A video to watch if she just broke up with you

[@JessicaOS]

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[@NedumCharles]

@@JessicaOS after she asked for a break. I didn’t beg or try to convince her not. After two weeks she said Good morning and when I didn’t respond back she delete it🤣🤣. And I didn’t ask her why she deleted it. I have been quiet ever since.

[@phrankho]

@@NedumCharlesTop tear steeze. But u should have just responded and ghost again. Like ‘morning’

[@UdotexNicolas]

Is as if all this talks is for me ,I love it .thanks alot,I will give her space

[@madeitthroughentertainment1658]

I almost called her. Thank you Jessica for being with us in these difficult times. Your videos help and I trust your opinions. ZA

[@emmanuelamofo62]

😂😂😂

[@madeitthroughentertainment1658]

@@emmanuelamofo62 😂😂😂I'm serious. I need my stuff from her and she doesn't want to tell me its over so I have to wait on her imagine.

[@JessicaOS]

You are stronger than you think!

[@soulsoothingmusicstudios7690]

These girls re on a rampage 😅😂❤

[@Rough_Coins]

@@soulsoothingmusicstudios7690 Thats why you guys needs to get your game together hahahaha.

[@shawnrigney4354]

Life's too short to waste on someone who's toxic using your energy and time perfecting theirs. Respect and compromise is key...F her if she thinks you an option or back up plan...life goes on let her go you deserve better...

[@johnnywatson2574]

TOOK ME A LONG TIME TO REALIZE THAT SILENCE WAS THE BEST MEDICINE AND NOW THAT'S HOW I HANDLE BREAKUPS BY STAYING QUIET AND MOVING ON

[@jt.8144]

You don't need the internet to tell you that. THATS A CAPABILITY THAT PEOPLE HAVE SINCE THEY WERE CHILDREN. The question today is. Do YOU have the Courage to conduct it.

[@Rough_Coins]

i have been using silence code for ages and it works on anyone.

[@LABRATRE]

@@jt.8144 sometimes hearing it from someone else, reinforces it, and helps a person put the pieces back together. Everybody is different, and there's no one way fits all.

[@Barbassoblues]

She dumped me , she came back ..... And I finally dumped her

[@mykea1028]

😂😂😂

[@victorayodele2577]

😅😅😅

[@emmanuelamofo62]

Bro the same thing happened to me

[@evbuomwanmanasseh8242]

King 😂

[@NurudeenMena]

Smart guy ❤😂

[@baluincome]

You are not lying. I tried to use your method is working 100% for me.

[@JessicaOS]

That’s amazing, keep going!

[@obedquaique8166]

Please are u sure

[@aurangzebzeb7259]

How???

[@JasonAdams-m6i]

Letting her go was the best thing that happened to me.

[@vvoof2601]

Always is.

[@milochamp1586]

Guys. If you're new to breakups. Here is the truth. Exes always come back . if you just do the 3 things below. I had 3 exes and they all came back even after years apart. 1. Never contact her unless its related to kids or business. 2.Every time you are face to face with her - don't be moody or argue with her. Have fun. 3. Never talk about getting back together as she brings it up and you have the freedom to say no or yes.

[@Philipp_Gonzales]

I like your statement. Unfortunately for me, exes never came back and my only few relationships lastet for many years. Now this could be a good or a bad thing. I´m not sure. Sometimes i wished they came back and sometimes i don´t.

[@dewbzki]

Maan. My ex took 3 months to decide if she wanted to break up or not. Decided the week before our lease was up that she wanted to break up because she needs to work on herself, with the intent of getting back together. This was 3 weeks ago. Then 2 days ago she says she wants to do no contact because her therapist said it'd be best. She messed me up by dangling that "with the intent to get back together" bs because I would've just walked after someone took 3 months to tell me if they wanted me or not. Thank you for this video. This is the 3rd week of the break up. She looks at all my stories on IG for some reason so I'm just going to go ghost and then pop out when I'm healed. Thank you for the advice, I wish you well, and you have a new subscriber.

[@da_youngest11]

This is so true, I keep calling her, asking how she is doing, but all I see is her pulling away every time I come closer.

[@jbtettey14]

If only words can work magic in our life, I will start singing and dancing over here. But believe me, it is not easy at all. January is around the corner and it's gonna be a year when it has hit me and I have spent the whole year "torturing" myself. It's hard but let me start again after watching this video

[@HydrateLdn]

Everyone who has walked out and folded, has no access back into my life. Im not waiting on anyone. I've been transforming ever since.

