"A Pink Fringe Affirms My Gender!"

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[@P3891]

I swear these people collect symptoms like Pokémon cards

[@xyphrean3109]

Gotta identify as them all 🤣

[@Yuki667Neko]

Gonna catch them all to feel extra special 😅

[@ladywartooth]

How else will they feel special?

[@nooa69]

👏🤣💯

[@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer]

They think once they hit a magical number of labels, they'll suddenly feel special.

[@ladywartooth]

"I've never seen a hot nonbinary person." - Blaire White

[@TheUnhousedWanderer]

I've seen some that could be attractive if they showered and actually tried a little...

[@Lovelife20004]

Lol! So true!

[@umniya3076]

Ruby Rose tbf. There's been pretty ones, they're just usually not unhinged enough to make it on Blaire's channel

[@AndrewColomy]

Cause all the women that rock the non-binary look cover their tits with thick sweaters or get them chopped off altogether. Most of them are in the IBTC in the first place so their little mosquito bites ain’t impressing anyone. Some of them still have pretty faces though, when they don’t ruin it with too much makeup, but that’s the biggest comment I can give them.

[@AndrewColomy]

TBH, the pixie pronouns chick would be cute as fuck if she wasn’t batshit insane.

[@doublecrosserme]

Non-binary activist: hair does not equal your gender Also non-binary activist: I have gender dysphoria and the biggest factor for this is my hair

[@nix9849]

Hypocrites 💀

[@user-qf8fw9ob6z]

Love you!

[@lauradove1240]

​​@@nix9849 * sigh * Lunatics... 🙄

[@MistressKitty69]

They make it up as they go along

[@El-iw6xn]

@@nix9849that’s not hypocritical, it’s being human. You can believe something objectively but struggle with believing it when it comes to yourself. Like knowing success doesn’t define your worth but still being miserable that you’re not successful. Where’s the understanding and empathy gone from you guys?

[@Xantia_Mystique]

I am a woman with short hair. My husband has long hair. I guess in their messed up world, I am the husband, and he is my wife. Lol!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@covenleaderlyzz]

That was mine and my husband’s dynamic until I grew my hair out! Love it 😂

[@serion9325]

This is me and my boyfriend! Funnily enough, from behind, people do think I'm the man and he's the woman because of our hair lengths. It's not until he turns around and has a full beard and mustache (and even then, people think I'm a guy because I'm naturally androgynous). We're both very comfortable being who we are.

[@N0EL-7007]

@@serion9325 I love that. More people need to just be comfortable expressing themselves without smacking some nonsense label on it, when in reality it’s just their style and preference.

[@TheUnhousedWanderer]

I'm 42, my girl is 35. I still have a full head of hair, but birth control gave her a bald spot. Looks like we need to swap genitals now

[@Ktakahashi18]

😂

[@soteed]

This poor girl is getting "dysphoria" confused with "anxiety"

[@cully6164]

yeah, all it is is her feeling uneasy coming to terms with a disorder losing her hair, she needs therapy to treat those issues.

[@mouradhalbi1554]

Welcome to the wacky of gender

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

She needs a therapist

[@kevincurr4641]

She's an insufferable clout chasing grifter, this is same attention seeking buffoon that claims there are season pronouns.

[@Ilivedbih]

​@@WakandaleezaRazz A lot of the non binary people do in fact show NAPD traits, tho this one girl is an exception lol.

[@JackieOwl94]

I’m so sick of this “self-diagnosed” crap. Sorry. It’s difficult to find health care professionals that will take you seriously with PTSD and ADHD without me bringing my piles and piles of paperwork in to prove I’m not faking. Yet, still some doctors don’t take me seriously anymore, because the conditions mean nothing anymore.

[@AgbGzl9]

Self diagnosing can be life saving. I self diagnosed myself before my professional diagnosis. Everyone has the right to self diagnose themselves if it helps them live a better life. Just don’t go and post it everywhere on social media.

[@GeezerVR]

Yeah you have a right too, its just not the best thing​@AgnesBalla9602

[@jer.27]

​@@AgbGzl9self diagnose can also make your condition worse many people who self diagnose themselves with some diseases begin to immerse themselves in that emotionally, which makes it even worse in psychiatry there is a diagnose (I dont remember its name) that explains the phenomenon of self diagnosis, but for some reason no one wants to associate themselves with it

[@N0EL-7007]

@@AgbGzl9 I agree with you. I don’t think they should claim it as fact though. It’s fine to speculate and seek help if you do believe you have something, but way too many people just take their own speculation and paint it as something proven. Then it’s only worse when they jump on the autistic train on social media because half the time it’s more than likely an attention seeking method.

[@AgbGzl9]

@@GeezerVR for me it the very best thing. We should respect each other feelings

[@kirugai]

I have colorful hair for my whole life, I LOVE experimenting with my look, I have lots of tattoos but JESUS CHRIST I hate being categorized as part of this woke shit. I hate when people assume I must use some weird ass pronouns or identify as nonbinary or something else. No, I'm a normal female who always liked being colorful and unique. I miss the times when original style was assosiated with cool people, not mental illness.

