A night with our NEWBORN (sorry Sarah)

This was absolutely exhausting (mostly for Sarah). 2 kids are the real deal! Thanks for being here on this journey with us.
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[@lynnebriggs6184]

I have raised 6 kids and I agree that when she does wake up keep the room as dark as possible so she doesn’t think it’s time to be awake. Even though Sarah had the longest feeding in the middle of the night I think it’s great that Derik is willing to take night feedings as well. Not many dads do that so you got you a good one Sarah! Congrats to you both and Jack has such a cute personality I love it!

[@LMD714]

She is lucky her husband doesn't have to work.

[@moomama217]

Dark and quiet.

[@USERINDIA99]

6 kids 😏

[@EmEm78]

@@oldbluewitch3386 true, I always just naturally did that with my babies from the moment they were born without realising I was doing it. I didn't realise some people thought it was weird to talk to a baby like they're human until an old lady came up to me at the grocery store and told me I looked crazy talking to my kid about what we were doing. I don't care what it looks like, my kids were early talkers, I'm sure talking to them about everything helped. I'm a vet nurse and I talk to my animal patients too, so maybe I am slightly nuts 😂 I swear it helps the animals stay calm when you tell them what you're doing to them. I'm sure it's the same with babies.

[@tammicomeau3757]

Dark and quiet during night and noisy all day so they know day from night.

[@lori5032]

A little advice from a mom of 2 grown boys, when Sunny gets up for feedings, keep the room dark. Just use a small night light so you guys can see. Love you all! ❤

[@Stacey171189]

I have 3 boys and that really helps, but it does sometimes take a week till they get used to it

[@dawnboles6573]

You are so right. I had 5 daughters all grown-up now. But keeping the room dark truly helps with them not mixing up there day's and night's.

[@lisagolding8740]

I agree keeping the room dark is important for them to understand night and day

[@NikB331]

Best advice I’ve seen! Yes, keep it dark at night… I use to let them fuss a little too. Sometimes they just fall right back to sleep.. sometimes not.. but it helps them with self soothing too. You guys are great parents

[@susansewardfamily]

Totally….. agree❤

[@jamyejoseph2176]

Congratulations!! She’s perfect! My mom is a postpartum doula. I’m in the process of becoming a birth doula and I’ve had three kids this past six years. Don’t know if y’all will see this but in case another new mama does: 1. Lights OFF for night feedings works best. Tiny little low light night light. 2. No chatting with the cutie at night. She’s a person. A small person but a person nonetheless and y’all are interesting. She wants the tea girl 💁🏽‍♀️if you talk, she will listen…and she will stay up to not miss any updates 3. Keep the day loud. She will still sleep through it but learn the difference between that and the quiet night. 4. That swaddle looks loose. Remember she was just smooshed inside of you and designed to be able to pass through a birth canal. I prefer heavy duty swaddles with Velcro and I strap those jelly babies in! Use discernment obviously but tight is right. 5. “Alexa, play brown noise” … all … night … long. My baby’s room sounds like a tundra. She’s one and she thinks she is still in the womb at night. Also brown noise is more tolerable to my husband and my adult ears than white noise which seems to be more grating. 6. She can smell you… more specifically your breast milk so my mom gets better results with her clients who keep the baby on daddy’s side of the room (which I think you’re doing) 7. This one is crucial, if you aren’t already, make sure to hold baby fully upright for 25 minutes after eating. When you lay her flat before that… the gas won’t let her sleep. 8. And for a final bonus, it seems like she’s gassy and there is only one product that works across the board for my mom’a clients including me. Boiron ColicComfort Single use drops. Homeopathic, good for ages 4 weeks and older and E-FFEC-TIVE. Wishing you the best and a blessed postpartum journey and as you know, no matter what, every missed moment of sleep is so worth it cause 😩 gahhh they’re just such a blessing. Sunny and Jack are destined for greatness. God bless your family!

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[@tammyprice1692]

Very good advice!!! Had 4 kids & my babies slept the entire nite from being home from hospital, with dark rooms & fan noise.& tried to keep them awake for a solid couple hrs b4 bedtime.

[@GEMelleeMaynopenottoday1133]

I wish you were around when I had my son, this information is great advice and so spot on.

[@lecavalier32]

I don't even have kids and may be too old to have em, but man will I consult this should the day arrive!

[@jamyejoseph2176]

@@AA4PJM Yea there’s a lot that’s seemingly different for sure! But there’s also a lot of similarities with what you mentioned that should definitely be added in for those that don’t know already. Especially skin to skin. I love the Joey Wrap and it made that early bonding super special. These are a lot of the tips my mother gives her postpartum clients because they often do not wish to cosleep and want babies sleeping through the night by 12 weeks. I’m sure that’s not the norm in other places. As she is hired to help them meet their goals and not control their decisions as parents, she uses these tips to get them there. She also watches the babies all night long as a night nurse and doesn’t sleep on the job and sleeps through the day instead. For The tight swaddle I should probably have put my “USE DISCERNMENT” comment in all caps for emphasis considering things get lost in translation over text 🤣but overall, for the mamas here who want sleep these are the tips that help them. Here people often try to avoid the Moro reflex by swaddling tight (enough) so that when baby’s arms lift up, they meet some resistance and don’t keep startling awake with every movement. What’s funny is, though this is the advice I give, I always end up cosleeping anyway and watching everyone around me take this advice and use it while I just sleep in a tundra with babies all over me. But I will say, they’re definitely more rested than I am and their babies are fine. Of course they usually only nurse 6 months to a year while I nurse two years and am aiming to go longer this round. 🤍

[@patstaaf7661]

When my babies were newborn and they cried in the night, I kept the room dark and made as few motions are possible. Fed them, changed them in near silence, and they went right back to sleep. You guys are doing a great job, this is not easy. You are great parents. Love to you both.