[@milochamp1586]

That sounds weak and hateful. It looks like you are hurt by her leaving you. You don;t have to take her back. But never be but hurt. .

[@ErnestGori]

@milochamp1586 you're actually the one that sounds weak with scarcity mindset. Try what he said and you'll see change in every aspect of your life.

[@ArthurDent-q9o]

When she breaks up NEVER take her back!

[@Rough_Coins]

@@ErnestGori he's weak and i can sense that hahahah.

[@ralph4370]

@@milochamp1586 You got it backwards. If the other person chose to leave. Which they are free to do so. As much as we may not like their choice, we respect it. The ole saying goes "Careful what you wish for" and we keep it moving. One and done. If someone who says they "cared" or proclaimed they "loved" you found it easy to walk away. What stops them from doing it again? People who love ya, don't leave ya.

[@ibrahimyimba3754]

Jess u are the best love teacher, u deserve an award

[@robertkasten1893]

Got tired of being the one to reach out 90% of the time . After pointing this out to her on a few occasions . She referred to this as arguing and trying to shift blame . Had enough of this and her S***! 2 weeks into the No contact rule . Not really expecting her to reach out . But great video and I’m on my to way to bigger and better things ! A new year is right around the corner !!

[@orshimatar4707]

My growth is just listening to you walk me through life and self love

[@FlawedmanServingajustGod]

She didn't leave she just wasn't valuing me, so I ghosted her. She's not my girl we were kicking it for awhile. I'm to valuable to feel the way she made me feel, and I warned her.

[@TonioWalker-l3t]

@@FlawedmanServingajustGod same exact thing going on with me

[@KamogeloJones]

She broke up with me 3 days ago because she said I was controlling and have trust issues. It was a long distance relationship. When we weren't talking, I saw her online most of the time and when we were talking, I asked her about it and she asked me why. I let her knew that I was just trying to care and I was curious. When we were talking too, she said she was busy for the first day and I understood that but she told me that she was busy again at the second day. I asked her what was she busy with because we talk less. She didn't want to let me know what she was busy with. I think she was hiding something from me. Like being busy while we talk less two times in a row? I'll just be working on myself right now. Thanks a lot for your video. It makes it more simple to move on from a break up

[@Lezy369]

You talked to me directly. This is encouraging and means a lot to me. I am currently doing all you said in this video, this tells me that am doing the right thing since 6 months ago. Thank you Jessica.

[@JessicaOS]

You got this!

[@stanmoney8470]

I argued with her alot right after the divorce.For the last few months I haven't argued with her , barely talk to her now. I just been doing me lately. . I think she's been involved with another guy before the divorce. So I don't think she will come back, but I don't even think we should be together now. . I truly loved her. But I realized my love for her wasn't reciprocated. So regardless how much I loved her, if she doesn't feel the same , I don't need to be with her. Women often run back when they realize the guy they left you for doesn't want them. I don't want a woman like that, I deserve better than that!

[@430CAL]

@@stanmoney8470 God finna bless you. He’s going to bring someone in your life who will make you forget her. Be cautious before you fall for her though

[@stanmoney8470]

Its been almost two yrs, and im still not over my ex 100% . I lived with this women for almost 7rs. Never thought we'd get a divorce. We both made mistakes. She just holds me accountable for hers and mines. One day at a time , i,ll one day be 100% over her🙏🏿.

[@opwonyahaggardayita8798]

U need about 7 years to forget someone, research says.

[@iGuyaneseGamer]

2019 i broke up with my ex, or she broke up with me for something stupid. Long story short, let’s just say i’m speaking to her again because of her lol the video speaks truth. I was 29 in 2009 and wasn’t in the best shape, and i lost my job at that time. Now 34 i have a great job, and in a way better shape than before and i look so much younger than 29, some people think i’m around 24 years old. I’ve learned new skills and became more happy. Because of this, i’ve so much options with women, to the point my ex caved in. But she doesn’t know i have a great sense of self awareness as well as human awareness. I let her know about the person she’s speaking to now, and i’m not just anyone you can talk to. It was if a Lion took over my soul. That masculine energy is real.💯 Silence is truly the best weapon for everything trust me. You’ll learn so much and also have huge self motivation to do things on your own. I’m still trying to be the best me because know i’m not done yet.

