My husband's INTENSE, life-long battle with OCD & ANXIETY

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WE LOVE YOU GUYS! Let us know in the comments any questions/advice for both Derik and I.

[@elizamh5270]

I wish more people talked about the intrusive thoughts of OCD

[@torontofriends8968]

I have known I had OCD since I was 8 because I have some compulsions but I didn’t know about intrusive thoughts until I got diagnosed (finally) this year. I went to the doctor because I was getting snappy at my coworkers, which is not normal for me. I also noticed at the same time that my compulsions got worse and so started to research OCD more and realized I definitely needed to do something about it. So glad I did! I actually felt relieved when I got a diagnosis and started therapy and meds.

[@clairpennels5529]

Me Too

[@HimanshuSingh-oz5nx]

I have that, intrusive thoughts come into my mind from the moment I wake up to the point I go to sleep it doesn't stop no matter how hard I try and the anxiety it gives makes is unbearable.

[@katelynb5985]

@Himanshu Singh keep working through it, it’ll be ok

[@SarahAndDerik]

Me too! Hopefully we see more of it in the future🙏

[@lisa7149]

You’re so brave to talk about this. I have OCD, Anxiety and Depression and without my supportive husband, meds and the right doctors I don’t know where I’d be. Good luck on your journey. God bless both of you.

[@rebeccawalk5174]

Thank you for sharing with us. I always just shut myself down when things scared me. I wanted someone to hold me and tell me that everything was going to be alright, even if He didn't know. My husband ask me what can I do, to make you feel safer. We have been married almost 35 years and he has always been good to me. He hugs me quite often and makes sure I don't need him to say everything is alright. He is 73 and still acts like my hero. God's been good to us.

[@jodywheeler915]

God bless you and your family ❤️ that's amazing you have a supportive husband that makes a huge difference especially with anxiety.

[@shananalexander9789]

Thank you for sharing that. It’s a sweet story and I appreciate hearing that there are still couples that truly love and have respect for each other.

[@livingauthenticallyonmyownterm]

Rebecca, my hubby and I follow in your footsteps. I’m so happy for you that you have such an amazing partner. We’ve been married for 37 years, dated for 2. He’s my hero and my best friend. We hold each other when we’re scared, we giggle a lot, we do nice things for each other, and put each other and ourselves first in life. We’re both very blessed!!!

[@cornishmaid9138]

I strongly suggest that he has Asperger’s.

[@tracyparker550]

So, sorry for what you went thru. Your not along, I have something similar. Mine use to help me, but after 28 year's it started to affect our marriage, and he find someone else. Sad part is I just gave him 2 of the best, special, and blessed kid's after not being able to have children for 17 years. I am so thankful to GOD for my children

[@ginahill3251]

It’s totally understandable why you have over a million followers. You’re both so refreshing in your openness with each other and with us. By allowing us to see how life-changing it’s been for you, you’ve helped others see there’s hope and healing without the stigma. You may have left Honduras early, but I believe you’re fulfilling your mission in other ways 👨‍👩‍👦💕

[@richardstraka153]

Praise the Lord and those who give you the support and understanding you need.

[@karenupton2550]

So many people have OCD and anxiety and it’s great to hear people talking about it so openly and frankly. Thank you guys 😊❤

[@traceykerr572]

Ocd and anxiety are hard as if life. Your vunerability and sharing will help so many. Many suffer in silence And do not get the help

[@tomsicmaria5664]

It was horrible for me & much of our marriage until I gave up trying to 'fix' every little thing for him. It took me moving out for his wake-up call. I chose to not put him always first. For ONCE! I couldn't tolerate the verbal abuse. It had become my nightmare also which was unfair to me & our kids. I truly thank God that we finally made it through. (34 years)

[@tracyparker550]

Thanks for sharing, your not along. Saying prayers for the. MAY GOD BLESS YALL 🙏

[@tracyparker550]

@Tomsic Maria I am so, so sorry for everything. I am the one with it, I take rx's it take the edge off, that is it. Mine stayed with me for about 25 years. I finally had his kids and a couple of years after that he found other people. We had to divorce, I didn't want to. It came down to being scared for my and my kids life so, I left. I pray everything works out for yall. MAY GOD BLESS YALL 🙏

[@ChristinMWilson]

I think this is so good to share how marriage isn’t easy at first for a lot of people. I’m glad you guys have worked through it and chose to stick together even through the hard times 😊

[@deedee55686]

For sure. I’ve been married 25 years now, I definitely can recall especially the first year being rough. It’s still not always easy but there’s less episodes. Picking your battles is definitely good advice.

[@mampiemattina5739]

As a mental health therapist, I appreciate you sharing your experience. So happy you are in a better space. Love your story of healing. Blessings.

[@nancysakmar2092]

Also a mental health therapist in great support of your disclosure and how that sets you free!

[@ZoeF.O]

​@@nancysakmar2092 Excuse me for asking, but I am not from US and English is not my first nor second language, so I don't understand that one specific thing - when you are saying that you are "mental health therapist", what exactly is that means? In my country, that would mean you graduated from medical school (University, 6 years) where you decided to take direction to Psychiatry. So in my country that means you're a Doctor psychiatrist and psychotherapist. Is it the same in America? I apologize for my ignorance, but that's why I ask and that's why I hope to finally understand if there are any differences. Also sorry for my English! Greetings from Amsterdam 🌷

[@nancysakmar2092]

@@ZoeF.O In USA those who go to medical school and specialize become psychiatrists. Their roll is to determine the most effective medication. 95% of time they do not provide therapy. That is done by Mental Heath Therapists that are PHD, Clinical Counselors or Social Workers. Hope that helped.

[@spazmobot]

Everything happens for a reason, and clearly you two finding each other was divine providence. Thanks so much for sharing!!

[@SarahAndDerik]

🙌🙌

[@cjoyellow-bee6362]

I’m bipolar went through many drugs nothing worked and I was in such a dark place that would rather put myself out of my misery . It wasn’t until I changed my lifestyle diet exercise and self care plus I’m on the perfect medication regiment. It took me two years but I’ve been stable for almost 2 years and I finally love myself and I can now enjoy my family. Thanks for sharing. And yes medication isn’t always the best answer.

[@bowfal]

Truly raw, honest and mature. Grateful for your honesty from every perspective. This is a core value that every couple needs to understand. The enduring love and support that you both clearly have for each other, and your family is so amazing. ❤️

[@SarahAndDerik]

Thankyou🥺 Means so much to hear this!

