A Simple Way to Detach & Go with the Flow

[@millicentlopez3592]

STEP 1: be clear of your intention and your end goal - what is it that you're really look for? STEP 2: step into action and do as much as / whatever you can towards reaching your goal, don't give into learned helplessness STEP 3: remember that you are not the only force at work, be it authorities, family and the universe - repeat this mantra with all your might "in this situation may the highest good be done for all"

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@saintraphael__]

Thank you, allows for me to let go and trust GOD

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@flamingjune4927]

Wow! The universe responded with exactly what I needed.....you! Your profound words are so enlightening. I am right in this situation, struggling to stay calm and let it pan out. My self talk was a little different but I knew it was important not to react as it never helps. That victim issue gets me every time but I held back and reminded myself of the many people who too have these feelings, I'm not special. As I read the comments my thoughts have been verified. You put things across so well it's just like you were here in my room, thanks again, your a star🌟

[@janegardner604]

This is huge for sure and exactly what I needed today!! I cannot tell you how important and effective your messages and teachings have been to me since I found you a month or two ago!!! I really love how "the universe " brought me to you!!!! So much positive change and peace!!!

[@Bernadette_Logue]

YAY, glad to hear that! Pleased to have you in our community Jane. Bx

[@annasingle16]

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[@summerdayslovin]

Thanks so much! I was tossing and turning in bed thinking about a problem last night, then I tried "asking" for the outcome I thought would be best, but half way through doing so I realised that I don't actually know the best outcome! So instead I asked for the absolute best outcome for everybody involved. Then I click on this video while eating breakfast, and you're talking about the exact same thing! So I'm actually taking this video as a sign and a confirmation that asking for the "highest good for all involved" was the right thing to do and to keep doing it! 🙌🏼✨ (You're amazing by the way) 😄

[@maryhurst6120]

Leah Grace

[@Bernadette_Logue]

:) Awesome Leah. Best wishes, B

[@MKF30]

Same here, always thinking about the future but her vids help. Nice comment and cute pic too btw Leah :) Feel better.

[@vedkapur1]

So u know about signs & synchronicities 😀

[@misslaurap]

Leah Grace exactly me atm too mate !

[@ShelleyG1014]

Thank you for this. This is a better phrase for me to start with rather than the challenge of praying for my enemies. This is a step I can do right now.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

Glad this resonated. Best wishes! B

[@THE-WAY_THE-TRUTH_THE-LIFE.]

Praying for your enemies is great, but being able to live comfortably as yourself can sometimes be even better.

[@tinawalker8174]

I have been following signs and feeling connected then got lost again asked the universe for guidance and I found your videos that have me back in the present feeling connected. Thank you .Shalom ..

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're welcome :)

[@MaireTreasa]

I've written the mantra down onto a sticky note and put it on my computer. I really DO want the highest good for all. I always seem to see your videos exactly when I need them. Synchronicity.

[@nataliem.esparza9032]

I really needed this technique today, thank you so much for this video. I am a full-time student with five classes, I work 20+ hours a week and am an RA for my residence hall. I am constantly working with difficult people and situations and I have been feeling spiritually stuck lately, this was so helpful. Thank you!!

[@Bernadette_Logue]

Hey Natalie, so happy to hear this was helpful, and sending you best wishes for all you do. B :)

[@lazarlegacy2753]

Its important we learn to trust God/universe to take us in the direction for our highest good. Often we simply need to let go and go with the flow.

[@leeann7007]

Namaste. May the highest good be done for all. Great stuff thanks so much...xo

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're welcome! B x

[@LadyJammyDodgers]

YAS this really helped me. You’re spitting facts.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@nieveskinal5096]

Thank You Bernadette! As always, when there is another moment of connection with you, I always learned something new. I needed to hear what you have to say today because I am in middle of things that I don’t know what the outcome will be but, I am going to apply and repeat this this Mantra and I know I will have a better understanding and clarity in my near future decision. in this situation may the highest good be done for all. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I feel very happy I heard your this video today!! You are such an inspiration to me and I wish many people would listened to your videos.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

So glad this was helpful ☺️💛

[@edenfleur396]

May the highest good be done for all!

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@sg71717]

Beautiful message. Very inspiring. Thank you very much.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're welcome!