[@susananderson9619]

Exactly what I did,also. Or I'd plop them in middle of our big bed and nurse him until he fell asleep

[@tmurphy6110]

Yes keep it dark or low light

[@sharonmeldrum4820]

Agree. Night lights are the best. Keep lights low as possible. Low noise 😘

[@sharonmeldrum4820]

And yes doing a great job you guys 😍😍😘

[@haleofalife8269]

We used the hatch night light with the red light on! We could see, but it doesn’t stimulate their brain to think it’s awake time.

[@Amanda-Renee]

So cute!!! ❤❤ From a veteran mom of many, Don’t turn any lights on or talk to her during night feeds! Only whispers and darkness will help her understand that it’s time to sleep🙏🏼 Much love to you guys! She’s a DOLL!

[@susanlilley-rizos9906]

Oh my gosh I am 72 years old and watching you guys up with the baby pushed me right back in to my 20s. It’s like reliving that part of my life with new babies. Thank you for sharing it brought back such good memories.

[@tetelouise4558]

Me too!!!!! I watched this and was instantly right there, back to when my adult children were newborns..... learning every little thing....& Then, right when I got the last kid out of the house.....I got custody of the first grandbaby 😳 (2days old). Had to relearn everything! 🥴🤪🤭 Wouldn't trade any of it..

[@blueiris5934]

As a nursing home nurse I find this adorable and so special!!!

[@ThePortalTheory]

im in my 40s and i was thinking the same lol. my daughter was 4 so she was a big help with her brother but the no sleep... i almost think us older people would do better with newborns because i barely sleep anymore. im up all the time so i could totally watch the baby lol.

[@norgegal]

So true! It's really fun to remember back when your babies were new and like fine china but then you blink and they're young adults. My fav memory is my first son never left my room without saying I love you mommy fast forward still never leaves without saying I love you!💕 🥰

[@mint4444]

Every parent of a newborn always looks so exhausted. But looks like you're finding a good balance. God bless. Your kids are so cute!

[@debrasaunders7200]

They look beautiful but tired

[@lyndajohnstone8044]

Happy New Year to you all, I'm a senior (74) n live alone. I really appreciate you sharing your family. Your wonderful parents. God bless from Ontario Canada.

[@ciaramc790]

I agree they are amazing parents! Wishing you a Happy & Healthy New Year Lynda from Ireland ❤️

[@sherryrutledge8792]

Hi Lynda! Happy new year!

[@aunt_b3365]

Hi lynda from Kentucky! I dont get to see my family due to distance. I love seeing this family.

[@jeaniegrothause5824]

Did you try nursing her ?

[@jeaniegrothause5824]

I nursed my girls on demand instead of 3 hour feedings. And nursed about Midnight for last feeding. And they would sleep till 6am. Worked for all 3 girls. When they were only 2 weeks old.

[@morganapter5780]

I will never get over how kind and patient this man is, his purpose in life is truly being a father and husband

[@tracysummers7081]

Amen absolutely agree

[@marieannechen9966]

I wish I had a husband who got up to help me with feedings, especially since I had them all via C-Section and I’m not talking about a bikini cut either!! No, I had a full blown vertical cut C-Sect x 3!! Ouch!! ♥️

[@KristinaLeeJones]

A unique one for sure. It’s beautiful

[@Maddison_77732]

Well it’s his job to be at home vlogging. Most people husband have to go to work.

[@th6243]

I wonder why she doesn’t breast feed 😭 and I’d be so mad if it was my turn to sleep and my spouse brought the baby in and laid her/him on the bed and woke me up 😭

[@crypticplum4187]

Sunny is going to be the sweetest sister to Jack. I can’t wait to see her grow.

[@MNW0705]

I love how involved Derek is. Great parents.

[@serenawill128]

Damn... the bar is in H*LL 🔥 for men. He's being a Dad and doing what he's supposed to do lol. He doesn't need a cookie for that.

[@jnicole2440]

@@serenawill128 they're both at home with the kids. It's great he's able to be that involved but it's not realistic for most families who have one or both parents out working

[@MNW0705]

@@serenawill128 I agree, but a lot of dads are not that involved in the newborn phase.

[@serenawill128]

@nicolewouda8376 Well that's terrible and they should be involved. You can definitely pump and keep some in the fridge or Dad can help out by feeding formula and splitting up things 50/50 that way

[@youcantfightme8282]

That’s what he’s supposed to do, those kids are just as much his as they are hers. No need to praise him for being involved, it’s sad that this is where we’ve reached.

[@Gotomama]

Darkening the house will help her sleep faster! We got nightlights all over the house now and it’s such a help even when they are older. And reducing their stimulation. So no talking, no tv, just white noise and darkness ❤️

[@donnahazy4209]

. Maybe im really wrong, but whatever works for you, but i never did that, all my kids got used to sleeping with noise, from people talking to train whistles blowing.

[@TheDee0520]

@@donnahazy4209 I did the same thing with my babies noise, noise and more noise and when my granddaughter was born my son and daughter in law kept it so quiet that baby would wake up to a pin dropping

[@juliedidlinger6638]

@@donnahazy4209 agreed!! The hospital never slept…noise…lights…then BAM you get sent home to quiet and crying

[@tiffcat1100]

Oh dear, just found you, hooked already, love a newborn, who can resist and Jack is adorable. There is someone on KZbin who teaches about the 5 main baby cries and how to recognise them. I could have done with that (and the internet, specifically KZbin) 3-4 decades ago when I had mine! ❤🚁❤

[@jewlesw.2437]

Quiet quite 😊

[@babyface45]

Oh Sarah, I just want to give you the biggest hug ever. Those first 3 months are so hard, it does feel like you're walking around in a daze. Your body is still healing, you're mentally exhausted and the thought of 3 uninterrupted hours of sleep is like a literal dream. Derek you are doing great being a great Father to both your kids and a wonderful support to Sarah. Praying for all of you. ❤️

[@amycorallo6044]

The best advice I ever got raising my four kids was to not talk to them during night feeds. No kisses and sweet talks. Yes, it is sooooo hard to do, but eventually they realize there is a difference in day and night feedings. They are like “Oh, they talk and love on me during certain times and don’t during others.” All of my babies slept through the night early on and I think this was a major contributing factor. Both of your babies are precious!