[@LovesChristOnly]

I can not believe this video. A blessing! My son is 12 and we are literally going through this right now. He has always shown symptoms, quirks, but couldnt put our finger on it. Literally everything you described from the light switch, intrusive thoughts fit him to a t. We just got him into therapy. Also, how uou have to put your clothes in a certain place or the car window. My son couldnt get inti the car until he type some “code” on the side of the car. Or if he didnt do s certain thing he thought i may die in a car accident. Its so hard seeing him go through this. It rips my heart out that i cant just fix it. I am going to show him this video i think as an encouragement showing him hes not the only one and the words you say are so encouraging. Ive watched yall for a while but im a first time commenter.

[@elsiedawson81]

Thanks for sharing. I am 76 yo and it has taken almost a life time to get to where you are now. Things are different in 2023 than when my problems started in 1957. For one thing discussing mental health was a no-no. Medicines, doctor's and the public are on the band wagon now and recognizing that mental health is important for healing the whole body and soul. Keep the faith .

[@ZoeF.O]

​@@elsiedawson81 It is so important that all people accept that mental health is the same as physical health, it's just a little different because mental health is not so visible and the patient has to explain for himself how he feels. I hope that the stigma around people's mental health problems will finally disappear completely and that people will pay more attention to this aspect of their general health.

[@8samarthur]

Oh you two! Just when I’m thinking “ how much more can I love these two?”- you come out with this. Thank you for sharing yourselves with us, heart and soul, I truly appreciate your candor and for allowing us to see your process as you progress along your path. So grateful ♥️

[@SarahAndDerik]

Ahhh you're amazing! Thanks so much Samantha❤️

[@joycekellyman7744]

Hang on in there Derek your total breakthrough is coming. Once you started opening up about your life you are on the path to success.Your truth will help so many people.I love your family. KEEP growing and enjoy your blessings.

[@richardstraka153]

Thanks for sharing. There are so many people reading this that you can help. Sending you my best wishes for the future. Please keep reaching out to help others.

[@gigib4076]

Derik you’re such a beautiful soul!! You were brave to share your story and it will help others identify and deal with their mental health concerns! I also appreciate your positive attitude and love that you can see how bright your life is! Keep up the good fight Derik!

[@gratefulgram]

So brave for you to tell such a personal story and try to help maybe someone who’s going through it. You two are amazing! Much love and many blessings

[@Erink-s7n]

This video is so special and so important for people to hear. People think everyone has a perfect life because of what the outside looks like. You two have given others hope. So grateful. ❤️🌈🌺

[@mini-t2348]

It’s so difficult to open up about mental illnesses there is often so much stigma. Thank you for letting us see your journey and give others hope

[@orbitz_outtahere4844]

I am in awe of Derrick being so open honest and raw about his health. I was raised in the 80’s and back then mental health was not a subject people talked about. It was a hush hush situation. I struggled my whole entire life with OCD, Panic and anxiety attacks. I have seen many therapists and have tried many medications. He mentioned a brain camp. Curious as to what they do and where one may be located on the East coast. Having mental health issues is a real thing. I am so happy that it’s no longer a taboo conversation. I am happy you both work together and have come a long way together. Having a partner who supports and understands is huge. When you battle these alone it is scary. Thank you so much for sharing this. I now hope I can find some help for myself. I am horrible at communication, which effects my relationship daily. Now knowing I am not alone brightens my day. Thank you once again.

[@mandyvance7691]

I have severe anxiety, depression,OCD & ptsd. I think for me it’s just hard to talk about or say I have this. I’m so proud of you for telling your story & so Thankful you met Sarah. Y’all are a beautiful couple & Jack is absolutely adorable. My husband is also my rock. We’ve been married for 27 years. I know I wouldn’t be writing this if it wasn’t for him. We met & became inseparable in Jr.High. Enough about me. I enjoy y’all’s videos & I’ll pray for y’all. Much love

[@Indy__isnt_it]

I hear you, and even through a forum where you are unknown, it's not something people want to actually read, talk and FEEL about, they don't know how to process the hellish nightmare you speak of, if they cannot listen, dear Lord, they will NEVER understand or relate, even if they say they do. When someone relates to your conversation, you damn well know, you feel it, it's not an uncomfortable feeling. Where there is NO concern, you will feel the resistance, too.

[@SarahAndDerik]

❤️❤️❤️

[@justkeepswimming8335]

Same except that my partner refuses to acknowledge that these are actually issues not some bizarre creation of mine.

[@mandyvance7691]

@@justkeepswimming8335 I’m so sorry to hear that. Having support makes it easier. Maybe a councilor, sister, friend, parents. Take your partner along. Give him/her the info needed to educate themselves . I pray you get support. I understand it can be a lot for a partner but it’s also a lot for the one trying to live life with the debilitating mental health issues. It’s even harder feeling alone. I’m so grateful that mental health has been brought to light but there is so much more ppl can learn about it. The stigma it’s had over our lifetime has completely shut down the way ppl see it. I certainly hope & continue to educate & help all that I can. It’s definitely has made me see so many things differently & I believe in a positive way.

[@CherylBerryl]

Hi, Mandy. Plz see my comments to Derrick, as it may hold some options for you to consider, that could really help the issues you're facing. God bless you, dear one. 🙏🙌🤲💞

[@nunyabidness6045]

Ugh SSRI's have always made my anxiety WORSE, so you're lucky that it's working out well for you. My shrink is wanting to put me on one though, says the ones I have tried (zoloft, Prozac, Lexapro) are different and more stimulating and that I need something like Paxil or some others he named off, that are more like a suppressant. He tells me it will help my klonopin work better, but I'm hesitant to try bc of past experiences and side effects. The klonopin helped in the beginning and most days I'm fine, but I think whenever I reach a certain hormone level throughout the month, that it kicks my anxiety into overdrive and for like a week or a little over a week, I'll be anxious as crap for no reason at all. I also don't like talking about it. Just hearing you talk about it and now me typing about myself, it gives me a knot in my stomach, which is where my anxiety always starts. Sooo yeah, I'm gonna go roll around on the floor for a little while now. Lol

[@carolbeckman7680]

I have "social anxiety/depression" and have been on Paxil now for 20 years (I'm 67 now). I started at 10 mg and eventually went to 20mg. It works great for me. The only side effect that I have is bad nightmares (where I wake up soaking wet). It's not all the time and I have no problems falling back to sleep. God bless you Nunya and I hope you find what works best for you.

