Abandoned mansions of Kharian in Pakistan: In every dream home, a heartache - BBCURDU

پاکستان کے صوبہ پنجاب کے ایک چھوٹے شہر کھاریاں کی ایک بڑی نشانی وہ بڑی بڑی کوٹھیاں اور حویلیاں ہیں جن میں سے اکثر پر زیادہ تالے لگے رہتے ہیں۔ یہ کہانی ہے کھاریاں سے ناروے ہجرت کی۔ ملیے تین ایسے خاندانوں سے جن کی زندگی ان دو ملکوں میں بٹ گئی
This is the story of three mansions and three families whose lives are divided between Norway and Pakistan. Why were these mansions built and where did the dream go wrong? Thousands of such mansions with many of them locked dot the landscape in the small town of Kharian
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[@musharafali1386]

انسان دنیامیں جہاں مرضی مقیم رہے .اس میں کوئی برائی نہی .بس اللہ اوررسول کی یاد کو دل میں تازہ رکھے

[@mikaelabbasi2942]

Good

[@bilal.amjad232]

A good comment.

[@ahmads5889]

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته Kyun bura nahi hai? Ek jagah pe Allah Ta'aala aur Uske Rasool Sallahu Alaihi wa Sallam ka mazaq uraaya jata hai, Ahkaam pemaal kiye jaatein hain, aur ham wahan pe khushi khushi rahein. Woh Allah Ta'ala aur Rasool Sallahu Alaihi wa Sallam ka kaise zikr hai jismein unke Deen ka mazaq uraaya jai, aisi jagah pe raha jai

[@peasentofallahalmighty582]

GOOD

[@walidad1433]

بے شک

[@muhammadshoaib7671]

الحمد للّٰہ ہم پاکستان میں ہی خوشحال ہے پاکستان زندہ باد

[@Gujjark]

As long as u got income over there bro

[@benchmach2477]

Please use your brain more effectively to get good income in Pakistan itself

[@vempiremughal6040]

Bro income is not metter if you happy....الحمداللہ تھوڑی آمدنی کے ساتھ بھی ہم خوشحال ہیں۔انسان کی فطرت ہے کے وہ جتنا بھی دنیا کا مال اکھٹا کرلے وہ کبھی بھی شکر ادا نہیں کرتا۔

[@pearlpearlish9266]

me from kharian

[@raziamehmood6451]

Lucky u are

[@murtazashibli4394]

You've captured the stories of pain, eviction, migration, nostalgia and momentos of loss in such a terrific film. It captured my heart.

[@naeemhussain8377]

A lot of wealth they could not even think of in Pakistan

[@tahirsadiq7600]

It's their heart fealing

[@e_ntertainmentf_un4803]

Same feelings

[@user-pt4jx5rp9y]

☹️مکان کچے تھے______لوگ سچے تھے

[@islamandmuslims5306]

😂

[@MrPatriot]

قسم ہے زمانے کی، کہ انسان خسارے میں ہیں. مگر وہ لوگ نہیں جو ایمان لائے، جو نیک عمل کرتے ہیں، جو حق بات کی وصیت کرتے ہیں، اور جو صبر کی وصیت کرتے ہیں. ( العصر 103 )

[@mohsinthegame2009]

Sherry ab wuuuu

[@mohammadtariqueanwar3360]

Be Shak

[@zo9781]

Anyone else noticed the sadness and lifelessness in these houses. 🤔

[@imfine1831]

yes i did

[@artzarena8723]

Yeh definitely noticed

[@javeriarashid7228]

Bilkul

[@MuhammadQasimswati8857]

Yes you told true but belong from poor family its also sad

[@wiselord469]

Baegrat aulad hai Bhai is liyea full of sadness

[@aaabirgade7443]

یہ ہی حال کشمیر، فیصل آباد اور دوسرے علاقوں میں ھے 😭😭😭😭😭 کاش انڈسٹری لگای ھوتی تو لوگوں کو روزگار ملتا۔

[@justme0786]

اب لوگ یہی سوچیں لگا رہے ہیں۔ کوٹھیوں والا دور پرانے لوگ ہیں

[@faizaimrannaveed9164]

Bhi faisalabad mn choti bari bhot indystriyan kaam krny wala bnda bhoka ni rah skta fasialabad mn sukar ha allah pak ka

[@TheGoat_LionelMessi]

yhi scene ha inky rony bhi khatam nhi hoty or Pakistan k liy krty bhhi kuch nae huh

[@artbykhurram]

I am living in Pakistan and feel Proud ... I setup my own shop in 1999 now i have 10 employees. Just enjoying life

[@kamranhashmi1575]

Very happy for you,I am born in UK,I am 51 I whant settle in Pakistan,please give me an idea what work or business is good ,thanks

[@usmanrafiq7080]

@@kamranhashmi1575 realy ?

[@saminbinnazim]

​@@kamranhashmi1575 i recommend you do research, there are many businesses markets in Pakistan and there are opportunities for new business markets too.

[@Adeeba-Aizaz]

​@@kamranhashmi1575People in pakistan are today running clothes and food business and its worthy business in Pakistan than any other

[@golgappevala]

@@kamranhashmi1575 If you are born in the UK and have British citizenship do not give that up and move to Pakistan. It is very difficult to move to Pakistan and build something from the ground up unless you have connections, millions of Pakistanis immigrate to Britain for a better life anyways, why give that up?

[@HafizImranSarwarOfficial]

اے ایمان والو! اللّٰہ تعالیٰ ضرور آزمائیں گے بھوک اور ڈر سے ہمیشہ صبر کریں کیونکہ اللّٰہ تعالیٰ صابروں کے ساتھ ہے

[@stunningsalman]

یہ دیکھ کر دل اتنا دکھی ہوا کے بتا نہیں سکتا اللّٰہ کا لاکھ لاکھ شکر ہے کے میں نے صحیح وقت پر صحیح فیصلہ کیا اور باہر سے واپس آ گیا

[@justme0786]

کب اور کہاں سے آئیے

[@zoyaali9545]

Mubarak ♥️

[@shahzadawan2349]

Acha kiya aap ne zindagi buhat hy apno mn rehna chahiy

[@umairashraf3847]

ab khacchar khwar horahe hongey

[@blueberry4397]

😢😢😢 nh chorh skty ab kesy Wapus jayn 😢😢😢

[@truthspeaker1477]

The thing i notice is that....these are the sadest people in their souls....and missing their loved ones badly

[@sajadamin22]

I’m 50 and already 19 years out of my home. Feels we need another life to understand this life.

