If A Man Does THIS, He's Loyal To YOU!

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@lee48lee68]

@Jonathon Aslay- I’m a married woman who thoroughly enjoys your videos. Your teachings should be part of the high school curriculum.

[@JonathonAslay]

Awe... thank you 😊

[@melissajenniferjones9959]

Agreed 💯👍

[@maristella287]

They used to teach Dating and Marriage in some Catholic High Schools. But I went to one that taught it at the boys school before it merged with the girls school and we became a coed Catholic High School. Why they stopped teaching it at first, I understand, but I hope that they brought it back. I kind if doubt it. When the two schools first merged, we kids were very vulnerable and it would have felt like pressure and it would have been hard for us in Senior year. We were the first merged class that got three years together. Being together added a new and real pressure..

[@Jackie-g2p]

I wonder if Jonathan " SMACKS his lips When start talking !!! ???? Irritating really

[@renette0506]

Oh, Jonathan. This brought tears. Ive done so much work, but I choose those who haven't. Think I just need to quit men & focus on my grandkids and work. Thanks for setting me straight... because I am awesome and need to attract the same. Hope you keep up the good work, the world needs you.

[@lorrainec3673]

So true! I broke up with 2 servicemen exactly because I thought it was ironic that they worked in fields performing “acts of service” but I found out the hard way that it didn’t apply to me 😳 - I asked why & was told - I thought you had it handled! 🤬 - I wasn’t physically involved… but long distance… seriously.. wth?!?! My relationships typically last 3 years or more with daily contact & very physical. I agree you need interests together & apart to sustain the relationship. My last with my Ex was established in 2000 and we were in a band together. We had alot of fun but there was no romance, while we did have kids from 2015 & 2017 but that was very clinical and that’s when it started falling apart. I’ve come to the conclusion that he didn’t want a family. It was 2017 when my marriage ended. So, it started with everything, but it was missing a truth. Therefore, the loyalty & commitment was there, but the honesty on his part wasn’t there. However, I do have my children and have a chance to start over. I have the attitude of gratitude 🙏 ❤

[@JenHistoryFuzzAdmin]

As a mature woman, I also have friendships with ex significant others. Those relationships didn’t work out for a REASON, but it doesn’t mean you can’t care about each other! Sometimes men need a woman who will be HONEST with them, and they rely on you for that to help them in their own lives! I’m friendly with all my exes. When they need prayer, they contact me! I’m glad they all know me well enough to do that! I don’t hold grudges against anyone. That doesn’t serve me. Period. They all wish the best for me, and I’m the same way with them. I know it takes a mature person to accept that, but maturity is extremely important in any relationship. If I wanted to be with ANY of my exes, I would be. BUT I’m NOT. There’s no reason to feel insecure. If I’m with a man, I’m WITH only HIM.

[@sacredartscommunications5522]

Excellent presentation. “Commitment” is a character trait of a person of integrity. Integrity in a dating relationship is integral in moving toward TRUST. “Trust” is a necessary foundational point for marriage.

[@12Messenger]

I dont have to remain loyal to any girl that isn't my wife. If I have talked to her about marriage and we agree to go through with plans, than it is important to honor each other and God.

[@sherriflemming3218]

A man shows a woman his character in the courtship phase. Who a man is during this phase generally will indicate how he will behave as a boyfriend or husband. Patterns of behavior. The track record.

[@caterinaplatt9811]

@@12Messenger I'm not sure of your age, but this sounds as though you may be young? You likely haven't reached a place in life where a committed relationship is important to you. Don't rush it.

[@12Messenger]

@@caterinaplatt9811 I'm 24. Im not committing to any girl unless she makes plans to be with me forever in marriage. Why commit to a girlfriend who may come and go as she please?

[@caterinaplatt9811]

@@12Messenger Well, I'm 58, recently divorced, and dating. When the relationship becomes physical, it becomes exclusive. Like I said, you're young and in that restless stage of life. Guys are different, I suppose. Even in my 20s, I was the one man at a time type if there was a physical side to the relationship.

[@CBReal1290]

Once again, real relevant relational road mapping for the once-had-a-relationship and believing the next can be better

[@noralynn3568]

I know I was a little nervous at first because he kept mentioning his dead wife but now he's completely committed to me and he says he has my back and loves me more than he did his wife! I Call Him a Keeper 🎉

[@aena5995]

😢what if he already had a wife and kid but for me at 21/22 he's the first guy should I even bother??

