A New Captain, a New Chapter! (Sailing Brick House #70)

[@mojoneko8303]

It took me almost a month to finally watch this video and I'm glad I finally did. I have been married to the same woman for 40 years in December and I would be a complete basket case if she was gone . Good to hear you are carrying on with your life. I can only hope I could be this resilient to such a devastating loss. I corresponded with Patrick a few times when you were dealing with your blister issues. I am glad to have had the opportunity to have correspond with him. Good luck, wish you the best.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much. I’m often a basket case to be 100% honest. But I put a lot of effort in to trying not to be, and trying to enjoy the life I have been given. I’m glad you got to correspond with him. I’m so lucky to have spent so much time with him.

[@mojoneko8303]

@@RVLifeNOW Thanks for the reply. Sounds like you found an excellent partner to help you through this hard time. Best wishes!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thank you...so far so good ;)

[@thefreshwater2727]

I cried for, and worried about you this summer and am crying now - I am so happy for you after such a tragedy in your life - that you are able to move on with a good friend and companion - I wish you both well - I live also with the philosophy of “do it, you may never see this earth again, may never experience tomorrow.” Hugs, fair winds and following seas to you both! Eureka, CA

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thank you so much. Scary ride in some ways..but so happy to be on it...

[@SailingNahoa]

My eyes are feeling a bit damp over here. Love where you're taking this!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Oh..thanks so much. Taking it as it comes. It’s all I can do. Working on a technical video and just not sure I have those kinds of videos in me even if I am very technical in person ;)

[@jimbeck553]

High Ashley

[@HolidayRambling]

I started watching Ben and Ashleys videos a week or so ago. Ive been looking at a change in my life. started looking at tiny houses a while back, then rv’s and boats for full time living. Im now convinced I need to live full time on a sail boat traveling. Watching is so inspiring and I want this for me and the person I love. I wasn’t sure how boat toilets worked haha. I found Patricks video about them, then The next video played was about your loss of Patrick, it made me so sad. Im glad your doing ok and decided to continue with your dream with a great companion. Keep it going girl!

[@barbaralane9825]

I was told once that those that have a wonderful marriage with joy, happiness, respect, and love are more apt to take the chance of finding it again. They know what it feels like and can feel/see it when it comes their way again. I believe that your decision is a reflection of your love for Patrick - and says so very much about how special your life with Patrick was. Wishing you much happiness.

[@svpearlsailacapegeorgesail4758]

Well put Barbara, it makes a lot of sense

[@samanthamclaren2572]

Lovely... well said. Patrick would definitely want you to live and be happy. That was a very thorough checklist! We wish you live and safe travels.

[@RVLifeNOW]

I have read that too...and most likely true.

[@rnupnorthbrrrsm6123]

So very true ! I have spent the last 20 years single because after getting out of an abusive marriage I’m scared to end up like that again ! I’m 53 now and am wasting my life alone, hoping and praying someday I meet someone to trust with my heart !

[@rnupnorthbrrrsm6123]

Oh my word, I can’t believe it.....I am so very happy for you !!! I didn’t start watching your videos until after Patrick was gone, but having watched back several videos, I know Patrick is happy, he is happy for you !!! He was the type of man that wouldn’t want you to waste a minute of your life and I think he would approve of your choice !! I can’t wait to hear more and I wish you both all the very best !!!! Oh and it is great to see that joy back in your face, you look beautiful ! I pray for a man with all the criteria I am looking for ! Blessings to you both

[@TheDesertWaywithJaylynandJohn]

So happy for you, Rebecca! I know Patrick would be pleased with your plans. Yours and Michael's radiant smiles says it all. Wishing you fair winds and following seas.

[@paulvov6029]

You go girl !!Go live your dream,life is to short.PLEASE KEEP US INFORMED ON KZbin.GOD BLESS!!!!!!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Life is definitely too short!

[@simonabunker]

Great to hear you have found someone to travel with!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes...me too :) Thanks for watching!

[@web3.blockchain]

That heart opened! Beautiful !!! See hearts do not break but completely break open to life. Thank you for taking up the mantle!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much...beautifully said...

[@lindahenderson3819]

I'm sure you have Patrick's help. Congrats!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes...I’m sure of that too. I feel it every single day!