[@katrajernejc4987]

Omg im having my first one in august. That helps me out a whole lot as a new mom. Tysm for saying that 🥰

[@cathyayers3988]

I was about to say the same thing. I found out if you don't talk to them they will soothe and go back to sleep quicker. I had 2 babies 13 months apart (1979 & 1980) and that's one of the things I learned.

[@michellekuhn2151]

What really helped with my kids to know the difference between day and night was to consistently wake them up every two hours in the day time, instead of just feeding them whenever they wake up. and then at night just letting them sleep until they wake up. Also giving them a bath right before that last feeding in the evening. Keeping them on a schedule so they know what to expect is so important. You guys are doing a great job, and you are both fantastic parents. Thanks for sharing your precious lives with all of us, it is so much fun to watch. Much love to all of you❤️❤️❤️

[@WithLoveAshley]

This made me laugh at a memory with my second child. I knew he was going to have his days and nights mixed up based on his movement in the womb. Sure enough he did and one night he was up, just he and I and I remember even talking to him and saying, “I’m not supposed to talk and get you all stimulated, but you’re just too cute and sweet,” or something along those lines. They’re only little for so long. I had a preemie first so feeding every 2 hours was essential, even to wake her through the night. He actually slept through the night much earlier.

[@WithLoveAshley]

@@michellekuhn2151 So true that they need certain amounts of calories and if they don’t get it during the day, then they will be needing it through the night. Not trying to say it isn’t normal for babies to need feedings through the nights, but more talking about older babies past the first few to several months.

[@marthakarol6812]

You guys are absolute champs for handling 2 young kids and filming content for us at the same time. Keep the amazing work!!

[@Lulu4Him]

Jack is speaking so clearly and full sentences! Sunny doesn't seem to want her binky, lucky you guys that means you won't have to break her of it later on. Sarah doesn't need her beauty sleep she's beautiful already. Safe trip to you Derik and little Jack. Come home safe.

[@russetstealy8612]

One of the best dads ever!!! So loving and calm!!

[@leslies.5541]

Hey y'all!! A little unsolicited advice from a mom of 2 grown up girls and an LPN. You guys are so awesome feeding her when she's fussing!!! I love how you 2 work together. I saw someone mention keeping it darker in the room with little to no noise. I always kept the room dark and the TV on but very low...background noise is important as I'm sure you know. My advice for helping Sunny sleep a little longer: instead of wrapping her in a swaddling blanket use your clothing ie pj's or t-shirts. Also putting clothes that you have already worn for her to lay on in the bassinet. Having your smell close to her will comfort her. It is a trick I learned with my 2nd daughter and it worked...she was amazing to put back to sleep after a feeding. I have passed this along to everyone I came across that had a baby and it worked for them as well. I FEEL your exhaustion!! Thank you for sharing your lives with us. I am reliving the best mommy moments over again watching you guys! ❤️❤️

[@befarlow]

I agree on the low volume noise. I used a sound machine with my babies and also swaddled. My oldest slept through the night at 10 days old, but he was a big baby.

[@Redheadwithfreckles78]

I did that with my daughter. I put her fav blankie on my shoulder while i held her and she had to have that blankie 24/7. It does work. She is now 16 and still has her blankie but its literally strings tied together lol.

[@cheriklein5820]

I raised my 4 kids with these words in their heads…”You get back, what you give out”. If you feel like we are good people, know that the reason we keep showing up here, is that you and your family are too♥️ Thank you for opening your lives to us

[@teresalynnturner781]

Are you kidding me!? We love being part of your lil family! Thank you for inviting us into your life and allowing us to love your babies!

[@patriciapursell6202]

I agree.

[@kellystanoyevic86]

What's Sunny's middle name. She looks a lot like her mom. Her hair is lighter already and will change as she gets bigger. I bet blonde.

[@vemberviper]

@@kellystanoyevic86 it’s Marie :)

[@cassiem3893]

Sunny looks just like Jack to me! Just with dark hair. She’s precious! 😍💕

[@jellybean945]

New parent dilemma. “Which feeding would be easiest for you?” Sarah is extremely Blessed to have such a caring Life Partner/husband. I swear, you & Derik are the best! Enjoy watching your family’s journey. Happy 2023 & May you both prosper with many blessings. Your children are a bonus for us to watch. They are both adorable. ♥️

[@bettybutler1686]

With my nine babies there was so much noise during the day and baby would be sleeping. When everyone was asleep it became too quiet. So I made a tape recording of a normal day(kiddos/kittens/puppies) and turned it on low and put beside the cradle. Took several day/night adjustments but got baby used to the “white noise “ or family noise. Each baby decides their rhythm. Bless you and a sweet New Year And a huge rocking chair to hold Sunny and Jack, hugging and snuggling

[@ladiepink]

That’s so cool I never heard anyone use the family as their white noise super cool !!!

[@megharmon2298]

It was the same for me. I just let the older kids be normal and that's what she got used to. I played music for her when I put her to he'd after they were all in bed. Older babies went to sleep in crib but last one .. nope had to be carried. So I put her in my carrier and she slept in it .. sometimes I could get her out and into crib. But that was only first month.baftet that as long as it was not too quiet, she would go to sleep in crib. I woukd do it all again. God bless.