[@minalhomechannel7620]

Plz aap log mare Channel ke bi supports Karen meri bhi help karo Mujhe support ki bohat zayada zaroorat ha plz 🙏🙏🙏😥😥😥😥🙏🙏🙏🙏😥😥

[@footballsoccerlovers6518]

After watching this documentary... The biggest goal of my life is to serve humanity...not to serve a family . Who left you alone when you need them... !! Serving humanity is better then just living for your self and family...!! Khidmat_e_khalq say khuda milta hai... !!!! Never complain about your country...!! We must make this country able to live and proud... !!

[@nimraarooj9868]

Hm system sy nahi lar sakty app sare Zindagi laga dein aik do bandon ki soch sy Pakistan nahi badal sakta Imran Khan ka he Hal dekh lo jab tak minority Mei yah jazba nahi hona tab tak Pakistan mei 1 percent bhi change nahi ana

[@rizwanahmad-kc1sk]

اتنے بڑے گھر اور ویران،اس سے بہتر ہے کہ لوگ اپنے علاقے اور لوگوں کی خوشحالی کے لئے بھی کام کریں تاکہ دین ودنیا دونوں اچھی ہو

[@sarahahmed1880]

ایسے لوگ ایک پیسہ نہی دیتے کسی کو

[@SM-tw3oz]

kun ALLAH PAK ny sab logon ko hath paon nhi diye ?? jesey wo log mehnat krty hain baki log bhi kren or wesy bhi abroad rehny walay log sari dunya ko dikha ker k madad ni krty

[@lailahashim715]

Ye lug bhi aisy gharebi se nikal kar apno se dur ketny qurbanya dy hungi banda aik ghar bhi na bany. Koye bhi kisi ko nahi daita Pakistan mai ketny jager dar lug hai. Ye jo ghar ban rahy hai gharo mai lug raky hai ye free mai nahi karty kuch inlugo ke paiso se hi inka chula jalta hai.

[@Healthy-wealthy836]

@@lailahashim715 sooooo true that is .it is not easy to make money for anybody

[@sidstrom6804]

Yeh jo sub ghar walay inhon nay Apni puri puri families ko support kiya hua hai janab. Sara Sara tabar. Ab kiya karain Apna ghar bi Na banain Apna

[@marghoobhaider5014]

کاش ان لوگوں نے اونچی کوٹھیوں کے بدلے مقامی روزگار کے وسائل پیدا کے ہوتے

[@abbassafdar1531]

جی آپ نے سچ کہا ہے لیکن روزگار کے لئے وسائل پیدا کرنے کے لیے صرف پیسہ نہیں ہنر مند افراد کا ہونا ضروری ہے اور پاکستان میں ترقی نہ ہونے کی وجہ یہ ہے کہ حکومتی سطح پر بھی اس کی کوئی کوشش نہیں کی گئی اور لوگوں کا اپنا رجحان بھی نہیں ہے

[@786humaira1]

Even now someone can befriend them . Advise them to live simple life, living in an apartment and either renting those palacial houses and using that money to create some job traning and skills for the orphans. eg sewing or computing or car mechainics . And for the intelligent ones with aspiration to let them get college books or fees, if they are sincere and willing to work hard. Got to protect their earnings. It is a good feeling to see peace and progress within the community and country. Actually this is the golden period of their lives. Live simple achieve more. Rent or Sell those "Palaceses" while you are alive and put it to good use. These are all very smart and hard working individuals. Who worked and raised their families. And now in the last yr or decades of their lives, they should focus on the community growth with the same RIGOR. This way Allah shall give them long lives.Even when they are gone all the youth that they helped to become independant, will do the same and they will live through them. That is what I am doing right here in US. So I am thinking they could do the same too, if someone advises them correctly. I am not waiting for my children to desend down after my death and spend the money valuing it less. I have helped them get excellant education and are doing great here. Rather I should say they have worked hard and Allah accepted their hard work and they are florishing well, by His grace. All those with the empty palaceses their children seem to be doing well too and that is the reason they do not want to return. I am sure there are orphanages in their areas that they can serve. I serve here at the homeless shelters. I feel immense pleasure out of seeing their smiles after eating a good hot meal. As a matter of fact I have gathered a similar minded group of Indian, Pak, Indonesian and Afghan and we all take turns and serve, I also sponsor the orphans in my home town in India. actually the Pakistanis have a great great role model in Mr Eddhi. ( I hope I am spelling it correctly) It was one man dedicated to help people by ambulance. He gathered a team and did it better than the govt. But those ethics come from the family upbringing. His mother used to pack two roti in his lunch box and say one is for you and one to share. Great lady I would say. May all the Muslim children be blessed with such ETHICS . ameen.

[@marghoobhaider5014]

@@abbassafdar1531 حکومت تو وہ کرتی ہے جو کچھ ہم کروانا چاہتے ہین ۔ہم کب ایماندار لوگوں کو اقتدار مین لاتے ہمیشہ موالی جیت کر آتے ہین اور ہم جن مدون پر ووٹ ڈالتے ہین ان مین معاشرے کی بہبود و فلاح کو شامل ہی نہین ہوتا ہے دگر یہ کہ ہمارے اندر ترقی کے لے درکار چنگاری ہی نہین وہ شعلہ ہی نہین جو ترقی کا اولین محرک ہے

[@abadch8831]

Yar ap log Tu sab asy ider a Kay momin ban rahy Han jasy ap k pas in jasy cror Hun Tu ap insaniyat par kharch Karan gy ap b yahi Karan gy bas vo misal ha na Grapes are sour😂😂😂

[@marghoobhaider5014]

@@abadch8831 ہم نے جو کچھ کہا وہ دل سے کہا ہمدردی اور محبت کی خاطر کہا چونکہ ہم خود بیرون ملک پچھلے دس سالو سے رہتے اور کماتے ہین اسلے ہمین باہر کی کمائ کی خاطر دیگی قربانیوں کا اندازہ ہے بات دل سے جو نکلتی ہے اثر رکھتی ہے پر نہین طاقت پرواز مگر رکھتی ہے

[@mahnoorfatima_2407]

I am from KHARIAN and I can't wait to go my beautiful country 🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰❤

[@khanali887]

Kis village Ki video hai

[@MuhammadYazir]

@@khanali887 damyan

[@MuhammadYazir]

City ?

