Annoying Things All 9 Enneagram Types Do!

[@AbbeyHowe]

TIMECODES: Type 1: (1:04) Type 2: (2:17) Type 3: (3:45) Type 4: (4:54) Type 5: (6:28) Type 6: (8:48) Type 7: (9:59) Type 8: (12:28) Type 9: (14:09)

[@staticsnow1]

I’m a 4w5 and I’m married to a 9 and these little skits were so funny and accurate I cannot get over it 😂

[@AbbeyHowe]

amazing 😂 so glad you found them funny!!

[@cauthoncrazy]

Saaame. 4 married to a 9.

[@celiab4412]

Damn girls, need advice on how to handle that 9 energy 😂

[@aominelaw981]

Ive been trying to get together with a 9, says the 4 ✌️ aaand...tried wing three but decided its really exhausting. Lol

[@liabw05]

I’m a 4 currently dating a 9! Having a lot of fun getting to know him. Seems like a nice pairing 🥰

[@morganlabatt4543]

My husband and I are both 9s. Our household isn’t super efficient. 😂😂

[@organicallyqi3266]

Not efficient but sooooooooo peaceful i'm sure 😂

[@magicmusic231]

I'm a type 9 and that was painfully accurate, "What do you want/think?" Is the worse question anyone can ask me because I never know what I want or think probably because I'm too focused on what other people want or think.

[@ANDROMEDAtheartist]

Lol I loved the 4. The part about the starbucks was cracking me up. I've been the most judgemental person ever about such cliche drinks, hah!

[@drsheev7413]

As a type 5 i can say that it was painstakingly accurate

[@rhodexa]

Same lol

[@jenofire8724]

Yep. Same.

[@ktbug8a2]

type 2 talking to a type 9 just trying to learn how to bake a cake... why is that accurate of my mom and I’s relationship (she was the one trying to help) 😂

[@juls_krsslr7908]

My mom is a 9 and she has literally said to me, "Tell me what I think about < insert subject >. I know < her friend > is going to ask me and I don't have anything to say." I said, "I can't tell you what you think. I can only tell you what I think. You're going to have to do your own thinking." Her response was, "No, that's too much trouble. Just tell me what you think. It's probably better than what I think anyway." Uuugghh!!!

[@audreykuczka4081]

I have two 9s as parents and this is SPOT on it's crazy haha

[@AbbeyHowe]

😂 😂 😂

[@ethanwilliamson902]

SAME

[@eskaywai]

OMG IM A 4 AND THE “close ur eyes and listen to this... can you feel it 😌” AAHHH THATS WAY TOO ACCURATE

[@justinsilvis6276]

4w5 here n the type 5 was spot on. I need to lean harder into my three lol

[@iankinzel]

still trying to figure out my type...but on the bright side, while watching this video, i realized my mother's a 5. you do a good job making the caricatures still feel like recognizable, full-fledged people - that's a difficult balance.

[@AbbeyHowe]

thanks so much, Ian!

[@mimbriggs4627]

I'm not a 7, but I am a massive musicals fan, Abbey I respect you for singing La Vie Boheme from Rent, it made me smile 😊

[@AbbeyHowe]

Mim Briggs your comment made me happy 🥰 I love musicals too!!

[@makaniwebb9358]

"You can probably find one of them doubting their qualifications even if they've been studying for decades." I- Already telling truths I'm uncomfortable with. I can know a fact and I'll still say 'I think' or ask to double check if I do know it.

[@luandthelion]

Man I love your videos!! I always learn something new while I’m laughing!! I’m looking forward to more of the Annoying Things in Romantic Relationships series, too. Your first video in that one is how we found out my mom was a 1! It was like you followed her around with a camera for a weekend!

[@AbbeyHowe]

Glad you like them!! That makes me so happy. I'm making more Romantic Relationship vids soon!

[@kwrmit]

I found your channel this morning and I've been binging since. Love your skits Abbey! They're so hilarious

[@sartorius5519]

"I'm just gonna run home real quick and watch 10,000 KZbin videos" and you get back an expert on the topic. Nice

[@anitadodd]

Haha. I think I am a 2 and my type 5 husband is a micromanager, and he always wants to tell me how to do what I am doing. I just want to zen out and be at peace when I am doing projects, so I reject his help and ask him to step away. It probably annoys him so much because he knows "the way".

[@petalthorn8778]

Your videos are freakin hysterical. Thanks for the laughs and the great nuggets of wisdom!!!

[@AbbeyHowe]

Glad you like them p & t!