[@liseklerekoper2441]

Thank you for sharing & your willingness to be so vulnerable. I am a longtime licensed psychotherapist & addictions counselor & have had many clients over the years w/ OCD & anxiety, or one or the other. The meds that have helped & been targeted the most for OCD is Paxil (SSRI) vs most of the other SSRIs out there as there is something slightly different about Paxil that tends to address the OCD symptoms more effectively. While benzodiazepines like Klonopin can be extremely helpful, primarily due to their almost immediate relief when taken, they are supposed to be used only on a short term basis for more acute episodes/symptoms vs as a more maintenance medication taken on a daily basis over time. Benzodiazepines don’t really address the root of the disorders/problem as they’re more like a Band-Aid, immediately controlling a symptom, but doing little over the long term & needing to continue being reapplied, so to say. They can also become highly addictive taken over time, which can create so many problems for the patient & even make the anxiety ultimately worse because of so many issues w/ the drug. The body also develops a physical tolerance, even without the addictive piece, if taken on a regular basis longer than 2-4 weeks & depending on a client’s biological & genetic makeup. It will happen to anyone on this medication over time. Meds in the category of benzodiazepines are basically alcohol in pill form & work thru pretty much the same pathways in the brain and hit the same receptor sites. That’s a big reason why it it’s effects come on quickly & why it’s effects are temporary. Physical dependence & addiction are not the same thing though they can & do often occur together in people who develop a substance use disorder taking this med or others over time. Physical dependence is based on biology & genetics & is physical. It will occur w/ certain substances such as alcohol, benzodiazepines, & opiates especially, though there are others that could fall into this category & create a variable intensity of symptoms, if abruptly stopped at any point. I obviously don’t know you or any of your story, & I’m not trying to imply that you’re addicted to Klonopin or trying to direct your care since I don’t even know you. I’m just trying to provide info generally as I think it’s important to be as educated as possible on options to manage symptoms of various disorders so patients can make informed choices. Addiction, on the other hand, is the obsession & the compulsion to keep taking the med even with increasing consequences that start to affect a person‘s life & usually involve increasingly higher dosages to get the desired effect, & are increasingly taken not exactly as prescribed. There’s more to that, but the most important thing to remember is addiction is the mental process, so someone taking these meds is not automatically going to get addicted, but they will get dependent regardless over tme & there are many reasons why some people become addicted & others don’t, but it does have very high abuse potential like opiates & are not supposed to be prescribed on a long-term maintenance schedule. Hopefully, your physician or nurse practitioner has told you all about the pros & cons of benzodiazepines, but if not, that would be a big red flag & I would ask some questions because if you abruptly stop a benzo & you’ve been on it fairly regularly, your body will go through some degree of the withdrawal I mentioned above, & there are various symptoms associated w/ that as well as varying intensities depending on the individual. They can end up w/ sharply increasing anxiety during that withdrawal or detox period. Most prescribers will taper a patient off benzodiazepines if they’ve been on them for a while, & doing that can manage some of the withdrawal symptoms so they’re not as miserable. It can be incredibly unpleasant, & jack up the anxiety when it’s happening, & the physical withdrawal is quite prolonged w/ benzos, w/ tapers usually spread out over 2 months on the average, depending on many factors. I wish you all the best moving forward & hope that you also choose to connect w/ a therapist who can help w/ how to manage these disorders on a day-to-day basis as meds are not the whole answer. There are a number of non-medication coping tools that can be excellent adjuncts to meds & increase their effectiveness. Combining them w/ tools learned in therapy can make a major difference, like mindfulness, breathing exercises, & more. I think medications are extremely important in my field & I’m so grateful that resource is available, but it’s not the only way to go as we’re wired in this society to look for more quick fixes, even if they don’t produce as effective of results over time, imo, but the research also shows that when therapy is combined with meds, when appropriate, the treatment success rates are much higher than just meds alone. Meds can & do help tremendously for countless patients, but the addition of therapy definitely increases treatment success. Sorry for such a very long comment, but for obvious reasons, this is an area I feel passionately about & when I see certain things, I can’t not speak up as I care deeply about others, even those I don’t know. I

[@bumblebee8158]

@@liseklerekoper2441 Do you have any expierence w/ magnesium deficiency & supplements for anxiety?

[@PeaceIsYeshua]

@Nunya, have you been to a naturopath? My naturopath helps people with supplements that don’t have the side effects. ❤ Magnesium, fish oil, Vitamin D3… all are sooo important. Some others to consider… GABA, 5-HTP, St. John’s Wort. There are so many.

[@nancyayotte2297]

@@carolbeckman7680 hi I take a medicine for nightmares. It's called prosozin . Works great for me. Also I really liked paxil but my eyes were so dry I couldn't stop blinking! Lol good luck to you night sweats and nightmares are the worst!!

[@ICantDecideOnAName447]

You husband is strong! Sending love and hugs from Scotland! Also jack is the cutest little munchkin!!

[@turaieszter]

I just saw your funny and wholesome tiktoks and this is my very first video... And two things came to my mind: 1. I'm so proud and I have so much respect for you, Derik. 2. Sarah is one of the strongest women on this planet and this is the person who I aspire to be. Thank you for talking about your marriage as well, that's really helpful God bless you! 💓❤️

[@lauriepierce4068]

My son fell 30 feet rock climbing at age 18. He too is a miracle. He broke his back and has 7 fused vertebrae with rods and screws. His occupation? A rock climber/ route setter. So thankful for miracles❤️

[@lilyw9324]

❤

[@henrikiversen8850]

Life goes On ❤

[@tracyessary5210]

U are truly a miracle don't ever forget that Derrick and Sarah is ur blessing;!

[@kittrickhayden9053]

I have always struggled with anxiety and go to therapy on a regular basis. Talk to someone, anyone. It’s okay to not be okay. ❤️

[@jennifergannuscio6086]

Prozac saved me years ago! Long story but it was at the time when there was so much bad press on it. I got off it twice and just went back to panic! I have been on it for years and it works! Whatever works for you my friend!!! People need to know that the brain is an organ just like kidneys etc and if something is wrong and a medication can fix it then you take it! Love to all of you!!! ❤️

[@Sweetjunglequeen]

Power to ya! ❣️

[@peg7997]

As a mom of 4, my heart breaks for you and all the suffering you went through. It’s a blessing you met Sarah and thank you for bringing out in the open. You may be saving someone’s life. God Bless you. I’ll be praying for you. ✝️🙏📿

[@candyfigueroa100]

I really hope that he gets better praying for the whole family God bless y'all always

[@sillybar512]

It’s absolutely beautiful that your talking about it. I also wanted to note: Sarah, for being there for him! Good on you! It’s hard no two ways about it. But both of you are willing to talk communicate and learn and that’s the way to do it! Good for you both! And yes if more people had the support they needed maybe we could all share with others what we go through, why not help out people! Thank you B fam!

[@loridwyer6896]

I'm so thankful that you shared your story. I have bad mental health issues, and it feels like there's still such a stigma about talking about it. Especially about men, it's so important to get them talking!! So, thank you!! 💛you 3.. amazing family!!

[@bethsloan1502]

Hey BFF, just wanted to tell you I have suffered a long time as well. Since I was 10 and I just turned 59 and Finally just started Therapy last week! I have no family or friends and isolated myself as that's my comfort zone. I hope and pray therapy will help us!