[@HusnainAli-hf2yn]

Allah hu Akbar

[@khanali-yb1vh]

Hi

[@aanwar3834]

I am from Karachi, and a pure Pakistani Christian and my wife is a Muslim Pakistani highly educated. Currently, I am in Japan last 30 years. I and my Children hold Japanese and Canadian citizenship. I travel almost all over the world. Japan is one of the best countries in the world. After watching this video, I missed badly my country. But I think, it is extremely difficult for me and my family can settle in Pakistan. My wife is a Muslim Pakistani.

[@ramshairshad4142]

As a Pakistani muslim , this country belongs to you as much it belongs to us .Religion comes later but what matters is that you are our Pakistani brother and you deserve equal love and respect as us . Lahore, karachi , islamabad have become very modernised and liberal especially the posh areas like bahria town , DHA , lake city and many other secular residential areas. If you miss your country alot , try settling in Islamabad where the environment and people are liberal and nobody will ever interfere in your personal life . You do not have to live in fear because you have every right to enjoy your life in Pakistan . Do try to visit your beautiful homeland . Love and prayers from Pakistan.

[@mentallytough]

Dear A Anwar How can one reach you or contact u

[@lhrciuaut9]

When a Muslim woman marries a non Muslim she becomes non Muslim.

[@MoliAsif-zy4rm]

Apka context no kya ha veer ji

[@OnDeenObito]

Y mention ur wife is muslim twice, fake comment spottted

[@raiumar70]

So sad stories, parents work so hard to make houses for their children’s. may Allah bless them

[@786fimi]

Are they really making for children of showing off..... People who are born in pk then moved abroad cant even stay in pk more than 2 weeks, how can you expect kids born out of Pakistan to live in pk

[@muhammadshafique313]

😔😔ya Allah hame bhi ghr de chahay jaisa bhi ho 25 saal se hum rent pr hain 🙏🙏

[@ishashahid7976]

Ameen

[@farhansunny5698]

Ameen Allah apko buht pyara ghar day

[@ranaqureshi6115]

Muhammad Shafique aameen

[@afshankhan7058]

Ameen

[@nasiralinasirali9163]

Business chaye chota

[@kamalhasti2052]

لاکھوں لگا کر رہنا نصیب نہیں ان گھروں میں ۔۔۔اللہ پاک ہی ان سخت دلوں کو نرم فرماے

[@naivekhanzada7345]

poor mindset

[@aqsabutt3843]

I belong to Kharian but I was born and raised in Kuwait and I am proud of my Belonging n ethnicity. Alhumdolilah

[@rickstorm8948]

working as servants in Kuwait, better to live in Pakistan in dignity.

[@muhammadfawad5282]

​@@rickstorm8948 yea live like peasants in Pakistan with dignity haha

[@khanali-yb1vh]

Hi

[@ayeshaabbas2122]

​@@rickstorm8948sb servants nai hote Jo log families k sath rehte hn un k apne Business hote hn

[@ShoaibMughal105]

اولاد کے لئے اتنی محنت کرنے والے آج قیدتنہائی میں وقت گزار رہے... اللہ ایسے رزق سے کوسوں دور رکھے جس سے اپنو کی پہچان ختم ہو جائے.. 😐

[@attaullah433]

Hamara mulk bhut peechi reh gaya bhai is liye tu log bahir khush hai

[@61riaz]

بہت کڑوا سچ ھے بھائی 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥

[@lzy8475]

What stupid question you were asking to wali Muhammad in the last , making fun of him👎

[@zahidawan7078]

باکل سچ بات ہے اللہ ہم سب پر رحم کر امین

[@tahiramustahsan8598]

Aameen

[@shaikhmuhammadtarique1273]

غریب علاقوں میں بڑی حویلیاں لوگوں کی زندگی بدلنے پر کوئی توجہ نہیں

[@maproduction2164]

Zindagi har koi apni khud badalta hai bus ye Bare Ghr dekh kr gareeb log khwab dekhna shru krte hain jo khwab 1 na 1 din wo poora krte hai zaroor Allah k hukum se

[@mohammadasifrasool1487]

😂 راتی سویے تے کینیڈا ہویۓ پر سویرے فیر اگے پٹھے ہوندے نے 😜🇵🇰😆 جی اوۓ جوانان

[@rahatanwar3076]

Paisa barbad kia hay fabulous mein

[@afridian345]

گھر چاہے کچا ہو یا پکا، جب تک اس میں بچوں کا شور دادا دادی کے آواز اور ماں باپ کی آ ہٹ نہ ہو تو گھر نہیں جنگل ہوتا ہے ایک اکیلے انسان کے لئے

[@chaudhry6769]

Iqbal b europe reh kr aai the lakin un ne aa kr kya kaha.... خیرہ نہ کر سکا مجھے جلوہ دانش فرنگ سرمہ تھا میری انکھ کا خاک مدینہ و نجف

[@talibraah4753]

(خیرا ) ہیرا نہیں

[@chaudhry6769]

@@talibraah4753 ❤️

[@saaien_]

Wh iqbal tha yh aam mistree mazdoor hain Europe main.

