When a Man IGNORES You, here's what he's thinking (counterintuitive)

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[@Anna-loves-you]

If he ignores you: - He's a narcissist - He's not into you - He's seeing someone else Get real and get out, you are not his priority!!!!

[@EspritArkitekt]

Those are some snap judgements

[@sofiandi6117]

Absolutely right!!! Nothing more nothing less but only the mere truth!!!:)))) unfortunately...

[@Salsa-lr4dc]

The truths hurt

[@sofiandi6117]

@@Salsa-lr4dc but better be hurt by truth than lies:))

[@martinemaryhernandez729]

How do you call that the truth~ bc if he did answer then he’d be none of those things GET THE FK OUT OF HERE

[@mcewenca]

If he’s ignoring you, move on. Don’t ever let a man tell you twice that he doesn’t want you ladies. Know your worth

[@worthlessmutts9598]

Ok bye bye.

[@misstrini2244]

Paeroa68 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@michaelatorn8380]

He is ignoring you because he wants you to invest more.

[@otiliaioan5348]

Michael Atorn hello Michael, is this what a holistic thinker would come to the conclusion of? I love this guy, he loves me too, but he’s reserved and has negative expectations. I do feel hurt, but I need to take it. He’s he’s own person, he has every right to pull away, and me leaving him alone is something I have been getting used to doing for a while. It breaks my heart, but he was there for me like no other man in my life .. right when I needed him the most... he made a huge time investment for 2 years, and I am just kind of lovingly frozen at this time. I am scared as shit to talk to him about relationship status, because I know I’ll get macerated.. lol probably inner fears, but our scenario is like this (he’s much much older than me, he’s had a very hard life with the women he loved passing away, he’s got cancer, he lives with a woman he’s settling for because she’s the only one who “really” needs him but she’s a bad alcoholic, he finds me a “mystery”, I am many states apart, we’ve only seen eachother once in person, when I visited his home town, I want to move closer to him but because I am paralyzed from a neck break and need lots of help I can’t easily move in his parts.. and I feel like he’s doing what I talked about a few times .. instead of texting me heavily every day he’s giving me time to figure out how to make it to him again, and he’s got plans.. he offers his help, I’m very shy accepting it because I can’t picture him taking care of my flesh.. I would not sleep well if he had to do that (it gets very personal)... anyway.. it’s hard.. but from my end it’s honest.. at least I know I was honest. I know that things will happen when they’re right. I have loved another guy 15 years ago but he never knew just how much.. he ghosted me.. and taught me hard lessons.. he loved me the most because he had the guts to do what’s hard for anyone to do.. and my understanding of love is that he loves me so much he would want me to have better than him.. he’s sacrificing for what he thinks is my ultimate best.. and that is very precious..understanding love in a nonselfish way opens the doors to amazing hard to see sights. I appreciate your contribution “he needs more investment”... I am agreeing ..

[@michaelatorn8380]

@@otiliaioan5348 all i can say to you is, you have a very good mindset. You,ve learned from the lessons life gave you instead of giving up. Keep in mind that your life is as bad as you think it is, but also as good as you think it is. And our mind is the thing we are able to control. I cant know how you feel about the situation, but you have never given up and no matter how bad something hits you, be happy that you have something in your life that makes you unique instead of all the people who live their day to day life without even having critical situations to show that they can "survive" the worst shit. The first world war as an example was the worst thing for the soldiers ever, but their legacy will continue. Dont think about the result, but think about you. You are really really strong and you dont need me to say that. You know it by yourself.

[@lizparker8431]

‘If someone ignores you, do not trouble them again.’ The Buddha

[@arajo5773]

I don't think that's a legit Buddha quote

[@lizparker8431]

@@arajo5773 You may well be right, Ara; there seem to be a lot of them about.

[@user-dl4cu8vu1s]

Yup

[@LeafySpreads]

Buddha would have said, 'Ignore you or not, ignore them, all is transient'

[@sara-bl4oz]

Geez 😊 this is a loose translation of Buddha's wisdom ☺.

[@kannahashimoto7044]

In my culture there’s a famous old saying: “If a man ignores you, he’s either dead, in prison, or he’s not thinking about you at all.”

[@lboyplays210]

I do ignore yes..but i do it out of love i don't understand why all women think that when man ignores u he's shet or that..i also ignore because i just love that person knowing the fact that our match won't get us far in the road ahead so i try my best to move back while it hurts

[@annieschmannie8962]

A man’s rejection is gods protection👏🏾

[@studiocelestedesign]

Ooh, that's good.

[@malinia4380]

But why do they come into our lives in the first place. God could have prevented them from coming.

[@annieschmannie8962]

Malini A because god put that person there to teach you something or open your mind to something. We take from every bad decision and it makes us wiser and more aware of ourselves

[@Kindlylisten3]

@@annieschmannie8962 Do not put your words about God. Please..

[@annieschmannie8962]

Separate zone then don’t comment 🤷🏾‍♀️😂

[@keyna5614]

Give those who don't appreciate your presence the gift of your absence.

[@kingsoren2010]

You nailed it !!! Had to add this to my "Love Myself Notes", words I read over and over to keep in mind...their loss, my gain. Moving on. Next !! Thank you love.

[@snowwhitepg4001]

Key Na this was the best thing I read in decades

[@shavinahramsurrun1782]

Very Rightly said..

[@julz3tt3]

I love this I want this comment

[@raynacil]

Loved it!!! 💙

[@sreya2004]

If you had to watch this video, you are with the wrong person now. MOVE ON!!!

[@oumaaima1613]

That hit me..

[@sofialoren6846]

@@oumaaima1613 .. real hard.

[@kwashaburts933]

No he's the wrong person df

[@Andyr3ah]

Thank you

[@aaryanair9792]

But I can't ..........mind says move on but heart doesn't

[@prinncesskiki9940]

A man in love With you can't stay a day without hearing from you. No man is too busy for the love of his life. Don't be fooled.