[@jasonsisi6077]

Wow, i’m so excited to watch your upcoming videos. Congratulations on finding such a nice guy! Yay!!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yeah..lucky me!!

[@michaelbundy3867]

That's great. I like the fact you went to him. He is a one brave man to step into this position with lots of people suddenly watching him. Welcome Michael , you have a cool name and I'm also South African but living in the UK.

[@alwynjones7218]

Bon Voyage Rebecca, another Ocean, another chapter.

[@RVLifeNOW]

He’s a very brave guy and the kindest of men. Love South African guys…never met a nice group of people.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes.

[@hectorcyre7664]

Rebecca; I just found your KZbin videos this evening and watched only the last couple of them. First, I want to express my condolences to you for your loss. I could tell that Patrick was the sort of guy I would love to go sailing with too. Second, I want to tell you how great it is to see you smile. What a GREAT smile! It is a gift to all of us who watch the Brick House videos. Please keep our smile locker full. Finally, I want to wish you fair winds and a gentle sea. "We continue onward" (from the Journals of William Clark, who REALLY didn't know where he was going).

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much...you making me smile ;)

[@garysenecal7683]

I am so glad you brought up the subject of living in the moment . I am a commercial driver and how fast it all goes by . Thank you for reminding me about life and how it passes by . So true ! Thank you so much for helping me relearn living. Your experience however dramatic has taught me to value what little time i may have left. Thank you blessings always Gary

[@RVLifeNOW]

Glad to be of service...

[@philthefarrier9469]

You are the Captain of Brickhouse. Hopefully, you have found a wonderful guy to share the future. He seems solid, good for you both. All my very best wishes for your future together

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much...I hope so too.

[@darrenstarling3975]

Best wishes. Looking forward to the new adventures.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks. Darren..me too!!

[@mikey0011]

So happy for you. Fair winds and following seas to you and Michael. Can’t wait to see your new adventures.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much for being happy for me!

[@garyevans5905]

Hi Rebecca. Trying to find someone who is compatible has many differing emotions and feelings , but i think for me the most important one you must always think about is, how that person speaks to you in a time of confrontation. If there is compassion and no raised voices , that person shows respect , and with respect there is love.

[@svthorasailing4868]

Absolutely beautifully spoken,this shows age and wisdom,my respect to you,Dirk.

[@tanukish]

It is wonderful to see you looking so happy! I think you found a good captain.

[@RVLifeNOW]

I think so too. Thank you!

[@gorway7]

It's wonderful to see a spring in your step again Rebecca. He seems like a great guy and I'm sure Patrick would approve. I so much admire your philosophy on life and I'm positive there will be great time ahead for you both. It's time to take the helm and set a new course.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks. Yes...

[@mattlewandowski73]

I am sorry to hear about Patrick... It saddens me to hear of his passing... He was a wonderful wealth of knowledge for those of us who are planning our own life/retirement afloat. I hope you can find continued happiness, and perhaps companionship in his absence until the two of you meet again in whatever afterlife you believe in. I hope you and Michael find good companionship and happy sailing. Best of luck to you. As for your criteria. I think you set about to choose wisely. I can only hope you where fortunate enough to make the right choice, just as I can hope I can choose so wisely when it comes time to find a crew for my future boat.

[@NinaSagemoen]

You rock!! So incredibly strong and inspiring the way you continue life in Patrick's spirit - he is for sure looking out for you and am so happy you grabbed happiness, bravely and openhearted. I wish you everything you hope this future adventure will bring you! Fair winds and much love your way, X Nina

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thank you. It took some strength, but glad that I did it this way...

[@pablorolon2794]

I admire your courage in taking a first step or a new turn or a new page in your life. May you continue to find the joy of a splendorous living even if you will encounter obstacles. The world belongs to those who dare. Good luck

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes...it’s a tightrope I’m walking in some regards...but better than no adventure at all.

[@MrPink-]

i enjoyed the uplifting vibe throughout the video. refreshing. keep smiling.

[@joannepantale483]

I thrilled that you have found someone you can trust and feel secure with! Now you can do the thing you love most in life. Sail on, Rebecca! May the wind always be at your back.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Ah...downwind would be so perfect...but maybe some beam reaches too :)

[@MarinaBatham]

Thank you for this video Rebecca. It's inspirational, instructional and also lovely to watch you be so happy!