[@italiapakhome3998]

یہی ہماری بیرون ملک بسنے والوں کی زندگی کا خلاصہ ہے۔ زندگی بھر مشقت قربانی اور آخر میں تنہائی اور دنیا سے جانے کا انتظار

[@arsh0603]

ہائے یار آپ نے تو میرے بھاٸ شاہِ رگ پہ جا انگلی رکھی ہے۔

[@PardesiCooking]

It's sad but it's TRUE, I can feel this being pardesi

[@zubairandatif]

@@arsh0603 yeh to har kisi ka hal hai

[@kiranfaisal4270]

100%true hum bhi England main wapis jaane wait kerahain hain

[@mwaseem932]

😂😰

[@AzulaIsTheBest]

I went to Kharian back in 2008 when I was six years old. My aunt’s husband’s family is from Kharian so we were invited to stay there for a while. Both my parents are originally from Islamabad but we live in the Netherlands so it was nice to see East Pakistan for the first time. One of the things I will never forget is how big and beautiful Kharian was. My aunt’s husband made a very big mansion for his kids but the joke is that they live in England and almost never go to Pakistan. I’ve seen this trend with many Pakistani people. They earn money while living in the west but send everything to Pakistan to build big mansions for their children. These people don’t understand that once you migrate to another country with another culture, your kids will never move to Pakistan in the future. There is literally no point in making these big houses.

[@kkartandcraft431]

Absolutely right. It's totally pointless to make such mansions instead they should help the very poor people with this money those people who are living miserable life.

[@wahaajul-haq4207]

Oh ok

[@wahaajul-haq4207]

👍

[@Char444]

Bro it's west Pakistan, east pakistan is Bangladesh

[@AzulaIsTheBest]

@@Char444 I mean the eastern side of Pakistan. East Pakistan doesn’t exist anymore because it’s called Bangladesh now.

[@qaisarkhan7468]

Beautiful picturization and lovely heart touching scenes. The difference of culture, the importance of money, the hard work, the old & new generation and the difference of views on permanent living. The hardships the elders faced for the comfort of their offsprings.

[@naveedahmed7414]

Sajjad sahb aap ko apny maan baap ky lia pakistan mn rukny pr slam hy

[@bushrnoraapi4427]

جب وہ واپس بچوں میں جائے گا تو ۔۔۔ وہ اسے اپنی زندگی میں فٹ نہیں ھونے دیں گے ۔ دھوبی اور گھاٹ۔۔۔ کی مثال اسکے بچے اسکے بغیر رہ رھے ھیں۔ وہ اسے ایڈجسٹ ھونے دیں گے۔۔۔ ادکی بیوی اپنی مرضی سے زندگی گزار رھے ھے کوئی روک ٹوک نہیں جب یہ واپس ھو گا اسکو ایک کھوٹہ سکہ ھونے کا اعزاز ملے گا۔ جھگڑے بڑھکر نوبت طلاق تک چلی جائے تو۔۔۔ یہ سب باھر اھنے والوں کو سزا ھے ۔۔ اپنے بچے پیدائش کے بعد اپنے ملک میں دو چار سال رکھیں انکو اپنا وھی ماحول دیں جو آپکو ملا ھے تب انکی لائف میں جاگ لگے گی۔ تب انہیں بھی اپنا ملک اپنا لگے گا۔

[@KB-kn2cf]

باہر ملکوں میں آکے جتنی ہم لوگوں کو محنت کرنی پڑتی ہے وہ ہم سے مت پوچھ کہ یہ سب محنت سخت محنت کی کمائی سے بنے ہیں

[@mdabedaziz280]

Bilkol bs thik log to bs baty krty hy or chly jaty hy onhy ni pta hm ny apno k bgyr kitna or kesy wakt guzara hy

[@sadirkhan8257]

اسلام علیکم بھائی جان فیکٹریاں لگاؤ کوٹھیاں نہ بناؤ ایک تو پاکستان کو فاہدہ ہو گا لوگوں کو روزگار ملے گا اور کاروبار میں ترقی ہو گئی اور آپ لوگوں کے بچے بھی پاکستان جاہیں گے اور ان کو دلچسپی پیدا ہو گئی کوٹھیاں تو بعد میں بھی بن سکتی ہیں

[@musachannar7429]

میں اس وقت اٹلی میں ہوں میں یہ کہانی دیکھ کر بہت رویا میری بلکل ایسی کہانی کا آغاز چل رہا ہے ۔ کہانی کی آخیر میں بہت درد غمگین ہے ۔

[@khanali-yb1vh]

Hi musa

[@yumyumcooks3416]

Sara pesa Ghar par lganay say bhtar Hy k koi rozgar ho jis say apko bhi fiada ho or gareeb awam ko bhi

[@kami5331]

Love from sargodha

[@blueberry4397]

Bohttt tkleef deh cheez h perdes me rehna... hmara end esa he hona h😢

[@user-dt3wj9ug7q]

کس شہر سے تعلق رکھتے ہیں ؟؟

[@surkhposh1069]

Last scene was very emotional. Literally, this documentary is a great film that should be shown in public schools in Pakistan. Ehsan (the old guy who was followed later in Norway) participates in the Local Government Elections in Pakistan and he is trying to change the world as much as he can. He is also a father and he built his dreams as an empty mansion. This documentary has a lot many great lessons to learn from every time i watch it. Thank you 🙏🏽

[@meharafshan2726]

سب نے صرف اور صرف اپنی ذات کے لیئے سوچا گائوں کے لوگوں کا سوچا ہوتا تو تعلیمی ادارے بنواتے ۔غریبوں کے بھلے کا سوچتے ۔

[@MM-ip5ky]

Damagh hota tu soochtay

[@nazishahtisham7335]

Or apna Soch k b konsa Khush hn

[@nazishahtisham7335]

Na udr k na udr k

[@jamilsheikh4462]

@@nazishahtisham7335 zzzz

[@zahidedn]

Bikul si kaha Bari bari kothian but empty Aur ghreeb puri zindgi makaan aur beti ki shadi ki plan kerta rata hay

[@SamiUllah-uf1tv]

کاش ہم لوگ ذاتی طور پر صرف اپنے لیے ہی سوچتے ہیں اگر اس کم پیسوں سے فکیٹریاں لگ سکتی ہیں

[@pervezkhan14068]

This is what happens when there is money without education

[@beautyplusvlogs9202]

@@pervezkhan14068 ii88io

[@Lovespeace99]

Quran mai kaha gaya hai ke dunya 🌏 ek dhoka hai...BESHAK! Ya Allah hum sab ko hidayat de ameen🤲

[@mobilephotography1459]

I lived in Kharian for 14 years of my childhood. My father was working there in Army's area. I remember our landlord who gave us home on rent has a big giant mansions , but he was in Europe.