[@N0EL-7007]

Right? Like back when everyone had the edgy haircuts and colorful hair.. I hate that it’s become synonymous with being woke. I personally love to experiment with my hair, but I’ve been doing it less lately due to the bad rep it’s gotten. Still I think everyone should express themselves, just not the way some of these people do.

[@clawwestfall8799]

I'm so glad I got rid of my dyed hair (due to terrible dye job and leftover pigment, not because of this) as it means I'm no longer associated with them. 😆 I miss the time having dyed hair was conscidered part of alt music based subcultures, not autistic non binary ppl competing in opression olympics.

[@SuperSarahhx3]

PREEEEEEACHHHHHHH. I’ve been dying my hair wild colours for years. I love it, and everyone around me says “its so me” and I’m getting to the point where even though I love it, I don’t know how much longer I can get away with it, without getting looped into this… stuff 🙄

[@anniemcgrath5680]

I love tattoos but now they just don’t seem as cool anymore………….

[@chloedemure]

I stopped colouring my hair pink, green, red etc now just black. When can we reclaim coloured hair being cool and not a psycho.

[@TordenFaaret]

"i'm also undiagnosed-" STOP RIGHT THERE. no diagnosis, no claim to the diagnosis. thank you. sincerely, people with diagnoses.

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

As somebody older who _wasn't_ diagnosed for most of my years, this rhetoric just isn't true. Obviously she has other men health issues, but I'm older and may have never been diagnosed had innot self diagnosed. And my life was harder before I had answers. Obviously people need to get diagnosed. But even once I knew, it took me years to finay get officially diagnosed. Our healthcare system is jacked and they do not make it easy for the majority of society! And girls go far more undiagnosed and for much longer than boys. This NEEDS to change!

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

Keep in mind most people who self diagnose don't look like this woman or act/think like her. It is a WIDE spectrum. Liberalism online in and of itself alone needs an insane asylum. Or at least a therapy revolution!

[@SummerStars18]

Dear GOD yes.

[@denyshadials5702]

@@TheKatarinaGiselle Diagnosed with what?

[@nascour5991]

seriously this shit is making people think DID is common it's not, and as a autistic person this is werid please stop treating our mental disorder as some kind of trendy quirky thing. It's usually not a fun thing to have :/

[@renaissancemom817]

For these people, “dysphoria” = unhappy

[@Bonsqueesquee]

I think it is literally the opposite of Euphoria. So yes... unhappy.

[@clawwestfall8799]

​@@BonsqueesqueeYes but both gender and body dysmorphia are more than simply being unhappy.

[@annebos4634]

unhappy, not having any personality or hobby or purpose in life, boring. Very sad so

[@AnnaInWonderTube]

I think the girl does not really understand the real "dysphoria" meaning. She uses the term to describe everyday slightly uncomfortable things.

[@VanillaBelleASMR]

This ⬆️

[@TheUnhousedWanderer]

I used to hate wearing socks as a kid. I identified as legless.

[@AnnaInWonderTube]

@@TheUnhousedWanderer It would be sock dysphoric

[@Ozziecatsmom]

@@TheUnhousedWandererBut you really wanted to identify as sockless!😂

[@notreallydavid]

​@@OzziecatsmomSocks is a social construct.

[@Dude-do8vo]

It's so bad that I had someone who called me "he" apologize because she wasn't sure if I really identified as a man... I'm a biological man with colored hair and a rather feminine look but I never saw myself as anything but a man... Can we please go back to the time where people fought for the right to wear anything you want...where people tried to dismantle gender stereotypes and what clothing/hairstyle a man or a woman could wear?

[@Daniela-tf6it]

So dysphoria in their words is basically having a bad hair day or disliking an outfit. And why do they always look crazy?

[@drhtldr1587]

Her*

[@Daniela-tf6it]

​@@drhtldr1587 true, that's a she but I mean the whole community. Many people= they

[@TheUnhousedWanderer]

That's why it's constant dysphoria. Their lack of style makes them hate how they look

[@djsioux2265]

They are all crazy! 😂

[@Ilivedbih]

​@@drhtldr1587 I think in this case they meant nonbinary in general lol cs it's true all of them I've seen have just an awful fashion sense

[@marecort3697]

I WANT ATTENTION!!!!! GIVE ME ATTENTION!!!!! LOOK AT ME!!!!! LOOK AT ME!!!!!! See? So much easier.

[@Gernot66]

Worked perfectly :)

[@MaxxedFortnite]

Forget what she is saying, she needs to sue her barber

[@jellyrcw12]

Omfg this made me laugh way too hard

[@MarySmith-ym2ib]

She needs emergency mental health diagnosis.

[@elenawilliams32]

From a hairdresser all the way down here in Australia 🇦🇺. Cheers for the giggles, that's funny. 😂

[@elenawilliams32]

​@@MarySmith-ym2ib No she doesn't. She said she's 'self diagnosed' . 🚩👀😂

[@annebos4634]

😂😂😂

[@blademaster7879]

As a man with hair past my shoulders, I just like it long. Nothing to do with gender...