[@kevsworld69]

Hi Rebecca, Thank you for sharing your trials and successes. No doubt you and Michael will cross many oceans. My fondest wishes for you both and sincere congratulations for a life well lived. What a wonderful example of making your own luck. May all of your days overflow with love and support. Kevin

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes...I hope you are right!

[@davidmalmquist8910]

Congratulations on finding a partner wishing you both safe travels and may the wind be always at your back

[@philipmorehouse1069]

I am, so very happy for you, Rebecca and will continue to watch your channel with great anticipation of things to learn and of your bright future with your new Captain.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much for your happiness for me :) Nice to have such a supportive team. It’s still early days, but things looking promising!

[@svtosca3371]

You’ve found a great guy! And a mcGyver too. Happy sailing.

[@samanthamclaren2572]

It’s shows in that smile you are wearing. And your heart knows that Patrick is looking out for you. 🌺😊

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes I know that for sure.

[@erich9244]

Rebecca, Thanks for sharing so much I still tear up a bit when watching you w/o Patrick. None the less it certainly seems like you have found the right Captain and the right time and in the right place! Divine providence indeed maybe the good lord knows what he is doing after all. God bless keep on keeping on and I'll keep watching.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks, I still tear up too..watching this video, other videos, and videos with just Patrick fixing something. I think I always will. He would definitely without a doubt want me to be happy, so I’m trying hard to do that. It’s not all rainbows and unicorns for sure...but I try to think positive, and live for today.

[@bestcomdand7023]

What a video - I got dust in my eyes. I already like your new captain (but what do you care what I like), a pleasure to meet Michael on your channel. Your criteria was great! The most important is to not only look after the boat but the 'family' on the boat. I wish the two of you fair winds and sun and fun filled sailing days and a great new relationship. Michael doesn't replace Patrick in your life, Michael adds to your life together with Patrick. You are a hero both for male and female sailors. I am so happy you decided to continue. I have learned a lot from you. I have learned a lot from Patrick. I am eager to learn from Michael too (no pressure Mike). G'd one mate! Daniel

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much....I agree. Patrick can never be replaced, but Michael is adding so much in so many ways. And I’m learning so much from him...and hopefully as time goes on, he will teach much to many!

[@jodimullen392]

Seems like you chose well. I’ve always been the lady who took action, it’s awesome! Can’t wait for more videos!

[@RVLifeNOW]

I think we would be friends!! :)

[@SailingPluto]

You are shining! Being positive and clear headed goes a long way in creating ones one happiness. This is such a positive update from you! We are happy with you.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much guys...positivity definitely helps...and it started with you guys!

[@DawnHunters]

I really appreciate that you shared this story Rebecca. Me and my husband have a big age difference in between us, while we liveaboard our trawler we are restoring our motorsailer to travel around the world this spring. No need to say that when i saw your video about Patrick, i cried all the way through it. Even now writing this comment after watching this episode i'm crying my eyes out without really any reason lol. I was thinking about you all these months. When i saw this video being released, I was not sure of what i'm going to see in it. I believe you are a very strong woman and I'm SO happy that you are having a good time right now. Please be well and thank you again for sharing this. Fair winds. Iana

[@richardowen4325]

Sounds a great project Iana. Will you be producing any youtube videos? Perhaps Rebecca could advise on the process/ pros and cons.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks for getting in touch...leaving this comment. People all over the world were and still are supporting me, and it’s the only reason I could go through this ok. Thank you for your love and beautiful emotion. Never lose that.

[@Curiosity-NZ]

Age difference can play a large part in a relationship, for myself and Suzie we have an age difference of a number of years I'm the older one). Trust in each other has been our bond. Suzie does not have much sailing experience but she has shown me more than once she is more than capable. An example was recently on a trip home with forecasted adverse weather coming in. While I was off watch, in rising seas, increasing adverse conditions and failing light Suzie did a complete sail change on her own. When I came on watch she mentioned what she had done and just said that I needed my rest and she didn't what to wake me. We have a 3 masted schooner rig vessel. Robert and Suzie aboard "S.V. Snow Maiden"

[@davidrhightower]

Glad to see you smiling again with a radiant glow of a giddy school girl. Truly what another would look for doesn't matter. Only you can decide on what or who can make you happy.