[@maxxter90]

beautiful documentary.. As a Pakistani living abroad in Australia, i can understand the pain and the daily struggle of what it means to leave your home and family...

[@oddlysatisfying2494]

Usman Bhai i need little information. can you give me few minutes

[@SaleemKhan-qr6od]

We should make our mission how we must bring our people out of poverty I was feeling sad to see this trend of big big houses.

[@maxxter90]

@@oddlysatisfying2494 sure feel free to ask

[@riazulhaqhaq7230]

Usman sahib , may i have your mobile phone. I spent my childhood in Kharian from 1958 to 1965. Want to share some memories. Riaz Ul haq Faisal Town Lahore

[@roshnikasafar164]

👍👍👍💖

[@moosa173]

تنہائی کے مارے ہوئے یہ لوگ بیچارے قابل رحم ہیں۔ بس میں اتنا ہی کہہ سکتا۔ کیا فایدہ اتنا بڑا گھر کا جب اس میں مکین ہی نہیں۔

[@kanzaslife7215]

I must say ...that ab inko wapis aa k jitna kmaa liya us py shukar kr k in ghro main rhyn abhi to bachy chotty hain unko apny mulk wapis ly k ayn aur jitna kmaa liya us sy yaha koi buisness start kr k idhr happily rhyn.

[@moosa173]

@@kanzaslife7215 یہ تو واپس آنا چاہتے ہیں لیکن ان کے بچے نہیں آئیں گے۔ کمائی کیلئے باھر جانے والوں کا یہ ہی المیہ ہے۔ جوانی میں کمائی اور بچوں کے مستقبل کی خاطر اپنوں کی جدائیاں برداشت کرتے۔ بڑھاپے میں اپنے یاد آتے اور ان میں آنا چاہتے لیکن اب بچے جوان ھو چکے وہ نہیں آنا چاہتے۔ وقت بڑا بے رحم ہے۔

[@kanzaslife7215]

@@moosa173 hmmmmm

[@moosa173]

@@kanzaslife7215hmmm?

[@kanzaslife7215]

@@moosa173 means han g

[@Fayazkhan-ru3pq]

Dil dard se bhar ata hai me umeed karta ho ke hamara ye haal na bany aur studies complete karny ke baad apny watan Afghanistan wapis jao 🇦🇫❤️🇵🇰

[@naeemhussain8377]

Tu kbhi nahi jaye ga whan to ayr byrra haal hai

[@ihsanahmad4180]

جب میں ایسے بزرگوں سے باتیں سنوں تو مجھے اځساس ہوتا ہے کہ زندگی کتنی تھوڑی سی ہوتی ہے ایک دن بہت جلد ہم بھی داستاں ہو جائیں گے

[@wazaifohikmat2358]

Maan baap or family bari naimat hein..Allah hamy hamary waliden k sath rakhy or unki khidmat ki toufiq dy ameen

[@sajidshah1061]

صرف اللہ‎ پاک دا نام رهيگا باقی سب مٹی ہیے

[@ahmedazaz9450]

Beshak jii..

[@hfaasses3058]

BESHAK

[@Showbiz366]

Beshak

[@umairaamjad7510]

Bay shak

[@haroonahmed6818]

اب میں سے کسی کا نمبر دینا جی

[@saminaali2705]

We cannot expect our kids to live like us in this age. We should always attempt to live near our children in a small manageable home, so that we have each other’s support.

[@zahidawan7078]

باکل سچ بات ہے اللہ ہم سب پر رحم کر امین

[@harrisandreson]

Sajjad bhai has a pure golden heart. He was literally weeping inside while looking at his daughter's pictures.

[@khanali887]

Sajjad bhai location

[@ansarmahmood8603]

Dua kryn Maira Ghr Bn Jay

[@humararahat2555]

امین

[@HassanRaza-sm1kw]

Ameen

[@AmmoOffical]

Ameenn

[@61riaz]

اللہ آپ کو سلامت رکھے آمین

[@uzmamuhammadali8113]

Ameen suma ameen

[@iffatsaleem888]

Heart touching documentary. Awesome! No words to describe the intensity & depth of feelings depicted in it. Simply marvellous!

[@noorahmad4440]

The last words of these men are the most painful. The respect they get abroad is lacking in their own country 😔

[@syedah9145]

I think they were self centred people they have worked in other countries they ha e done nothing even for there village They have just build big houses for there status. They never thought of building school colleges hospitals together

[@davyjones844]

​@@syedah9145 iam agree with you

[@wahabkhan6707]

بہت دکھ ہوا یہ دیکھ کر کے ساری زندگی کے انتھک محنت آخر کس لئے ؟

[@kingofhearts3382]

Har Raat Meri Aankhen inhii Socho mein num Ho Jaati Hai , mera maqsad e hayat kya tha aur Mujhe kin kaamo ne thaka diya 😔😔😔

[@uzmamuhammadali8113]

Allah pak ap k liye asaniyan pyda kre amin

[@hunzjes5444]

Khuda kay Kalaam ki khidmat karo bhatki roohon ko bachao. Per is se pehlay khuda ki marzi jano

[@ZeeshanHaider33938]

@@uzmamuhammadali8113 ap say bt karni.hai ap plz whatsapp pay msg karain 03085439669

[@roshnikasafar164]

🌹

[@muhammadakmal6909]

Bhai ,where you live does not matter but plz remembered Allah .Do praying and live happy .