[@martinemaryhernandez729]

EXACTLY💯💯💯💯 I really don’t NO why some women can’t except THE TRUTH and move on.....

[@kistole28]

Exactly.

[@tanyatanya9492]

It's men that are discussed here,not immature boys.

[@gabriellecocucci5577]

I was in love with somebody and didn’t talk to him everyday, in fact we haven’t kept in touch for years. I am still very much in love with him.

[@michaelmiller237]

@@JaquelineWildner depending on the message or what is going on in the relationship it takes time to respond properly. Sometimes women are there own communication killers, especially if they over-react or are simply a narcassist and like to turn any problem/fight into word-salad

[@Cate-emilyx]

'a high value woman will not chase, she will withdraw aswell' I love it!!!!

[@curbsidecheesecake9581]

High value men don’t chase either, they reciprocate.

[@chepossible3953]

High value men don’t run, they reciprocate.

[@curbsidecheesecake9581]

Che’ Possible it doesn’t matter if some men run because high quality women don’t chase.

[@chepossible3953]

High value men don’t run & high value women don’t chase...period!

[@curbsidecheesecake9581]

Che’ Possible yeah no kidding. That’s what this whole thread is about. But high value men don’t chase either. Soooo..

[@eileenhavern77]

"If someone avoids you, never disturb them again"

[@KimmyBee]

A saying from an Advaita Vedanta but I can’t remember which teacher.

[@lizacortel5389]

Exactly

[@mariahfrancois9517]

A guy reached out to me they try to ignore me after

[@lee6601]

😂😂😂😂😂 thanks bruh

[@AA-ps8xv]

@@mariahfrancois9517 same here.

[@happyhenson2438]

Give him the same energy he gives you. If he draws near, you draw near. If he pulls back, you pull back.

[@theanonymoushelpline7248]

Facts

[@jonvolcaman9309]

That's exactly what we men have to do all the time. Women love to play the "I'm too busy" or "I fell asleep - at 3 pm" or the "I left my phone again" game. So we have no choice but to mirror her reactions otherwise be labeled as needy. If someone truly loves you, he or she can take 5 seconds of their day to either respond or tell you TTYL.

[@primsandwhims7533]

That's a game only fools play.

[@adrianavilchez2706]

@@MsPersianality 🤣

[@adrianavilchez2706]

@@MsPersianality can you explain when you say set the boundaries? Like give me examples please

[@yembemankeh263]

I don’t know why I loved the comments more than the video itself 😂😂😂😂

[@tabakaya4062]

Me too..🖐️🖐️😁

[@chunkymilkxd5342]

There all filled with a bunch of idiots😂

[@sketsacorner]

😀

[@elitephantom9690]

I guess some of us come with experiences.

[@mssunset8340]

a lot of idiots nowadays

[@forgotmyun]

Ladies, when a man ignores you, move on. Before I met my husband, I’ve had plenty of guys ignoring me. As soon as they found out I was living my best life with him, about 3 came back crying. Yeah no, my husband never ghosted me and made sure I knew I was his priority.

[@lupitaalvarado8945]

That is so amazing

[@forgotmyun]

Lupita Alvarado tbh, it’s sad how many girls have experienced the same thing I have. Most guys (in my experience) want the power. As soon as they don’t have the upper hand, they turn into babies

[@lupitaalvarado8945]

@@forgotmyun am really happy for you.

[@supersarah5673]

Good for you girl

[@sarahcroysdill4323]

Robin Doeve ❤️

[@saysHotdogs]

The silent treatment is emotional violence

[@marciawade9101]

NICE! 👏👏👏

[@anjumbilquissultana5962]

This is what no one understand....feels like why I am even existing on this earth?????

[@sherrikawilliams36]

I agree

[@Fonzi79]

thankyou... i will say this

[@jennysantos4772]

This is what I'm doing right now

[@KimberlySmith14]

After knowing this, I don't want to win this person back at all. Thank you.

[@Karin-vf4qq]

Same lol. Good for us.

[@zoegrace9652]

Same here. I am so glad i listened to this. I am acting on it as my current state is that my supposed love interest ignored me for days and he called... i cancelled the call .. i was so empowered i did that. If i had not listened to this video i'll pick his and act like its normal. Has his used to ignoring and reappearing. Good bye to absolute rubbish.

[@laurabarber6697]

It's never a woman's job to win a man in the first place! It's a man's job to win the woman. This is as old as time itself I don't know why people want to be modern rewrite thousands of years out biology.

[@freework4989]

@@laurabarber6697 So why men?

[@hurricanekendra9181]

😩🙂🙂❤️

[@sasorah6414]

He loves Ignoring me, I saw this video after I messed up by sending him so many text messages for the past 3 days with no reply till now. He has done this before, he probably thinks I have no self respect for always running after him. He’s right and from now on I’ve gotten my self respect back, i won’t be doing those silly things for someone who doesn’t care

[@lilarcherx1813]

I feel you Sasorah 😔I'm going through the same thing

[@dragonflymagictarot1180]

We've all done this once. And this is how we learn. Tell him I said "thank you, next" jk dont tell him ish. Lol f that fool. If he ignroed you, he lacks emotional intelligence to set up a time to have a proper conversation.

[@dragonflymagictarot1180]

@@emp9413 1000%

[@oldacc4738]

me right know

[@zoegrace9652]

We learn everyday. I did what you did. Mine ignored me was texting sparingly then ignored me for days.. he called and i cancelled his call. Thanks to this video... i did bot pick his call. If it were before, I would have picked his c.

[@alicegregory6855]

who else is crying watching this

[@anajihah6516]

Me. Im crying so hard 😭

[@iamjess892]

Me girl

[@kendra3595]

I’m with all of you...