[@Blue8Angel6]

I hope you're doing well Beth🥰

[@romeox2928]

You got this Beth! Good luck ❤️

[@denisescruggs2157]

I too have done that and now at 70 years old find myself so lonely! But I just always isolated and do not know anyone.

[@heidimattson6775]

You will see a hugh difference in the months to come. Good luck

[@theriddlerUSA]

Beth I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Therapy really does help and sometimes medicine is necessary. Don't be ashamed to take it if you need it. I suffer from the same thing. Hope you start feeling better soon. God bless you.

[@paula-jean6495]

This is such a genuine video! Your message shows that mental health issues should be addressed and people don't need to feel embarrassed or ashamed. You also brought awareness to the fact that sometimes practitioners and patients don't work together as well as others and changes need to be made. Very sweet to acknowledge the support you receive from Sarah. God bless you both! PJ.

[@Miapetdragon69]

As a member myself of the latter-day saints I am very glad that you're speaking about this because when my children were growing up we lost a lot of well they lost a lot of friends to suicide because it just wasn't something spoken about, and you being a young latter Day Saint and talking about this gives other young people like yourself someone to look up to so I really appreciate what you are doing Derek it helps more than what you think.

[@crystalerdmann2517]

Sorry for your familys losses. Wish people could be more open with their own feelings without so much judgment from others. Too many lives are affected because mental issues are not addressed as much as physical issues. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@CherylBerryl]

@@crystalerdmann2517 It would help if instead of it being categorized as "mental health issues", it was changed to "brain health issues". And honestly, that's really what it really is anyway.

[@crystalerdmann2517]

@@CherylBerryl sorry if I offended you with the word "issues". I meant no disrespect, just gets categorized that way so often. You are so right, it all relates to how our brain works. Would love to know more about the "Brain Camp" as it could probably be good for many people. Emotional feelings can get even the best of us into a personal whirlwind with ourselves. I think sometimes that I'm never going to get my life right. I have to remind myself often that "My Right" is totally different than "Another Person's Right". GOD BLESS YOU. 💓🙏💓🙏

[@SarahAndDerik]

Thanks so much! Super grateful that I was able to help even a little!

[@CherylBerryl]

@@crystalerdmann2517 Hey, Crystal. I didn't take any offense, dear one. I was only bringing to light how society in general needs to change the verbage in regards to mental health. It's not cheap by Any means, but if you can find a way to swing it, consider contacting Dr. AMEN. His state of the art professional brain diagnostic services are #1 in the country, & has helped so many find balanced brain health. Also research about the Vagus Nerve it has all to do w/ proper gut/brain health, as they're both intrinsically interconnected. Also look into the Fisher Wallace device. It helps with depression, anxiety, PTSD, CPTSD, sleep issues, & pain. Be well, & God bless you! 🙏🙌🤲💞

[@lucykemp7117]

Thank you for sharing this! A family member is suffering with something very similar so its really helpful to hear your story xx

[@SarahAndDerik]

🙏❤️

[@claireanderson9155]

This was so wonderful to hear, anxiety is a beast; I know from personal experience, and finding the right medication is so hard but like some illnesses medication is a necessity.

[@joanmorgenroth5041]

You don’t know how many people you may have helped by telling your story. Thank you for sharing.

[@MrsBilla-nu8qb]

I admire the fact that you opened up about something so personal. The two of you are perfect for each other. I’m so glad you’ve found a medication that works. I wish you and your entire family all the best.

[@Emily-bn7hk]

I’m glad you guys spoke about this! It is so rare that people who suffer from OCD talk about it due to all the shame and guilt that come along with it. The mind can be such a dangerous place. It’s hard to identify the thoughts aren’t yours at first , because so many of us are not comfortable talking about our intrusive thoughts. So thank you for bringing more awareness! I hope this helps someone .

[@TraumaSurvivorCynthia]

🤗 Taking care of your mental health is just as important as physical health.✌️Your family is very beautiful inside and out.💙 #ptsdsurvivor #davesandersstepdaughter

[@magalicanals5318]

Derik, THANK YOU for being so honest about your journey with anxiety disease and OCD. It's so hard when you have these negative and intrusive thoughts in your mind and don't know how to deal with that. They make you suffer and feel sad, I literally felt that I was going crazy and I panicked multiple times. Thank God there are good professionals out there who can understand you and give you an effective solution, wheter it's therapy or pharmacs. I'm so glad you are feeling so much better and I wish to you all the happiest moments ever! Blessings to you and your family. Greetings from Barcelona!:)

[@CherylBerryl]

Thank you Derick for opening up about your struggles. I think it's super important for people who are struggling w/ certain issues that they have someone that they can relate to, that they know that they can work through whatever their personnel struggles are. Often people think that "social media personalities" lives are this perfect utopia, & that there is "something wrong" w/ them if their lives aren't as "perfect" as what they see portrayed by influencers. And I agree that Most people would benefit from some form of therapy. As humans, we are ALL imperfect, we ALL have struggles, and we ALL have challenges to overcome in life. A belief in a "power greater then ourselves", (whom I choose to call God) is one great source of strength, as well as prayer & meditation. I'm so glad that your last therapist was holistically minded & got you off of all of those heavily sedating drugs, because they really do have Bad side effects & also become Very Addicting, & the longer you're on them, almost impossible to get off of. I'm not sure if you know any information about the gut/brain connection, and how the Vagus Nerve affects brain health, or lack thereof. Allopathic medicine is only starting to understand it's great importance. You might want to consider contacting Dr. Amen who is THE Authority on the brain, & how it's imbalances affects one's life. He doesn't treat people in a "cookie cutter" fashion, it's totally an individual experience. I would also suggest you look into possibly doing some body work clearing healing. Our body somatizes ALL of our traumas, physical, emotional & spiritual; you experienced all of those when you had your life threatening, life altering accident falling off the cliff. There is a type on non-invasive body/mind/soul therapy called Bio-field tuning. It was developed by it's founder & pioneer Eileen Mc Kusick. She has a YT channel, & here is her website for for more information for you to research. www.biofieldtuning.com I really think her theraputic tuning the Bio-field could help you release the trapped trauma in your mind/body/soul that you've experienced. God bless you, Sarah & Jack, and All of your family. I can truly Feel that you're All very good hearted & kind people, & I enjoy your families channel, & Tanner & Lo's. 🙏💞

[@elizabetheddy1073]