[@mirkhawajamazheruddin1528]

Excellent vedio based on ground reality,it's very emotional & difference of standards as well as life style, hopefully our country may Insha Allah develop & provide such facilities.Aameen

[@mujahidtoor1255]

You've captured the stories of pain, eviction, migration, nostalgia and momentos of loss in such a terrific film. It captured my heart. c/P

[@asfandraza6139]

سب لوگوں کے تاثرات ان کے الفاظ پہ بھاری ہیں اللہ ایسی دولت عطا فرمائے جو اپنوں کے پاس رکھے اور سکوں بھی دے

[@nomansadiq1272]

اِلٰہی آمین _____!!

[@rabiabashir9231]

Amen

[@iqbalahmed864]

اتنی دولت کا کیا فائدہ جب سارے رشتے دار تتر بتر ہیں ۔ان سے اچھی غریبِ کی جھونپڑی ہے جس میں سب شام کو اکٹھے ہو جاتے ہیں

[@punjabi5183]

Kehna asaaan hy

[@everythingispossible4414]

@@punjabi5183 ماں باپ بے یارو مددگار پڑے ہیں بچے سب باہر یہ کوی زندگی ہے۔ ؟؟؟ کہنا آسان ہے۔

[@61riaz]

بیشک بھائی جان

[@imranrao6798]

Rishtedar bhi uske hi han jispe cash ho

[@imranrao6798]

@jeeni k bhai main khud Oman main ho sirf apka saga khoon ache bure main apka hai otherwise rishtedar usko acha samajhte han jispe cash acah hai warna thenga

[@ishrats]

What a brilliant documentary! Detailed interviews, beautiful visuals, good context!

[@farooqiawan7282]

This story is not limited to kharian, it's in many places in Mirpur (AJK) area and Gujer Khan's various towns and villages. Majority of these are just deserted.

[@naeemhussain8377]

Yes and these are their extra properties This video is just trying to give it an emotional touch

[@bibimann5222]

india punjAb as well...

[@Faiz_Editz123]

Areas of Gujrat and Sialkot, too, they are actually quite rich areas

[@ruthxed]

مسئلہ سارا روٹی کا نہیں زیادہ روٹی کا ہے

[@jawadbashir6714]

sae bola bhai

[@pakistanniboys5308]

@@jawadbashir6714 😍😍

[@tariqjan8587]

roti ka nahi ezat ka maslah hay

[@pakistanniboys5308]

@@tariqjan8587 Ye To In Logo ny Banaya Hy

[@newsone67]

BEHTREEN BAAT KI HAI ZAROON ..... WELL SAID 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@tabinda460]

When u go out...u become heartbroken between staying with parents or kids

[@ZeeshanHaider33938]

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[@aadilchoudhary5138]

@@ZeeshanHaider33938 zeeshan aap whtsapp pe aana plz.0123456789🤣🤣🤣

[@TravellLove]

@@aadilchoudhary5138 hello aap kahan hotay hein?

[@imranmehmood6569]

all in all they are happy , they are more happy in Norway than Pak, May Allah..

[@imranjaved4425]

@@ZeeshanHaider33938 don’t act so desperate

[@sohailg1607]

Excellent Documentary and a sad reality of poverty in Pakistan, why people leave and sacrifice their childhood.The biggest part that I loved in this documentary was when he received his shoes, his sacrifice recognized and honored. One lifetime is NOT enough to to make up the time lost. One dream and two different worlds

[@tahirmalik317]

*Love* 💕🇵🇰💕Pakistan 🕊 Zindabad 👍

[@spk9044]

ماشاءاللہ ، بہت کمال کی ڈاکومنٹری بنائی آپ لوگوں نے! پردیسی کی زندگی کا پر پہلو دکھایا، اسکے خواب اس کے بچوں کے خواب، پھر انکے بچوں کے خواب تک دکھائے اسی طرح ان لوگوں کے خیالات بھی دکھائے جو پردیسیوں کی کوٹھیاں دیکھ کر رشک کرتے ہیں اور یورپ جا کر اپنے حالات بدلنا چاہتے ہیں انسان جہاں بھی چلا جائے اسے اس دھرتی سے محبت ہوتی ہے جہاں وہ پیدا ہوا اور جہاں اس کا بچپن گزرا جو بچے یورپ میں پیدا ہوئے انکا دل وہیں لگتا ہے جبکہ انکے والدین جو پاکستان میں پیدا ہوئے وہ اپنی زندگی کے آخری ایام پاکستان میں گزارنا چاہتے ہیں

[@mrzarrak5937]

The house is good but I am extreamly disappointed that no one is their for parents

[@IshYourRealtor]

I'm originally from Gujarat, India. In NYC since 1991. We have the exact same situation all across India. Very same, no difference

[@hirasardar5350]

A Dilemma faced by all overseas Pakistanis, this documentary is relatable on many aspects of our current lives even in 2023. I wish i had seen it earlier as it is teaching many lessons from lives of people like us.. respect! To all the hardworking overseas Pakistanis! Who make their mark and survive even in such challenging circumstances!! Respect from London!

[@kousarparveen4042]

Aj ye video dekh k apna ghar na hony ka koy afsos nh raha. Bary bary ghar makeno sy khali

[@owaisahmed6016]

👍 ... I'm from Kharian... Apki baat shaandaar hai...

[@zaraahmed8782]

Kousar parveen is one of my best friends from university ...