[@RVLifeNOW]

So true...thanks!

[@silverark2693]

Absolutely lovely to see you back! I'm so glad to see you so happy. I love you and I love Patrick and I love your new captain Michael, just cause I can. I am one who waited too long to get my boat, now I have to wait to see what I can do! No problem, it may not be a world cruise, but I'll look for my boat right here, and cruise around my lovely Vancouver Island. It's the size of Taiwan you know! But you're back and that's that! I think you hit all the right points for a sailing partner Rebecca, and Michael sounds like a win there! Good luck and sail on.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much! Sail on friend!

[@brice5542]

So happy for you, thanks for letting us into your life. good luck, following seas and a fresh breeze. Cheer's Pops

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks Brice. Gotta keep the channel going...need the bit of income it provides..and this type of video is so much more fun than technical videos, though I hope my next one can be a technical one about the batteries!

[@kristina3threat]

This one made me cry, I'm SO HAPPY for you! It sounds like you've got an amazing new captain, with a lovely accent to boot!😄 💕

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes is his accent not just so gorgeous :)

[@brucephelps6245]

So glad you found a friend and sailing companion ! 👍🐾🐾🐕🐾🐾 to explore the world 🗺 ... keep up with the channel and good luck with everything i hope it works out for you both and you have a long term friend in your new Captain....😊

[@RVLifeNOW]

I hope so too..thank you!!!

[@jesper1406]

Having been around a time or two, I say that we are always afraid of the bad ones, being screwed over and hurt. Thankfully the world is really full of good people outnumbering the bad apples by a lot. As we grow older, we also learn to see the signs of bad intentions or hidden agendas. Mostly I have learned though, that good have prevailed, love and respect and trust is prevalent over the opposite. I wish you all the absolute best, and I think your criterias are absolutely spot on. Good luck, and safe sailing. ❤️❤️❤️

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so very much. I think the good absolutely prevails too!

[@k.w.9601]

What a sweet and loving dog....i know he's grieving the bond with Michael...i wish you'd taken him with you!

[@RVLifeNOW]

I know..but old and fat and heavy..we would have broken our backs carrying him up to the cockpit...

[@michaelb.barnett2225]

Rebecca: I have been a follower from the beginning and have learned a lot from you and Patrick. You seam happy now, glad for that, and reminds of something Jacques Cousteau said; " The sea, once it cast its spell, hold one in its net of wonder forever". Looking forward to seeing you and Michael going forward, so glad for you both!!!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thank you so much :)

[@hidesertmusic]

Great to see such a strong smile! Congratulations on finding a new sail mate and friend. Hope you sail together happily and safely for as long as you can or want to. God bless.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much! Me too!

[@pmbnet]

Do not fear judgment. Do what is right in your heart. Looking from the outside, you have been blessed by keeping your soul open to all possibilities. One cannot move forward on your life journey by closing up.

[@RVLifeNOW]

That’s what I think...I am doing what’s in my heart...and so far, so good...

[@24hourtravellers]

Was thinking the same. ❤

[@RiverWoods111]

@@RVLifeNOW By the way, when that many people start to suggest something, it is good to follow that something and see where it takes you. A little guidance from the Universe!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes, so true! The stars are aligning!

[@sailingmoonshadow3169]

@@RVLifeNOW Couldn't agree more! I always say you can't catch hold of something new when you're hanging on for dear life with both hands to the old thing. Of course Patrick will always have a place in your heart (and quite rightly) but, as you say, he would want you to move on with your life and live it to the fullest extent possible.

[@MrGentlebutfirm]

So great! Taking a chance for life to start up again. Both of you are so worth it!

[@RiverWoods111]

OMG! This brought tears of joy to my eyes and my heart! Ahhh, I feel you had some encouragement from Patrick to go help him with his lines. It is good to see you smiling and happy and that is what matters in life! Wow! "a teammate"! That is what I need to find. I have been trying to find a description of what I am looking for, but all I knew was what I didn't want from my past, and I don't want to be focusing on that crap! Thank you! By the way, he has a great spirit about him.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes...Michael is a the most special of guys...I have sooo much to learn from him...if I don’t drive him crazy first! It’s a good thing he is patient!