[@JonathonAslay]

Yay!

[@aena5995]

@@meeperbird any advice for me ? 😢what if he already had a wife and kid but for me at 21/22 he's the first guy should I even bother?? He's turning 23 I do feel like it's kinda Injustice to me in a way cuz he's already been with someone and done the "firsts" and would probably always prefer the first kid but he also ghosts my texts alot and then starts lovebombing saying I want to marry u blah blah

[@cammiek3348]

@@aena5995no, back away… red flags 🚩

[@Goldenowl66]

Don't make it a competition between you and his deceased wife. He should love you for you, not more or less than his late wife.

[@lauriemorales7605]

I've had more than 3 😢 I was in real physical, committed relationships and it has damaged me. I am working on bettering myself

[@elycswong21]

To my opinion, if that is still love in between us, we will trying hard to make each other happy rather than an excuse to drop the issues.

[@lauriemorales7605]

I am very loyal and am really hoping to find someone who appreciates that. But I also need to have boundaries.

[@maristella287]

You look very nice in that shade of light purple. It really works for you. Thank you for all of this and the deep thinking you have done for years and which you bring to all of us!!!!

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank you so much!

[@debbiesunbrock425]

If you have a relationship with an ex partner. My answer would be no. If kids are involved only around each other for weddings or graduation. All other needs with kids you can do at separate times. Women or I don't even look at another man whether that other person is attractive or not.

[@joansandeen9443]

Excellent advice especially the definition of love. ❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes! Thank you!

[@sherriflemming3218]

Defined well, Jonathon . ♥️. Trust is paramount. Establishing committment early on. They meet and date with a committment mindset. A grower builder is a keeper. Committment is a trait in a person of integrity.. I've had more than 3 significant relationships.

[@marybeeler501]

They can also be kind to other people just not you

[@jeaniemeredith4052]

Been married 3 times. First marriage 8 years. Second marriage 10 years. Third marriage 25. I give it a good go, not for sure about doing it again. I’m a terrible picker and I’m starting a new life at 65. I’m 71 now and really don’t want to go through that anymore.

[@RosemaryBrewington]

Bear hugs for you Jonathon ❤🌹

[@bellapetersen2279]

Really resonated with this talk. Was with someone for 11 years (not living together) but broke up as fundamentally he was not able to “have my back” and hadn’t healed to be able to truly love another (or perhaps himself)🙏

[@mercedesescoto628]

Wow ! ! ! Your knowledge and wisdom just grows and grows. Thank you for sharing your insightful spot on presentations. I keep participating from Puerto Rico. God bless you. Shalom

[@JonathonAslay]

Wow, thank you

[@hilaryfalkenberg9348]

Great to hear this Jonathan! It all makes sense in the grand scheme of things! All very, very important! ❤️

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad you think so!

[@terrim3133]

I listen to you often, and this was brilliant and amazingly said Johnathon!

[@JonathonAslay]

WOW, thank you 😊

[@maristella287]

Jonathon, You have helped me very much during a very trying time since my mom passed away in 2017. The radical honesty has been revolutionary especially with a few men who are see.ingly quiet types of men. Acts of service seem to be their firte thus far. My Dad did that for me like filling up my car with gas before a trip. These acts resonate with me so much in a man. When they make things easier for me it's a deep language to me. There is more to say. I'm going to keep listening to you. Thank You. I was praying tonight and I want to be a wife. Thank you for emphasizing the commitment and marriage as the GOAL. Thank You.

[@JonathonAslay]

🙏

[@kayesmith8040]

So much value❤❤

[@caterinaplatt9811]

excellent description of what it means to love someone.

[@Align45]

Great video! I appreciate your authenticity & vulnerability. Great, refreshing content. Thank you!

[@JonathonAslay]

I appreciate that!

[@maristella287]

YES, I have had more than three but when I was younger than now.

[@kayesmith8040]

This so sweet ❤

[@GuruInTheOffice]

Jonathan, I have been a huge fan of your work up until this video where you talk about transparency and you shared that you have "significant friendships" with two women you've been intimate with. This was the problem in my last relationship. I don't understand why men feel the need to do this. Once a relationship ends - it should be over. It's not fair to your future lady in your life or future man in hers. When mine are over - I literally have NO reason to ever speak to them again. Please explain the logic behind this. I thought you really made sense up until you disclosed this. I'd really love to hear the reasoning behind this.