[@malinlundstrom644]

Thanks again !

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're welcome!

[@lizsheridan4844]

This is life changing for me thanks so much💜💜💜

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're very welcome Lizzie 💞

[@djames5137]

This was so awesome and perfect timing for me today. I’m so glad I found you! I was struggling in an area of my life and wanted insight and guidance on how to handle the situation and to feel better within myself and the universe has provided that for me through you. I truly appreciate you sharing your wisdom and practical steps. I’ve subscribed to your channel and I watch your videos first thing every morning. Again, thank you so much!

[@Bernadette_Logue]

Hey! So glad to hear this was helpful 💖 welcome to our community. Looking forward to sharing more with you. Love B 😊💫

[@groovybrat]

Your channel is super super helpful thank a million

[@angelladejager4439]

thank you so much for this B. I am going to start practicing this from this very moment. sending you much love.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

Awesome Angella. Love, B

[@leylaisgandarova4001]

Amazing video!

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@paulineclarke5940]

Your amazing ....

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@sarahpalmer8048]

Feels great already!!

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@happilyeverangie]

thank you so much!

[@slcafe5542]

Thank you 💚👍

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@jennyt1415]

Thanks for your empowering tips!!

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're so welcome Jenny. Sending you best wishes, B

[@hermosabeach7869]

Just what I needed to hear thank you and bless you 😊

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're welcome!

[@Welcometomychannel10172]

Thank u so much for the video,💕💕it helped

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You’re welcome 😊

[@cutechiangels]

Nice mantra! Thx! Easier than my prayers during conflict. Or one can combine the two if enough energy and grounding!

[@Bernadette_Logue]

Indeed! :)

[@tinytaughtyou]

Positive vibes💕 May the highest good be done for all x

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@carlosbarbon3855]

Thank you, your videos are really helping me.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're welcome!

[@PNWblessedandbeyond]

Thanks B ❤. I so love your stuff. It's been life changing for me. Everyday I'm more excited to see what life has in store for me. I recently discovered that I am a ruling #11 wich really helped me understand alot of things about myself. 2017 has been an amazing year of growth for me on many levels. Thanks for the inspiration. Much love ❤

[@Bernadette_Logue]

Awesome!!

[@Ankita_India]

I used to do this as a child. Then I became self-centred, and in doing so became self-sabotaging. Thank you so much for reminding how important it is to want the highest good for all. It used to really soothe me. Hoping for the same feeling. May the highest good be done for all.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

💛🧡💛 thanks for your message Ankita. Wishing you peace and flow this year. B

[@nicolemcnamara685]

I just found your channel & think your truely amazing ! Thank you !!!

[@Bernadette_Logue]

Welcome to the community Nicole! Glad to have you with us, and thanks for your positive message! B :)

[@irmasalcedo4447]

Thank you for your energy. You are a true Blessing. ❤

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're so welcome Irma! ❤️ B

[@MKF30]

Nice tips, I have anxiety so this helps lol love your accent too :)

[@Bernadette_Logue]

Glad it was useful!

[@kalyang8507]

Just now recieved your mail.Thanks for that mail.And now I saw this video.Oh my god..I am surprised because solution was already here.And it's perfect to my current scenario.I already did the first two tips unknowingly..but I am still stuck in pain and distress.Them the third Timor mantra.I am gonna try this." May the highest good happen to all the souls connected to this" let me see what happens.waiting for miracle.I know that my brain is small compared universe.So let the universe what's best for me and give me the best and all other people..especially to you..( may be triple goodness😊😊).Thank you

[@piscesrastakween]

this is so awesome. great vid!

[@Bernadette_Logue]

:) Glad you enjoyed it!

[@happygolucky9004]

Maybe "go with the flow" means something different in the US. Because here having any kind of intention is the opposite. It's for those who want to have no goal and just float around and "see what happens."

[@Bernadette_Logue]

Oh yes, different cultures and countries interpret differently. Well spotted! 😊 We can have intention and be goal/action oriented while also being flowing and detached in the sense of not gripping on or forcing etc.