[@courtneyjolynn]

I teared up also. Just wonderful! Sally, it will come to you 😊

[@lanesulhan3701]

So happy for you to have found such a great friend and on the path towards healing

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks Lane. Yes..I’m really lucky!

[@G11713]

2:33 That's some sweet playing.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yea

[@lancedaniels]

Thanks for posting and sharing. Best wishes to you Brick House's new Captain.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much...

[@geezergamers7101]

I married a widow. I did not know it at the time, but her husband had been killed just a few weeks before I met her. I pursued her and was rebuffed, several times, politely. Finally, a friend of hers told me the sad tale of her husband's death. It was horrific and not for public comment. I kept myself occupied and after a few years again struck up a relationship. It was slow going to be sure. Many people warned me away from her as she was "damaged goods" and I would always be in the shadow of her first husband. I will not lie and say it was all easy going, but we are now in our 22nd year together, happy most days with 2 great kids. Companionship with someone you love and trust is a great joy. Have a great sail, be safe, enjoy. I don't think Patrick would be upset at all, there's a lot of life let in that boat, and you. Both should be out on the water, going places.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks for that story. Yeah...I hope Michael has a lot of patience...I’m probably a bit damaged..and it even aware of it for the most part. He is brave to jump in feet first with me!!!

[@geezergamers7101]

@@RVLifeNOW Love isn't the reward for cowardice. You are very brave yourself. If you make it thru life undamaged you didn't really live. I hope to see you on the water. My wife and I are both sailors and doctors. I am in the ER my wife does Hospice. We both could use some time on the water, hoping to head south along the US east coast as soon as November comes. Cheers!

[@keithhall9298]

Glad for you and nicely done your patience and politeness.

[@GNashOldJazzDrummer]

Watching the videos again, I cried with you all over again. I am really glad to see beautiful smiles come back into your life again. I think your selection criteria were right on. I think I mentioned before, when I grow up I'd like to be like Michael. Still do. Love you guys.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Ah thanks Glenn, and I passed your comment on to Michael too. He is just the BEST of men…Smiles come and go at every turn… but I’m still kickin so I make the best of it!

[@bobthesnobscotland2821]

Yipeee great to see her sailing again 👍👍👍🇬🇧🥃🥃🥃

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes...she is happy to be back out on the water!

[@rossygray996]

Wonderful news! It was so lovely to watch this episode and see your genuine happiness and see the rapport you have with your new captain. Of course we'll all miss Patrick but life must go on and Patrick would want nothing less for you. Fair winds and we look forward to continuing to watch your adventures.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much for your supportive comment. Life goes on...some days better than others...the new normal...in every way!

[@nitzansneh5552]

Rebecca, I’m so happy you’ve found a partner for at least a start of a new - continuing life cruising. Finding a really great cruising mate is probably even harder than finding “just” a life partner. I think your method of knowing the person to cruise with was fine. Need to take the time and experience in different situations with eyes wide open. Michael looks and sounds like a fine fine person - fingers crossed all is going and will be going well. Agree with you it makes absolutely no sense to solo cruise and you’ve made the right life strategy decision.The trade winds should probably take you west soon, as they took us with our beloved s/v GDY-Kids, a year ago from St Lucia and eventually back to the US - now in Savannah until May 2021 when we plan to go north - via Newport, RI Home! to Boston - not too far from the beginning of your cruising adventure. Stay safe, best of luck and keep up the great positive spirit!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Maybe we will see you there :) Thank you. High hopes but I know the reality. What are the chances. But so far so good. Fingers crossed...

[@kgstudio5352]

Good for you Rebecca! So glad you’ll be back in the wind again soon. Michael seems like a great guy and I’m sure you two will have many great adventures together. Peace & blessings to you both❤️

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks Kia...my faithful follower. We still need to talk one day. Would love to hear what you are up to!