Derek you would never know that you have struggled with this much anxiety and OCD! I have never thought anything of you besides being such an incredible husband and father to Jack!👨‍👩‍👦❤️ I’m sorry you’ve had to go through all this, but I think most of us do, in someway or another! I appreciate you bearing your soul with all of us! I think this video will help so many people, including myself! I too have struggled with really bad anxiety, depression and was recently diagnosed with bipolar?! When they said bipolar I thought they meant I was crazy! But they said there’s all different levels of bipolar, and being diagnosed with it doesn’t mean you’re crazy. They put me on a medication called Vrylar (?) and it is helped a lot! I do have anxiety medication, and I also have medication for ADD! None of this makes me sleepy, it just helps me feel more leveled out or more even. I hope as time goes by this will get better for you and Sarah! I absolutely love three of you! I’m a 56-year-old mom (I could probably be your mother with my age! Lol) So trust me when I say that I think you are such an amazing young man, father, husband, brother, Brother-in-law, son and friend! Don’t ever forget that! Keep being yourself, you have such an amazing heart! Liz-Massachusetts😊💗👍🏼👨🏼‍🦱🧒🏼👱🏻‍♀️👩🏼‍❤️‍👨🏼👨‍👩‍👦💪🏼🏃🏼‍♂️🌊🏋️🏄🏼‍♂️🛫

[@tiffanyt7121]

I LOVE that you’re talking about this! I think more people have similar stories and struggles ✨

[@merlehilbun2389]

Thus was so special. Thank you for sharing. My son is 50 and has suffered with anxiety for ever. Even to the point of not being able to work. He is on disability witch is very hard to take as he has been a successful person in his career. He is getting better but as you said it comes and goes. Take your time and enjoy your life and Sara and Jack. Don't feel rushed into another baby. Jack is just a baby himself. And you will see unfortunately anxiety is passed on and Jack will feel some of this too. Love you guys you both are so sweet and beautiful. He is too.

[@dodog.8524]

I feel with you guys. I'm suffering from OCD and anxiety since I was a little girl. It's Jesus who is helping me through the day and my husband his present for me. I can't even imagine how great it must be to have such a wonderful wife supporting you. Thanks for sharing. This made me realize that I'm not alone or crazy. God bless you.

[@kaylaak5425]

Me and my boyfriend are going through this rn I “saved” him from a traumatic experience and he recently got diagnosed with ocd and anxiety and I feel what Sarah was saying about the medicine… that’s kinda how I feel right now but it’s also hard bc what’s best for him might not be what’s best for me it’s just very difficult to manage right now but it makes me so happy to know that him and I can get through this as well. Thank you SO much for this video and being so open and honest.

[@CherylBerryl]

Hi, please read my comments that I wrote to Derick w/ some important healing information that could possibly help your boyfriend & yourself. Take care.

[@kaylaak5425]

Thank you SO MUCH

[@lilyw9324]

💗💗

[@d.j.641]

❤️

[@SarahAndDerik]

You are amazing. So happy to know you guys are working through it. Just trust in time that it will get better❤️

[@PennyParkerTV]

You aren’t alone!!! So many people are struggling with OCD along with you. I have a lot of it in my family and it in turn became a part of my life too. Intrusive thoughts are and have been a huge part of my life but being 32 now I have learned to accept that these thoughts will come and go and they don’t actually have any meaning. ♥️ so glad your beautiful wife came into your life and that you are both walking through this life together ♥️all the best to you both!! Thank you so much for sharing.

[@SarahAndDerik]

I love this, and you are so right! thank you🙏

[@aliciasherbert3378]

Perfectly said 🙏

[@MiguelErica]

My husband suffers from severe anxiety, depression and suicidal ideation. He has tried so many different medications as well and is on prozac now. I am really glad you found a medication that really helps you. I understand how hard it is to find the right one. As a wife who's married to someone with mental health struggles it's nice to know that I am not alone (and I struggle with my own anxiety and OCD). Thanks for talking about this.

[@donnalenox7313]

I am in the same situation as you. It's not fun.

[@jtx2002]

Hello. Have him engage in constant conversation with THE LORD. That’s how I overcame my battles. JESUS is the answer. HE will divert his attention so that the problems are not fed into.

[@SarahAndDerik]

Thanks so much for sharing this🙏 It can get so freaking hard at times, but patience/love will always make things better :)

[@sanaibn8409]

Please don't have children. It is highly heritable and the kids will suffer.

[@gemmachurch701]

@@sanaibn8409 too late!

[@MirnaEJiron]

Oh Sweetie, I’m a Pastor’s daughter and I’m glad you got therapy and that you met Sarah. Sometimes that just what we need. 😊🙏🏼 God blessed you both.

[@Queen-lh3gg]

I have really bad mental health as well I haven’t had it as long is you but I know how it feels! Sending prayers your way!❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@melissasneed10]

I wish Sarah was my best friend or someone exactly like her. I have extreme anxiety and Depression. Sarah helps motivate Derek. I need that in my life

[@harmonarmon]

I know this sounds odd, but I prayed to God at a point in my life when the depression was very dangerous and I could physically feel it be lifted off me. Other times, prayers worked.

[@jodywheeler915]

@@harmonarmon that's not odd. God bless you. Prayers definitely work. We're blessed to have our Lord and savior Jesus Christ 💗🙏

[@delynnkipping5998]

Jesus is my motivation. Lost everyone in my family, except my kids which are grown and no longer live here. After my husband and my father died I dug in deep into God's Word, and He has shown me that He is ALL I truly need!

[@hfortenberry]

Melissa, I have practically cured my panic and anxiety and have not had an attack in over 2 years now. Please read my comment above where I gave 6 things that worked for me. I wish you well. You can heal.

[@annabambus6572]

@@hfortenberry I can't find your comment with the 6 things you did that have taken away your anxiety for 2 years now.

[@victoriaboixhomar558]

i’ve suffered anxiety for some months, but i’m getting better now, even though thanks for sharing your experience because it’s so inspiring and i feel it’s the kind of thing people need to know while are going through smth similar. People crave for someone with the same experience and to know they are better. Remind that we are always here for you and you’re amazing!❤️

[@sky02148]

Derek this is your mission, not being able to finish back when you was 18 was God's plan, what you're doing now in this video is what you are supposed to be doing, thanks for sharing and as always stay safe, and God bless love ya Nancy

[@clarelean3501]

You're a good person Derik, humble, intelligent and kind. Your wife is pretty cool too :) Thanks for sharing your experiences

[@SarahAndDerik]

❤️🙏

[@judithmitchell4667]

Derik - This video is such a service to so many. That was so kind of you to open up and share your story. Good for you to keep trying different Dr.s and treatments to find out what works for you. Also, it helps to know that your health needs can change over time. You two are such a lovely couple and such a blessing. Have a lovely evening. Blessings - Judith 🎵🎭

[@gigil8528]

It’s so crazy how everyone is different. Because in the past 4 years i have taken Prozac and zoloft but Prozac didn’t help me with my OCD but it helped with my anxiety and then eventually I went to Zoloft and that helped with both. Now I’m doing great so it’s crazy to see how everyone’s journey is different but you can be experiencing the same things. That’s why you need to do what’s best for you because what other people are doing might not always work for yourself. as a teenager who’s experiencing this currently it was helpful to watch this video because I can see how there is a light at the end of the tunnel and fortunately i have already started to see progress in my life. Thank you for sharing your experience I love you guys.