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@GuruInTheOffice]

What is this supposed to mean? @@JonathonAslay

[@lizstarcevic9657]

Meaning once a person has a new relationship they shouldn't maintain a close friendship with past people who they have been intimate with. As obviously that will only bring unnecessary drama as in insecurities, doubts etc with the new partner or love interest .I agree why have significant friendships with anyone from your past who you have been intimate with? How could that possibly make the new person feel good?...we have boundaries , standards, for a reason.

[@GuruInTheOffice]

@@lizstarcevic9657 Thank you!!!!!!!!

[@glenyshill72]

Indeed, how would one avoid emotional infidelity in this kind of scenario !?

[@michelemcauliffe7671]

Love ❤ this. I am going to share with my 24 year old daughter 😊

[@JonathonAslay]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@jazzmatazzle1042]

Great Talk ❤ Good Medicine❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad you think so!

[@shecando8917]

I think the coffee mug quote is referring to coffee as what makes the world go round!!

[@JonathonAslay]

👍🏼

[@TMN22]

What an absolutely insightful, warm and wonderful video‼️🥰Thank you very much🎉

[@tianiemitchell5692]

Regarding your cup I believe the person gave it to you is trying to say that you help people with relationships therefore there could be marriage and children which helps the world go round

[@Teewriter]

I knew I was in a serious relationship, When my now husband threw away his phone back, ha ha, that was “back in the day”

[@JonathonAslay]

Lol 😆

[@WandaYarbrough-mx3xf]

Strange My just friend is All of these things. But that's all it is.

[@susanharris2941]

I'm in a relationship with a man that has a friend that is way to cozy as called sis that call each other all the time. And shares way to much as he is in a relationship with me. And to tell her they love each other. However, he said he chose me. How can someone stomach this? My name is Susan

[@jessiesheldon-huffey1824]

Run!

[@lauriemorales7605]

This is extremely informative and helpful Jonathan 😊

[@lauriemorales7605]

Jonathon

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad it was helpful!

[@lauriemorales7605]

Thank you!!

[@RoseMoke]

What about blind love in Online for one year eight months to bring reality with honesty commitment and trust

[@RRthee1]

I do not understand staying friends with exes and refusing to let go of that attachment(s) without that meaning a person is intentionally keeping a roster. Seems like the exes are who a person is meant to go the distance with after all.

[@JonathonAslay]

Being friendly to someone who was in our life is a healthy approach to inner peace.

[@RRthee1]

@@JonathonAslay Thank you for sharing that perspective and also what you shared of it in this video. No one has stated that to me but have been determined to keep a relationship with them.

[@denisemartinez1903]

I have my act together pretty much but I don’t want a commitment at this moment in time. Does that mean I can’t have a possible relationship?

[@JonathonAslay]

It sounds like you're good with a strictly casual relationship... do you want open sex too?

[@Meyouletsgo]

What happened to Marie ?! Broke up ?

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes, watch the video titled "Letting Go" in my live playlist.

[@Meyouletsgo]

@@JonathonAslay thank you ! I hope you find someone who matches your energy :)

[@JonathonAslay]

@@Meyouletsgo Me too... thank you

[@elycswong21]

Jonathon, I have a serious issues with my husband, it been a while we lost our sexual relation, I try working it out with him, but he always push me away n said he is tired from work, what should I do? It been irritating to me, does it mean he don’t want me anymore?

[@JonathonAslay]

Seek counseling

[@Teewriter]

Maybe can’t perform and doesn’t want to admit it to you

[@janereinhardt4715]

How old is he? Sex drives frequently disappear after a certain age.

[@tdotjazzberryram61]

@@janereinhardt4715 Sex drives never disappear. People well into even 90's express affection as long as the body and health are willing

[@jessiesheldon-huffey1824]

Intimacy Anorexia. KZbin has videos on it. He might also have a porn issue as these things often accompany each other.

[@susanharrie3326]

❤

[@JonathonAslay]

💕

[@melissajenniferjones9959]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank you

[@EllyLugosi]

Hey Jonathon, hope youre doing well. We love you so much. Another strong, informative and fantastic video. God bless 🩵

[@JonathonAslay]

Thanks so much!

[@aleksandrakettner905]

❤

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@JuliaKasanayi-tr1gw]

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