[@pulse-anjalidesilva4303]

Nah im used to it

[@geraldinemclaughlin486]

I with crying 😢 for three years now it's made me so ill

[@purposedpatience6597]

Child men do this.. grown men will tell you they aren't interested and won't make you suffer with silence.

[@ashxplays3604]

But true this person did say to me, "Hey sorry I'm bad at answering messages". They let me know asap.

[@lorrilewis2178]

Agree 1,000 percent. Don't know why that isn't said more often.

[@billieteggers2661]

Yes they are spineless cowards.

[@purposedpatience6597]

Lndin Galle 🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@jaynicole3722]

I wish everyone was that mature. No one wins when people get strung along. I just don't understand why lie, just leave

[@NEMESIS-eq7pp]

"If someone ghosting you..respect the dead and go away" -myself

[@lizzann2535]

😉😂🤣😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jenbodhi1133]

🤣

[@bushi35]

😅😅😅

[@adrianavilchez2706]

🤣🤣🤣

[@soulaudacity555]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@rebeccajones8628]

If he ignores you he's just not into you. Next.....

[@rebeccajones8628]

@mummy caramel Or he is emotionally unavailable. Painful any which way you slice it.

[@spero7675]

So basically this guy ignored me all day long yet instantly reply to my message weird huh

[@tanyatanya9492]

If he instantly replies,how can he ignoreyou??!

[@spero7675]

@@tanyatanya9492 Well umm so he ignored me for almost the whole day then later that same day I send him a text and he instally replied

[@bribri3440]

@@spero7675 so what if your boyfriend of 2 yrs was out at the mall and he haven’t texted you for 6 hours and ignored your calls and text on purpose what does that mean

[@kojisune]

the fact that we’re all here just hurts

[@theeemaven]

the fact that you thought about everyone as individuals, as well as simultaneously somehow pulled off a valid contradiction by including the collective when you indicated that the problem is a big one (in the topic of relationships anyway). Seemingly simple statement from you, yet profound.

[@Galemor1]

Always remember, you don't NEED him, you WANT him.. What hurts isn't losing him, it's losing the things he represents. The tingeling exited feeling, the things you talked about, the future you started envision with him...

[@mrenteria88]

Anne Nielsen preach. Ouch.

[@jenelleplackett3866]

100% agree

[@TheSamiya17]

It feels so good to see someone else typing this 😭 because i was thinking i was the only one thinking like this and I thought I was going crazy..

[@elysiyah3364]

@ Anne Nielsen you're 1000% right!

[@lilarcherx1813]

😭

[@AliPittaway]

My father was emotionally unavailable so I spent way too much of my life chasing crumbs of affection and attention thinking that’s what I should do because that’s what I was familiar with. Happy to tell you that the moment I stopped doing that is the moment I set myself up to attract the man of my dreams, who I am now married to and have been happily for 5 years. Stop accepting less than you deserve.

[@pableholloway8202]

As Maya Angelou said, “Believe who they show you they are the first time.” Hard sometimes to accept but it will avoid a lot of problems.

[@andreabest8846]

Hello do you need help why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back,,

[@andreabest8846]

What'app [phone]

[@goldengoddess4265]

@Pable , FACTS 1,000

[@suzzaneiamme77]

If he ignores just think that he's not the person God has chosen for you.

[@suzzaneiamme77]

V Nethra... Yeah you better be dear😉

[@suzzaneiamme77]

V Nethra....what really happened two years back is just nothing but an experience for your future so just be cool, grow and move ahead...... It happens to everyone...!!remember the sunshine after a heavy storm.

[@jinnybikini]

Amen

[@stinky5127]

stfu

[@TheImprovised]

Or maybe forget about God and learn to choose well. If your picker is broken, fix it. Work on your personal issues and break the patterns that lead to trash partners. Sky-daddy supposedly gave us free will, yet we're supposed to not exercise it and allow "him" to choose for us? What if you think God chose a nice church guy that you're family and pastor approves of and then two years after you're married he drops church and whoops your ass on the daily? Is that "God's" plan? Oops, tough divorce. What about your children? No thanks. I think that I'm self aware because i don't look to a Sky-daddy for help. That's just me though.

[@kawehionalani]

Women, when you finally realize he’s intentionally ignoring you, do not reach out. You assume it’s over. And if/when you see him again (run into him), be kind, acknowledge him, smile, appear happy and completely unaffected. There’s over 1 billion men in this world, move on.

[@saysHotdogs]

I find that pretending it didn’t effect you, draws them in and they start a relentless pursuit of you. It’s draining and id rather just tell it like it is, which is you ignored me, I went away and I do not like you whatsoever so leave me alone.

[@phibasyiemlieh2629]

To say move on is very easy but to do it it's very very hard and I'm trying to...

[@Aziz0938]

Over one billion that's technically rt but

[@rubypradhan9966]

To move on is not as easy as said

[@cherisrae]

This is the most positive comment that made sense to me

[@ak-47intelligence75]

If he is ignoring you, he has someone else. EVERY single one of my exes had other women they were talking to when they ignored me for days. It's common sense now that I think about it. They have you on rotation. So this is how it goes. Monday, Wednesday, Friday : Cindy, Michelle, Diana Tuesday, Thursdays and Saturdays : Alexa, Marie and Kylie. Sundays might be his day offs. If you're still on the "duty roster", you might be the one he decides to throw some crumbs at. Don't take it personally. Don't chase. Just leave them be. Force them to keep playing these games until you lose respect for them and eventually , they lose you. Let them sabotage themselves. They think "reverse psychology" works. Show them otherwise.