[@ekaterinasavenkova1718]

There is a light👍, great post btw

[@anatino]

Thank you!

[@SarahAndDerik]

Makes me so happy to hear this! You totally got this 👊 ❤️

[@brittanytapply375]

Wow. You are so incredibly brave for coming on here and sharing your story with us. I’m so happy for you, and so glad things have turned around for you. And what an amazing wife you have. You two are such positive role models to your generation . I can’t even imagine how much this video has helped so many people. Thank you for your honesty and courage. Sending your family lots of prayers and love from Colorado!

[@lunamaharuni]

My daughter has existential OCD, intrusive thoughts, anxiety and panic attacks. She's in a few different meds, but what has really helped her is inositol powder 7 to 9 grams twice a day. If she goes without it for a few days there is a marked difference in her ocd and anxiety.

[@Pisceanratsun]

I have pure form OCD, intrusive thoughts and paralyzing worries about things that might happen, the anxiety becomes debilitating. Meds definitely help but working with a Psycologist is the most important part for me. Big hugs 🫂

[@birdbird1]

You should see if she will watch 'The Anxiety Guy' here on KZbin. He has saved my life and that's no exaggeration x

[@juliadigangi5338]

I'm a neuropsychologist who treats OCD. This is mental health awareness month and I wanted to share, in cased people don't know, that we actually have incredibly powerful treatments for OCD. The gold standard, most evidence-based treatment for OCD is something called Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP). There is a lot of hope out there. The International OCD Foundation is a great resource.

[@shelbytreadway587]

I'm a Baptist, but my boss and her family are all LDS (they are like my second family). And literally everyone I am drawn to in life (online, brands, in real life) happens to be LDS! How funny you both are too! It really seems like a huuuge portion of LDS men and women are just so sweet, genuine, and spirited people.

[@davidcopperfield-notthemag397]

OCD when it is in your thoughts vs actions is called PURE OCD. It is hell. I have it. I do 5 things in my mind over and over again without stopping, AT THE SAME TIME 24x7. Counting things, outlining things, etc. It is easy to feel crazy. It is very exhausting. I get OCD Derik. I am sorry you have it.

[@amymtinkstaudacher-nagypau3430]

It's really good to know, people understand how bad anxiety can be. I have it pretty bad, along with epilepsy and brain cancer, I have medicine to control my epilepsy and I am on chemotherapy pills, and I also take Buspirone for my anxiety. The best thing in my life is my siezure alert/ service dog, Chico. He knows when I'm having an off day. And because my focus is more on taking care of him.... My anxiety has dropped dramatically. Maybe you should get a pet, it may help you also. And I'm sure Jack would love a pet lizard.

[@chewbacca8877]

I will pray for you my friend thank you for sharing

[@SarahAndDerik]

So cool to hear how much that's helped you! Might just have to :)

[@chewbacca8877]

Derik talked about counselling too and it does help. Talking out your stuff with professionals so beneficial.

[@ministerfelichafisher3328]

So very proud of you Guys! All glory to God in the Highest-for HE has done GREAT & MARVELOUS things!!!☝🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽 Looking forward to your AWESOME & AMAZING future in the Lord!!!😇 #GodGotYouIHaveNoDoubt✝️💒

[@thesassylady2320]

Being a preachers daughter, I believe expectations of the religious community can help create anxiety, guilt, depression, OCD (Wanting everything to be just so perfect). I'm a lot older than either of you but fears expounded, would Christ love me if this happened, would I go to heaven or what about hell? I felt a need to accept Christ over and over because my sins were so many. Anxiety/OCD of not really knowing where heaven was or what it would be like...all too much. I had to control everything until...one day the Holy Spirit became my comforter. We all could write a book, I'm sure. Long story short...we all are imperfect, we all make mistakes but God's love for us is unfailing and is forgiving and loving. We have to live minute by minute day by day as we never know when our last breath will be. Never be afraid to tell someone you love them even if it's hard for them to receive love. Love them anyway. Love you guys. You will ascend more and more in this lifetime. Just don't rush it. Enjoy it and each other. Little things are not worth getting bent out of shape. Laughing is soo much more fun. JLY

[@SarahAndDerik]

This is amazing. Seriously so true! Thanks so much for sharing! 🙌

[@kibblesmcknob617]

I love your honesty and your story. I just know from my own experience with these types of things that most medications work for a while, then they start to be ineffective. That’s normal because we build up tolerance pretty quickly in the human body. Medications often have to be readjusted as time goes by, so don’t freak if one day you feel like you’re going backwards. That’s normal too.

[@tracyparker550]

Thanks for sharing, your not along. Saying prayers for the. MAY GOD BLESS YALL 🙏

[@cookie5335]

Good point

[@1961-v9k]

My 27 year old daughter was diagnosed with Pure O OCD when she was 17. I recognised something peculiar in her just before the age of two. We’re in the UK, and although we have the National Health Service here in England I can tell you it is DIRE. We had to pay privately before we got a diagnosis and it was the best thing we ever did for her. Pure O is the worst OCD you can imagine. The bad thoughts are horrendous, and I know exactly how the thoughts can affect you. She she now is able to process her thoughts through the private therapy we got her. I feel so bad for people who are unable to pay for it.

[@torontofriends8968]

Therapy here in Canada is $200 generally. It’s not covered by our health care and we have one of the best health care systems. I can only do therapy 3 times a year with my work coverage and I have OCD. It needs to change.

[@1961-v9k]

@@torontofriends8968 I have good friends in Canada and have visited there before and by what they tell me it sound like your health system is very good, but still not good enough like here in the UK. NHS die hards rave about our health service but these are people who have never had to use it consistently. Even though we pay through our National insurance contributions more and more people here in the UK who can afford to are getting their own private medical insurance because the NHS is so bad. If you have a long term problem but non life threatening condition you’re basically -Kd. I have been through it and ended up having to go to a private clinic in London to get me cured after losing 7 years of my life. Our daughter had another breakdown during the height of the lockdown through working from home. We were desperate but the NHS refused to see her (phone appointments only) Her dad paid for her to have private sessions with a Pure O specialist face to face, which helped enormously (it certainly is strange how Covid can’t get you if you cough up the money). Honestly all of our GPS and specialists have and still are hiding in their offices only seeing urgent cases. It was bad enough anyway now it is beyond belief. We know her OCD will never go away, but she does manage it quite well with Paroxetine and the odd CBT session, which we still pay for because the NHS is still in full on pandemic mode. You’re right, it does need to change. I wish you well 👍🏻

[@jellenfranklin9966]

God bless you for getting her help.