[@studypurposes3560]

best

[@saimaimran2194]

Sir you covered my area.... I am highly thankful to you this documentary is close to my heart

[@aquariuslight4413]

😂 Same

[@malikarrch]

Jeeni👍💰🇺🇸🇹🇷🇵🇰

[@nkh6236]

واہ آؤہ میرا رب وڈے وڈے مکان تے کتھے نے سائبان حسرتا کسے دایاں وی موکھدیا نیاں چاہئے قبرں وچ پے جان کاش کہ ہم نے یہ دیواریں جنت میں بنائی ہوتی جو ہمیں یوں اکیلا نہ چھوڑتی غریبوں کے ساتھ جو ہم نے اپنی محفل سجائی ہوتی اتنی غربت میں رہنے کے باوجود بھی لوگوں کو دوسروں کا احساس نہ آیا پھر دیکھئیے اکیلا وقت نے اُنہے کیسے چھوڑا باقلم خود nkh خاکسار اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو اجر عظیم عطا فرمائے لوگوں کو اُن کی غلطیوں کا احساس دلانے کا

[@LifeisBeautifulforall]

I used to live in Gujrat for 3 years and I visited all surrounding areas i.e. Lalamusa, Kharian, Wazirabad etc. There is same story for every village

[@bulbulamadina798]

کاش ہم مسلمان یہ سمجھ جائے کہ ہماری پہچان کوٹھی یا زمیں نہیں بلکہ ہماری تو پہچان مسجد بنا کہ آباد کرنا ہے کاش کاش ہم ابھی بھی سمبھال لے خود کو ایک مسجد بنائے تو تا قیامت ثواب ملے گا

[@pearl6770]

Instead of building huge, lavish houses that aren't used, if these people built a shelter or mosque or school, imagine what a big difference it would make

[@jameelsheikh9738]

Yes you r rytt

[@noorahmad4440]

Building a home for oneself is a dream of everyone who goes abroad and has never lived in a life of luxery. So , I don't think we can blame them, its unfortunate that life had other plans. But yes we need more donations for shelter school etc ..but these things become priority when we think beyond our owns elf and think as a community

[@jameelsheikh9738]

@@noorahmad4440 if every pakistani who live abroad if all overseas pakistanis try to build some work opportunities in pakistan it will good for youth

[@HENNA-FARDOUS]

@@jameelsheikh9738 why don’t Pakistanis who live in Pakistan why don’t they try to build opportunities for the youth there and why don’t they help build shelters there why should only overseas Pakistanis do that both Pakistanis and overseas Pakistanis should do it also most overseas Pakistanis choose to donate and build shelters in the poor countries like Syria and Yemen instead of Pakistan because those countries need more help than Pakistan Pakistan in some way is financially better of than those countries

[@lavish_1717]

@@HENNA-FARDOUS There is a lot of poor people in the wesst who need help too

[@barkatalikhan1863]

May Allah bless you with good health! Sajjad,s mom is adorable!

[@fatimaah20]

It breaks my heart in so many pieces (When he said hum muslman loug bhot zalim hain. And the reason he gave was so true).

[@aleftradezone7749]

i think , he should say Hum Loog bahot Zalim hein........... because Muslim and Islam does not teach us to leave your country for such purpose and spend put all your time to build this world, Allah kea zikar mein hee diloon ka sakoon hea...

[@muhammadnaqvi2203]

Bhyt achi documentary he.. Sab Europe waly bhaio see reqest he Ke apny elaqay ke logo ke liye Factory Mill ya Kch wellfare ke idary banay or jobs craetes krein App Overseas ke zariaye apke elaqay ke log izaat see rizaq kama sakein Is see sab overseas bhaio ko bhe faida ho ga or elaqay ke logo ke liye bhe aasaniyan peida hon geh Iltmas e dua Pirzada Raza

[@HK-cy9jw]

Agree with you brother. I want to invest and create jobs in Pakistan but i don’t have a clue yet

[@mahamscloset5662]

Good thoughts.. appreciated

[@uzmamuhammadali8113]

Well said bro👌

[@ZeeshanHaider33938]

@@mahamscloset5662 ap whatsapp pay ana 03085439669

[@simmiwajji9715]

Very well said

[@thefountainadmin5594]

اللہ سب کو اپنے وطن میں عزت، سکون اور خوشحالی کے ساتھ رہنا نصیب فرمائے

[@fateh.khursheed]

Very excellent documentary . . . All persons interviewed in this video are so simple and truth tellers. But at the same time it is very sad to observe sadness on the face and in the voice of all persons interviewed.

[@scorpionking9320]

میرپور میں بھی ایسا ہی ہے کیسے بدنصیب ہوتے ہیں جنہیں اپنے ملک کی مِٹی بھی نصیب نہیں ہوتی۔۔۔ اور جن اولادوں کے لیئے ساری عمر کماتے ہیں وہ اکیلے چھوڑ جاتے ہیں، میت کو کاندھا تک نہیں دیتے ۔ ۔ ۔

[@Raza_views]

بالکل میرپور اور ڈڈیال میں بھی خالی گھر پڑے ہیں لوگ بیرون ملک ہیں۔۔۔

[@naeemhussain8377]

Bnaye bhi inho nien bahir sy hee hain

[@naeemhussain8377]

​@@Raza_views berun e mulk hain to sb kuch bnaya wrna kia hota in k pass

[@altafkhan5495]

زبردست دل کو چھو جانے والی ڈاکومنٹری

[@rafayshafy6206]

Nice video

[@Hassanibnhussain]

خیرہ نہ کر سکا مجھے جلوۂ دانش فرنگ سرمہ ہے میری آنکھ کا خاک مدینہ و نجف

[@irmaali1009]

Ahsan uncl ki mehnat or un ki batein bht suchi hain.his emotions r sooo natural.

[@fatihahaimal]

I'm from Peshawar and also disabled but in my 16 years educational period I suffered to much hard nd depressed life bcz to addressed my disability,I spent too much tym nd to be a fighter to get a beneficial life but now I am feeling myself a looser bcz I loose my confidence,my emotions and my dreams. Ya Allah agr tu kisi ko disable bna tu us ko ghareeb na pida kr.Ameen

[@SK-fy6qv]

Allah app co sabr dy or app ki madad kray.Aameen

[@muneebshahghazi3448]

You are not disable but your mind is disable bcs you think low

[@SK-fy6qv]

k ofcourse meh dua or tsali he dy sakti hoon but agr app iss sy ziyada kuch kr sakty hai to please help him dusro co advise dyny pr apna time waste mat kro thanks

[@nomanawan7491]

Allah pe bhrosa jitna mzboot ho ga Allah apko utna he nwaze ga bs ykin se mangge

[@adeelaziz4343]

@@muneebshahghazi3448 shutup loser.