[@kgstudio5352]

@@RVLifeNOW yes Rebecca we’ll definitely catch up one day. Unfortunately, I’m not doing much here in the States but trying to dodge coronavirus! I’m parked & spending time with Mom. Will keep you posted when I’m on the move again! In the meantime I’m excited to travel vicariously through you two❤️

[@r.nathansinclair9909]

Rebecca, I’m so happy to see this video and learn to hear about Michael. Welcome aboard brother. I’m sure Michael knows to be him and try not to compare himself to Patrick. There is only one you, know who you are and how you are. And the great quote, “it’s none of your business what other people think of you.” And as for the advise, see how you two do in a good and proper upset. And what it’s like after that. Kaleema and I try to stick to a 20 minute rule. Take twenty minutes, at least, then come back to communicate. Monitor how you two do in on-board emergencies. How we communicate in times of urgency and after that are crucial. In the Navy we called it debriefing and lessons learned. What happened, what went right, wrong, and what to do next time in a similar situation. Fair winds and following seas my friends. Big love from Nathan on Vancouver Island, Canada. 😉🙏🏼❤️🇨🇦

[@RVLifeNOW]

All good advice...thank you...

[@ericsimpson4799]

Michael is a wonderful guy, and I believe that he will is an excellent choice of captain to guide you through the coming years of sailing. Good luck to both of you, definitely keep that smile on your face, it is so nice.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Eric..thanks so much...you are such a good friend. So nice to have your stamp of approval...since you have met him a few times in person now. He definitely IS a wonderful guy...I’m so very very lucky!

[@josephgibel6975]

Hello glad to see life is getting back to normal for you. You've been through so much and you deserve to be happy. I just wanted to mention that Wildlings Sailing are looking for an upgrade to their boat Good Tidings, I believe it's the name . They might be interested in the boat you have for sale. Anyway best of luck for the future and I'm looking forward to your adventures.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks...have them get in tou h. My email is at www.WhereIsBrickHouse.com

[@amandagilbert8083]

This is such a beautiful video Rebecca. Congratulations. You have spoken your thoughts so eloquently and Brett and I are so happy that you have found Mike. Stay safe and enjoy the future, fair winds and following seas.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Hey guys..thanks so much. Still early but looking very promising. We forge ahead preparing for departure!

[@peregrinegrace8570]

Happy faces And enough wisdom to see into the distance. I wish you every blessing Jesus is my captain, he gets me home

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks

[@jamesmaguire3973]

I found your video on navigation I thought it was great. So I looked for more and it was about your loss . Then finding a new captain . What a roller coaster all in 3 videos . You are a wonderful person and I hope all is well with your travels .

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much. My whole life is a rollercoaster…still…so I guess the videos are portraying my life well ;) Thanks a lot for watching…a new one this next week I hope…

[@timhardman4764]

Congratulations Rebecca, I am happy to see that you have found an equal partner to continue your sailing life with. I think your criteria for choosing someone are on the mark. I was truly worried about your vulnerability finding and then sailing with a new co-captain. Patrick must have been coordinating some of this from up above to find a person that checks so many of your boxes. For however long this new partnership lasts, I wish the two of you all the best.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much! I’m sure you have seen the latest video…we still going. Though it’s as rocky as hell!

[@timhardman4764]

@@RVLifeNOW I hope you both find happiness, together, apart or just visiting each other for a sail once in awhile.

[@mariateresaleonardo4310]

Watching this video made me cry! Yes tears of joy for you my dear. Glad you finally found your new Captain.For the few times we went out I learned how amazing you are! Loved being with you,we laughed a lot and that made my grieving a bit lighter!Thank you so much for the wonderful memories. I'm grateful that we met. Thank God you're happy again! Praying for your unending happiness. I wish I could find my future Captain too. Stay safe, happy and healthy ❤️ God bless you more.🙏 Miss you so much❤️

[@RVLifeNOW]

Maria...thanks for your beautiful comment. I hope you find your captain too!

[@mariateresaleonardo4310]

@@RVLifeNOW God willing. I'll be waiting patiently ❤️

[@davidboatman2531]

Yes, the “Like” has to come first! -GLC

[@RVLifeNOW]

That’s for sure...Nice boat hah?

[@RVLifeNOW]

That seems like a toss up. Not gonna try to try someone I don’t like. But if I like them...probably I will try to trust them...Both are important without a doubt. And in today’s world, you really have to consider both, a lot!