[@mysurfing3550]

There was this dude in the math department who had hair past his thighs and his beard too.

[@SoyBioIogia]

@@mysurfing3550 that's cool as hell

[@Bonsqueesquee]

Get ze mangina surgery now!

[@randomperson6433]

As a metal loving chick I like guys with long hair. Seems like guys’ hair is always healthier and thicker than ladies’ hair too. Jerks lol.

[@Jashtvorak]

@@randomperson6433 mine is growing like 20x the speed of my girl 😄

[@armymarshal13]

The traffic on the way to work today made me dysphoric too 😞 Then I realized my shoes were untied I can't take this dysphoria 😭

[@wolfstyle69]

I think she is going for as many conditions as she can, she wants those victim points!

[@Trinidad413]

As a woman, I feel offended by the way these people define gender by only stereotypes. I don’t like wearing makeup, or painting my nails, and it's been almost ten years since I wear short hair, but none of that makes me less of a woman. I can dress in pink or not, and that still doesn't make me more or less of a woman. Because being a woman is not a fashion thing. A (woke) friend of mine says I should go for a more "androgynous" look, or be non-binary, he says that me wearing pink is like me trying to compensate or fulfill a stereotype, but it's not. And I'm perfectly fine being a woman with short hair and who doesn't like makeup very much.

[@robothestrange]

You need to drop that brainwashed friend.

[@pwallace5359]

You need to let that “friend “ go. He sounds like a nut. You shouldn’t have to deal with that kind of talk.

[@tkps]

Most 'gender stereotypes' are based on biology but by the 80's we accepted few rigidly fit which is perfectly fine and in no way changes our sex nor did we want it to. Transsexualism was extremely rare and around since dot. The return to alluding to strict gender stereotypes seems to come mainly from the US. I think due to the country remaining so religous in turn culturally infiltrating non religious views. Now exported via social media but far less prevalent which I believe is due to regulation protections. I.E. your job can't be affected by your opinion so few fear openly expressing them. I never thought we'd see a return nor 'I'm trans because I don't fit'. It's almost Victorian thinking.

[@shirleyelliott2985]

They want to relegate women to a certain box becoming so many different shapes sizes you know I don't wear makeup I just don't feel like bothering with it my hair is long but it's usually pulled up in a bun because it makes me out of my neck people need to stop worrying about what everyone else is doing and just do them

[@RavenEsc]

This is what people should be doing, making the Sterotypes disappear, like you are, instead they just decided instead of changing the sterotypes of their genders and breaking the so called 'norm' They will just make up new ones... because its easier I guess? Bah anyways keep up the good fight, A woman doesn't need to adore pink and skirts and have long hair to be a woman. Just like a Man does not need to guzzle beer, Fix cars, Wear jeans or be the sole provider of the household.

[@mazzame6480]

I'm so sick+tired that I can't even have fun with hair dye anymore without being labelled a Liberal loony!!!!🤣🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

[@gracecodd4378]

Same! I love rainbow hair and makeup, but I don't want to have them and be perceived as a fake trans looney. And I've heard that if you go out wearing rainbow coloured things you're perceived as gay or bi, and I'm neither of those either 😅 But straight, normal clothing is boring

[@Jashtvorak]

@@gracecodd4378 you’re gay 😉

[@gracecodd4378]

@@Jashtvorak hahaha don't tell my bf 😉

[@mazzame6480]

@@gracecodd4378 I have a 4 year old daughter who's cloths are all rainbow/bright colours coz the alphabet people want it all so I took the rainbow back!! 🤣😎🤪🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

[@gracecodd4378]

@@mazzame6480 woop woop 🙌 TAKE THE RAINBOW BACK!

[@bcsdstudios7988]

Seems to me like the best way to spot the "Trans-Trenders" is to look for someone who looks like a parrot that fought (and lost) to a pin cushion.

[@TheUnhousedWanderer]

I swear that's from an old movie like SLC Punk or some shit lol

[@Ilivedbih]

As a person who LOVES parrots nuh uuuh, parrots are fabulous 😆😭

[@annamossity8879]

😂

[@charmingjim]

I am soooo stealing that ! LOL!

[@Jashtvorak]

Trans trender…definitely stealing that!

[@astrotrick]

She’s exhausting.

[@jamesneese7663]

Worse. She's boring. Her "disabilities " are her only personality and achievements. Take them away, she is empty shell .

[@annebos4634]

And boring. She has nothing interesting to tell, tbh

[@cully6164]

Sounds like she's having issues coming to terms with the Alopecia and that's fair, she's going through changes she didn't sign up for, but to associated it with trans related issues is insulting.

[@Kathleen-vl5ws]

The "I don't want to attend another trans kids funeral" sign. WOW. At first I thought she was just annoying and self-involved. Now she scares me.

[@kevincurr4641]

Totally performance for clout.