[@darcistephenson5359]

@Jai B. totally works! I know a lot of new parents would hang signs on the door saying " don't ring bell or knock, text me instead ". Bad idea, the world is noisy and it's better if they get used to it earlier.

[@the_adorable_ash7365]

I’ve just found out after starting this video that I’m pregnant with my second! Massive congratulations on Sunny, she’s gorgeous and a lovely little one! You’re family all look so happy and healthy, wish you all the best ❤

[@RibeyesteakSachertorte]

Congratulations, miss! What a great miracle to start a brand new year! God Bless you!

[@tiffcat1100]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@SophiaMcKinley]

Can we just appreciate how cute Jack and Sunny is?❤

[@lmn6803]

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[@avlska44.81]

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[@JasonBorn89]

some pirates are here 😋

[@poppymerrifield2693]

I know right

[@GetUnlabeled]

Every day!!!

[@jsl1866]

Because you set a good example about how family members should treat each other, with patience, never-ending love, you talk to each other, respect all family members - I could go on and on.

[@beeheart6529]

I agree! And also being happy to be together!! That’s such a great family trait.

[@georgestavropoulos9945]

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[@annasanner6636]

A tip my friend told me after having my 2nd child. Your children feel your stress, if you are stressed while putting your little one to bed they will feel it. After finding peace and letting go of the stress my son would fall asleep pretty fast.

[@eileengineitis6721]

Jack’s description of his dreams was terrific. He is so articulate. Loved seeing a typical night with Sunny. This newborn stage will fly by, and everyone will be getting more zzzs. Sunny’s hair is amazing! So full…I am very curious as to whether the texture stays the same or not. She is absolutely precious. Thanks for sharing, once again!

[@cootje870]

You hear people talk about the lack of sleep when having a newborn, but this video really made me realize and see how intense (yet also precious) those feedings in the night are. I love how you guys care for each other and work together! Keep being awesome, you guys are wonderful parents!

[@blessingsoutlaw]

I noticed that too. Can’t imagine having to get up and go to work somewhere every day after a night of feedings! I love/need my sleep SO MUCH! I tip my hat to parents everywhere! 🎩

[@cherishwillis2525]

That bottle machine is the neatest thing I’ve ever seen!😳 Why do they come out with all that AFTER my kids are grown!😂❤

[@marilynsmith7680]

I know right, me too my kids grown and I wish they had that during my time with newborns. Man that would have made it so much easier.

[@alyssah52]

If she is gassy and fussy after feeding, maybe look at the formula! We had to switch my son to a gentle formula and that helped him instantly. He slept better and wasn’t so uncomfortable. You guys are literally doing AMAZING!

[@amandamills6181]

That's a great idea!!

[@anile3788]

Simalac is the best. Both of my girls used it never had an issue and planning to use it on my 3rd as well

[@letmeexplain1816]

@@11karmk11 ...mine too.

[@missy6399]

You guys are genuine, kind, caring, loving ppl that's why you have such a great fan base we love you guys ❤️

[@Synheath]

I used to alternate days with my husband so we both got a full night's sleep. I'd do one nights feelings and then he'd do one nights feelings. It helped us stay sane 🤣

[@HaveyouLovedandbeenLoved]

Hey guys, I recieved the best advice before our first child was born. I was a younge married mom at 17 (had 3 biological children with my husband). The advice was...from day 1, put your baby down to sleep after they eat while they are still awake and don't brake the cycle. They will fall asleep on their own, sleep for longer periods and more soundly. This is especially hard for first time parents and new grandparents etc. to commit to when everyone wants to hold your baby all the time. Just find the happy medium during the day but keep the cycle at night. Also when they do get up at night only have a small night light on just so you can see to change and feed them. It helps keep them in a sleep/calm state. Babies get their days and nights mixed up very easily. All 3 of my children slept 3 -3 1/2 hours at a time at night between feedings. The best part for tired parents was, they all slept through the night by the time they were 4 weeks old. I or my husband would do their last feeding at 10pm and they would sleep till 7am. It was great especially after having our 2nd baby and his sister was just 2 years older, almost to the day. Our 3rd baby was born 2 years after our 2nd. So our children are almost exactly 2 years apart. This is what worked for us and mite not be ideal for everyone. The second best advise was... don't be quiet around your baby while they are sleeping. This way you won't have to tip toe around hopeing you don't wake them up. It's almost impossible to have everything quiet when you already have another child in the house. I use to run the vacuum in their rooms while they were sleeping. They could sleep through fireworks, thunder etc and still to this day as adults. Well..not like they use to...2 of our children are parents and once you become a parent, you never actually sleep the same again. Lol. Some people use to say it was just my children this worked for and probably wouldn't work for others. But than I became a foster mom. The babies I would foster were only 24-48 hours old and came directly to our home from the hospital. We applied the same advice to all 6 of our foster babies and it worked perfect. All the babies we fostered stayed with us from birth to 8 -14 months old. So it worked on not only my biological children but my foster babies as well. I just want to make something clear. We spent plenty of time cuddling, holding, rocking and loving our children, all 9 of them. Laying them down while they were still awake allowed us the time to spend with our other children. To this day our grown children come over and snuggle next to us and to watch a movie etc. So laying them down while they are still awake wont take away the direct contact they deserve and need. We are so thankful 5 out of the 6 babies we fostered are still in our lives today and we still have the same loving relationship with them. Again this is what worked for our family. Hope this helps other parents. Congratulations on your new daughter, Sunny.

[@aschachtner31]

This is great advice! Deserves a lot more likes!!!!

[@ksmythe2551]

Excellent advice! As a mum to 3 grown up children, I completely agree!

[@robynroper-waskow1469]

Excellent advice!!!!!!!! As a mom of 6 and a 20+ year career as a labor and delivery and NICU nurse, I completely agree!