[@bentleyblower]

Hi Rebecca. I'm sitting at my computer here in U.K. with rather damp eyes of happiness, as I enjoy your You Tube clip and I see your beaming smile and the new glint in your eyes. Cut the new Captain crap in having found Michael, as I have every confidence in saying that you are looking for more than a Captain.......and I do so hope that you have found exactly that. I am equally confident, that if Patrick is looking down on the current scene, he too would hope that you have found a new soulmate. Filling Patrick's shoes is a very tall almost insurmountable task, but I wish Michael fair winds, safe sailing and the determined courage to make your heart sing again.

[@RVLifeNOW]

The only one who can fill Patrick’s shoes, or try to, is me. Michael is a whole new chapter with totally different qualifications. Definitely more than a captain...

[@davidhoy7605]

Rebecca, I'm so happy for you, and that you will be continuing your adventures. Michael seems like a great guy, and like someone you can trust to keep you safe. I will say that many of the locations you filmed at in this video brought back lots of good memories. I immediately recognized the pedestrian tunnel under the railroad at the Brass Bell in Kalk Bay - I spent way too much time (or was it not enough?) and money with friend at the Brass Bell ;-). Regards, David

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks David...nice to hear from you!

[@diverwln1]

I am so glad to learn that you have so realistically "adjusted your sails", and it seems, with a smile. My hope for both of you is that your future adjustments are minor. Safe sailing!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks. I hope that too!

[@samaipata4756]

So happy to hear my predictions came true: Things will come your way just keep your eyes open! And here you did, didn’t you! I was confident Patrick would guide you and he did! Now sail into a new sea of life, with new adventures waiting for you. Wishing you and your new captain the very best, fair winds and may you find what you both are looking for! And most of all make us happy with new video’s!😉😘🤗💞⛵️

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thank you so much. Such a nice comment :)

[@johnandreae6948]

Your smile says it all! Lots to be said for trusting your ability to assess/judge another’s character. Team work makes the dream work. Enjoy!

[@RVLifeNOW]

I like that saying...can I use it!

[@captainsukycannon1167]

Pretty darn insulting” the only woman....I know who could do that without a GPS

[@RVLifeNOW]

He obviously doesn’t know but one woman like me :)

[@JohnCornellier]

That was a little old school, to put it politely.

[@crzyruskie86]

There's nothing insulting about it. He probably legitimately doesn't know any other woman who could tell him that. He wasn't making a generalization.

[@richardcamp8301]

Good to see you bouncing back. Hope you have found a good companion for the future. Looking forward to seeing more of your adventures.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thank you so much...

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks. There will be more for sure:)

[@waughthogwaugh3078]

Love and respect your spirit Rebecca. Sure Patrick would be nodding in agreement with your sentiments. Hope that things work out well for the Brick house crew. Looking forward to following along.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much...me too...

[@yoyojoe9240]

Good for You !! Get back in the boat, Sail....sail...sail, be Free, be happy and be safe..!! HAPPY TRAILS..!!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Th is Jose!

[@chuckrendell3741]

Well, absolutely inspiring. Experienced, handy, compatible, trustworthy and committed; pretty good criteria I’d say. Mike seems delightful, charming and bright, with a side of humble. Carole and I are inspired. Grab life by a he tail and hang on. Please continue with the vids. Love the new style.

[@RVLifeNOW]

This is Chuck, isn’t it? Thanks for the support....he is all of that and more! Did I mention a damn good cook???

[@davidevans9189]

I am so happy that you both crossed paths! Keep on sailing on, our sister and brother! I'm sure Patrick also shares your joy. The journey for all of us is never over. God bless.

[@RVLifeNOW]

That’s an understatement ;)

[@aaronp1434]

Hello from Ontario Canada. So happy for you to be moving forward with your adventures! Thank you for taking us along and sharing your experiences.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks for watching Aaron. I’m glad you have joined us!

[@tarivard]

Wonderful! So happy for you. He’s very likeable. Toss that criteria - it just works. I look forward to seeing the both of you adventure sailing. I’m sure Patrick would approve and be happy for you. Your smile says it all.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes..I know he would be happy for me.

[@craig2688]

So happy for you Rebecca that you found your captain. He seams like a nice guy. Looking forward to your new adventures. ..Craig..