[@pacificbug]

I'm on Zoloft for my depression. I also take other meds for other health diagnoses. My dad was exposed to Agent Orange in the Vietnam War. I'm his oldest and the sickest sibling. It gets overwhelming sometimes. Lots of doctor's appointments, scans, surgeries, procedures. Sometimes I just want to quit all my meds and going to doctor's appointments and just see what happens. Live the life I want. I'm thankful for my friends and family who support me. ❤️

[@zaynabbakes5369]

Aw I get soo happy when u guys upload luv yall 💓 💗

[@sharonkaywhitson]

God knew and brought her into your life. My husband struggled so much with the same things. He would even color coordinate our closets. He was called home November 22 2020, after 25 yrs of marriage. I miss & love him so much but just wanted to say it was a struggle through our marriage too. He was my brothers BF and we met at age of 12. Crazy because we literally knew each another most of our lives. Struggles & trials will come but by putting God first he will lead y'all's way through the dark times. I am so HAPPY for y'all and thanks for sharing personal information because so many times people feel alone in their walk as you did. We're here to build up one another and I'd never would've known because y'all's family always looks perfect. It's special and God can use you to help others dealing with the same thing. God Bless from Sharon in Tennessee

[@katie78514]

Thank you for sharing. Mental health is such a big deal that is often overlooked. I'm sure it took a lot of courage to share this. God bless you!

[@janetmchenry3571]

Thank you for the share. My husband (ex husband but in my heart he will always be my husband. I've never remarried after almost 23 yrs.) He got a total organic brain injury. His life was turned up side down. He was gassed with hydrogen peroxide gas. So I get where you both are coming from. Much love to you for sharing your life like that.

[@amymtinkstaudacher-nagypau3430]

Also when my anxiety gets out of control, I find something to focus on like a painting or a tree, the ocean in your case..... And I tell myself... Through him all things are possible, you got this, believe in yourself and things will change.

[@caitlins1065]

That’s great advice!

[@crystalerdmann2517]

Sometimes I do try and focus on something else. I get out a book or listen to music to help calm myself but making myself stop crying long enough to focus on those is where I have the most problem.

[@cynthiakerns3419]

@@crystalerdmann2517 I hear you Crystal. Don't give up. There is hope for all of us, no matter what we struggle with.And God sees your tears. And they are each precious to Him

[@nicolerenee9311]

This was such an inspirational video. I appreciate you sharing this story. It's extremely difficult to accept anyone into your life after experiencing trauma. You may realize that it could be beneficial for you, but also worry that you may not be good enough & don't want to bring someone else down. It's a challenging struggle to overcome.

[@lauriemichalewicz4621]

I’m so glad that you have found a way to help yourself out. This is something so many deal with and never discuss. Thank you for sharing!

[@SevenMntns]

Genesis 2:18 - "And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him." The word translated as help meet actually means "to save".

[@Riofriosful]

I followed you guys because you're the cutest couple and the cutest family! I never expected it, but I'm so happy that you shared your experience with OCD with us. I struggled with undiagnosed OCD until I was 26 and it was hell. It was terrifying not to know what was happening to me. OCD can latch onto any kind of thought, not just washing hands and checking stoves, and it never occurred to me that my relationship with my thoughts and fears were a psychological disorder until more than a decade suffering from it. I talk about my experience pretty openly because I don't want other people to have to spend years suffering when there is help out there, especially medication, ERP, and ACT. When you talked about feeling like you should be solid when you were struggling that really hit home. It was very painful for me to admit that I needed psychological help. It felt like admitting I was broken. Well, maybe I am a little bit, but at least I've got a few patches and splints in the right places so I can walk, run, and thrive. Here's to a fulfilling life with OCD!

[@gracenote1837]

Thank you so much for sharing about this. The fear and shame connected to the disease can prevent one from seeking help. It helps to see that one is not alone in this. And, by the way, Prozac saved my life from a severe, life ending depression.

[@moonshine4049]

I am so glad you are sharing this. KZbinrs always look and show only the perfect life and it makes those watching feel so much worse when they are struggling. So this is awesome!!! Keep at it!!

[@sweetvictory3100]

Relationship with jesus...thats whats missing. For me too. Im in the midst of a major mental battle and battle for my life, literally. I need jesus. Ive lost everything the world could offer, i believed in jesus but didnt know him, i didnt try to seek him til after i got sick, its hard to have a relationship with someone when youre suffering so much, sick alone scared. Think if you lost it all, would that pill be enough? No. Jesus has to be incorporated, jesus isnt religion, hes a relationship, im struggling with my faith, so much trauma ptsd abuse ocd as well and panic, severe intrusive thoughts but mine r more real from the trauma of daily life, i was on both meds u mentioned when i was a teen, i wish i was treated more holistically and had therapy instead, limbic system impairment can do a lot of funny things to a person, dnrs is a brain rewiring program people are into, your injuries could cause some of your stuff, i know a dr injury messed me up to this day, cant function anymore, the bible talks a lot about anxiety and mental stuff, i believe jesus can cure anything and the holy spirit, your ocd and anxiety has a root, there is something called religious ocd, maybe look that up, we also have an enemy and his minions will stop at nothing to destroy us, if sarah is what took u out of this temporarily becuz u said it came back, i would really start praying and digging deep, my personal opinion is there is a root to your issues that doesnt need meds, look into brain rewiring and retraining, that camp was the answer, life just happened and you fell away from it, life or circumstances hit u again and your brain remembered an old pattern and picked it back up, i wish i was well enough to do the retraining, so so sick, been learning and hearing about stuff while ive been so sick, learning now once i lost everything i was holding onto things of the world, god needed to be first, when i lost my ability to have my son i never recovered, why? Well it was and still is traumatic but i didnt truly give my heart and life to jesus first, i didnt get it so when tough times came that debilitated me i crumbled, having a relationship was what was missing, also when we have ocd we can become fixated on our issues, we just want to be normal, look up mark dejesus on KZbin, serious, hes a christian, lots of material, his biggest thing was ocd, tons of stuff on it, i think u would relate and connect, im suffering so much physically its hard to focus, scared of not making it, young at 42 not where i want to be with god, been thru a lot of trauma, each day is a battle, if u have your health, dont take it for granted, while u have time here, think about what u can do for jesus and to help others, life is tough, thank u for being open, i was looking up stuff for my mental health before i came on KZbin and saw your video, weird timing, i dont do well on meds so im having to battle all this without relief and a lot of crying and praying to god and living min to min wishing i would have been more about him then being happy in my younger yrs, oi, never take anything for granted and live for and follow jesus is all i gotta say, the battle is real out there and inside, we cant make it thru life with the things of this world, it will only temporarily satisfy

[@montanaliving4769]

My husband of 30 years has ocd. He never recognized it. 3 times with the light switch, alarm clock etc.. Closet color coded and separated etc..he does still follow the exact same morning routine to the detail. Over the years I helped him see little things and he has worked hard at letting things go one at a time. He will always have some things but we all do. He has actually worked at jobs that required him to be attentive to detail, something he's very good at because of ocd. He did have a break down and it was hard and scary. I never realized this was common. He did have to take medicine for awhile, anti anxiety but nothing else. At this point, in his 50s , he has pretty much left all the little control issues and the negative thoughts that go with them. He is still not good at change but many of us are not. I have learned to just work around the things that are not important like his morning schedule. My husband says he would have been dead without me but I doubt that. Im glad he finds me supportive tho. We all have things! All of us. Some for a season and some forever, either way none of us need feel alone because there is always someone who has been through it. God is awesome at giving us just the right mate to fit us tho. Be blessed, be well, be strong. You will find it gets much better over time, maybe just because age causes everything to settle down.

