[@JonathonAslay]

My pleasure 🙏

[@hilaryfalkenberg9348]

Always enjoy your podcasts on this subject! It gets me out of my negative circular thinking!! ❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Love that!

[@AutumnLady46]

A man should not be a project ,neither should a woman be , specially when neither works on their issues , an relationship should be a fun advanture for both not counceling eithother .

[@judieddins9994]

This makes perfect sense! Thank you for your insight.❤

[@JonathonAslay]

So glad!

[@Cezzlina]

I needed to hear this- thank you.

[@JonathonAslay]

You are so welcome

[@joannebugden3737]

@@JonathonAslay i love ur site Jonathan Have just discovered it and like a good book ,cant stop watching it. I wish i would have had access to ur helpful topics many years ago Better late than never Thank u immensely from Australia

[@hunchen54]

This was brilliant..exactly what I needed ❤. Love from Sydney Australia 🇦🇺 Xxxx

[@JonathonAslay]

🙏

[@bonnygoldberg5852]

Hi Jonathon, Thank you for sharing this very important knowledge. Blessings to you.

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad it was helpful!

[@DivineFeminine99]

Thank you for making this content . Soooo educational. Applies to both sexes, as well , FYI

[@emilyc5625]

Hi Jonathan - can you do a video on when you have to select between two great men ? Do you go with the safe bet you really “like” or the one your are madly in love with but your unsure bc he is a wild card. Wild card could just my own insecurities I’m not sure . Hardest decision both such amazing men. Why isn’t the answer coming to me ?

[@MCR_8967]

Great question! I have on myself in this situation once too many times.

[@napagaportuphy8509]

God bless you for sharing. I feel so relieved.

[@JonathonAslay]

You are so welcome

[@geraldenecrabtree2587]

That’s happening to me now. Has been5 Days since I’ve got a text.

[@JonathonAslay]

Message him

[@kathleenhenne7199]

I miss hearing you! I’m back

[@JonathonAslay]

Welcome back 🙏

[@Nisi.Dominus.Frustra]

Great advice! Well said ❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad you think so!

[@mariahughes533]

Totally makes sense! Thank you!

[@tonih4887]

Love your content and channel. New subscriber.

[@JonathonAslay]

Welcome aboard!

[@Vickster-i3h]

What happens when you meet someone and you’ve done the work and it’s fairly obvious he hasn’t or isn’t the type

[@JonathonAslay]

Bummer?

[@TILLY4TILLY]

Thank you I so needed to hear this! I have been so heartbroken from a situation like this. question: Do a man whom go silent and brake up like this, reach out once they have sorted them self out ??

[@JonathonAslay]

Hard to say

[@joannebugden3737]

Im sorry to say in my experience, once the silent treatment kicks in, and they go away to digest whats going on, silent they stay

[@papayaaaa90]

Do you have a video about how to handle/navigate a convo about a pre-nup? Is there a possibility that with a pre-nup a guy would not be “all-in”?

[@shalimar29]

Dear Jonathon, I love your content. Could you please write the dating vows for those who do not want to have sex before engagement or marriage? I would really appreciate 🙏

[@JonathonAslay]

Www.jonathonaslay.com/datingvows

[@shalimar29]

I have an update from my friend. She presented those vows to the man she was dating & he laughed her off. He said that she was strange and dating is not about vows. Also, Jonathon, I've checked the vows from your link and they are the same as those in your video. How can I update them for my sister's case where she does not want any sexual relationship before marriage? Please write me what to say

[@aazmeer1000]

Love Yr shirt lavender

[@JonathonAslay]

🙏

[@Lil-Be]

Great video!

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@CareBear-og6pe]

OMG! I watched the first episode of golden bachelor on prime last night. I was embarrassed for every single woman on that show. I’m not sure if they are actors or what. Every single woman was cray cray! It’s a perfect example of how not to be IMO. It had to be fake? Plz tell me it was fake.

[@JonathonAslay]

I found it interesting

[@yw2274]

I do agree with you. I tuned into the episode where they were having a pickle ball challenge. I think I lasted 30 seconds. I was appalled and embarrassed for them.

[@michellem8284]

They seem very desperate.

[@sumitasarkar866]

Thank you

[@beastewart2293]

Surely there is a difference between due diligence and interegation? I say this because iv seen women...my friend in particular interegate her partner..most women 'hen peck'. I'm saying this as a female and it's ugly!

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes

[@LP-lk4wv]

I take issue with your friend Allison. Jonathon you know I love and adore you, however, how can a person spend 3 years with somone, on that level, and NOT be devoted to them? Another point of contention is her use of the word "devoted", as in NOT to veto a person (After THREE years, like hell! she would have been lucky to get two dates out of me if I were a man..lol) ...if that is how a person would feel about me, I would run so fast to get away from them...and they would NEVER EVER get three years of my time...I'm far too precious to ME....need I say more? (All comments and feedback are accepted on mine, negative or positive...it is what it is...stay blessed all)

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@janehawkins4042]

We can do the same! .. 😁

[@nalubegamariam8980]

❤❤❤❤

[@maxinelee8500]

What if is not talking to you

[@JonathonAslay]

Move on

[@RabeccaMosibudi]

I have been with a guy for two years now n when iam with him he always tell me to ask him that what are his attention about me n iam scared to ask him what must I do

[@AutumnLady46]

Tell him to tell you what his intentions are , really strange reaction from this man ,he could just tell you right ?

[@RabeccaMosibudi]

@@AutumnLady46 very strange yes that is true why must I ask him first

[@mrskauvaka]

👏🏽👍🏼

[@JonathonAslay]

🙏

[@DianaVeach]

hi

[@JonathonAslay]

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