[@nunyabidness6045]

Great advice. Babies will go to sleep on their own, even if they have to cry it out a little.

[@kristahathaway9308]

Did you just say by the time they're 4 weeks old you let them sleep all through the night from 10:00 p.m. to 7:00 a.m. you do know until they're at least 4 or 5 months old you're supposed to feed them every three and a half hours to 3 hours you said you start doing that at 4 weeks old I don't know if you're supposed to do that for my understanding not until they're 4 months they can go 6 to 8 hours through the night but not 4 weeks

[@whitneygraham5645]

You guys are doing great! Our baby was born just a few days after Sunny and we also have a 2 year old, so we’re in the trenches with you! Thanks for sharing! It’’s nice to know we’re not the only ones who feel like zombies :) good luck guys! You’ve got this!

[@jessicawrixon4679]

Congratulations to you on your beautiful baby coming into the world. Every parent first time or 12th time are like zombies during that first 6 months. It seems like it will never get easier and then without you even noticing one day it just is. You are doing a great job too.

[@jordanzachary5461]

Watching this has honestly helped me so much. My baby was born Dec 5th and she is my first so I keep doubting myself because my little girl has that same middle of the night fussy difficult to settle time. Y’all are such amazing parents and this made me feel like I’m doing a good job it’s hard to feel that way at 2am when they won’t settle but I’m glad to see it is normal!! Y’all are amazing and she is so adorable!

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[@jordanzachary5461]

@@Abubakarisah1504I don’t know how to do that.

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[@jordanzachary5461]

@@katiesanders96 gotcha thanks!!

[@katiesanders96]

@@jordanzachary5461 😊 Happy to help!

[@emmar-h2025]

The fussiness will peak at 2-3 months, it's a phase and will pass. Sincerely, a momma of 6!🙋🏻‍♀️✨ Hang in there momma!

[@emmar-h2025]

*bedtime fusiness* i should say

[@melodyrose2269]

Actually that was where my daughter peeked for sleep. She finally started sleeping better at night around then without any fussiness. Every baby is different when it comes to phases. Now at almost eight months she has her bad nights and her good nights but more bad nights because she pops teeth left and right. She’s got six teeth and they’re full on shinning right now.

[@debbiecrum7585]

She is right, it will. Also when she hits the 11 or 12 pound range, she will probably sleep a bit more.

[@jamietalley02]

True after two months, my son started sleeping longer, so I got more sleep and I felt rested even though I was still losing sleep, but it was so overwhelming where you’re just dragging you know that feeling right I’m sure we all do lol😊

[@jazzminlott2865]

My second born started sleeping better at 3 months but only lasted a week. He is now 13months and he has slept through the night a couple times

[@kristamartin2982]

Oh my gosh, thank you for this video. It was so real and made those long nights of 15 years ago seem like just yesterday. How could I have forgotten? How was it so exhausting and wonderful at the same time? I'm going to go wipe the tears off my face and hug my teenagers. Thanks for the memories, guys. ✨🌜 (pssst...by the way, guess what...you guys are doing great!) 💕

[@Bex_InMT]

Unsolicited advice: my daughter didn't burp, ever. So we did lots of bicycle legs and mylocon drops. She didn't take to binkies. But she absolutely hated swaddling. I slept in the same room with her for 3 days then people told me to put her in her own room (it's 8 steps from mine) and she's slept so solidly from then on (thru the night since 5 mos). You guys are so great and supportive of eachother, it's so wonderful to see. And walking through the first few months like a zombie is totally normal.

[@victoriahoward2930]

Some very good advise. I was going to say, I always put a cloth diaper over my shoulder when I burped them, that way if they spit up, it won't be on your clothes and you have a rag to wipe their mouth too. I love watching your videos. You guys are crushing it. Enjoy them while they're young. It gets better. The kids are darling and you two are cute too. Nice family. Sorry about your vehicle. 🙄

[@americangal9292]

I think she looks just like Jack when he was a baby except her hair is dark. Jack and Sunny are both so precious. Jack telling about his dream when he woke up was the sweetest thing ever.

[@DarrinsDaffs]

I was coming here just to say that she really looks like Jack with dark hair!

[@LiselotteSchwarz]

@@DarrinsDaffs Me too😂😂

[@Elizamcculloe]

Yep looks just like her brother!

[@tetelouise4558]

Yes!!!! She is his dark haired twin!!!!! 😍🥰

[@trudilawrence9899]

I have 4 children, all adults now. So when I had my last one, I had an 11 month old , a nearly 5 year old, and a 9 year old. I definitely learnt from the first to the last that if you make the night feed enjoyable, they stay awake a lot longer. Keep talking to a minimum and light just so you can see. Obviously, feed and change Sunny and give her a hug. It's hard work getting the balance right sometimes. You are such a lovely family. You got this xxx

[@antjeneumann17]

I would never imagine you to have a babygirl with this massive dark hair...😊..she is so cute..🩷..and Jack also..his talking is sooo sweet...

[@MsElin81]

my niece is now 2 months old, she has almost just come home from a critical time in the hospital when she contracted RSV. A lot of people are getting it now, so please pay attention to it now that Sunny has a cold. She’s very very cute ☺️ Jack too of course 🥰 sorry if my english is not so good, I’m from Sweden 🇸🇪 😅 take care guys!❤

[@corinneaguilar7021]

Elin . Love your name. My cousin in Sweden is named Elin.

[@sunkissed_grl]

@@corinneaguilar7021 your English is perfect! I had a coworker that always apologized like you, and I know she was insecure about it. I’m glad your niece is doing better, I hope she continues to do well 💜

[@ellerichardson1094]

@@sunkissed_grl I was gonna say the same .. your English is very good 😊 I wouldn't have even know English wasn't your first language 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Carole2Kittens]

Same English is fine 🙂👌. I wish I could have mastered the 2nd language I studied as well. I know this little family is so glad you're 💓joining in their life. HAPPY NEW YEAR!