[@jamesneese7663]

Let her name the ones she went to. Bet she will studder then talk about her hair

[@JadeLeaf1980]

But she’ll seek them out through social media (meaning she NEVER knew them) so she can tiktok from the funerals and make it about herself 🙄….

[@chantemoody8416]

Umm...she has the typical "non-binary hairdo." But, for someone feeling masculine, it's a weird hairdo. I have NEVER seen a man have that hairdo.

[@priscillaroberts7945]

You need to get out more.

[@NoOneGetzOutAlive]

​@priscillaroberts7945 maybe you're in san fran. And if getting out more means seeing more of these people ill pass.

[@priscillaroberts7945]

@@NoOneGetzOutAlive no i'm in the uk. Weirdcoloired hair is nothing new here. Grannies(like me) youngsters. No big deal.

[@NoOneGetzOutAlive]

@@priscillaroberts7945 im talking about blunt bang shaved sides pink hair septum pierced don't pretend you don't know the type. The activist hair.

[@clogs4956]

⁠@@NoOneGetzOutAliveI’m heading for a UK Transformers convention in August. I have pretty much the same haircut as the speaker and plan to get my fringe dyed Skywarp Purple. Luckily, I don’t think I have any Cybertronian brain module disorder… maybe Rung or Froid could tell me 🤣

[@Ghostnz_]

On behalf of the autistic community, we do not claim the "gender dysphoria" girl

[@dusoiree]

Thank you for speaking out about gender issues. We need more real trans people to wake up and speak truth.

[@kristinebrown414]

You are so correct. I feel bad for actual transexuals that are now being made a mockery of.

[@Archie699]

Real transexual here. I don't have the biterness and hatred in my heart to do all of this, because a lot of people bro is shitting on are just teens going through a phase or slowly discovering their identity fully. He needs a hobby.

[@ladywartooth]

@@Archie699 it's not "bitterness and hatred" that causes Marcus to speak out; It's crazy people saying things like "trans women are better than cis women" that causes him to speak out.

[@LightBoltDash]

@@Archie699 pointing out genuine brainrot idiocricy is not being 'hateful'. These people are sincerely affirmed for these things. It's not ok.

[@mutantbrain92]

Posted 10 seconds ago. Just wanted to say that you, Marcus, are great. As a trans man myself, people dont understand how i can be so "harsh against my own kind." But its not about that. It's about how you and and everyone else like us just want to be left alone where as these people need to make it their personality and expect people to bend rules to them. I'm sick of it. Thanks for doing what you do.

[@takeoma5798]

Frrr I don’t even want ppl to know I’m trans because of ppl like this. I try so hard to pass and there are ppl like this who don’t even make the effort to pass. The same ppl who expect you to call them by he/him

[@soteed]

Dear Heart, you are NOT being "harsh against you own kind". These fake trans pretenders ARE NOT "your own kind". Do not give them the affirmation or curtesy of recognizing them as true trans people. Stick with Marcus and we all will come out better on the other side. 🌻

[@ninjawizard3865]

​@@takeoma5798When the law says they dont have to anymore, why should they?

[@Gimmetimetothinkdawg]

The whole “your own kind” thing bothers me. Like you HAVE to defend people in your minority group because you have one thing in common? Collectivism doesn’t benefit anyone there, that’s why I don’t like it being called a “community” and having people assume you think like these people

[@ninjawizard3865]

​​@@soteedWho exactly are the 'True trans people'?

[@bluetwinkiesaregood]

This is the reason why I don’t use TikTok.

[@elimac1462]

TikTok really is a mental illness factory..

[@emsies8116]

How can something even be 'soo gender', it doesn't make any sense!

[@PaulKapow]

That haircut is called a ' Hime Cut ' , which means princess cut, a traditional feminine haircut for women in Japan. (Minus the shaved undercut sides)

[@jamesneese7663]

So... cultural appropriation by am activist. What a surprise

[@selinnazsur2328]

I honestly like how it looks on Japanese women, but these people here will deliberately mess up anything they touch so the result is catastrophic.

[@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer]

As someone who has austisic traits, im so fucking tired of people excusing shit on "sensory issues". Like yes, I have them, i dont like certain foods touching, I hate the sensation of certain things like microfiber cloths, crowd noises become draining, etc. But guess what, im a adult and its my job to work around my issues. These people are nothing but toddlers.

[@N0EL-7007]

I’ve always had the so called ‘symptoms’ or traits but I’m not autistic, I think it’s more of a combination of other issues I have and just personal icks for me. Still I don’t go on the internet and complain like these people. Seriously they need to learn how to just cope in life. If they really did think they had these disorders they’d get off TikTok and get help or at least keep it private if they can't access help, but no I guess it’s easier to complain. (I mean this kindly, but seriously I was more mature at 13 than these adults are on TikTok. 🙄)

[@chloedemure]

Same and these people make me crazy. As an adult found ways to make my life work and function and these folks aurgh

[@moonyfruit]

Yes, what you're describing is what the girl in the video is likely thinking is "autism." Those are not what I'd consider autistic traits, however. My entire body reacts to light touch (like a hair touching me), loud crowds, etc. It's like my entire brain malfunctions. It's more than just an aversion. And this is an opinion from an "UNDIAGNOSED" AuDHDer. For people with actual sensory Issues, and undiagnosed, that can't afford to see a professional, "just be an adult" is a horrible oversimplification that just doesn't work for everyone.