[@DannyKyriacou]

@@iGuyaneseGamer inspirational mate. What new skills did you learn?

[@MegaMovieGalaxy]

@@iGuyaneseGamer the math is not adding up

[@SharonVillareal-t8j]

It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.

[@SharonVillareal-t8j]

I promise you will not regret it.

[@genieten3568]

She said she lost feelings and don't feel the same way We both just got into collage and are in long distance

[@welcometothewarreport]

Nah man f her and everything about her. Congrats to you and your husband tho.

[@OPPU73NT]

@@welcometothewarreport I hope it gets better. You deserve better.

[@OPPU73NT]

@@genieten3568Hopefully you find better. She chose to throw it away.

[@6548ww]

I don’t want her back she best leave me alone the roller coaster 🎢 of mind games have come to an end

[@hieuco6687]

It’s surprising how people are only scratching the surface and don’t take the time to read Flirtosphere Seduction. Go out of the rabbit hole guys

[@donald7188]

Tell me more about the book what is that

[@georgemensah8774]

Wow! I really needed this, and it’s just here at the right time. Jessica, I’m gonna keep sharing your channel and also the link to this video until we get a Mill views. 13:17 “Because at the end of the day, this isn’t getting her back, it’s about getting yourself back”✌🏼

[@JessicaOS]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@ThapelooMaleane]

To take the break in relationships it doesn't mean it's over but it's means to rebuild you are relationships and correct their mistakes to both side not to add more mistakes.

[@PhilippN-st7ld]

Please keep doing what you are doing. You are helping thousands of thousands of guys, including myself, every day. Thank you Jessica.

[@JessicaOS]

you're most welcome

[@vvoof2601]

How weak minded are you that you needed this video?

[@Yemicrown001]

I really like this chapter, it's helping handle my current situation, I feel free and strong. I love her enough to let go.

[@vanlabban3622]

Jessica this video has got a full semester notes, I'll play it on a daily basis

[@JessicaOS]

😅😅 happy learning

[@AmitAgarwalCricket]

you r a master , relationship master , i have a breakoff right now , had a breakoff 3 years ago also. i have gone through all , seems a cycle is repeating.

[@tobiadeniji1143]

My past relationships have reshaped my present mindset. My dreams & goals remain paramount irrespective of who I'm dating.

[@doctorfritznoel]

Hi, I like your advice because it's kind to both sides, realizing we are both humans learning to live peacefully in this world.

[@vanlabban3622]

What shall I ever pay you Jessica you got me where I'm now. Be blessed

[@MessagesFromJames]

It’s wild how much you can do for a woman. And just be discarded. Once she leaves she’s never coming back in.

[@cfletch3173]

Im goin thru it now..stay strong brother 🙏

[@burncycle4621]

Thank you. You broke it down and truly helped in a way no other videos have.

[@NazBmusic]

Always on point ❤

[@JessicaOS]

I appreciate that!

[@MbusoVilakazi]

😮the timing of this video, she broke up with me and immediately started sending me texts to fetch the phone and clothes i bought her.

[@N1Z3L]

She literally broke up with me yesterday

[@nicholasbuyoya4290]

Ignore let her keep them they were of no significance that will kill her it doesn’t define you

[@fitforlifepft1]

Jess, This is on Point! The building Process for a Man is created by Pain, and often times, it is the BREAK UP from a WOMEN HE LOVES…. Move ON!!!

[@CLIMAXMC-dz6ij]

Thank you Jessica....am almost there

[@kennethmarete5329]

I have been following you, Jessica, for the past two years, and I greatly appreciate the authenticity and clarity of your content. Your insights are incredibly direct and impactful, and I believe your deep understanding is either the result of a Master's in Psychology or reflects an extraordinary level of intelligence. Thank you for inspiring and bringing so much meaning to many of us.

[@JessicaOS]

You are so welcome!

[@Digitzz-247]

Thanks for this message,I broke up with her when I realized she would never change,she lies,disrespects me,she is unapologitic even when she is wrong,She never appreciates me when I do something for her.Right now I just want to focus on my life, even though I love her ,but I have blocked on all platforms and I am willing to move on.