[@dragonflymagictarot1180]

That last part tho

[@mercedeslivingston8503]

Thank you for this

[@christelle8572]

That is exactly what I did. I knew I was the side dish and that certain days of the week were more practical. One day, I just plainly said that I didn't deal with people with no backbones.The person wasn't happy about it, stopped contact for a month, then reached out one day only to ask to lie to the current girlfriend ( who was in fact an on/off GF but to no clear admission from the person I was seeing ) and said that we only would see each other once in a blue moon when it was a bit more often than that...Good riddance I say !👍👍👍

[@yehunlavolontededieu322]

😃Cindy Michelle..next

[@joharilarosa6230]

This how its done right guys??

[@bobbyasuncion4381]

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I'm crying while watching this... I realized how being faithful and loyal to a wrong man😢

[@priscillanilla5598]

Don’t chase just replace

[@ekpenmene]

PriscillaNilla Absolutely 😁.

[@tinylittleangel1492]

Yesssss

[@tinaee8739]

Yeah

[@sheekadaDahab]

haha

[@priscillanilla5598]

Mary Onah 😊💕

[@PheebSue]

Find a human being who doesn’t ignore people generally.

[@HappyMomma412]

Phoebe Xu Yes!!!

[@imagin.e.ternity]

Tru

[@karadiberlino]

EXACTLY!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@happy5808]

Yess :((

[@DivyaaTyagi]

Keep a dog instead a boyfriend

[@lorangeamere2435]

From experience, men who ignore are oftentimes narcissists. Beware...

[@s.8955]

100%

[@rovli816]

Raised by an ignoring mother for sure

[@31Alden]

Some men “go through the motions” and act like they like you, when in reality they like themselves more: first and foremost. Listen carefully to the sound of my door closing.

[@butterflygamer5669]

If the man really loves you, he will never ignores you no matter what the circumstances 🙂

[@RoninMoviesNation]

bullshit! depends upon circumstances.

[@daddilo2847]

@@RoninMoviesNation damn right

[@diycraft4236]

A guy ghosted me because am a virgin and he claims to say he is losing feelings yet he stares when he believes am not looking but never talks to me when we cross paths

[@diycraft4236]

@@echo4407 very serious

[@rajeebnayak1210]

He will if you keep him in friendzone ..... He want to get out of that painful zone

[@carolprice9473]

As the saying goes "Actions speak louder than words" .No action move on .

[@yuanhuilee3082]

"They help you when they like you, they do not make it hard."

[@IchbinAmy]

Why can't they just slap on our face by telling directly that they are no longer interested. Because ignoring someone is a torture in our mental health! I hate it

[@thereturnofthebneianousim3733]

Its Bad manners!

[@daffodil3792]

If he ignores you, it's not meant to be. Because real love has no judgement, perfectionist and no boundaries.

[@OviLVR8]

I have a bridge to sell you

[@katoclarit4299]

Morning Star this is the best comment

[@jazzed4us]

Hhah okay 👌

[@Kittyxgguts]

Then what do I do..

[@zazuzazz5419]

Boy, have you got it all twisted up, sugar-coated and cotton candied. Protect yourself. Know your limits - and make damned sure no one transgresses them. You gotta walk the talk. ☝️

[@clairec5830]

I’ve come to conclusion based on these comments is that we all have dated trash men lol

[@annekefaridabellydance6020]

@James Curry I'm sorry you've dated trash women like we've dated trash men. They both exist. It sucks.

[@annekefaridabellydance6020]

@James Curry both ways the are the media dehumanizes both women and men. It's a two way street.

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

@claire c Agreed! That's why you level up! The only way to win and keep your self respect!!!

[@ChannieBoo3]

claire c yes!!!!

[@earthsky2336]

Hahahaha

[@KimiticalASMR]

Thanks I needed to see this. My friend said "if he ignores you more than 24h, block him because if he wants to hear you he'll move mountains even when he got lost in a forest. They always find a way, don't be a fool and move on."

[@snoopy1390]

He seems like a very kind and straightforward guy ♡ And a great point "If he loves you he will not make it hard on you."

[@zazuzazz5419]

It’s so easy... I never even thought of that! 💜

[@Nilzaneva]

I'm so fed up of the mind games and childish behaviour in "men". So hard to have a relationship with unevolved and unhealed males. Thing is, we can all play games but why is this even a thing in between adults. Getting ignored only pushes me away, no time for shenanigans. Take yourself home and come back when you are fully grown and ready to deal with a WOMAN! Games are for children. Know your worth and keep it moving until the right man turns up, don't be afraid to walk away ladies, we teach people how to treat us. My mother once told me, "If a man wants you, he would never put himself in a position to lose you". That hit deep!

[@candletabletop154]

IKR this generation of men all operate like kids. WHO has time for games when we're adults like wtf

[@fredflagstone6769]

I remember going on Saturday night dates with women from church....church! We'd have a good time, laugh, have fluid conversation... Then literally the next day at church, my date from last night would ignore me like I didn't even exist. Walk past me in the hall and never look at, acknowledge, make eye contact with me, nothing! This happened time and again. I thought it was just happening to me until I started talking to some of the guys and found out that they were dealing with the same nonsense I was. I got so fed up with it that I dropped out of the dating "game" for several years. Talk about games and immaturity......sheesh.

[@candletabletop154]

Luís Araújo no.

[@kevinalmiron8693]

Dude woman play the biggest games overall, what you are talking about

[@MONKEY-ne7vu]

Nilzaneva yea cause women don’t do that at all hey 🤨

[@soundaryasou5357]

I want a husband who doesn't make me to see these videos ever 😕😐

[@nirun7992]

soundarya sou why would u marry a man who ghosted u? if u marry then one would assume the man is ready to invest

[@franciscatirado2906]

I want that too. And i dont know why i ended up with a guy that does not give me the attention i need. It makes me feel loke im not worth nothing. I deserve better than this I really do. I hope that he does not realize that he really wants to be with me when im gone.