[@CheekieCharlie]

My youngest son had RSV five years ago and it almost killed him, poor boy. It's tough

[@patriciaburton1697]

You are such a good husband and father. What a blessing to your family.

[@marycollins1631]

It's best when there are two parents who work together.

[@youcantfightme8282]

And she’s a good wife and mother. It’s what they’re both supposed to do.

[@natmac8378]

He's doing what he's supposed to do! He got his wife pregnant twice and now is doing what every father SHOULD be doing . Helping with the raising of his children. He's not an astrophysicist . He's a man taking shared responsibility for what he created

[@_kikizaman_]

@@natmac8378 fuck, thank you! People be praising dads for the bare minimum (not saying that Derrick isn’t a wonderful dad, because he is). Moms never get praised because people view it as something “they’re supposed to do”. Which is true, but thats also what the dads supposed to do. Pisses me off.

[@photogurrl12]

“Night night everyone!” God they are so cute!!

[@ToastingMyJam360]

If she doesn't want the binky she doesnt have to have it in my opinion. I had twins 30 years ago and never gave them a binky. They did just fine without it. You two are very loving parents. Love how you help and support each other. You're getting lots of great tips on feeding her and getting her back to sleep.

[@About.tokki1]

First Props to Sarah and Derik ! 👏👏 Sunny is a a bundle of Joy in one human!

[@photogurrl12]

She’s so little… My daughter is almost 12, and I can’t believe how little she once was. You guys are amazing. And kudos to you, Dad- you are killing it!! ❤

[@MandaRenegade]

That dad instinct!! you heard one tiny but loud sound and IMMEDIATELY caught him and quieted him for his sister! Way to go guys, you guys are doing great. I don't think Derik was thinking of the calmness of his daughter when he was begging for one, not realizing that his son would shift LMAO

[@user-wn3kn2mi4v]

Derick and Sarah are the best parents Sunny and Jack dont realize they have the coolest parents ever yet

[@heatherlivingston8815]

Not sure if you are aware of this issue yet but the machine you are using a lot of parents have advised the output does not provide enough formula for the baby. Sunny may sleep longer if you prepare the bottles the old fashioned way. 🤗 I love watching your videos you have a beautiful family.

[@saeid840]

What a blessing it is to have such a beautiful family.

[@jenniferbrake1109]

Anyone else yawn 🥱 when Sarah yawned, I did there so contagious! You guys are rocking it thanks for bringing us along on the journey! 🥰

[@lisaalisa2323]

I just yawned reading your comment 😅

[@Nosillamp]

Omg reading all of this well meaning but intense advice reminds me how much I do NOT miss the newborn stuff. 5 kids all grown and you have to do what works best for you and your family. I breastfed & coslept and didn’t miss any sleep-but I know that’s not feasible for every family. You guys already have Jack, you’re pros. You’ll get into a good routine ❤️

[@Alcoholpad]

Like many others have said. Just wake up and exist 😂 no lights, no external stimulation, kisses, sweet talk it really helps. ❤ I can’t believe how dark her hair is it still cracks me up such a beautiful family

[@amreenaym786]

Sarah’s sister also had dark hair

[@dona62851]

Watching this remembering when my girls were tiny. Both my husband and I worked full time at very high energy jobs. I was a corporate sales executive for computers and he was a computer network manager. Fortunately we had a live in nanny who took over at 7 am so we could go to work and at leastone of us was back home by 7 pm.. You are so lucky to have this flexibility to be able to be with them both at this time. It just flies by. I missed so much with working. BTW, you guys are so easy to be "nice" to. Both you and Sarah have a kindness and generosity of your spirit that fosters calm and optimism in a world filled with chaos and self interest. I started watching your channel years ago just because it was like and island of joy and happiness found in simple things like days at the beach and skateboarding with baby Jack. Thank you for sharing your lives with us all. So happy your little family is doing so well.

[@hannahgant]

How precious your family is. I enjoy watching the love and support you give each other. It is a joy to go along with you and spend a long night. I am retired now but worked for ten years in a neonatal unit where I had 4 growing premies and 12 feedings on my night shift along with many other duties. Your video took me right back remembering those shifts. I absolutely love Sunny’s brown locks. She is so adorable. And Jack is getting interested in so many diverse worldly things. It’s fun to see him expand. I agree with other comments to try to keep the room darkened in the wee hours if possible with lamplight. Thanks for bringing all of us into your lives.

[@jessicawrixon4679]

I just wanted to say, you sound like you havent forgiven yourself for working when you had your kids. You really should. You were able to have a great nanny for them but not just that, you had to work it's a part of life when you have children cause they are expensive little things. Also if you loved your career then you were teaching your children a lesson in not giving up on what you want in life and not compromising on that. That is a great life lesson! I was very lucky in the fact my sons father didnt want me to work after I had my son, more out of control than niceness! But jokes on him i loved every minute. Yes I would love to have a career and now that my son is 12 and getting his own life it would be amazing to be able to have that to fall back on. He still needs me thank god but he likes to tell me that he has a better social life than I do lol. Cheeky monkey. I bet you still have a great relationship with your children even though you worked. You probably made more of holidays and free time because you wanted to squeeze in so much living with them. I just wanted to say you're a great mom and you like most other moms did your best, that's all any single person can do in this life. Sending love

[@WithLoveAshley]

Sarah you’re absolutely amazing in all ways, especially as a mother and wife, and still such a beautiful person inside and out even sleep deprived! Derek you are truly a blessing to your family as well and what lucky kiddos to have y’all as parents! It’s a privilege to be invited along the journey. It goes by in a blink.