[@saimachoudhry639]

سامان سو برس کا ، پل کی خبر نہیں!

[@shahidakaleem6314]

Right

[@user-ck4xl6xz6p]

بلکل جی

[@Kingkhan44161]

Work for hereafter not for this world work for hereafter

[@PardesiCooking]

So true

[@ZeeshanHaider33938]

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[@bhaibhaitentfsd1801]

Very good mulzam kehtay bahar jany ka socha bhi nhi .Allah pak ka shukar hay pakistian min khush ho

[@rukhsarkanwal4574]

We need more documentaries like this. This is awesome

[@kebab5220]

Sometimes we give our lives to make big houses in pakistan

[@SRK0900]

Bro not sometimes but all the time.

[@mjkhanniazi8807]

But I m not interested in banglos, Ghr chota sa ho or apus main piyar ho bus jb ghr bary bna lo to phir piyar khtm hny lagta hy,because hr bnda apny rooms main mehsoor ho jata hy😢😕

[@shahidakaleem6314]

Dunya k kise b kony ma rahy mager zindagi ka asel maza srif apne muloke m ha I love Pakistan.

[@ZeeshanHaider33938]

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[@umarabdullah564]

Right love Pakistan

[@redrose2905]

Agreed

[@Tahirshah-xj2iw]

Ahsan sahab k aakhri alfaaz dil ko choo gay

[@Ayazgarden]

Thanks a lot for sharing Informative video Full watched

[@sajidurrehman8801]

Wasted years to build house where no one is living.

[@roomisfans3444]

RI8

[@MaximillianArturo]

Agree, one benefit though is you have a house when you visit Pakistan. Next if the sentiment against people from different ethnic demography and religions turns negative you have a place to go to.

[@butshb4676]

Haq halal hota to yeh sub mil kr zindagy gouzaar rahi tohi

[@redrose2905]

@@MaximillianArturo exactly this is the reason why we are building our own house in Pakistan

[@maxeclub2839]

But Shb chutyea tuja Kya pata tea haram Ka ha. Barwa har kecee pa fatwa na lagao agar koye saboot naho.

[@joyridesham]

They should have invested in property in the countries they live in and a small villa for retirement in pakistan.

[@venomoussnakebite7132]

Pakistanis living abroad support the country by investing in the country. The last 20 years of governments have just stolen money from the country and brought it back to the West. Our bad luck.

[@jamilakhtar2017]

@@venomoussnakebite7132 K . ALLAH PAKISTAN PE REHSM FERMA CHORON KO GHREQ KER DEA AMEEN

[@MuhammadQasimswati8857]

Yes

[@MuhammadQasimswati8857]

I am also looking dreams to enter europe since 2002 but un successful untill now

[@worshipthecreator9081]

@@MuhammadQasimswati8857 If you are well off in your Country stay there, you will cry in Europe.... it's a completely different environment.

[@ashfrost9931]

Very impressive documentary ❤️ I love it

[@ravkhaira9]

Sade bujurg Pakistano khaireya vaale pindo aaye c Miss u Pakistan love you

[@shabbirahmad4087]

Anxiety pain,depression fear,emptiness loneliness,stress,sadness,madness all are came together

[@connectwithaffan]

Log pass the ghar nahi tha, ghar hai par rehne wala koi. Nhi😭

[@chunumunu8362]

Bilkul sahi khaaaa

[@akaltaf]

So true. My friend. After watchig this documentary, I realize life is so short. We have dreams too big. Result is our next generation will only return to the palace we build only to sell off the dreamd. make a quick buck and go back. Reap the fruits of our elders who spent their lifetime dreamig one day they will enjoy their later years among their offsprings. Sadly only to act as chowkidars for the wealth they leave behind.

[@786humaira1]

@@akaltaf One way to look at is, it is a lovely opportunity in life to sell and live a simple life and invest in money in creating jobs for the youth locally. Train the young boys to become job holders, and thus create jobs, and leave a legacy of creating a work force. Then a person has truely lived a life of purpose. Rather than live with sadness live with exhilaration of creating job skills in the youth. Just my thought. Someone will put it to action.i hope so. Insha.Allah.

[@AlishaKhan-li6jh]

Fact 👍

[@syedali1901]

41:20 this is called real respect. and honored.

[@shehnazshaofficial7564]

Kitne mohabbat wale log... Itne struggle ki hai inho nai aur akele... Apne bacchu k intezar maie...

[@travelstayshun6163]

one of the best documentary i have ever seen

[@joemaloney8839]

This is the story of all Pakistani immigrants.

[@Iqrasajjadunique]

Siraf yeh immigrants he soch sakty hn betiyan kitni muskil say maa bap chor ky ati hn

[@MuhammadQasimswati8857]

Yes exactly we also saw dreams at night since 2002 to till now to go europe but failed because no money for ticket

[@AyazKhan-zi9xl]

great documentary. The rule of law and equality are strengths of civilised societies.

[@bhaaratsharma6023]

What a touching documentry. I had tears in the last scene. This is a sad reallty of our south asian region. Unfortunatly kids have to leave their parents in search of better opportunities and leave behind these houses empty.

[@farrukhsheikh8116]

اے میرے مالک میرے اپنے ملک کے ایسے حالات کر دے کہ لوگ یہاں اپنوں میں رہ کر ہی خوشحال زندگی گزار سکیں۔۔۔پھر کوئی اہنا جدا نہ ہو مائیں اہنے جوان بچوں سے باپ اپنے لخت جگر اور بہنیں اہنے ویروں سے میلوں دور رہنے پر مجبور نہ ہوں ۔۔ماں کے پراٹھوں باپ کے جیب خرچ اور بہنوں کے لاڈ سے دور تمام بیٹوں کو سلام😭😭😭

[@nationwideofficial7201]

Assalamyalykom ALLAH tab tak nahe krrta jabb tak banda appnai halat na badlai