[@nicolecampb3ll]

You deserve one

[@mizzzgiggles]

soundarya sou that’s the dream!!

[@111TreeofLife]

million of men on this planet

[@ENFPerspectives]

“You can only spook a guy who was not sufficiently interested in you in the first place. His interest level was too low.” True words!!

[@cherrybacon3319]

I think my own problem was I was too eager, too forward and too blunt. I've always called a spade a spade and say it how it is. I don't think some people can handle it. When I'm ignored or ghosted, I won't beg or plead, I'll remain casual and won't bombard them with calls or messages. I'll just leave it and move on living my life as best as I can. 🍒

[@DallasJayCook]

He's telling the truth! If a guy has the habit of ignoring you time to time, ignore him too and don't complain or anything as to why he's not texting or calling. Play it cool. If he told you he missed you so much let him know that you miss him too but don't take it from the heart. Expect less. Be sweet when ur talking with him but after being sweet, back off. It'll fuck his mind and he'll wonder as why are you different and not easy. Don't be the first one to initiate the text. Be happy with ur life don't think about him all the time. He'll realize u have a life. Eh if he doesn't care about you why the hell give him so much attention? Fvck him haha

[@princessfridah4040]

True thanks so much

[@wouldntyouwantotoknow2602]

💯

[@ayishafarhana6397]

I have used this method 😁

[@deena7809]

@@ayishafarhana6397 how did it go?:)

[@ItchyFix]

What the fuck

[@beatricet5682]

Did you hear that ladies? "Don't run after a man." 🏃‍♀️ If a man ignores you, he's just not that into you (excellent book BTW).

[@ANGELCRYPT0]

A man that ignores me expecting for me to chase him will dry up into bones waiting for that day. 💀

[@janiemiller825]

Lol 😂

[@jennylewispixel]

I needed this EXACT message tonight. I'm in that situation now. He won't be hearing from me again. Thank you so much @Brian Nox! I hope the "plenty of men" you talk about find me soon, haha! I've hit nothing but dead ends for years now.

[@robertmoruri6762]

Me too 🤣🤣

[@euphoria5042]

Same 😂

[@misslaurap]

When he messages me next I'll ignore him trust me I'm sick of it mate x

[@TLBxFinds]

He just confirmed something I already knew watch for their words and actions before they ignore you and you'll see you will be the one doing them the favor of ignoring them first.

[@AprilLashon]

Great advice! I pray a committed, healthy, love relationship💏 finds every person reading the comments!

[@angelicatorres2117]

Thank you and same to you♡

[@eunicemichael8767]

Amen🙏🏽

[@maryamhinson4288]

👐🏽

[@nadhira3602]

Amen, same to you💕

[@zobiayaqoob2109]

visadklline thank you and same for you ♥️

[@bsb2107]

He's just not that into you..period.

[@michaelroachface926]

Thank you!

[@thatoneweirdo2967]

Yes

[@martinemaryhernandez729]

***YOU KNOW THATS RIGHT***

[@fatima-ezzohraajammour6537]

❤️❤️❤️

[@chunkymilkxd5342]

False

[@mz.martinez1619]

Know ur worth if they have no contact ur not important to them 💯. Work on yourself and love yourself ❤.

[@coachevy2851]

You ignore me you'll never hear from me. They always come back when you loose feelings.

[@goodprofitf1632]

whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:.: don't waste your time here......🙏🙏❤️...

[@goodprofitf1632]

[phone]...

[@laurencains2557]

That part smh 🙄

[@rjrj8515]

So true....its so sad.

[@samantharowe608]

Sooooo true

[@hayashiryuuen]

When they lied and use you. Let the karma does its job. God is never sleep.

[@A.Anne.Aurora.9]

Hayashi Ryuuen ❤️that’s what l always think too... but still hurts, TY for bringing that up. Xoxo, bye 👋

[@TheSlimmshadyy]

Yuar english osam ! Wear do you learning such gud english ?

[@jadeniau6490]

Yes

[@mayevb2998]

🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@namishamalvi5770]

Best

[@paria8721]

I got it too late💔 im sorry for my self, for wasting my time and tears...

[@moonchong9979]

Parisa Ba I hope you have forgiven yourself and moved on. Know your value and accept no one who doesn’t know how to treat you.

[@jellevlog9048]

I'm glad he ignore me yesterday then I search immediately so I didn't waste any. It's just a little painful but. I will be alright.

[@paria8721]

@@moonchong9979 Thanks..❤

[@paria8721]

@@jellevlog9048 Good for you..:))

[@nhilyhong1136]

Me now . I don’t know what to do

[@yvonnelyons5469]

I was with someone for 12 years and tolerated his ignoring of me for far too long. When I withdrew, he saw it as 'control' By then I had lost my sense of worth and so would end up blaming myself for our problems. So what I say is the very first time a man does this, run away from him as far and as fast as you can. You should never be treated as an inferior and that is what a man ignoring you is doing and believing

[@genesisc3744]

i don't want anybody else, i want him.

[@lucianaardillita7318]

feels like reality just slapped me in the face

[@supersarah5673]

:( its harsh

[@usernotfound6979]

Same here

[@Shellm2332]

Ditto

[@ikrebs1101]

Me too... I'm such a dumbass 🤦‍♀️

[@justbecause9219]

:*(

[@Hilary945]

Dont over think it. If they ignore you for no good reason, just move on

[@reytay6098]

I like your comment thank u

[@maxhouse2409]

Whether it's "no good reason" or even a "good reason", there's no sense swimming upstream.

[@OviLVR8]

You don't even need to move on really. Sometimes it's a simple as he's not ready for it or didn't know enough about you yet. Plenty of occasions i've seen people that weren't interested in each other but together a year later.