[@kerrypattison-christie1166]

How powerful watching you and your video this morning! I have the age old problem of an otherwise wonderful daughter and son leaves far too much housework for me. It has caused much tension. I resonated with he fact that I have fair ways of controlling things and that they would probably be up for it! I had given up and am so tired with two jobs to do and they are off from college and furlowed. Thankyou so much for the mantra. I feel far more positive about the day ahead 🙏😊✨😌. Bless you for taking time in your life to truly help others ✌️🌈🌸🐾😺

[@Bernadette_Logue]

💛 glad this was helpful! Love to you all. B

[@sarahpalmer8048]

Love this and all of your blessings. Thank you. ❤️💖💕

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're welcome Sarah! B

[@grapenutz1137]

Thanks for that video.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're welcome 💫

[@Looloowa74]

Thank you for this. In my religion we ask god for “the best possible outcome of good” but I like the part” for all” and I will add it to my prayer of” may god bring the best possible outcome for all” thank you I like the fact that I am moving away from a general encompassing to a broader more specific encompassing of everyone.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

Beautiful!

[@anthonyscott16]

I found this lesson to be really helpful. Thank you for taking the time to create it.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're welcome. So glad it was helpful 👍😊 B

[@supergurl24]

This is so fabulous! Thank you for this!

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're very welcome! Thanks for being a part of our community. Warmest wishes, B

[@LL-iw7kb]

I love your videos! Thank you for this great mantra!!

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're welcome! Have a beautiful weekend 💛😊

[@christinamccarty7225]

I have constant roadblocks thrown in my path since I retired. I need to let go of trying to control my outcomes and just accept life as it comes.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@gisellecuesta5620]

You just summed up my life. Thank you

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@Ak-gr3pu]

In this situation may the highest good be done for all😇.... Great video😊

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@kellynielsen3752]

Namaste...

[@Bernadette_Logue]

:) Blessings to you!

[@evolve101]

I really like your insight. And you are a beautiful woman also. Cool. I will check out more on your channel. ;) (I like how you talk about compassion, and allot of things in other videos. Self help videos on youtube is nice.) It's good with advice on topics like this and many more, and i need to evolve in many aspects, but it can take as long as it have to. Keep it up! ;) Peace out

[@Bernadette_Logue]

:) Thanks!

[@-0marty0-]

You just made my day ❤️❤️

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@debrachapman1369]

Thank you, that made me lose my worried way instantly.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@surrenderinfaith]

wonderful! thank you 👏

[@Bernadette_Logue]

You're welcome Kerry 😊

[@nicholasjames1101]

Well said, and helpful advice. I'm waiting on an outcome in which I gave everything. Now just waiting on the outcome, which is now, not mine too make.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

😊🌻wishing you the best!

[@wiisalute]

This took me a while to figure out. So basically we cant control outcomes? I mean a lot of people have told me "let things happen naturally, don't expect anything. What's meant to be will be etc ". I like to go out a lot and whenever I see a girl I wish I could speak up. My biggest issue is fear and anxiety or worrying about what others think.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

Hi, sorry for the delay in replying to you. We can absolutely control our own "experience of life" being how we choose to perceive, interpret and respond to life, and we can influence life and situations with our energy, though we also appreciate that life itself can be unpredictable and yes there are so many things we can't control about life, situations and other people. You mentioned having struggles with fear and anxiety and worrying about what others think. I have videos on these topics on my channel in case that helps, steps for dealing with worry, a class on overcoming fear, how to deal with feeling judged, not caring what others think and more. Please feel free to check out the playlists and videos for other tips and support. Warmest wishes, B

[@wiisalute]

@@Bernadette_Logue thank you. Btw I love your accent. Is that Irish or Scottish?

[@Bernadette_Logue]

New Zealand 😊👍

[@wiisalute]

@@Bernadette_Logue nice . Do you think you could recommend a good video on anxiety and fear from your playlist? one that stands out the most?

[@Bernadette_Logue]

Try this one 😊👍 A Practical Tip for Dealing With Anxiety and Fear bit.ly/2wAc8BM

[@timmydwopwopdoo]

I use my time in the car, driving to work to pray (aloud) and I will try this mantra. I have found the spoken word to be very powerful but sometimes the words I say, when they come to pass, backfire because I made an assumption about the highest good and was wrong. This mantra sounds like a no fail. I'll let you know my results.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

👍 wishing you the best and agreed... the spoken word is powerful 💚

[@jonhope7433]

Steep one

[@djames5137]

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[@Bernadette_Logue]

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[@carliecowley7251]

Your content is amazing! I think a better quality of your microphone would step make it more enjoyable to listen though! Keep up the good work!