[@alanhowe851]

As a #6, I freak out when I get down to less than 4 rolls of toilet paper. 🧻

[@AbbeyHowe]

hahahahah

[@AbbeyHowe]

this pandemic must be really hard for you then

[@ccverdera6298]

So you took all the toilet paper at the beginning of covid 😂

[@armenianweirdo]

The “Marley & Me” situation with the type 5 is super accurate 😂

[@elenaharris6021]

As a 1w9, I really related with the drifting off in thought and not listening to people. As someone who avoids conflict and cares about other people, I think listening should be easy for me, but it is often a struggle.

[@elenaharris6021]

I found the type 1 skits as how I talk to myself rather than others.

[@acrocodileelf]

The nine was so relatable 😂

[@nihoyminoy9229]

I know I’m a seven, but I really know I’m a seven when someone hits on something I’ve been repressing for years in a video 😂😂😂

[@xavierdomenico]

The 4 was so accurate!

[@AbbeyHowe]

glad you found that to be true!!

[@jasminreyes1278]

I have a friend who is a five and she usually matches your skits, but for today's, she doesn't match as well. She is VERY pragmatic about things and would not waste her energy packing an unnecessary amount of reading materials. She is also super blunt and would just tell you if she doesn't know something or isn't interested in something instead of wasting everyone's time and energy in pretending. She also would have been fascinated in learning from people who know more than her and is highly aware of her ability level (though she still expects people to be more capable). I think she just taps into slightly different parts of the 5 in these instances, but I could see her doing the dog thing lol. She cares about you but don't expect big displays of affection that are illogical 😂

[@lindaweedmark6025]

Omg. I'm getting tears in my eyes in empathy with the 4 crying about Marley while thinking 5 is so right! #torn

[@ramonaflowers7613]

4:50 😐 me in my head with anyone that overreacts LOL #enneagram9

[@kaid567]

I haven’t even read much on type 7s but I’m almost positive my sister is a type 7. I’m going to have her take the test lol

[@liltatofren]

9w1 here! I feel called out😂

[@AbbeyHowe]

😂

[@gracie_5]

Away from mbti folks who are often 9s and not 5s, to Fauvre 5s are mostly in tritype ISTJs. Fe and fi lower in stack

[@readersgottoread1443]

Type 9 here 🤣😂 Taking the book! 👏🏾

[@krisnatale]

It’s like you videotaped me at the Little Free Library.

[@hannahreyes2767]

how am i a one, two and three all at the same time. everytime i take the test i get one of those 3😅

[@StrongestLibrafluidAlive]

you could be a 2 with strong 1 and 3 wings

[@CG-vq9mj]

Maybe next time make each character of the enneagagram wear a specific color instead of shirt. I got lost alot lol

[@Threebananaforaeuro]

You know it's a good video when it makes you feel attacked 😂 (5 here)

[@RRRsimracing]

I fell like I'm a mix between 8 and 5 but leaning 8 is that possible? New to this

[@thatcrowkiddraws]

You can be a five or an eight then have the other as your arrow number! (Look up the picture of the enneagram) Like I'm a Five but I have 8 as my arrow number

[@RRRsimracing]

@@thatcrowkiddraws interesting thanks

[@seven5900]

as a type 5 i feel called out and I would just re-think about what you just said but I need to study for a test

[@angelaainsworth1715]

I just love your videos! I’m ENFJ 4w3 (486). The Pumpkin Latte scene is so me and it drives my INTP 5w4 husband crazy sometimes! 🤣🤣🤣

[@courtshort219]

Also yes too all the 9 things including the promotion thing too. I am a 9!

[@snoeleppard]

I love this so much! 😆

[@AbbeyHowe]

thanks Snoe! ♥️

[@KylieEldridge]

As a type 4w5... I'm ngl... I'm so embarrassed how accurate this is 😭😭😭😭

[@btcxwxy]

After looking at this, I'm definitely a 9

[@Alyssav90]

I'm such a type 5 lol

[@moniicalamb]

i’m a 6w7 and my parents are both 1w9’s this is way too accurate

[@crystalcleara.k.a.missyoko1430]

Oh my gosh as a 9 that 1 wow how did you know what l have done 😂😂🤣🤣 that skit 🤣🤣🤣 this was so good when l think about it over the years l have mimicked some of the other types but the longest one was type 7 (for a long time l had a dictator like mindset when it came to my negative feeling and praised my positive like they were royalty 😅 but know l now it very important to give my negative feeling room to show up and speak there mind even if l don't like them. (Think of the happy feeling l feel after dealing with the negative feeling and the inner stability l feel because l delt with it ) 🥰

[@fernandadealencar1158]

people may see me as melodramatic, but, actually, i'm just giving them oportunity to deal with major feelings and thoughts. anyway, narrow minded. just kidding. but, not much.