[@asthecrowflies737]

People will do and say ANYTHING to get attention. Thank you, Marcus, for being the Voice of Reason in a society which is clearly losing it's proverbial marbles.

[@taramco1110]

I love how she speaks so superficially about what makes her feel dysphoric 🙄 and how she so strongly labels pink as “girlie.” Can boys not like pink? If you were “non-binary,” wouldn’t it not matter since colors and such can be used by anyone? This is all insanity. Makes me chuckle it’s so ridiculous.

[@tkps]

Because it's heard rhetoric and they only hear 'headlines', they repeat stuff yet don't realise they contradict themselves as none of it makes any sense. In her case it was almost 'how many labels can I heap on myself for more attention'. That lot was the silliest word salad of buzz terms I've heard in a while.

[@P4trickSt4rmie]

A bad hair day has nothing to do with dysphoria

[@Deedle-ki1fh]

I can't believe how much time these people spend doing mental gymnastics trying to make it make sense in their heads.

[@ninjawizard3865]

You know you may be in a Cult when...

[@heller2128]

I just can't, I can't stand them anymore. They are everything everywhere at once. Just... Be happy and healthy, guys, and stay the damn away from me.

[@dilligaf73]

As someone who is autistic, life isn't easy. It's hard to fit in. We are confused, and to others, we are confusing. We dont think along the woke lines. Things are usually black and white, yet these people are making a mockery out of us because people are now thinking we are like them. How can we stop them? They've messed up everything it means to be a woman, everything it means to be trans and now messing up everything it means to be autustic

[@EllanaWolf]

The sense I get from this Woman is ‘desperation’. Desperate to belong and be accepted, while at the same time shaming and refusing to accept herself. It’s very sad. 😢 EDIT. I don’t believe she has gender or body dysmorphia, she’s just unhappy.

[@annamossity8879]

And very confused!

[@elimac1462]

And she has too much time on her hands!

[@Gimmetimetothinkdawg]

0:17 I find it’s hard to take it seriously when these people in particular say they’re undiagnosed and self-diagnose instead of finding out if they actually have the thing

[@ladywartooth]

They won't go to a doctor because they won't get the diagnosis they so desperately need to feel special.

[@katiebugster2223]

I loooove how she is just throwing around the term dysphoric....

[@maniacmatt7340]

Sounds like she needs a therapist. She cares a lot about something that doesn't effect her gender lol

[@Darkalyle]

I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was a child, I was dignosed with Autism when I was an Adult. These are facts of my life. I have always said ADHD/ADD is simply the extremes of everything all the time, and Austism is effectively a social disability not a mental disability. So of course she thinks all these things, because se doesn't understand the actual diagnosises themselves. And I find most non-binary trans trends are only doing it because they live such priveleged lives they've never known any form of strife and this is a way for them to demand having strife in their lives. Think about it: they hate it when you get their pronouns right and love it when you "mis-gender" them. Why? Simple when you mis-gender them they have something to complain about and that's all they want to do is complain.

[@Gernot66]

Perfectly recognized. One can recently easy claim all activists do it just for fame, no matter which topic since activism makes you somewhat famous in the days of www. This complaining about this or that shit which often doesn't apply to them at all. I won't say rich kids, but a certain class of nine-to-fivers which are sick from the bore in their own life and sicken their children as well. They feel as superior because they always could get what they wanted, no matter salary no matter extra luxury at the "workplace" or resting place as i would say as technician. And if they don't get what they want the roll on the floor and stomp with their feeit like little children and the worst is the social parties have this class now as their declared target because this is the broad mass of employees in the west, dead wood, workers and their longings aren't of interest, only their own pimples in their face. In one word, decadence

[@elenawilliams32]

As a hairdresser, I'll have to inform all my clients when they have a bad hair day that they're actually dysphoric. 🙄😂 I really feel sorry for her hairdresser. Maybe she can link up with that hairdresser who asks "What are your pronouns? Can I touch you?" 🚩

[@kathiedevall5560]

I remember that one!😂 Can I touch you?

[@danwolf6076]

The pink haired one lost a debate with herself....

[@annamossity8879]

😂

[@passivezealot5631]

Sometimes i think we need a diagnosis for being stupid

[@selinnazsur2328]

Same lol, but they'd certainly try to use that to their advantage as well

[@4andystorm8]

Just a reminder there are still decent people who like to dye their hair out of creativity I can't with these people gatekeeping died hair. I'm going to watch the video now but I just really feel like I had to say this😭😭😭😭 love you love the content and awareness you put out there❤❤

[@JEM7112]

Dee needs to get a wig, a job and most of all a grip!