[@karine9861]

I don’t think people ignore us; I genuinely believe that they are just teaching us to live without them and be happy regardless of whether they are around or not 🙏🥰

[@ivorytower99]

Shove it!

[@karrygisborne818]

Summary: Don't lose your time nor energy on a man who ignores you, you do not deserve such treatment as out there are lots of guys who would die to have a girl just like you. (Thanks, this is really something I needed to hear.)

[@hakdoghays9392]

"If he's ignored u learn to distance ur self..."

[@ASMRBarbie]

YESSSSS! Go no contact, not to attract but to better your self and not be so obsessed with getting that text, or racking your mind trying to figure out what he’s thinking, just drop him! He either wants you or not as this man said before. Unless he shows up for you and wants to start hanging out romantically, next!!!!

[@patrisskim5468]

Crying while watching... it really hurts like hell

[@user-kt2li8th1c]

Yeah☹️☹️

[@Brightestlightt]

I cried enough today I’m moving on he better never text me again leave him a read

[@naturallymissange4987]

How are you now?

[@888michelle]

I swear😭😭😭😭😭

[@dayinibatrisyia5424]

I hope you are doing fine 🥺

[@domt4588]

I tried to communicate my feelings and boundaries. He ignored them. I finally told him I need to time and space. I loved him but I needed more from him. Instead of communicating back he asked for his stuff back. He started deliberately liking half naked women on Instagram to get a rise out of me. I was so hurt to see this side of him. He didn’t fight for me or a least communicate with me how he was feeling. I should not be ignored for setting healthy boundaries!!!!

[@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858]

This video made so much sense when I saw it for the first time many years ago, as it does now. Some men can just be very selfish and emotionally abusive. A dude who'd friendzoned me for many years finally broke it off and I was crushed. A few days later (literally), this other guy confesses to me that he likes me as more than a friend and so I'm glad I know have a man that treats me right and treats me like a priority! Thank my lucky stars! And he's totally different from the first dude! ❤

[@natasha-thesingingflower2362]

This is helping me to do a self-examination. I am realizing that I've been giving my attention to the wrong person.

[@lilarcherx1813]

I feel sorry for u :(

[@svetlanacanani669]

Me too... 🥺

[@vincaari2417]

Yeap

[@myBquest]

I know this is two years old, but my god, I felt so related and I just wanna cry. He sometimes ignores me, and then when I do the same, he starts talking to me again, all sweet and drops the "let's meet", but then when we are supposed to meet, he falls asleep, goes out with his friends (nothing wrong here tho, it's just I realize that I'm not a priority in his life as he is in mine), or just avoids talking about hanging out in the first place. I'm tired. I know now that I'm much more into him than he's into me; that he is just not ready to get in a relationship; and probably, that I need to move on, as much as I wanted this to happen. It is not worth my energy. I'm not a teenager, I'm almost reaching my thirties, I'm sick of games and I need someone who desires to see me as much as I want to see him everyday. I'm gonna go cry now, but that's it.

[@yuppers1]

Don't forget that someone's inability to see your worth does not mean it's not there.

[@Honeymagmangospoof]

yup thank you

[@andreathacker4393]

Best quote ever

[@andreybozo4631]

True

[@moniqueroberts6784]

Yup

[@Calle_family]

Thank you I needed to hear that

[@saradepinho1423]

Omg you have no idea how much this helped me. If he’s intentionally ignoring me, refuses to talk to me and makes excuses, honestly, I need to get over him

[@ummhurayrah_]

By the time he said 'Look into my eyes', mine were so full of tears, I could barely see his face 😢 It truly is painful.

[@Szabarmawi]

I'm convinced now! that, it is wrong to love a person with all your heart.

[@shebacynn1320]

Leave that for your children

[@avaava4669]

@@shebacynn1320 ❤ that comment

[@powervibes7899]

Just salute him with ur middle finger.And MOVE ON.

[@MonicaRodriguez-uj3di]

Hahahaha 👏👏😂😂😂😂Jajaja true

[@geraldinemclaughlin486]

That's a good one 😂

[@jeaninlayo9852]

😢😭

[@dragonflymagictarot1180]

Yaaass

[@sakurahoor]

Hahahahahahahhaha

[@treet9791]

Ladies if a man is cold to you, then you stay cold 2. Don't run after him. Whatever they go through Family issues, dark issues, replacement issues, then let them be. When a guy comes out of his cave feeling better about himself and wants you back, then you have to decide whether you want to continue or not. A woman can take so much from my man, but when she is fed up it is over. I'm a March Baby some of us shutdown when we are being ignored, but they al....ways come back when we don't chase them. So stay Busy. Trust me it gets better. I'm like the girl from Poltergeist. "He's Back!"

[@user-lj6jp8qp7z]

I ignore a Woman for two reasons. 1, I ain't interested in Her. 2, She isn't Interested in me and I move on with my life and never message Her again. The end.

[@belleame3098]

BOY= Burden on You MAN=Meets All Needs Too much work and games- who cares what they think.

[@m.shevonmason4232]

Belle Ame LOVE THAT 💕

[@1986nitya]

Wow this one was good :)

[@lisalindsay314]

OMG that’s awesome! Love it!

[@TheLoveweaver]

Keeping this!

[@terridavis-cole7178]

Belle Ame I agree

[@user-db6el7eb9p]

Being ignored hurts a lot. I wish guys who do this would have the decency to at least say “hey, I am sorry but I am just not interested anymore, I wish you all the best“

[@summerkwai528]

True, true, true.... Thank you for reminding me of my value; that I should absolutely be a priority to the man who loves me; for validating my hurt at being ignored; for helping me stand by my boundaries. Love your videos.👍

[@luilo7848]

How did KZbin know that i have been rejected by a Man? 😳

[@sarathakur5495]

I have stopped running after him that's because I have figured out my worth👍

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[@filipinalivinginthenetherl3239]

If he's ignoring you....better block him😂😂😂 OMG! I never thought I could have so many likes on my comment😅 thanks guys

[@wazgoin6926]

melai cutipie hahaha so funny what if he didnt mean to ignore you

[@libbylivvy]

waz goin you cant accidentally ignore someone lmao

[@debradeluca8673]

Will they know their blocked

[@QueenChastity]

Lol Thats exactly what I did!