[@RVLifeNOW]

He doesn’t just seem like a nice guy...he really is...in so many ways, big and small. Fingers crossed!

[@DougVarble]

Good luck with new beginnings! Non of us can judge your criteria, you are controlled by your Heart!

[@RVLifeNOW]

And my head ;) Thanks!

[@jasonwulf7295]

Very happy to see you sailing on. Best of luck and happy wishes to you!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thank you...

[@chrissimpkins4144]

Your willingness to keep moving ahead and to try something new is an inspiration. I hope this chapter of your life is another very happy one.

[@RVLifeNOW]

I hope so too! Thanks!

[@marioantoniomolinatejerina7503]

Congratulations!!! You found what you were lookingo for. Go for it. Enjoy your life. I wish I coud be so brave, and untie my lines too. Best wishes.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks for such a nice compliment!

[@jamesallen712]

I wanted to know how you were doing after the loss of Patrick so I checked in. To my surprise I find this video. It made me cry at the state of where I am, the lack of my dreams, hopes and aspirations in life and love laying all but discarded on the floor. To go through what you have this year and to still be smiling and happy now plus moving forward shows what a lady you are. Sail well with your new Captain.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Hi James. Thank you for your happiness for me. Please remember life is so incredibly short...and presumably we get one chance on this earth...every single day could be your last one. No more sunsets, no more conversations, no more hellos to passerby’s, no more feelings about anything, no more excitement, no more long cries, and no more dusks. Please...do something NOT to feel you are wasting your life, like you have abandoned all hope. Live your life before you don’t even have that option. It’s what thrusts me forward with gusto...Patrick won’t have that every again most probably. I am terrified of not having it anymore. Please please, live your precious life.

[@SailingFridaafWisby]

So good to see you happy and sailing again I which all the best

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so very much!

[@WolfNathan]

I am really happy to see you getting back on your life. I wish you the best. Enjoy your life, you deserve it. 🇧🇷 🇨🇦 ⛵️

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks.

[@life.sunsets.sunrises]

So Happy for you Rebbeca and so many true words said .... Savor everyday and live every moment !!

[@sailingavocet]

Cheers to that!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much!

[@azr1970002]

Fantastic. Look forward to future video. Live your best life always

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes...thank you...

[@JoeBlowBlues]

Very happy for you both. Looking forward to following your future cruising adventures, Cheers.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much!

[@danknox9986]

Happy to hear you are moving on. Wishing you the very best.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much!

[@joeaguirre3304]

Trust and respect are foundation stones for any good relationship. They must both be equal in strength. It seems Michael has earned both. Good for you!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yeah he is that and much more...

[@johntaylor1947]

your journey through such a devastating loss and how you have worked through and come out of it is nothing short of incredible. Your story can and hopefully will inspire many people to over come and move on.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks John...maybe I should write a book...

[@meldrumart]

Well done! Good luck with your adventures and future happiness. It sounds like you found a good guy to share your life at sea with.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much! Fingers crossed I don’t botch it up. He’s a super good guy that I got super super lucky to have found! Can’t believe my luck to be honest!

[@meldrumart]

@@RVLifeNOW I am very happy for you both, Good luck and may the fair winds take you to those wonderful places - be it geographically or in your heart.

[@MrJones131]

It is so nice to see you smile again fair wind god bless

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much

[@toejamr1]

Youve taught me a lot in a very short amount of time. Your drive, passion, and resolve is inspiring. Thank you.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Th@nks Brad!

[@maryswift6014]

Good for you that you found a new partner to share some fun, some food, some sleep and some travel with. Happy sailing.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Haha Mary..thanks! How did you know he’s an awesome cook!?

[@maryswift6014]

@@RVLifeNOW um... Cuz he looks like he might be!

[@marxtr6]

I am sooooo proud of you. Wishing you fair winds and following seas but most importantly happiness. ❤️

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much! Nothing beats happiness!

[@SailingLifeonJupiter]

All very positive news Rebecca... Great to see.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much! Think of you guys so very often!

[@timm6112]

You look happy and that is a wonderful thing. Enjoy! Don't waste a single day of your life. As you know all to well, you never know when you last day of this life is. Go for it!!!

[@RVLifeNOW]

That is so true...