[@Stefarooh]

ROTFLMAO - So true

[@evalind8220]

So many symptoms 😂

[@elettramia6380]

Ya symptoms of narcissism 😅

[@AnimaAnubis]

I am a goth/EBM/darkwaver with several professionally diagnosed mental health conditions and have been dyeing my hair blue, black and purple for 30+ years. I have no doubt that if I went out (i have severe anxiety so rarely do) I would either be constantly asked my pronouns by these idiots or be ignored by sensible people assuming I'm non binary! This nonsense screams (sub) cultural appropriation!

[@kollateralschaden3127]

Yeah Punk too. And worse: Wokies invaded our scene. It's a mad world...

[@GeoffInfield]

Who decided self diagnosed children could redefine everything centuries of peer reviewed research by teams of highly educated scientists held to high standards proved wrong already? 😢

[@AngryLittleSponge]

"a fringe feels so gender!" - what the hell does that even mean??

[@fidgetthecrazy]

I’ve seen this phrase before. They use it if they see something they like, and it makes them feel good about their own aesthetic as a “nonbinary” person. It can also be used to describe other people (usually fictional characters) they think are pretty. The person in question doesn’t even have to be nonbinary, either. A lot of the time, this appreciation of aesthetics also ties to the feeling like their gender is affirmed by seeing it, especially if it’s something they want to do for themselves, whether it’s clothes, or hair, or piercings. It’s the messed up nonbinary equivalent of “that is so pretty”, usually followed up with “I want to have that look”. You probably didn’t want this explanation, I’m sorry XD

[@madcat66]

I am absolutely fascinated how it is possible to think that much about a hairstyle and what it might symbolize or not. A clear indication of the absence of real life problems.

[@smurschmur1954]

I think shes confusing these feelings for self conscious

[@cassie4468]

Struggling with how it you feel about yourself while you have patches of your hair fall out isn't dysphoria...It's the literal normal human reaction ANYBODY would have to losing patches of hair lol.

[@mrsb3650]

I'm curious to know what the parents of these individuals think about their children, or whether they even have any idea what crap their kids are spouting on social media.

[@JadeLeaf1980]

I would just LOVE one of their parents to go online and say “yeah she’s making this up. She’s not had sensory issues since childhood, she’s never been neurodivergent am£ none of these self diagnoses started until she met non binary trans activists”.

[@iluvrolaz]

She literally said hair doesn't define your gender, n then said multiple times that her hair makes her dysphoric, n that her hair didn't match her gender, n comments to that effect, multiple times... ugg, these kids are so far gone!

[@SouICoffin]

The number of times this woman contradicted herself in this video was mind boggling.

[@annamossity8879]

I got whiplash!

[@TheTourbusIndividual]

"A fringe makes me feel so powerful and non-binary" WTF is she even talking about?! Hold up...let me go give myself a haircut, and I'll come back to my comment here once my hair has turned me into the Queen of England 🙄

[@maddison_kay]

TheTourbusIndividual unfortunately never came back, as she tragically died 😔

[@TheTourbusIndividual]

@maddison_kay Yes, I know she did. Which would make it even more delusional of me to not only think that a haircut would give me the status of Queen, but it would also give me the gift of immortality. Basically, the delusions in this video are just as bad as the one I've just made up.

[@maddison_kay]

@@TheTourbusIndividual I agree, sorry, I just take any opportunity to make a dumb joke 😭

[@karmallama7957]

Im part of the generation who was told girls couldn't have adhd or autism and we have fought for decades to get these diagnosis so we could get actual help. These people are spitting on those who struggle with dysphoria or other mental health issues because they have insecurities! 🤮

[@tkps]

Over a decade ago a female Prime Minister in Australia set up a separate system to fund those with long term ongoing health issues. Greedy private providers saw $$ signs and costs blew out. Current government is investigating how it happened with a particular spotlight on autism as it now accounts for the majority of expenditure. Sadly the symptoms became so broad just about anyone can be diagnosed with it. We're seeing women in their 50's diagnosed for the first time who lived their lives just fine. We went from assuming women didn't get it to throwing it around as an easy way to line the pockets of the greedy.

[@karmallama7957]

@@tkps that's absolutely heartbreaking to hear. I'm glad it's being investigated. I have a very dear friend from Australia who has shared absolutely devastating stories as a result of governmental greed and misconduct, from the treatment of aboriginal people to the current DV crisis you're facing. It's beyond frustrating to see how you the people are systematically being ignored. Thank you for sharing this, knowledge is power ☺️

[@Skaliex]

So many people claim to have OCD when they don’t. Thanks for pointing that out. It’s very offending to me when people tell me « I understand, I have OCD too ». People have no idea what OCD really is, just like being dysphoric.

[@Dobieforce]

Considering how many times I’ve seen TikTok accounts of people faking diseases, I wouldn’t put it past anyone to fake other stuff on social media as well.

[@YTladytalkingagain]

It’s a lotta people pulling autism for attention. But I will say that learning about autism online got me my diagnosis. It’s a double edged sword.