[@opwonyahaggardayita8798]

@@Digitzz-247 same thing

[@obedquaique8166]

But will it work

[@hardatthanoman2867]

I understand the things you went through as I am going through them now

[@fruitsap8325]

My sister you are a blessing to all confused straight men in the world ❤😂

[@WilMa-uf7nd]

Jessica your videos are always the best on matters relationship.

[@JessicaOS]

Glad you think so!

[@mch7933]

What makes this hard is that you know she would never have you back if you get over her. Usually they want to come back when you are over them, but its too late

[@Skooter88]

I’m afraid that might be my case

[@HANZELVANDERLAAY]

God .I luv my dog 🎉🎉

[@SecretMarsupial]

@@Skooter88 Was the case for the few i truly cared about and wanted a future with.

[@obriencaldwell]

Preach !

[@letskeeprobotsbusy5593]

this is by far the best video on a breakup

[@KennethMbaya-y7b]

Hi Jessica, You have just said all the things I wanted to hear. Thank you, I GOT THIS.

[@diphapangmotholo2455]

My sister thank you i really needed to hear this

[@CC-mj3zq]

Games!! Who has time for it, if ppl can't be straight with each other it's too much wasted time.

[@RaymondMakhafola-gi6qc]

❤️ Thanks J, I still got game. You confirming Some of the things I been doing and my evolution

[@Spark-uv3zv]

I needed to hear this. I have this saved so I can come back to it as a reminder.

[@drehughes358]

Thank you, Jessica. You are helping me because I'm experiencing everything you're talking about

[@kayimarichard2154]

JESSICA Os YOU ARE EXTREMELY INTELLIGENT... and THANK YOU

[@amerikayollar9592]

You are the best I discovered you and I watched your 6-7 videos. I’ll also continue to watch. Also English is my second language. Your speaking is so clear and listening to you helping me to improve my English 😊

[@JessicaOS]

Amazing, keep practicing! 🎧

[@Be_D_1rst_2_Know]

Oh wow, you’re the best at this. Keep on doing what you’re doing cuz you’re good at it. I love you ❤

[@JessicaOS]

Thank you, that means a lot!

[@ogunrindevictor674]

I'm in d middle of a break up and ds is gonna help. Thank you Jessica

[@marcuselliottsr]

Best video out there on dealing with my breakup situation

[@Ahmaak]

Praise God I found this video. Thank you for the reaffirming message.

[@JessicaOS]

Glad it was helpful!

[@G4BR0_TV]

Let the weak go, giving up is always the shortest and easiest path... 🤙

[@wojiboji]

Well articulated 👏👏👏👏

[@captainkeyboard1007]

You would make a unique online psychiatrist of your really-blessed self. A breakup in a courtship seems like a job termination to pursue a better job.

[@marguskiis7711]

My 47 yo gf dumped me out of the blue 6 months ago. We did not have any problems between us. After that I acted exactly like suggested in the video. I stayed calm, went no contact. I became better, developed myself. Did she start miss me? Of course NOT. She found another man soon and sent me some messages how much better is the new man than me.

[@Larry_300]

@@marguskiis7711exactly why you should also move on You shouldn't expect her to come back ... that's how you know you've truly healed

[@ontisitsemanyeneng3154]

LMAO

[@raulvalderramadelacruz7009]

Yup....

[@welcometothewarreport]

@@marguskiis7711 Ayo I just died laughing at this lol sorry bro but this was funny cuz it’s the actual truth and usually how things pls out. Like, that’s life. The more we come to grips that life isn’t fair and karma isn’t some magical energy that comes back and serves justice the better off we’ll be. As my father used to say "You just gotta bite the bullet, son."

[@Trapicidal]

@@marguskiis7711 its because she cares if she never cared she would never have sent it

[@gigi_push6884]

You really good!! You give so many advices for free here when their are apps that charge lots of money for what you saying in your videos. Very nice! Thanks a lot . It really helps me after I've been out a relationship that last 21 years.

[@Habeeb6106]

Revandles forbidden books (thank me later)

[@gamemixerslol344]

Queen Jessica in her element ✨️

[@lindabrown1158]

Jessica this is one of your best videos ever.

[@Navigator55.]

Im a older gentleman and I've made some of those mistakes she's talking about. These videos has given me new strength that has allowed me to move on with my life in 2025. Amen 😊❤

[@khalisz]

Thank you so much for this awesome video. It helps a lot, it's therapeutic and so powerful. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@JessicaOS]

You're so welcome!