[@sanlic2968]

Que familia tan sana y amorosa. Me facina verlos apoyándose como pareja, como padres.

[@connieshutts7074]

This is why they say you need to be young to have children.. Bless you guys!!!❤

[@barbaratipsword5148]

You mentioned how nice your viewers are .... well your nice to each other, the fun & gags & all !! As you grow older together, reminisce as to WHY your together, etc. Keeping that reason alive will get you thru anything life throws at you both. Yes your an adorable couple, but your also an example of kindness & cooperation....that never gets old !!♡♡♡♡♡

[@heidihill2361]

I think Sunny looks like Jack only with dark hair.

[@Allie-oop]

I just love her feathery dark hair & Jacks long blond locks😊 so cute. And I thank you guys for allowing us to watch your beautiful family grow.❤

[@itsjustwaterweight978]

I disagree with the whole don't spoil and extra cuddle rule to get ur baby trained to sleep. U only get this time once in there life. You cuddle them as much as u want and what feels right for the both of you. Each child is so different in there own way. And when they get older u will miss this stage. I never let my baby girl cry herself to sleep.

[@PhantomThiefKageOkami]

My mum is a single mother of 4 kids and if feeding time is hard for two parents then I have no idea how my mum managed us on her own. The best part about joining you on your family journey is that I get to learn more so I can one day care for my own little angels. 🙂 Thank you for sharing your lives even with the struggles. ❤️

[@outsidersongs2682]

I had to do everything with all of mine. The father would say "I don't do babies". I was fine though because my maternal instincts were overwhelming. I didnt like anyone touching my babies. He loved his kids though and absolutely lived for them and providing for them. He's passed on now sadly.

[@planetoftheeps]

@@outsidersongs2682 i also did all feedings (I was nursing) with my 6, BUT his(my hubby) job won't pay for paternity leave so he could only take a few days off and was working 7 days a week. It's harder with (Imho) the first 2 babies but after that I adjusted to little sleep and now I sleep about 5 hours a night because of that lol

[@allisonhunter1063]

@@planetoftheeps I've nannied for Moms like you and while its hard at first, I just act like Mom's shadow. I walk around with her, bounce their pet while she bounces the baby, do household cleaning and grocery shopping so they have alone time. And usually after a few days, I get to hold the baby. I encourage parents to buy ALL the cameras and monitors and when parents tell me they have hidden nannycams I get excited lol I also tell the parents "PLEASE stop by! This is YOUR home and these are YOUR babies, please feel free to drop in on us anytime! If you want to come home for lunch, call me ahead of time and I'll make sure I make extra food!" Nannycams protect the children AND the nanny. Most very protective new Moms open up when they see the love and patience that you have and then once they let you in, soon Mom is back to work full time.

[@MELODYS_MESS]

Sleep deprivation is the worst and no joke, I feel for u guys, I’ve been going through it for almost 2 yrs, some ppl think I’m over reacting, I completely understand what ur going thro(except the 2 kids part) but anyways stay strong u guys❤❤

[@kimtia1091]

Brings back so many memories of my kids ,I have 3 sons and a daughter, my last ,so many nights I felt I couldn't go on ,my husband was a fishermen so I pretty much done it on my own, was hard but I loved every minute, you are such beautiful parents and sonny is just divine, little mate Jack is gorgeous much love from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤ 💙 💖 happy 2023

[@veronicaboyd3696]

You guys are such nice and wholesome people, you renew my faith in the human race. I’m so glad young people like you and Tanner and Lauren, are raising the next generation!!! Sara and Derek, you guys are wonderful parents!!! Fruit doesn’t doesn’t fall far from the trees!

[@KCbostons]

Sunny’s hair is ADORABLE !! She is precious and Jack has grown up so much in the last month. Congratulations again💗!!

[@carolinehannah5188]

DEFINITELY. and wild. ;it is so unique, so much of it., Sunny's signature. It would cool if Sunny's hair stayed dark { being different [especially with all those blonds in her family. being different is cool. Sunny is so cute.

[@samanthaadkins1332]

I raised my children the same. Normal noise, normal light, and cuddling if desired. My son slept through the night at 3 yrs. My daughter at 6 weeks. Y'all do you. Each child is different and they grow up no matter what. What works for others may not work for you.

[@debbiepiatt9119]

When I first saw Sunny after delivery, she looked just like Jack with dark hair. Adorable!!

[@debbiewillman9476]

I think Sunny looks a lot like Jack when he was little like that ❤

[@pbrandonj]

I agree

[@MaddHeather]

I think so to...

[@adriennemarie5076]

I feel the same. Since Sunny was born, I keep saying, "she looks so much like Jack as a lil baby..and even him now, I see their sibling resemblance". Both beautiful children, with amazing parents!!❤️

[@TraumaSurvivorCynthia]

🙈 This video could be used as a public service announcement to pre-teens to prevent teenage pregnancy!! Lol 😂 So cute 🎀 #davesandersstepdaughter

[@moniqes1993]

I'm watching you and I'm learning! I am waitin for my baby boy. He's gonna be here in a few days. I'm 39weeks and 3 days. Wish me luck! :) Greetings from Poland!

[@Ptls68]

Best wishes❤

[@Zoot_of_Anthrax]

Mine are almost grown (19+16) but this makes me realize how lucky i was with both of mine sleeping much longer stints and sleeping 6+ hours at night by 2 weeks old. My ex did NOTHING, not even taking out trash, and never moved a muscle to help with babies… im not sure i could have handled getting up all night with no help. You guys are lucky to have eachother!

[@tiffcat1100]

I’m glad he is your ex!