[@AgbGzl9]

Same

[@N0EL-7007]

I think it’s great to learn about it and with that leading to trying to get a diagnosis, BUT it’s not okay when people so confidently self-diagnose it. I’m glad it helped you to figure out that you needed to be checked though. I love that we have awareness but I wish it actually encouraged more people to get checked. :(

[@AgbGzl9]

@@N0EL-7007 yes. It got me my diagnosis too. But I really don’t like people on social media just casually claiming these things. Beacuse then if someone really does have autism or other problems people won’t believe them and that is a big problem

[@N0EL-7007]

@@AgbGzl9 Yeah. I have no ill intentions towards people who self-diagnosis, just in a different context. If it's in attempt to truly understand what you're going through and you actually keep it to yourself without allowing it to become a personality trait, then I think that's fine. Like from what I've seen in your case it's valid and understandable, but then there is others who do it for attention or turn it into their entire identity when in reality it could very well be something completely different and they are just causing themself more harm.

[@AgbGzl9]

@@N0EL-7007 thats true yes

[@jennyd9691]

I bet in about 5 years she'll regret all this. Anyone can diagnose themselves with anything.

[@ninjawizard3865]

When we teach children that only they can truly know themselves and nobody can tell them otherswise, this trend isnt very surprising.

[@Adam_Boots]

A haircut that is both gender affirming as well as non-binary? Talk about not even understanding their own self descriptions.

[@PieCeezChyld]

There were girls that side shaved their hair and dyed their hair whatever color when I was in high school . That never made them non-binary lol. It’s just what we did! LOL

[@kalanix1968]

I’ve been in therapy for the last 9 years of my life and STILL I am struggling to get diagnosis’ for illnesses that I’ve had for most of my life. NOW I understand that these people are primarily to blame due to the fact they think it’s “cool” to have mental illness and love to fake it for attention. it’s put my life into the mud due to doctors not taking me seriously despite all my files because so many people want to fake disorders and quite frankly it makes me fucking rage.

[@moonyfruit]

Yes! This exactly. Even if I could afford to see a professional, it's extremely hard to get a proper diagnosis for anything. Just because I'm a woman.

[@kalanix1968]

@@moonyfruit 100%. I’ve had trouble with diagnosis’s due to the fact they thought what I’m going through was “hormonal” when in fact it isn’t that😂and then you have twats like this that think collecting mental illnesses is a game of Pokémon, thus making OUR lives, people who actually have problems, look like them as a collective.

[@ineedmoneysp]

It’s so crazy how people just self diagnose themselves with whatever they want or that they think they’ll get attention for. You never see them self diagnose themselves as narcissists or sociopaths or other things people look down on or don’t like

[@paulfrels3590]

“HAIR JOURNEY “. sis, Sis, SIS!!!! NO

[@bazotter]

'I didn't feel like my hair aligned with my gender indenity'. That made me laugh.

[@chimanruler15]

Siiiiiigh... Why do these people feel some sort of validation and euphoria from self-diagnosing? That's not healthy!

[@ladywartooth]

Nothing about these people is healthy.

[@AgbGzl9]

Self diagnosing can be life saving. If it helps to live a better life ok. Just don’t post it everywhere on social media. I was self diagnosed before my professional dianosis and it saved my life

[@Ilivedbih]

​@@AgbGzl9 That's the difference though. Same with me here but we then got an actual diagnosis just to be sure. Since it could be many other things and I didn't want to hurt myself further.

[@moonyfruit]

​​@@Ilivedbih Not everyone has the privilege of being able to get a professional diagnosis. Not that this "non-binary" woman is right saying what she was saying. But that doesn't mean there aren't valid self-diagnosing people out there that can't get a professional diagnosis. For autism, there are 0 professionals in a reasonable driving distance (1 hour) from me that even see adults that are already diagnosed, much less undiagnosed, especially adult women. An in-person pre-screening (which is the same test given to children) is $1000 in my area without insurance. And no, it's not covered (for me anyway). And that's just a pre-screening, they don't offer diagnoses. Virtual meetings with professionals for me is going to run a minimum of $2000, that isn't covered by health insurance. I'm going to continue self-diagnosing, and listening to fellow adult AuDHDers' tips, and improving my quality of life. Not everyone is so privileged.

[@Rezd-Out]

Jesus...you KNOW your problems are COMPLETELY made up when your biggest problems are hair related.

[@likelyivy1730]

Omg….her entire social media existence -every post- is oozing with ego it’s truly insane and even more insane that people are fueling the fire with positive feedback

[@marieellender669]

I dread to think of what she does for a living. Definite hypochondriac among other things. Hopefully she is NOT a teacher!

[@annamossity8879]

🤞

[@karite2]

I had to laugh when she said undiagnosed. We know.

[@silviaconsonni586]

The 2020s are the years that will make it more difficult for us autistic people thanks to ass-pain generators self-diagnosing for a hobby

[@smokyquartz5817]

I hate ass pain generators. Unite!