[@socialmedia1276]

everyone needs therapy PERIOD!!! Exp because if you don't think you need it that you are in fact perfect then even more so because you may have the worst of it....

[@kwartstraat6462]

Hope you manage to keep it real as this social media image is a lot to deal with. You seem to be managing exceptionally well but please take care. We are all just human after all. Gorgeous family keeping it real. Stay true and strong!

[@bethjones7629]

Thank you so much for you vulnerability and honesty this was so important and powerful

[@parker3456]

Sending prayers to you and your family ♥️ I have OCD and I know how hard it is, just keep being you!

[@karolinaleia]

Thank you for this video & deep sharing from your heart... You both are rocks!!! Take care💕✨🙏

[@hannahlee7953]

missions are the perfect storm for any mental health struggles. i came home early as well and is such a hard thing to experience when health things compromise us from serving the "full" time. You are awesome for sharing your story!!

[@divreenable]

Most mental illness really start hitting off after 18 so I’m assuming that’s why it really bothered you then, my sister had ocd just like you since birth I’m assuming and she got really bad after she turned 18 and she also has depression really bad too.

[@HBFaulkner]

That was an amazing video, you guys. I had OCD as a child and into my 20s/30s. Now, yrs later, I have no OCD. Or if I do, it's .0001% of what I had. I never took meds, although doctors/psychologists tried. My parents never talked about the OCD with me. Truthfully, I hid it very well, plus, they were somewhat concerned with other things. Schoolmates knew though. My OCD manifested in physical compulsions and then extreme eating and emotional disorders that nearly ended my life numerous times. Anyway, I just want you to know, it's possible that it can be healed. Jesus healed me, and I have been healed for many yrs., and in very rare instances, when I wonder if some aspect has begun to return, God is our help, and it goes completely away. BTW, I was able to have 2 children, raise them as a single mother, watch my kids grow to adulthood, finally graduate college myself, meet & marry the love of my life, & become a grandma(!!), and do the things I've wanted my whole life (art, writing, travel some, especially be a useful vessel for God...). ❤

[@crystalerdmann2517]

GOD BLESS YOU!💓🙏💓

[@desireetrundy1159]

Thank you so much for sharing your struggles! I have even more respect and admiration for you guys, especially you Derik, for helping show the world that it's okay to be vulnerable and need help. So many people think that it's a weakness and it's shameful to need help let alone ask for help. Hats off to you!! 😊 P.S. This is the first comment on any social media that I've ever made.

[@miabrice8253]

Thank you so much for sharing and trusting us with your story. I have struggled with ADHD/OCD for over a decade (I’m 21) and it’s such a scary journey and one can feel so alone, I know I did. One of my biggest fears is that my anxiety will affect my future romantic relationships and it is so amazingly reassuring to see so much love even within your mental health struggles.

[@SarahAndDerik]

You're amazing! Totally get how you would be nervous about that. It definitely is something that can get so much better when working with your partner and trusting each other! You got it 👊

[@tze8744]

Your both so sweet ,i love you ,and your cute baby...i wish you both kids all the best ,you really deserve it ..i can't stop watching you on you tube ❤❤❤❤

[@miahberghoff9712]

just want you to know you are not alone! I have battled ocd and anxiety my whole life and I totally feel you! It is hard but you can get through it! My sister and I came up with this little song, " no no ocd you dont have a hole on me"! remember that ocd is a liar! Sending lots of love and peace to you and your family! you got this and so does God!

[@pamelar7050]

This is me right now. It's been my whole life but it's worse now. Thanks for the advice. Much love to you all. 🙏💞

[@tabithacraig9329]

I love how your honest and humble.I think it's so wonderful how you talk about each other. God always performing miracles, and I have no doubt that he was with you when you fell from that cliff. God has plans for us all. God put Sarah with you for you needed her but she needs you to. What a beautiful world. I felt so sorry for you, but it's good to know your on track. When things get bad always pray for God is always listen. Love you both and little Jack

[@thaisrodz]

You both are such an inspiration. I'm 65 and had never suffered from depression and anxiety till I was 53, and learned how difficult it was to experience those things. So happy to know you found your balance Derek, and I think God put Sarah in your path.

[@francinecoleman383]

Been there and know that God has you covered. It is all in his hands. Love your family.

[@ah.b9510]

Hello from israel you guys are amazing I'm so impressive with your honest sharing is so important the lovely people like you share your story wishing you lots of happiness

[@trishahutchinson3485]

There is no shame in mental health issues. I’m happy that you shared your story. Thank you!

[@eugenejeanniebrizendine1110]

Kudos to you both. Thank you Derek for sharing the part of your life that you struggle with but find ways to cope. And Sarah you are one awesome wife, I have been on your side of this life-long battle. There is soooo much more to just Derek's struggle, you are a huge support for him, listening, watching for changes, being an encouragement. It is hard for you as well so make sure you are doing something for you too. I know Derek loves you and there for you as well, always remember to continue to communicate with each other. I so enjoy following your family, you are both amazing!

[@sheilascoyne861]

I think y'all are just so real and wonderful. Love and prayers ❤❤❤🙏🌞

[@celiacooper4760]

Well THAT was an eye opener and no mistake! You always present as a happy go lucky young couple with an enviable lifestyle and not a care in the world. But the reality is so different! I'm sorry you've been through so much but I admire you for reaching out to others who may feel the same. The relief and support to be gained from knowing that you are not alone in the way you feel is incalculable. Well done 👏 for having the courage to speak your truth and best wishes for the best possible future for you both.xx

[@s_desh143]

HIIIIII I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH! I FEEL SO BAD FOR DERIK, YOU DESERVE THE WORLD, AND YOU DEFINITELY GOT IT, YOU HAVE JACK AND SARAH ❤️❤️❤️

[@joycebrewster5807]

Ty Derek for sharing this. Your very brave. And this WILL help ALOT of people Your the best!!♥️🌹

[@patriciaaravenavargas5856]

Thank you, the world neds knows more abouth mental hillnes. You are brave, thanks again