[@amypalooza6934]

This is the most PERFECT and ACCURATE video of what it's truly like having a newborn! We usually see the cute an adorable videos of daily life, but most families don't show us this side of things, the overnight madness! Sunny is absolutely DARLING! 😍She is the luckiest baby ever, to have such amazing parents such as you guys! You two make beautiful babies.

[@evelynpowell4261]

It feels illegal to be here when it was posted in 19 seconds ago❤

[@wingv313]

You both are doing great. Keeping night feedings calm, semi dark & peaceful will help. We used to call them baby boogie suckers, lol, but use those nasal aspirators to help Sunni breathe easier, and try a room humidifier to loosen up the sinuses. Love that you support each other so well & work together to keep both babies happy & comfy. 🥰 You’re both doing an amazing job -it’s not easy but it will get better as the weeks go by. Congrats again! 💛

[@CindiCares]

I can’t believe how generous you guys are! I have never been a reality watcher. And I am completely absorbed. Your experiences are memories of my own, lessons to be learned, and oh my gosh I wish I knew that when my kids were little. But the most important part is your unconditional love, humor, support, and being so kind. I think you guys need a television show! Just saying❤

[@ischafer8073]

👋 Wow. That video with the newborn schedule sure brought back memories. Since you asked, I've thought Sunny is the spitting image of Jack! Which I guess is why she looks like both of you. Glad Sunny is such a chill little girl. 🥰👍🙏

[@chypearce8457]

"We love dinosaurs" this makes me so excited; I'm expecting a boy in April. You guys have been so informative, thank you!!

[@DanielleC4]

Ahh hearing Jacks dreams was so sweet! He's too cute! Sunny is so beautiful! ❤️ You guys!! Happy New Year!!!

[@TheKatChat47]

Me and my partner want a child free life. The main reason is that we can't take the responsibility just like you guys😇😇 you guys are amazing parents❤️❤️

[@binakopit3153]

“No rest for the weary”has to be the title of this vlog. You two are amazing parents. I adore your videos. ❤

[@chels8384]

Aww jack and sunny are so cutee! How time flies by, it feels like sunny was born yesterday

[@shizzle7642]

Oh my goodness,, this was me almost 34 years ago, hard to believe but this brings back some real memories. My son was very difficult and didn’t sleep thru the night until he was almost 3yrs. Your awesome parents and this stage will pass by in a blink, (I promise) but how much I’d love to be right back there again!

[@juliaelrod2154]

My kids are grown. Watching you guys takes me back. Exhausting but worth it. Some of your most cherished memories will be these days right here.💞 Jack is such a good big brother.

[@marieneu264]

I can’t handle the cuteness! She is just perfect!

[@KaRtHPlAyZ]

Can we PLEASE appreciate how CUTE Jack and SISTAAÀAAAAAAAAAAAA is

[@sunshinejgb]

When Sunny was in her bassinet and you, Sarah, were putting her binky in I couldn't believe how much she looked like Jack! I could see Jack's little face with a shock of dark hair. Both of your children are darling and you guys are great parents. Hang in there and before you know it the 'newborn fog' will be over. 🤗❤️🥰

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[@eviemusemeci5736]

Sunny is a beautiful baby I know how challenging having a newborn is, your both doing well & thank you for posting video's of your family live's no matter what your vlog's are appreciated, is good viewing your parenting journey I Love how natural & easy going both your personalities are, you are mature & good natured people your both good parent's, you can tell you've got alot of Love in your heart's, your doin good Mama & Papa💖💞💗😘💗🌼🌈🌞🌈

[@DPbyDoni]

I think the reason I love to watch you guys is because you are such a nice, sweet couple. I can feel the wholesomeness in how you act, raise your kids and treat each other. Derik is exactly the type of man I wish for my 3 daughters. Sarah is so sweet and gentle, the type of woman I strive to be. You can tell that you put family first, no matter what. Even over your videos, which I understand is important when it is your living. Don't change who you are and keep smiling!

[@jeannerosano789]

You two are such amazing parents!! This world needs more families like yours! ❤️❤️

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[@kimberlylott1459]

Sunny and Jack are so lucky that both parents do everything they can to help each other in raising and feeding. I had three children and unfortunately it was only me up at all hours every feeding etc. it’s a blessing to see how well y’all work together. Much love from Minnesota 💖💖💖

[@mumlee0127]

Bet you were beyond exhausted. That's amazing to think it was like that not too long ago. Thankfully there's a few more dads these days doing their part ❤️

[@kimberlylott1459]

@@mumlee0127 I was but we all survived lol. My 3 are grown up now and my sons will be amazing dads! My daughter has learned from my experience too. She will have a partner who participates in all ways. Happy New Year 🎆

[@blessingsoutlaw]

Gotta love how Sarah got to see Sunny’s first smile! 😃🌞

[@teracoffin6116]

These are the most delicate times for all if you. I think the bonding time in the middle of the night as exhausting as it is, it is rhe best. And although it seems like an eternity. It goes by so quickly. Just look at jack, growing like a weed over night😊

[@paulahansen8667]

May God continue to bless your family.

[@dinaloomis150]

You two are doing great! Im reading all these comments on how wonderful it is that Derek helps with night feedings. My husband did this with our children as well and I think that should be the norm. Go Derek and all dads who are stepping into their role like rockstars!

[@btanirose581]

I can't believe she is already a month old❤️

[@mimimima1035]

Small advice from a doctor you might wanna check her up because she kind of pukes too much when ever she burps a small check up won't hurt

[@daniellebrown2208]

This is sooooo relatable but you guys are killing it! Sunny is so lucky to have you as her parents ☀️

[@letmeexplain1816]

I'm one of 12 children, 6 girls and 6 boys. Life was a complete whirlwind for my parents. I agree with keeping the room dark and refrain from talking to your gorgeous little cherub ❣️✨️I hope Sarah gets some rest. You are a beautiful little family indeed💝