[@renferal5290]

It really seems like TikTok attracts some very dodgy people living in the land of dilution

[@weeinersauce]

How does alopecia or an undesirable hairstyle = gender dysphoria 😂

[@angeladaniels2377]

I want to scream at ‘non-binary’. I’m a 61 year old woman who would love to shave my head again (and occasionally wear a wig) because my hair is super thick and if it gets to my shoulders it causes migraines. My great grandson told me 4 years ago I couldn’t shave it anymore because it bothered him (he was 6 at the time). So as compromise I let the top grow out and shave the sides and back off which actually worked out somewhat better since now I can grow the long part down to the middle of my back before it brings on the migraines. I’ve also had my hair many different colors throughout my life. My point actually being my hair has nothing to do with my gender.

[@kristinjoni]

Mom here. My daughter went to high school with LOTS of LGBTQ people. Her show choir had guys who wore dresses and girls wearing suits… so the sound was weird since their voices stayed the same. She decided to say she’s a lesbian. Then she said she was bi. Then lesbian. Now she doesn’t talk about it at all. She’s in college and has never had a date or relationship. She actually does have clinically diagnosed Asperger’s and isn’t socially comfortable. I’m not worried about her “identity” and letting her figure it out. Some of her friends are “they/thems” but thankfully she is secure in knowing that she’s a girl. It may be a phase. Maybe not. Doesn’t affect anything and it’s not her personality

[@BOBSMITH-YouTubeStoleMyHandle]

I lost track of how may boxes she checks at the beginning of her video. My eyes rolled to the back of my head.

[@MarleysMom1]

Good Lord. She cannot seem to figure out what color the sky is, much less anything else!

[@LadyIarConnacht]

Diagnosing yourself is a byproduct of the psychological industry going nuts inventing new diagnoses for every child, and parents jumping right on the bandwagon. It's at the point where people WANT to have something wrong with them. This crap reminds me of the time when I was a kid and I was jealous of my cousin who was on crutches for a couple of months. Then two years later, I had knee surgery and had to be on crutches myself. I found out they are pretty annoying and uncomfortable, and I wasn't jealous of anybody on crutches anymore.

[@N0EL-7007]

As kids we wanted to feel special, we would even go as far as negative attention. I remember seeing other kids get attention or be made out to be special for being hurt, and as a kid I was jealous... I guess kids are selfish 🤣 It seems like these people just didn't grow up. They do want something to be wrong with them because it means they do get the attention they crave. They want to be pitied. So many people go on social media and fake disorders because of the clout it brings in and the people who sympathize for them. That level of attention seeking in itself should be a mental disorder..

[@PaisleySnail1932]

Crazy how she hasn’t self-diagnosed the narcissism yet…

[@rebeccao8895]

You called it, Marcus. ♥️

[@pallasathene453]

I feel like she confuses dysphoria with low self-confidence and discomfort

[@paulineb66]

Are we supposed to feel sorry for her or something?

[@MarySmith-ym2ib]

Hardly feel sorry for it!

[@shanecrump7932]

Even if she has been to a “trans kid’s” funeral, who says the kid died because they were trans and not some other reason.

[@Skylerjones624]

Someone I used to be friends with was like this, they claimed everything to do with their appearance gave them dysphoria and its how they refused to do anything about their appearance, even rejecting advice I gave them when they asked for advice how to look better (Suggested to them get their hair cut and beard shaved and get some clothes but apparently again gave them dysphoria) Just gave up with them and stopped being their friend 😵😵💀💀

[@cronotose8558]

how are these people even real and arent embarrassed posting stuff like this

[@N0EL-7007]

They’ll do anything to get the attention they desperately crave, whether through negativity or positivity. 🤷‍♀️

[@justincree1978]

marcus i love you man ,,,you are funny and spot on mate

[@tamitami9275]

They are about 90% undiagnosed. It just gives them more to fit in.

[@al0.1]

Omg Marcus, thank you for uploading so much this week, you're the only thing keeping me sane

[@CBNM1]

I'm sorry but i feel like at this point they are just making stuff up. It's crazy

[@luchoportuano2829]

I love how these.. go very public with their supposed/invented ailments, only to fish for attention/sympathy/whatever. When actually the whole world doesn't give a rat's ass.

[@tkps]

If I did bleat on social media for 'pat me on the back to make me feel better' comments, I'd not believe them anyway as it's so easy to say 'oh poor you, I hope feel better soon blah blah'. There's nothing genuine about such interactions anyway.

[@clemdane]

There were people exactly like this 20 years ago, 30 years ago, and 40 years ago, but they didn't call themselves "non-binary."

[@annamossity8879]

We never liked labels!

[@Jerbies_Kimmers]

I love it when people color their hair and have septum and lip peircings. It helps me to know who to completely and totally avoid 😁

[@nathanmoranx2105]

Sometimes I secretly say to myself 'Aha! I am the magical non-binary!' and I feel a bit special as I buy my cheese and spoons from the local market in the fog.

[@nooa69]

Pretty sure she's also lying about having alopecia arreata.

[@kindness_is_the_key3888]

8:08 😂 that “gender-fuck” caught me off guard

[@yulianixon2503]

What a hot mess….can picture this generation as a full time employee Generation on disability