[@romankhan9120]

The one thing many ppl dont talking on social media on videos like this that, if you give space her or dont contact her for a while its which a good thing for a man, but but many ppl dont talk about she will in between find another options and will maybe flirt with another guy till she find out why her ex dont text her.. So nobody talks about what she will do in between 30 days or one week, if she trully not happy or begins to pull away for a while it can be also that broken girls can chating with other guys if she feels allone.. Thats what nobody talks how to react to that situation if you dont know what she is doing all this days !

[@viper44241]

Amazing! Very very thoughtfully truth ! Every second of video well worth watching and listening to over and over again. Can’t believe you gave so much out for free. Thanks, you rescued a soul .

[@JessicaOS]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@backshots07]

i fucking love jessica she just helps through everything in my eyes…

[@michaeljewell53]

Bless you Jessie,you always get me back up off the floor when life has delt me a cruel hand,this vid is one to keep💯x

[@mondaybakare9454]

this come at the right time

[@dancingwithfatherhood5043]

Great video. I really need to hear this. Very encouraging.

[@JessicaOS]

You got this!

[@vvoof2601]

Screw that, if she leaves you/ you leave her it's over. Move on, grow up, better yourself, find someone or something else. Getting back together is repulsive.

[@ShamimAbdu-ly1li]

Thnx so much this has helped me on wat to do, he broke up with me and he's jst posting himself having fun while me here dwelling in pains😢

[@leovilla5067]

Thanks for this dear,understanding it now.Silence is the best

[@JessicaOS]

I’m glad it helped. 😊

[@LuthuliBusisiwr]

Helpful information as I'm trying to pass the stage of breakup

[@mmarkotan]

I´ve seen quite a few of these videos recently, but somehow I like this one the best.

[@JessicaOS]

Glad to hear that!

[@noahkali]

Your advice are really great, perhaps watching your videos is kind of meditation to me. I can relate much how she dumped me for I don’t know the reason.

[@JessicaOS]

I’m glad the videos are bringing you some peace.

[@amosndinyo5621]

Jessica, you're on point.. 🫂

[@jubrilellams7318]

My ever radiant Love Coach ...

[@kwb3612]

I believe walking away and going no contact is the best way to address a breakup as well.

[@MrRawraw3]

Everyday the girl would talk about her past with other dudes. I couldn’t wait to stop dealing with her

[@Pinny107]

Your video has really brought me courage, just what I need to move on with my life

[@macaryobalagbag8262]

You make me calm.

[@Sefko1995]

Thank you Jessica 🙏

[@shawnwallace979]

Love the video..... going thru this now with my ex virgo GF

[@JermaineWright-z3c]

Jessica you are a great help

[@busimanofficial]

Jessica, you are phenomenal ❤🎉

[@drehughes358]

Jessica, I have a hard time saying no. Help me to be able to say no to the things I've always said yes to and be confident

[@giovannimensah8786]

Jessica is always on point, well said dear.

[@JessicaOS]

Thank you so much!

[@aniebochibuzo4196]

Thank you immensely for all you do.🎉

[@beebeesfuntasticadventures6110]

As a Ghanaian female, I am hoping that men will digest all this information. It's that good.

[@JessicaOS]

I hope so too! and thank you!

[@fonsecamango5590]

I actually love the way you communicate!

[@JessicaOS]

Thank you kindly

[@pietytv6299]

It seemed like Jessica know what exactly is going on in my life right now

[@bigdeal.9507]

The best thing is take stock of yourself......Improve on your looks and finance.....Distance yourself from her and those in her circle.

[@ekowcharis2465]

Jessica! You're the best!!

[@TheLastSamurai813]

My ex broke up with me in July after 3 half years together. I really can't blame her she held on for longer than she should have because of my depression took over and i pushed everyone including her away while i was suffering. Oddly enough when she ended it a spark went off in my mind and i got my shit together however she went on a month later and met her rebound. the guy is 44 and she is 31 they've been together for 5 months and she said they have been house shopping.. its killing me inside knowing what went wrong with the relationship and how easily it could have been fixed. I wish she stuck around, I was planning on marrying her when i got mentally healthy again.

[@garykuech50]

Smart and well organized.. Good work..

[@JessicaOS]

I appreciate that!

[@yandisperez7356]

What do I need? I never asked myself that question.I was to worried about her needs and making sure she was good and happy.