[@manomain6727]

Its weird i feel like im a mix between 4, 7 and 9. Im like always bored and when im bored i just turn in me feelings. Next to it im veru indisisive.

[@44RisingSun44]

Video: *includes all the types* Comment section: Oh my god type 9 🙂

[@gisl2159]

I don't know how my type 6 mum can watch horror movies and never mention anything about the movies

[@radiyhakhatun1041]

Definitely me 1/5

[@AbbeyHowe]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@Undisputedkingdom24]

4

[@AbbeyHowe]

Hi Jozabad! 👋

[@aikoneutral7866]

Please help I can't figure out my enneagram I'm really unsure.

[@sheenagravell7475]

When I took the test it said I was a 4w5 but I feel like I could be a 9 as well. I am so indecisive about things its crazy. 😬🤦‍♀️

[@damlakacmaz8743]

i guess i lock myself in my home or room when i can't manage stress. or disassociate. then do something i wouldn't do to feel adrenline - awaken myself. then cry. then reasses what i spend my time on and what can help me. telling weird things to all people i accidentally saw in process. well, it's more fun for them too. i can't bother people too much because i am trying to flee anyway, just some spice ? anyways i flee b u l l s i t : P - enneagram 8

[@denisesiddon7241]

I maybe a 9 usually and relate a bit to 5 when stressed.

[@bethany9282]

Love this video!

[@AbbeyHowe]

So glad! ♥️

[@smielyface0258]

Dang their’s a lot of Effort to this heck yeah

[@jackbenimble1373]

This was very entertaining. Although I am a 6 married to a 9 and these examples are pretty much exaggerated to the point of being inaccurate. Seems like this was done for views more than being informative.

[@AbbeyHowe]

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[@valej9387]

If there was any doubt before, it's confirmed. I'm a 5. So completely and absolutely a 5.

[@yebovay]

i’m a mix of 5 and 8 i’m confused

[@lb00852]

healthy 5s move towards 8 (picking up some of 8's good traits) and unhealthy 8s move towards 5 (picking up some 5's traits under stress), you might look into that! :)

[@amnesia5776]

My boyfriend is a 2 and this is spot on him XD

[@enneagramandcoaching]

I’m dying! So funny!

[@AbbeyHowe]

Yay!! Glad it made you laugh!

[@justsayin1756]

😂thus is very entertaining🎉

[@courtshort219]

Hahah! World longest writing utensil ✏️✏️✏️

[@paisleyprincess7996]

Cause conflict to liven things up… When I was a kid, I’d get bored. The only way to get that energy out was to create conflict. I would start things with my siblings, defy my mom. Make life miserable. My mom was an 8, and if the BS was too real at family get togethers, SHE was the one to cause conflict. It def livened things up. If I’m not getting what I need from someone, esp. a partner…I’ll create conflict.

[@margaretjudice8944]

Funny!

[@Nolove1321]

I’m 5 😂 but I’m the one crying when Marley dies

[@fanyoutube]

Very interesting! But I’m Overthinking to decipher my number. Thanks for sharing and helping.

[@jenniferferguson1517]

I fluctuate between a 9w1 and a 6w5

[@grassfedmilkmomma]

Ive taken the test 2 times and i got a 6 both times. I swear the test must be off because im a definate 9

[@fernandadealencar1158]

how can i be a 4 and my best friend be a 7?

[@reggieskillman1469]

IM A 7!!!!

[@bbhdd6181]

sdfghgfdfg this video is so funny, your acting always has me cracking up

[@i_queen_honey]

I hate how I don’t relate to enneagram 4 cause I’m an sp😭

[@explodingdustrags2952]

Idk what this is but it sounds like my aunt

[@nursyazakhalidah4824]

im 6w4

[@Majestic_Sam]

Great skit i couldnt stop laughing for 7. I think I am a 7 I relate to somethings however, I am not 100% sure. i wish someone could just type me *sigh.

[@yuliyanikiforets]

I’m confused. This video is titled as an Enneagram 9 video, but it talks about all of the enneagram types.

[@AbbeyHowe]

It's "All 9 Enneagram Types" so all 9 of them!

[@sherlockholmes-pb9ig]

Im 8w1 idk what this mean someone explain pls