[@estherauala7397]

Not a good idea. Dont block him.... allow him to see that you are receiving all his shit and you just not fucking with him.

[@Wildchile]

Sorry to break it to you all but a lot of people (like him) say things like: “the right guy will pay attention to you”. I understand and get it in general, but I’ve been wholeheartedly accepted and treated right by the very wrong kind of person, who years later revealed their ugly true colors to me that overshadowed their false persona. I’ve also been ignored a bit and avoided a bit by the very right kind of guy who was hesitant and honest about his doubts, and who later revealed they were normal with apprehensions and insecurities that completely made sense. Don’t accept posers and don’t discard normal people having normal feelings and reactions. Just saying.

[@Smokillo]

Yeah I agree, good point, can’t expect some perfect robot-like person 24/7 those we should be weary of 😂

[@Wildchile]

@@Smokillo thx! glad you agree

[@bluenile7073]

Absolutely best comment I've read in a long time. And you will never find out unless you give him an ultimatum when he comes back. 95% of women will not even have this conversation and have already emotionally checked out.

[@bluenile7073]

@AliSand You don't need intuition when you can just wait for him to come back then give him an ultimatum that if he wants to keep seeing you then he can't go silent again. Then watch his actions...if he does it again then you should always walk. But there are plenty of god guys that just need to be called out on it then they will change if they want you.

[@dianamuli8360]

the YOU DON'T DESERVE THAT really hit me hard. it was fate bumping into your video 💔 thank you 🙃

[@razanalolimat]

1. He lost interest or got bored because he is the avoidant type (check out attachment styles in adults) 2. His goal was only sex, and had no long term plans in the first place which is why you should be bold in the beginning of any relationship to ask the right questions in order to know the real intentions. 3. He was serious about you, but after getting to know you he realized you are incompatible. Sometimes they don't have the proper communication tools to explain to you that point, or they are afraid of your reaction. This one may come back if you improve to become a better version of yourself and they are impressed. 4. He feels he can do better. Green grass on the othet side syndrome. This type might come back if you hold your ground, and just keep improving yourself. Although most likely by the time he is back you might not want him anymore, or found someone better. 5. He has so many mental issues, financial issues, lost his job, lost a family member or pet, went to jail, depressed, etc... so he can't think properly from his mental/emotional instability. In this case, you need to let go. Either he pulls himself together and realizes he wants to fix it with you, or you are gone. It's up to you if you want to waste time waiting rather than meeting people whi have their life together.

[@chelle967]

Now i like your comment.

[@razanalolimat]

@@chelle967 thank you

[@fateisendemic7862]

I think I am currently stuck in two of these. It pains me to read but it's like pulling a plug. Thank you.

[@razanalolimat]

@@fateisendemic7862 I'm sorry for your pain, but it's not your issue, it's the other person. You just need to protect yourself, and your feelings. You will mostly benefit by developing yourself and finding things that you have passion in. Most of us here have been there and we feel you. 💔💕

[@lilliansegura4671]

Mine is 3. If he does come back should I accept him? I don’t know if that’s the right thing to do.

[@user-kz3gk1tp7z]

He's just not that into you. Accept it and move on

[@karinnamerino7232]

SHUT UP

[@dunbardunelm3924]

@@karinnamerino7232 😂😂😂

[@riddhi7082]

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[@insomniacsgamer6290]

Yoooo

[@Angunuo_Yore]

I can hehe

[@sigmasiren777]

Quite clearly.

[@sakshi2769]

Help! I can't

[@meanimeconingles]

I just love this man's sense of humor.

[@annapurnak116]

If he is happy without you than make him more happy 😔

[@mariesha5915]

Deep

[@lorangeamere2435]

Uuuuh No. Fuck him. Make YOURSELF more happy.

[@jackielaurin8692]

Actually if he's he's happier with someone else.. ladies love yourself more than him dance him out of your thoughts.

[@laremi3577]

Well said , lol :))))

[@seriousbroski]

I dated a man who ignored me for days at a time. As soon as I would move on and accept he was gone he would reach out to me texting me “haven’t heard from you in a while”. Always made me feel like I didn’t do the most to reach out. When I’d call him out he would give me the excuse he has bad depression and has to shut his phone off sometimes. Turns out after I did my investigation on him. He was in another relationship and the days he ignored me his girlfriend was in town and staying with him. Now I have a man that even when we fight and are hating each other we still text back and communicate.

[@movingonbeyond4248]

Anahi XO They make it so obvious that someone else is in the picture. I’m not stupid.

[@chelle967]

Some people will make you think it's you when it's really them...

[@carlj_82]

Great

[@jacquelynfunk5976]

Sounds like your man was a narcissist like mine. I just love how they refuse to take accountability for themselves. Instead(Gaslight) you. Blame you! Make you think it's your fault. RUN!!! I stayed in that crazy ass cycle for 10+years until someone told me about Narcissism.

[@elizabethpeter8955]

Recently was seeing smone. Ur comment really help n support my thought to get strengthen. This guy showed interest n then turns off his phone most f d tym now a days. I just strtd seeing him few days ago. He once told since one yr he s unable to sleep n is insomniac. So probbaly thought he might b dealing wid his own things n diseases or depression or might b hving a girl olready. N deciding to stop waiting for d tym when he reverts n tlk normally as in initial days. Can't deal wid narcissists. Waste f tym.

[@edennis3202]

A wise man in the ancient world once said something like, if someone avoids you, never bother them again. It's still a wise way to behave.