[@lastboyonearth1897]

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[@prayasshah8094]

Hi Be I have been watching your videos since last few months now and I got no words to describe how incredible your videos has made my life and the situations has turned over, I started the real process following you by the one the bested video of you about how, when and why to forgive people and I started doing that and it gave me such peace and after that I become your huge fan, you are very beautiful soul I must tell you that, thank you so so much for all your videos they are incredibly le fantastic, and you know that via you I got to know my highest being, you have changed my whole life, I have exeperinced so many times when I get any difficulty in my life I just scroll the KZbin videos in my mobile and you come with that solution and There are days where I just blindly follow your instructions and bang on I get what I want or I get the solution of my problem, you are truly my gift from the universe, thank you is not enough, god bless you Be and I love you by heart....😊😊❤️❤️

[@Bernadette_Logue]

My heart is happy to hear how the resources have helped you. And it's so wonderful you have actively applied the tips to create outcomes for yourself. Beautiful! Thank you for being in our community. Much love to you!! B 💖

[@remyjigs]

Hello B, Great video. This hits where I'm going through life right now. I have a lot going on and I don't know where do begin or start. Can you provide me the 3 steps that you mentioned in the video in written form? Thanks much love.

[@Bernadette_Logue]

Hi Matt, so glad this resonated. 🤗💛 I don't have this vid in written transcript to give you but you could pause at each point to make notes and reflect on your insights. Journaling that way is a super helpful for applying the tips to your own experience. Sending warmest wishes, B

[@deborahcollard4560]

Its a worthy thought well expressed but bullies always win! One persons highest good may put another person through hell. I have seen it many times. How do you account for this?

[@misslaurap]

I’m hurting cos I’m holding on hoping for a solution that will make me happy when the reality is I know it won’t go that way ! It’s mad cos my awareness Is high but I want to find a answer

[@Bernadette_Logue]

I send love your way, that whatever the situation is your path will be lit up with clarity and peace.

[@misslaurap]

Can’t see it happening but thanks mate

[@blueisnotgreen7258]

its a good mantra. its like instant faith which takes the pressure off. i just hate getting on this track the universe wants me to be on. i dont like tracks. i want to want to ...kind of. but hot diggity damn why does my train car have so many windows if im not supposed to go off the track???

[@theMusicFairy1]

What's the difference between going with the flow and authenticity? because I'm in a situation where I want to speak my mind but fear absorbing others' negative energy when they react badly to my authenticity :(

[@Bernadette_Logue]

I understand what you mean. Detaching and going with the flow can also be combined with authentically communicating. Yes others may react negatively, but think about what you need to say and why you need to say it. We don't speak up to get agreement as much as we speak up for our own honest self expression and to influence positively moving forward. If you have a lot of fear about reactions, weigh up whether it's worth it, necessary etc cost benefit 😊

[@margarita5113]

Only dead fishes go with the flow. How do u explain that?

[@1luv4j]

The opposite of Love is control. The opposite of like is hate don't get the two confused.

[@Rossco603]

its hard for me to understand because i can control my emotions i dont let them take over my life. i need to understand what makes people not able to control their emotions, and make changes to fix them. Not just go with the flow. That's giving up on who you are!

[@blueisnotgreen7258]

so the universe feels you giving it the keys and gives you what you want. so the universe has ego? thats scary af

[@isabelaabadia5383]

I don't know exactly what you mean by saying that the universe has an ego, but it seems to me that you disagree with what is said in the video. Quite a surprise actually, since almost everybody seems to buy this BS.

[@MrsYolandicook]

This made me feel worse for some reason. 😂

[@Bernadette_Logue]

🤣 it's good to honor your feelings, keep it real! 💛

[@MrsYolandicook]

@@Bernadette_Logue I think it is also important to mention I am always extremely open with anyone I encounter... Whether friendship, business or romantic interest. I do not hide who I am and am very upfront with I will always share what I am thinking and feeling and I hope they feel comfortable to do the same. They are always so taken aback and grateful and think I am wonderful and then very often this happens.