[@carynis1hotassgirl]

This man is pure perfection. I have seen quite a few videos from him because as I've aged I've gotten weaker emotionally sadly. This man is extremely truthful and accurate. He's the only guy I've seen so far online who actually tells the truth and is helpful. I already know I need to be how I used to be, but for some reason with me getting older personally, I have just changed so much when it comes to dealing with men. I've changed in a very negative way. This is turning into a book, so I'll just vlog about my story later. I'm gonna end this by saying, keep up the fantastic work Brian!

[@anewloveofficial9137]

If a man is really interested in you, he will do anything to keep his eye on you. Don't live a life chasing a man who isn't capable of loving you because there are so many guys out there who will never be tired of showing his love to you. All you need to do is just believe in yourself and everything else will follow.

[@blue-jayblue-tiful8021]

A New Love Official #LOVE#IT

[@muskangupta4587]

'To every action, there's equal and opposite reaction'. Ignore him, too. :))

[@MonicaRodriguez-uj3di]

Indeed 😊👍👏👏👏👏

[@gigiandaya5986]

True enough, this made a lot of sense and finally made me realize my worth. Thank you 💕

[@jenniferreilly27]

As a person living with a chronic illness for over 7 years, I don't have the time for the mentalities that you described earlier. I am an achiever, a go-getter, I am shaping and making my destiny, while he is running after others. If I am blind, then I am blind. If I have a problem, I have a problem. I call a spade a spade. Thank you for your reading!

[@ginaeickmann4166]

If man ignores me I'm done. If he's not enough of an adult to tell me what the problem is I'm way better off without him anyhow.

[@shamptonkirigo5517]

exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tell them

[@maylingrayson3594]

1963 Dianne B amen

[@carryokie9502]

Yep! I actually just encountered this. I withdrew after he did and mcving on. It doesn’t mean he’s a bad guy or I’m a bad date it means we aren’t at a place where we are supposed to be together that’s fine with me! I’d rather know than he keep coming around being fake

[@heatherh7946]

Agreed

[@sherrielynn5761]

I think described every man or what they think they are lol

[@Ascending_Stargazer]

I have been talking with a guy recently. He hasn't been talking with me for days and I've seen him online. I will not reach out to him. I won't crawl to anyone. I didn't do anything wrong. I know my value. He doesn't LOL. Self respect is 100% more important.

[@jonathanmejia583]

He aint feeling you he should of told you

[@Ascending_Stargazer]

Jonathan Mejia :) He contacted me again, but I'm not going to take him seriously. A guy won't even go a day without talking with a woman he is really into.

[@wowster762]

+Ascending Stargazer it's a slippery slope for men if he calls you every day he might feel needy but you also don't want him to just use you. Soo don't talk over the phone talk live get to really know him.

[@intrinsicallyme8404]

Ascending Stargazer you prolly dont like him enough. Sometimes pride can be the biggest buffer to making a good thing blossom. Just because he's ignoring u doesn't mean he's trying to attack your ego. He could be going through his own issues and doesn't know how to deal with them. Not everything is about u. When he is ready to explain he will in his own time. That's if he actually cares about u.

[@Ascending_Stargazer]

Intrinsically Me Thank you for your input. :) It's not a matter of pride. It's a matter of defense mechanism. When I'm on WhatsApp, and I see he's online, but hasn't responded to my message, I'm not going to chase him. If I allow him to only contact me when he feels it's in his best interest, then I'm basically letting him know that I accept that behavior. I don't. I do genuinely like him. The bigger question is, does he? We agreed to be each other's Valentine. That's nice, but again, I'm not going to read into it more than a friendly gesture.

[@Mooncat222]

Those kind of men are closed hearted and emotionally immature 😉

[@lionelsmith679]

And insecure

[@carrollhester5391]

@@mardiyayunusaumar2346 ..yes I need your help bad pleasse

[@emilyruggiero1465]

I LOVE this clip Brian, thank you so much. High value women do NOT chase, thank you for reminding to keep ourselves empowered. It's good when they ignore you!! They have played their hand, play yours and give that guy a royal flush!!

[@monggo00]

The reason i am here because im hurted and i wanna cry

[@elizabethayala1288]

Me too 😔

[@jla4christ]

Me too ugh

[@shendrika7]

You'll be ok. 😘😘😘

[@entertuber8167]

Me to .don't. Worry but all will be okay

[@dmax7982]

Azwa Xafiqa Have yourself a good cry 😭 you’ll feel better.

[@nemagonmei]

Most painful, yes when he suddenly ignored me without a word 😰

[@michaelaearnhardt]

Yes I agree my bf is ignored me and not texted me in 24hrs yesterday and I feel like he is doing the same today and I don't want to lose him and I don't know what to do

[@nunakhayal5935]

@@michaelaearnhardt the same happened with me just yesterday what will u do ?

[@michaelaearnhardt]

Nuna Khayal yea I’m srry and his friend said that he’s been busy that is why he hasn’t talked to me in four days I just hope he’s be able to txt back today if not I’d see if his friend can see if he would talk but idk I’m just not giving up on us yet

[@nunakhayal5935]

@@michaelaearnhardt mine is busy too but he used to txt me even when he was busy .. today he talked to me just for minutes and he seem very cold .. he just said i miss u but with no emotion and now he is home but he is not texting me i don't know what to do but i feel pain in my heart it is like a silent treatment kinda

[@nemagonmei]

@@michaelaearnhardt I hope it will really work out for you guys 😍😉. What loved can't be unloved!!!

[@lyxiagaming]

This is so true. Dont waste time on someone who treats you as an option !

[@rjrj8515]

I really like the way he explains the truth about relating....makes me feel good knowing i decided to let nonsense leave my relating life....no matter how painful it was letting people i love go.